He came to our 1st date with his GIRLFRIEND!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024
- Today’s conversation is a really fun, girl chat where I try to give advice by sharing with my sister (and you guys) one of my experiences when I was in the dating scene. I’m not a professional neither do I claim to have all the answers but I hope this video makes you laugh, brings comfort and offers some guidance on how to use wisdom in navigating the season you may be in.
Music used: Yoni Charis - Christian LoFi
“Hear this message from the Lord, all you who tremble at his words: “Your own people hate you and throw you out for being loyal to my name. ‘Let the Lord be honoured!’ they scoff. ‘Be joyful in him!’ But they will be put to shame.” (Isaiah 66:5)
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He took me to Mr Biggs lol
I loved it🥰🥰
I love your video
I love everything about this video!!! So wholesome🥰🥰🥰
This is just another big shot. I was just laughing while learning. Jesus is Lord! But that ICM man is so funny.
Please Ezinne, can you give us your perception about the criticism about women deciding to have discipline in choices of men that walk up to them and being so uptight to approach as a woman.
I have had a sister told me, "the way you too serious minded, you might chase men away from proposing. I was like nah." That's too much! am I too disciplined about men?
This is totally unrelated but I recently gave my life to Christ and I decided to break up with my boyfriend even though at first it was a tough decision because he was a really good person but there were certain things we were doing that weren't right with me anymore and I am glad I did because I feel a lot better and happy. cheers to being 22, being in Christ, and being happy. Thank you Ezinne for all that you do.
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You're very much welcome to the family. God loves you❤
I did the same, I feel lonely sometimes.
I did the same too
1 year plus now no regrets!
❤ & 💡
The whole story of “lowering your standards “ so that you can claim you’ve been in a relationship before is none sense.
I’m 22 years and I still don’t have a boyfriend; when I tell people my story they exclaim and they are shocked but honestly I know who I am in Christ and I’m not going to allow myself to allow bare minimum in all forms of relationship's because I am a 10.
I pray people get over this fear and realize that God wants the best for us and he will provide the best❤️
Yooooo! You are literally me! 😂 it's weird explaining to people why I'm a 22year old that has never had a boyfriend. They think something is wrong with you. God is building us for the best, this is our phase of learning. We can't lower standards sir, we know who we are.
Someone even said I'm a cultist because I'm not dating 😅 and I'm just 20🙄 this society is very sick. SMH. I won't lower my standards just because I want to fit in. There's still so much I don't know about me that God is revealing. This society cannot pressure me
Amen!
Yo!!! I love the energy 💯
Amen
Preach sisters!!!👏🏾... I'm 23 years and I haven't had a BF and it's bliss because I have time to spend with God, Jesus and the person of the holy spirit more...
Though the thought comes once in a while but listen y'all, it's better to be with the man God has for you than the man you have for your self!...
The both of you are GIVING!!! From hair to Skin🔥
Thank you!
Yassss
Seriously 🥰
Yessss! Glowing 😍
Seriously!!
You're right Ma'am! When it comes to dating, sex is a determinant of how long the relationship would last. I am 23yrs and I was in a relationship with this person and I couldn't give sex willingly but he violated me and it hurts 😔. At the end of the day, when he knew that i couldn't give sex, I saw another side of him and he used my flaws as an excuse to leave.. it really hurts but I have learnt lots of lessons
I’m 18 and I enjoy my space. I get a lot of questions and attacks as to why I’m single and I refuse to date but I’m not just comfortable being in a relationship
Come ... Ezinne, how can you be so young and yet so sensible? May the Holy Spirit keep directing your ways, amen!
“If you don’t deal with your issues, you’re going to bring that baggage to whoever you’re with”. That hit , man!
This happened to me too; where I prayed for the feelings to die when I was getting too obsessive with a guy and the next week literally, all the feelings just went from 100 to 0. Honestly, I think that’s the best method to get yourself out of any feeling that you shouldn’t be feeling; ask God to kill it.
Somebi has never dated. Wow! We are many in this club o. Love this video y'all! ❤️ Our life is God centered, no two ways about it. It's what God says that matters o. We can't remove our core just because you want to "feel" us. We know who we are abeg! Thank God for God. Like somebi said, life is way easier with God. Shalom.
The "Mr Biggs" part had me howling 😂😂😂😂
Ezinne you should be a life coach.. you know how to say Every word and give the exact advice on every topic... U are blessed, u are blessed, u are blessed
True talk
It's the facial expressions when you said "he took me to Mr Biggs" for me 😂😂😂😂😂.
I loved this video so much. It was fun to watch and at the same time was filled with so much wisdom.
Thank you Ezinne and Somebi❤️❤️
An interesting conversation! “The fact that men have been badly behaved doesn’t mean women should be badly behaved. We should be calling men higher and not women coming lower 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽”
I like the sisterly bond 😍😍😍
Ezinne you and your sister are so beautiful. thank you for reaffirming that having standards is not the problem, also I have been in situations where people who don't really know how to be alone and enjoy it (because it's one thing to be alone) try to tell me I have a problem because I'm not actively dating. I know for sure that limiting the number of people I open up to in this life is for the better because siiiis there are so many broken people out here trying to drag others down with them.
Why did it end oo😭😭😭😭😭I was grinning ear to ear.I love this video,and this is for me,because the pressure to get married @23 is just so much.
People now make it seem like being single is doom😂😂😂and I’m not understanding why 🤣🤣
My sister let them take several seats. I'm pushing 26 and I'm okay......... okay, knowing that I have a life to live and once I'm in my purpose, every component of that purpose will happen in their set time.
Can we just appreciate this gorgeous woman on our left.😍😍
Thanks Mrs Zara for this talk.
What I'm taking home:
. Set standards and put God first in any relationship.
. Note the red flags of the person.
. Pray to God when a certain feeling inside you doesn't feel right.
It's the Rita Dominic's scene for me.😂😂😂😂😂
“We should be calling men higher not women going lower” so true!!! 3:05
I relate with Somebi when she referred to that prayer she prayed about that guy who was going to ask her on a date. I prayed a “dangerous” prayer like that. The way God answered my prayer so quickly!! It was like film trick.
I love the chat and you guys are so pretty ♥️✨. Honestly I guess what most Christians are failing to do self introspection especially ladies. Most ladies don’t know who they are and they feel like perhaps they can just accept any man and try by all means to change the man. Please if you are a Christian (male /female) every time you are about to enter a relationship make sure that the God factor is the ultimate thing you look out for. There is a way a person who fears God will behave towards you and there are certain things he or she won’t do because he or she understands the love of Christ. 🤗
😂 you really had to bring in the short clip showing the Nollywood vibe 😂😂😂💔
I just can't stop laughing.
Much love to you all 😘
A friend shared this with me and I’m very grateful that she did. I haven’t even finished watching it but my spirit is just happy. God bless you.
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It's tells you a lot, when they start commenting before the video is over 😂, Great job Ezinne!
I wish this video was actually longer 🥺 undiluted truth that I needed to hear(Just the reinforcement I needed). Thank you Ezinne and Somebi❤️❤️
Omg I can relate to Somiebi’s prayer.. it actually works fr😂😂😂
This video was really helpful and fun to watch. Sometime ago, this guy I was talking to suggested we go to a "lounge" to be specific, a hotel, for a "date". He said he's a shy person and would be more comfortable in a hotel and we could talk there as well. I don't know if I'm the only person that thinks it says a lot about him, especially because it was meant to be our first meeting. We don't talk anymore because it turns out he thinks sex is what makes and upholds a relationship.
Welp!
I really enjoyed it.
Funny how I've had the same experience as praying to God to kill a feeling for me and I just realized 😊
Thank you for this❤
Somebi is wiser than her years and so cute! Definitely enjoyed this conversation…I didn’t want it to end😩
20 minutes was definitely not enough 😁, thank you so much Ezinne for this video. I love love Somebi's vibes.
"we are coming into an age where men have been badly behaved, and women are now saying they can be badly behaved" Nuff said!
"Love yourself enough to find our why" This is so good. By finding out why, we know the right solution for it
That question Somebi asked was a very salient question and the manner in which Ezinne answered the question just added to my knowledge on relationships.
Just this part of the video reminded me of a dream I had. In this dream, I was in a car with Ezinne and she was given me relationship advice as well and after that she hugged me. It was so soothing. A kind of hug I don't even receive from my elder sister.
( that's the most abridged version of the dream I could give)
God continue to bless you and keep you both🙏
Wow 🙏❤
I'm in love with your sister, Ezinne. Please, always bring her to the show so you both can talk about societal issues and proffer solutions. I feel your sister will be a great orator someday ❤️🥰❤️🥰😍.
Love the bond between you and your sister, plus this was also such a hilarious video😂
Also wanted to clarify that dating in the actual sense of the word doesn’t always involve sex though, and I realized Nigerians generally look as dating as courtship as well, so the words are usually interchanged even among Christians.
I agree with you, but The actual meaning is one thing and what most people actually use it to represent is another, and I think that's what she's referring to
The moment of silence when you said " he took me to Mr. Biggs" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Like the actual NERVE!!!
Part 2 please 😭This was so insightful. The wisdom that both of you imparted was so needed, love you guys❤️
Yaaaaassss! Part two pretty please 🥺🤲😂
"sitting alone, away from the noice gives room for growth" thank you Soo much Ezinne and Somebi. God bless you 😇❣️
It’s definitely “sister Ezinne” for me 😂😂
Yayyyyyy
Glad to see you and Sommie
My dreadlocks and low-cut queens😌❤️.
I can actually relate with somebi😂😂, after i prayed the same prayer she prayed omoo all the heart pounding stopped😂😂. I loved every bit of this video. Thank you guys for this♥️♥️
Marriage is a good thing but it won't fix you.. Trueee✨
First of all, skin!
Second, Somebi is a moooood! 🤣🤣🤣
Loved every bit of this video. ❤️❤️
Ezinne your videos are always timely, I just know it has to be the Holy Spirit, every time I get a notification it’s a video answering a question my heart needs an answer to. God bless you 🤎
I would've literally kept watching if it lasted an hour😂, Such an interesting, thought-provoking and entertaining conversation. Splendid one Ezinne( your editing is getting better😁), pray that you have more of God's grace, and please give us more Somebi!!😩
Thank you zara for posting. I have been feeling so down and when i saw your post I just felt like this is exactly what I needed because I know you will always involve God in anything you are saying and I love that about you. Thank you , I love you ❤️😘
Aww I hope you feel better soon. Whatever it is, it will pass 🤍
@@EzinneZara i think I feel much better now. God is with me and he loves me
@@EzinneZara thank you
It's the "actual Nollywood scene" for me. 😂😂
unrelated but I was just listening to Yoni Charis' Christian lofi to study earlier. so when I heard the exact same music in this video, I thought that I had left the lofi video open by accident 😂❤
Thank you so much ❤️ Aunt Ezinne 😊 and somebi 🥰
That prayer!! To kill whatever fake feelings is present is so necessary. That's what I always pray, if he is not my husband remove him from my thoughts and God answers ohh 😂😂😂😂
It's the "Sister Ezinne" for me😍😍❤️❤️❤️. Aww😍😍❤️. I love you guys so much 🥰😍🥰. God bless you.
Somiebi’s facial expressions😂😂😂..Ezinne you actually waited for an hour🥲..The audacity of some men😭…I loved and enjoyed this video🥰
Ezinne, you came, saw (shege) and conquered in this dating world😂😂😂
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I looved this video,i have this guy friend we were talkin with jus the other week and he was like,you don't need God wen it comes to courtship or finding a partner .God won't come and date you,,,you'll get old while waiting for God you jus need to find yourself a partner and ask God to bless the marriage.I kid you not he said that.It pains me so much seeing people boxing God and being like this is what i want bless it and not really involving him in our matters. love you guys
I’ve not even started watching, but I’m already excited because I recently subscribed to your sister’s TH-cam, and I love love her vibe
She is amazing and has a very attractive personality
It’s both of your facial expressions after she said mr. Biggs 😂🤣. I’m rolling
Such beautiful and intelligent duo.
Looking forward to more intelligent conversations like this one.
Well-done guys!
This video needs another part 2. You and your sister speaks on true facts.
Ezinne is always delivering. Thank you so much for this. Now I don't have to lower my standards or boundaries because of what the society is saying. I love Somi's lowcut btw😍
Sommi brought me here🥰 I’m in love with you both already, thanks for the video
I loveeeeeeee your sisters vibes Zara... welldone you guys!
Somebi definitely brought out the fun side of Ezinne and I love it😩❤️
Ezinne you are so intelligent and blessed. May GOD continue to bless you and your family in JESUS Name Amen.
Awwn I wish this video was longer 💕 Thank you Ezinne and Somebi (I like the way Somebi calls Ezinne Sister Ezinne) ♥️
"You don't know who your husband is"...in the past my elastic limit was stretched for this reason but thank God for delivering me 😂😂😂
And you guys look so amazing. Skin, hair.... 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Knowing what you want and what you need just defines it for me❤️❤️
If you knew how patiently I waited for a new video, you'd pity me.
But I'm glad it's here😁
They are so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh my God! God bless you both.
Amennn
You girls look so beautiful ☺️, I enjoyed watching you.
thank you so much for this video, Ezinne !👏🏽
i really learnt a lot and also got insights to some of the things i have been wondering about such as being alone and getting to know oneself. thank you for shedding more light.
and also, we’d love to see more of Somebi 😂she’s so funny and dramatic 🤣i couldn’t stop laughing.
thank you for all you do ! it’s very much appreciated ❤️
I strongly believe that the road map to marriage is first, one gets to Date, followed by courtship and then finally get married.
Even though dating these days usually go with sex, we as Christians can change that trajectory for ourselves.....
well done, I have learnt a lot. more Grace.
Somebi had me when she said "You'll soon find out but just leave me alone"😂😂💔 and both of you's expression when you said he took you to mr biggs😂 This is an unusual late watch but I really enjoyed this and you improved my confidence with the things you said! Thank you!!
I had a Christian guy in my dm that immediately started talking to me about love. This guy will be calling by 6:00am...like what is it😂. He was even trying to impress me by saying things like he sees angels and all of that. Initially I thought I was being mean by just telling him I disliked what he was doing but omo...I didn't care again..I just stopped replying his messages..
Wow, thank you so much miss Ezinne. I admire you a lot.
When God wants to show you that what he downloaded to you about dating to marriage last week is the truth and nothing but the truth, he tells Ezinne to upload a video lol 😂. See ehn Holyspirit is the key, don’t let nobody lie and tell you to “fall in love” or that you have to date plenty people to meet the one. Abeg lol. Loved this video Ezinne!
Thank you ❤️, both of you this justice to this topic
I'll recommend to read Dating Intelligently by Laju Iren if you would like to build on what was discussed here
Lmaooooo I laughed throughout the Mr Biggs guy part. Utterly enjoyed this video
Yes, Ezinne you are completely right. Courtship is the better word to use as Christians, cause its a relationship that has an end goal of leading to marriage. Dating is a relationship where both parties access themselves to see if they are suitable for each other and it usually involves sexual intercourse. Going on a Date is fixing an appointment with someone for an event. And it's okay. So the three words are all quite different. Dating, Courtship, and fixing a Date.
7:38 😂😂😂
Come to where?
How?
Uncle I just met you oh😂😂
Hey Ezinne. This was so fun. Lol ,I remember telling my friend about instances when men ask my number I ask "for what? " "Like what do we have in common? "( to my friend) , like how ? I don't see us! I think insight of ourselves will benefit us grately, insight of what is God breathed will show us the manner in the which we should walk.
The point where you said he leaned in for a kiss and what you did, so cracked me up.😂😂😂
Thank you for sharing this. It was amazing as always.
Somebi's Energy ooo
The way I was excited to see the notification 😭😭 omo I'm in love with this TH-cam channel
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Standards!!!
Hmmm, thank you sis Ezinne for always bringing on your sister, it's so so sweet and beautiful to watch😁♥️♥️
I love the way you both exchange glances at each other🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 your sister is much good at that.
And, I love your facial expression too, how no questions cut you off guard ehnn🌝🤣 and your love for God is so evident.
Much much love💚💚🔥
It is Somiebi’s face for me throughout😂😂😂……#boyfriend season#
That's right! Marriage doesn't solve anything. It amplifies things.
It’s the way you used your hand to push his head back 😂😂😂😂😂😂,omoh I really enjoyed this series
Love yourself enough📌
I love this conversation and one thing I learnt is Dating Intelligently.
Missed your content Ezinne, thank you for posting.
Please do more of this videos
It’s educative
There are not many videos of Christians talking about dating
I totally agree 👌🏽….. God revealed the red flags 🚩 of my Ex. There’s a prayer I kept praying “Holy Spirit, reveal the real (insert name) to me.”
The relationship only lasted two months.
I can so relate to Somebi. The prayer started opening my eyes 👀 and I started feeling not at peace with this guy.
This exactly what I experienced some years back😂😂😂 you just reminded me Ezinne…. Somebi with her facial expressions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Omg this video is hilarious😂. Ezi mama your editing skills no be here again😍❤️❤️
Love eeeeeet! Thank you sooo much. My favorite part was where you said it's not like your husband would want to go and play ball and you would say "without me?"😂😂😂, I laughed so hard
The way I ran all the way from Instagram. Thank you Ezinne ♥️♥️
I’m telling youuuuu😂
I can expressly relate to everything Ezinne is saying. just like u, since my 20th God has been taking me on a journey of learning idle truths about godly marriage nd relationships. am 22 now, single for 5yrs nd counting and am fully utilizing my space and growth process.
Plus having a way I want to be courted is a yardstick to the approaches I get too.
Courting and dating! I learnt something new. I have always wondered why Christians use courtship instead of dating. This is new
Loved this, the wisdom, funny parts and the lessons from this. I don't like what dating is nowadays, needing sex and money to determine the progress of a relationship. Whoever God has for you wouldn't distract you from what the Bible states about sex in its rightful context and its rightful purpose.
Well said sister 👏
This channel is a blessing ❤️.
Thank u so much
Sis Ezinne as youths as I am I think we need this❤️
Somebi's nailss are giving😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 everything
As you continued to mention ‘dating intelligently’; the book by Laju Iren just came to my mind. Very very beautiful book with so much wisdom!
ICM 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mr Biggs’ 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣 (your faces at that point sent me). They have the best meat pie sha. But wait the bell 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Leaned in!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Somebi is right about this shortcut thing. Especially this generation, always forming ‘no time to waste time’ 💀.
You and Somebiiii! I want a sister 🥺.
So cuteeeee!!! And your parents shaaa, what beautiesssss! 😍
Take one cold bottle of sweet wine for your editing skillsssss! And whatever you wanttttttt. That ‘nollybabes’ scene. 🤣🤣
I so much like the sense of reasoning. You hit the nail on the head. No regrets watching this video. It's amazing