I don't really have any friends and spend a lot of time alone. Sometimes it makes me feel sad and lonely, but when I do hang with people I realise why I don't have any 😂. I find humans hard work
I(30) never had a friend in my life. I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him. I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family. Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation. Any Advice?
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/ May God bless you.
I thought I was the only person who had this kind of situation. Comments section helps me a lot by knowing other people's emotion. I don't know who they are but I know how they feel. #StayStrong everyone!
I’m lonely too I feel like I unintentionally push people away..😞..not to mention it’s extremely hard to make friends especially when your an introvert,quiet and who looks unapproachable .. I’m just super sad idk why I usually get sad for no specific reason I guess I’m depressed or something wish I could feel better though and it’s crazy cause it’s billions of people on earth why can’t we all just find one person who meshes well enough to be close enough to us to be vulnerable and true
That's true, its hard to meet people that you are interested in and enjoy hanging out with. Most people annoy me and the ones I like are usually involved with other people.
You could try meetups those are for people with similar interests. Lol I met a few people on there but I wouldn’t call them friends... people are very evil now a days
Well it depends on where you live. If you're into sports, try joining a sports league. I live in San Diego and I joined a dodgeball league and made friends that way.
You’re not alone in being alone. Also it just makes others who feel the same way have much less of a sense of stigma surrounding them about this common thing
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/ May He fills you.
I basically have no friends anymore. Most of them got married/ had kids or at least in a relationship and it’s just awkward trying to make plans with people who have their own lives going on. I used to not mind my own company but I’ve been getting lonely lately.
Just because they got married or have kids doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have friends. I’m still friends with people from high school and we all have kids/married and we still hang out.
@@hueso5071 I do hang out with them occasionally however I do not personally have kids or want any so for me it’s not as fun hangin out with several families while being the single one. Just different priorities and not to mention I just don’t relate to them as much since I don’t have my own family.
I can very much relate to this. It feels like at this age people are "supposed" to only have kids and spouses but not friends. While I still want and need friends and don't want kids...
I(30) never had a friend in my life. I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him. I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family. Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation. Any Advice? Why does everything needs to be so hard in my life?
When you said ride or die girlfriend. Hit me hard, haven't had that kind of friend in a long time. Makes me sad that after school friends end-up in different paths and loose connections.
Found this today, on Christmas Day… searching “I have no friends”. I’m 29 and am the same way. I tend to push people away through depression or acting out when I am triggered, I have PTSD. To everyone dealing with loneliness, I’m so sorry ❤ I don’t even have a boyfriend or any siblings. I just feel so alone.
Oh dear at 18 and in my early 20s I was so isolated. This isn't uncommon. In time, with a little effort you'll make some good friends and 1 will become your best friend.
I've been told I'm unapproachable because I'm too deep. To me, that's stating that I'm not shallow. I take that as a compliment. Unfortunately people do not take the time to consider that having depth also means you have compassion and empathy. Those who refuse to make an effort to understand and know you are those who remain committed to conforming to a superficial society. I consider myself a person who is willing to stand in your corner , but you have to be willing to let me in the door first. I'll knock but I'm more than willing to keep going if it's locked.
That's exactly how I feel too, I'm a very talkative person and love making connections but people are to shallow or can't even hold a 1 minute conversation both in real life and text. Sometimes it made me feel quite depressed but nowadays I just brush it off. It's actually better to not deal with people like which funnily there's a lot, I just do my thing, practice some mindfulness and keep moving forward. Interestingly enough those people who I have come across are not advancing much in their life though they want to keep showing they have a the insta perfect type of life but in reality is not perfect.
@@jeshuarestituyo284 yes...having a meaningful conversation with people is challenging. Social media (Facebook in particular) is very antisocial. I really try to post things that will get communication or conversation going, or if you are on my friends list...I love to comment on your posts or show some interest. However, that is never reciprocated by others. It gets tough, at times lonely but I have to remember that I cannot be the one making all the effort. It gets tiring....so I definitely feel where you are coming from.
There is nothing wrong with that because some people are born deep and super sensitive. It is the non confirmist and outliers that take the society forward and not the majority of the confirming masses. Everyone has a role to play in the scheme of nature. Nature does not confer its best qualities without exacting a price. In the general the price for being different is lonliness and sometimes it can be hard because a human being is a social animal. At the end of the day we have to be ourselves to be comfortable.
I’m the opposite of an empath. When people get emotional I don’t care and leave them cause they’re so damn annoying. The closest thing I ever had to friends was a group of kids I’d sit with at lunch during high school and primary school but I never talked to them. I never even sat with anyone at college though. I tried to make friends in freshman year but it didn’t work out. I was way too awkward. I resent humanity now and don’t want friends anymore because I hate people in general yet I am desperate for connection. I originally wanted to become an engineer because I wanted to save the world with designing green energy technologies. Now I realize the world isn’t worth saving. If the entire world was uninhabitable in 100 years I could care less. I’m just going to follow the money.
Same for me. I literally have 0 friends. Not even a boyfriend. It’s really embarrassing sometimes when my parents are like “why don’t you hang out with ____?” Like I have no friends who am I supposed to hang out with? I have a few acquaintances that I see like twice a year. A lot of the friends I used to have also got married, had kids and that changes A LOT because they rarely have time and if they have time for you it always has to be planned, there’s a time limit and the kids are there as well. You can’t just spontaneously do something with that person anymore which sucks. I feel very very lonely most of the time and cry myself to sleep like 5 times a week because I have nobody to talk to or do things with. It’s been like this for so many years I don’t even know what it’s like to have friends or hang out with others. The holidays and New Year’s Eve are especially hard for me because that’s when you’re supposed to hang out with friends and go to parties and stuff like that. I even lied about it to my therapist. She asked me if I have a support system, if I have any friends and I said yes because I was too embarrassed to admit that I literally spend all my time alone and never speak to anyone. I have also been really suicidal because of this and genuinely don’t really see a reason to keep on living if I don’t have anyone. I know this is a long comment but I just had to get this off my chest lol sorry
How old are you?? I feel very similar to you, I’m turning 28 soon and really freaking out about being this old not having experienced so many things that most people my age have, like hanging out with friends, having romantic partners (i mean even if they don’t work out, just having the life experience that comes with these relationships are important for you I feel) and even living alone..I’m not even motivated enough to move out on my own, firstly my parents don’t care since I do work and help out and in our culture it’s usually common to have generations in a single home..and I also would have NO ONE AT ALL if I left my family since I have no friends of girlfriend that would come visit me...I feel in a rut and don’t know when things will start turning for me, it’s so hard to make friends when you have absolutely zero connections and the only time you leave the house is to work, shop, go to parks or trails with family. The only friend I was still in contact with from way back in high school has now ignored me since last year (he has his own life going on) and the only women I have been able to date (like 3 my whole life) all get disinterested once they find out how im a recluse and have no friends.. yeah its rough.
You should open up to your therapist, don’t pretend to be fine. Everyone goes through different stages in life... fulfillment comes from yourself not from other people.Make your own life, then you can extend your life to others.
May God bless you. John 11: 25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me will live even if he dies, 26 and everyone who lives and believes in Me will never die. Do you believe this?” 27 She *said to Him, “Yes, Lord; I have believed that You are the Christ, the Son of God, even He who comes into the world.” Jesus: John 14: 21 He who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
I’m 20 and I totally felt this. Thank you for sharing because this did help me feel less alone:’) You are so brave for being this vulnerable. You seem like you have an amazing personality, you understand yourself, and you’re motivated and also super beautiful! You got this girl, I know things will get better for you❤️
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/
I been losin' friends and findin' peace But honestly that sound like a fair trade to me - Drake I am alone but ain't lonely... Having no friends should not mean you should be automatically labelled as depressed, miserable or boring. You can have friends and still find your self unhappy. I don't personally don't mind being alone because it honestly brings peace of mind and joy to me whether you choose to believe me or not, but still I speak the truth... I've given up on making new friends because it only brought stress and anxiety in my life. I've reached the stage in my life where I don't mind being a HERMIT or becoming of a HERMIT one day. I might get judged and people might feel sympathy for me, but I don't care because I know I am a happy person who just wants to be alone.
I felt this video so so much. I haven’t had a best friend in years, and no one ever asks me to hang out. So many days I wish I had that one girl friend to do everything with. Coffee, shopping, yoga, walks, talks, everything. I get so jealous of those who have that bond with someone. I totally get what you mean by if you reach out you feel like you’re bothering them, it’s part of the reason why I don’t make much effort anymore and I feel like everyone already has their ‘circle’ if you know what I mean. You really seem like someone I would click with on many levels 🤍 thanks for putting this video out and sharing with us. It’s nice to know we’re not alone feeling this way
I am 31 now. I find it difficult to find true friends. I tried to connect with people even schoolmates but they tend to be envious and likes to make unnecessary drama and gossip... i hate having to even hear them badmouthing each other, etc. People who have real friends that are supportive are lucky. But when i turned 29, i learned to detach myself from people. I only try to talk to them when they talk to me. I rarely go on socialmedia also so I don’t have to be obligated to like their posts since i have some friends or acquaintances who expect you to like their photos on ig just because they saw you online or it will be drama. Yes, that pathetic like highschool kids...😕 i love my dog, my own company, my family and my bf. I still consider a few people my friends but not close friends that i can trust much and talk in a deeper level. Many people are toxic and their presence is exhausting. So im glad to know that i am not the only one who feels this way.
I feel exactly the same way about people in general, they don't know how to act like mature people and it just bothers me. I am also very lucky to have found a pair of really good friends in school despite this, and my family has always been there for me when I needed them the most. But it's always been a struggle for me to get out into groups and socialize, everyone just seems to become something else than themselves and it is bothering and sad at the same time. I just hope one day I meet a group of people that are just like me. Like they say in my country: "The one who searches, finds".
I(30) never had a friend in my life. I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him. I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family. Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation. Any Advice?
@@ashironikko5860 I(30) never had a friend in my life. I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him. I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family. Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation. Any Advice?
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 hey dear dont turn to drugs it wont help at all just focus on the things thats in ur life right now like work or anything and if u wanna talk am here
I had a best friend for years. Then she married a horrid little shit. She allowed him to brain wash her. She started saying racist things that I never knew she felt. So I decided to find a new friend. Yes it takes time. It can be done. Just volunteer or join a club, be gracious and not a gossip. A friendship will grow. It did for me.
You have helped many people by talking about this. The society tends to stigmatize the power of solitude instead of praising people who are strong and independent enough to be on their own. I always say when you gain that power to enjoy your own company and do stuff on your own, it is such a stable state. It’s lovely to have a close friend but it’s hard to find them. I have formed many friendships to find out down the way the “friends” wanted something. It’s like many people don’t know the value of friendship because their own goal in life is having a family. Having a family is great but there are so many other aspects in life. Thanks again for this great video.
Yea I hear you.I just exit unless it's a work or study related group which I don't have a choice but to be in and mostly prefer to be a silent listener unless it's absolutely necessary to chat.
I’m only just seeing this video now, but I wanted to thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Know that you are absolutely NOT alone in feeling this way. I wish that all of us lonely people could meet and be friends ❤️
Beautiful lady, You shared deeply intelligently, no rambling at all; and helped soooo many of us who feel the same...I mostly chose not good friends; and now keep primarily to myself, and am okay with it...Having friends is almost a construct, and certainly overrated, more trouble than it's worth. I've learned to be my own best friend. No beau for several years now
All relatable! I also don’t have friends & I am used to it. I do miss the company of others who can deeply relate with me, but superficial connections just don’t hold interest. I was social & socialized growing up. Take care, people 💗 this world has grown a bit lonely for lots of us.
When I think abt having no friends I cry I’m the type of person that need friends to stay happy but I’m so shy and I’m not a likable person I don’t know why I’m not mean 😐
I needed this. I’m in an awful situation with my partner, he is very controlling and cold/shut off. I can’t drive, no socials, I don’t even remember the last time I’ve been anywhere alone. I don’t leave the house, at all, for that matter. Definitely no friends or family, I don’t have parents. I’m alone all day and lately I’ve been struggling with it, bad. I’m so alone, I have my dog and me. It’s hard, I cry a lot and it’s become so bad I find myself just staring at walls for blocks of time or literally walking in circles for no reason. I just started your video but thank you for sharing this. It’s not easy being so alone. 😔 *edit* I just got to the part About your dog and that I can relate to! My lucky is my world💙
I can relate 100%. I give you credit for being brave and sharing such private thoughts about yourself. I hope that good quality people gravitate to you. It’s true doing things alone is fine but there’s times that you want a buddy to go on an adventure. I have a baseball glove and a softball 🥎 on my home office it’s been there collecting dust for years. I don’t have anyone I can even call to go throw a ball around at the park. Every time I walk past the glove I’m reminded of that fact. Some days it hurts me more than others.
Wow I really needed to hear this. It’s so easy for someone to say “go out and do stuff” or “go and meet people” but it’s like where? I am your age as well and it’s harder I feel to find people to hang with because as you said most people already have that “good friend” and you don’t want to be a bother. I feel that 100% and not only has it messed with my confidence but my anxiety has somehow gone up too because of it. You are not alone
Lmaoooo I thought I was crazy. I had friends growing up but when I got older I realized they weren’t my friends really. There were more so “homies”. I can’t really break bread with them, ask to burrow or talk on the phone regularly. Some of them I had to cut of for my sanity, people be disrespecting or hitting you up when it’s convenient for you. Hey that’s life I guess, I’m figuring this out. I feel satisfied knowing others are like me. And Emily your pretty you gotta understand some females gonna be intimidated lol. Completely understand this video tho.
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/
Gurllll friend Your not alone 💫 I'm exactly like you! I relate with you 100% I'm an introvert as well most of The time I'm ok... Every thing your saying It's like looking in the mirror! Appreciate you opening up 💞 Your a very strong person Stay positive and grounded New subscriber
Wow, this is so relatable from start to end. I literally felt like I was looking at myself. I turned 23 this year, but I couldn't shake off the thought that I lived a solidly wrong life because I didn't have a single friend to open up to. My problem is that even if I meet new people, I can't get rid of that invisible imaginary wall that I built to protect myself and no matter how I get close to people I can't maintain that relationship. I try to use that stress as the driving force for self-development but I'm still lonely as hell. I wish i could be mature as you but i guess it's too hard for me. We've never met and haven't talked, but I feel like I made a friend just like me. Thank you for uploading this video it's good to know someone feels the same way. You'r beautiful just the way you are!!
Trust me it’s a global problem and it’s seems that no one has a solution for it, even great people, who had done incredible things to make humans life better, were going through the same problem. Its a price that we need to live with but it’s also a gift to do better things. Just remember that what ever you are looking, its also looking for you. And I truly admire your courage to post this video regardless of how other people may think. I wish you all the best and we are all in this together.
Wow, I relate to this so much. I have been trying to be really self reflective and make changes to be more approachable and be a better friend, but I feel like I always end up disappointed or lacking connection. Thanks for sharing this.
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/
Hey Emily, I'm almost 38 (Feb. 21st) and I don't have any friends. I'm always alone where I go, every morning when I'm at the Coffee Shop I look around and all I see is people looking into their phones even if they have people around them. Sometimes I feel sad and lonely and that's why I don't go out much. I can't have a job because I suffer from depression and social anxiety since 2014. I wish you well.
This could be a symptom of our society, fickle interactions, instagram life etc. It can also be worse in some cities, atleast before lock down south africans and australians are so much friendlier than north americans.
CURRENTLY FEELING THIS WAY . I SENT MY BOYFRIEND A LONG TEXT HOW I WANT TO BE ALONE FOR A LITTLE WHILE BC I FEEL SO EXHAUSTED 😩 ... MY BOYFRIEND IS ALWAYS HERE FOR SUPPORT THOUGH IM GLAD HE UNDERSTANDS WHAT IM GOING THROUGH ❤️❤️ ❤️ . HE’S SO SWEET TO ME AND I REALLY APPRECIATE HIM FOR EVERYTHING 💯🙏🏾
I've spent my entire life putting the people i loved first...family, friends, romantic partners. Every single time, every single person used me, and played with me. I'm done, I'm just done. I rather be alone.
It's the sad reality! I've struggled to make a sincere connection, especially when they start comparing their lives to mine or critizing the way I live. I feel you girl. I had many best friends growing up but they have all done me wrong.
I think a person's level of self love is so key to relationships with others. Have not mastered this at all. You don't seem like there is any reason why you should not have friends. You are perfectly sweet and charming. Thanks for sharing this. I am so grateful that you and many others are sharing your struggles to show the rest of us that we are normal. I can relate to feeling like I don't want to bother anyone with my looking for company.
I really appreciate this video, it takes a lot of courage to talk openly about this. I'm in the same situation and it really helps to know other people struggle with this. Thank you.
Hello Emily, this is the first video I watched of your channel and that is because I actually searched on yourtube "I have no friends" and your video came up. Even though it is an old video in your channel I decided to leave my comment because I can relate so much with what you said. I think you are very brave and bold of you to film this video and put out there. I personally have a boyfriend who is my best friend but it is not the same as having a girlfriend. I have some friends like you describe, I m very thankful too to have them and I think they are awesome, but as you said they already have their "ride or die". So that feeling of not want to bother and text them first and ask them how they've been or ask them to go out, I have it too. I am actually 25 too and even though I live in Greece I can relate to the feeling you've described pretty well, as I also have reaserced and became part of social groups. Plus, now in this difficult times of covid-19 I am far away from my family (cause I work in another city than that, that I was born) and it gets much worse. I guess I m trying to say that this video hit right through my ❤️. I hope you are staying healthy and safe. Thank you for being so honest we need people like you who present their truth.
Huge thing is trusting a friend. Seen many that try to use you for there own purpose convincing you that there your best friend. Then when the time comes that they get nothing out of it there gone.
How beautiful this talk without any reason ... Talking about loneliness and friends ...It is one of the most difficult feelings that a person can express ...Certainly we need to share unity with true friends ... Sympathy is not what we want but love ... We want true love without reason without names .. It is simply love ...It is a relationship behind language and behind the mind .. I experienced this kind of friends .. but nothing remains ... all those beautiful feelings are gone ... because the friends are gone .. unfortunately they died .. Do you know what it means for all of your friends to die? After them, you will not find anyone who shares pure love or true friendship ... all I can say, my dear ... I give you my hand without any reason ... Let us share our unity with everyone and be one ... All the love for you and for all
I can definitely understand this. I’m into health and wellness and I workout regularly. And I’m more on the introverted side. I get lonely and I feel sad sometimes because it seems like most females have friends or a group of friends and I really don’t. I’m going to school for nursing and planning on moving to a city because I thought the problem was that I live rural and don’t meet many people. But idk. Life can be lonely, I also don’t have good relationships with my family, so all I really have is my boyfriend.
No friends here either but somehow when I'm alone, I don't feel alone, I'm actually ok with it. Maybe once in a while I'm like "it would be cool to share this with someone" but then I get exhausted with the thought of having to do stuff every single weekend. I'm a guy that needs lots of rest, like lots. I like this introvert saying "alone but together". I don't mind someone around me as long as they are doing their own thing.
I bet you know the feeling of wanting to go out and socialize more but when you actually do, you realize very quickly that you're not having fun, and that you'd much rather be at home right now because people bore you and you can't connect... I think ut's important to acknowledge that socializing and having friends does not equal more joy or happiness! There are so many people trapped in toxic friendships that pull them down emotionally, and still they hold on to them... everything has ups and downs... maybe we have to choose the lesser of the two evils - which ever that may be individually
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/ May God bless you.
i relate completely. it's sad sometimes and but other times it's numbing. it would be nice to have a close friend group that would feel the same towards you and it's not once sided
Emily, I have tears in my eyes watching your video... Most " friends " that I have met are only interested in me if I can do something for them. Financial favors, you name it... You are a wonderful person, you have a great personality, and I can only hope to be as wonderful as you
I'm 36 and while I'm comfortable with myself, I'm uncomfortable around others and I'd like to develop friendships with others, I'm uncertain about how to move past being an acquaintance, co-worker, etc.
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/
Can't believe that you have no friends, but for my side sending love for you I am 21years old who have no friends ,no girlfriend, feel ugly always compare myself to others feel unactravetive. ☹️☹️ . Life is very alonly
I can relate...been friendless for awhile. Seems like the whole "calling a girlfriend" with a problem...you listen to my problem, I'll listen to yours, has gone out the window years ago in society, not sure why... You see how many are on TH-cam looking for advice & connection, right? Makes you think you're really not alone.
I used to love having a good friend to call and discus what ever with, seems like no one wants to talk on the phone anymore let alone meet up for coffee or walks. Its so hard to be so alone now that I'm older and don't even have any family. I didn't mind the pandemic as much as some because I'm so used to being alone.
Now I am feeling very lonely too. Since Covid my social life has been worse. Before Covid I had a decent social life. I miss those days before this pandemic. I always struggled with loneliness but the last 2 years it's been rough. This women is attractive and good looking and now I realize that even pretty women can struggle with loneliness. I feel for this women because I feel the same way.
Wow , this is exactly what I’m going through from beginning to end . 😔 well I’m here for you ❤️. You’ve gained a friend just cool that someone goes through the exact same thing I go through in my daily life
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/
I can relate to a lot of the things she was talking about. When I was a kid, I was in a big friend group. We did almost everything together. But we drifted apart as we got older, mainly because of how different I was compared to them. Middle school and high school made me feel like I was stuck on an inhabited island. But I had ways to comfort myself and help push through. Eventually when I became old enough, I started confronting these demons and really began to work on myself more. I can say that I’ve come far, I’m still an introvert and everything, but I’m getting better at being social with others. Now I don’t have a “best friend.” But I do have some good friends/companions that I talk to on a daily basis.
I'm a private person., a lone wolf as they say. Friends want in and I simply rather not. People don't understand this about me. I can go to their house, hang out, whatever, but if they want me to extend the same comfort I simply can't do it. My home is my safe haven, a private oasis, a relief from the crazy world and the people in it. I learned that people need people but I just want acquaintances yet people can't understand that. The question is, do I want to cash in my private life to have friends??? The answer is no. People are too much work, they take too much of my time, they are always in need. They can be mean, untrustworthy, judgemental, cliquey, I simply don't care to give the effort it takes to sort through as in the end, I'm never happy with the final product. It would be great if I could have a few acquaintances, though.
I’ve never had any real friends either and I’m just relizing that the ppl who I thought were my friends they really don’t even care about me they’ll talk to me cuz I’m there but they won’t go out of their way to talk to me similar to your experience and I still talk to them because I’m so desperate and it just eats me up inside I need to stop and realize when I leave they won’t care
@@arunsrinidhy1434 yea man I’ve left that toxic “friend” group and recently haven’t been feeling to bad at first it was difficult being alone but now I can handle it, I’ve just been trying to focus on myself wit things like working out, and making videos. Sometimes I still get sad that I have no one to play games wit but not as sad as before. I just want to let you know if you going through the same thing or anyone else, don’t rush friend ships, the goal in a healthy friendship is to feel equal is to feel like your putting in what your giving, you don’t gotta be hard to get but yea I think that’s a good way to think about it
@@malikbrw4806 yes I have learnt to cope the same way as you. By focusing more on myself and engaging in activities by myself. Now I'm feeling a little better ! Thanks bro 😄👍🏻
I really have no friends either. I’m 22, and all my friends have disappeared. I have a best friend but we don’t talk that much + at least she has a boyfriend to talk to. I had a group of Internet friends for 2 years and now we all don’t talk to each other anymore which is sad. So yup, all I have is music, food, and video games.
I was ignorant to think women don’t think this way or even worry about this. I just never considered it a possibility. Friendships and peoples expectations of them are very different person to person. I just avoid getting too attached or too obsessive? Passionate? I can’t think of the word. But this video was really spot on. So many great points.
Usually it's the genuine kind-hearted people that don't have many friends, that includes myself, I have 0 friends.. My "type" isn't cool I guess lol.. I'm happy being alone but you definitely get extremely depressed and lonely at times, at least I do.. Edit: I'll also take applications for anyone who would like to be friends lol......honestly
Thanks a lot for sharing all of this. It took a lot of courage but is also helping so many of us out here realize we're not completely alone. I wish we could all somehow become friends and support each other. I've been moving around a lot over the years and have zero close friends where I currently live. I think that this is the loneliest I've ever been in my whole life (and of course, the pandemic sure hasn't helped!) I try every day to love myself and be at peace with myself, but it sure is easy for my mind to be my own worst critic and enemy. I'm moving to a new town soon and am trying to put positive intentions out there to meet even one or two people who could eventually become closer friends that I can bare my soul to in due time. Sending love, comfort and light to everyone else who is feeling alone right now and in their lives in general.
I think having true friends is a blessing and having no friends is normal given that in this time and age people more than ever are competing for jobs, careers, partners, etc. Not to mention that people that you call your friends can have a negative influence on your choices, even if it isn't apparent to you just yet. These are harsh realities to live with, and yet social interaction is extremely important. We should think of hanging out or having friends to interact with as a way to keep ourselves connected to the world.
I text my friends and ignore my text or reply back, only several days after I texted them they may reply back. I have a family I support and take care of, a beautiful Gf and loving Daughter and all, but I still would like to go out and enjoy being with my friends like any normal Human being, with who I've been friends with since Childhood. Everything really changed after the Coronavirus. I live in a different Province than they do and because of border restrictions and social distancing, I haven't communicated or seen many of them for almost 2 years now. Depressing times, and since Covid, My social anxiety has gone up 10 folds, and Now feeling a lot more depressed than ever.
Ive always had a lot of friend's growing up. In elementary- high school i was honestly pretty popular. I was kind of known as the really nice and funny kid who was basically friends with everyone. i did gymnastics for 7 years, did band for 6 years, and i literally always had friends everywhere i went. college i guess is a different story. i do have an amazing group of friends but we don't really see/talk often. I only see one friend of that friend group regularly, he's my best friend, but i lowkey feel like they don;t want to see me anymore and is kind of tired of me. he's the only person i honestly hang out with, and it's scary because who am i going to hang out with now? i see another friend in that friend group occasionally but she has her own friends too, so we're not always hanging. Ive joined clubs in college and they were great and i made friends, but we don't keep in touch anymore bc i transferred. and then the friends i had in high school, even though we're all ride of die for each other, they also don't care about me? like everytime i speak they don;t give me a response, just a reaction. like im talking about a good day i had or a crazy experience, i dont get anything much out of it. we used to be super close, like we used to chat in there all the time. people still chat in their frequently, but for some reason everytime i open my mouth, the group goes silent. like i know they have nothing against me, it's just that i don't matter enough to get a response and start a conversation with. i deleted my groupchat app a couple minuyes ago and im going to keep it deleted bc i really cannot handle them anymore im tired. I'm friends with everyone in my nursing program. we're a small class of 12 people. you'd think we'd all be best friends right? we;;, we're all friends, but i wouldnt say we're super close. ya we talk everyday bc we're in school together, but that's it. i used to be super close with 2 of my classmates but they both dropped out. im in a friend group of 4 and ya we're all pretty close, we're not really friends outside of school. like i wouldnt ask to hang out with any of them individually hoenstly. maybe when we have class socials, yeah, but that's about it. im very different than everyone in my class too. like,,,,i dont have that feeling that im completely vibing with anyone? and it sucks bc school takes up all my time, like i cant really branch off and make new friends. It's just weird and i dont know what i did wrong. it just seems like no one really cares about me. no one wants to date me either, and i think im really cute?? tomorrow is halloween and i deleted like all of my social media apps bc im scared to get fomo. i made plans to see my best friend tomorrow, but like i said earlier idk if he even wants to hang out with me bc i have a feeling he'd rather be with other ppl more fun or just in a bigger group. why can't people be content with me? like just me? i just feel like im too much for people. or im not much at all? (sorry im just ranting and it feels good getting it out bc im emotional rn lmaoooo) thank you for this video!
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/
I know it's not a competition. But she still has it much better than me. In school I had 0 friends. Literally. ZERO. I was very bullied. I developed a mental disorder called selective mutism. I literally couldn't speak to people. There's no way out of it, so I was forced to try. I learned to talk but it was EXTREMELY difficult. I sounded quiet, stuttered a lot, and it almost sounded and felt like I was hoarse. I tried making friends. But all my life no one seemed to care about me. In college I got severely depressed and almost ended my life and tbh, if I didn't have my loving family at home, I would have done it long ago. My family cares a lot about me, they're all I got. My little brother and older cousin are like my best friends. We did everything together growing up and still do. But now in college I don't see them much and I'm alone. I made one good friend my first years of college but now we're at different colleges and I don't get to see him anymore. I still text him but that's it. Now my anxiety has gotten much better, but I still struggle. And I finally gave up. In college now I'm completely alone. No friends. No social life. It's always been that way and I guess it always will be because I don't care anymore. I give up, I don't think it's possible for me to change. Also, I've never had a girlfriend before. I was very bullied for my appearance and it's made me extremely self conscious. I was catfished a few times in high school. The closest I got was talking to a girl in her room but it was obvious she didn't care about a relationship so it didn't go anywhere. I think I might have given up on that too. I'll just stay single all my life I guess. Single and no friends. That's just my fate and I can't change it.
You took the words right out of my mouth. I'm the same age, enjoy the same things. Im not one to get together with someone and smoke or go drinking. I want to do yoga, go hiking, go to farmers markets, talk about books and old films. I moved to Maine right before covid hit and I've struggled to make deeper friendships. Back in September I felt so alone and isolated. I was struggling with anxiety and had nobody to reach out to. If I didn't contact people first, I'd go weeks without anyone even saying hi outside of work. Started feeling like if something happened to me nobody would even notice until my landlord came looking for rent. I started going to yoga classes any chance I get and I've found a sense of community there. At least now I feel seen and like I'm part of something bigger. I've been going skiing and hiking with some friends from yoga. But I still don't have anyone I'd invite to my house, call up on a whim to hang out, ask for help when I need it, tell my struggles to, and celebrate my private wins with. I hope I can build some deeper friendships from the acquaintances I've met so far but in the meantime it's really lonely.
Im 21 yrs old boy . Watching this video made me cry . I dont have any friends , in high school and university also i had some family problems , my father suck .. im trying to survive in this life :') . But i always keep my hope , i want get a happiness
Sorry to hear that. You are lucky to have a good bf, invest in him and your family. Believe me, most of times those best friends ruin your private life. So be grateful with what you have.
I feel this a lot.. especially when I see my other friends are always out partying with each other and such.. there have been nights where I would pray that I would die.
Girl I feel the same way! When I would work and have coworkers I would always see them talking and having good relationships even outside of work. But never me with any of those people that I talk to a lot. I feel like I’m a decent person I would always buy baby shower gifts make sure I was there, make dinners for people who are sick or having a problem, so many things. But anytime it’s my turn nothing like that happens for me. It just doesn’t make sense does it
I had plenty of best friends over my teenage and early twenty years and it was nothing but drama and stress and fighting and bitching. I never got lucky with just a girl friend or group that we could just be normal friends so I decided enough was enough. I have my boyfriend and family/cousins I’m close to and it’s all I need. I’ve been hurt too many times by “friends” to try again. I don’t think I feel lonely I definitely feel free though. But I have my days where I feel sad that I don’t have a group of girls I’m close with.
I have like 2 good friends, but we don't laugh much, I love them but I think we don't share the same sense of humor. I still love them. But I have only those 2 friends. I've lost all my friend groups. I used to have a small group of friends from school, and 2 groups of friends from university. Now I have none. I really wish I had a group of friends, specially one from school... those friends you know since forever and have a million memories with and can say you grew up with. I feel really bad about this and there's nothing I can do. I can't go back in time. And it's specially hard for me because my sister, who I live with, does. She has many group of friends, including one from school. So I'm reminded of this all the time. 😔
I feel u!! because I used to have the same lonely feeling even though I did have friends. But with time I found out that I also needed to open up to people to feel connected. Maybe it would be good for u to make a list of things that you like about yourself and why you are a person people want to hang out with. For me it was also helpful to lower my expectations of meeting new people. If it wasn’t the „perfect best friend“ as first sight, I wasn’t interested any more. But building a deep friendship takes much time, so give yourself and the other person that time! Wish you all the best 💖
Girl, I totally feel you. It really sucks. I'm in college and it's especially hard right now because all of my classes are online. I wish I had an established friend group/best friend
Mariah Keeler yes absolutely! I did a fully online college as well so I didn’t have the ability to make friends there either and I feel like with this coming school year a lot of people are going to experience that 😕 it definitely sucks.
May God bless you and be with you. I share this, is about Jesus. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. Where can one start reading the Bible? John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament) This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English jezus.simplesite.com/
Me too I have no friends. When I was 15 I moved countries and I am 20 now and still have no friends and my friends back home have moved on from me. So I have been completely alone but with that I have learned how to be my own bff and I love being alone in my own company now. I use to feel so alone but I know I am not the only one. We are strong to be alpha and lonewolf people❤️
I just watched a tiktok with a bunch of people ik that always excludes me, and now I can’t stop crying. I went from such a big friend group, to hardly any friends at all. :(( I guess this is my life now and nobody likes me 💔
@@joym4022 tuff. So basically this happens to a lot of ppl and I don’t think she’s trying to avoid you, she’s probably just exited she has a bf. ik it’s tough but it’s not like she’ll be with this guy forever. Wellll it’s unlikely! If she’s not making anytime for you tho, then let her know how u feel! If she doesn’t listen or whatever then she is probably a fake friend 🥱
I'm pretty sure most people feel like our partners are our best friends, but it's simply not enough. We NEED friends, we NEED people to care for and also count on when times are tough. I'm old, probably ancient as far as you're concerned at 58, but I'd be happy to be your friend and support. Sending you a huge, virtual hug.
I don't really have any friends and spend a lot of time alone. Sometimes it makes me feel sad and lonely, but when I do hang with people I realise why I don't have any 😂. I find humans hard work
Omg so true 😂
Same..👍👍
This is so true
True HSHAHHA
I(30) never had a friend in my life.
I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him.
I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family.
Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation.
Any Advice?
Read the comments, everyone. It helps knowing there's a bunch of others that feel the same way.
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
May God bless you.
Not really. Doesn't change a thing.
@@davidamrama it helps to know it’s not just you
I thought I was the only person who had this kind of situation. Comments section helps me a lot by knowing other people's emotion. I don't know who they are but I know how they feel. #StayStrong everyone!
@@charlieschurk Doesn't help in any way whatsoever.
I’m lonely too I feel like I unintentionally push people away..😞..not to mention it’s extremely hard to make friends especially when your an introvert,quiet and who looks unapproachable .. I’m just super sad idk why I usually get sad for no specific reason I guess I’m depressed or something wish I could feel better though and it’s crazy cause it’s billions of people on earth why can’t we all just find one person who meshes well enough to be close enough to us to be vulnerable and true
Yes, I relate to this comment so much!
Yea same boat
same here, i want friends but yet i push people away from me :(
@@buffycatnip same having no friends suck😭
Same here 😭😭
I'm 57 and I've been exactly like you all my life.
I've come to know that friends will always disappoint you at some point so better to be alone.
The problem is, where the heck do you find the right people?
That's true, its hard to meet people that you are interested in and enjoy hanging out with. Most people annoy me and the ones I like are usually involved with other people.
You could try meetups those are for people with similar interests. Lol I met a few people on there but I wouldn’t call them friends... people are very evil now a days
Well it depends on where you live. If you're into sports, try joining a sports league. I live in San Diego and I joined a dodgeball league and made friends that way.
At work. I found some people became really close at work
burning man community saved my life. look for desert parties and hippies
You’re not alone in being alone. Also it just makes others who feel the same way have much less of a sense of stigma surrounding them about this common thing
Yes! I think it’s important to know you’re not always as alone as you think.
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
May He fills you.
Hello.Being alone is more common then people realise.The older I get,the more I see this.I am 58.
I basically have no friends anymore. Most of them got married/ had kids or at least in a relationship and it’s just awkward trying to make plans with people who have their own lives going on. I used to not mind my own company but I’ve been getting lonely lately.
I can relate perfectly..are you also introverted?
Gosh! Can totally relate!
Just because they got married or have kids doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have friends. I’m still friends with people from high school and we all have kids/married and we still hang out.
@@hueso5071 I do hang out with them occasionally however I do not personally have kids or want any so for me it’s not as fun hangin out with several families while being the single one. Just different priorities and not to mention I just don’t relate to them as much since I don’t have my own family.
I can very much relate to this. It feels like at this age people are "supposed" to only have kids and spouses but not friends. While I still want and need friends and don't want kids...
At least you have a boyfriend who is there for you I cant even find that and I have no friends
i will be yur friend ;)
Yoir 16 you shouldnt have a lover
@Left Right
Can we be friends?? Do u have snap chat
Same
I(30) never had a friend in my life.
I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him.
I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family.
Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation.
Any Advice?
Why does everything needs to be so hard in my life?
When you said ride or die girlfriend. Hit me hard, haven't had that kind of friend in a long time. Makes me sad that after school friends end-up in different paths and loose connections.
Yes. Never had a ride or die friend.
"To love oneself is the beginning of a life long relationship". Oscar Wilde
Found this today, on Christmas Day… searching “I have no friends”. I’m 29 and am the same way. I tend to push people away through depression or acting out when I am triggered, I have PTSD. To everyone dealing with loneliness, I’m so sorry ❤ I don’t even have a boyfriend or any siblings. I just feel so alone.
Oh dear at 18 and in my early 20s I was so isolated. This isn't uncommon. In time, with a little effort you'll make some good friends and 1 will become your best friend.
That's what they all say
@@keithnayo4582 Because it's true.
@@lightinthedusk Facts!!
@@lightinthedusk Sounds like alot of projection. So what would you tell this woman. Give up and be sad?
40 here and it's hard to find a friend that's worth a crap nowadays
Hmmm...
Exactly.
I've been told I'm unapproachable because I'm too deep. To me, that's stating that I'm not shallow. I take that as a compliment. Unfortunately people do not take the time to consider that having depth also means you have compassion and empathy. Those who refuse to make an effort to understand and know you are those who remain committed to conforming to a superficial society. I consider myself a person who is willing to stand in your corner , but you have to be willing to let me in the door first. I'll knock but I'm more than willing to keep going if it's locked.
That's exactly how I feel too, I'm a very talkative person and love making connections but people are to shallow or can't even hold a 1 minute conversation both in real life and text. Sometimes it made me feel quite depressed but nowadays I just brush it off. It's actually better to not deal with people like which funnily there's a lot, I just do my thing, practice some mindfulness and keep moving forward. Interestingly enough those people who I have come across are not advancing much in their life though they want to keep showing they have a the insta perfect type of life but in reality is not perfect.
@@jeshuarestituyo284 yes...having a meaningful conversation with people is challenging. Social media (Facebook in particular) is very antisocial. I really try to post things that will get communication or conversation going, or if you are on my friends list...I love to comment on your posts or show some interest. However, that is never reciprocated by others. It gets tough, at times lonely but I have to remember that I cannot be the one making all the effort. It gets tiring....so I definitely feel where you are coming from.
I feel very similar to this
There is nothing wrong with that because some people are born deep and super sensitive. It is the non confirmist and outliers that take the society forward and not the majority of the confirming masses. Everyone has a role to play in the scheme of nature. Nature does not confer its best qualities without exacting a price. In the general the price for being different is lonliness and sometimes it can be hard because a human being is a social animal. At the end of the day we have to be ourselves to be comfortable.
It’s crazy how relatable this is
CRAZY
Hope everyone here finds or have found their soul tribe. Us empaths are loners, but there's always a higher purpose for that.
Haven't found my tribe, I don't believe i belong in any. I'm the black sheep of my family also.
"Soul Tribe" I love that! Gonna use it.
I’m the opposite of an empath. When people get emotional I don’t care and leave them cause they’re so damn annoying. The closest thing I ever had to friends was a group of kids I’d sit with at lunch during high school and primary school but I never talked to them. I never even sat with anyone at college though. I tried to make friends in freshman year but it didn’t work out. I was way too awkward. I resent humanity now and don’t want friends anymore because I hate people in general yet I am desperate for connection. I originally wanted to become an engineer because I wanted to save the world with designing green energy technologies. Now I realize the world isn’t worth saving. If the entire world was uninhabitable in 100 years I could care less. I’m just going to follow the money.
@@BimmerWon Wow that's sad...But yea I agree with the last part, follow money!
Same for me. I literally have 0 friends. Not even a boyfriend. It’s really embarrassing sometimes when my parents are like “why don’t you hang out with ____?”
Like I have no friends who am I supposed to hang out with? I have a few acquaintances that I see like twice a year.
A lot of the friends I used to have also got married, had kids and that changes A LOT because they rarely have time and if they have time for you it always has to be planned, there’s a time limit and the kids are there as well. You can’t just spontaneously do something with that person anymore which sucks.
I feel very very lonely most of the time and cry myself to sleep like 5 times a week because I have nobody to talk to or do things with. It’s been like this for so many years I don’t even know what it’s like to have friends or hang out with others.
The holidays and New Year’s Eve are especially hard for me because that’s when you’re supposed to hang out with friends and go to parties and stuff like that.
I even lied about it to my therapist. She asked me if I have a support system, if I have any friends and I said yes because I was too embarrassed to admit that I literally spend all my time alone and never speak to anyone.
I have also been really suicidal because of this and genuinely don’t really see a reason to keep on living if I don’t have anyone.
I know this is a long comment but I just had to get this off my chest lol sorry
How old are you?? I feel very similar to you, I’m turning 28 soon and really freaking out about being this old not having experienced so many things that most people my age have, like hanging out with friends, having romantic partners (i mean even if they don’t work out, just having the life experience that comes with these relationships are important for you I feel) and even living alone..I’m not even motivated enough to move out on my own, firstly my parents don’t care since I do work and help out and in our culture it’s usually common to have generations in a single home..and I also would have NO ONE AT ALL if I left my family since I have no friends of girlfriend that would come visit me...I feel in a rut and don’t know when things will start turning for me, it’s so hard to make friends when you have absolutely zero connections and the only time you leave the house is to work, shop, go to parks or trails with family. The only friend I was still in contact with from way back in high school has now ignored me since last year (he has his own life going on) and the only women I have been able to date (like 3 my whole life) all get disinterested once they find out how im a recluse and have no friends.. yeah its rough.
You should open up to your therapist, don’t pretend to be fine. Everyone goes through different stages in life... fulfillment comes from yourself not from other people.Make your own life, then you can extend your life to others.
How you doing now?
Exactly same condition with me dear, I cry a lot inside and dont want to live, from India
@@mohitgupta840 you are worth it man. Don't feel hopeless.
I just lost my two closest friends so It's all lonely here. I can feel you girl.
Same
May God bless you.
John 11: 25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me will live even if he dies, 26 and everyone who lives and believes in Me will never die. Do you believe this?” 27 She *said to Him, “Yes, Lord; I have believed that You are the Christ, the Son of God, even He who comes into the world.”
Jesus: John 14: 21 He who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Me too
Me too 🥺
❤️
I’m 20 and I totally felt this. Thank you for sharing because this did help me feel less alone:’) You are so brave for being this vulnerable. You seem like you have an amazing personality, you understand yourself, and you’re motivated and also super beautiful! You got this girl, I know things will get better for you❤️
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
I've been feeling the same. I don't know if it's becoz of quarantine or something. I'm an introvert too. I feel like I'm bothering people too.
I been losin' friends and findin' peace
But honestly that sound like a fair trade to me - Drake
I am alone but ain't lonely... Having no friends should not mean you should be automatically labelled as depressed, miserable or boring. You can have friends and still find your self unhappy. I don't personally don't mind being alone because it honestly brings peace of mind and joy to me whether you choose to believe me or not, but still I speak the truth... I've given up on making new friends because it only brought stress and anxiety in my life. I've reached the stage in my life where I don't mind being a HERMIT or becoming of a HERMIT one day. I might get judged and people might feel sympathy for me, but I don't care because I know I am a happy person who just wants to be alone.
I felt this video so so much. I haven’t had a best friend in years, and no one ever asks me to hang out. So many days I wish I had that one girl friend to do everything with. Coffee, shopping, yoga, walks, talks, everything. I get so jealous of those who have that bond with someone. I totally get what you mean by if you reach out you feel like you’re bothering them, it’s part of the reason why I don’t make much effort anymore and I feel like everyone already has their ‘circle’ if you know what I mean. You really seem like someone I would click with on many levels 🤍 thanks for putting this video out and sharing with us. It’s nice to know we’re not alone feeling this way
I am 31 now. I find it difficult to find true friends. I tried to connect with people even schoolmates but they tend to be envious and likes to make unnecessary drama and gossip... i hate having to even hear them badmouthing each other, etc. People who have real friends that are supportive are lucky. But when i turned 29, i learned to detach myself from people. I only try to talk to them when they talk to me. I rarely go on socialmedia also so I don’t have to be obligated to like their posts since i have some friends or acquaintances who expect you to like their photos on ig just because they saw you online or it will be drama. Yes, that pathetic like highschool kids...😕 i love my dog, my own company, my family and my bf. I still consider a few people my friends but not close friends that i can trust much and talk in a deeper level. Many people are toxic and their presence is exhausting. So im glad to know that i am not the only one who feels this way.
I feel exactly the same way about people in general, they don't know how to act like mature people and it just bothers me. I am also very lucky to have found a pair of really good friends in school despite this, and my family has always been there for me when I needed them the most. But it's always been a struggle for me to get out into groups and socialize, everyone just seems to become something else than themselves and it is bothering and sad at the same time. I just hope one day I meet a group of people that are just like me. Like they say in my country: "The one who searches, finds".
Sending you hugs girlie. I feel you. I honestly blame myself for this.
Same, I also always blaming myself.
Same
I(30) never had a friend in my life.
I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him.
I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family.
Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation.
Any Advice?
@@ashironikko5860 I(30) never had a friend in my life.
I always was mocked in my life, that I never made a friend. I was always interested in other people, but they didnt care. I even bought a birthday present for a person, I thought was my friend. He said, I should stop contacting him.
I also never experienced Love. Every Girl rejected me. No hug, no kiss, no own family.
Beside that I work in a dead end job. I always do overhours to meet end needs. But thats mostly not enough. I need to turn to alcohol or other drugs to deal with daily stress of poverty and social isolation.
Any Advice?
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 hey dear dont turn to drugs it wont help at all just focus on the things thats in ur life right now like work or anything and if u wanna talk am here
I had a best friend for years. Then she married a horrid little shit. She allowed him to brain wash her. She started saying racist things that I never knew she felt. So I decided to find a new friend. Yes it takes time. It can be done. Just volunteer or join a club, be gracious and not a gossip. A friendship will grow. It did for me.
You have helped many people by talking about this. The society tends to stigmatize the power of solitude instead of praising people who are strong and independent enough to be on their own. I always say when you gain that power to enjoy your own company and do stuff on your own, it is such a stable state. It’s lovely to have a close friend but it’s hard to find them. I have formed many friendships to find out down the way the “friends” wanted something. It’s like many people don’t know the value of friendship because their own goal in life is having a family. Having a family is great but there are so many other aspects in life. Thanks again for this great video.
When you showed up in group chat, and everyone start stop chatting and suddenly the admin kick you out :')
Totally getcha.
Yea I hear you.I just exit unless it's a work or study related group which I don't have a choice but to be in and mostly prefer to be a silent listener unless it's absolutely necessary to chat.
Yes😔
Sad.I feel you.
I’m only just seeing this video now, but I wanted to thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Know that you are absolutely NOT alone in feeling this way. I wish that all of us lonely people could meet and be friends ❤️
Beautiful lady, You shared deeply intelligently, no rambling at all; and helped soooo many of us who feel the same...I mostly chose not good friends; and now keep primarily to myself, and am okay with it...Having friends is almost a construct, and certainly overrated, more trouble than it's worth. I've learned to be my own best friend. No beau for several years now
All relatable! I also don’t have friends & I am used to it. I do miss the company of others who can deeply relate with me, but superficial connections just don’t hold interest. I was social & socialized growing up. Take care, people 💗 this world has grown a bit lonely for lots of us.
When I think abt having no friends I cry I’m the type of person that need friends to stay happy but I’m so shy and I’m not a likable person I don’t know why I’m not mean 😐
I completely understand how you feel, if you want I can be your friend
I needed this. I’m in an awful situation with my partner, he is very controlling and cold/shut off. I can’t drive, no socials, I don’t even remember the last time I’ve been anywhere alone. I don’t leave the house, at all, for that matter. Definitely no friends or family, I don’t have parents. I’m alone all day and lately I’ve been struggling with it, bad. I’m so alone, I have my dog and me. It’s hard, I cry a lot and it’s become so bad I find myself just staring at walls for blocks of time or literally walking in circles for no reason. I just started your video but thank you for sharing this. It’s not easy being so alone. 😔
*edit* I just got to the part About your dog and that I can relate to! My lucky is my world💙
I can relate 100%. I give you credit for being brave and sharing such private thoughts about yourself. I hope that good quality people gravitate to you. It’s true doing things alone is fine but there’s times that you want a buddy to go on an adventure. I have a baseball glove and a softball 🥎 on my home office it’s been there collecting dust for years. I don’t have anyone I can even call to go throw a ball around at the park. Every time I walk past the glove I’m reminded of that fact. Some days it hurts me more than others.
I realized recently that I don't have any friends or a best friend either. I have some aquaintences in my life.
My husband has alot of friends and he spends hours everyday talking on the phone to different people. I have no one to call and no one calls me.
Wow I really needed to hear this. It’s so easy for someone to say “go out and do stuff” or “go and meet people” but it’s like where? I am your age as well and it’s harder I feel to find people to hang with because as you said most people already have that “good friend” and you don’t want to be a bother. I feel that 100% and not only has it messed with my confidence but my anxiety has somehow gone up too because of it. You are not alone
Lmaoooo I thought I was crazy. I had friends growing up but when I got older I realized they weren’t my friends really. There were more so “homies”. I can’t really break bread with them, ask to burrow or talk on the phone regularly. Some of them I had to cut of for my sanity, people be disrespecting or hitting you up when it’s convenient for you. Hey that’s life I guess, I’m figuring this out. I feel satisfied knowing others are like me. And Emily your pretty you gotta understand some females gonna be intimidated lol. Completely understand this video tho.
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
Gurllll friend
Your not alone 💫
I'm exactly like you!
I relate with you 100%
I'm an introvert as well
most of The time I'm ok...
Every thing your saying
It's like looking in the mirror!
Appreciate you opening up 💞
Your a very strong person
Stay positive and grounded
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Wow, this is so relatable from start to end. I literally felt like I was looking at myself. I turned 23 this year, but I couldn't shake off the thought that I lived a solidly wrong life because I didn't have a single friend to open up to. My problem is that even if I meet new people, I can't get rid of that invisible imaginary wall that I built to protect myself and no matter how I get close to people I can't maintain that relationship. I try to use that stress as the driving force for self-development but I'm still lonely as hell. I wish i could be mature as you but i guess it's too hard for me. We've never met and haven't talked, but I feel like I made a friend just like me. Thank you for uploading this video it's good to know someone feels the same way. You'r beautiful just the way you are!!
Trust me it’s a global problem and it’s seems that no one has a solution for it, even great people, who had done incredible things to make humans life better, were going through the same problem. Its a price that we need to live with but it’s also a gift to do better things. Just remember that what ever you are looking, its also looking for you. And I truly admire your courage to post this video regardless of how other people may think. I wish you all the best and we are all in this together.
Wow, I relate to this so much. I have been trying to be really self reflective and make changes to be more approachable and be a better friend, but I feel like I always end up disappointed or lacking connection. Thanks for sharing this.
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
Hey Emily, I'm almost 38 (Feb. 21st) and I don't have any friends. I'm always alone where I go, every morning when I'm at the Coffee Shop I look around and all I see is people looking into their phones even if they have people around them. Sometimes I feel sad and lonely and that's why I don't go out much. I can't have a job because I suffer from depression and social anxiety since 2014. I wish you well.
This could be a symptom of our society, fickle interactions, instagram life etc. It can also be worse in some cities, atleast before lock down south africans and australians are so much friendlier than north americans.
CURRENTLY FEELING THIS WAY . I SENT MY BOYFRIEND A LONG TEXT HOW I WANT TO BE ALONE FOR A LITTLE WHILE BC I FEEL SO EXHAUSTED 😩 ... MY BOYFRIEND IS ALWAYS HERE FOR SUPPORT THOUGH IM GLAD HE UNDERSTANDS WHAT IM GOING THROUGH ❤️❤️ ❤️ . HE’S SO SWEET TO ME AND I REALLY APPRECIATE HIM FOR EVERYTHING 💯🙏🏾
I've spent my entire life putting the people i loved first...family, friends, romantic partners.
Every single time, every single person used me, and played with me.
I'm done, I'm just done. I rather be alone.
It's the sad reality! I've struggled to make a sincere connection, especially when they start comparing their lives to mine or critizing the way I live. I feel you girl. I had many best friends growing up but they have all done me wrong.
I think a person's level of self love is so key to relationships with others. Have not mastered this at all. You don't seem like there is any reason why you should not have friends. You are perfectly sweet and charming. Thanks for sharing this. I am so grateful that you and many others are sharing your struggles to show the rest of us that we are normal. I can relate to feeling like I don't want to bother anyone with my looking for company.
I really appreciate this video, it takes a lot of courage to talk openly about this. I'm in the same situation and it really helps to know other people struggle with this. Thank you.
Hello Emily, this is the first video I watched of your channel and that is because I actually searched on yourtube "I have no friends" and your video came up. Even though it is an old video in your channel I decided to leave my comment because I can relate so much with what you said.
I think you are very brave and bold of you to film this video and put out there.
I personally have a boyfriend who is my best friend but it is not the same as having a girlfriend. I have some friends like you describe, I m very thankful too to have them and I think they are awesome, but as you said they already have their "ride or die". So that feeling of not want to bother and text them first and ask them how they've been or ask them to go out, I have it too. I am actually 25 too and even though I live in Greece I can relate to the feeling you've described pretty well, as I also have reaserced and became part of social groups. Plus, now in this difficult times of covid-19 I am far away from my family (cause I work in another city than that, that I was born) and it gets much worse. I guess I m trying to say that this video hit right through my ❤️.
I hope you are staying healthy and safe. Thank you for being so honest we need people like you who present their truth.
Huge thing is trusting a friend. Seen many that try to use you for there own purpose convincing you that there your best friend. Then when the time comes that they get nothing out of it there gone.
How beautiful this talk without any reason ... Talking about loneliness and friends ...It is one of the most difficult feelings that a person can express ...Certainly we need to share unity with true friends ... Sympathy is not what we want but love ... We want true love without reason without names .. It is simply love ...It is a relationship behind language and behind the mind .. I experienced this kind of friends .. but nothing remains ... all those beautiful feelings are gone ... because the friends are gone .. unfortunately they died .. Do you know what it means for all of your friends to die? After them, you will not find anyone who shares pure love or true friendship ...
all I can say, my dear ... I give you my hand without any reason ... Let us share our unity with everyone and be one ...
All the love for you and for all
I can definitely understand this. I’m into health and wellness and I workout regularly. And I’m more on the introverted side. I get lonely and I feel sad sometimes because it seems like most females have friends or a group of friends and I really don’t. I’m going to school for nursing and planning on moving to a city because I thought the problem was that I live rural and don’t meet many people. But idk. Life can be lonely, I also don’t have good relationships with my family, so all I really have is my boyfriend.
To anyone reading this who doesn't have any friends, you will be ok coz ur watched over by spirit and im sending you big hugs god bless you all 💚🕉️🙏
No friends here either but somehow when I'm alone, I don't feel alone, I'm actually ok with it. Maybe once in a while I'm like "it would be cool to share this with someone" but then I get exhausted with the thought of having to do stuff every single weekend. I'm a guy that needs lots of rest, like lots. I like this introvert saying "alone but together". I don't mind someone around me as long as they are doing their own thing.
I bet you know the feeling of wanting to go out and socialize more but when you actually do, you realize very quickly that you're not having fun, and that you'd much rather be at home right now because people bore you and you can't connect... I think ut's important to acknowledge that socializing and having friends does not equal more joy or happiness! There are so many people trapped in toxic friendships that pull them down emotionally, and still they hold on to them... everything has ups and downs... maybe we have to choose the lesser of the two evils - which ever that may be individually
Me too. Im already 29yrs old
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
May God bless you.
Same! May we be blessed with the best of friends, InshaaAllah.
i relate completely. it's sad sometimes and but other times it's numbing. it would be nice to have a close friend group that would feel the same towards you and it's not once sided
Emily, I have tears in my eyes watching your video... Most " friends " that I have met are only interested in me if I can do something for them. Financial favors, you name it... You are a wonderful person, you have a great personality, and I can only hope to be as wonderful as you
It's crazy how apart from your schooling and job field, I have these exact thoughts and feelings regarding friends. Literally
I'm 36 and while I'm comfortable with myself, I'm uncomfortable around others and I'd like to develop friendships with others, I'm uncertain about how to move past being an acquaintance, co-worker, etc.
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
Can't believe that you have no friends, but for my side sending love for you I am 21years old who have no friends ,no girlfriend, feel ugly always compare myself to others feel unactravetive. ☹️☹️ . Life is very alonly
I hope you found a good friend with bestie vibes!!
I can relate...been friendless for awhile. Seems like the whole "calling a girlfriend" with a problem...you listen to my problem, I'll listen to yours, has gone out the window years ago in society, not sure why... You see how many are on TH-cam looking for advice & connection, right? Makes you think you're really not alone.
I used to love having a good friend to call and discus what ever with, seems like no one wants to talk on the phone anymore let alone meet up for coffee or walks. Its so hard to be so alone now that I'm older and don't even have any family. I didn't mind the pandemic as much as some because I'm so used to being alone.
I feel so anxious when people come to me i'm so insecure too.
The older you get, the harder it is to make connection with others.
Being lonely isn’t a bad thing. I know the feeling. Friendships aren’t what it used to be anymore.
Now I am feeling very lonely too. Since Covid my social life has been worse. Before Covid I had a decent social life. I miss those days before this pandemic. I always struggled with loneliness but the last 2 years it's been rough. This women is attractive and good looking and now I realize that even pretty women can struggle with loneliness. I feel for this women because I feel the same way.
Wow , this is exactly what I’m going through from beginning to end . 😔 well I’m here for you ❤️. You’ve gained a friend just cool that someone goes through the exact same thing I go through in my daily life
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
what's up girl. Do you have a fb?
I can relate to a lot of the things she was talking about. When I was a kid, I was in a big friend group. We did almost everything together. But we drifted apart as we got older, mainly because of how different I was compared to them. Middle school and high school made me feel like I was stuck on an inhabited island. But I had ways to comfort myself and help push through. Eventually when I became old enough, I started confronting these demons and really began to work on myself more. I can say that I’ve come far, I’m still an introvert and everything, but I’m getting better at being social with others. Now I don’t have a “best friend.” But I do have some good friends/companions that I talk to on a daily basis.
I'm a private person., a lone wolf as they say. Friends want in and I simply rather not. People don't understand this about me. I can go to their house, hang out, whatever, but if they want me to extend the same comfort I simply can't do it. My home is my safe haven, a private oasis, a relief from the crazy world and the people in it. I learned that people need people but I just want acquaintances yet people can't understand that. The question is, do I want to cash in my private life to have friends??? The answer is no. People are too much work, they take too much of my time, they are always in need. They can be mean, untrustworthy, judgemental, cliquey, I simply don't care to give the effort it takes to sort through as in the end, I'm never happy with the final product. It would be great if I could have a few acquaintances, though.
I’ve never had any real friends either and I’m just relizing that the ppl who I thought were my friends they really don’t even care about me they’ll talk to me cuz I’m there but they won’t go out of their way to talk to me similar to your experience and I still talk to them because I’m so desperate and it just eats me up inside I need to stop and realize when I leave they won’t care
I feel you 100% ...stay strong
@@arunsrinidhy1434 yea man I’ve left that toxic “friend” group and recently haven’t been feeling to bad at first it was difficult being alone but now I can handle it, I’ve just been trying to focus on myself wit things like working out, and making videos. Sometimes I still get sad that I have no one to play games wit but not as sad as before. I just want to let you know if you going through the same thing or anyone else, don’t rush friend ships, the goal in a healthy friendship is to feel equal is to feel like your putting in what your giving, you don’t gotta be hard to get but yea I think that’s a good way to think about it
@@malikbrw4806 yes I have learnt to cope the same way as you. By focusing more on myself and engaging in activities by myself. Now I'm feeling a little better ! Thanks bro 😄👍🏻
I really have no friends either. I’m 22, and all my friends have disappeared. I have a best friend but we don’t talk that much + at least she has a boyfriend to talk to. I had a group of Internet friends for 2 years and now we all don’t talk to each other anymore which is sad. So yup, all I have is music, food, and video games.
Fariah Newton let me give you a hug 🥺
I’ve always wanted this as well. But it’s also making sure you have the right people around you. I’ve always wanted a really close friend as well
I was ignorant to think women don’t think this way or even worry about this. I just never considered it a possibility. Friendships and peoples expectations of them are very different person to person. I just avoid getting too attached or too obsessive? Passionate? I can’t think of the word. But this video was really spot on. So many great points.
Usually it's the genuine kind-hearted people that don't have many friends, that includes myself, I have 0 friends.. My "type" isn't cool I guess lol.. I'm happy being alone but you definitely get extremely depressed and lonely at times, at least I do..
Edit: I'll also take applications for anyone who would like to be friends lol......honestly
@@lightinthedusk You nailed it!!
Thanks a lot for sharing all of this. It took a lot of courage but is also helping so many of us out here realize we're not completely alone. I wish we could all somehow become friends and support each other. I've been moving around a lot over the years and have zero close friends where I currently live. I think that this is the loneliest I've ever been in my whole life (and of course, the pandemic sure hasn't helped!) I try every day to love myself and be at peace with myself, but it sure is easy for my mind to be my own worst critic and enemy. I'm moving to a new town soon and am trying to put positive intentions out there to meet even one or two people who could eventually become closer friends that I can bare my soul to in due time. Sending love, comfort and light to everyone else who is feeling alone right now and in their lives in general.
I think having true friends is a blessing and having no friends is normal given that in this time and age people more than ever are competing for jobs, careers, partners, etc. Not to mention that people that you call your friends can have a negative influence on your choices, even if it isn't apparent to you just yet. These are harsh realities to live with, and yet social interaction is extremely important. We should think of hanging out or having friends to interact with as a way to keep ourselves connected to the world.
I text my friends and ignore my text or reply back, only several days after I texted them they may reply back. I have a family I support and take care of, a beautiful Gf and loving Daughter and all, but I still would like to go out and enjoy being with my friends like any normal Human being, with who I've been friends with since Childhood. Everything really changed after the Coronavirus. I live in a different Province than they do and because of border restrictions and social distancing, I haven't communicated or seen many of them for almost 2 years now. Depressing times, and since Covid, My social anxiety has gone up 10 folds, and Now feeling a lot more depressed than ever.
Ive always had a lot of friend's growing up. In elementary- high school i was honestly pretty popular. I was kind of known as the really nice and funny kid who was basically friends with everyone. i did gymnastics for 7 years, did band for 6 years, and i literally always had friends everywhere i went.
college i guess is a different story. i do have an amazing group of friends but we don't really see/talk often. I only see one friend of that friend group regularly, he's my best friend, but i lowkey feel like they don;t want to see me anymore and is kind of tired of me. he's the only person i honestly hang out with, and it's scary because who am i going to hang out with now? i see another friend in that friend group occasionally but she has her own friends too, so we're not always hanging.
Ive joined clubs in college and they were great and i made friends, but we don't keep in touch anymore bc i transferred. and then the friends i had in high school, even though we're all ride of die for each other, they also don't care about me? like everytime i speak they don;t give me a response, just a reaction. like im talking about a good day i had or a crazy experience, i dont get anything much out of it. we used to be super close, like we used to chat in there all the time. people still chat in their frequently, but for some reason everytime i open my mouth, the group goes silent. like i know they have nothing against me, it's just that i don't matter enough to get a response and start a conversation with. i deleted my groupchat app a couple minuyes ago and im going to keep it deleted bc i really cannot handle them anymore im tired.
I'm friends with everyone in my nursing program. we're a small class of 12 people. you'd think we'd all be best friends right? we;;, we're all friends, but i wouldnt say we're super close. ya we talk everyday bc we're in school together, but that's it. i used to be super close with 2 of my classmates but they both dropped out. im in a friend group of 4 and ya we're all pretty close, we're not really friends outside of school. like i wouldnt ask to hang out with any of them individually hoenstly. maybe when we have class socials, yeah, but that's about it. im very different than everyone in my class too. like,,,,i dont have that feeling that im completely vibing with anyone? and it sucks bc school takes up all my time, like i cant really branch off and make new friends.
It's just weird and i dont know what i did wrong. it just seems like no one really cares about me. no one wants to date me either, and i think im really cute?? tomorrow is halloween and i deleted like all of my social media apps bc im scared to get fomo. i made plans to see my best friend tomorrow, but like i said earlier idk if he even wants to hang out with me bc i have a feeling he'd rather be with other ppl more fun or just in a bigger group.
why can't people be content with me? like just me?
i just feel like im too much for people. or im not much at all?
(sorry im just ranting and it feels good getting it out bc im emotional rn lmaoooo) thank you for this video!
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
I felt this I’ve not just got no friends I’m 23 in my own flat all day every day I have no family either 🙃
Oh, don't be sad please❤️❤️
I know it's not a competition. But she still has it much better than me. In school I had 0 friends. Literally. ZERO. I was very bullied. I developed a mental disorder called selective mutism. I literally couldn't speak to people. There's no way out of it, so I was forced to try. I learned to talk but it was EXTREMELY difficult. I sounded quiet, stuttered a lot, and it almost sounded and felt like I was hoarse. I tried making friends. But all my life no one seemed to care about me. In college I got severely depressed and almost ended my life and tbh, if I didn't have my loving family at home, I would have done it long ago. My family cares a lot about me, they're all I got. My little brother and older cousin are like my best friends. We did everything together growing up and still do. But now in college I don't see them much and I'm alone. I made one good friend my first years of college but now we're at different colleges and I don't get to see him anymore. I still text him but that's it. Now my anxiety has gotten much better, but I still struggle. And I finally gave up. In college now I'm completely alone. No friends. No social life. It's always been that way and I guess it always will be because I don't care anymore. I give up, I don't think it's possible for me to change. Also, I've never had a girlfriend before. I was very bullied for my appearance and it's made me extremely self conscious. I was catfished a few times in high school. The closest I got was talking to a girl in her room but it was obvious she didn't care about a relationship so it didn't go anywhere. I think I might have given up on that too. I'll just stay single all my life I guess. Single and no friends. That's just my fate and I can't change it.
You took the words right out of my mouth. I'm the same age, enjoy the same things. Im not one to get together with someone and smoke or go drinking. I want to do yoga, go hiking, go to farmers markets, talk about books and old films. I moved to Maine right before covid hit and I've struggled to make deeper friendships. Back in September I felt so alone and isolated. I was struggling with anxiety and had nobody to reach out to. If I didn't contact people first, I'd go weeks without anyone even saying hi outside of work. Started feeling like if something happened to me nobody would even notice until my landlord came looking for rent. I started going to yoga classes any chance I get and I've found a sense of community there. At least now I feel seen and like I'm part of something bigger. I've been going skiing and hiking with some friends from yoga. But I still don't have anyone I'd invite to my house, call up on a whim to hang out, ask for help when I need it, tell my struggles to, and celebrate my private wins with. I hope I can build some deeper friendships from the acquaintances I've met so far but in the meantime it's really lonely.
I relate to every word you have just said even down to my dog is my best friend. If I lived near you I would go for coffee 🥰
Dogs are the best people
Im 21 yrs old boy . Watching this video made me cry . I dont have any friends , in high school and university also i had some family problems , my father suck .. im trying to survive in this life :') . But i always keep my hope , i want get a happiness
Sorry to hear that. You are lucky to have a good bf, invest in him and your family. Believe me, most of times those best friends ruin your private life. So be grateful with what you have.
I feel this a lot.. especially when I see my other friends are always out partying with each other and such.. there have been nights where I would pray that I would die.
Girl I feel the same way! When I would work and have coworkers I would always see them talking and having good relationships even outside of work. But never me with any of those people that I talk to a lot. I feel like I’m a decent person I would always buy baby shower gifts make sure I was there, make dinners for people who are sick or having a problem, so many things. But anytime it’s my turn nothing like that happens for me. It just doesn’t make sense does it
I think its good to have friends that respect you and dosent judge u for their past. I hope u find a ride or die friend. Never give up ;)
I had plenty of best friends over my teenage and early twenty years and it was nothing but drama and stress and fighting and bitching. I never got lucky with just a girl friend or group that we could just be normal friends so I decided enough was enough. I have my boyfriend and family/cousins I’m close to and it’s all I need. I’ve been hurt too many times by “friends” to try again. I don’t think I feel lonely I definitely feel free though. But I have my days where I feel sad that I don’t have a group of girls I’m close with.
I have like 2 good friends, but we don't laugh much, I love them but I think we don't share the same sense of humor. I still love them. But I have only those 2 friends. I've lost all my friend groups. I used to have a small group of friends from school, and 2 groups of friends from university. Now I have none. I really wish I had a group of friends, specially one from school... those friends you know since forever and have a million memories with and can say you grew up with. I feel really bad about this and there's nothing I can do. I can't go back in time. And it's specially hard for me because my sister, who I live with, does. She has many group of friends, including one from school. So I'm reminded of this all the time. 😔
I feel u!! because I used to have the same lonely feeling even though I did have friends. But with time I found out that I also needed to open up to people to feel connected. Maybe it would be good for u to make a list of things that you like about yourself and why you are a person people want to hang out with. For me it was also helpful to lower my expectations of meeting new people. If it wasn’t the „perfect best friend“ as first sight, I wasn’t interested any more. But building a deep friendship takes much time, so give yourself and the other person that time! Wish you all the best 💖
Girl, I totally feel you. It really sucks. I'm in college and it's especially hard right now because all of my classes are online. I wish I had an established friend group/best friend
Mariah Keeler yes absolutely! I did a fully online college as well so I didn’t have the ability to make friends there either and I feel like with this coming school year a lot of people are going to experience that 😕 it definitely sucks.
May God bless you and be with you.
I share this, is about Jesus.
John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me.
John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He said in reference to the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
Where can one start reading the Bible?
John (4th Scripture of the New Testament) and/or Acts of the Apostles (5th Scripture of the New Testament)
This is my website, is in dutch but the videos are in English
jezus.simplesite.com/
Aww damn...me too and I’m in my early 30s 😐 Feels lonely...but I have my dog 😍
Me too I have no friends. When I was 15 I moved countries and I am 20 now and still have no friends and my friends back home have moved on from me. So I have been completely alone but with that I have learned how to be my own bff and I love being alone in my own company now. I use to feel so alone but I know I am not the only one. We are strong to be alpha and lonewolf people❤️
You seem so sweet and thoughtful. I would want to be your friend. Don't give up, I'm sure people will really like you once they get to know you💕
I just watched a tiktok with a bunch of people ik that always excludes me, and now I can’t stop crying. I went from such a big friend group, to hardly any friends at all. :(( I guess this is my life now and nobody likes me 💔
I do have one friend that thinks that we’re like bffs, but I don’t rlly feel comfy around them tbh :/
@@joym4022 :
@@joym4022 tuff. So basically this happens to a lot of ppl and I don’t think she’s trying to avoid you, she’s probably just exited she has a bf. ik it’s tough but it’s not like she’ll be with this guy forever. Wellll it’s unlikely! If she’s not making anytime for you tho, then let her know how u feel! If she doesn’t listen or whatever then she is probably a fake friend 🥱
God sets you apart for a reason. It's up to us to ask God what that reason is.🙏🏽😇🙏🏽
It's not like someone can have only one best friend...... you're valuable
I'm pretty sure most people feel like our partners are our best friends, but it's simply not enough. We NEED friends, we NEED people to care for and also count on when times are tough. I'm old, probably ancient as far as you're concerned at 58, but I'd be happy to be your friend and support. Sending you a huge, virtual hug.
58 isn’t old. Age is just a number.
I bet you don’t feel 58
@@tom4412 I feel every, single second of 58 as if it were 85. Thank you though.
@@elizabethtrainer9732 Oh do you, normally people feel younger than their age. Have you had a hard life?
@@tom4412 That's a subjective concept, everyone has a different story.
Jesus is truly the best friend you can have. It's hard to find true friends these days. So much is fake and shallow these days!