I think your younger brother still needs you. It felt like you really want a relationship with him but he has disconnected so much that it's hard to act like nothing happened and just forget all you did. I hope you guys fix things. Sending love💕
@@elizabethasieba1548 Thanks Love, we've always been on a good brotherly terms since. Just wanted to make him know I'll be there for him no matter what💯
I think you really need to apologise, like a deep apology with therapy (sometimes sorry is not good enough, as the other girl in the video said). It's very sad but it looks like your brother is going through it, you were technically (though trying to guide him) physically and emotionally abusive...I hope you guys work it out, prayers 🙏🏿
Bro why did you beat that boy like that? He really took it personal, you need to do some serious damage control because that boy is going to get his lick back in the future 😂
That's just it! This video made me look back on how I treated my siblings and that's exactly the way my parents disciplined me. I felt it was the norm then and that's why I related that way to my siblings. When I look back, all I see is abuse and trauma. I want to be a better parent to my kids and model that relationship for them.
I may be wrong but I feel Henry struggles with extreme control and I genuinely worry for his future family. I grew up with my uncle who I thought was my brother until I was a teenager before I was understood who he was to me. He is 9 years older than me and has never once insulted or hit me. He gave me the best advice and care and protection. Today we are best of friends and I couldn’t imagine having a different person I call my sibling. I pray for you James
I like that Henry is apologetic and he acknowledges his faults as well, Parents should also stop transferring their duties to their first borns entirely.
She’s my cousin and she has always been like that, looking out for all of us sometimes I wish we could go back to when we were all younger. Those were truly happy times
I love love loveeee Tinu she’s so sincere, patience, mature, wise, sooo loving, warm, and absolutely beautiful I love the way she cares for her younger sister! her younger sister is so polite and genuine
Until someone would realize it’s a trauma on its own, I was a parent when I should be parented ( if that makes sense) so I saw through her immediately. I just don’t know how to explain it. I just pray she finds people that’ll bring out her inner child and heal it. She kept talking about things she learnt on her own and painful experiences she wouldn’t want her sister to go through, should we also talk about how ladies like us find it so hard to give up control. I pray you find people that’ll pour into you as much as you pour into them, I pray you find people that heal the child in you. Love Chidinma
I love how Tinu and her younger sister are emotionally connected. Pure love and vulnerability on display right there. loThe scene where she talked about wanting to take her pain away moved me to tears. I wish my sisters treated me like this when I was younger. Tinu, if you are reading this, pls know that you are doing a great job.
@@Theearthng you're golden 😌. God bless you. I'm kinda in d same situation tho, so I relate a lot to everything just that, I'm a guy, we're guys... Bonding is just not it... Kinda weird 😂.. It's difficult, times you'll just want to do more but the capacity isn't there... Want to be Ur friend tho...
Tinu and her sister’s relationship is beautiful and reminds of my relationship with my aunt, my grandma’s last born, who raised me. Our bond was so tight, people nicknamed us dog and tail🤣. Tinu and olamide’s relationship brought me to tears and I remember the memories, she was this protective of me. Lost my aunt who was more of a sister to childbirth , 6 years later, it still hurts so bad. I pray their bond lasts a lifetime❤️
I love tinu, and the way she’s portrayed in this video is exactly how she is in person. She’s such an amazing sister that puts her siblings happiness before hers every single time , sometimes I wish tinu had a senior sister or brother to take a little weight off her shoulders but I know God has BIG PLANS for her and I can’t wait for them to come to completion TINU I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUU
Having an immediate younger or older sibling of same gender is often different from the relationship that exist with immediate younger and older siblings of different gender.
Shoutout to Tinu! She is truly beautiful, and despite the challenges and exhaustion of being the first child, she carries it with such grace. Watching her connect with her younger sister on the show made me wish I had a younger sister too. 🥺❤️ L
I really love the relationship between the sister that is a lawyer and the thirteen year old girl, I'm sixteen so as a teenager i really understand the depth of that type of relationship it is needed 😊❤
Please elder bro stop beating James it’s abuse! Please stop passing down abuse and trauma it’s not funny I beg you in the name of God. I could see how pained your brother is..please speak to him more than physically abusing him.❤❤ by the way their genetics is strong😂😂😂 they both keep covering their mouth to talk
Beat na part of African upbringing aunty. Yes there's a level that it becomes abuse but e never reach, if it reached the younger no go follow am come here na
@@MrHandle_1it could be that or a low-esteem and even worse a trauma response, maybe they told to never speak up hence the brain responds in such a manner of fear when address something difficult
A long time ago or not, transfer of aggression like that can traumatize the younger brother. Do you know what it feels like to grow up with scars from your older sibling, emotionally o, physically o; that feeling of not being tight with your older sibling? Who you go get mind call if yawa gas? Older sibling sef fit no wan join body for your matter. guess you're probably the oldest amongst your siblings that's why you're here justifying that abuse as anything. @@MrHandle_1
James really need that brotherly love, he just reminded me of how I wanted my elder bro to always see me as his guy other than beating me and always yelling at me
Most parents are very strict with their first children and it reflects in the way they( the first borns) treat their younger ones. Most times, they're strict because that is what they experienced and develops into the only way they know how to act. Change is a gradual process sha and I hope the younger ones can understand and bear with them
You don’t try and understand the villain in the situation, the victim should feel what he feels before then looking at it from his older brother’s perspective
The more reason James should forgive Henry and let go, it's not like it's really intentional, there is this transfer of aggression to the younger parents, I think Henry went through a lot too seriously, even it was mentioned that James normally chastise Amanda the youngest, it's not intentional, it might look like hatred but he's the older bro, he didn't know what he was doing seriously, he has to carry out the responsibilities of being the oldest child, I'm sure he regrets it but we are humans and we make mistakes, it's not intentional, it's emotions, aggressions, uncontrollable anger, and faulty upbringing, James please try and forgive your brother and let your mind be free..you will feel a whole new sense of renewal..
Adele and Tidebe's relationship is so like mine and my sister's, lol. Esp when Tide burst into tears and Adele was laughing. That's happened so many times in our relationship and it's always hilarious.
This here is priceless,glad I came across this channel. I cried,laughed,smiled widely,cried again alot of emotions. But one thing is I kinda felt relieved. Hope to come on the show with my sister someday.
Tinu and her younger sister really melted my heart, as a older sister I get you Tinu and I agree with your point of view. Let me know that you’re doing a good job ❤
As an only child who grew up without any siblings to relate and make memories with, it was refreshing watching this, and I'm hoping to create a beautiful family filled with love soon❤😊
Please y'all should cut the elder brother of James some slack. He probably received as much beating from the parents, cause no one will beat anybody if they themselves were not beaten.
My parents used to beat me and I didn't hit my siblings BECAUSE of that reason (I'm the first child). I didn't like it so why should I do that to another. Beat because I was beaten is truly stupid and barbaric
This episode has been the most emotional episode for me. I feel like The elder sister and the younger sister as me and my youngest sis. I love you guys alot.
James looks traumatized and needs love, Henry has a lot of working on to do to fix their relationship else that coldness between them would be permanent….Tinu and Olamide have a very beautiful and understanding bond….David and Ogechi are free spirited and get each other just perfectly while Adele and Tide have a cool friendship aside blood.
I've actually experienced what James is passing through. My brother is 10yrs older than me, it's got to a point I had to fight my way out of his brutality, though he doesn't mean to be brutal, He tried to show example through discipline and he overdid it. Now I'm older, I feel like it's because our father was not really around and our mother wasn't the best role model to be honest (We were not proud of her). But we're good now, we help each other, the best way we can from a distance because we know we can't bear to stay together.
My younger siblings would have a lot to say about me if we were on this show. Being a first child/daughter came with a lot of responsibilities and younger ones won’t understand when you’re being tough on them. I felt like a small mother. It was when we grew up we started talking about how we felt about each other and mended a lot of things we had in mind against each other. I thank God for that.
“It’s not your daddy that bought the bus” 😂. It’s so lovely that you’re teaching her to respect other peoples time Tinu, well done. I wish I had a younger sibling to help mold, I would’ve made a really good big sister.
This is is an interesting episode. It's therapeutic, many siblings would settle their differences and enjoy more sibling love/rapport watching this episode. One of the best so far
David and ogechi’s relationship is type of relationship I have with my younger brother. Tinu and Olamide is the one I have with our last born. Adele and Tidebe is the type I have with my elder sister. And our third born, it’s like a twinning kind of relationship between us. What we do together is wear matching outfits and make the same hairstyle 😂❤️❤️ All these, makes me feel good and at the same time, I feel like I may not be doing enough. And I really wish I could do more. I love my siblings 🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow, This is insightful. I pray we get along with our older and younger siblings, of course, there's a place of Respect, another thing is understanding and communication between siblings.
Those brothers though. 😂 I feel the younger one will still take out his revenge on his big brother one day. It feels like he has been mended in a way that apologies can't fix what he has become. Somehow scary.
Lol, what the f*** you saying though??😒😒😡 Have you even finished watching the whole video. My big brother was only trying to lead me to the right path which I understand now. He's always been there for me, so please don't try to paint my brother in a bad way🤫 I love my brother, the only problem I had with him was him distancing himself from us and not communicating. I myself actually admit to the fact I'm stubborn 😁, but you talking about me taking revenge on my big bro,😒😒 that's not even part of the conversation 🤦
@@James-the-gamer-f7n yes love. I did. Your reaction right now also says a lot. Your demeanour and the manner you spoke to him as at the time this video was created, is what my comment is based on. I'll be very happy it if things have now changed and the dynamic of your relationship as brothers is much better and you both have come to understand each other. I also sincerely Hope you're doing ok. Sending love💕.
It starts from parents. No sibling should be physically abusing their sibling as “discipline” and parents need to step in. sorry you went through that ❤
Same! At 29 I finally had to recount my experience and feelings to him, It was indeed as a result of both strict parenting and ego. Even though the discussion repaired things, but we can’t have all the years of no relationship
Tinu and Olamide, you guys really made me shed tears🥹 Reminds me so much of my sister and I’s bond. Tinu, you’re really doing a great job at this sister thing. God bless you!🥺
So beautiful to watch, I and my elder sister are 5 years apart and I’m so grateful for the bond we share, she’s my best human❤️….anticipating step-Siblings episode, I have step siblings and it’s been a lot having a solid relationship.
No. The boy needed it abeg. E go pain me sey my secret is go dey safe with you. It will rather be the other way round, that it's my elder that will even snitch.
Omo James went through a lot. 🥺 Africans need a complete overhaul (probably wrong word) concerning the hitting of children. Risking the emotions of older children for the benefit of their younger ones is a terrible common practice. Giving up the responsibility of parenting to older children is a sad stuff too.
Well said they don't wanna take any parenting responsibilities at all they expect the oldest to be the parent. And blame the oldest for not being a good role model meanwhile the parents themselves aren't good role models for the eldest to look up too at all.
Omg... Tinu reminds me of myself and my younger brother. It's 8 years difference too and I have another younger sis 7 years difference but married now with her 3 children. I was as close to her just like Tinu and her sis until I travelled abroad and because of that we are not as close anymore. I hope you are your sis are close forever
I really feel for him honestly, he should try and understand and forgive, he could do worse if he were Henry, we all mistakes, James please forgive Henry, I was in so much tears..I understand..I would marry and have kids too and I swear I want mine to have a healthy relationships, it's well ..
As a first daughter I can really relate to Tinu's care for her younger ones. At times being a first daughter and having to step into the shoes of your parents makes you grow so fast. It's a burden that you just can't explain nor put away.
I feel james has a lot traumatic experiences with Henry, the relationship might be different now but that little man hasn't forgotten about lots of it.
@@James-the-gamer-f7nhe corrected you yes, but he did it in a way that is abusive. i don’t blame him, he didn’t know any better and that’s how he was disciplined by his parents growing up so it’s just the cycle of generational trauma. it’s unfortunate that we experience these things then learn about them after … but what’s important is that your brother understands it’s not his position to discipline you like that , he’s your brother, your best friend and i hope you are well and can heal. i hope both of you can heal from anything bad you’ve experienced in your life ❤
The culprits in the case of all these siblings are their parents. It really boils down to the model they show their children. If parents are more affectionate in parenting their kids they will teach their kids to be with each other. If their parents are austere it would show in how their kids treat each other. So we need to strive to be better parents than the ones we've had.
@@James-the-gamer-f7n he didn't traumatize you, but that was all you talked about.. Understand what trauma means please.. I never painted him bad in anyway, didn't even talk about him.. And i stated the dynamics of your relationship might be different now.. All the best
This was such an emotional episode for me, as someone who has siblings and can relate to some of this experiences, it’s just beautiful to watch. We should have another sibling episode ♥️♥️
This episode got me tearing I have absent elder ones,I was exposed to the wrong things at a very early age that I'm not so proud of,so I'm really trying my best to a good big sister to my younger sisters.
Thank you so much CruiseTV for having me and my brother on the show. It has really helped foster our relationship ❤💯🙏
I think your younger brother still needs you. It felt like you really want a relationship with him but he has disconnected so much that it's hard to act like nothing happened and just forget all you did.
I hope you guys fix things. Sending love💕
@@elizabethasieba1548 Thanks Love, we've always been on a good brotherly terms since. Just wanted to make him know I'll be there for him no matter what💯
I think you really need to apologise, like a deep apology with therapy (sometimes sorry is not good enough, as the other girl in the video said). It's very sad but it looks like your brother is going through it, you were technically (though trying to guide him) physically and emotionally abusive...I hope you guys work it out, prayers 🙏🏿
Be close to your brother more he still needs you
Bro why did you beat that boy like that? He really took it personal, you need to do some serious damage control because that boy is going to get his lick back in the future 😂
What I learned from this video is that parents really set the tone for the kind of relationships that their children have.
That's just it! This video made me look back on how I treated my siblings and that's exactly the way my parents disciplined me. I felt it was the norm then and that's why I related that way to my siblings. When I look back, all I see is abuse and trauma. I want to be a better parent to my kids and model that relationship for them.
Fr
100% agree
Henry traumatized James unintentionally glad they are discussing this issues and I hope they get closure
henry de de talk say na brotherly love🤣🤣🤣
@@sugarv_001it actually is. The fear of your younger one straying away is a real trauma. Lol
@@chetachinwadike2761keep quiet
@@chisomudeze7706 who be this one abeg
@@chetachinwadike2761 not a reason to beat your sibling tho.
James is traumatised and broken. There's no amount of apology or counselling that'll make him heal instantly. I wish him peace
Honestlyyyyyyyyyy
Only God can make one heal instantly.
Fact, I even feel for him
That’s what you think
I may be wrong but I feel Henry struggles with extreme control and I genuinely worry for his future family. I grew up with my uncle who I thought was my brother until I was a teenager before I was understood who he was to me. He is 9 years older than me and has never once insulted or hit me. He gave me the best advice and care and protection. Today we are best of friends and I couldn’t imagine having a different person I call my sibling. I pray for you James
I like that Henry is apologetic and he acknowledges his faults as well, Parents should also stop transferring their duties to their first borns entirely.
David and his sister have committed a lot of crimes their parents are not aware of😂 I’m telling you 😂😂😂
@@ahosseypeter3518 No loud am bro🤫😂
Chai
I'm surprised, Tinu is only 22. She sounds like an old head, someone with wealth of experience while being young herself.
Yhhh....never expected 22, more like 25,26
She’s my cousin and she has always been like that, looking out for all of us sometimes I wish we could go back to when we were all younger. Those were truly happy times
@@TaoTao-b4g oh wow. She's a force. 🙌🏼
Honestly!!! I was shocked!
@@TaoTao-b4gI can relate
She must be a very sweet person❤️
I love love loveeee Tinu she’s so sincere, patience, mature, wise, sooo loving, warm, and absolutely beautiful I love the way she cares for her younger sister! her younger sister is so polite and genuine
Thank you so muchhh♥️♥️
Until someone would realize it’s a trauma on its own, I was a parent when I should be parented ( if that makes sense) so I saw through her immediately. I just don’t know how to explain it. I just pray she finds people that’ll bring out her inner child and heal it. She kept talking about things she learnt on her own and painful experiences she wouldn’t want her sister to go through, should we also talk about how ladies like us find it so hard to give up control. I pray you find people that’ll pour into you as much as you pour into them, I pray you find people that heal the child in you.
Love Chidinma
I love how Tinu and her younger sister are emotionally connected. Pure love and vulnerability on display right there. loThe scene where she talked about wanting to take her pain away moved me to tears. I wish my sisters treated me like this when I was younger. Tinu, if you are reading this, pls know that you are doing a great job.
Thank you so much🥺♥️
100 percent!❤
@@TheearthngOww ❤ can we be friends?
What’s your handle ??
@@Theearthng you're golden 😌.
God bless you. I'm kinda in d same situation tho, so I relate a lot to everything just that, I'm a guy, we're guys... Bonding is just not it... Kinda weird 😂..
It's difficult, times you'll just want to do more but the capacity isn't there... Want to be Ur friend tho...
Tinu and her sister’s relationship is beautiful and reminds of my relationship with my aunt, my grandma’s last born, who raised me. Our bond was so tight, people nicknamed us dog and tail🤣. Tinu and olamide’s relationship brought me to tears and I remember the memories, she was this protective of me. Lost my aunt who was more of a sister to childbirth , 6 years later, it still hurts so bad.
I pray their bond lasts a lifetime❤️
Sorry for your loss ❤️
Sis Ola?!
May Her Soul Rest In Peace
The two brothers part makes me emotionally 😢
Yh...the show was good for them...
Emotional*
@@MrHandle_1 very
James just want to slap his own back😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂abi
No I don't want to slap my own back😂. I love my brother 💯.
All those were in the past and yeah I'm really stubborn 😊
@@James-the-gamer-f7n😂😂😂glad you are in the comments
@@James-the-gamer-f7nare you sure 😭
@@AzihPeculiar-lw4pt😂
I love tinu, and the way she’s portrayed in this video is exactly how she is in person.
She’s such an amazing sister that puts her siblings happiness before hers every single time , sometimes I wish tinu had a senior sister or brother to take a little weight off her shoulders but I know God has BIG PLANS for her and I can’t wait for them to come to completion
TINU I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUU
Awwww🥺stawpppp🥺i love youu
I loved Tinu’s & Olamide’s relationship. Truly her sister’s keeper😍
Me too, wished I had a big sis 😂❤
Fr this is the best channel in Nigeria
Keep it up guys…I’ll never stop telling everyone about this channel
Awwww, thank youuu ❤️
Honestly I've been hooked
Ogechi and David are the best siblings
Very true
Exactly 😅
Exactly
Having an immediate younger or older sibling of same gender is often different from the relationship that exist with immediate younger and older siblings of different gender.
Yesssss
Tinu you are not a guardian, you are her guardian angel, God will keep you alive for your sister 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Shoutout to Tinu! She is truly beautiful, and despite the challenges and exhaustion of being the first child, she carries it with such grace. Watching her connect with her younger sister on the show made me wish I had a younger sister too. 🥺❤️
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My exact sentiments 🙂
I really love the relationship between the sister that is a lawyer and the thirteen year old girl, I'm sixteen so as a teenager i really understand the depth of that type of relationship it is needed 😊❤
Realest thing I heard is “Adulthood is hard o, better stay where you are”😭😭🤣 it’s harddddd😩
Ogechi and her brother have a healthy relationship. I love it
Henry: I promise to do better
James: I hope so😂😂😂😂
Aura 4 Aura 🤣🤣
Those two😂
@@ayeleru7489make him self nor go collect 😂😂😂😂😂
Please elder bro stop beating James it’s abuse! Please stop passing down abuse and trauma it’s not funny I beg you in the name of God. I could see how pained your brother is..please speak to him more than physically abusing him.❤❤ by the way their genetics is strong😂😂😂 they both keep covering their mouth to talk
No beatings, please.
It was a long time ago...they mentioned that.
Beat na part of African upbringing aunty. Yes there's a level that it becomes abuse but e never reach, if it reached the younger no go follow am come here na
@@MrHandle_1it could be that or a low-esteem and even worse a trauma response, maybe they told to never speak up hence the brain responds in such a manner of fear when address something difficult
A long time ago or not, transfer of aggression like that can traumatize the younger brother. Do you know what it feels like to grow up with scars from your older sibling, emotionally o, physically o; that feeling of not being tight with your older sibling? Who you go get mind call if yawa gas? Older sibling sef fit no wan join body for your matter. guess you're probably the oldest amongst your siblings that's why you're here justifying that abuse as anything. @@MrHandle_1
Older sis: do i look like i have sense?
Younger sis: I'm not going to lie, no
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
If you see how that statement took me out ehn..i laughed so much
This part
I lovee their friendship
It's not your daddy that bought the bus😅
😂
I love the the boy and girl sibling so much
They're so adorable ❤
James is so emotionally mature for his age. Love his openness and self awareness.
James really need that brotherly love, he just reminded me of how I wanted my elder bro to always see me as his guy other than beating me and always yelling at me
James is making me laugh and cry at the same time.
I like chiedozie and his sister a lot 😄
Their relationship reminds me of myself and my younger brother.
Exactly!!!!
Perfect replica of mine
Same here
It reminds me of my younger brother and I
Same here 😄😄. It reminds me of my relationship with my younger brother
Tinu and olamide will grow closer very well ..
This video made me so emotional and I don't even know why😭
I love my siblings so much and I just hope the love we all share never goes away!
❤
Younger brother’s crazy😂😂😂, he said “ i would have slapped you”
U are being diplomatic
He said I for give you back😅
but that's so real lmao
Most parents are very strict with their first children and it reflects in the way they( the first borns) treat their younger ones. Most times, they're strict because that is what they experienced and develops into the only way they know how to act. Change is a gradual process sha and I hope the younger ones can understand and bear with them
I can relate to this. My parents were very strict on me. and it reflects how i deal with my little brothers
God pls gradually transform me.......beatings eeeh😢
You don’t try and understand the villain in the situation, the victim should feel what he feels before then looking at it from his older brother’s perspective
The more reason James should forgive Henry and let go, it's not like it's really intentional, there is this transfer of aggression to the younger parents, I think Henry went through a lot too seriously, even it was mentioned that James normally chastise Amanda the youngest, it's not intentional, it might look like hatred but he's the older bro, he didn't know what he was doing seriously, he has to carry out the responsibilities of being the oldest child, I'm sure he regrets it but we are humans and we make mistakes, it's not intentional, it's emotions, aggressions, uncontrollable anger, and faulty upbringing, James please try and forgive your brother and let your mind be free..you will feel a whole new sense of renewal..
@@ajisegbedeadejokeaanuoluwa9640 it's not right to tell people how to react to situations. Their reactions are both valid in their own ways.
Adele and Tidebe's relationship is so like mine and my sister's, lol. Esp when Tide burst into tears and Adele was laughing. That's happened so many times in our relationship and it's always hilarious.
This here is priceless,glad I came across this channel. I cried,laughed,smiled widely,cried again alot of emotions. But one thing is I kinda felt relieved. Hope to come on the show with my sister someday.
James had a lot on his chest to voice out and am very glad this program has helped them both to express their feelings and emotions to each other
i cried its really hard being an older sibling and seeing your younger ones go through a pain you can't take away that part broke my heart ❤
Tinu and her younger sister really melted my heart, as a older sister I get you Tinu and I agree with your point of view. Let me know that you’re doing a good job ❤
The lady on the long black wig is so pretttyyyyyy and she has such a genuine spirit I can feel of
As an only child who grew up without any siblings to relate and make memories with, it was refreshing watching this, and I'm hoping to create a beautiful family filled with love soon❤😊
Please y'all should cut the elder brother of James some slack. He probably received as much beating from the parents, cause no one will beat anybody if they themselves were not beaten.
God bless you.....
i relate with them so much
💯
Yeah sure, beat people because you got beat, this makes perfect sense..
My parents used to beat me and I didn't hit my siblings BECAUSE of that reason (I'm the first child). I didn't like it so why should I do that to another. Beat because I was beaten is truly stupid and barbaric
@@Sammi1-ps2, you're not everybody. Different lessons learnt from same situation and that's what makes us human.
This episode has been the most emotional episode for me. I feel like The elder sister and the younger sister as me and my youngest sis. I love you guys alot.
The Brother-Sister siblings reminds me of the relationship I have with my brother 😂❤
Same with my older sister 😂
I literally love Ogechi and David's relationship sooo much. They just seem like so wholesome and fun
Tinu and her sister>>>> I wish I had a big sister
"we're not girls that keep grudges."
many are mad, few are roaming.
same thing i thought. Like your brother's clearly been traumatised. Hopefully they're able to talk things through after this.
James looks traumatized and needs love, Henry has a lot of working on to do to fix their relationship else that coldness between them would be permanent….Tinu and Olamide have a very beautiful and understanding bond….David and Ogechi are free spirited and get each other just perfectly while Adele and Tide have a cool friendship aside blood.
Ogechi doesn't look 26 at all with her baby face 🥰
She's my epitome of beauty❤
@@davewest_9114Kindly explain well for us sir, are you the one that wants to take her out of the house and leave her baby brother alone 😭
@@puritygodson875😂😂😂
@@puritygodson875 I'm the brother oo
I'm David 😁
That small girl speaks really well 😂 and l love that boy and girl combo too.... they're rral GEES🎉❤
I so much love Tinu and Olamide’s relationship. So cute 😍
I've actually experienced what James is passing through. My brother is 10yrs older than me, it's got to a point I had to fight my way out of his brutality, though he doesn't mean to be brutal, He tried to show example through discipline and he overdid it. Now I'm older, I feel like it's because our father was not really around and our mother wasn't the best role model to be honest (We were not proud of her). But we're good now, we help each other, the best way we can from a distance because we know we can't bear to stay together.
i love how tinu loves her sis, it’s beautiful
The kind of content this channel dishes out is not only entertaining, it's therapeutic and refreshing. Love it!!!!!
Praying for James and Henry. Really pray they’re in a better space and for reconciliation 🥺❤️🩹
My younger siblings would have a lot to say about me if we were on this show. Being a first child/daughter came with a lot of responsibilities and younger ones won’t understand when you’re being tough on them. I felt like a small mother. It was when we grew up we started talking about how we felt about each other and mended a lot of things we had in mind against each other. I thank God for that.
“It’s not your daddy that bought the bus” 😂. It’s so lovely that you’re teaching her to respect other peoples time Tinu, well done. I wish I had a younger sibling to help mold, I would’ve made a really good big sister.
This is is an interesting episode. It's therapeutic, many siblings would settle their differences and enjoy more sibling love/rapport watching this episode. One of the best so far
David and ogechi’s relationship is type of relationship I have with my younger brother.
Tinu and Olamide is the one I have with our last born.
Adele and Tidebe is the type I have with my elder sister.
And our third born, it’s like a twinning kind of relationship between us. What we do together is wear matching outfits and make the same hairstyle 😂❤️❤️
All these, makes me feel good and at the same time, I feel like I may not be doing enough. And I really wish I could do more. I love my siblings 🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow, This is insightful. I pray we get along with our older and younger siblings, of course, there's a place of Respect, another thing is understanding and communication between siblings.
My Younger brother is my favourite human in the whole world, we've grown up to be each other's backbone. I'd literally give anything for him.
Those brothers though. 😂
I feel the younger one will still take out his revenge on his big brother one day.
It feels like he has been mended in a way that apologies can't fix what he has become. Somehow scary.
Lol, what the f*** you saying though??😒😒😡 Have you even finished watching the whole video. My big brother was only trying to lead me to the right path which I understand now. He's always been there for me, so please don't try to paint my brother in a bad way🤫
I love my brother, the only problem I had with him was him distancing himself from us and not communicating. I myself actually admit to the fact I'm stubborn 😁, but you talking about me taking revenge on my big bro,😒😒 that's not even part of the conversation 🤦
@@James-the-gamer-f7n yes love. I did.
Your reaction right now also says a lot.
Your demeanour and the manner you spoke to him as at the time this video was created, is what my comment is based on.
I'll be very happy it if things have now changed and the dynamic of your relationship as brothers is much better and you both have come to understand each other. I also sincerely Hope you're doing ok.
Sending love💕.
Thanks @@elizabethasieba1548
@@elizabethasieba1548you’re so gentle! I love this so much💞
@@elizabethasieba1548 You are so nice. If it was me I would've been so condenscending with the kid💀💀💀💀💀
5years gap is a lot o, I thought they are like 2years apart. (Adele & Her sister)
Why’d you say so?
@@jasminegold4416I think they meant they don’t seem that far apart in age. I wouldn’t have guessed 5 years, maybe 2.
Sisters are just priceless. Tinu she would always need you just in different ways 😊
Tinu is only 22? She sounds so mature beyond her age. Loved her.
Thank youu❤
@@Theearthng Are you Tinu?
@@asanwa3126 yes
@@TheearthngYou really sound mature 🥰
@@Theearthng you studied law?
I’m sorry but I cried a lot watching this episode 🥹
I have a brother like Henry. I've forgiven him but i haven't forgotten. We dont have a good relationship too.
It starts from parents. No sibling should be physically abusing their sibling as “discipline” and parents need to step in. sorry you went through that ❤
Same! At 29 I finally had to recount my experience and feelings to him, It was indeed as a result of both strict parenting and ego. Even though the discussion repaired things, but we can’t have all the years of no relationship
What my own brother did to me😭😭. That boy is so wicked,i dont think i can ever get over it. I pray no one goes through the hell i went through🙏
@@Khobby-s8bhonestly feel you bro hope you can move past it for real
Tinu and Olamide, you guys really made me shed tears🥹
Reminds me so much of my sister and I’s bond.
Tinu, you’re really doing a great job at this sister thing. God bless you!🥺
The girl on white is emotionally mature. I don’t think older siblings should discipline the younger one
Yea, but she kinda sounds like a bit of bully..
So beautiful to watch, I and my elder sister are 5 years apart and I’m so grateful for the bond we share, she’s my best human❤️….anticipating step-Siblings episode, I have step siblings and it’s been a lot having a solid relationship.
The juniors pouring their minds and thoughts 😂😂😂
I think we need to give james a chance to fight his elder brother..😂😂😂😂😂😂.. i am sure he dreams of that everyday
😂😂😂😂
No. The boy needed it abeg. E go pain me sey my secret is go dey safe with you. It will rather be the other way round, that it's my elder that will even snitch.
The boy just want to slap his brother 😂
Was looking for a comment like this 😂😂😂
I have seen about 7 of your videos an this one made me cry from the beginning to the end. It opened me really.
Omg Tinu is so wholesome
My 2 last daughters need to be on this show. They are tomuch
These conversations are never easy but necessary
Tinu LOVES her sister and she’s so intentional and accountable. I even thought she was older.
I pray one day I can tell my siblings all that is in my mind . God that day Dem go know sey I dey craze😂😂
28:59 this moment 😢I love both of them ❤
James been waiting his whole life for this day
Tinu is such an amazing sister. So patient, so attentive. God bless her ❤
I and my sister haven’t spoken to close to a year and that’s because we became young orphans….seeing this videos just make me emotional 😢😢😢
Sending hugs to you🫂🫂🫂❤❤❤. That must have been so hard❤. Really sorry for your losses❤
The lady and her brother is so like me and my brother's. My kid bro can be so stubborn but he's also a sweet soul
Can’t believe I would cry like this.. being the only child is really…tiring. No sibling experiences.
You don't know what you enjoy 😂
😂😂😂😂@@chukadityblog1335
I was crying with my friend and her sister 🥹❤ I’m proud of you my friend ❤
Omo James went through a lot.
🥺
Africans need a complete overhaul (probably wrong word) concerning the hitting of children.
Risking the emotions of older children for the benefit of their younger ones is a terrible common practice.
Giving up the responsibility of parenting to older children is a sad stuff too.
Well said they don't wanna take any parenting responsibilities at all they expect the oldest to be the parent. And blame the oldest for not being a good role model meanwhile the parents themselves aren't good role models for the eldest to look up too at all.
Say it louder for the people in the back
Parentification
Omg... Tinu reminds me of myself and my younger brother. It's 8 years difference too and I have another younger sis 7 years difference but married now with her 3 children. I was as close to her just like Tinu and her sis until I travelled abroad and because of that we are not as close anymore. I hope you are your sis are close forever
I want Henry and James to really sort out their issues.
Being the eldest is not easy. He should understand that
I really feel for him honestly, he should try and understand and forgive, he could do worse if he were Henry, we all mistakes, James please forgive Henry, I was in so much tears..I understand..I would marry and have kids too and I swear I want mine to have a healthy relationships, it's well ..
Tinu and Olamide made me cry, whew that hit home ❤❤
Awwwwnnn love Tinu and her sister❤
This episodes makes me so emotional and teary, i miss my siblings so much.
I always look forward to going home because of them❤.
Omo, I feel for james sha. I’m teary
As a first daughter I can really relate to Tinu's care for her younger ones.
At times being a first daughter and having to step into the shoes of your parents makes you grow so fast.
It's a burden that you just can't explain nor put away.
Cruise, y'all are becoming therapeutic ..., really beautiful.
I love Tide’s bond with her sis, it’s beautiful 29:54
I love Tinu and her sister. Such a genuine cute siblings love ❤
Thank you so much 🥹❤
Thank you so much 🥹❤
I feel james has a lot traumatic experiences with Henry, the relationship might be different now but that little man hasn't forgotten about lots of it.
You feel but you're not sure🤷♂️. Try not to paint a bad picture of my brother please. He never traumatized me, just corrected me
@@James-the-gamer-f7n beating is not correction unfortunately
@@James-the-gamer-f7nhe corrected you yes, but he did it in a way that is abusive. i don’t blame him, he didn’t know any better and that’s how he was disciplined by his parents growing up so it’s just the cycle of generational trauma. it’s unfortunate that we experience these things then learn about them after … but what’s important is that your brother understands it’s not his position to discipline you like that , he’s your brother, your best friend and i hope you are well and can heal. i hope both of you can heal from anything bad you’ve experienced in your life ❤
The culprits in the case of all these siblings are their parents. It really boils down to the model they show their children. If parents are more affectionate in parenting their kids they will teach their kids to be with each other. If their parents are austere it would show in how their kids treat each other. So we need to strive to be better parents than the ones we've had.
@@James-the-gamer-f7n he didn't traumatize you, but that was all you talked about.. Understand what trauma means please.. I never painted him bad in anyway, didn't even talk about him.. And i stated the dynamics of your relationship might be different now.. All the best
I need someone to lock Henry and James in the room. That’s the only way out
😅😅😅😅
This was such an emotional episode for me, as someone who has siblings and can relate to some of this experiences, it’s just beautiful to watch. We should have another sibling episode ♥️♥️
Tinu is a mother abeg. Love her thinking
This episode got me tearing
I have absent elder ones,I was exposed to the wrong things at a very early age that I'm not so proud of,so I'm really trying my best to a good big sister to my younger sisters.