One of the reasons farfa is the best yugituber is how grounded in real life the guy is. He is married and actually understands the real world. I love these convos and he has good, nuisanced takes here.
One thing is wanting your partner to do better or to not let it in the way his responsibilities, other thing completely is to want him to quit bc you don't like it. My gf is into fashion and make up and I don't really understand/like those things and I think she feels the same way about my cardboard but we respected each other space's and tried to keep an open mind about it, never fighting over that stuff.
Where ppl are messing up is trying to link your partners passions to their personality. If you don't love THE PERSON and only love who they appear to be or where they're going then you're absolutely the problem. You are getting in relationships as an advancement in social status for yourself not bc you love them. And that's the major problem with relationships now days. No one loves out of love they love out of self gain Literally, riding someone coat tail and pushing them to become what you want to get rather than obtaining your own goals and not putting your expectations on someone else to do the work for. Anyone who does that is just a lazy, entitled pos human. They've been absolutely spoiled and deserve to be alone
@@neusyns sadly it's not just a modern thing, it's just HOW we show that stuff is more open and possible to be put out there due to advancement in communication.
Yugioh stuff aside, a significant other like that are major red flags. Someone who's controlling and manipulative "I can change (person)"... probably self conscious about/around the friends/family and more... they themselves are the problem. Add delusional if they don't see it. Manz got some of my sympathies for being blinded by love and not seeing the pain incoming. Rebuild what made/makes you happy, king.
The only thing that came to mind while listening to this story is that country song where the guy says his wife said its either fishing or me and then goes Im gonna miss her
I'm gonna miss her by Brad Paisley. The only context we have is that he hits that lake every day, and if he goes that specific day, she'd pack up and leave. So she doesn't want him to stop fishing, but not go one specific day
I appreciate you not just totally shitting on him and making fun. Solid advice. Coming from a divorced person myself. I went through something similar. Never good enough, and I was never going to be. Expectations were impossible. Just wanted me to be a money distribution system and a housekeeper.
I have a friend that lives that way and the guy is convinced he likes it, at some point i stopped trying to give him advices. Really sad to see, glad you walked away from that situation bro.
I once busted into our bedroom and saw my wife quickly throw the sheets over something. I stormed past the naked guy trying to hide in the closet and ripped the sheets away, only to see an Empen lying next to her. The powerful sense of betrayal brought me to my knees, as I cried and grieved over the end of our cherished relationship. To think she had been a floo player all this time...
"it's like I'm always wrong" No, it's bc ur seeking for validation through other people when most people will never be satisfied with what you're doing. They will ALWAYS find a way to poke holes in you. That's why self esteem is important
I agreed with you and disagreed with the wording but I typed this comment a couple times and still havent been able to put my finger on it. welp, thats fine I guess.
My take is that if your partner *seriously* means "me or x", the correct is answer is (nearly) always x. I clearly mean nothing to you if you're betting me like that. It is still very possible they mean good, but you have to ensure you're not being manipulated.
I agree with you about equity in relationships, I couldn't feel good going 50/50 on bills if I'm clearly in a better position to spend money than my partner would be. To me, part of a strong relationship is mutually covering each other's weaknesses.
It’s so weird but somehow relieving hearing my funny chill silly yugituber talk so grounded and rationally about love and relationships. It’s just another reason to like Farfa
Yeah I think a lot of people are, especially if it's something you spend a lot of time on to the point that it's second nature and more muscle memory subconscious than conscious memorization.
15:22 I learned this from experience, never do something to prove it, doesn’t matter if it’s to prove to yourself or to others, it will hurt, the mental stress you put to think you’re not doing anything wrong or the pressure that can bring just the thought of proving it to someone is what makes us struggle even more in life, don’t do it because you can prove it, do it because you like it
You know how expensive cars are. I know they are essential but you need to pay for insurance, gas, maintenance, taxes, loan payments if you don't own it. So if you're in a situation where you don't need it you save so much on expenses. She didn't understand that. He could have been earning a comfortable amount of money to pay the bills but you add a car to that he might not be able to afford his bills
16:19 "How can i make a video, for my subscribers about something that i have no knowledge of?" Farfa : "MBT when he makes Tier List" This maybe old already, but it always got me XD
That was actually heartbreaking. Imagine dedicating your life to a person who never really loved you, but rather only loved an ideal version of you which they completely made up in their mind. You even try to abandon the things and hobbies that make you happy for that person and it is still not enough. The pain he must have felt when he realized all of that must be monstrous.
She sounds just like my ex, always a new requirement, nothing is ever enough, just utterly materialistic, buy this, get that, change this, cut off that, just painting their own little fairy tale on *your* life. Nah, fuck that shit, Gold diggers are their own grave diggers.
Pro tips : It is already a red big flag if somebody trying to dictated and changes your life to becomes their ideal. So avoid him/her (except your parents 😂)
I know him from locals and he's such a nice person. Bro has been through a lot of drama the last year but hey he's still always positive and nice at locals. massive respect!
TH-cam ppl saying "paycheck to paycheck" as if they weren't living the same exact way bedore TH-cam goes to show how detached to common people these guys get when they get money. By the time Influencers gain a platform large enough to actually influence people they've already lost touch with common people
You really think farfa is making more money then the middle class? Being well off and no5 living psycheck to paycheck is very reasonable and achievable
womens obsession with having a car lol. I have a 240SX that I havent driven in 8 years, just sitting there and gets started every few months. I have no need for it. I love a mile away from work, uber cost me 6-8$ a day, allowing me to take all that money i would spend on a car in cash and put it into stocks investments and 401k. Cars are a garbage investment that depreciate the moment you buy them
Okay man that makes no sense both people in the relationship should both be putting in the same amount of effort. If only one person is putting 100% of the effort into the relationship it's a failed relationship.
Women really treat wedding vows like irrelevant footnotes. "...in sickness and in health, unless he plays Yu-Gi-Oh!, in which case you're free to null and void this contract."
Women will break their vows and destroy their relationships simply cause they're bored. You're not living in reality if you think this couldn't be the reason.
In any healthy relationship both partners NEED to have their own 10 acres. All humans NEED hobbies. Lets say after bills are paid you have on average $100-$200 left why not spend some on your hobby. If you're partner is saying "you gotta stop doing what you love." when you are doing fine just dump them. everone deserves to have a supportive partner.
@@firepuppies4086 > " may be at the earlier stages. It could also be the shock someone needs to snap out of it" im gonna be real, if we are partners and that deep into the relationship and were adults then I dont expect to be having one liners for life decisions.
@@firepuppies4086 at that point youre better off setting up a talk session about it as soon as convenient. could go over where to go from there, how its affecting the relationship, how everyone feels...etc really like... an adult convo at proper timing and with respect.
You get financial aid. I get paid to go to school here, people who don't get free college are either rich, to stupid to use the system, or they go to an out of state school
I guess the real question for me is did the 9 to 5 job have benefits? Because what if one of them has a medical emergency? I'm pretty sure blue eyes white dragon isn't a valid insurance card.
She wanted long-term financial security and stability doesn't mix with someone who is street performer and small time TH-camr which are extremely volatile jobs with no medical benefits. Things like TH-cam may not be around forever. Yu-Gi-Oh might lose popularity. You never know.
@@captingamer29 a "maybe" is better than a "never". Cimo is one of the biggest yugitubers and he's worried about his income while he recovers from his surgery. Literally ONE single (medical) emergency and he's immediately on shaky grounds. How is this guy gonna build a family with that kind of foundation?
Cimo isnt worried about money per se he's more worried about algorithm hurting his channel if he doesn't post for 6 months but that's the same thing in other jobs too. What job will let you stay at home doing jack shit for 6 months? At least YT and twitch you can stream on them with limited movement after some recovery time and still get money. Not to mention passive income from his past videos. Yall are stupid af. @@f5673-t1h
I don't think he was making too much money. Bills paid but no car etc. I find the life much more free except not everyone wants to wait 15-30 minutes to catch the bus
It is completely understandable to have a partner that has a hobby you just don't get. It's like that with most couples. You know what you do? Do some light research, occasionally do the "are ya winning son?" Meme with what you think is the correct terminology and watch as their face glows because you're trying. For example: Are [The Chicago Bulls] [dunking] on the [Lakers] dear?
She didn't love him at his Kuriboh, thus she doesn't deserve him at his Dark Magician.
Bad to not quite as bad.
swap in little d and lord of d, or red stone and black dragon, or any number of other cards
@@skiffy8121 casuals prefer kuriboh and dark magician
Youve posted this cringe on every vid talking about this.
@Zenbon111 like farming by appealing to the lowest common denominator
One of the reasons farfa is the best yugituber is how grounded in real life the guy is. He is married and actually understands the real world. I love these convos and he has good, nuisanced takes here.
i think you meant nuanced take but the misspell is also really funny lol
@@BokuWaJShi HAHA, good catch and yes, its actually really funny
Cimo is married too
yeah the comments on the original video are delulu and completely support his unhealthy mindset lol
His takes on real life are so much better than his takes on yugioh.
One thing is wanting your partner to do better or to not let it in the way his responsibilities, other thing completely is to want him to quit bc you don't like it. My gf is into fashion and make up and I don't really understand/like those things and I think she feels the same way about my cardboard but we respected each other space's and tried to keep an open mind about it, never fighting over that stuff.
Where ppl are messing up is trying to link your partners passions to their personality.
If you don't love THE PERSON and only love who they appear to be or where they're going then you're absolutely the problem.
You are getting in relationships as an advancement in social status for yourself not bc you love them.
And that's the major problem with relationships now days. No one loves out of love they love out of self gain
Literally, riding someone coat tail and pushing them to become what you want to get rather than obtaining your own goals and not putting your expectations on someone else to do the work for.
Anyone who does that is just a lazy, entitled pos human. They've been absolutely spoiled and deserve to be alone
@@neusyns sadly it's not just a modern thing, it's just HOW we show that stuff is more open and possible to be put out there due to advancement in communication.
Imagine you find out your partner plays Floo. Of course you gonna divorce
"I cant stand you, the papers are on the kitchen counter"
"Normal summon paidra"
@@karelsvobodnik6299 Is Tenpai the new Floo? Probably, huh?
"Anything on stand by?"
"Shifter"
"We can't be doing this anymore man we're done"
There could be worse
I am the 69th like. Acknowledge me!
Her: go to school
Him: *attends duel academy*
Damn if the academy was a real thing I’ll be beautiful to go to school every day
Bro she really went 'its me or the PS5' and found out 😂
Yugioh stuff aside, a significant other like that are major red flags.
Someone who's controlling and manipulative "I can change (person)"... probably self conscious about/around the friends/family and more... they themselves are the problem. Add delusional if they don't see it.
Manz got some of my sympathies for being blinded by love and not seeing the pain incoming. Rebuild what made/makes you happy, king.
The only thing that came to mind while listening to this story is that country song where the guy says his wife said its either fishing or me and then goes Im gonna miss her
I always liked making fun of that song and try to imagine what happened to lead up to that point. Cause I always assumed the guy singing is a jerk.
I'm gonna miss her by Brad Paisley. The only context we have is that he hits that lake every day, and if he goes that specific day, she'd pack up and leave. So she doesn't want him to stop fishing, but not go one specific day
Wife: “I wanna have a baby”
Guy: “response, ash blossom”
but they're not destroying the baby, just summoning it, you can't ash the summon
@@DeviousHandsfine, impulse then.
Raigeki
Fusion summon el shadoll winda.
@@DeviousHands Oh a perfect time for House of Adhesive Tape
I appreciate you not just totally shitting on him and making fun.
Solid advice. Coming from a divorced person myself. I went through something similar.
Never good enough, and I was never going to be. Expectations were impossible. Just wanted me to be a money distribution system and a housekeeper.
I have a friend that lives that way and the guy is convinced he likes it, at some point i stopped trying to give him advices. Really sad to see, glad you walked away from that situation bro.
I once busted into our bedroom and saw my wife quickly throw the sheets over something. I stormed past the naked guy trying to hide in the closet and ripped the sheets away, only to see an Empen lying next to her. The powerful sense of betrayal brought me to my knees, as I cried and grieved over the end of our cherished relationship. To think she had been a floo player all this time...
At least it wasn’t fossil dyno
@@VanceWeebin That's what her new boyfriend is playing, if you can imagine that
Youryugiohchannel is an OG. I've been subscribed to him since highschool like 2010. Or maybe even earlier.
Same, he was the first yugituber i ever followed ages ago, his calm and cool way of speaking is what i like about his videos.
He lives in a nice house/apt, pays bills, and can afford playing an expensive card game. L ex-wife
"it's like I'm always wrong"
No, it's bc ur seeking for validation through other people when most people will never be satisfied with what you're doing. They will ALWAYS find a way to poke holes in you.
That's why self esteem is important
I agreed with you and disagreed with the wording but I typed this comment a couple times and still havent been able to put my finger on it.
welp, thats fine I guess.
My take is that if your partner *seriously* means "me or x", the correct is answer is (nearly) always x. I clearly mean nothing to you if you're betting me like that. It is still very possible they mean good, but you have to ensure you're not being manipulated.
I agree with you about equity in relationships, I couldn't feel good going 50/50 on bills if I'm clearly in a better position to spend money than my partner would be. To me, part of a strong relationship is mutually covering each other's weaknesses.
It’s so weird but somehow relieving hearing my funny chill silly yugituber talk so grounded and rationally about love and relationships. It’s just another reason to like Farfa
Who knows Farfa can be so based. Guess i got deceived for so long watching him reacting to meme reviews
Hes gonna get banned from YUGIOH. Konami just announced The YUGIOH's Happy Family Plan, He is going against the plan
your pfp has a threatening aura
14:24 Im also kinda like that, i can easily do something but if you want me to explain how to do it you're out of luck its like 90% muscle memory
Yeah I think a lot of people are, especially if it's something you spend a lot of time on to the point that it's second nature and more muscle memory subconscious than conscious memorization.
15:22 I learned this from experience, never do something to prove it, doesn’t matter if it’s to prove to yourself or to others, it will hurt, the mental stress you put to think you’re not doing anything wrong or the pressure that can bring just the thought of proving it to someone is what makes us struggle even more in life, don’t do it because you can prove it, do it because you like it
You know how expensive cars are. I know they are essential but you need to pay for insurance, gas, maintenance, taxes, loan payments if you don't own it. So if you're in a situation where you don't need it you save so much on expenses. She didn't understand that. He could have been earning a comfortable amount of money to pay the bills but you add a car to that he might not be able to afford his bills
16:19
"How can i make a video, for my subscribers about something that i have no knowledge of?"
Farfa : "MBT when he makes Tier List"
This maybe old already, but it always got me XD
That was actually heartbreaking. Imagine dedicating your life to a person who never really loved you, but rather only loved an ideal version of you which they completely made up in their mind. You even try to abandon the things and hobbies that make you happy for that person and it is still not enough. The pain he must have felt when he realized all of that must be monstrous.
"Feminists who wanna pay all my bills can't find me." in the chat almost got me cackling at 2:30 in the morning.
"This is the best relationship advice I've ever heard and it came from a fucking Burning Abyss stream"
Farfa's chat is hilarious sometimes.
Wtf is Josh doing in the background
Today I learned about Runick Divorce
If you said divorce runic it would have been so much funnier @@ccjl9160
When you wanna play Yugioh with your girl but she finds outs the only card you own is Little D 😢
She didn't appreciated the heart of his cards.
I can 100% imagine farfa as the cookie baking (boy)manwife
bro lowkey feel like this dude kinda needed to suck it up idk
"bro" "lowkey"
You're a retarded child.
People are supposed to take marriages seriously.
Tbh his story can resonate with anyone. U can swap the yugioh with anything else and it would still hit the same
In all seriousness I feel bad for the guy and he definitely deserved someone better.
She sounds just like my ex, always a new requirement, nothing is ever enough, just utterly materialistic, buy this, get that, change this, cut off that, just painting their own little fairy tale on *your* life. Nah, fuck that shit, Gold diggers are their own grave diggers.
Can't judge robina on its ability to search for level 7 or higher and can't judge eglen for its ability to search for level 4 or lower. So true 😔.
Pro tips : It is already a red big flag if somebody trying to dictated and changes your life to becomes their ideal. So avoid him/her (except your parents 😂)
does he play unchained now?
I’m lucky to have a partner that supports my hobbies. She pokes fun at them, but I also poke fun back and she’s happy that it makes me happy.
"For a woman" I died laughing
I know him from locals and he's such a nice person. Bro has been through a lot of drama the last year but hey he's still always positive and nice at locals. massive respect!
TH-cam ppl saying "paycheck to paycheck" as if they weren't living the same exact way bedore TH-cam goes to show how detached to common people these guys get when they get money.
By the time Influencers gain a platform large enough to actually influence people they've already lost touch with common people
You really think farfa is making more money then the middle class? Being well off and no5 living psycheck to paycheck is very reasonable and achievable
Yep. Can't even be mad, I'd do the same thing.
womens obsession with having a car lol. I have a 240SX that I havent driven in 8 years, just sitting there and gets started every few months. I have no need for it. I love a mile away from work, uber cost me 6-8$ a day, allowing me to take all that money i would spend on a car in cash and put it into stocks investments and 401k. Cars are a garbage investment that depreciate the moment you buy them
Gil would never ask MBT why
Bro I hope your loved ones see this and realize (once again) how lucky they are. You are a good person and I am sure your family loves you dearly
If they don’t love you at your Little D, they don’t deserve you at your Lord of D.
Okay man that makes no sense both people in the relationship should both be putting in the same amount of effort.
If only one person is putting 100% of the effort into the relationship it's a failed relationship.
Women really treat wedding vows like irrelevant footnotes.
"...in sickness and in health, unless he plays Yu-Gi-Oh!, in which case you're free to null and void this contract."
"She expected a car"
Then why didn't she buy one?
I understand that. I couldnt be with a Stun player as well
18:00 oh, it 💯 percent is wrong. "Fixing" someone because they don't fit your vision is wrong.
feels like he omitted a lot of information. I'm thinking we are all missing something VERY important here lol. There's no way that was the reason...
fair point but welcome to the internet, opinions do be changing all the time
Women will break their vows and destroy their relationships simply cause they're bored. You're not living in reality if you think this couldn't be the reason.
@ I’m literally happily married you have no idea what you’re talking about
@@MakinWAVs That's completely irrelevant to what is being said.
@@MakinWAVs I think replier's wording specifying 'women' for no reason, is quite bad enough already
In any healthy relationship both partners NEED to have their own 10 acres.
All humans NEED hobbies.
Lets say after bills are paid you have on average $100-$200 left why not spend some on your hobby.
If you're partner is saying "you gotta stop doing what you love." when you are doing fine just dump them. everone deserves to have a supportive partner.
5:44 and 6:15 classic farfa really not understanding how people work or just pretending he doesn’t 😂
based words from based streamer
May this guy find someone loving him for real
Shouldve said solemn judgment to negate her toxicity
Whenever someone says, "It's me or X," always pick X. If they really loved you, they would not give you ultimatums.
The only exception is something like, outright dangerous like alcoholism or full on debilitating addiction.
@@firepuppies4086 And in that case, one would have to be stupid to think an ultimatum is going to cure someone of a debilitating addiction.
@Cybertech134 may be at the earlier stages. It could also be the shock someone needs to snap out of it
@@firepuppies4086
> " may be at the earlier stages. It could also be the shock someone needs to snap out of it"
im gonna be real, if we are partners and that deep into the relationship and were adults then I dont expect to be having one liners for life decisions.
@@firepuppies4086 at that point youre better off setting up a talk session about it as soon as convenient.
could go over where to go from there, how its affecting the relationship, how everyone feels...etc
really like... an adult convo at proper timing and with respect.
You get financial aid. I get paid to go to school here, people who don't get free college are either rich, to stupid to use the system, or they go to an out of state school
Great video many good and important words were said here!
I guess the real question for me is did the 9 to 5 job have benefits? Because what if one of them has a medical emergency? I'm pretty sure blue eyes white dragon isn't a valid insurance card.
>9-5 job with benefits
>in fucking AMERICA
ahahahahahahahaha
Now he can play the new tcg divorced dads
They said skill issues 😂 savage chat
Well this is a fact now I guess
“What makes them them them” top quote 20204
She wanted long-term financial security and stability doesn't mix with someone who is street performer and small time TH-camr which are extremely volatile jobs with no medical benefits. Things like TH-cam may not be around forever. Yu-Gi-Oh might lose popularity. You never know.
Depending on the state, said job could fire you randomly for any reason as well as not offer medical insurance.
@@captingamer29 a "maybe" is better than a "never".
Cimo is one of the biggest yugitubers and he's worried about his income while he recovers from his surgery. Literally ONE single (medical) emergency and he's immediately on shaky grounds.
How is this guy gonna build a family with that kind of foundation?
Sounds like straw-manning paranoia at that point imo
Men are not a financial plan. Some of y'all need more self-esteem.
Cimo isnt worried about money per se he's more worried about algorithm hurting his channel if he doesn't post for 6 months but that's the same thing in other jobs too. What job will let you stay at home doing jack shit for 6 months? At least YT and twitch you can stream on them with limited movement after some recovery time and still get money. Not to mention passive income from his past videos. Yall are stupid af. @@f5673-t1h
I don't think he was making too much money. Bills paid but no car etc. I find the life much more free except not everyone wants to wait 15-30 minutes to catch the bus
And enough money for his bills doesn't really cover taking her out, gifts, trips. Being single is cheap, being in a relationship is not.
Skill issue? More like skill drain
can you ash divorce papers?
can't negate this divorce smh
Did she she take the deck and kids?
She hates me on that yugioh till i divorce........ 😅😅😅😅😅😅
Unrelated but why does he have a Josh remote duel stream next to him?
It is completely understandable to have a partner that has a hobby you just don't get. It's like that with most couples.
You know what you do? Do some light research, occasionally do the "are ya winning son?" Meme with what you think is the correct terminology and watch as their face glows because you're trying.
For example:
Are [The Chicago Bulls] [dunking] on the [Lakers] dear?
12:30 and you can’t judge a yugioh player by their ability to read…
Never learned what deck he plays
He needs to forget her and get s wife that accept the way he is and one is cool with yugioh
Think you papa farfa
LOL
she doesn't love him at his kaibaman, she doesn't deserve him at his BLUE EYES [BLACK] DRAGON
What if they become evil?
"Could you imagine me as a catgirl baking you cookies"
I'm gonna need some bleach after that one.
She married a street performer that plays yu-gi-oh, what did she expect lmao. He married someone that wanted more, what did he expect lmao.
It's not an unreasonable expectation to want people to stop "wanting more". Wanting more isn't some sort of virtue.
Why does nobody question why she said yes? Because she either had to say yes, or have the attitude of “are you gonna put a ring on it”?
Farfa in a half a dozen or so years
Only difference is his woman gonna get a bigger bag XD
I love you bro , but I don't take marriage advice from anyone 😂.
Each person is completely different.
What a retarded take. Using that logic, you should never take advice from anyone about anything.
Woman moment. (Joke)
Woman moment. (Not a joke)
Woman moment (derogatory)
Men moment(flirtingly)
Yu-Gi-Oh is childish
So is divorcing someone over their hobbies.
Atleast its not toxic- wait no what am i even saying you know what im gonna flip solemn judgment on youre argument.
love how Farfa speak Facts - I love Yu-gi-oh ! but i gotta pay bills and do things in moderation, Yugioh got expensive aswell 😫