While You're "Asleep" Confession: Why She Won't Marry You

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  • @shadowblade-kz4tu
    @shadowblade-kz4tu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    1: by the end I would have rolled over and hugged her, telling her how much I love her and don't want to lose her
    2: am I the only one who wants to see a part 2 of the next day when listener confronts her telling her we herd everything

    • @letsspamdude5661
      @letsspamdude5661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That would be nice

    • @Galaticat117
      @Galaticat117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are not the only one wanting a part 2

    • @RSDGAMESmuzzy
      @RSDGAMESmuzzy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pleaseee

    • @TR0X3N
      @TR0X3N 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Id sell my soul for it. It sounds so wholesome

    • @AMysticLegend
      @AMysticLegend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TR0X3N aight, hand it over.

  • @joesephstalin2905
    @joesephstalin2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I was expecting to be scolded or something, she didn't even bring up the state sponsored killings that I love so much! Definently a keeper.

    • @ascrew4406
      @ascrew4406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Also glad she didn't mention all your tanks that I helped bring together

    • @SirAlbion
      @SirAlbion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There was state sponsored killings? :Trollface:

    • @Blue13GBG12
      @Blue13GBG12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh nations great father! I thought u was dead! State sponsored killings= western propaganda

    • @incynder9996
      @incynder9996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Underrated comment

    • @jh565bb
      @jh565bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She would definitely marry hitler lol

  • @Robbie32
    @Robbie32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This video just reinforces for me that you should always be honest with your partner, and tell them this kind of shit.
    It might kill the relationship if you're honest, but it'll definitely kill it if you're not.

  • @chumisntfum1614
    @chumisntfum1614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I used to use asmr to sleep now i wouldn't even dream of missing out on such story telling

    • @kronksstronkstonks6360
      @kronksstronkstonks6360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Too damn relatable. Hard to sleep with this much P L O T going on

    • @ant6349
      @ant6349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fr, this shit my Netflix💀

  • @TiT0.
    @TiT0. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I already know this video is gold

  • @thejoshmystr9334
    @thejoshmystr9334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    WOW, you got DEEP into that character didn't you?! Those are real sniffles you always blow me away everytime

  • @greenaceman5351
    @greenaceman5351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    All I expect from a spouse is for them to love me. There is nothing more important than that

  • @SuperHagrids
    @SuperHagrids 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always love how real you are with these videos. It's nice, but it's not sunshine and rainbows, you can feel the anxiety properly. I'm constantly nodding my head and thinking "That's real" whenever you bring something up, especially when it hurts. Brilliant video as always. Hopefully, in the morning, good ol' boyfriend is reassuring
    EDIT: I got lucky early and had my eyes opened to what marriage really meant. Marriage is a promise to your partner that you don't have the option to run away, look away and ignore the problems or blame it on each other. You've made the decision that you're gonna commit yourself to someone and you're going to face your problems head-on, as a team and constructively instead of trying to tear each other down and blame each other.
    I wonder if the epidemic of divorce is caused by people not choosing their partner well and learning too late that they're too far apart or that partners enter into marriage without treating it as that promise. I hope if anyone reads this, it's helpful for their understanding of marriage and what it means, rather than just an expectation for relationships

    • @zeth501
      @zeth501 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The possibility of getting divorced really makes me think if being married is even worth it especially if you're going to have kids. Thank you for this insight.

  • @cardo3566
    @cardo3566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Im loving all of your audios they keep getting better and better 💞💞

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That means so much to me, Cardo! Thanks for supporting me from the start!

  • @danvill7453
    @danvill7453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Man, this video gave me lots of different perspectives on marriage, good job.

  • @Premo07
    @Premo07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was very beautiful and well said. You clearly put a lot of work in these and it shows. It elevates you to a higher level in this thing we call ASMR roleplays. I started listening to/watching these not so long ago and I can say that there's a clear difference between you and other artists. Much love and respect.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is SO awesome to hear, because everything I put out feels 💯 experimental. Thank you so much for your support, and I’m glad you like my work!

  • @PlasmaCassidy
    @PlasmaCassidy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great job! I'm starting to listen to ASMR daily recently, they gotten a lot more interesting.

  • @brendans9254
    @brendans9254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was pondering the video title for a bit before I got to lay down and listen, trying to imagine why a loving couple (or one of the two) might be afraid of marriage. Your narrative raised a lot of valid insightful points and some notions that I’ve thought a little bit about before. To me I feel like once you’re in the ‘right’ relationship you kinda ARE already ‘married’, yknow? Like having a fancy day and a signed piece of paper won’t remotely change how I feel about you or act around you, BUT you’re right in that maybe there’s *some* subconscious expectations and changes that come along with it too that you might not even expect yourself to start feeling once you’re bound by this new social construct bubble. Really makes you think about what the actual point of marriage is other than some advantageous legal paperwork or some kinda… bragging right? Regardless VERY good food for thought, and amazingly well delivered and lovely as all your pieces are, Safe! 🖤
    (Also following the comment section consensus for a part 2 where the partner puts her concerns to rest and gives some sweet reassurance! Happy but constructive endings are always the best haha!)

  • @evyatarhadar8867
    @evyatarhadar8867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I think you have the best female voice I've ever heard. Very calming and reassuring tone to it.

  • @waltdawg4863
    @waltdawg4863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was a very good audio I really like your soft voice. This was relaxing and sweet. Your audios keep improving 🤟🏾

  • @thxrmite5591
    @thxrmite5591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It's 1 AM and cant sleep so I'll probably listen to this while I sleep, ahaha :)
    The voice acting on this one was on point, just 3 minutes in and it already sounds really good, your voice really fits the mood of the video, another awesome audio!
    Anyway, I should genuinely sleep because I have my finals tomorrow ahaha, again, great job!

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m so flattered! Best of luck with your finals; sleep well!

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And also 1am?! Are you studying in Beijing?!

    • @thxrmite5591
      @thxrmite5591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio Ahaha no, I just really couldnt sleep XD

    • @kidkuu1891
      @kidkuu1891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Best of luck for your finals, I hope they go/went well!

    • @thxrmite5591
      @thxrmite5591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kidkuu1891 Thank you! It actually went pretty okay :)

  • @e_ven_eve2593
    @e_ven_eve2593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Almost didn't end up watching because the premise sent my angst detectors haywire-- but a sleep confession can't be that bad...

  • @Yourdad-kf9oj
    @Yourdad-kf9oj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like these kind of videos. This is so cute❤❤❤

  • @ShalathePrinny
    @ShalathePrinny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "I can't marry you... my state insurance is just too good I couldn't afford to not be on it"

  • @LeIouch.
    @LeIouch. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Now this, might’ve just peaked my happiness scale

  • @AMysticLegend
    @AMysticLegend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just love this channel and your voice.
    Hope you're doing well😊

  • @BraybayXQ6
    @BraybayXQ6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ONLY 4K WHAT NO NO NO YOU NEED 100 MILLION SUBS RIGHT NOW!
    This video is way to good you did a beautiful job making this and I never cried listening to a asmr video so congrats you made me cry on this video, not in a bad way but a super good way

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol this is AWESOME to hear, at just the right time too to curb the edge on a rough day. Thank you so much for your support!

    • @BraybayXQ6
      @BraybayXQ6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio like I said you did beautiful on this, keep it up and make me cry some more... wait that sounded wrong but you get the picture 😅

  • @safwansaid5139
    @safwansaid5139 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    owh boy this is gonna be an emotional ride, wont be surprised if i sleep and wake up up crying, powered by a very talented voice actor this is going be a kick in the feels organ awesome work as usual miss/maam/madam 💔❤️

  • @luissantiago5163
    @luissantiago5163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh nice. Got some audios to catch up on. Hyped

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🥰

    • @luissantiago5163
      @luissantiago5163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio oh by the way the strangers to lovers Playlist has a vid that isn't yours in it.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@luissantiago5163 Thanks so much for the heads up! I’m seeing the “You’re Famous!” video and the “Sultry Lounge Singer” video that has yet to air. Are you seeing something else in there, too?

    • @ru-ce2rl
      @ru-ce2rl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio you have 2 playlist on The same name

    • @luissantiago5163
      @luissantiago5163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio oh good! That's nice to hear. I didn't see anything else but I'll check later. At work so caught it on my break. I see asmr playlists a good bit nowadays with unlisted vids. If you have them set weeks in advance it's a big problem but if it's just a few days ain't too bad.

  • @DaneTheDane
    @DaneTheDane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Next morning I walk up and hug you from behind and tell you that I heard everything you whispered to me last night...

    • @brezzyboy8430
      @brezzyboy8430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yo man this is asmr you need to go outside and not to be rude but you will be able to find some body I still don’t know how I have a gf

    • @AMysticLegend
      @AMysticLegend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@brezzyboy8430 I mean.....its an RP video and their comment is continuing the RP like a lot of comments in asmr audio rp videos.
      Don't know why you had to make such a comment.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@brezzyboy8430 Hello, BrezzyBoy! What do you enjoy about RP?

    • @deviant5176
      @deviant5176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio do you always ask your viewers that? 🤨🤣

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@deviant5176 I was curious to see why he would have sought out these videos if not for the immersion experience.

  • @Neutral_Tired
    @Neutral_Tired 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I would absolutely not have been able to keep quiet here, I'd have spoken up or turned around and hugged you within the first ten minutes

  • @nostalgicvibe9473
    @nostalgicvibe9473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love asmr, it helps me improving my english vocabulary, and u hv a beautiful voice ❤❤

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks! Lol then you’re gonna love the vocabulary study video I have planned for later.

  • @Zackwolf1234
    @Zackwolf1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I only wish another person could think of me this way.

  • @seriouslysinister4431
    @seriouslysinister4431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations you made me cry 😢

  • @ArlindoBuriti
    @ArlindoBuriti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow.... that was emotional, you got me good, like i was half awake and just listening to this felings and... jess i made me feel so bad, this was good... you are really great, this was really great... keep this up, make me feel more.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeeees! I’m so glad you enjoyed this experience!

  • @AlexanderWangwastaken
    @AlexanderWangwastaken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All these vids are so great.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This makes me so happy!

    • @AlexanderWangwastaken
      @AlexanderWangwastaken 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio except the mushrooms in the dumplings

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AlexanderWangwastaken Don’t knock it until you try it!

    • @AlexanderWangwastaken
      @AlexanderWangwastaken 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio oh truee. But i still can't wrap my head around the combination

  • @yunogasai6819
    @yunogasai6819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Understandable💗

  • @leonardomoda9559
    @leonardomoda9559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Part 2. This isn’t optional

  • @vozdraavozdraa7731
    @vozdraavozdraa7731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i'm shocked and amazed

  • @Riku_9
    @Riku_9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I hope there's going to be a part 2 of this where the listener confronts her telling her we herd everything as @Johnathan scott said

  • @RogueIRL23
    @RogueIRL23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well this got real

  • @sir-belledontisakabell98
    @sir-belledontisakabell98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If this character is afraid of a label she needs to get out of her head and into the real world. Marriage is a partnership, and all partnerships need work. Withholding affection and playing games is the worst thing you can do to someone. No one is perfect and life is about taking risks.

  • @joyboy822
    @joyboy822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    alright, I'm ready with popcorn in hand. this finna be *juicy*

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What’s your popcorn preference?

    • @joyboy822
      @joyboy822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio drenched in butter or sometimes just put some cheese on it

  • @your.gfgraciella
    @your.gfgraciella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    First of all I rarely ugly cry that's rare for me but this shit made me ugly cry like alot so that's a win for you and it's so good I'm just shocked

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just let it out!

    • @your.gfgraciella
      @your.gfgraciella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio I did now I gotta sleep cause I have to wake up at 5 am to study cause I have fucking exam... Sorry just stressed

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@your.gfgraciella Clever of you to study in the morning when your brain is fresh! You’re off to a great start for your exam.

  • @RSDGAMESmuzzy
    @RSDGAMESmuzzy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Things I said in my head listening to this.
    "I'm awake, I was faking the whole time, I heard everything, I listened, hear I go.
    I don't expect you or want you to change, I don't wanna change how we talk or act or go about our days I still wanna cook for you, kiss you, hug you, cuddle you, stare into your eyes, I still want to talk to you the same way, introduce you as my girl not my wife. I just want to prove we're forever.
    Never hide things from me, even if it might do more harm than good I love you and I care about you and we need to be happy and open for us to work, don't keep things from me that hurt you cuz that hurts me.
    Wife, girlfriend, fiancee, mother of my child what difference does it make you're mine and that's the word that matters most.
    You're not risking my love by telling me what's on your mind, we're a team".
    I think I'm too into these roleplay audios 😂

    • @RSDGAMESmuzzy
      @RSDGAMESmuzzy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just thought you know what would be the best shit ever, if at the end when she's finished sharing, she says "love you" I turn and say "love you too" and then she's like WHAT?

  • @frostaminimations1785
    @frostaminimations1785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it fine that I didn't cry to this. I absolutely loved the audio loved it was so well performed that I felt the emotions she were portraying really strongly. Plus this made me think about stuff I've thought of before and I'm still willing to risk it when the time comes. But, I see so much people in the comments saying that they cried and I just feel kinda like I got a heart of ice or something 😅

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course not! We all respond uniquely given our unique life experiences. The point here isn’t to make anybody cry, just to provide a safe space for social exploration. I’m just happy you enjoyed the work! That’s what’s important.

  • @jafsrob
    @jafsrob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You continue to improve with every video.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This means a lot to me, James. Thank you!

    • @jafsrob
      @jafsrob 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio Thank *you* for the amazing content. In 2021, with lockdown and such, not a day goes by where I'm not stressed at some point. Your videos always help with that.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jafsrob That’s incredible to hear that I can contribute to a little relief.

  • @anotherpassersby3005
    @anotherpassersby3005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm down to wait as long as it takes for her to be ready.

  • @TheWhisperTexan
    @TheWhisperTexan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a female friend who's boyfriend wanted to marry her. She wasn't opposed to it but always pushed it down the road. One day she met a guy at a bar and married him two weeks later much to the chagrin of her boyfriend. Just goes to show when it's someone you want to be with there is no hesitation.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow! That’s wild! Did it work out???

    • @TheWhisperTexan
      @TheWhisperTexan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio actually they are still together and have two girls 5 and 2.
      Her ex boyfriend also found someone and they are happy. I guess they just weren't a fit. I was just broken up with and my friends experience gives me hope that I just haven't met the right girl yet. :)

  • @questchaser3156
    @questchaser3156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never really though about it that way

  • @hivve4177
    @hivve4177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    'Mawwy me pweaseeeeee"

  • @kin6761
    @kin6761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmm Simon hopes for a part 2

  • @itsonyx5225
    @itsonyx5225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm still at 9 mins but I'm ugly crying rn 🤧😭

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s good to let it out!

    • @itsonyx5225
      @itsonyx5225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio Just finished watching, why are u so good at this 😭💖 still crying btw 🤧

  • @Saber23
    @Saber23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I both feel bad for this character while at the same time rolling my eyes at these weird concerns I don’t know maybe it’s just cause of where I’m from 🤷‍♂️

  • @neondragon4406
    @neondragon4406 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @h4mm3r51
    @h4mm3r51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Honestly I've never understood the anxiety around not "fitting the mold of marriage" or whatever. It's just a contract, that sounds cold or pessimistic but it's just "be my girlfriend but permanently" i don't expect anything other what she already brings to the relationship. Expectations are the same, She'd just be a girlfriend with a more permanent title.
    Maybe I'm just built different 🤷

    • @rikuto6690
      @rikuto6690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah your right nothing should change

  • @mirrorvoices2739
    @mirrorvoices2739 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Part 2 please

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check out the series! The playlist can be clicked at the end of the video 💕

  • @Yourneighbor1112
    @Yourneighbor1112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    whoa, i had never considered this before... is there a mold for husband? if i found someone who could love me (lol as if) would I have to mold, and if i did, would i be able to fit it?

  • @prince2827
    @prince2827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hidden gem

  • @colonelcactus118
    @colonelcactus118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good job comrade

  • @spoon2389
    @spoon2389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We don’t have to be married to be together forever

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💯

    • @yungsovietKGB
      @yungsovietKGB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just like my uncle and his girl. They are engaged and have 2 kids but theyre not married because just like you said, you dont have to be married to be together forever.

  • @lordofswarm538
    @lordofswarm538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This woman is a Trainwreck, and is not ready for marriage. Might not even be ready for the relationship she's in, as she speaks of breaking up because things are perfect, as well as talking about "what if someone more perfect comes along" for him, as if loyalty doesn't exist, or that it makes sense to leave the person you're with if someone else comes along who checks off more boxes on your list of desirable traits. She also says "Marriage is such high risk for me" and then goes on to talk about statistics, which also says that she's having issues being able to empathize with him, considering that if they have children and it doesn't work out, he statistically loses not just her, but his children and the identity he will have built around being her husband and their father. Sounds like it's higher risk for him, if you ask me. She also doesn't want him to know, or keep good communication going with him. Other than that, she sounds lovely, and like she loves him and wants to be with him, but then speaks of constructs, completely ignoring what she says she sees him as. I wish them both luck, and hope the love conquers that.

  • @nny2567
    @nny2567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan. Had me formulating an entire conversation and what I'd have to do to let this girl know I wake up and go to sleep every day choosing her. Whatever her is that day is what I'm choosing cause that's what love is. Then I'm just like... wait...
    I ain't fuckin got a girl this some bullshit.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol this just made me laugh.

    • @nny2567
      @nny2567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio Mission? Accomplished.

  • @peace7085
    @peace7085 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    why am i crying?

  • @poopass4398
    @poopass4398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can someone explain why she won’t marry him I ain’t tryna watch the whole thing

  • @sudarshan3965
    @sudarshan3965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I understand where you are coming from

  • @loafheader
    @loafheader 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Damn this is kinda how i always felt, marriage sound amazing on paper but things tend to change in married life

    • @bensosnowski1128
      @bensosnowski1128 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage doesn’t sound too great on paper either lol basically a legally binding contract that makes you a single entity in the eyes of the government. How romantic.
      It’s just that it’s a romanticized concept, especially in the west, and perhaps not as much nowadays, but it was also particularly aimed towards woman.
      The fairy tails of finding a Prince Charming or a *special* person that is just so perfect, etc.
      No one is perfect, we are all human. A healthy relationship recognizes everyone has faults and is proactive in addressing issues as they appear, not pretending they don’t exist.
      And people change, our surroundings change, stuff happens. Nothing lasts forever. A healthy relationship can last several decades, but not if you force it.

  • @wavetheknight1583
    @wavetheknight1583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know this has nothing to do with the video, but am I the only one who thought about Dragon Ball when she said Icarus

  • @randallstrong9882
    @randallstrong9882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah yes

  • @loganmitchell9254
    @loganmitchell9254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This ASMR really got me thinking about the toxic gender molds that come with marriage. Food for thought really.

  • @Star_catcher
    @Star_catcher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is fan noise(maybe computer). Or something with microphone.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whispering videos are tricky because you want the mic to pick up every syllable and sigh, but you also want it to drown out surrounding noise. I’m working on it!

    • @Star_catcher
      @Star_catcher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio ok, understood))

    • @jafsrob
      @jafsrob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio I kinda like the white noise, as long as its consistent.

  • @darkphoenix2
    @darkphoenix2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You seem like a good person

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your fictional girlfriend here is doing her best 💕

  • @TheTsar1918
    @TheTsar1918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's because I'm fat, isn't it?

  • @andreacarraro4048
    @andreacarraro4048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well It's midnight and i am studying for a test so I won't listen to.... to my teacher and definitely going to sleep with this audio

  • @anubarak9184
    @anubarak9184 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is great
    but my god did you have my wanting a tissue

  • @jayvanmundas126
    @jayvanmundas126 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy below me is the same profile picture and color as me

  • @YCCMAnon
    @YCCMAnon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've got some bad news for you...I fell asleep.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s great news! I’m glad you found it soothing!

  • @robertsummers3386
    @robertsummers3386 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I heard what you said last night. I understand your hesitation. I understand that you're scared to bloody death. Let's sit on the couch and talk about it. If you still don't want to marry, then that's ok too, but we should talk about this.

  • @pizzam4nn
    @pizzam4nn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    *Ayo the pizza here* but I'm too hard on myself sometimes. Maybe I should treat myself!

  • @talkingaegismissle7388
    @talkingaegismissle7388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This audio is very scary and feels like it just going to end badly in the future cause these 2 just seem almost not compatible.

  • @andrewdavido2470
    @andrewdavido2470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    While your telling me this I'm spooning you 😊❤️

    • @bloodiamondeyes
      @bloodiamondeyes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should spoon a bowl of cereal.

  • @TrajanT
    @TrajanT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Marriage has never really appealed to me so I can kinda relate to this, that and also I don't really understand the meaning or significance of it. Nonetheless an amazing audio as always, keep it up👍🏾

  • @tothemoongaming4758
    @tothemoongaming4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey, are you okay? I felt enough emotion in this that it started to make me genuinely concerned for this woman's relationship, so I just wanted to make sure you were doing good.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol i will take that as the highest of compliments. I am a-okay, just lost in the intimacy of it all.

    • @tothemoongaming4758
      @tothemoongaming4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio glad to hear it!

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tothemoongaming4758 I’m so glad you enjoyed my work!

  • @joshmarqz3588
    @joshmarqz3588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry, but i know 🥺

  • @brezzyboy8430
    @brezzyboy8430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just click on the video to here the reason

  • @Saber23
    @Saber23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why work around constructs? They’re there for a reason 🤦‍♂️

  • @PR1MUS14
    @PR1MUS14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait, I'm confused here. Is she trying to break up with us? Because I typically see marriage just as a legal thing, and isn't needed to be happy in a relationship.

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Listen and find out in part 2!

    • @PR1MUS14
      @PR1MUS14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SafeInHerArmsAudio Part two wasn't showing on the recommended vids down the side ofo youtube while watching part 1, so I had to find it on your channel. Watching it as I type this. These are the first audios I've listened to by you. Great audios so far!

    • @SafeInHerArmsAudio
      @SafeInHerArmsAudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PR1MUS14 I’m so glad you’re enjoying the content! And I’ll be sure to fix that up on the recommended videos. Good catch!

  • @reddino2567
    @reddino2567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    .....

  • @johnnyjohnny1367
    @johnnyjohnny1367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jew check? What is this cultural marxist asmr im listening to?