A great man, may Allah SWT grant Ahmad Deetat Jannat-al-firdous for contributions to Islam, spreading Islam and inspiring many by it. All praise is due to Allah, the Sovereign Lord of all the universes. The Most Affectionate, the Most Merciful. The Owner of the Day of Retribution. O' Allah! You alone do we worship and You alone do we beseech for help. Guide us to the straight path. The path of those whom You have Favoured. Not of those who earned Your wrath and nor of those who went astray. Amen
@mohuk1 well, the Qur'an doesn't say that every male should marry 4 wives, the Qur'an says that a male can marry more than once, if he's only able to do so, and if he's not gonna do any injustice to his wives, which applies to the countries that has female perecentage more than male, which proves that islam is the universal truth that no one should reject, but people are so arrogant to accept the truth
your rate is correct but unforunately, in saudi arabia 1.2 million single girls over 35 , cause the males prefer to have a syrian or jordanian wife for some cultural obsticles-like father of saudian girl ask for big wedding- thats a bad ancient arab habbit nothing to di with islam but thats one of the reasons. regards from jerusalem
From what ive read, iits true a man can have up to 4 wives ,but with rules &reasons. If his wife is barren & he desires an heir &/or children. If his wife is ill,to the point where she can't perform her wifely duties. these are just two logical reasons, i believe there are 2 more but can't recall. Even so, with all these reasons , the husband STILL needs his wife's consent . & if he has her permission ,then he has to treat them both equally in all aspects. Love , affection, housing, clothing
@mohuk1 : marrying four wives is not an obligation, it's just a solution when the problem arises. so if a country has less women and more males, that solution of course wouldn't need to be applied. now if u wanna say should not women also be given chances to have four husbands? but that would cause so many physical problems and quite a few others as well if u look at it medically. stats say very few countries in the world have more males than females, and even that due to abnormal situations.
usawomen1975 the western men thing was just an example... it does not literally mean why polygamy is accepted..i explained it to some1 else already that all the women in the whole world far exceed the men.. not being satisfied with one woman is a partial reason...but its not encouraged because 1st of all u have to have permission from ur first wife and what wife would actually do that? 2nd u have to treat them equally...the rules are so strict most men choose not to do it...
im a muslim woman but personally i wouldn't like to share a man with a woman(s) my personal likens...... but i wouldnt cause truoble ;) i would tell the man before hand "i will be your only WIFE!!" i will fullfill he's needs!!:):)
@mohuk1 If I can speak English good I would answer you before 1400 years before islam the man can marry more than 20 wife so when islam came say 1 2 3 4 stop no more than that I mean come on ! if you have 15 wife and islam say only one isnt that will be so hard to you ?!
so the reward for treating ur daughter kindly,educating her,and then marrying her off to a good man is much greater than that of taking care of a male child..more daguhters leads so more women than men,and women and men alike need companionship,support and sex..so to get hold of all 3 things LEGALLY islam recommends that if a man has the financial,physical,moral ability to have more than 1 wife and treat them justly then he can marry more than 1 woman IF HE PLEASES and also his 1st wife agrees..
I dont have a problem with polygamy as long as everyone involved is of an age where they can make an informed decision and consent to it. I would bet a million dollars though, that if there were 7.5 million more men in the country than women, we would not keep the same view....
brother, it says you can mary on 2 3 or 4.. i an give you refference.. but you have to treat them fair.. and its a small % of the whole islamic nation that is married with more then 1... salam bro
Seems like no one listening to the Shaikh, he cleared out what Quran (word of God the creator) says. You will never be able to treat them equally, thus its forbidden to have more then one, cause as you said no woman can bear the man who she married is with other woman. In this scenario is not following the rule. But you must understand its better to get married then adultery, like one person commented on mistresses issue which is common in men. What do we do with these men? Thats their nature
love this guy and love his sense of humor, but I wouldn't lowe my sense of pride and share my husband with another. "another solution", what he is talking about is in America, so lets talk about countries like China, I heard that the men were abundant than ladies, so does Islam provides a nice, wise and fair solution to make polyandry legal? What's that? She must be stoned to death for committing adultery? so in other words, you make adultery legal for men, sorry Islam for offending you.
Its not only how many females are born, like he said 98% in prison, are there more men or women killed and involved in war? and many other reasons. Secondly God can make the population equal of males and females but he decided not to does that mean his unjust? not really because alot of people are doing it and are happy with it, you might think the right thing to do is make equal males and females but God is most wise.
its not men versus women, its marrigable men versus marrigable women, women reach puberty 3 years to 5 years earlier that adds millions of women. usa prisons has 3% of the usa population that adds millions. and already there is 10 million surplus on the total population. if wars start it will be much worse as the victims of wars are usually young men. like in iraq the women are so much now
thoko u are taking it too far... the America thing was just an example... doesnt mean islam literally said the problem in America....nd it doesnt... but if you actually add all the women in the world from each country and all the men from each country together...you will see that women exceed men over millions...and its true women are born more then men.. do your research and ull know wut im talkin bout..
prophets nooh, abrahim , muses , jacob , ismail, joseph, david, solomon, shouaib, ayoub, moahamd ,imams Ali, hasan, husain, zainulabdeen, baqir, sadiq, kazim, reda, jawad, hadi , askari all had multiple wives and they represent the infalibles and the role models for christianity and islam and the hypocrites molest boys while they prohibit sex and legalize gayness yet prohibit polygyny yet legalize fornication (girlfriend defacto)
That is why we say that Islam is for all the times, You see America was not there and this problem that 7.8 million woman are more than man, still Islam provided the possible solution, By the way Islam says to marry ONLY ONE (4:3, 4:129) IF you can not be just with you wives. Can you tell me any other religious book which ask you to marry ONLY one ? Please i would like to know ;)
i dont get alot of ppl here... ur making the marrying 4 wives a big deal its really not.. if you think about it only sounds so bad because the word marriage right...but u tell me ur average westerner has premarital sex with how many women? oh thats ok right coz atleast hes not getting "married"..yea thats not bad... lets jus all have sex and not get married and we are good ppl
u think like kid man..he said,it only can be practice when u really sure that u can become justice to all your wifes..so if u dont sure marry only one..that is logic,it not a compulsory to married 4 but it's allowed...so u think gay n lesbian is logic??Allah give this law bcoz HE know our instict..think deeply man..what a learned and insightful DISBELIEVER!
since ur frm USA, how many men over there have premarital sex? with how many women? oh nevermind thats ok to have premarital sex because thats not getting married right...so havein sex with 100000 women is ok..but not getting married 4 times?.. thats good logic.
ahahaha that was the worest answer i have heard in a while about muslims and their 4 wives if so then why did muhammed have 12. therefore muhhammed is a sinner for not fellowing the Qurans words plain and simple. Gos Bless.
Agree with Shekh Ahmed. Islam has the solution to their problem.
@eesawild "1-4 wives is much more better than 1-50 girl friends." - best line ever!
you have to admit that he's very good though
I mostly watch Zakir Naik. But this guy, his teacher was better. Everyone loved him (many people love Zakir too).
And a sexy answer!
Deedat was awesome.
Prophet Muhammad Peace adn blessings be upon him said MArry if you can, it will help you with your religion.
A great man, may Allah SWT grant Ahmad Deetat Jannat-al-firdous for contributions to Islam, spreading Islam and inspiring many by it. All praise is due to Allah, the Sovereign Lord of all the universes. The Most Affectionate, the Most Merciful. The Owner of the Day of Retribution. O' Allah! You alone do we worship and You alone do we beseech for help. Guide us to the straight path. The path of those whom You have Favoured. Not of those who earned Your wrath and nor of those who went astray. Amen
@mohuk1 well, the Qur'an doesn't say that every male should marry 4 wives, the Qur'an says that a male can marry more than once, if he's only able to do so, and if he's not gonna do any injustice to his wives, which applies to the countries that has female perecentage more than male, which proves that islam is the universal truth that no one should reject, but people are so arrogant to accept the truth
your rate is correct but unforunately, in saudi arabia 1.2 million single girls over 35 , cause the males prefer to have a syrian or jordanian wife for some cultural obsticles-like father of saudian girl ask for big wedding- thats a bad ancient arab habbit nothing to di with islam but thats one of the reasons.
regards from jerusalem
It is more for the women, not the men... think about it.
Salam, brother. Can you please let me know this surah?
SUBHANALLAH :) awesome answer :)
but lol some ppl have to open their eyes :)
otherwise ( you laugh at us but i say laugh at you ) haha
by the way....
food, even jewelry. Not a penny more and not a penny less for each. And if man fears he can't do right by them , then he should only marry one.
both Jesus and Muhammad not JesusOrMuhammad
they got the same message
Back in the day this helped women... but in the modern day, women will not want to share a man. Simple.
From what ive read, iits true a man can have up to 4 wives ,but with rules &reasons. If his wife is barren & he desires an heir &/or children. If his wife is ill,to the point where she can't perform her wifely duties. these are just two logical reasons, i believe there are 2 more but can't recall. Even so, with all these reasons , the husband STILL needs his wife's consent . & if he has her permission ,then he has to treat them both equally in all aspects. Love , affection, housing, clothing
which debate is this? does anyone know the name
@mohuk1 : marrying four wives is not an obligation, it's just a solution when the problem arises. so if a country has less women and more males, that solution of course wouldn't need to be applied. now if u wanna say should not women also be given chances to have four husbands? but that would cause so many physical problems and quite a few others as well if u look at it medically. stats say very few countries in the world have more males than females, and even that due to abnormal situations.
where was this happen?coz i can see the audiences r malay faces.maybe from malaysia,indonesia,singapore and brunei.
usawomen1975 the western men thing was just an example... it does not literally mean why polygamy is accepted..i explained it to some1 else already that all the women in the whole world far exceed the men.. not being satisfied with one woman is a partial reason...but its not encouraged because 1st of all u have to have permission from ur first wife and what wife would actually do that? 2nd u have to treat them equally...the rules are so strict most men choose not to do it...
im a muslim woman but personally i wouldn't like to share a man with a woman(s) my personal likens......
but i wouldnt cause truoble ;) i would tell the man before hand "i will be your only WIFE!!" i will fullfill he's needs!!:):)
@mohuk1
If I can speak English good
I would answer you
before 1400 years
before islam the man can marry more than 20 wife
so when islam came
say 1 2 3 4 stop
no more than that
I mean come on ! if you have 15 wife
and islam say only one
isnt that will be so hard to you ?!
so the reward for treating ur daughter kindly,educating her,and then marrying her off to a good man is much greater than that of taking care of a male child..more daguhters leads so more women than men,and women and men alike need companionship,support and sex..so to get hold of all 3 things LEGALLY islam recommends that if a man has the financial,physical,moral ability to have more than 1 wife and treat them justly then he can marry more than 1 woman IF HE PLEASES and also his 1st wife agrees..
I dont have a problem with polygamy as long as everyone involved is of an age where they can make an informed decision and consent to it.
I would bet a million dollars though, that if there were 7.5 million more men in the country than women, we would not keep the same view....
brother, it says you can mary on 2 3 or 4.. i an give you refference.. but you have to treat them fair.. and its a small % of the whole islamic nation that is married with more then 1... salam bro
Seems like no one listening to the Shaikh, he cleared out what Quran (word of God the creator) says. You will never be able to treat them equally, thus its forbidden to have more then one, cause as you said no woman can bear the man who she married is with other woman. In this scenario is not following the rule.
But you must understand its better to get married then adultery, like one person commented on mistresses issue which is common in men.
What do we do with these men? Thats their nature
in the wholeworld thre are mmore women than men. IN THE WHOLE WORLD.
he s givin a solution to all westren socities .. n he siad america as an example..
great man
@mohuk1 I think Saudi men can marry non-Saudi women.
secondly, look at the total number of males and females all over the world.
Masha Allah
it also says the opposite ;-)
the debate was against jimmy swagart : "Is the bible god's word"
check it up.
=)
1-4 wives is much more better than 1-50 girl friends
and condom companies are happy
well , this is better than having one wife and 65 mistress !
love this guy and love his sense of humor, but I wouldn't lowe my sense of pride and share my husband with another. "another solution", what he is talking about is in America, so lets talk about countries like China, I heard that the men were abundant than ladies, so does Islam provides a nice, wise and fair solution to make polyandry legal? What's that? She must be stoned to death for committing adultery? so in other words, you make adultery legal for men, sorry Islam for offending you.
Its not only how many females are born, like he said 98% in prison, are there more men or women killed and involved in war? and many other reasons. Secondly God can make the population equal of males and females but he decided not to does that mean his unjust? not really because alot of people are doing it and are happy with it, you might think the right thing to do is make equal males and females but God is most wise.
@libanes86
sounds to me you're the only one here talking BS.
he answered her question 100%
@mohuk1 you are wrong brother (male 47% and female 53%) :)
SUBHANALLAH
its not men versus women, its marrigable men versus marrigable women, women reach puberty 3 years to 5 years earlier that adds millions of women. usa prisons has 3% of the usa population that adds millions. and already there is 10 million surplus on the total population. if wars start it will be much worse as the victims of wars are usually young men. like in iraq the women are so much now
thoko u are taking it too far... the America thing was just an example... doesnt mean islam literally said the problem in America....nd it doesnt... but if you actually add all the women in the world from each country and all the men from each country together...you will see that women exceed men over millions...and its true women are born more then men.. do your research and ull know wut im talkin bout..
for my earlier comment! I'm so sorry! because I didn't bother watching the ending, usually islam supports polygamy, but this is a first, sorry!
prophets nooh, abrahim , muses , jacob , ismail, joseph, david, solomon, shouaib, ayoub, moahamd ,imams Ali, hasan, husain, zainulabdeen, baqir, sadiq, kazim, reda, jawad, hadi , askari
all had multiple wives and they represent the infalibles and the role models for christianity and islam
and the hypocrites molest boys while they prohibit sex and legalize gayness yet prohibit polygyny yet legalize fornication (girlfriend defacto)
Abraham, Moses, and many prophets, had more than one wife. Now you blame them?
That is why we say that Islam is for all the times, You see America was not there and this problem that 7.8 million woman are more than man, still Islam provided the possible solution, By the way Islam says to marry ONLY ONE (4:3, 4:129) IF you can not be just with you wives. Can you tell me any other religious book which ask you to marry ONLY one ? Please i would like to know ;)
@bestozesto u need a doctor my friend
i dont get alot of ppl here... ur making the marrying 4 wives a big deal its really not.. if you think about it only sounds so bad because the word marriage right...but u tell me ur average westerner has premarital sex with how many women? oh thats ok right coz atleast hes not getting "married"..yea thats not bad... lets jus all have sex and not get married and we are good ppl
u think like kid man..he said,it only can be practice when u really sure that u can become justice to all your wifes..so if u dont sure marry only one..that is logic,it not a compulsory to married 4 but it's allowed...so u think gay n lesbian is logic??Allah give this law bcoz HE know our instict..think deeply man..what a learned and insightful DISBELIEVER!
u stay single thats one more woman for me
since ur frm USA, how many men over there have premarital sex? with how many women? oh nevermind thats ok to have premarital sex because thats not getting married right...so havein sex with 100000 women is ok..but not getting married 4 times?.. thats good logic.
ahahaha that was the worest answer i have heard in a while about muslims and their 4 wives if so then why did muhammed have 12. therefore muhhammed is a sinner for not fellowing the Qurans words plain and simple.
Gos Bless.
excuse me mr.deedat! being single is not a problem infact more better to remain single so you can give a full attention to god.understand?