If Moms & Daughters were 100% honest

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  • @ayomiideboy
    @ayomiideboy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3819

    that little girl is a product of a beautiful marriage 🥺

    • @sisi-IBILE
      @sisi-IBILE 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

      Thank you ❤😂

    • @dennismenace-c8h
      @dennismenace-c8h 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      @@sisi-IBILE I really enjoyed how you talk with your daughter .. you a good mum.. and God bless you for this .. I hope women can learn from you .. I teared up when you told her you want her to be there for her siblings when you not there..💕💕💕

    • @Khadiyah01
      @Khadiyah01 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      ⁠@@sisi-IBILE ❤❤❤❤❤❤
      Mommy yessssss
      May God bless you and your family always Ameen
      This little girl is a product of whatever positivity you are doing in your household the way she is allowed to be free and be herself.
      Even at the beginning where she’s telling you she doesn’t trust you with her secrets most children wouldn’t even be able to be honest like that they feel like they have to tell their mum whatever they want to hear her honesty is a reflection of the trust that you have built.
      And I also have to add I think she meant it in jest
      Again God bless you Ameen

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Riggghtt!!😂❤❤

    • @RobertMorgan-ne4tb
      @RobertMorgan-ne4tb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes

  • @okonkwooluchi2121
    @okonkwooluchi2121 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3619

    Little girl and her mum are fire 🔥

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

      We totally enjoyed filming with them. Glad you enjoyed their vibe too 👌🏾💯

    • @shamsudeen5171
      @shamsudeen5171 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Definitely

    • @sisi-IBILE
      @sisi-IBILE 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Thank you ❤

    • @daniru_theslime
      @daniru_theslime 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      Give them their own show 😂😂😂

    • @daniru_theslime
      @daniru_theslime 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Make a video where they react to clips😂

  • @heisaustinprince
    @heisaustinprince 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +921

    Little girl and her mom are the best, typical African mother and child.
    They didn’t hide anything, just pure vibes, honesty and love

    • @saikeykay6476
      @saikeykay6476 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

      this isn't typical... it's rare.

    • @dehvoo3655
      @dehvoo3655 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@saikeykay6476sorry it’s typical in my household lol

    • @ifeifesi
      @ifeifesi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      It's not right that she is expecting a young girl of that age to help her raise her siblings. It's not her daughter's responsibility to be a parent. Parents are mother and father.

    • @saignaambrose3999
      @saignaambrose3999 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      ​@ifeifesi she wasn't asking her to be a third parent. I believe she more meant she wants her to be more responsible so if incase anything she doesn't have to worry about leaving them alone together which is normal at that stage. Although what you're saying is right it doesn't apply to them.

    • @ifeifesi
      @ifeifesi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@saikeykay6476 it's very, very typical behaviour in Nigerian households. You are expected to be a parent to your siblings and told often if you are unable to do this that or the other no man will marry you. Nigerian boys on the other hand are neither expected to be supplementary fathers or even trained to be husbands.

  • @oreoluwabello9356
    @oreoluwabello9356 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2092

    Folasade gave birth to herself 😹😹😹😹

  • @haileyshomes
    @haileyshomes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1908

    I’m aunty Julie and bolade is my niece😂, I call her radio without battery but I love her like that❤.. #proudAunty.

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +341

      Awwww… our aunty Julie… Bolade has exposed all your secrets ooo😅😅😅. Hope you enjoyed the episode.

    • @haileyshomes
      @haileyshomes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +274

      @@jointhecruise i seriously enjoyed it, was laughing so hard 😂😂, she’s our go to plug for all kinds of gossip at home😂 thanks for having them, great show❤️

    • @Pinkspeedy71
      @Pinkspeedy71 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

      I knew I will find you here ❤

    • @haileyshomes
      @haileyshomes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      @@Pinkspeedy71 my baby🥰

    • @sisi-IBILE
      @sisi-IBILE 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      You seeeeeee, noone's secret is safe with her.

  • @MistyEE21
    @MistyEE21 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1770

    The girl with brown briads is traumatized witnessing the physical abuse her Mom went through, her Mom needs to allow her speak, & see a Therapist ❤❤

    • @fohesexpressions3804
      @fohesexpressions3804 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +197

      Even the mother needs therapy. So that should explain her reactions

    • @tegawilloby5577
      @tegawilloby5577 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Bro her mom is also trying to consider ger other children as well

    • @Nadeko
      @Nadeko 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      her ex shouldve considered his children by considering their mothers life@@tegawilloby5577

    • @vko.
      @vko. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@tegawilloby5577 to me. If my father was beating my mother and throwing her off buildings I would hate him as well. They should also be considerate. Any child that still wants something to do with the father after that is a wicked child.

    • @LaLablalablovesya
      @LaLablalablovesya 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tegawilloby5577 you either do or don't do there is no trying in life

  • @JohnyBoy_1
    @JohnyBoy_1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2939

    Mom: please start
    Girl: so…
    Mom : And you are starting🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @PROPHECII_
    @PROPHECII_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1486

    “It’s Tinubu’s fault” 😭
    I just know that little girl is entertaining to be around 😂

    • @cloudsurfer73
      @cloudsurfer73 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

      I love how her mom was being so serious and she just went and said that.

    • @aizenosaimafidon1119
      @aizenosaimafidon1119 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😭😭

    • @VOIICENetwork
      @VOIICENetwork 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@cloudsurfer73right??😂😂

    • @MistyEE21
      @MistyEE21 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      She's a duplicate of her Mom 😂😂😂

    • @joyadebisi9312
      @joyadebisi9312 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Love it😂😂

  • @bolanleadisa
    @bolanleadisa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +725

    Love the dynamic between Folashade and Bolade. Please try to hear her when she says you give Ovie special attention. It’s not about Ovie. She’s just asking for special attention too. Please try to hear her and not dismiss her by saying, “I don’t know why you still feel that way.” Her feelings are valid. You’re a great mum!

    • @Moyo-n2n
      @Moyo-n2n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤

  • @Tana_57
    @Tana_57 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +682

    The little girl was(is being) raised in a trauma free home...where she's allowed to not only feel her emotions but also express them.
    Thats really heartwarming ❤❤❤❤

  • @kiara214
    @kiara214 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +486

    her mom really stood in her face and said “how can you hate the man that abused me?” she has every right to hate him, even if the mother has forgiven him.

    • @HinataUchiha_22
      @HinataUchiha_22 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

      Right and also why does it matter that he’s her siblings father he’s nothing to her but the man who abused her mother and the mom telling her to let it go like it didnt also affect the daughter that she brought a domestic abuser around her daughter plus him being their father didn’t stop him from beating her ass
      That’s stuff people need therapy for and the victimizer put in jail not just let it go

    • @ceej206
      @ceej206 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Amen this is very true I’m of 16 years and I understand exactly what you mean why do parents replace their children guardians with abusive people to raise their children? Then there surprised when they children who are now in adulthood talk about how certain people there mother’s brought into their homes as a replacement for fathers who have left the home on messed up their children childhood

    • @kolawoletemiloluwa1833
      @kolawoletemiloluwa1833 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I understand her mom, revenge is of the lords. Who are we to hate someone

  • @stamzthehuman897
    @stamzthehuman897 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1576

    "If depression comes I'll kick it in the face". This new generation is going places

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

      That is for sure. Very brilliant generation 👌🏾

    • @LacrymoseBoy
      @LacrymoseBoy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      If only it were that easy...

    • @stamzthehuman897
      @stamzthehuman897 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      @@LacrymoseBoy Of course it's not that easy. I was just amazed by how sincere she was when she talked about depression with her mum.

    • @galacticos2678
      @galacticos2678 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@jointhecruise pls bring them back. they are amazing.

    • @Rumbu_P
      @Rumbu_P 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@LacrymoseBoyso you will rather she goes through life with a defeatist mentality?
      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 to her parents.

  • @pikin_tube5757
    @pikin_tube5757 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +239

    " I will change the password
    -And I will seize the phone'
    TOO REAL❤😂

    • @Derasticks
      @Derasticks 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I can relate 😂😀😂

  • @marciasofia3184
    @marciasofia3184 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1000

    This little girl parents CANNOT separate eh 😢 they’re the light of her world 🤍 I pray her parent’s marriage lasts for ever

    • @ministryofhealingfarm
      @ministryofhealingfarm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Wow! I felt the power in your comment. Yes! Collective prayer is real. I'm in agreement pray for her life and marriage of her parents. We are all vines on the tree of life connected to God and eachother 💗

  • @deborahakhimie3144
    @deborahakhimie3144 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Mrs Ajoje,Olamide's mom was my social studies teacher!!! She is a sweet and calm woman. One of my favorite teachers. She was chill and very patient. She has aged so well.

  • @philipprecious9331
    @philipprecious9331 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +899

    The communication between the little girl and her mom is really great and inspiring ❤️✨

  • @oluwatobaabiodun-aleja3322
    @oluwatobaabiodun-aleja3322 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +300

    Olamide and Titilayo are so calm, they go well together perfectly ❤

    • @fridoskyoj
      @fridoskyoj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      thats a product of a Godly home.

  • @godspresenceihezuo2987
    @godspresenceihezuo2987 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +384

    Olamide and her mum is the definition of a health relationship 😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @Wendy-bs5gw
    @Wendy-bs5gw 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +238

    I love Joy and Mayowa’s relationship, you can tell their love has come a long way filled with healing, understanding and support for one another. It’s beautiful to watch.

  • @AyodejiAdenugba
    @AyodejiAdenugba 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +435

    I would love to see Father-Son version of this😀

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      🤌🏾😂

    • @davidodi2559
      @davidodi2559 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      not Nigerians sha

    • @akpewevivian1812
      @akpewevivian1812 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hmmm!

    • @okekechiebuka7091
      @okekechiebuka7091 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@davidodi2559 dy play, una no know everybody family

    • @doofenshmitz8174
      @doofenshmitz8174 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@okekechiebuka7091exactly! Not every Nigerian Father-son relationship is strained or lacking of expressed love and emotions.

  • @vixenhalftime1530
    @vixenhalftime1530 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +411

    The little girl an her mom are my best

    • @KingofgraceSARA
      @KingofgraceSARA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      2 minutes on and I'm screaming😂😂😂😂

  • @galacticos2678
    @galacticos2678 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +223

    the relationship between that little girl and her parents is very amazing. she's a very smart and proud young lady. kudos to her parent.

  • @marthangafor6414
    @marthangafor6414 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Olamide's mom sounds like a warm, traditional mother. Their relationship looks so healthy and wholesome.
    Bolade's mom needs to pay attention to that comment about her brother. The fact that she brought it up again means there's something there

  • @goldilurks_
    @goldilurks_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1488

    No one is talking about how a man in his fifties got a 16 Year old pregnant???? WHAT???

    • @Mzomhle
      @Mzomhle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

      Yeahh that's some crazyyyyyy crime

    • @ay1ism
      @ay1ism 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      I was shocked as well, but marrying at 16 year old is nothing new in the culture. Most grandmas today married at that age, the differences in this one is that the man is more than times 3 her age which borderline predatory or pedo.

    • @Mzomhle
      @Mzomhle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      ​@ay1ism I hear most grandmas but in this case she wasn't married & the man only reappeared after she had gave birth

    • @homdalready
      @homdalready 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@Mzomhledang that’s just sad🤦🏾‍♀️ all of it

    • @ministryofhealingfarm
      @ministryofhealingfarm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Facts. Are we protecting our girls ??

  • @kassy8636
    @kassy8636 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

    I could never do this with my mom because I'd have to lie to stroke her ego. She doesn't make mistakes, shes perfect and always right! There's no one who has hurt me more than my mom in life and its funny to me that she believes she's the best mom in the world!😅

    • @kosiudezue1730
      @kosiudezue1730 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I wish I day u would communicate with her and tell her all these but it's going to be alright ❤❤

    • @kassy8636
      @kassy8636 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@kosiudezue1730 Thank you ❤️. I hope she'll listen. I've tried for many years but she always shuts me out.

    • @kosiudezue1730
      @kosiudezue1730 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@kassy8636 u can bring a mediator to help out,or how about ur dad.

    • @kassy8636
      @kassy8636 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@kosiudezue1730 My dad always takes her side. It's pointless. But such is my life. 🤷‍♀️

    • @kosiudezue1730
      @kosiudezue1730 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@kassy8636 I know dat feeling,I have also been there but know that ur opinion matters and never let anyone make u think less of urself.❤️with this I know u are gonna be a very good mom in future 😊.

  • @rokari_dev
    @rokari_dev 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    that little girl and her mum are the stars of this episode

  • @Ebitibi_layefa
    @Ebitibi_layefa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    After finishing the video i completely agree that the best thing that can happen to a child is to grow up with a loving mother.

  • @nwaforAnastasia-m4l
    @nwaforAnastasia-m4l หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Joy and mayowa.. they have been through a lot together. They are my favorite, they weather the storm together. Mayowa is married , circumstances didnt stop her to give and receive love. Joy, being a great mother despite what she has gone through from her own parents, 50years old man impregnating her, and the ex-husband. The courage to push through and love yourself enough to give to others cause you can’t give what you don’t have. I pray your lives keep getting better and you will heal from your awful pasts

  • @ayoolamayowa7026
    @ayoolamayowa7026 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    The Kid & Her Mom made me realize the kind of relationship I want my kids and my wife to have. Such a beautiful bond. 😍 thank you, Mrs Folasade, for that amazing relationship you have with Bolade. Plus, apart from being a mom, You're an amazing human being & you handled this motherhood perfectly. God bless you

  • @devinetaemidgett4647
    @devinetaemidgett4647 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +368

    Mom: Why do you think that your special?
    Daughter: Daddy Told me I’m special

  • @cloudsurfer73
    @cloudsurfer73 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    It's always the last borns that they think don't "stress" them that are actually the ones who feel neglected a bit growing up, especially if they had more demanding/vocal older siblings. Just because they're not as loud, doesn't mean you shouldn't check up on them.

  • @Afrogirrl
    @Afrogirrl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +300

    Little girl is so real my mum would offer to keep my money safe and never return it😂 I learnt to keep my money safe from her!!😂😂

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      She unknowingly taught me not to trust others with my money so atleast she did good

  • @christinepanashe1994
    @christinepanashe1994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    to those who don't have good relationships with their mothers, it's okay❤ we'll do better

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It’s never too late to build it 🥹

    • @bef3442
      @bef3442 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@jointhecruiseThey make it so hard sometimes😪

    • @fatoumattaajallow5618
      @fatoumattaajallow5618 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@bef3442exactly the only way to mend it is to be better with your kids so that you don’t loose both ways.

    • @Licia.S
      @Licia.S 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lovely episode but I felt a lil sad when the Mum to the little girl told her she needs to be more serious with life. She's just 13 ma, steer her in the right direction and she'll follow
      She's such an amazing little girl

    • @rubydanielledan-abia1651
      @rubydanielledan-abia1651 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real

  • @nihinlolawaalao8264
    @nihinlolawaalao8264 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    The little girl and her mother🥰🥰🥰
    So refreshing to see this dynamic in Nigeria

  • @iyiolaodumosu
    @iyiolaodumosu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    The young lady and her mom made me so emotional. The girl is a product of good parenting. Shout out to her mom, she is a gem and her dad of course; they are doing something right.

  • @boluwatifeomowunmi3434
    @boluwatifeomowunmi3434 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    Mummy Bolade, your child is still a child. She doesn’t need to take care of her youngwr ones. She is not an adult.
    You're a good woman❤❤❤

    • @fedosumu
      @fedosumu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      thank you, she doesn't need to be serious and she doesn't talk too much. She's a child

    • @ifeifesi
      @ifeifesi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      I was hoping to see this comment. An eldest daughter is not a substitute parent for your other children. Nigerian mothers need to stop doing this to their daughters

    • @ilovelightmcqueen
      @ilovelightmcqueen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      sickening to put such responsibility on a child🙃

    • @estherschaak9961
      @estherschaak9961 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Its fine if she gets responsibilitys but i saw many red flags in that mother in manipulation and jeleousy of her own daughter too and the daughter was so mature but when she ask her mom a real question the mother became a teenager trying to lie and manipulate and be proud and its very unhealthy

    • @ifeifesi
      @ifeifesi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@estherschaak9961 no it's not fine. Let girl children be girl children. No such responsibilities are heaped on Nigerian little boys rearing them to be men & take on manly responsibilities. Adultifying little girls enables males around them to see them as older than they are and the next thing you know they are being sexually abused. Nigeria has a big problem with paedophilia

  • @VibnWitTee
    @VibnWitTee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I’m so glad the little girl feels comfort in saying how she feels , great job mom !!

  • @idag7521
    @idag7521 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    The fact they are saying “love you" is crazy between parents and children in African society . Love it.

    • @marthangafor6414
      @marthangafor6414 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's nice but not necessary. People who have been raised by loving parents know it, whether they said it or not.

    • @irewole_Mabel
      @irewole_Mabel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marthangafor6414sometimes hearing it just makes you feel whole even when they act it

    • @marthangafor6414
      @marthangafor6414 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@irewole_Mabel I imagine it does, for those who like that sort of thing.

  • @burgsalterego
    @burgsalterego 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    This episode really made me emotional, Happy International Womens Day to all the beautiful women out there❤

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Happy international womens day and happy Mother's day in advance

  • @ivyquansah8727
    @ivyquansah8727 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Mrs. Ajole and her daughter's relationship is beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️gosh

  • @S0.3
    @S0.3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I love Bolade Personality for days ❤ she is definitely her mothers mini 😂

  • @fortunateeghonghonose6303
    @fortunateeghonghonose6303 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mayowa and her motherrrrrr
    My Goddddd . The woman has gone through a lot and she's still standing and still has a relationship with her daughter, it takes a lot of intentionality, courage and strength to do that
    Madam Joy you are sooo strong
    Take your flowers 🌺🌺🥀🥀🌹🌹🌷🌺🌺💐💐
    Mothers are the real MVPs

  • @Claudebar
    @Claudebar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +216

    The cast for this video was great, good job Cruise.

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for watching🤗🤗🤗

  • @marianmendy4779
    @marianmendy4779 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    I love all the three families, they all have something unique. I’m so proud of them, was smiling through the video.

  • @bantswithi.t318
    @bantswithi.t318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I don’t know why this episode is so emotional for me ❤Mothers really deserves to live forever

  • @MistyEE21
    @MistyEE21 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The little girl and her Mom have a very close relationship. Mom taught her confidence, she's going places. They laugh together and know each other well. Love their bond❤❤

  • @erinvargas8048
    @erinvargas8048 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That little girl is so smart and a perfect reflection of a happy and healthy marriage I love it

  • @alhassandantata3235
    @alhassandantata3235 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The mom and the little girl were the content ❤

  • @hephzibahjames
    @hephzibahjames 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The Mother and the little girl have a good relationship….it is the definition of being Mother and also being a friend

  • @onielfrancis136
    @onielfrancis136 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This little girl was a joy.

  • @kay3262
    @kay3262 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    8:43 parentification 🙄 this is why having less children is important. Shes still very much a child and shes being told to be strong and independent. Shes going to be an adult for longer than she was a child, give her the love and attention she desires.....or she will seek it elsewhere. And that's how you build a good relationship leading up into teenage years.

    • @Gr0ot
      @Gr0ot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Actually, not the truth.

    • @TheTrueLadybug
      @TheTrueLadybug 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      No, thats what a child needs. Not favoritism, but to be taught independence and strength.

    • @phoebepaul-bo5xs
      @phoebepaul-bo5xs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      ​@@TheTrueLadybugindependence doesn't necessarily entail taking care of other people
      It's been able to handle yourself on your own

    • @jaydehawkins7016
      @jaydehawkins7016 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      @@TheTrueLadybug she can be independent but she shouldn’t have to take care of her younger siblings. She’s a child too

    • @erphyahboatema4765
      @erphyahboatema4765 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@phoebepaul-bo5xstht can be very traumatic
      Took care of my grandfather since primary 6 because my granny was constantly traveling
      It’s not a nice thing at all
      You become an adult so early and extra strong
      Sigh

  • @galacticos2678
    @galacticos2678 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    Aunty juie matter just dey cast for where she no know🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sisi-IBILE
      @sisi-IBILE 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      No loud am

    • @haileyshomes
      @haileyshomes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Them just dey open my yansh for public 😂😂

    • @lizzyayodele7147
      @lizzyayodele7147 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AliciaClems-ms9tc
      @AliciaClems-ms9tc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wanted to tell you she's in the comment section then I saw her here too 😂😂

  • @madmax9997
    @madmax9997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Bolade chuckles alone is waaah. Kids are just awesome

  • @knowwarreesebeeharppee1023
    @knowwarreesebeeharppee1023 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Mrs folashade.... congratulations on the way you are raising your daughter....she is such an expressive child

  • @Ebitibi_layefa
    @Ebitibi_layefa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Omg!! This little girl is so smart, 5 minutes into the video and i love her already.

  • @treasurearhewoh327
    @treasurearhewoh327 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Olamide and her mom are just there
    So chill❤

  • @Dr.browncaramel
    @Dr.browncaramel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    😂😂the Little girl is so outspoken, very confident ❤❤. I tap into having a daughter like this

  • @isaacoluwatosin625
    @isaacoluwatosin625 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how Joy healed from her past❤❤

  • @sparh001
    @sparh001 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Wowwww, the little girl's dad must be so proud and have a good laugh😂
    And if you're reading this, sir they are planning something at your back oh😂

  • @sisi-IBILE
    @sisi-IBILE 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    50-19, abeg, how is she able to smile..she is strong

    • @hentai7444
      @hentai7444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      16 not 19

  • @olatundegideon61
    @olatundegideon61 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    The little girl and the mum are a Big Vibeeeeee😂🤩

    • @sisi-IBILE
      @sisi-IBILE 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I wonder what her dad is like

    • @danielefeurhobo3808
      @danielefeurhobo3808 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@sisi-IBILE lol, I’m sure he must be a big vibe as well. Such a lovely family 🙂

  • @FOAservices
    @FOAservices 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I loved the last relationship, Olamide and Titilayo, they have grown to understand themselves

  • @ariseandspeak
    @ariseandspeak 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Having good parents is indeed the best foundation ❤ I love this

  • @uloverania
    @uloverania 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    “even though I’ll still find you” absolutely melted me 🥺

  • @chinenyeezema525
    @chinenyeezema525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +369

    A man in 50s got 16 yr old preg
    That's disgusting

    • @issy0613
      @issy0613 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +172

      And yet they still blamed the child in this situation

    • @chinenyeezema525
      @chinenyeezema525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      @@issy0613 can u imagine very bad

    • @inerit5175
      @inerit5175 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

      That's statutory rape?

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      ​@@inerit5175 exactly. It's statutory rapr

    • @zeeonlineworld
      @zeeonlineworld 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      My goodness, it shocked me! Obviously, she had no parental control or guidance.
      Shame on that man!

  • @Ebisidor_Daria
    @Ebisidor_Daria 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love the background effect just before the little girl goes "it's not your fault, it's tinubu's fault" 😂😂
    The mom laughed because there's a good amount of truth in there that she can't deny

  • @hoytequinn4882
    @hoytequinn4882 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love the banter between the little girl and her mom 😂😂🤭 they deserve a show!!

  • @chocostar3355
    @chocostar3355 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    16:35 😢😢 That's so sweet. I can only pray me and my kids will be as close as this mother and daughter ❤

  • @angelusman974
    @angelusman974 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    did anyone notice how the traditional lady and her mother were always green, just to be safe, but the rest have too many issues and disconnect.

    • @oluwabusayoayodeji1386
      @oluwabusayoayodeji1386 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That may be their reality still

    • @YouTubetrash-w8i
      @YouTubetrash-w8i 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      thats because they have a strong communication

  • @Mmesomachii
    @Mmesomachii 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    More Biko😍☺️ love this episode. The relationship between that little girl and her mother is what I want for mine. Love their bond💞

  • @uzochukwunnaji2249
    @uzochukwunnaji2249 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This episode got me thru emotional especially the lady that gave birth to her child at 16years. I even shaded tears. The bond between them so strong.

  • @Kiitanseditopia
    @Kiitanseditopia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    little girl and her mum are goals

  • @susanrotimi9140
    @susanrotimi9140 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Olamide and her mom are so unproblematic. Love it ❤

  • @zeeonlineworld
    @zeeonlineworld 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    Folasade and Bolade are the same characters.😊

  • @angeladotey699
    @angeladotey699 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The little girl and her mother are such green flags!! Like they brought tears into my eyes!!! Love that.

  • @MyWrightMind
    @MyWrightMind 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I feel bad for the young girl and her mom. The girl is very wise and mature for her age, even as a teenager we are looking for the love we were missing as a kid ,we thought if we stayed patient the love will come but they just tell you your growing up and you need to learn to want even less , then watch as they treat your siblings different cus they get a different version of the mom as well as differently personality’s to interact with🙃

  • @blacksonsamstv7010
    @blacksonsamstv7010 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just watching this. One thing I feel we should all learn from this episode is the power of parenting. The kind of parent you are, will determine the life your kids will live. Be a better parent. Traditional way of parenting won't help.

  • @lovefromsaf
    @lovefromsaf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I was just about tearing up at how heart felt the death question was. Until the little girl said “it’s not your fault, it’s Tinubu’s fault” immediately starting laughing 😂😂😂

  • @atolagbeolamilekan585
    @atolagbeolamilekan585 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how the mother and child are being realistic with each other and open-minded.

  • @ItsYurGirlMzPayne
    @ItsYurGirlMzPayne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I like the different relationships from all three mother and daughter..
    Bolade is a wise little girl..

  • @benjaminolaniyi6598
    @benjaminolaniyi6598 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The little girl and the mum… ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @EverythingWithNia
    @EverythingWithNia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bolade and her mum were probably besties in their past lives😭❤️ i started tearing up when bolade said she'd still find her in the next life🥹❤️

  • @Theguy-iu7co
    @Theguy-iu7co 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +225

    "its Tinubu's fault" 😂😂

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Omo every Nigerians problem and even everybody else’s shall be Tinubu’s fault 😂😂

    • @favourmajor6603
      @favourmajor6603 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That part😂😂😂😂

  • @fefe1179
    @fefe1179 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I love little black babies. They are full of so much personality and enthusiasm naturally 🥹!!! Mother please don’t dim your child’s light she only knows love.

  • @gloriaagidee4574
    @gloriaagidee4574 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Olamide and Her mother make my heart warm ❤❤❤

  • @TIMMIEBELLO
    @TIMMIEBELLO 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Omobolade
    Mummy you owe me 5000 naira . I'm laughing so hard😂

  • @Naya__Brooks
    @Naya__Brooks 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love Bolade and her Mom Folashade😂😂😂They would make good actresses in family movies and shows

  • @josephomole6404
    @josephomole6404 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    People think Gen Z is something... wait till Gen Alpha comes on board😂😂😂😂

    • @SamuelObafemi
      @SamuelObafemi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I agree hundred percent!! 😂😂😂

    • @formidablezee7368
      @formidablezee7368 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      They are here already, I have one here🤯

    • @ikeatere8150
      @ikeatere8150 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      The Gen Alpha are very audacious!! 😂

    • @leahaderoju1411
      @leahaderoju1411 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It's going to be a RIDE 😂

    • @ahhasonna1
      @ahhasonna1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Literally😭😭😭those ones are insane

  • @thubelihlencube2264
    @thubelihlencube2264 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fola and Bolade ,, you can tell they come from an amazing home and I pray their bond gets stronger with life ❤❤❤

  • @akinsuliregideon7040
    @akinsuliregideon7040 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Little girl said it's tinubu fault 😂😂😂😂

  • @arisnyeusi9435
    @arisnyeusi9435 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so beautiful! Growing up in a family where the mother-daughter relationships are fractured, I was so filled with joy from this.

  • @hassantolulope8375
    @hassantolulope8375 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Okay the girl with the divorced mum is really emotional😪

    • @naanasarfowaa9932
      @naanasarfowaa9932 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She has to let it go she's hurting her self.

    • @chi3789
      @chi3789 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      She had her young so she could see everything mom went through

    • @queene315
      @queene315 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@chi3789right her life was probably hard growing up seeing her mom suffer at her step dad’s abuse and probably suffering herself

    • @Moonshinexmoonshine
      @Moonshinexmoonshine 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      The situation was disturbing, the mother was groomed by a predator, beaten and became homeless because of it, then entered a marriage of extreme violence which was witnessed by her daughter. Im just happy that her daughter is doing better and long may she continue. ❤

  • @eghuanagbala
    @eghuanagbala 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the little girl and her mum relationship ❤

  • @NanaSteve-25
    @NanaSteve-25 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "I'd still find you"... "That's how i am, where do you think i got it from?" Dang! The kid's so vocal and smart.

  • @Cynthajames131
    @Cynthajames131 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I pray I have this relationship with my daughter in the future like the mom on a head wrap and her daughter i love their relationship ❤

  • @ajakaiyegodson
    @ajakaiyegodson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Bolade’s mannerisms and responses>>>>😂

  • @kosiudezue1730
    @kosiudezue1730 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Love bolade,if Iwaju should have a season 2 she should be casted 😂😂.

  • @imisioluwaodedokun4413
    @imisioluwaodedokun4413 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    😂😂the little girl and her mum made me laugh instantly

  • @diposelem3438
    @diposelem3438 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This episode was so emotional for me. I was literally in tears maybe because i lost my Mum a couple of years ago and never had the time to really have such a bond with her.

  • @opmurraygaming
    @opmurraygaming 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    13:47 the little girl damn said it's not your fault
    It's tinubu's fault 😂😂
    Men I love that girl😂😂😂😂