@idivas2991 Yep, and bet he cheats on her. He only works two jobs, so he never has to be home with her. He just comes home to sleep and then he leaves again.
Crazy how some women have so much energy to be mean to other women, but hesitate to be mean to men. A man will drop a woman just for a chance to get a sniff of his dreamgirl or the "mean girl" 😂
How to not feel bad for recieving: “the pastor does not feel bad when he takes your money in a basket 🧺 the IRS does not feel bad when they take your money. Men don’t feel bad when they ask for sex.” Sooo true. 💯
So you aren't getting a nut too or it's a one sided deal? Explain your way out of this one...Ooo I forgot, the men yall really bag, yall hate and just use anyway lmao
It’s the same w/ divas. That’s how they’re able to thrive in the music industry, model industry, etc. they’re highly ambitious & want to get to the top.
@@katiataggarta1914 I don’t really care for Diana, after I read that autobiography about her from the randy dude. She’s just… ugh. She don’t faze me lol
This is so true and I’m so glad I found Shera while I’m still in my 20s. The trick is you can’t be afraid to lose them. Most women think omg I can’t say that or do that he’ll just stop talking to me; this is why you have to go back to the first step of being okay on your own! Because men can literally smell desperation and they use it to their advantage. If he’s not into you enough to stay then that should be a turn off to you anyway! As a former “nice girl” it’s the hardest thing for me to learn but I’ve made such progress it’s insane.
She's Not Lying... I've been nice threw out all my Relationships and I got nothing but emotional and Mentally abused... And the worst part of All the More nice I was. The worst he treated me.... 😢 No more of that Nice 💩 crap 2024 is A New Me ❤ #SelfLove
It’s called a fawning response, like fight/flight/freeze response. If you’re used to being treated well, you will react immediately to disrespect and or leave.
@@knowonosetheir population is way too small. I don't care how nice a guy is, if you lay belly up you will get eaten alive. I learned that while married to a "nice" guy. If thwy see an opportunity they will take advantage
I caught the end of this live but noticed the same tired dusties wreaking havoc in the chat. If only they’d apply that same effort towards a career they’d be paid instead of hanging with us girlies lol. Cute head wrap btw!! ✨✨
You don't seem to understand, Dusties are here to reinforce that you're getting nada out of men of this generation, and their numbers are growing 😂😂. The targets that you could finesse are already bitter after two divorces. Dusties just want to see strong independent women thriving in their careers. 😊
Its true - I've known a guy at work - loaded pockets and very nice guy. His wife was an headache, very mean and controlling. He never ever cheated and was clearly crazy about her. Never understood, but your video helps me understand more !
I always wanted to know how to do what shera teaches in her videos but did not know how. Iwas talking to a lot of my guy cousins and was getting no where, and the men in my family are married to women like shera and she is telling the truth about how they go above and beyond for their wives.
Facts when I’m mean I get more when I was too nice I got played lol. Got brainwashed that you gonna be sweet only to guys. Hell no back to my mean baddie vibe 👻
Bless all the women that don’t have too slave and get old faster that can relax and enjoy especially in there older age when you’re body is changing and your going through it
this is so facts I’ve gotten everything I’ve wanted being mean 🙏🏼 this got my man so obsessed with me , he don’t even care about my side men as long as he could be with me at the end of the day and take care of me once he knew he literally stepped up way more when he knew he had competition
"Mean women" are those who demonstrate unkindness, hurtfulness, or malicious behavior towards others. Such behavior is not appealing to self-respecting men. Conversely, women with self-respect establish standards, boundaries, and expectations. Quality men value and respect women who prioritize self-respect and assertiveness. .
@@HenrySimmons1225 look at the porn and OF addiction rates among men. See how desperate they are to up theyre bodycount. Most men have no self respect.
I’m so glad you checked her❤ because that’s exactly why I don’t have friends..just mean and nasty for no reason and k don’t have time! Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨🥰
If you act like a dragon, they know you guard a princess. Your meanness is the dragon, your feminine nature being protected is the princess. Men instantly see you as valuable. Symbols don't lie. Extra: the tsundere is the most popular trope for women. Men want to endure your cruelty so they may be rewarded with your sweetness.
yesss men say that women want a man who puts them on an emotional rollercoaster - which is true. butttt, men also want to be put on an emotional rollercoaster bc they dont feel emotions as much/strongly bc they're so supressed. so when they do they don't want to lose that
And the Oscar for Best Performance in a "You Don't Listen To Me" category goes to . . . 🌟🏆 SHERA ! 🏆🌟 I came back from shopping and had to listen to it again! 😂
Nice and sweet women finsh last, they never get anything in return for their honesty and loyalty and kindness...................NEVER,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,It NEVER .........................I mean NEVER WORKS OUT FOR NICE WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER>>>>>>>>>>>>
@@HenrySimmons1225 not every woman is the same most women aren’t mean lmao 🤣 they are submissive to men that refuse to provide for them lol they are the best roommates
@@allegedlyandfacts He's not he just has common sense. What kind of person would put up with being misstreated? Sorry to hurt your ego, but most financially stable men have self respect. Stay single!
You ain't lying because my aunt mean as hell. Husband works 2 full time jobs. While she lays at home being mean all day. He aint going nowhere.
She's lucky 😊 I want to be just like ur Aunty
Lol❣️
It sounds like your aunt's behavior may be emotionally abusive.
@idivas2991 Yep, and bet he cheats on her. He only works two jobs, so he never has to be home with her. He just comes home to sleep and then he leaves again.
😭not "she lays at home being mean all day" I cannot 😭
Crazy how some women have so much energy to be mean to other women, but hesitate to be mean to men. A man will drop a woman just for a chance to get a sniff of his dreamgirl or the "mean girl" 😂
Very true and a waste of time
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns definitely a waste of time
Lack of confidence.
Brainwashed to the core 😢
@@angelamcgowan-ob3xf NO scared of men slapping the shit out of them.. women see women as beneath or like them.. women see men as superior
How to not feel bad for recieving: “the pastor does not feel bad when he takes your money in a basket 🧺 the IRS does not feel bad when they take your money. Men don’t feel bad when they ask for sex.”
Sooo true. 💯
are you dumb???
So you aren't getting a nut too or it's a one sided deal? Explain your way out of this one...Ooo I forgot, the men yall really bag, yall hate and just use anyway lmao
Nice women demand nothing and get it. 😂
🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯so true
No they get less than nothing, they get taken advantage of
What a horrible profile picture. Is that how you look like?
They get abuse. I did not turn mean though. Im still very nice. I just stopped dealing with men. Clean home and peace of mind.
TRUE
The men I’ve been the meanest too Won’t leave me alone
Omg same lol
Me too!
😂😂😂
So true
😂 So true, I was too nice and got nothing but disrespect
Yup. You already know!
True
The fact that Drizzle drizzle is even being said is indicator that they are watching you and jealous
🎯
Not jealous. Laughing at yaw delusion.
THIS PART!❤
@@fitzmorris6813 if you're here that means you care LOL so pathetic
@@fitzmorris6813You can’t even spell properly. Make sure you catch the short bus in the morning.
It’s the same w/ divas. That’s how they’re able to thrive in the music industry, model industry, etc.
they’re highly ambitious & want to get to the top.
Mariah Carey is a perfect example
@@j-tenn226please give me some Mariah Carey examples?
The OG is Diana Ross, she mean as hell 😂how she did the Supremes , how she did Michael Jackson “Dirty Diana” ain’t playing with them
@@katiataggarta1914 I don’t really care for Diana, after I read that autobiography about her from the randy dude. She’s just… ugh. She don’t faze me lol
@@j-tenn226 Ariana Grande too lol you know she’s a privileged princess 👑
Being nice never got me anything but played
Stop dating pookie and you can have both
I'm married and they still be playing games😂
@@BlueJerry2Ray-Ray is that you?😂😂😂
@@heyalexiajanee you're married to your cats and wine, that's who you're married to🤣🤣
@@heyalexiajaneeyou know it’s him. He has plenty of time on his hands to meddle in the conversations of women.
This is so true and I’m so glad I found Shera while I’m still in my 20s.
The trick is you can’t be afraid to lose them. Most women think omg I can’t say that or do that he’ll just stop talking to me; this is why you have to go back to the first step of being okay on your own! Because men can literally smell desperation and they use it to their advantage. If he’s not into you enough to stay then that should be a turn off to you anyway!
As a former “nice girl” it’s the hardest thing for me to learn but I’ve made such progress it’s insane.
How did you learn? I find it’s just in my nature to be an empathetic human towards others but i can definitely be meaner if im not into someone lol
U can let them believe you’re desperate too and continue the cycle nd really do em in 😭😭🫣
Being assertive can be so called mean.
True. The first thing get rid of looking for validation from them
Well said!
I been saying this all week. I realize I got treated better when I was mean and ignored men. Idk why I listened to other people about being nice😂😂😂
Same !
Thiiisssss I was a mean woman and had men eating out the palm of my hands
Yeah; but you don't want to be mean, a headache, and stressful. This is why men cheat; because the "mean" women they deal with are headaches.
@@WorkhardwithaJob_CareerBut they will cheat regardless if you are nice or mean.
Can’t wait till you reach 1 million!!!!
She's Not Lying... I've been nice threw out all my Relationships and I got nothing but emotional and Mentally abused... And the worst part of All the More nice I was. The worst he treated me.... 😢 No more of that Nice 💩 crap 2024 is A New Me ❤ #SelfLove
It’s called a fawning response, like fight/flight/freeze response. If you’re used to being treated well, you will react immediately to disrespect and or leave.
Me too 😢 I’m genuinely nice and caring but def have to change that bc it’s only gotten me treated poorly
2025 you’ll still be single & stupid.
same girl same
yes the disrespect for being nice is crazy
Watching this on my way to the airport - all paid holiday from my man of means 👑😊 sprinkle sprinkle
ooh have fun and enjoy!
Have fun 😎
Point Is he paid
Tell your man he's a simp and gets what he deserves when you leave him
Digger digger
Eat or be eaten🎉 If you aren’t mean, the guy will be
Preach!!!!
Or you know choose a guy that actually values you as a person 🤦🏽♂️. I feel bad for this dating generation.
@@knowonosetheir population is way too small. I don't care how nice a guy is, if you lay belly up you will get eaten alive. I learned that while married to a "nice" guy. If thwy see an opportunity they will take advantage
@@knowonosecry
Fkin facts I be trying to tell my girls like stop being so damn thirsty to please!!
Going to watch this when I get off work and go home to get ready for my date tonight😌✨
GET THAT BAG
That's perfect! that's all the positive energy you need to keep your boundaries and have fun your way on the date. ❤
how'd it go??
How was it❤
I hope you went somewhere really nice😊
Mean and ugly is a no-no..get pretty 🤣
Sorry, being mean and ugly can work!😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@mstwelvedeadlycynsI’ve seen it
@@lilin8187really? How???
my man didn't start treating me right till I started acting like a brat.. yes he's
rich
same 😫 i was so nice. Now i act like a complete brat and i get everything I ask for and he’s more attached to me
@@thaniatoj2209please tell me how?
He's pathetic.
"u got financial troubles, you shouldn't be laying down with nobody"..sprinkle sprinkle❤❤
I have been forgetting to listen to her, how absolutely silly of me! Im back!
Girl me to 🤦🏽♀️
Same girl. I’ve been totally adrift these past few months and was wondering why, I haven’t been listening!
I thought the same thing😭
Same got married to a piece of trash but I'm back 😂😂😂
Wow
I just had this conversation today
When i was nice i was disrespected
Now that im mean ....night and day change
Yea because now you attract losers who have no respect for themselves and no motion. Just wait until you realize you're not actually attracted to them
Being mean with a sweet voice and smile at the end gets em all the time 🌦️ I just leveled up as a member ✨sprinkle sprinkle✨
Wordddd
I caught the end of this live but noticed the same tired dusties wreaking havoc in the chat. If only they’d apply that same effort towards a career they’d be paid instead of hanging with us girlies lol. Cute head wrap btw!! ✨✨
Girl this!!!!
literally omg
Yess, sprinkle sprinkle ✨😊
You don't seem to understand, Dusties are here to reinforce that you're getting nada out of men of this generation, and their numbers are growing 😂😂. The targets that you could finesse are already bitter after two divorces. Dusties just want to see strong independent women thriving in their careers. 😊
They’re in the chat to reinforce their dusty ness 🧹
I workout to this like a podcast, motivates me to level up
Shera changing lives
I’ve always said this. I’ve noticed it !! Nice woman get taken advantage of
They do! Been there and done that. Not anymore! Rather be Single than Played with and Taking Advantage of.
They don't.
Mean and ugly don’t go together lmaooo
😅😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Its true - I've known a guy at work - loaded pockets and very nice guy. His wife was an headache, very mean and controlling. He never ever cheated and was clearly crazy about her. Never understood, but your video helps me understand more !
Where does he work?
@@Luxiouriousprettyme He has multiple training centers
@@Luxiouriousprettymegirl you heard her say he don’t cheat now stop being thirsty asking where the man works 😮
LOL@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195
@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195right like
Shera never lets us down! Keep your emotions out of it and focus on the bag 💰💸 *sprinkle sprinkle*
This is true they even respect mean women more
Not most of us. And it's not respect. It's weakness and lack of self respect.
@@EngineersQuest yall's actions speak louder than your words. You guys lie too much!
@@yk-who-it-is So do women. Not all men and women do though. Never blame all men and women for the actions of some.
@@EngineersQuest I never said all but it's enough!
@@yk-who-it-is You said y'all. You all.
“This is my Bible study” REAAAAL
I dont consider it being mean if your being honest, blunt, or real.
My husband always said Iam evil and psycho but he provide me and I don't need to work. I can use his credit cards , debit card
He failed as a man, glad I work instead of being a broke bum using someone else's cards.
this honey brown hair is so flattering on her!!
I always wanted to know how to do what shera teaches in her videos but did not know how. Iwas talking to a lot of my guy cousins and was getting no where, and the men in my family are married to women like shera and she is telling the truth about how they go above and beyond for their wives.
I literally just told my homegirl this!! I swear by it. Been doing it for years and it works!!! My “nice” friends get dogged out constantly
Constantly 😭😭the they be looking at me like I’m fkin undeserving girl step that’ coochie up😩
I believe it. When I became the nice girl I have received less
Two in a row? You are spoiling us!❤❤❤
Period; we’re here learning and getting the bag !
Shera thank you for addressing the mean girl situation ❤❤
I’m liking the video before I even watch cause anything Shera drops is Masterclass
This is true. Men will take advantage of nice women.
Never have never will, women are gross.
Facts when I’m mean I get more when I was too nice I got played lol. Got brainwashed that you gonna be sweet only to guys. Hell no back to my mean baddie vibe 👻
Only fools line up to play fair in an unfair world
Bless all the women that don’t have too slave and get old faster that can relax and enjoy especially in there older age when you’re body is changing and your going through it
this is so facts I’ve gotten everything I’ve wanted being mean 🙏🏼 this got my man so obsessed with me , he don’t even care about my side men as long as he could be with me at the end of the day and take care of me once he knew he literally stepped up way more when he knew he had competition
You're amazing, Shera. Thank you for putting yourself out there to help women have better lives
Give it up for the amazing black woman who shares her knowledge with all women while some hide the knowledge in courses
Her being black has nothing to do with anything @@Luxiouriousprettyme
Yall aren't having better lives tbh.
I had to learn this one the very hard way. Listen up ladies
"Mean women" are those who demonstrate unkindness, hurtfulness, or malicious behavior towards others. Such behavior is not appealing to self-respecting men. Conversely, women with self-respect establish standards, boundaries, and expectations. Quality men value and respect women who prioritize self-respect and assertiveness. .
hotep alert 😂
@@newmoonie333 What does "hotep" mean? I'm not familiar with that term?
@@newmoonie333Catty from you.
Girl that’s what she mean by mean girl. 😅
Relax
Agreed! That is not the type of energy people want to be around all the time. That is beyond mean but evil.
Being mean got you still looking young n pretty❤ sprinkle sprinkle
This live was hilarious! Shera is one of a kind..Sprinkle Sprinkle!
This popped up at the right time lol !!!this is the truth
Mean girl = dream girl ❤
Not for men with self-respect.
@@HenrySimmons1225 look at the porn and OF addiction rates among men. See how desperate they are to up theyre bodycount. Most men have no self respect.
Period 💖
She ain’t lying yall 😅
Very VERY true! I’m a living witness. 😂💅🏽✨
Sheras right, mean & ugly don’t go together.. after I told my provider about himself, I got told “You lucky you pretty..” 😂
When I was nice I got used and abused. Now I make myself happy and they call that mean lmao😂😂😅
Exactly, YOU by yourself bih lmao
I’ll never stop being mean
and i bet you'll end up alone and mean.
@@Audiorexia I’m married
@@IamSierraCNot to a real man.
They married options they had to settle for and think that's a flex 😂
@@SaRaHeru27 you’re wrong lol
I taught my daughter this in 6th grade
😭
I'm starting and She's a smart 4 year old 😊
This is why most single moms are dangerous to society
Bad parenting.
Damn but sometimes I take it too far and then I stg they actually hate me 😭
for realllll 😂😂😂
Girrrrrrrrllll I be outta this world with it! Lmao
o welllll lmaoo
Me too😂😂
Yall proud about it huh? A bunch of fools destined for failure lol
“I can’t even see how yall get turned on by brokenness” 😂
I’m so glad you checked her❤ because that’s exactly why I don’t have friends..just mean and nasty for no reason and k don’t have time! Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨🥰
Hello!!!!
Be nice to yourself and your kid. Be mean to a man.
Okay!
Okay, don't be mad when he's mean to you as well.
Karma coming full circle...yall toast !
@@SaRaHeru27there is no karma
Yea be mean to a man so you can get stomped out.
Your acting is incredible! 😂❣️ “ see you never listen to me, i told you how much”
Shera you crack me up 😂😂😂 Always have a comeback lmao
If you act like a dragon, they know you guard a princess.
Your meanness is the dragon, your feminine nature being protected is the princess.
Men instantly see you as valuable. Symbols don't lie.
Extra: the tsundere is the most popular trope for women. Men want to endure your cruelty so they may be rewarded with your sweetness.
Nope and that's a fact...Yall want to manifest bullshii so bad that yall choking on a ego burger hard lmao
Nope I go the other way.
I wish I had of found her sooner, at 39 found out late and made every mistake she has been discussing in her videos and was angry with myself
Honey, Meghan Markle married the 2nd prince of England at your age!!! She was previously divorced too! It’s never too late ❤️🫶🏾❤️
It isn’t too late ma’am!!! ❤
Lol one chick out of billions...Yall think this is a team effort 😂
@@SaRaHeru27don’t you have some hotdogs to microwave for you and your bros
If you don’t like this wig… send me a better one 😂 ❤
True, I feel once man owns you and wines you they’ll start looking for new troubles 😂😅
💯 remain a challenge!
“sound like ya water bill bout to get cut off” 😂 “sound like your water pressure low” 😂💀She be so true it kills me 19:58
That part was hilarious 🤣
yesss men say that women want a man who puts them on an emotional rollercoaster - which is true. butttt, men also want to be put on an emotional rollercoaster bc they dont feel emotions as much/strongly bc they're so supressed. so when they do they don't want to lose that
Really?
Men absolutely feel emotions!
I don't need no emotional roller-coaster.
Sprinkle Sprinkle 💅❤️
Was anyone else saying with her “If you can get HIM you can get ANOTHER ONE!” 😂
Omg drizzle drizzle 🤤 wtf those dusties sooo hilarious 😅😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Facts, women are dusties.
Y'all when she said uh ooo, it must be lunchtime cause here comes the dusties! Smelling like syrup and orange juice!... chiiile I hollered 😅😂😂😂
Glad i aint no dusty like this channel.
The wisdom! Thank you Mrs. Shera 🙏🏽
Shera, Said Stop trying to fixes a Man. If he Broke, Leave him and go on to another Man that's not Broke! Hello 😂
Wat happened to strong and indepedent and i don't need the money of a man? Pleasure explain
Mean and ugly don't go together😂
I honestly wouldn't have guessed this is a wig. Looks like your own hair. Very high quality.
lol
You’re so pretty
And the Oscar for Best Performance in a "You Don't Listen To Me" category goes to . . .
🌟🏆 SHERA ! 🏆🌟 I came back from shopping and had to listen to it again! 😂
2 mins in and you’re already dropping gems, could’ve used this in past situations
The dusties and dust mites are madd! Lol
Glad I aint a dusty like all you women.
Shes telling the truth
Wrong.
You said 10 years older and I thought of my sister who got a man 10 yrs older and don’t gotta a pay a single bill 😂😂😮💨
SheraSeven, Subscribed because your videos are so much fun!
"Drizzle drizzle" is for the men (dusties) who can't make it rain 🌧️ 😂
So what is Sprinkle Sprinkle isn’t that women who can’t make men reign 😂 😂😂😂😂
@@imme8064you really thought you said sum🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@briannaboujust say you broke asf bih lmao...When a mf get there, we'll make sure to spit in ya direction if ya need a drink 😂
Sprinkle Sprinkle is for the musty 🐱 women.
Nice and sweet women finsh last, they never get anything in return for their honesty and loyalty and kindness...................NEVER,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,It NEVER .........................I mean NEVER WORKS OUT FOR NICE WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER>>>>>>>>>>>>
Remember niceness is not not having boundaries
Niceness and not having boundaries are two different things.
@@Luxiouriousprettyme I agree
SheraSeven, This is fantastic! I subscribed right away!
I’m crying you’re so funny
I’ve always been mean to men 😂😂😂 so happy to know that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it ❤
I'm so glad I stopped dating, women are gross. Nobody won't be mean to me cus they know they'll get it 10x worse.
@@LeftHimDead not every woman's the same bro
There is absolutely something wrong with it. You weren't raised very well...
@@HenrySimmons1225 it’s all subjective tbh men like it not saying all but most do lol I am also nice 😊
@@HenrySimmons1225 not every woman is the same most women aren’t mean lmao 🤣 they are submissive to men that refuse to provide for them lol they are the best roommates
The worst part is when they want Ass.... You so rite he definitely needs to calm down better yet take ur Dust to the next one 😂
🤮
“Get pretty and then you can be mean “😂
If you got a attitude talk to your dusty 😂
You can get that from the government ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
I read your comment the moment she said it 💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shera I’m grateful for you 😍
Yes
For taking the money of a man? What happened to strong and indepedent?
My man loves it when I’m mean to him he does whatever I want when I’m mean 😅
He a whimp.
@@LeftHimDeadlook at this dusty
@@allegedlyandfacts He's not he just has common sense. What kind of person would put up with being misstreated? Sorry to hurt your ego, but most financially stable men have self respect. Stay single!
this is one for the books maam 🏆✨
I think your wig looks amazing on you ❤ it compliments your skin tone
“I can be treating someoneelse like shit” LOLSSSSSSSSS That is tuuuuu funny 😂😂😂
This was beautiful! Thank you 💕💕💕