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  • Hi lovelies,
    Thanks for clicking on this video! In todays video I wanted to discuss 5 things I wish I knew before I shaved all my hair of! So if you want to hear about the things I wish I knew then do watch this video!! Let me know your thoughts in the comments section!!
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  • @zandriasmith4285
    @zandriasmith4285 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    I shaved my hair off today and let me say the freedom is insane lol!

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It really is 😘

    • @qsita111
      @qsita111 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Girl, I never knew how liberating it could be. I totally feel you!

    • @Time_2_Relax1
      @Time_2_Relax1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      i did it 2 times already but the first time was so freeing i never knew how bond i was to my hair

    • @kellykobiy
      @kellykobiy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can say that again ❤❤

  • @tammyslaughter9587
    @tammyslaughter9587 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    All of you beautiful ladies shaving your hair for whatever your personal reasons are actually helping women who are loosing their hair to chemo indirectly because it’s becoming such a fashion or personal statement it’s no longer an automatic assumption that you’re sick with cancer. I just didn’t want to lose my hair because then people automatically think or know me as a cancer patient. I can go into society as a woman with a shaved head and not as a cancer patient. Thank you! ❤

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Love this 😘

    • @chihuahuamartin24
      @chihuahuamartin24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I have a friend right now going through chemo and I was thinking about it but now after watching numerous videos I’m nervous about the awkward stages and how long it takes to grow back… of course I can supplement with wigs but honestly I’m scared…. I want to support her but I’m afraid… and my hair isn’t even that great…. It’s getting some grey streaks and the rest is a number of different colors due to coloring…. Help

    • @paja7647
      @paja7647 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chihuahuamartin24If it bothers you don’t do it. You can be a good friend in other ways, like gifting your friend a nice hat or scarf, if she wears them.
      When I lost my hair to chemo, I was fine after getting over the shock, but I didn’t expect anybody to cut their hair in solidarity. It’s coming back oddly, like she said, but I’m really focused on my health. The hair will do what it wants in time.

    • @Loveliishanny
      @Loveliishanny 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts. That’s what brought me to this video

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I had cancer twice so I could care less! It is a choice!

  • @gabrielladzi5897
    @gabrielladzi5897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Your videos encouraged to to cut my hair, the freedom when taking a shower was 🔥

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes sis! Nothing compares to when the water hits your head 😘

  • @Betteremotionscic
    @Betteremotionscic ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I just shaved mine again last week and I love it because I first shaved it 3 years ago when my hair was very damaged and had bald spots from stress pulling. I felt so free but my family were saying things like “she must be mentally ill” and “she’s obviously poorly” which was hurtful but now I couldn’t care less!
    It grew back thick and healthy, but the crown area never grew back! Then my scalp started getting inflamed and having braids started pulling my hair out around my temples, causing more bald spots frustrating me and lowering my confidence so I shaved it again and I feel great!!
    I do want to really heal my scalp issues before I let it grow back again so I’ll keep shaving it for a few months.
    Love this video xx

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do whats right for you ❤

  • @peachesjeter5480
    @peachesjeter5480 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I just shaved my hair off and I don’t care about anybody’s damn opinion Lol I did it for me that’s all that matters.😜

    • @mabuabarati1679
      @mabuabarati1679 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Saaaame, all the best on your journey. ❤

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Love this for you 😘

    • @latenightsnack5382
      @latenightsnack5382 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your comment I shaved my hair off today and I feel the same way cuz I like my new look

    • @hadijaali7075
      @hadijaali7075 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad,I did mine too do what makes you happy dear

    • @charlineadolphe4585
      @charlineadolphe4585 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too

  • @nonen9497
    @nonen9497 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Mood. I never felt attached To my hair and never liked doing it. It’s long and healthy. I truly only kept it bc ppl like my hair but I started to live for me. I cut my hair a week ago and I’m so happy I did

  • @markishamoses8724
    @markishamoses8724 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I just shaved my hair today and I love it

  • @Penabby
    @Penabby 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just had number 3 on Sat, I did it to raise money for a cancer charity. I find it liberating, but hoping it will grow fast, I am looking forward to a nice grey pixie cut, my hair was pretty damaged, but it was down my back, but it had thinned out as I have aged. You look amazingly beautiful with short hair xx

  • @astroboy1207
    @astroboy1207 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    My wife hair is damaged I told her to shave it all off and start over

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hair will always grow back 😘

  • @KandyJohnson1
    @KandyJohnson1 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You’re absolutely gorgeous!!! 😍😍😍 I’m seriously considering shaving my head and your video really is inspiring to rock the look!

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you hun 😘 go for it, mine has grown back now but considering shaving it again soon!

  • @JLee-jw4sm
    @JLee-jw4sm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is the length I can't wait to get. I shaved down to the skin and my head is weirdly shaped lol. I look forward to having 2-3 inches for some little styles. Im having small goals this time. I shaved it to care for my scalp better.

    • @lacerav5818
      @lacerav5818 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What shaver did you use?

    • @JLee-jw4sm
      @JLee-jw4sm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lacerav5818 any mens electric shaver for beards will work. I got it for 30 dollars at the phatmacy.

    • @esotericbeauty7015
      @esotericbeauty7015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg me too...i shaved my head a wk ago & I'm so uncomfortable...my man wants to see it but I just can't bring myself to show him🤦🏾‍♀️I'm never felt like this before...I want to embrace it but my head is oddly shaped😂idk what to do but my hair wasn't healthy & wasn't growing properly... realistically, I needed to shave it off & start fresh & that's what I keep reminding myself of b/c this struggle is REAL

  • @crystalreagins8011
    @crystalreagins8011 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Everything your saying is true I’ve experienced the same. I have 3 kids as well and just shaved my head for the same reason..and now I love it ❤

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love that! Thanks for watching 😘

  • @lisajay400
    @lisajay400 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You’re beautiful and the shaved head really does fit you!!

  • @etherealessence159
    @etherealessence159 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm seriously considering shaving my hair off. I don't really like my hair and it's too frustrating to maintain. I'm picky about different hairstyles. Thanks for the encouragement.

  • @Lulu-mj2fi
    @Lulu-mj2fi ปีที่แล้ว +31

    People are disgusting I'm sorry. Why does YOUR looks affect them??? And why does looks matter??!! They obviously are miserable because someone could say they same about anything they do or wear and they'd probably take it as gospel and feel miserable. Anyways, I would never say this if I didn't actually think it was true, but you look VERY feminine but again, why does my opinion of you and your LOOKS matter🙄🙄🙄 You are glowing from within which is so impactful and beautiful 🤩

  • @trees8240
    @trees8240 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I was tired dealing with my thick very fine 4a hair after I'd pressed it for a Change but it started reverting hours later. I bought a box relaxer and 8-10 minutes it started melting into mush 3/4 fell out immediately and the rest was FRYED.😮😮😢😂.All I could do was laugh. I cut it to a short Bob for 2 weeks and yesterday said its time...I freed myself. The bad hair day has been resolved 😊.

  • @FredBushjr
    @FredBushjr ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As African American male (bald headed) I ❤️ love it ❤❤It

  • @itsmimifaith
    @itsmimifaith ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i shaved it off 3 days ago because i went to a salon and they chemically burnt it and as a 17 year old its such a hard decision to shave it but i did so now i just put a wig on😭

  • @TJscorpian
    @TJscorpian 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My friends keep saying its just hair, but when you have alopecia its harder to accept losing your hair.

  • @arochester5310
    @arochester5310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It’s because of the way u sleep. That’s y the middle is longer. I sleep mainly on my left side of the bed so majority of the time I’m facing left so my hair growth is shorter on that side. Front and middle always grows fast

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't know this, thanks! 😘

  • @hubabaloop
    @hubabaloop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The top of my hair grows faster too it’s so obnoxious it’s actually what’s making me want to shave it

  • @vanesser.0
    @vanesser.0 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    All these will bother you if you are shaving for others or if you were not ready to let the hair go… if you are ready you won’t get shaken or regretful

  • @AstilynnC
    @AstilynnC ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Definitely appreciate this video - I’ve been considering the change.

  • @gwendolynbeecroft512
    @gwendolynbeecroft512 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I got told if I shaved my afro off hair would grow back better. I had alopecia so i couldn't be bothered with what little hair i had. But now nothing has grown. So I wear wigs or scarves. Her hair looks like it's grown well.

  • @Nickywigs
    @Nickywigs ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I shaved my head because of a hair transplant. N the liberation babeeee

  • @evebaker5335
    @evebaker5335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are absolutely beautiful, with short hair, you look like model!!❤

  • @Lulu-mj2fi
    @Lulu-mj2fi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Also you make me want to shave my head for real even though I spent time growing it. I think I'm going to do it!!!

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว

      If you do, let me know how it goes 😘

  • @rosac8168
    @rosac8168 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I absolutely love your hair ! I just did mine and i didn’t think I’d like but I actually love it . I may look like my brother but I still like it and it just opened my confidence up and I feel better . I had a lot of damage in the front so I need to take it off. Hopefully as it grows I can get my natural curl pattern back

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All the best with your hair journey x

  • @River883
    @River883 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I don't have this type hair but I hate having my hair so I cut it all off and I don't care everyone says I look like a boy but I don't care

  • @shirleywilson4251
    @shirleywilson4251 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I shaved my hair last month

  • @Goofygold42
    @Goofygold42 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Me too 😢some time ago and Wish I would’ve thought about it before I did

  • @speerrituall1
    @speerrituall1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    People don’t think before they open their mouth. You didn’t ask or care about their opinion.

  • @bethelfissehaabh
    @bethelfissehaabh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    this is a motivation ❤

  • @opeyemiafolabi1763
    @opeyemiafolabi1763 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I shaved mine due to an accident i had and some parts were shaved already to allow injuries i had free.. Plus before then it had stopped growing and was now a home for dandruff so cutting it was like yea why not so i would just look for how to treat my scalp.

  • @Rumisfreeformart
    @Rumisfreeformart ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is how you convince a person

  • @peachesjeter5480
    @peachesjeter5480 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    And you look beautiful👍🏽👍🏽

  • @thomasineyoung5608
    @thomasineyoung5608 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It look beautiful and so are you!

  • @neverhaveiever223
    @neverhaveiever223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is a useful video for many of them out there..🙌
    TFS🙃

  • @ebonih7138
    @ebonih7138 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Detangling is important and still a hassle 😂 I shaved two months ago and this dryness is real

    • @Nutrizenhealth
      @Nutrizenhealth 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait what? 😂 Please explain before I shave my buttlength curls off 😂

  • @Goofygold42
    @Goofygold42 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My hair hasn’t been the same

  • @Christina-212
    @Christina-212 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have alopecia and want to shave my hair. I'm holding on to it for no reason.

  • @sharon4GG
    @sharon4GG 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are so pretty ❤️

  • @opeyemiafolabi1763
    @opeyemiafolabi1763 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So need ideas on growing it back now and keeping my scalp healthy from dandruff

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Would you like a video on this?

  • @s.n.e.8941
    @s.n.e.8941 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice hair. Im guessing when you talk about having a shaved head, you mean hair when it's lower than this. Right now, your head isn't really shaved. It's short, but not shaved. But, the cideo is still helpful. Thanks

  • @AdizaSawadogo
    @AdizaSawadogo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am about to cut my hair and I don’t know if I should or shouldn’t

  • @Sageandgold
    @Sageandgold 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gorgeous darling. New sub here :)

  • @cosmicegghealing
    @cosmicegghealing 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    mine was so uneven i did a mowhawk … then i got mad at that and chopped it all off again. my pregnancy did a toll on me also… and he girls take all of our beauty

  • @browniegay9130
    @browniegay9130 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You look cute with short hair.

  • @noates2725
    @noates2725 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think you mean off not of (I hope) :)

  • @Gigolowattz
    @Gigolowattz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The right side of my head is so much thinner & grows a lot slower than the left side of my head I hate it

  • @ashockablack1670
    @ashockablack1670 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, is that a texturizor??

  • @cerielvanarneman9399
    @cerielvanarneman9399 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are beautiful good looking.

  • @marjorieallen1796
    @marjorieallen1796 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just shaved mine

  • @Li1430000
    @Li1430000 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WE ARE AFRICAN AMERICAN...tribals.. that's what we do...hmmmm// without apology. We are africans where we walk all over Africa BALD AND BEAUTIFUL....NO APOLOGY OR THE NEED FOR PUBLIC ACCEPTANCE...When I had cancer, people stared.. I didn't care. Now it's the thing to do...lol wow this world is really losing it. Hair or no hair...beauty is where it is, on the inside. Who cares about people. we don't need approval. Live like "WHATEVER".

  • @janetwestwood9194
    @janetwestwood9194 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤔🫡👍❣️🇬🇧

  • @LisbethRealtor
    @LisbethRealtor 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why does it look and feel you are about to cry?

  • @rhythmoflove2
    @rhythmoflove2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video was way too long and drawn out

  • @NakeiraAustin-dw3ng
    @NakeiraAustin-dw3ng ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You don’t even look happy I’m sorry you had to shave your head but thanks for sharing this important information

    • @exclusivelytee
      @exclusivelytee  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was/am happy, thanks for watching! 😘

  • @mariaradulovic3203
    @mariaradulovic3203 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Why, oh why would u be justifying yourself to other ppl for shaving YOUR hair??? With hair or without hair u r so beautiful. F---- other ppl. If u enjoy it go for it!