Likely hasn't. Who wouldn't run. If Misha had met him, in person, first that would have been first and LAST ever. Sadly she's invested and hope that doesn't deter her from leaving. Seen the place, Took pictures. GONE.
He's as depressing as the lady who lost her husband. Constantly dismissive and boring personality. But at least the lady looks decent, but this nicola...lol ...someone enlighten me
@albertfinney1328 I think she'll end things. She seems pretty serious about this trip determining how they'll move forward, and I think her understanding that how he acts is a personality type meaning he isn't going to change and so it's not worth her time. I think she's upset because she had high hopes for this, which is fair considering how long they've been talking to each other.
It’s such a big red flag to bash your partner to your friends, belittling the person when she is right there. He is so detestable. 🙄 Yet he compares himself to Jesus 🤮 When misha cried and say how could I be so wrong, it’s so heartbreaking. Misha doesn’t deserve all these crap. Run misha!!
Detestable. YES! Emotionally hollow. Disturbed. Controlling. Deservedly rejected, therefore single. Misha needs to forgive herself for her mistaken 'judgement', thinking he was as he presented himself to be, and get the hell away from this nasty selfish single minded, judgemental CREEP.
@@jasg771 Likely not. I can tell you she said she had a epiphany or awakening of some support and became catholic. This guy had, maybe has, a catholic web site. Long time exchanges between them and she thought he'd been a great help, She "loved" him and visa versa. Thought they were soul mates. Surprise. He's her antithesis. What a piece of work. Wholly SOCIALLY inept, he would likely be more comfortable sitting alone in sack cloth and ashes with a cat o' nine tails handy for self-flagellation. When they met at an airport, she thought he was cute. Totally beats me. Now to lose him and get her life back together.
That's a MAJOR red flag! He's supposed to be Catholic. Jesus was pretty famous for embracing the poor and downtrodden who society had shunned......like Meisha is doing with the cats.
She was literally over there being a fairytale princess - I would be THRILLED to have that happen if my best friend was meeting my partner. Couldn't possibly make a better impression unless she floated down on a cloud and Nicola was....upset. WHAT?!
whoever hates animals are A HUGE red flag to me!!! you don’t like animals? you are out of my life, you must be a very unsentimental and cold-hearted person and I don’t go anywhere near those
@@softelfi8721I absolutely agree!!!! That was awful. The way he said he said he didn't like her being with the cats. It showed how loving and caring she is whereas he comes across super cold-hearted...
Sometimes, when someone gets a partner who they feel is better than themselves, they will try to put that partner down because they think that if the partner has less self-esteem then they're less likely to leave and look for someone as good as themself. That's my theory.
Exactly! He wants to break her down to nothing. The fact that she’s entertaining Nicola reveals she needs to do a lot inner-work. She’s turned Nicola into a God that she needs to audition for. He’s alone for a reason.
His idea? To control a woman. She is to relax with. NO challenges allowed. Just shut up, do as he wants, and serve him. Oh yeah, forget about meeting his family. Could just be they would tell her he's trouble.
@@morningafternoonheadshot6741 I would trust NOTHING about this moralizing righteous freak. And he spit out that he is THE MAN, a woman CANNOT CONTROL. No compromise. She is just for what he calls 'relaxation'. If she does not scream and run Misha suffers from an appalling lack of SENSE. NOR would I want to be anywhere near him when truth comes out about the promoters of that to which he is so faithful. Massive populations in the world will know they have been victimized by deceptions of inconceivable magnitude.
As my boyfriend and I both agreed on, she is too much meat for his plate. She is beautiful, dedicated to her family and her values, and she seems like a genuinely kind lady. She really does try to communicate her needs! She deserves better. I hope things work out for her.
'I've become humble. I'm like Jesus Christ' Girl *back away slowly* There's religious delusion. There's delusion of grandeur. And then there is THIS GUY.
GIRL. You are SO OUT OF HIS LEAGUE. He will never get a woman like you ever again, yet he's treating her like she's going to stay forever with a dull person like him
She's not even in the same town as this boy lol.....Those old photos of her when she did the news....wow and she picks this guy? Really?? Do you think so little of yourself that he is the best you can do?
I know Nicola is 46 but the way he’s lived his life is very underdeveloped. Being so deeply devout and only focused on religion has made it so he has no skills with communication and no ability to deal with or interact with women. He has the emotional capabilities of an eleven year old petulant boy when it comes to relationships.
I found it very endearing she was snuggling the street cat. It showed her non-superficial side. Wtf is wrong with him to hate on that. This man ain't right.
Thank you for clocking the narcissism. That’s exactly what the personality disorder looks like. Meisha saw it, thank goodness. Hopefully she just leaves. You can’t change him. This is why he’s single and jobless, living with his mom. It’s no coincidence.
It's clear she has serious self esteem issues because a beautiful, successful, well dressed woman ONLY tolerates a man like this if she has a low sense of self worth.
He’s a narcissist. He used the religious zealot parts of his narcissism to prey on someone new and overly eager in the faith. He’s presented himself as this very holy, devout and all knowing person. He’s used manipulation and the state of mind she was in as being new to to faith made her a perfect target. She’s got oodles of self esteem. Narcissists are very skilled at acquiring fuel (intimate or non intimate partners are sources of fuel for a narcissist). The most confident and beautiful person in the world can be taken in by a skilled narcissist. He’s not very skilled at it, honestly. That’s why he’s still single and jobless. He could pass for a regular person online to Meisha in her eagerness to be catholic, but she figured it out quickly.
Nah she doesn’t. She is just realising he is not who she imagined to be before they met. She has been very open to communicate issues to him, instead of just tolerating. I don’t think she will proceed with this rs after this trips
He thinks it's ok to vocalise everything HE doesn't like...cuddling a wee homeless kitten that could really do with some kindness & interaction...having 1 cigarette a year, going to a club to dance ( yet drinks alcohol!) He is the biggest hypocrite with the biggest ego... He's very anti social, judgemental, cold hearted & patronising. He gives religion a bad name. Meisha is intelligent enough to realise this idiot is not marriage material..thank goodness.
I get the vibe, she's been used and abused her whole life trying to fit in the world and it took a toll on her in huge ways. I hope she finds peace within along her journey 🙏
Meisha has good self esteem. She's beautiful, educated, no small children, has her own money, a devout Catholic, loves animals and wants to meet his family. Nicola, on the other hand, is a neanderthal.
Nicola is a perfect candidate for the priesthood. Meisha has more patience than me because I would have left. If she has to give him an ultimatum then it's not real. Go home Meisha and save yourself a lot of grief.
He is no place for the priesthood. You want someone who knows the teachings but can understand his people, not talk down to them and tell them their tears are useless. People grieving often come to a priest, forlorn people, I would never want to go to him, he only focuses on his OWN relationship with a higher power and his place with Him in Heaven
Hopefully Misha gets her annulment and can find a person as empathetic, inteligente, successful as her. And for the wellness of Nicolas mental health, hopefully he never realized how close he was to receive real and trustworthy love for a woman like Misha: beautiful inside, outside, inteligente and successful
It is not clear to me an annulment -- very hard to get, partic when two kids given birth to --will be necessary for 'marrying with in the church", that being catholic, much longer. This guy makes catholocism look bad. It is and it is DONE for. The curtain of mystique is about to be ripped away. Ever see the pic of Trump and the little pope looking like he has two black eyes? Strong reason for that. Though not yet official, it is so OVER. All the best to Misha weathering that storm of revelation. Nicola? Doubt he'd weather the shock. I think he's not a reclusive because he's catholic, but catholocism is his excuse for being reclusive. HORRID creature. Sad really. Bad enough for him but to be that way but to have Misha in his mess is appalling. Rules for thee, but not for me. Surely never better applied than to churches and royalty. And maybe Trump has been seen walking in front of the queen also. Breaking protocol most underservedly imposed.
No woman deserves this treatment. A woman like Meisha, who has had her own career, lived independently, successfully raised 2 daughters, and is conventionally attractive should be even quicker leaving a loser like Nicola, knowing full well that if and when she's ready to seek another partner, she'll find plenty of suitors.
I think Nicola is scared that his mom likes Meisha and that she will take her side when they fight. Which would mean that he’ll loose control over Meisha
Nikolai is a gargoyle compared to her. He's embarrassed to bring her around his family are you kidding me she should be embarrassed being with a man that looks like that
People like Nicola will be surprised to learn that they're toxicity won't get them in heaven. The holier than thou attitude, narcissism, misogyny, lack of empathy, his lack of emotional intelligence is a turn off. How dare he measures himself to Christ. The woman is out of his league. Yaseem is right, he brings nothing to the table. He doesn't even work.
She’s too pretty and way too accomplished for him, she intimidates him therefore he wants to bring her down to his level, I hope she snaps back into reality and leaves him.
this is one cold hearted dude no wonder he hasnt had any relationships in years.. he has no compassion in him whatsoever... he will never find happiness being like this..he is the type that if he cant function properly he would blame the woman for his lack of performance..
I hope she finds her misplaced self esteem and self worth and get tf away from him. She’s likely crying at the realization that she’s wasted 7 of her firm skin years on this bafoon. She should give him back to God🤣
When their segment started, i thought Misha was just another beautiful, vapid party girl. Boy, was i wrong. Girl is DEEP. I love it & we're all behind you, woman! Show us all how its done.🤩🤩😘
He’s an extreme narcissist. My stepfather was an extreme narcissist, he sounds exactly like him. The only advice I have for her is, never marry this man. I know that it’s been seven years, it’s not worth it. You have two daughters at home, if you allow this narcissist into your home, it will ruin your relationship with your daughters completely. It’s been nearly 10 years and I’m still struggling to forgive my mother for allowing a abusive narcissist into our lives for seven years. He’s not worth your relationship with your daughters.
She’s a beautiful woman she can easily find someone who’s so much better. And yet she’s trying to be with a man child who really can’t understand why is she crying as well wanting to know his family. No wonder he’s been single & he doesn’t have kids, I can just imagine how he would destroy the kids lives
Why is it that the people who are very very religious don't follow Jesus' lead and treat others well? Its always the people who claim to be super religious that are the biggest hypocrites!! It's sad, because if they actually followed Jesus, they'd treat others as they should be treated! I grew up in the catholic church and went to catholic school and the ones that preached the loudest were usually the biggest hypocrites, in my experience.
SAME! I went to catholic Sunday school and they would be the biggest judge mental ppl instead of teaching us to treat those who are different with respect, kindness, and love
Did he just flip her off while smirking? 10:32 I honestly believe that was intentional. He's such a man child, that he flipped her off, but tried to make it look discreet. He also thought it was clever and funny and that's why he was smirking as he did it.
Whenever you meet your family and friends to a new person allow them to speak and get along with them. Regardless if it turns out good or bad. It is better they get the chance to naturally connect than you try to control or force a connection
Everyone always attacks Nicola. He’s not a bad person. He’s used to being alone. The more time they spend together, the more they’ll work through their differences. He bends for her at times. Meisha can be a lot lol. They are both equally extra, and I love it 😂
Miesha seems to be good and sensible. I don't get how she could waste seven years penpaling this guy and thinking about relationship with him. I want to see what is wrong with her. Maybe in the future episodes she will show..
True catholics value life. Every catholic i know, including myself, will take in an animal, help an animal in need or cuddle an animal. We, of course, will do the same for humans. I would cuddle that kitten with Meisha. It would make me happy seeing her be friendly with animals.
I'm catholic and watching these two I can see the difference between someone living her faith to make others happy even cats and someone using his faith to feel a superior judge of others
Misha is the example how a real Catholic must be: committed, trustworthy, emphatic, kind, brave,not judgemental, patient and Nicola the example of how not to be
He has played on her faith & previous lifestyle to style himself as her spiritual guru. She feels indebted to him for 'saving' her. I think all this is wrong but sadly i think its what is going on.
I am on Meisha's side now. There is a healthy level of masculinity. But he is just a narcissist. Your completely right!. She seems like such a nice lovely lady. It breaks my heart to see her cry.
I know the show coaches the couples to exaggerate their issues for more drama, but I worry about this guy. Nicola seems to want Meisha, but only after he can mold her into who he wants her to be.
I really hope she dumps him. He hates the fact that she pets kittens. Come on. She's one of the most gorgeous women I've seen, she's intelligent. kind. He does not deserve her at all
I hope she doesn't marry him. I could never be married to someone that almost seems like he looks down on me and invalidates every feeling I had.. He not only looks down on Meisha, but he also looks down on his own family.. Run Meisha! Run! He's very manipulative and reminds me of a serial killer... 🥺
That picture of him rolling his eyes says the whole story. I blame her though. She shd know better. I just think he is a delusional fool. Woman get a good psychiatrist!
Please stop crying and pack your bags. This is never going to work. You would probably have to raise a boy, support him and destroy the calm of your soul forever
And now i know why hes still a virgin. No one wants that and everyones been smart enough to leave him. She needs to realise this isnt a relationship hes trying to control her.
I don't understand how he was charming and pleasant. He always looks angry. I really want to know how he ever got a patient, kind, opposite of Nicola. She better tell him how big of a lying, jerk. I think he feels because of her looks he wants to bring her down a step...I don't get it.
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Nicola is highly unappealing on so many levels...what do you see in him, Meisha?!
She is desperate and brainwashed by religion. She thinks being with him is some sort of repentance of her former sins.
7 years of her time wasted lmfaooo
I genuinely want to know.
Did he really compare what he’s going through to JC? 😂😂 The delusion of it all. smh
She needs a therapist and meds
Nikola comes off like someone who has never interacted with any human being ever outside of his mother, his family, and his one friend...
Likely hasn't. Who wouldn't run. If Misha had met him, in person, first that would have been first and LAST ever. Sadly she's invested and hope that doesn't deter her from leaving. Seen the place, Took pictures. GONE.
He is not all there in his mind. He is very weird and stupid
He's as depressing as the lady who lost her husband. Constantly dismissive and boring personality. But at least the lady looks decent, but this nicola...lol ...someone enlighten me
@albertfinney1328 I think she'll end things. She seems pretty serious about this trip determining how they'll move forward, and I think her understanding that how he acts is a personality type meaning he isn't going to change and so it's not worth her time. I think she's upset because she had high hopes for this, which is fair considering how long they've been talking to each other.
@@laurenr9659 I am hoping you are correct. XOXOXO peace
It’s such a big red flag to bash your partner to your friends, belittling the person when she is right there. He is so detestable. 🙄 Yet he compares himself to Jesus 🤮 When misha cried and say how could I be so wrong, it’s so heartbreaking. Misha doesn’t deserve all these crap. Run misha!!
This is the only response she should have...🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀
Detestable. YES! Emotionally hollow. Disturbed. Controlling. Deservedly rejected, therefore single. Misha needs to forgive herself for her mistaken 'judgement', thinking he was as he presented himself to be, and get the hell away from this nasty selfish single minded, judgemental CREEP.
Can anyone recap why this woman was attracted to this man?
@@jasg771 Likely not. I can tell you she said she had a epiphany or awakening of some support and became catholic. This guy had, maybe has, a catholic web site.
Long time exchanges between them and she thought he'd been a great help, She "loved" him and visa versa. Thought they were soul mates.
Surprise. He's her antithesis. What a piece of work. Wholly SOCIALLY inept, he would likely be more comfortable sitting alone in sack cloth and ashes with a cat o' nine tails handy for self-flagellation.
When they met at an airport, she thought he was cute.
Totally beats me. Now to lose him and get her life back together.
And he is definitely delusional to compare himself to Jesus….ABSOLUTELY no comparison there.🙄 She needs to give it up and leave, go back home.
idk i think it’s very weird for your partner to be upset that you’re cuddling cats. he’s a control freak.
That's a MAJOR red flag! He's supposed to be Catholic. Jesus was pretty famous for embracing the poor and downtrodden who society had shunned......like Meisha is doing with the cats.
She was literally over there being a fairytale princess - I would be THRILLED to have that happen if my best friend was meeting my partner. Couldn't possibly make a better impression unless she floated down on a cloud and Nicola was....upset. WHAT?!
whoever hates animals are A HUGE red flag to me!!! you don’t like animals? you are out of my life, you must be a very unsentimental and cold-hearted person and I don’t go anywhere near those
@@softelfi8721I absolutely agree!!!! That was awful. The way he said he said he didn't like her being with the cats. It showed how loving and caring she is whereas he comes across super cold-hearted...
@@rotyscheel1495 FOR REAL
Wait did Nicola's friend say he's broke and just sits in his room all day praying to Mary? 😂😂😂 That is hilarious.
Yup! Broke & no job 😂
He’s never worked
Yap,,, he went straight to the point
I would pray to Mary too If I was broke hahaha!
😂😂😂
He hates kittens??!? This man is a monster
Exactly even his friend likes kittens
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't like cats 😂😂😂 prefer Dogs
lmfao your comment is hilarious~!!!!!
@@talcareyifill5937disliking cats and having HATRED towards helpless kittens? no the same at all
Sometimes, when someone gets a partner who they feel is better than themselves, they will try to put that partner down because they think that if the partner has less self-esteem then they're less likely to leave and look for someone as good as themself. That's my theory.
Exactly! He wants to break her down to nothing. The fact that she’s entertaining Nicola reveals she needs to do a lot inner-work. She’s turned Nicola into a God that she needs to audition for. He’s alone for a reason.
From experience, so very true
My ex lmao
Absolutely
Yup, and those are the abusive ones. Better off getting a big, handsome, confident man because they treat their women like gold!
Nicola has no clue on how to interact with a woman. He’s completely clueless 🤦🏾♀️
His idea? To control a woman. She is to relax with. NO challenges allowed. Just shut up, do as he wants, and serve him.
Oh yeah, forget about meeting his family. Could just be they would tell her he's trouble.
@@albertfinney1328I was thinking the same thing. The family might warn her away from him.
@@morningafternoonheadshot6741 I would trust NOTHING about this moralizing righteous freak. And he spit out that he is THE MAN, a woman CANNOT CONTROL. No compromise. She is just for what he calls 'relaxation'.
If she does not scream and run Misha suffers from an appalling lack of SENSE.
NOR would I want to be anywhere near him when truth comes out about the promoters of that to which he is so faithful. Massive populations in the world will know they have been victimized by deceptions of inconceivable magnitude.
As my boyfriend and I both agreed on, she is too much meat for his plate. She is beautiful, dedicated to her family and her values, and she seems like a genuinely kind lady. She really does try to communicate her needs! She deserves better. I hope things work out for her.
With out him
Too much Meat!!
She needs to lose that fake Messiah asap. He’s as creepy af anyway. Run Girl!
'I've become humble. I'm like Jesus Christ'
Girl *back away slowly*
There's religious delusion.
There's delusion of grandeur.
And then there is THIS GUY.
Creepy! Run, girl
😂😂😂
Get back away FAST!
GIRL. You are SO OUT OF HIS LEAGUE. He will never get a woman like you ever again, yet he's treating her like she's going to stay forever with a dull person like him
Good points!
He's the epitome of "Give an ugly guy a chance and he'll treat you like you're the ugly one"
She's not even in the same town as this boy lol.....Those old photos of her when she did the news....wow and she picks this guy? Really?? Do you think so little of yourself that he is the best you can do?
@@julief2830 She is OUT of his league!
He has Expectations a few The Bible says she must obey. Good luck with that, Nikola🙄
Nicola is such a miserable person. I cannot fathom this relationship working out at all. Meisha is a free spirit he wants to cage.
She should dump this loser NOW!
I know Nicola is 46 but the way he’s lived his life is very underdeveloped. Being so deeply devout and only focused on religion has made it so he has no skills with communication and no ability to deal with or interact with women. He has the emotional capabilities of an eleven year old petulant boy when it comes to relationships.
I agree. He is definitely missing some stages of development.
Perfect statement.
I found it very endearing she was snuggling the street cat. It showed her non-superficial side. Wtf is wrong with him to hate on that. This man ain't right.
Thank you for clocking the narcissism. That’s exactly what the personality disorder looks like. Meisha saw it, thank goodness. Hopefully she just leaves. You can’t change him. This is why he’s single and jobless, living with his mom. It’s no coincidence.
It's clear she has serious self esteem issues because a beautiful, successful, well dressed woman ONLY tolerates a man like this if she has a low sense of self worth.
She should dump the jerk. Now
No she doesn’t have self esteem issues. This is dynamic that happens with people like Meisha.
@@nomeinthecottage4767 would you like to tell me why really I would like to understand Misha is millions of kilometers out of his league
He’s a narcissist. He used the religious zealot parts of his narcissism to prey on someone new and overly eager in the faith. He’s presented himself as this very holy, devout and all knowing person. He’s used manipulation and the state of mind she was in as being new to to faith made her a perfect target. She’s got oodles of self esteem. Narcissists are very skilled at acquiring fuel (intimate or non intimate partners are sources of fuel for a narcissist). The most confident and beautiful person in the world can be taken in by a skilled narcissist. He’s not very skilled at it, honestly. That’s why he’s still single and jobless. He could pass for a regular person online to Meisha in her eagerness to be catholic, but she figured it out quickly.
Nah she doesn’t. She is just realising he is not who she imagined to be before they met. She has been very open to communicate issues to him, instead of just tolerating. I don’t think she will proceed with this rs after this trips
He thinks it's ok to vocalise everything HE doesn't like...cuddling a wee homeless kitten that could really do with some kindness & interaction...having 1 cigarette a year, going to a club to dance ( yet drinks alcohol!)
He is the biggest hypocrite with the biggest ego...
He's very anti social, judgemental, cold hearted & patronising.
He gives religion a bad name.
Meisha is intelligent enough to realise this idiot is not marriage material..thank goodness.
I don't think religion needs any help from him but agree he sure does it no favors. "Idiot' and all else on point!
Nicola come across as highly judgemental and narcissistic. He is not sensitive at all to Mishea. Mishea you deserve a whole lot more than this troll.
I get the vibe, she's been used and abused her whole life trying to fit in the world and it took a toll on her in huge ways. I hope she finds peace within along her journey 🙏
Her threshold is so slow I agree…no self esteem really
Meisha has good self esteem. She's beautiful, educated, no small children, has her own money, a devout Catholic, loves animals and wants to meet his family. Nicola, on the other hand, is a neanderthal.
What does she see in this creep
@@marknewton6984 - publicity?
Nicola is a perfect candidate for the priesthood. Meisha has more patience than me because I would have left. If she has to give him an ultimatum then it's not real. Go home Meisha and save yourself a lot of grief.
Seminaries don’t want people like that. You want someone like that in a place of religious power and authority?
He is way to judgemental to be a proper priest
He talks about morality but doesn't follow his own rules... very bad idea.
@@audhdcreativity5899😂 true
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He is no place for the priesthood. You want someone who knows the teachings but can understand his people, not talk down to them and tell them their tears are useless. People grieving often come to a priest, forlorn people, I would never want to go to him, he only focuses on his OWN relationship with a higher power and his place with Him in Heaven
I always feel so bad for her, he's completely not the right person for her and vice versa.
She is too good for him.
He seems to actively dislike her.
Nicola has no job, no money, no assets, no personality and no close relationship with his family 👀
He is nothing himself.
No looks too.. but has Major Attitude
"no close relationship with his family" with whom he LIVES.
No face
No SENSE.
Hopefully Misha gets her annulment and can find a person as empathetic, inteligente, successful as her. And for the wellness of Nicolas mental health, hopefully he never realized how close he was to receive real and trustworthy love for a woman like Misha: beautiful inside, outside, inteligente and successful
It is not clear to me an annulment -- very hard to get, partic when two kids given birth to --will be necessary for 'marrying with in the church", that being catholic, much longer. This guy makes catholocism look bad. It is and it is DONE for. The curtain of mystique is about to be ripped away. Ever see the pic of Trump and the little pope looking like he has two black eyes? Strong reason for that. Though not yet official, it is so OVER.
All the best to Misha weathering that storm of revelation. Nicola? Doubt he'd weather the shock. I think he's not a reclusive because he's catholic, but catholocism is his excuse for being reclusive. HORRID creature. Sad really. Bad enough for him but to be that way but to have Misha in his mess is appalling.
Rules for thee, but not for me. Surely never better applied than to churches and royalty.
And maybe Trump has been seen walking in front of the queen also. Breaking protocol most underservedly imposed.
She needs an annulment and to meet me!
@@marknewton6984 Go for it Mark, she needs a break.
His object hatred for the kitten is a major red flag. He is not safe for her or any woman to be around.
No woman deserves this treatment. A woman like Meisha, who has had her own career, lived independently, successfully raised 2 daughters, and is conventionally attractive should be even quicker leaving a loser like Nicola, knowing full well that if and when she's ready to seek another partner, she'll find plenty of suitors.
She should dump that creepo pronto!
He has all the charm of a bowl of dog food. I hope she doesn't under sell herself by marrying him.
He is an insult to dogs!
Nope more like a toilet 🚽
I think Nicola is scared that his mom likes Meisha and that she will take her side when they fight. Which would mean that he’ll loose control over Meisha
I hope she leaves and finds herself a genuinely nice man.
That you could talk to someone for seven years and not pick up on the red flags is crazy.
She seems not very bright.
Exactly! With all the video calls etc that they've had in the past 7⃣ YEARS you'd expect her to have noticed that something's off with Nicola 🙈
Nikolai is a gargoyle compared to her. He's embarrassed to bring her around his family are you kidding me she should be embarrassed being with a man that looks like that
She should dump him now. I'm available.haha
I'm embarrassed for her to have such a poor taste in man
He looks like an angler fish doesn’t he?
@@morningafternoonheadshot6741 🤣
People like Nicola will be surprised to learn that they're toxicity won't get them in heaven. The holier than thou attitude, narcissism, misogyny, lack of empathy, his lack of emotional intelligence is a turn off. How dare he measures himself to Christ.
The woman is out of his league. Yaseem is right, he brings nothing to the table. He doesn't even work.
If Meisha is happy to relocate to a London then she’s free to come say hi 😂
I bet!
😂😂😂
Oooooh!!! I did not understand that he has no job, no nothing!!! GOOD LORD GIRL GET TH OUTA THERE!!!
She’s too pretty and way too accomplished for him, she intimidates him therefore he wants to bring her down to his level, I hope she snaps back into reality and leaves him.
this is one cold hearted dude no wonder he hasnt had any relationships in years.. he has no compassion in him whatsoever... he will never find happiness being like this..he is the type that if he cant function properly he would blame the woman for his lack of performance..
I hope she finds her misplaced self esteem and self worth and get tf away from him. She’s likely crying at the realization that she’s wasted 7 of her firm skin years on this bafoon. She should give him back to God🤣
This is like Megan Fox chasing a troll to love her.
When their segment started, i thought Misha was just another beautiful, vapid party girl. Boy, was i wrong. Girl is DEEP. I love it & we're all behind you, woman! Show us all how its done.🤩🤩😘
Nicolas is so clueless that he didn’t realize he gave her the middle finger lol 😂
Yes, Meisha, this a a MAJOR personality flaw that is not likely to get better. Cut your loses, leave immediately, and block this good-for-nothing.
He’s an extreme narcissist. My stepfather was an extreme narcissist, he sounds exactly like him. The only advice I have for her is, never marry this man. I know that it’s been seven years, it’s not worth it. You have two daughters at home, if you allow this narcissist into your home, it will ruin your relationship with your daughters completely. It’s been nearly 10 years and I’m still struggling to forgive my mother for allowing a abusive narcissist into our lives for seven years. He’s not worth your relationship with your daughters.
She’s a beautiful woman she can easily find someone who’s so much better. And yet she’s trying to be with a man child who really can’t understand why is she crying as well wanting to know his family. No wonder he’s been single & he doesn’t have kids, I can just imagine how he would destroy the kids lives
I am really struggling to see what Meisha actually sees in Nikola. This woman needs to look elsewhere for a partner.
Anywhere!
Run Meisha, ruuuuunnnnnn!!!!!
Fast and far!
This is the first dign of an abusive partner. The belittting, the gaslighting, the religous brow beating...all gigantic red flags.
He looked totally jealous of his friend when he was petting the cat. He doesn't want Nicola to be friendly with anyone else.
She is Beautiful! He don't deserve her.
Nicola is a creep. Devoid of emotion, respect and affection. Their chemistry is like dry ice.
She needs to dump the jerk now if not sooner!
He is not a creep, Meisha loves him
3:07 His friend really said that 😂😂😂😂
What does this woman see in this creep?!? He’s so cringe and dad like.. this can’t be real
Why is it that the people who are very very religious don't follow Jesus' lead and treat others well? Its always the people who claim to be super religious that are the biggest hypocrites!! It's sad, because if they actually followed Jesus, they'd treat others as they should be treated!
I grew up in the catholic church and went to catholic school and the ones that preached the loudest were usually the biggest hypocrites, in my experience.
SAME! I went to catholic Sunday school and they would be the biggest judge mental ppl instead of teaching us to treat those who are different with respect, kindness, and love
He's no Catholic, he's a pharisee!
Meisha is 40 years old and knows what she wants, Nikola hasn’t had a relationship and acts like 15 year old.
Meisha wants Nicola???
Did he just flip her off while smirking? 10:32
I honestly believe that was intentional. He's such a man child, that he flipped her off, but tried to make it look discreet. He also thought it was clever and funny and that's why he was smirking as he did it.
Whenever you meet your family and friends to a new person allow them to speak and get along with them. Regardless if it turns out good or bad. It is better they get the chance to naturally connect than you try to control or force a connection
Everyone always attacks Nicola. He’s not a bad person. He’s used to being alone. The more time they spend together, the more they’ll work through their differences. He bends for her at times. Meisha can be a lot lol. They are both equally extra, and I love it 😂
Miesha seems to be good and sensible. I don't get how she could waste seven years penpaling this guy and thinking about relationship with him. I want to see what is wrong with her. Maybe in the future episodes she will show..
She is not bright. But she IS good looking!
What the hell is wrong with him??? Insecurities, and narcissism kicking in, for sure. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 He's SOOOO OUT OF HIS LEAGUE 👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
True catholics value life. Every catholic i know, including myself, will take in an animal, help an animal in need or cuddle an animal. We, of course, will do the same for humans. I would cuddle that kitten with Meisha. It would make me happy seeing her be friendly with animals.
I'm catholic and watching these two I can see the difference between someone living her faith to make others happy even cats and someone using his faith to feel a superior judge of others
It absolutely is not a catholic thing - I know that and Im not even catholic. It's him - he's the problem lol
@@exitopasoapaso3288well said !
@@herefortheshrimp1469no, sh*t, that's why I said true Catholics which he's not.
She should leave, he's not the man for her. She's beautiful inside and out. Someone else will do right by her.
She is beautiful...move on. This guy is not for you
😂he’s so serious all the time like a catholic robot 🤖
Misha is the example how a real Catholic must be: committed, trustworthy, emphatic, kind, brave,not judgemental, patient and Nicola the example of how not to be
@@exitopasoapaso3288EXACTLY Misha acts more Catholic than Nicola is hands down, this is coming from a Catholic
Meisha communicates the way I wish I could and he lacks self-awareness if he thinks he is the prize.
He is a the booby prize at a 5th grade birthday party.
The kitten is adorable
He don't deserve her. As a Catholic myself he is too judgemental...idk what Bible he's reading
They have no connection! There is zero spark ..
“Comparing himself to Jesus”….I’m dyin!! 😂😂
He's delusional and blasphemous
He so full of himself and he’s not a good catch. Too rigid and uncaring. Meisha deserves better
Theres a reason this man is single. He doesn't understand basic emotion and doesn't want to.
He has played on her faith & previous lifestyle to style himself as her spiritual guru. She feels indebted to him for 'saving' her.
I think all this is wrong but sadly i think its what is going on.
You can tell he has barely dealt with women. He has antiquated views on how women should behave, hes cluless. Run girl run!
i dont kknow why some people decide to stay together even after recognizing the red flags
I am on Meisha's side now. There is a healthy level of masculinity. But he is just a narcissist. Your completely right!. She seems like such a nice lovely lady. It breaks my heart to see her cry.
You nailed it.
I know the show coaches the couples to exaggerate their issues for more drama, but I worry about this guy. Nicola seems to want Meisha, but only after he can mold her into who he wants her to be.
I really hope she dumps him. He hates the fact that she pets kittens. Come on. She's one of the most gorgeous women I've seen, she's intelligent. kind. He does not deserve her at all
I hope she doesn't marry him. I could never be married to someone that almost seems like he looks down on me and invalidates every feeling I had.. He not only looks down on Meisha, but he also looks down on his own family.. Run Meisha! Run! He's very manipulative and reminds me of a serial killer... 🥺
He doesn't know how lucky he is to have her.
No one should put up with that much lack of empathy
Well, you must be crazy to believe annulments come easy and quickly, Meisha.
Nicola is such the gas lighter 🌬️🔥
That picture of him rolling his eyes says the whole story. I blame her though. She shd know better. I just think he is a delusional fool. Woman get a good psychiatrist!
Wha does she see in that zombie looking frak! Run girl run as fast as you can
If I were her I’d change to my own hotel room and enjoy the rest of the trip as a solo vacation. This relationship should be long over.
1 look at this backup thriller dancer and Miesha should’ve moved on and found anyone else
Girl, i would have pepper sprayed that mf a long time ago 😂 The nerve and audacity lol
The audacity of the unwashed man-child! Meisha has the patience of a saint.
NGL: I would be picking up all the kittens too
This guy is a classic dismissive-avoidant. Not a narcissist.
7 years wasted. Okay, next. Nicola is abusive.
ahhh I needed to see this video to understand his issues better lol thank you!
This dude is definitely an odd ball
My biggest question is, where in the hell do they find these people at, and to be a couple. Lol smh.
She is way out of his league way way out of his league.
What, Israel doesn’t have basements and video games? That would be the perfect environment for Nicola!
In Brasil we say: that’s what happens when a hot girl gives a chance to an ugly guy😂😂
Please stop crying and pack your bags. This is never going to work. You would probably have to raise a boy, support him and destroy the calm of your soul forever
And now i know why hes still a virgin. No one wants that and everyones been smart enough to leave him. She needs to realise this isnt a relationship hes trying to control her.
I can’t with this dude. Hes literally the worst. He makes me nauseous.
I don't understand how he was charming and pleasant. He always looks angry. I really want to know how he ever got a patient, kind, opposite of Nicola. She better tell him how big of a lying, jerk. I think he feels because of her looks he wants to bring her down a step...I don't get it.
Meisha RUN, do not look back, run!
If you have a problem with a cute little kitten, you actually have a problem deep down in your heart and soul🫨