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Scrappy Reaches His Breaking Point 💥 Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 พ.ย. 2022
- Tensions between Scrappy and Momma Dee reach an all-time high, resulting in a massive blow-up. 💥
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She plays victim and she is obsessed with her son
Tooo obsessed until it's cringy
This is exactly how my ML talk to my bd .
I was just about to say . He wants and tried to make Scrappy a son-husband. He’s realized he can’t have a successful happy relationship with anyone because of it
Thats her son
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💥
That was Scrappy's first step to healing and breaking the generational curse
AMEN 🙏
💯💯
Amen
Exactly
Frfr
"You're not trying to be a momma, you trying to be a socialite" truer words have never been said about this woman.
Man... i felt condemned in MY spirit when she said that. Bambi hit that nail square on the head. Sniper precision.
Boom. That was it. Now I need Scrappy to give his mom space and focus on his dime piece wife. 😄
U GO SCRAPPY FINALLY ‼️ BUT THERE'S 1 THING THAT STILL BOTHERS ME N THAT'S THAT KIRK N RASHEEDA CRAP HE WENT N HAD A WHOLE BABY ON HER MADE HER TAKE A PATERNITY TEST NAMED HIS OUTSIDE BABY WITH HIS K LIKE HIS OTHER CHILDREN N RASHEEDA STILL WITH HIM NEITHER ONE OF THEM ARE GOOD FOR ANY ADVICE AND THAT'S NOT WHAT A STRONG WOMAN DOES SHE WOULD HAVE WALKED OUT THE DOOR.PERIOD ‼️‼️
I use to think maybe Momma D just needed a man to get on with her own life. So where is Earnest? Obviously he was not the solution to such deep rooted issues
Sounds like Blueface's mom.
My heart breaks for scrappy. He literally was about to say “I’m a child” but then stop himself and “I’m your child”. That’s his inner child crying out for help to his mother. Momma Dee has no accountability for her actions and it’s sickening. As a black community, we need to break the cycle once and for all.
He been wanting to say
She will never get it. In her eyes she birthed him so she gets to do and say whatever she wants. My Mother is the same way. Recently cut her tf off. I'm grown asf, I don't need the added stress.
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Hear it in his voice " ion have nobody , do you understand "
@@SwissCheezd That honestly speaks volumes on the people in his life.
I’m so happy Scrappy said how he was feeling. You can tell he’s been holding it in for so long and he’s finally tired of it.
Yes. He unleashed it, he had to unleash it cause when that trauma settled it boiled over. I have had the same conversation with my Mother. It was therapeutic, carthatic and necessary. Our healing started from there.
Yes I totally agree with you, he had to get that out he's held that in for farrrrrr farrrr to long but he Love's his momma know matter what... But he spoke from his Heart ❤️ deep down and he's hurt from all of that FRFRFR 💯💯 IJS
@@candyowens1660 I totally agree. I just wish everyone would have stayed quiet and let him get out what he had to say.
Most definitely toooooooo toooooooooooooooooooo long
No one has the right to talk to their parents any kind way… ok you can agree wit some cursing their parents. Just wait until ur child curse you and then put they hands on you kids are killing they parents theses days
This is one of the realest moments that I have ever seen on love and hip hop. I hope Scrappy gets the healing that he needs.
Fr fr
It's a skit lol haha 🤣
@@Game6Sportsi honestly believe it’s not because his mama been like this before love and hip hop
Love that he constantly mentions his sister being hurt too. That's how you know they have a pretty close bond!
Yeah. You can tell him and her have had plenty of those conversations about their mom just between the two of them.
@@NikkiKNuvo
I didn't even think of that! I bet they bonded even closer over sharing and experiencing similar traumas too.
For them to have been raised around violence, prostitutes and drugs, I’m sure they had to cling to each other, as it’s clear their own mother didn’t give two shits that she was raising her kids in the literal gutter.
This made me cry because it hurts when you try to tell their parents how they traumatized your life constantly and they gaslight you.
😭it hurts so bad I'm in the same situation but I'mma love my kids a be there for them don't matter what
Exactly. So path etic his mom is
this scripted show.
“It don’t matter what he said, what are you going to take accountability for?” I usually don’t side with Erica, but that’s a very real statement. Parents traumatize their kids (albeit unknowingly) then try to play the victim. No, be accountable!
@JROSE SANTANA the wasn’t about that lol
It don’t matter what he said, what are you going to take accountability for?”
Good Question Erica... It dont matter what Safari saids ,What are You gunna take Accountability for???
Sure can give advice but sure can't apply it.
@JROSE SANTANA you wet/Backs stick together that’s what’s up wish my ppl did this
Nah. Parents be knowing exactly what they're doing. ESPECIALLY when hou been told the same thing for over a decade. She's a sick psycho who wants her son to be her man. That's why she's always sabotaging his relationships and trying to keep him single and in the streets. She taught him to treat women like objects.
@@youmaydisagreebut848 the situation HAD ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH The other no need to bring that up
Scrappy’s progression since season 1 has been a delight to watch! Thanks LHHATL for keeping him around so that the world could witness his growth!
I agree💯
Amen
Tea.
I'm surprised that he lasted this long lol
This made me cry...one of the best comment.. I felt it... no trurer words.. GROWTH he has truly grown in our eyes... blessings Abena
“You hurt too - go blame that on your momma and your daddy”
Right there. That’s the pattern. He recognized it and called it out.
🎯🎯🎯 exactly THIS
@@theiswithin3649 the generational curses comes in to play
Exactly I am 37 years old I have been working on my personal growth. As well as healing for a few years now. I give it God hardest thing is going through my life over 10 years without my Mother. I am constantly working on myself progression.
You can tell he's been holding this in for so long. Even at 4:03 when he said "I aint do nothin to you, I'm a...." He almost slipped up and said, " I'm a kid", showing that in that moment he regressed back to his childhood for a split second. Glad he's finally getting this off his chest.
I never thought I'd see the day!!!! Finally, he put his foot down and told his momma that he's not putting up with her shit anymore. Erica was trying to get him to see it 10 years ago.
Right! I remember Mama Dee putting Erica through HELL. She's owed an apology for real. She's been saying there's something wrong with Mama Dee since forever.
FACTS... he was blaming Erica. He couldn't see his mom for what she is.. a busy body who is way too invested in her sons love life... he never stood up to her.. I'm happy he's doing it now.. he should've done it years ago
Yesss
Time 4 kandi too do mama Joyce like that with Todd
@@everybodyaintablewithsean my God, yes! She never will but she ought to!
Scrappy deserved to stand up for himself and his WIFE! She's done this for years and says it's out of love Bs my mom gaslighted me my whole life There is no excuse for being crazy to treat your child like shit!!
.. just be glad you had a mom to be upset about.. many of us didn’t even have that. People always find something to be ungrateful about 😩😩💀
Secret I know EXACTLY where your coming from I too myself has been through the exact same thing
@@The13thGoddessAries So the pot calls the kettle black
@@The13thGoddessAries I mean, yess you are right, be grateful but It is very important to stand up for yourself too. The relationship with our parents affects us psychologically too
My mom never offered her floor or backyard when I was homeless on the streets through the rain and snow ❄️ storms, sleeping in tents. I didn't even do hard drugs and never have. Never prostituted. I was just in between jobs with no savings. One day she said to me GO BACK HOME TO YOUR TENT when she got mad at me for defending myself against her bullshit.
To keep bringing up an ex that I had 10 years ago. She always got something to talk about him telling me how her and my grandma tried to say he wasn't a good guy in this that any other.
And I just be wanting her to shut the f****** cuz I don't even think about that ni#$@.
I mean she bring this n**** up all the time it was not until this time around we got into an argument because I told her that she was an abusive mother and he never apologized but she acts just like scrappy's mom like she doesn't think I'm sorry what can I do to make you feel better nothing.
And she's definitely a gas lighter.
I just don't know why I haven't put my foot down yet to say I'm washing my hands quick of her cuz every now and then I should call but I need to get out here maybe new friends or something because this is too toxic
Mama Dee is definitely the root to all of Scrappy’s problem’s in his life honestly. He’s finally starting to see what Erica and Bambi were talking about and putting boundaries to save his family is start, Mama Dee can’t handle it.
Not Erica 🤦🏽♀️ more like his wife(Bambi), Erica has no reason to speak in anyone business unless it’s her own bs
@@aprilwalker835 she saying when they were together .. she said the same thing .
@@aprilwalker835 Erica is literally still involved in Scrappy's life so what are you going on about? She's the mother of Scrap's kids still. At the end of the day she used to speak up about Mama Dee ALL THE TIME and she was right.
Erica mena, duhh 😑
@@aprilwalker835 well everyone, LITERALLY EVERYONE in this comment section is referring to Erica Dixon. His baby momma. Who has been saying this for ages. You misunderstood and commented
Scrap hit that liquor so hard when Mama Dee started talking! He knew what was coming! Scrap is HURTING! 😔
Once he took those gulps, I knew he was gonna pour his heart out!
REAL SHIT BOYYYY !!!!
Scrapp has a point about breaking generational curses. Most of us was raised in broken homes, seeing things no child should have to see, becoming traumatized by the things we've been through as children... and our parents treat us as though we're supposed to "suck it up and deal with it". Then when we voice our pain to our parents, they treat us as though we're disrespecting them, turning a blind eye to our pain. This has got to stop. At some point, our parents and grandparents need to take accountability for what they've put us through as children. As Scrapp said "I didn't do anything to you, I was a child".
That is the ABSOLUTE TRUTH!!!!
FACTS
Yes a lot parents are toxic and still toxic
@@achocolatefyresign8585 or us as black families and people who are saying that what happens in this house 🏡 stays in this house stays not realizing that the truma that us as black kids goes through the pain like tlyer perry said in the movie madea, s big happy family I can't not stand when as black people tell our black children what happens in this house stays in this house 🏡 not getting the help for our black children that's when the generational curses comes in to play and it makes it so much worse than the ever not realizing the truma or pain that your children or family are affected hopefully momma dee can finally open her eyes 👀 to see what scrappy is trying to tell her momma dee she has to learn that her son needs her help and love and support from her because all momma dee is doing is throwing her own son to the wolves of the world not realizing once scrappy gets his old self again it will be too late to save him and scrappy definitely needs to see and sit down with a Therapist for his mental health because was really was a about to lose it on momma dee it, s only so much that a person can take when your mother is not trying to hear what her son has to say to her about his childhood experience and truma that is causing him to be like he is don't nobody cares or listen,s to what scrappy has to say that, s just my thoughts and opinions on the matter
Facts it's all about breaking that cycle in a good way cause when you are a kid u think about doing better for yours u know so I feel scrappy
This is what reality tv is made for, the realness. Scrappy, hands down, has my respect for being so transparent. No one, to my knowledge, has ever been that open on tv. To see that on tv from a black male, will be so healing to many black moms and sons, shit black families in general.
She was wrong! He's being a Man 🌞
Great comment
Joseline has . Lol all the time watch the early seasons
@@andreswarner5786 agreed. To see that from a black male like Joseline on TV...
@@Dinkwadz 😭you got a slick mouth. i like it 😂😂😂😂
They always pull the “you disrespected me” card in response to trauma
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Kirk said, “but you know your mama crazy” and went on to say it to Momma Dee herself 😂😂😂
Finally he said something right
Its was really funny but its also the problem with her and people around her. Most people call her crazy and just accept her being like that instead of wanting her to be better. Now Scrappy wants her to finally be better for the sake of the family hes trying to maintain.
Kirk wasn't lying tho 😂😂😂😂😂
“If you don’t give respect, you don’t get it”💯💯facts!!
BIG FACTS
Miss Winter I've always believed that!!! 💯🎯
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FACTS🔥🔥🔥 it doesn’t matter who you are or what you do. Respect has been, is, and always will be a two-way street
👏🏼👏🏼💯
Bambi said it best, “you not tryna be his momma you Tryna be a socialite!”
Bruh, I gasped! She cut to the white meat.
No lie told tho. These new age grandparents don't even want that title. Glam-ma's n all that smh. Social media helped further damage the black community. Everyone pushing for attention regardless of age smh
I don’t usually agree with Bam but this was spot on 😂
Ooof, that hit me deep esp because its true.
@@itsmyopinion8462 or it's a toxic black parents favorite line I brought you in this world and I will take you out and our so called modern day black toxic parents are so worried about having a hot girl summer like megan the stallion and what Bambi said about momma dee cut her ass to cut to the quick momma dee wants to be a social lite instead of being a grandmother and a mother Bambi hit the nail on the head with momma dee
Erica said this years ago and now he finally sees it
We saw Darryl Richardson (not Scrappy) defend himself and his wife against a toxic parent. Respect.
This entire thing hit hard! I congratulate Scrappy for finally defending himself and his family and being able to communicate his feelings.
I think that when he saw the same disrespect Erica D had to deal with happening again with Bambi it FINALLY hit him that his mum is the problem. Scrap's come a long way
Yes. And real fans know scrapp never supported how momma dee treated Erica he just didnt want to hurt her feelings
@@destinylove2193 right he never said what really needed to be said he'd just be like "nah don't do that" and hoped it would blow over. Scrap finally hit the wall, though. We all do eventually.
The fact she really didn’t take any accountability at freaking all is beyond me
Its difficult when you try to talk to a parent about how hurt you are and they turn it and say they hurt more. It's frustrating. Scrapp wasn't disrespectful at all , he was venting how hurt he is and she made it about her.
“that’s why i don’t talk to your motherf$&king A$$” ain’t disrespectful? My mom is a full blown narcissist and I simply stay away and love her from a distance. Nobody’s gonna stop my blessings from coming to me. I live a good life and knowing that she hates that is good enough for me. I’m 44 years old and I’ve never disrespected her even after everything she’s done to me. Scrap needs to take accountability for his choices. He knows his momma doesn’t like his wife, so why go to your mom and vent to her knowing she was gonna do exactly what she did? If i was Bambi, i would feel betrayed, which why he’s doing damage control. When people get caught, they deflect and play victim. Yes Mama Dee was wrong, but so was he. Why not check her when she disrespected your wife by befriending your ex and becoming godmother to your child? Only when she tells everybody what YOU said about your wife is when you have a breaking point? Negro please.
Scrappy broke my heart in this episode. He is so traumatized. I hope he gets the help he needs to heal 💜
This one hit hard I had tears 😭 comming from my eyes and it's sad we got so many mothers out here like this it's sad
It's a skit dummy
He still shouldn’t talk to her like that. He’s having temper tantrums. He should be able to control his emotions as an adult. If his mom is still being disrespectful, he has to love her from a distance. Simple. The End.
@@smf427 Nah. Fuck that. Her status as his mother doesn't come with respect added in. That is earned. And up to this point, she really hasn't earned it. I hope they can work through it, because it is a shame. But his trauma and pain are real, and she needs to shut her mouth and LISTEN TO HIM. She always talks over him or tries to downplay it. It's time for her to own her mistakes, not just point out the mistakes of others.
@@smf427 Hi, congratulations, you're part of the problem! You literally just said that a parent should be able to do whatever they want to their child and still be right and still get all the respect even without giving any in return or taking any accountability whatsoever. That sounds right to you?
Scrappy may still have childish ways but he’s definitely grown over past 10 seasons, I hope they all heal
That's because Momma Dee is treating him like a child
@@andrewstaples7544 that's the reason why she needs to mind her own business it's not worried about what her son doing
Scrappy came such a long way. I'm honestly very proud of him. It's hard to break the cycle of mental and emotional abuse and he wants better for himself and his family and is making steps to do it. Gotta give Bambi props here too. She definitely helps him to be better and loves him. Being loved wrong is never more apparent when you're loved right, even if it is in different ways. I wish them all the best.
i love the way Shekinah inserts herself into ANY moment UNPROVOKED. 😭
so glad he’s calling her out, it’s moments like these you have to love from a distance because they’ll never get it. narcissistic people only listen to respond not to reason. I hope scappy and his sister heals
Trying to have serious conversations with a narcissist feels like trying to talk to a toddler in the middle of a tantrum
“You hurt? Go blame that on yo Momma. Go blame that on yo Daddy. I ain’t did nothing to you. I’m yo child! I have nobody!” Is one of the most heart-wrenching lines to come from this show. I wish Momma Dee would take accountability and admit her wrongs even if it was her best. She continues to deny and deflect and it’s breaking my heart…she can’t see all Scrappy wants her to do is understand.
He finally told her 😢 bless you scrappy man. Just move on with your family and if your mom decides to change, that’s on her. Put your energy in the family you’re growing not the one that shaped you ❤
Brilliant advice. He has a partner who loves him and is 100% for him and on his team. Their focus needs to be the family that they have the power to shape and influence for the better🧡
Amen
@@user-dv3kq3rm4h Yes, this! 💯
@@user-dv3kq3rm4h that part
I'm super proud of Scrappy. This has been a long time coming. Momma D isn't ready to take accountability for the decisions she made that inadvertently, hurt her children. I'm sure she did the best she thought she could, raising Scrappy and his sister. It's not wrong of Scrappy to feel like that upbringing was traumatic. He deserves to heal from that.
Not Momma Dee pulling the surprised Pikachu face when Kirk told her she's crazy.🤣
Ma'am you know you're crazy stop it.😂
She's a lunatic
I swear, when I say I felt this as a parent and a child! This hit deep in my soul! I can't stop crying! We got to do better!!! 😭😭😭
I felt this as well. I agree with you 100%
Facts 💔🙏🫂
Man like I got chills because it’s like he was talking about my whole situation
I respect Scrappy for trying to better himself as a man, a husband, a father and as an individual. He’s trying to break that generational curse and do better than what he was given as a child. I can relate all the way.
Everyone knows Mama D is crazy. Scrappy should have been stopped telling his mom personal stuff.
Wow. So there should be no accountability ever for her cause she admit she’s crazy? And bruh…. You sound so lost I hope you don’t procreate
Mama Dee knows SHES crazy so she need to take the proper precautions in how she handles that so she can have HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS she needs to be accountable
She put it out there all her business.
It's hard because that's his mom. so hes going to tell her things that's natural. But his mom is a selfish narcissist and flips everything he says and plays the victim. He's going to have to accept his mom for who she is and give her distance. Focus on his wife whose a dime piece btw. Poor some passion into her. 😄
It's not just about her being crazy. It's about her being dysfunctional and Traumatizing to her son
This is what happens when you keep things bottled up and then it boils over and spills over. In a lot of black households, we were taught to just keep quiet in these situations. We grew up with the whole "children are meant to be seen but not heard" and it spills over into our adult life and it puts us in the position of sitting back and keeping our mouths shut, despite the parent not having the decency to keep their mouths shut.
And Momma Dee had the nerve to say he was being disrespectful. If he was, there was a reason and he told her the reason: you gotta give respect to get it. I sometimes struggle with my own mother about this. She can't respect me as an adult. I'm 37 and is still being treated like I'm 12. It's my fault because I allow it and I keep quiet. Then when I act my age or when things start bubbling over aka when I demand respect as an adult and also as one of her children (im the youngest of seven), it becomes a problem. And then the arguing starts.
Somewhere down the line, me keeping quiet gave her the idea that she can treat me any kind of way or tell my business to anyone or have her input whenever she feels like it. And now...I'm paying for it.
Scrap going through the same thing. We love our mothers and respect them, but it's hard when you don't get that same respect back.
Say it louder for the people saying she needs to be respected but respect is earned
@@thatbeaatcch9884 or it's a toxic black parents favorite line I brought you in this world and I will take you out that's every black toxic parents favorite saying plus Bambi hit the nail on the head of momma dee she is definitely wants to a social lite instead of a loving grandmother and mother or a another favorite saying of toxic black parents is what happens in this house stays in this house 🏡 and it's just so sickening and toxic black parents always want to put down their own kids because of their toxic black parents and their negative upbringing and its just so heartbreaking and sad 😔 plus toxic black parents don't give a second thought about their child,s mentally health hopefully momma dee will get hit with a dose of reality and wake up and smell the coffee that just my thoughts and opinions on the matter please please please please please please please please please please please reply back to me antionetta Wolfe
Proud of Scrappy breaking free from the dysfunction and trauma from his childhood. Unfortunately a lot of black children grow up in narcissistic homes. His mother does not have any remorse or accountability and sadly she never will. He attracted many relationships that mirrored his attachment to his mother. But now he is breaking the generational curse. Wishing much peace on his healing journey! ✨
My 11 year old child got a mom who's dysfunctional family my child grandmother is a narcissistic woman who's don't give a rat ass about herself and my child mom got mental illness being to jail and state hospital her mother mess her up like that see I don't want my daughter grow up dysfunctional issues like that cause of her grandmother
This is what Erica been wanting him to do for years. This what he needed. It's sad Mama Dee still not receiving it you can see it in her face she not really hearing him.
I back Scrappy 100%. Momma D traumatized him with her b******t life choices and now she's mad that he's traumatized and hurt by exposing him to horrible stuff. Scrappy is RIGHT. Momma D needs to go get therapy and Scrappy needs a hug.
Scrappy has been tormented by his mother's upbringing. There was no other way for him to express himself but to let it all out like this! Momma Dee messed up his relationship with Erica. Whenever she sees him getting love from another woman, she destroys their relationship. I really believe Erica is more suited to deal with Momma Dee than Brandi because Brandi doesn't feel for him like Erica does. All he wanted to do was please his mom and make her proud. He deserves real love. His mom never had that love, so she can't relate. So sad.
Momma Dee messed up scrappy n Érica relationship but they also hurt each other a lot to the point they couldn’t stand each other. Erica is not better suited for Scrappy because she as well had so much trauma and wasn’t able to shore him the love he needed either and she put alot on the show that should’ve been kept behind closed doors. I feel he’s with the right person and Bambi helps him to see his flaws as well and accepts him. She might not like some choices he make but she’s not cold to him
You contracdicted yourself if Erica was more suited for Scappy because she could deal with Momma Dee; MOMMA DEE would’ve been able to mess up their relationship let’s add that she’s literally the reason why they called off their engaged and broke up; she made him choose between her and Erica and she’s doing the same thing with Bambi
Bambi 😂 but you’re right ! She thought she could control Bambi but she knew she couldn’t play with my girl Erica !! You’re are on point !!
@@arquidalyncollins1802 😂😂😂
@@SweetestGyrl Not saying Erica was better suited for Scrappy (although I love her) but you can chase away a good partner, one that really would’ve elevated you and held you down, by your actions. Erica was asking Scrap to do exactly what he’s doing now: create boundaries so they could flourish. But he was still in that “that’s my momma and you’re just gonna have to deal with it” mode. He’s finally catching on (growing up) more than 10 years later.
I’m proud of Scrap’s progress for real. He has a lot of trauma that has impacted how he loves and how he treats the women in his life. Hopefully he continues to heal ❤
YESSS SCRAPPY!!!!! He always took up for his mom, even when she was wrong. He was quiet for so long. Not anymore. Love it.
This was so intense and gut wrenching 😢 I pray for their healing and a loving relationship between all
Bambi Said It Best... *"Its Cuz You Selfish & You Ain't Tryna Be His Mama, You Tryna Be A Socialite!" **#AndISeeZeroLiesDetected*
Big facts about that one okay 👌
I felt every word Scrappy said every time I watch the scene I tear up because we literally went through the same thing growing up. I been watching this show since it came out I ain’t seen Scrappy breakdown like that he was at his breaking point.
There’s no telling what type of abuse & trauma Scrappy and his sister endured growing up in an environment like that. No telling who may have possibly taken advantage of them as kids…..I teared up watching this bc I can tell by Scrap energy it’s way more to the story and it’s even worse bc his mama doesn’t even wanna take accountability for the damage she caused her kids. She keeps talking about he’s mad bc she told his business no honey the wound is way deeper than that….
Never saw Scrappy like this with his mom. He is fed up with her foolishness. Now, he does need to stop speaking with her like that but I'm glad he is finally putting his foot down when it comes to his wife & children. She needs to stop talking about them badly in public. She is ruining her relationship with her son.
Nah, that’s frustration and it sucks that as an adult she still can’t respect him and or his family. Respected is fucking earned not given. Fuck out of here with that bullshit
That’s that liquor courage talking. Scrappy needs to accept his mom for where she at in her life. You can’t force someone to change. Scrappy needs Godly counseling.
@@jt3409 It’s not easy to just accept this stage of her life when she’s like this. I don’t blame him for not wanting to be around her and struggling to create a healthy relationship with her. When someone can’t take a single ounce of accountability for what they have done to you, it’s hard to be around them and “accept” that. This is his mother. This should be the last person he should have to worry about telling his business, or always fighting with. With that being said, I can’t blame him for wanting to continue to try to fix his relationship with her. (Although it fails every-time.)The liquor might have his feelings heightened but, Scrappy has been dealing with Momma Dee for years and has finally stood his ground. As he said, this is a generational curse and Momma Dee is only continuing to keep the cycle alive. I truly do feel sorry for him.
@@aryliso5376 yes, I agree that it hard to be around someone like Scrappy’s mother. However, when scrappy reaches that full state of consciousness, soberness, healing, and transparency he will be able to not only forgive his mother but he won’t let where she is at get him outside of where he is. Scrappy is too old to be throwing tantrums, cussing, hollering, and throwing objects. He is not in control of himself. As soon as his mother opened her mouth, the first thing that Scrappy did was sip his drink.. I pray that God will help him.
Everyone is praising him for standing up for himself, but really all he is doing is hiding behind weed and alcohol. Scrappy is suffering inside, he’s a victim of his own delusions. His mama can’t save him.
You can tell that this conversation right here was a long time coming ❤️💯
When he said blame your mama and talk to your mama I felt that go head scrap set your boundary say your peace ❤
I had to leave the house at 14 because the woman who helped adopted me literally blamed me for all of her life’s issues. I was the reason why she hated the world and had such a cold heart. She let me experience so much trauma and pain. I would scream in her face with tears down my eyes anything to get her to listen and she never would. One day I was at school and she knew I had to work after school and I had my own vehicle that I purchased she texted me and told me that she had my keys and I was no longer needed in the house. I have tried so many times to express myself but every time I get shut down because either she doesn’t remember or she doesn’t want to remember. Man Scrap it’s gonna get better. I’m only 20 and I finally found bits and pieces of my life that I’m trynna put together
Damn sorry that happened to you
My real mom blames me and my big brother for her illness and that we’re gonna be the reason she dies and I’m the youngest 23 now with my own kids and my parents try and belittle me cause I’m a single mom and when they disrespect me or anything and I stick up for myself it’s an issue and her comes my dad telling me to shut up or he gonna make me like what I’m grown now
You are exceptional! To survive all that keep Christ close to you, you will see it getting better
💕🕊️🙌. Sending you love. You are loved and needed in this 🌎.
So proud of you!
FINALLY! He holds her accountable and everybody else too!
This reminds me of me and my father. No matter how much I breakdown and cry trying to explain to him that he wasn't there for me emotional he turns it to himself and takes no accountability.
thats my mom in a nutshell
Can I ask something? This is a genuine question. If your father came to you and said, I am genuinely sorry. I know I hurt you. I was wrong. I hope you can forgive me, and he tried to foster a relationship, would you be open to it? I'm asking because I often think people could accomplish a lot if they admit they are wrong and ask for forgiveness.
She is a narcissist and always in his business. He should’ve set boundaries with her a LONG time ago.
This problem occurs when children become adults the parents forget they can no longer control how they eat sleep and work. I'm happy Scrap finally see for what it is. I'm glad Bambi has shown him there's a better way of life.
No this the one!!!!
I love Momma Dee + scrapp’s relationship. But there has been a many of times where I feel she forgets he’s her son and not her man.
I just have to say .... I'm proud of you Scrappy. You're self aware, and you are trying to let it out as best as you can.
This has been brewing from way back when mama D was cutting up in the Erica days smh. Scrappy finally see now!
Momma Dee is narcissistic asf. Come to think of it she was one of the main reason why Scrap and Erica broke up, she was always in the mix, didn’t know her place and scrappy didn’t know how to stand up to her. I’m glad he’s growing and feeling his emotions enough to where he can openly express it. His traumatic ways lead him to lose ppl and he wasn’t about to let that happen again ! Very proud of him ! Tbh she wasn’t even taking accountability and that’s crazy. Hope they decide to get therapy and heal together.
Childhood trauma is real and healing can take a long time but it's possible. This had me fighting tears.
Amen that’s so true I went through childhood trauma💯😌
Scrappy waking up! realizing you have a toxic, hateful mother is traumatic at any age. The time and years wasted trusting them, forgiving them, ignoring the wounds- is enough to make you explode. That is the worst fight because it is "DISRESPECTFUL" to defend yourself. I am happy for him. Now he can start to heal. Sometimes your worst enemy gave you life.
I agree with scrappy and I'm glad he's trying to get his momma to see that she's wrong
I'm currently 22 I grew up in a very toxic environment for a child my parents broke up before I was born so they would always argued in front of me or I could always hear it from a young age my mother would always ask me how would I feel if she ran away my mother never realized that is traumatic to ask a child I was also inappropriately touched By a grown man who my mother was very close with and also sometimes witnessed it happen but continued to bring the man around me as I got older I grew hatred for my mom and I didnt forgive my mom until I was 16 years old sometimes parents need to point the finger at themselves and realize that they are the problem before its too late
I’m convinced that all of us 80s babies with parents have narcissist as parents if they were born in the 60s
Ok!!! Say it again for the 80s and 90s babies. My mom was born in 1965 and I was born 90. It took me 31 years to realize my mom have a narcissistic behavior. We also gotta look back at our grandparents who were born in the 30s and 40s
@@Oltl21 yeah there parents didn’t SHOW THEM love, so they withhold it from us
Yep!!!! My mom literally is Never wrong!! I finally told her how I felt about some neglectful behavior I experienced from her raising me and she said I did the best I could…😒
Say it louder!!!
Mine was born in 1950 (I was born in 83), same BS though!
You can tell he takes what he does from Bambi because of he endured from his mom. I pray that he continues to balance, find, his voice and get support for himself
What does he take from Bambi?
When he said “I don’t have nobody”, that hurt my feelings. I’ve ALWAYS had somebody, couldn’t imagine it another way 😢
im glad scrappy finally said how he really feels. i feel like for years he was keeping it inside because he loves her but this was his final straw
Im so proud of scrappy he has come so far! I love to see guys turn into a real MAN ! ❤
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“When it comes down to my son I say what the fuck I want” says it all. Too often in our culture our parents feel this sense of entitlement to us. To our time. To our money. To our presence. Regardless of what they do. As if being a parent makes you an elite being when all it takes is 2 minutes and no condom. Shit gets me tight
Honestly watched this episode over and over, his pain is deep down and it’s sad how sometimes parents downplay the emotions of their children
For his mom to say that’s and as a result can say whatever she wants to say indicates her unwillingness to accept being wrong in the first place
Hopefully, they heal (that is Scrappy and his Sister) as well as his wife
However, if staying away from each other will help in healing from this childhood trauma. Then so be it
I’m glad he put his foot down this time though
He has evolved throughout the show and a favourite as well as Shekinah,Joc and Spice
Love and light to all of them
Let it out Scrappy!
Let it out!
Always with you baby.
The realist ON THE SHOW.
Much respect!
"My nicca"
In my Denzel Washington voice.
Think how patient scrappy was being with his mother from past till now he is hurt and trying to better himself and hes asking his mom to just chill , him and Bambi have children he couldn't work things out with Erica cause his moms she too old for how she acting. And kirk is a clown 🤡
Can't even begin to tell you how hard this resonated with me. I'm literally Scrappy in that moment with him.
same. i cried *with* him, not for him.
I’m so happy he tell his mom how he feels in his heart ♥️
Scrappy is probably my favorite person on this show. I’m happy he spoke his mind and hope he gets everything he deserves.
I guess this is what Erica always wanted from him, I’m glad that he realised how disrespectful his mom can be of his relationships
Yup, he's probably very resentful of his mom for ruining his relationship with Erica. He wanted to marry her and give his daughter that healthy family life and dynamic, but Momma Dee made it very difficult. He'll be damned if she does this to him again with his new wife and kids.
I'm proud of you Scrapp! That's growth. Set boundaries fr even if you have to cut ties with your own mother.
I'm grateful to god that Scrappy has come this point that he's not willing to pretend his moms behavior hasn't had consequences . He has grown so much💜💜
parents can totally dissrespect you then ask for respect lol
Scrappy is very hurt at momma dee for the stuff he went through as a child and he has the right to be so. He is traumatized and is expressing his pain right now.
Dang, the way he said "YOU HURT?!" was so painful.
He almost called himself a kid but he caught himself that’s his inner child coming out he was hurtin
"Manipulate a situation to mess up your kids" sounds like MY mother. If it's bringing chaos and ppl can't fall in line Cut Them Off.
Kirk just absorbing all of it 😂😂😂
This is the moment Kandi needs.
I have so much respect for scrap... This right really came from the heart.
“You’re not trying to be a mama but a socialite” that hit deep
I can honestly say I feel scappy's pain carrying ur feelings around and holding them inside bcuz of the fear of hurting your mother can really be overwhelming but when it's all said and done the level of understanding becomes different as does the level of respect I made peace with my mama b4 she died and our relationship wuz the best ever.
It honestly seems like Momma Dee sees Scrappy as her emotional husband. It’s really weird how some mothers are with their sons. I feel for Bambi having to deal with this. I’m about to break up with someone and part of the reason is because his mother has too much say and he doesn’t know to speak up for himself. I truly applaud Scrappy for not only standing up for himself but for Bambi as well.
" you know your mama crazy" is enabling statement of the year
Idk why his reaction was so relatable. Holding on to real stuff your parents did when you were a child just hits different
One of the things that irked me during this video was when Mama Dee told Scrappy "you can't talk to me like that." I've been through this myself and it's prevalent in the black community that your parent(s) can do and say whatever they want to you but the second you give them the same energy or try explaining you pov they deem it disrespectful. Just because you're the parent doesn't mean you're always right and above reproach. Your child is hurting and it's not time to make it about you and pull rank. To a child they see that your dismissing their feelings and avoiding accountability. And she and others wonder why the child(ren) don't want a relationship or anything to do with you 🙄
Big facts okay or toxic black parents favorite line of all time is I brought you in this world and I will take you out that's every black toxic parents favorite saying
I'm so happy with how Scrappy approached his mother and his tough situation.
So often, we're told to shut up because it's disrespectful and to not ever raise our voices at our elders meanwhile, they put us through the most fkd up situations when we were babies and expect us to have the same approach on the next generation. Nah, we breaking that cycle and realizing we deserve love and we deserve to heal however we want to. Prayers up
They definitely ended this clip properly. She got a nice dose of realness that day.
Momma Dee has been out of line several times and she needs to be put in her place ! That’s the problem now ! Moms think they can disrespect and not be put in their place ! She needs a reality check
I'm happy Scrappy freed his mind.
Sadly, the dysfunction was so relatable. I was on the edge of my seat watching this with my husband, so proud of scrap. Sometimes confrontation is the only way to heal the self cause she will NEVER take accountability.