Hi, I'm 59 years old and I've been alone for the last 5 1/2 years. I've never been happier. I don't think I will ever change the dynamic of my life as it is now. I don't have to check baggage carry on only.... I eat when I want... I leave town when I want... I listen to whatever music I want. I've become extremely selfish with my time. I'll give you my last dollar I'll give you the shirt off my back but my time I'm not sharing that anymore.
Been traveling the world alone since 1984. The places I loved most were London, Paris (you must walk down the Champs-Élysées and George 5th), Portugal, the Island of Grenada. All the art and Museums. New York, which I returned to many, many times before 9/11 (When spotting Donald Trump was easy and often). Loved the Panama Canal and all the Caribbean islands, each one perfect it their own way. The Azores has wonderful jewelry. If you get to London, you must go to Cork Ireland and see the crumbling castles. Didn't care about Asia. South America has simply gotten worse. Only did the upper section of Africa and the Rock of Gibraltar. Hawaii, Alaska and British Columbia were so beautiful back then. I cried when Hawaii burned, so much history lost forever. Sad to see the world as it is today. Traveling alone is no longer safe as it was in the 80's and 90's. Although, it's fairly safe aboard a ship - NOT CARNAVAL WITH KIDS RUNNING AROUND! Select a wonderful ship and book a cruise, save your money if you have to, get a great cabin, and book all the tours. It's a safer way to travel and more relaxing. As Rick Steves would say, "Keep On travelin'." I've never understood why anyone wouldn't enjoy seeing the world. One girl told me, "Oh, I get enough from pictures in magazines." So sad.
I felt alone with my family since I was a child only in the last 3 yrs did I cut them out for the benefit of me! I had time to think alone and find out who I am and what is good for me! Key is not to fall to far into your emotions else they will keep you at the bottom of the the seabed if you understand me! Now I have a wife and kids and I finally do not feel lonely! But it is never far away believe that!
@@tracyrreedit doesn’t matter what others say, your experiences are your experiences, other people’s experiences are their own, we can’t all experience the same thing. Someone’s loneliness is someone else’s healing. The main thing is being able to feel alone and be okay with it. Sit in it and embody it.
@@jamewood3195 Being alone and being lonely are not the same thing. I am never lonely. I am surrounded by people I care about. I spend time with friends and family every day. But most of my time is spent alone, in my mind. Wondering of the past, enjoying the present, considering the future. The path is alone, but it intersects many others.
Being alone is what helped me go through so much. It has helped me act smarter and plan smarter. It has given me the chance to figure things out. Which helped me grow massively.
@@oggyoggy1299majority man. Because they haven't faced their rooted fears, their darkness, they haven't forgiven themselves yet, they haven't detached themselves from all the addictions and the list goes on.
I lived alone for 5 years. Spent night after night by myself and only had myself. I faced the worst and thrived and focused on my job and now after 8 years I went from bottom of the barrel, to the one of the top people in my department.
I went Alone for 15 years now, I answer to No bloody department, I work as a teacher alone, private tutoring is where Money comes from, and I help out my freind part time at his Institute....My profession is working not as a team but alone, At first it was scary, I have won so many awards too, but I care less for them, Even in my Engineering Jobs I won a lot of awards, all.of them lie in a bin some place..mm Alone is bliss.....peace and ultimate Calm...
Being alone is ultimately the biggest freedom. Nobody to answer to. Nobody you have to text every five minutes. Nobody you have to ask permission from. Nobody who's feelings you have to consider. Nobody to worry about. Stay stoic, kings.
The balance is within yourself....read that in a fortune cookie once. Don't take life too seriously and shit will work out, one way or another @@RideLight777
@@amberhaakenson5804 You double down, embrace the energy of being the "bad" unique person in a sea of homogenous clones all chattering endlessly about inconsequential shit. Being alone allows you to objectively observe and understand what is actually bad and what is actually good rather than being told. You then come to realise you aren't bad. Having this realisation brings you to place of tranquillity. You can choose to stay there in peace or you can choose to garnish the negative energy society surrounds you with, amass it, then use it to lift the homogenous clones to a more enlightened plain. The choice is yours :) TLDR; who decided you were the bad person?
“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free” -Arthur Schopenhauer
This video couldn't come at a better time, thank you for this I needed to hear this. I'm not scared to be fkn alone. I will continue to move on I don't need anyone but myself!
When you go to your quiet place that empty parking lot up on top of the hill looking down on the rest of the world where its only you and the glimer of the night stars and the beat of your own heart where no one can find you because no one wants to find you That feeling like your the last man left on earth when you can look back on your life and tell him, with a smile on your face and say... God.. you found me thats true serenity
Truth be told, when I am alone I feel much more calm and collected. And I feel like, I can rest. I actually love being alone. It liberates me, having mself to all my thaughts. It's real nice, calm and relaxing.
Being alone actually help you develop a skills that you need in a long run For example like when you’re 40 you need to work right you need to go interview alone No one else can do your interview for you So just be alone I be alone since I was 14 all good bad things I learned it all
I've had hundreds of friends growing up, but ultimately, always end up on my own. Childhood friends, school friends, teenage gangs, uni friends - I've always been a part of social circles and many times have lead them, but I've treated every social circle I've been a part of as a temporary arrangement. Ultimately, people do not relate to me and it is forced on my part. None of them have ever *truly* known me. Not the real me. I couldn't imagine being stuck with people or not being able to escape. Or anyone knowing my deepest or most personal thoughts or feelings. I don't want commitment, expectations, pressure, putting a face or an act on for others. I am at my most peaceful by myself with my own thoughts. I live in my own head and it is the calmest place for me. All my favourite activities, I couldn't imagine needing another person joining me to enjoy it. I like the simple things and live life day by day. I used to think there must be something wrong with me but the older I get I realise it is me who has something most people don't. I don't have that need to surround myself with people. I love my own company, which means I love me. I am an introvert, and not only do I *not* want to know about other peoples lives or how their day went, I also don't want to share anything about mine, and this is fine. I find smalltalk completely unnatural and forced and would much rather sit in silence. I believe over the years I have built a self-awareness and realisation that many others haven't. My life is private, possibly weird to many, and I don't want to let anybody in. My peace is protected and I really feel complete freedom. I am now in my 30's and can confidently say I do not have a single friend, and haven't for some years, and I wouldn't change this for the world. My journey has been unique and I have been the only person there for me each time, I am my own hero and people wouldn't believe the places I've been, the personal demons and private battles I've fought in complete secrecy without burdening anyone else with them. I am proud of the personal development I have achieved completely on my own.
I had a 73-year-old redheaded phone psychic in Las Vegas tell me as I was cleaning her house. What the hell is wrong with you if you can’t be alone so I mean if you can’t be alone like me when I was in my 30s it is a problem but as you reach toward the end of your life, such as myself now it’s not so bad it’s quiet, comfortable and peaceful. I’m gonna tell you what I would’ve told myself many years ago if I could so it’s OK to be alone. It doesn’t make you a bad person and you’ll make it. Please don’t accept a monster in your life instead of being alone. It really is great out here.❤❤❤
That is why I tell them that I don't care when I get in trouble for taking unsanctioned days off. F youself self important aholes. I am a grown ass adult who knows what is truly important to me. I have been alone for years. And I wouldn't change a thing.
Legend has it, that back in 2007, to fully prepare himself for the role of the Joker, the late Heath Ledger isolated himself alone in a hotel room for weeks and the rest is Oscar award winning history!
It took time to understand that being alone was what I needed for myself, to understand who I really am, not what others tell you you should be, I now know myself. I stand by one phrase, it helped me win that war we all have inside us...."Accept your demons, or you will fall"....with this, you now control those demons, those thoughts in your head that made you feel worthless....no longer control you.
I've always been more comfortable in my solitude! Of course I'd love to find my person I'm suppose to be with! But I'll be just fine, should our paths not cross! 💯🙏
Yes, I know what you mean. I too was born into a long, lonely world myself. I would have the briefest moments when I had people in my life making me happy, well superficially at least. Those moments NEVER lasted all that long, they were just mere seasons of life. I kind of embraced my alone time, often times I welcomed it, it became almost a primal need for me to get myself right, back on track.
my girl recently left me and im talking to someone new that i really love but i dont feel the same anymore yk? like im really happy but for some reason i always wanna cry.. i once heard "a man in pain holds the power to destroy everything, yet, he only destroys himself" idk what to do anymore, my life isnt bad but it doesnt feel good either. i wont lose hope or faith and ill stay strong for as long as i can but its slowly getting harder day by day. many people end their lives bc they feel like they lost everything and i understand that feeling but always remember even if you feel alone god will always be with you no matter what. stay strong brothers and sisters everything will get better someday and trust me that day will come, and in case no one has told you today, i love you❤
This is the realist audio ever put forth for all the lone wolf's outthere who can relate to the message. A truthful message. You, yourself are your own worst enemy. It is on your own behalf to stay sharp and knowledgeable in a once in a lifetime journey. Fear is a choice remember that.
they keep trying, they keep showing you exactly where you dont want to be and how you dont want to live, cause they cant accept the fact that they are weaker, and are not able to put in the effort and the courage to do so.To be free.
After facing a serial killer in my very early teenage years 13 to be exact and being kidnapped from my family and then found again and then a family member being kidnapped from me and then found again after years this is the most amazing and powerful thing I have ever heard in 55 years.. THANK YOU ❤ from the 🦁♌ LEO in Brooksville Florida 🦋
Ive been alone and isolated for over 2 years now and still am, and i did understand every single word. And all i can say, its the truth. Its whatever you do with yourself while being lingered by darkness, that shapes you. Defines you. This was the most truthful thing ive heard.
I really think I needed to hear this. Thankyou so much for putting it out it really appreciated! I’ve broken up with my girlfriend who I was with for 5 years with who I also had a beautiful baby boy. But also unfortunately Ive also lost one who was an angel when he came into this world. I’ve gone back to a turning point where I don’t know where to turn. I’ve done absolutely amazing. But she then tells me she doesn’t love me anymore and it crushed me. I’ve gone back literally to something I’d never do again and here I am not been sleep for 3 days now went to a dark dark place but yes Thankyou I really needed to hear that!
Being quit on by my ex wife by her filing for divorce. Being on my own for 9 months has made me so much stronger as a person and man. This video is 100% right on. Yes I was hurt to have been quit on but damn that was my biggest motivation. Now I don’t want to ever be with anyone cause I know I can count on me and nothing but me
Loneliness is weakness. Loneliness can be found even when you are with a lover or a friend... But being alone as a choice, and reveling in it, is a strength. This was beautifully done.
Only reason being alone was frowned upon is because humans needed each other more in the 1800-1900s than they do in the 2000s. I don’t need you and you don’t need me anymore. And I like that.
Exactly its kinda like I learned in physical therapy / rehab after some surgerys. Some things like arms an legs came out not so good even tho the surgerys had nothing to do. With any arms or legs funny how that happened. But the point is the physical pharmacist can only show you what to do to get better. In the end it's up to you alone to do the exercises they can't make you. You have to make yourself do them. Even though it hurts you have to make yourself do it. Even though you don't want to at times you have to push through the pain. To some extent to get better without overdoing it. Because its you against the pain and no one else.
OMG… thank you, thank you. THANK YOU! I live life alone no family / friends and I have to say, I listened to every word of this speech and everything he said was soo true. And coming from the voice character who was in my opinion the best villain in any movie to date, it meant soo much more. Thank you again who ever made this, you and The Joker from the dark knight has made me stronger (in a good way) I’m not a villain, just alone but not afriad 🃏🤡
My friend, you have done an incredible thing! You raised a family and have provided your children with Everything they need! This experience is something you can share with others who are just now starting a family and trying to raise their children. You are valuable and your Wisdom is needed. Please explore how you can share your knowledge with others who are only starting their journey. I see you and Know that you have so much to give that we need. 💪🫡❤️🩹
Being alone helps me to rest my mind, think about my dream which makes me happy, thinking about the reality but i will face it and grow up. So being alone is where I truly fight.
Isolation is a gift. Everything else is just a test of your endurance. You will be alone with the Gods. Your nights will flame with fire - Charles Bukowski
I've been alone for 31 years. Not stopping now. I see the world for what it is. You can only truly rely on yourself, your closet family and friends when push come to shove will stab you in the back. You know it's true.
There is nothing more powerful then being alone long period of time, you're getting all the answers for your questions from within, you see through the matrix, the ultimate truth of who you really are, and where you wanna go, and what are you gonna do.
I have gone through this thought process several times in my life. Nothing new for me, but for some men this may be the most important message they'll ever hear.
After being bullied as a kid in highschool I surrounded myself with people. A lot of people. It was a good time. But they all abandonned me when I need them. I learned to be alone. And it was difficult! But at the end it was perfect! I do not need anybody! I learned to do everything on my own! I do no longer need other people!
Awesome man and I stay way out in the woods most of the time and where I live!! So much better than being out in that sick fake man made society that's so fill of shit and assholes!!
I been in isolation and at 38!I am finding peace ☮️ ✌🏾. All my problems came from Being too kind to people who betrayed or used me and left. I am good with people until true ones come up.
Love this video. Speaks a lot of truth. As for the ad saying "Vote yes on 3" (which ig is directed towards TH-cam) It's vote NO on no.3, get it right. There is one thing the ad is right about though, no one should be denied care.... so why are parents neglecting their children and leaving them all alone to be put in situations like that in the first place? Why aren't children being taught how to respect others but be cautious? It's not invoking any kind of fear like some people might claim, it's the harsh reality that not everyone is your friend and it's delusional to believe otherwise. The harsh reality is that there are cruel, manipulative people that you should be cautious around and avoid for your own sake and quality of life. Anyone that votes "yes" on No.3 is living a fantasy, a flawed delusion waiting to fall apart the moment reality sets in.
Being alone is what i do best, done it for years. Cant be arsed with other people's bs. Being alone means you're comfy in your own thoughts and skin. Takes balls to go solo and do it your way. The older i get, the less i care about what other people think, im 37 btw but have an old soul. Gravitated toward older people to take bits and bobs from their life and experience then applied what i liked to my life, its worked out great for me as im at peace from within. The turmoil i went thru for years has evaporated coz im clean from drugs and shit. Sobriety is my new drug and im fckn smashing it every day, getting stronger and stronger. People try to bring u bk down to their shitty level coz theyre envious that your jumping around full of life and their face is tripping them. So fuck, u cant get it together and get out the chaos? Thats on u, dont take me back down that road, im on a better path with nothing stopping me and its so freeing. The life drainers just get ignored, if they talk about me behind my back, who gives af. I dont hear it so why should it affect me. Stay in the madness if u like it, but jog on if u think im coming along with u. Life's too good for me now, actually better than any drug ive ever tried the way im feeling now. People say its radiating out me but ill take a while to notice it and thats fine, if it rubs off on someone and they approach me for help, im more than willing to give them it, hoping they find the peace and comfort im experiencing. Its still a rollercoaster as im only 28 days in but its meant get better if youre truly committing yourself to it. If it was easy there'd be no addicts, so put the effort in and it comes back tenfold ❤ from Scotland
Knowbody wishes to be alone but at points it’s a choice, it does make you stronger and it seems to focus on what matters vs yourself.It’s been a struggle but the light shines. Let it all go, forgiving yourself seems like the idea of freedom.
I experienced both - strength in friendship and help from people and strength in solitude. Both are a force in their own right. If you can use both .... Almost nothing can break you. You always find your way in one way or another
I've always walked my own path. Even at a very young age my mother noticed that I had a knack for avoiding all the drama. I have 4 siblings and I'm the middle one. While they would bicker and fight over mundane things I always remained neutral. As I grew up I always remained "me" and I never tried to be like anyone else. And you would think walking your own path would drive people away from you, but it actually has had the opposite effect. I've always kept a small circle of friends. Good friends. I'm happier that way. But I made a mistake and got married. It wasn't the act of getting married but more importantly "who" I married. She ended up really destroying not just our marriage, my trust, but our family. We had three beautiful daughters and she just didn't cheat, she did much more worse than that. But it shattered our family and my daughters turned against her once they found out all the destruction she created. I've never "bad mouthed" their mother and just picked myself up and moved on because the girls needed me to. And I needed to for myself. I raised them on my own and I've remained single for 14yrs now and it's been my choice. I'm much happier this way. It's who I really am. But a lot of what the Joker says here is absolutely true. But the important thing is it's true for some people. Some people are frightened of being alone and don't do well being alone. And there's nothing wrong with that. But everything I've endured in my life especially the bad things, I've done it on my own. Like the old saying goes "when you get knocked down, you get right back up and dust yourself off and continue on. Out of everyone in my family and even my childhood friends I'm the only one who took the path of joining the military. And I've made a career out of it. Serving in US Special Operations for most of my adult life. I love what I do and I love how my life is and that's what we all strive for. It's never too late to change your life to make it YOUR LIFE. What YOU want it to be. Just be YOU! 🇺🇲
You sound like a very grounded person. And I have no doubt every one of your daughters are not only daddy's girls but love you for being there for them. It's something I know a lot about because I have a father that sacrificed everything for us and was ALWAYS THERE. Good for you. There's no greater gift than being content with ones self.
Being alone is the best, the insecure will try and roll you over and accuse you of being patronizing then your too strong then your this and that. I ended a relationship with a narcissistic early last year, she tried to break me ...then I kicked her out for the 5th and final time. She's been through 3 others since. I was brought up to be independent, I got accused of that, I got accused of everything but still gave but she could not hack decency and the strength not to be brought down, I'm a lover she was a taker....stay safe and true to yourself👍
Im alone after a hard break up. It is really hard but i know i need to work on myself and try and embrace being on my own. My journey starts with this video
💯💪💯👏 Yes, yes & yes! I've always enjoyed being alone. But this year of '24 I've been forced to finally battle what i need to in my mind... I didn't know how had it is doing this part all alone. It's taking me time, but every week seems to be a different battle to concur. Thank you for this video and this reminder!
Being alone is the best thing that ever happened to me. After several deployments to Bosnia and Afghanistan, I discovered that people you thought would support you were the biggest cockroaches. I live my life alone and don't want anything else
Alone is beautiful. Alone is peace. Alone is you. The real you.
True
Hi, I'm 59 years old and I've been alone for the last 5 1/2 years. I've never been happier. I don't think I will ever change the dynamic of my life as it is now. I don't have to check baggage carry on only.... I eat when I want... I leave town when I want... I listen to whatever music I want. I've become extremely selfish with my time. I'll give you my last dollar I'll give you the shirt off my back but my time I'm not sharing that anymore.
@@Saybleu I here you,can't trust anyone 😔 😟, God bless you 🙏.
Been traveling the world alone since 1984. The places I loved most were London, Paris (you must walk down the Champs-Élysées and George 5th), Portugal, the Island of Grenada. All the art and Museums. New York, which I returned to many, many times before 9/11 (When spotting Donald Trump was easy and often). Loved the Panama Canal and all the Caribbean islands, each one perfect it their own way. The Azores has wonderful jewelry. If you get to London, you must go to Cork Ireland and see the crumbling castles. Didn't care about Asia.
South America has simply gotten worse. Only did the upper section of Africa and the Rock of Gibraltar. Hawaii, Alaska and British Columbia were so beautiful back then. I cried when Hawaii burned, so much history lost forever.
Sad to see the world as it is today. Traveling alone is no longer safe as it was in the 80's and 90's. Although, it's fairly safe aboard a ship - NOT CARNAVAL WITH KIDS RUNNING AROUND! Select a wonderful ship and book a cruise, save your money if you have to, get a great cabin, and book all the tours. It's a safer way to travel and more relaxing.
As Rick Steves would say, "Keep On travelin'."
I've never understood why anyone wouldn't enjoy seeing the world. One girl told me, "Oh, I get enough from pictures in magazines." So sad.
Agreed
Being alone doesn't mean you're lonely
Very true. And if you’re with people doesn’t mean you’re not lonely
Just means your a god in your own world 🤔
@@Sinister12C Hold on why’s that true though 😭
Exactly
Jesus loves us all.
You can be surrounded by people, friends, family, and still be alone. Being alone is not a physical thing, it’s in the mind.
Is this really true? It seems at odds with what others say here. I hope you are right.
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I felt alone with my family since I was a child only in the last 3 yrs did I cut them out for the benefit of me! I had time to think alone and find out who I am and what is good for me! Key is not to fall to far into your emotions else they will keep you at the bottom of the the seabed if you understand me! Now I have a wife and kids and I finally do not feel lonely! But it is never far away believe that!
@@tracyrreedit doesn’t matter what others say, your experiences are your experiences, other people’s experiences are their own, we can’t all experience the same thing. Someone’s loneliness is someone else’s healing. The main thing is being able to feel alone and be okay with it. Sit in it and embody it.
@@jamewood3195 Being alone and being lonely are not the same thing. I am never lonely. I am surrounded by people I care about. I spend time with friends and family every day. But most of my time is spent alone, in my mind. Wondering of the past, enjoying the present, considering the future. The path is alone, but it intersects many others.
Being along, brings me peace.
Yeah same, always has, always will
Being with people just feels like going through hell
Being alone is what helped me go through so much. It has helped me act smarter and plan smarter. It has given me the chance to figure things out. Which helped me grow massively.
Peace on you.
You can also read, think, dress, eat, and drink ANYTHING you want, when you want!
It sucks at first but you start to prefer it. You become so much stronger.
Your amazing person
And you might also learn that there are other words to use; instead of that tired, over-used, teenage-lacking-vocabulary word "sucks".
@@johnough4893shut up
@@johnough4893 or you stop trying to lecture other people online and let them be and talk however they want to and care about your own sad life.
Very true
I love being alone. Away from negativity, social anxiety, people, vibes.
Same here
Crazy I just put that on my Facebook
Beeing alone is the best when you are comfortable with yourself
Who the hell is not comfortable with theirself?
@@oggyoggy1299majority man. Because they haven't faced their rooted fears, their darkness, they haven't forgiven themselves yet, they haven't detached themselves from all the addictions and the list goes on.
Your own hero, your own savior, your own villain
You're 🤣🤣🤣
@@seabee_3 it’s definitely your lol
You need god.
and you can sing out loud, off key, and stay in your PJ's all day, and binge watch CSA Miami
@@seabee_3
Your
I am not afraid to be alone. I prefer it.
Same
It is the best and worst thing about me
Same I really do enjoy it.
I’m not afraid being alone
I afraid being in the wrong company
-by starnagers in internet (actually me)
@@christopher2078 You're a MewTwo just use your psychic powers.
I lived alone for 5 years. Spent night after night by myself and only had myself. I faced the worst and thrived and focused on my job and now after 8 years I went from bottom of the barrel, to the one of the top people in my department.
Wow five years?? I guess I can understand poor genetics are not in high demand 🤷
Lonely always being me
I went Alone for 15 years now, I answer to No bloody department, I work as a teacher alone, private tutoring is where Money comes from, and I help out my freind part time at his Institute....My profession is working not as a team but alone, At first it was scary, I have won so many awards too, but I care less for them, Even in my Engineering Jobs I won a lot of awards, all.of them lie in a bin some place..mm
Alone is bliss.....peace and ultimate Calm...
@@michaelsteffee43 I'm alone but not lonly
Yeeah booi, get it.
Being alone is finding love...the real love God offers ...Peace ⭐️
Make-believe isn’t much use.
The realest statement," No one stayed for me but depression did."
Being alone is ultimately the biggest freedom. Nobody to answer to. Nobody you have to text every five minutes. Nobody you have to ask permission from. Nobody who's feelings you have to consider. Nobody to worry about. Stay stoic, kings.
To be free is to be you and that is all ❤. 🔪
It still has flaws regardless, you need balance in everything .
& Female 👑 Queens ❤
The balance is within yourself....read that in a fortune cookie once. Don't take life too seriously and shit will work out, one way or another @@RideLight777
Nobody to know ur dead
I have lovers betray me, friends lie to me, leaders fail me, family manipulate me. I’m here. I’m still here. Do NOT fail yourself.
you forgot to mention back-stabbing bitches at your office!
How do you keep going if you ARE the bad person...?
@@amberhaakenson5804 You double down, embrace the energy of being the "bad" unique person in a sea of homogenous clones all chattering endlessly about inconsequential shit. Being alone allows you to objectively observe and understand what is actually bad and what is actually good rather than being told. You then come to realise you aren't bad. Having this realisation brings you to place of tranquillity. You can choose to stay there in peace or you can choose to garnish the negative energy society surrounds you with, amass it, then use it to lift the homogenous clones to a more enlightened plain.
The choice is yours :)
TLDR; who decided you were the bad person?
@@amberhaakenson5804 Listen to Jordan Peterson on this topic, he's amazing. Basically stop lying to yourself and to others regardless of the cost.
You couldn't of said it better.. thank you
“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free”
-Arthur Schopenhauer
yes
I’m alone 24/7. But the thing is- I wouldn’t have it any other way. The Lord is my guardian & life is my existence🙏
🙏🫡🍻
This video couldn't come at a better time, thank you for this I needed to hear this. I'm not scared to be fkn alone. I will continue to move on I don't need anyone but myself!
I see you…we all do.,You are never alone my Friend 🫡
Being alone is great. Peace and quiet is awesome
Being alone is part of grieving and healing
amen
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When you go to your quiet place that empty parking lot up on top of the hill looking down on the rest of the world where its only you and the glimer of the night stars and the beat of your own heart where no one can find you because no one wants to find you That feeling like your the last man left on earth when you can look back on your life and tell him, with a smile on your face and say... God.. you found me thats true serenity
Something about alone is relaxing and soothing at times too....
Love being alone i love my own company living at peace once again ty father god is good Amen ❤❤❤
Sofia you deserve Love and respect. I see the hard work you do and I thank you for it 🫶
Solitude is a gift....
Being alone is necessary to build yourself, but it is addictive.
Embrace the solitude, but don't let it consume you.
Truth be told, when I am alone I feel much more calm and collected. And I feel like, I can rest. I actually love being alone. It liberates me, having mself to all my thaughts. It's real nice, calm and relaxing.
Also, the fact that this was uploaded on the day, of my birthday, and the fact that I can resonate and agree with all of this is insane.
Being alone actually help you develop a skills that you need in a long run
For example like when you’re 40 you need to work right you need to go interview alone
No one else can do your interview for you
So just be alone I be alone since I was 14 all good bad things I learned it all
I love being on my own
When someone doesn't know your secrets he can't beat you
Humanity is cruel being alone is a part of healing yourself focus
I love when I find channels about what I already do
Being alone is awesome
I've had hundreds of friends growing up, but ultimately, always end up on my own. Childhood friends, school friends, teenage gangs, uni friends - I've always been a part of social circles and many times have lead them, but I've treated every social circle I've been a part of as a temporary arrangement. Ultimately, people do not relate to me and it is forced on my part. None of them have ever *truly* known me. Not the real me. I couldn't imagine being stuck with people or not being able to escape. Or anyone knowing my deepest or most personal thoughts or feelings. I don't want commitment, expectations, pressure, putting a face or an act on for others. I am at my most peaceful by myself with my own thoughts. I live in my own head and it is the calmest place for me. All my favourite activities, I couldn't imagine needing another person joining me to enjoy it. I like the simple things and live life day by day. I used to think there must be something wrong with me but the older I get I realise it is me who has something most people don't. I don't have that need to surround myself with people. I love my own company, which means I love me. I am an introvert, and not only do I *not* want to know about other peoples lives or how their day went, I also don't want to share anything about mine, and this is fine. I find smalltalk completely unnatural and forced and would much rather sit in silence. I believe over the years I have built a self-awareness and realisation that many others haven't. My life is private, possibly weird to many, and I don't want to let anybody in. My peace is protected and I really feel complete freedom. I am now in my 30's and can confidently say I do not have a single friend, and haven't for some years, and I wouldn't change this for the world. My journey has been unique and I have been the only person there for me each time, I am my own hero and people wouldn't believe the places I've been, the personal demons and private battles I've fought in complete secrecy without burdening anyone else with them. I am proud of the personal development I have achieved completely on my own.
I had a 73-year-old redheaded phone psychic in Las Vegas tell me as I was cleaning her house. What the hell is wrong with you if you can’t be alone so I mean if you can’t be alone like me when I was in my 30s it is a problem but as you reach toward the end of your life, such as myself now it’s not so bad it’s quiet, comfortable and peaceful. I’m gonna tell you what I would’ve told myself many years ago if I could so it’s OK to be alone. It doesn’t make you a bad person and you’ll make it. Please don’t accept a monster in your life instead of being alone. It really is great out here.❤❤❤
All self-improvement content creators are crap except Grim Motivation, the only self-improvement channel I'd EVER recommend
I can’t explain how much I needed to hear this right now! This seriously might have just saved my life. Xxx
Being alone you dont need bosses or managers YOUR IN CHARGE
That is why I tell them that I don't care when I get in trouble for taking unsanctioned days off.
F youself self important aholes. I am a grown ass adult who knows what is truly important to me.
I have been alone for years. And I wouldn't change a thing.
Legend has it, that back in 2007, to fully prepare himself for the role of the Joker, the late Heath Ledger isolated himself alone in a hotel room for weeks and the rest is Oscar award winning history!
He died before he won
The battle is won within the mind. Thats going to stay with me forever.
It took time to understand that being alone was what I needed for myself, to understand who I really am, not what others tell you you should be, I now know myself.
I stand by one phrase, it helped me win that war we all have inside us...."Accept your demons, or you will fall"....with this, you now control those demons, those thoughts in your head that made you feel worthless....no longer control you.
I've always been more comfortable in my solitude! Of course I'd love to find my person I'm suppose to be with! But I'll be just fine, should our paths not cross! 💯🙏
I was born in it!
Yes, I know what you mean. I too was born into a long, lonely world myself. I would have the briefest moments when I had people in my life making me happy, well superficially at least. Those moments NEVER lasted all that long, they were just mere seasons of life. I kind of embraced my alone time, often times I welcomed it, it became almost a primal need for me to get myself right, back on track.
So was I and I’m 48 and it still my reality/ but it is/ What it is !
Same here Respect 🍀
Raise in it
There's peace within solitude!
There’s no pain in being alone it’s just a pathway to finding your boundaries !
my girl recently left me and im talking to someone new that i really love but i dont feel the same anymore yk? like im really happy but for some reason i always wanna cry.. i once heard "a man in pain holds the power to destroy everything, yet, he only destroys himself" idk what to do anymore, my life isnt bad but it doesnt feel good either. i wont lose hope or faith and ill stay strong for as long as i can but its slowly getting harder day by day. many people end their lives bc they feel like they lost everything and i understand that feeling but always remember even if you feel alone god will always be with you no matter what. stay strong brothers and sisters everything will get better someday and trust me that day will come, and in case no one has told you today, i love you❤
Best advice I've ever heard in 55 years. Thankyou. ❤❤
being alone is a gift
This is the realist audio ever put forth for all the lone wolf's outthere who can relate to the message. A truthful message. You, yourself are your own worst enemy. It is on your own behalf to stay sharp and knowledgeable in a once in a lifetime journey. Fear is a choice remember that.
In the silence the voices in my head go very very dark
Alone is a luxury that can turn silence in to healthy vibes carrying you forward ! ❤
No one to corrupt your plans... with mediocrity...
they keep trying, they keep showing you exactly where you dont want to be and how you dont want to live, cause they cant accept the fact that they are weaker, and are not able to put in the effort and the courage to do so.To be free.
I spent 30 days in the woods by myself. I came out a different person, a stronger, better more focused human. I never rely on anyone.
After facing a serial killer in my very early teenage years 13 to be exact and being kidnapped from my family and then found again and then a family member being kidnapped from me and then found again after years this is the most amazing and powerful thing I have ever heard in 55 years.. THANK YOU ❤ from the 🦁♌ LEO in Brooksville Florida 🦋
Ive been alone and isolated for over 2 years now and still am, and i did understand every single word. And all i can say, its the truth. Its whatever you do with yourself while being lingered by darkness, that shapes you. Defines you.
This was the most truthful thing ive heard.
This is PROFOUND...From someone (65) who tends to be very popular and open, but chooses to BE ALONE!!!!!! ALWAYS!
He is hitting everything SPOT ON!
I really think I needed to hear this. Thankyou so much for putting it out it really appreciated! I’ve broken up with my girlfriend who I was with for 5 years with who I also had a beautiful baby boy. But also unfortunately Ive also lost one who was an angel when he came into this world. I’ve gone back to a turning point where I don’t know where to turn. I’ve done absolutely amazing. But she then tells me she doesn’t love me anymore and it crushed me. I’ve gone back literally to something I’d never do again and here I am not been sleep for 3 days now went to a dark dark place but yes Thankyou I really needed to hear that!
Stay strong brother!
Didn’t realize how much I needed AI joker.
Being quit on by my ex wife by her filing for divorce. Being on my own for 9 months has made me so much stronger as a person and man. This video is 100% right on. Yes I was hurt to have been quit on but damn that was my biggest motivation. Now I don’t want to ever be with anyone cause I know I can count on me and nothing but me
I don't Need liars, loozers and unstable People iin my life 👌
Loneliness is weakness. Loneliness can be found even when you are with a lover or a friend... But being alone as a choice, and reveling in it, is a strength. This was beautifully done.
Only reason being alone was frowned upon is because humans needed each other more in the 1800-1900s than they do in the 2000s. I don’t need you and you don’t need me anymore. And I like that.
Exactly its kinda like I learned in physical therapy / rehab after some surgerys. Some things like arms an legs came out not so good even tho the surgerys had nothing to do. With any arms or legs funny how that happened. But the point is the physical pharmacist can only show you what to do to get better.
In the end it's up to you alone to do the exercises they can't make you. You have to make yourself do them. Even though it hurts you have to make yourself do it. Even though you don't want to at times you have to push through the pain. To some extent to get better without overdoing it. Because its you against the pain and no one else.
Next job interview:
“So what’s been your previous profession?”
*the art of being alone*
I'm not alone, I have God by my side everyday🙏❤️🙏
OMG… thank you, thank you. THANK YOU! I live life alone no family / friends and I have to say, I listened to every word of this speech and everything he said was soo true. And coming from the voice character who was in my opinion the best villain in any movie to date, it meant soo much more.
Thank you again who ever made this, you and The Joker from the dark knight has made me stronger (in a good way) I’m not a villain, just alone but not afriad 🃏🤡
The worse for me is not be needed anymore😔 the kids grown up, left home and I don’t know how to live for myself. 😔🙏🏻🕊✝️
My friend, you have done an incredible thing! You raised a family and have provided your children with Everything they need! This experience is something you can share with others who are just now starting a family and trying to raise their children. You are valuable and your Wisdom is needed. Please explore how you can share your knowledge with others who are only starting their journey. I see you and Know that you have so much to give that we need. 💪🫡❤️🩹
Being alone is one of life’s greatest pleasures.
Being alone helps me to rest my mind, think about my dream which makes me happy, thinking about the reality but i will face it and grow up. So being alone is where I truly fight.
Isolation is a gift. Everything else is just a test of your endurance. You will be alone with the Gods. Your nights will flame with fire -
Charles Bukowski
I've been alone for 31 years. Not stopping now. I see the world for what it is. You can only truly rely on yourself, your closet family and friends when push come to shove will stab you in the back. You know it's true.
There is nothing more powerful then being alone long period of time, you're getting all the answers for your questions from within, you see through the matrix, the ultimate truth of who you really are, and where you wanna go, and what are you gonna do.
Some people THRIVE in groups. We, oh we SUPERCEDE all expectations even our own in solitude. “LongLiveTheReal”🥀⚰️
“At the end of the day, it’s just you against you” that line echos
I feel alone even when I’m not alone and I love that feeling 😈
I have gone through this thought process several times in my life. Nothing new for me, but for some men this may be the most important message they'll ever hear.
Great message, there is sanctuary in being solitary and solutions to succeed come to those in solitude.
That was exactly what I needed to hear.
Being a Gemini I am never truly alone. Them voices are many
That's right, same here... Twins
Me too
Yep😂
After being bullied as a kid in highschool I surrounded myself with people. A lot of people. It was a good time. But they all abandonned me when I need them. I learned to be alone. And it was difficult! But at the end it was perfect! I do not need anybody! I learned to do everything on my own! I do no longer need other people!
Thank you.
best video i saw in my entire life
I know now why I have been in the desert for over 10 years. It was to build unmatched strength and fortitude.
Thank you.
Awesome man and I stay way out in the woods most of the time and where I live!! So much better than being out in that sick fake man made society that's so fill of shit and assholes!!
I been in isolation and at 38!I am finding peace ☮️ ✌🏾. All my problems came from
Being too kind to people who betrayed or used me and left. I am good with people until true ones come up.
Being alone is hard at first, but when you been alone most of your life, you embrace it and learn how powerful you can be alone.
Love this video. Speaks a lot of truth.
As for the ad saying "Vote yes on 3" (which ig is directed towards TH-cam) It's vote NO on no.3, get it right. There is one thing the ad is right about though, no one should be denied care.... so why are parents neglecting their children and leaving them all alone to be put in situations like that in the first place? Why aren't children being taught how to respect others but be cautious? It's not invoking any kind of fear like some people might claim, it's the harsh reality that not everyone is your friend and it's delusional to believe otherwise. The harsh reality is that there are cruel, manipulative people that you should be cautious around and avoid for your own sake and quality of life. Anyone that votes "yes" on No.3 is living a fantasy, a flawed delusion waiting to fall apart the moment reality sets in.
I needed to hear this
Being alone is what i do best, done it for years. Cant be arsed with other people's bs. Being alone means you're comfy in your own thoughts and skin. Takes balls to go solo and do it your way. The older i get, the less i care about what other people think, im 37 btw but have an old soul. Gravitated toward older people to take bits and bobs from their life and experience then applied what i liked to my life, its worked out great for me as im at peace from within. The turmoil i went thru for years has evaporated coz im clean from drugs and shit. Sobriety is my new drug and im fckn smashing it every day, getting stronger and stronger. People try to bring u bk down to their shitty level coz theyre envious that your jumping around full of life and their face is tripping them. So fuck, u cant get it together and get out the chaos? Thats on u, dont take me back down that road, im on a better path with nothing stopping me and its so freeing. The life drainers just get ignored, if they talk about me behind my back, who gives af. I dont hear it so why should it affect me. Stay in the madness if u like it, but jog on if u think im coming along with u. Life's too good for me now, actually better than any drug ive ever tried the way im feeling now. People say its radiating out me but ill take a while to notice it and thats fine, if it rubs off on someone and they approach me for help, im more than willing to give them it, hoping they find the peace and comfort im experiencing. Its still a rollercoaster as im only 28 days in but its meant get better if youre truly committing yourself to it. If it was easy there'd be no addicts, so put the effort in and it comes back tenfold ❤ from Scotland
Knowbody wishes to be alone but at points it’s a choice, it does make you stronger and it seems to focus on what matters vs yourself.It’s been a struggle but the light shines. Let it all go, forgiving yourself seems like the idea of freedom.
"Forget by the world, but you will find yourself".
A person who can be alone and survive climbing that big bad mountain of life . They are the ones that live a life of true freedom.
I love these so very much. They give me so really powerful insights.
I experienced both - strength in friendship and help from people and strength in solitude. Both are a force in their own right. If you can use both .... Almost nothing can break you. You always find your way in one way or another
Alone in the mind can be a scary place until you show it you want to be the best version of yourself ☘️💚☘️
I've always walked my own path. Even at a very young age my mother noticed that I had a knack for avoiding all the drama. I have 4 siblings and I'm the middle one. While they would bicker and fight over mundane things I always remained neutral. As I grew up I always remained "me" and I never tried to be like anyone else. And you would think walking your own path would drive people away from you, but it actually has had the opposite effect. I've always kept a small circle of friends. Good friends. I'm happier that way. But I made a mistake and got married. It wasn't the act of getting married but more importantly "who" I married. She ended up really destroying not just our marriage, my trust, but our family. We had three beautiful daughters and she just didn't cheat, she did much more worse than that. But it shattered our family and my daughters turned against her once they found out all the destruction she created. I've never "bad mouthed" their mother and just picked myself up and moved on because the girls needed me to. And I needed to for myself. I raised them on my own and I've remained single for 14yrs now and it's been my choice. I'm much happier this way. It's who I really am. But a lot of what the Joker says here is absolutely true. But the important thing is it's true for some people. Some people are frightened of being alone and don't do well being alone. And there's nothing wrong with that. But everything I've endured in my life especially the bad things, I've done it on my own. Like the old saying goes "when you get knocked down, you get right back up and dust yourself off and continue on. Out of everyone in my family and even my childhood friends I'm the only one who took the path of joining the military. And I've made a career out of it. Serving in US Special Operations for most of my adult life. I love what I do and I love how my life is and that's what we all strive for. It's never too late to change your life to make it YOUR LIFE. What YOU want it to be. Just be YOU! 🇺🇲
You sound like a very grounded person. And I have no doubt every one of your daughters are not only daddy's girls but love you for being there for them. It's something I know a lot about because I have a father that sacrificed everything for us and was ALWAYS THERE. Good for you. There's no greater gift than being content with ones self.
Being alone is the best, the insecure will try and roll you over and accuse you of being patronizing then your too strong then your this and that. I ended a relationship with a narcissistic early last year, she tried to break me ...then I kicked her out for the 5th and final time. She's been through 3 others since. I was brought up to be independent, I got accused of that, I got accused of everything but still gave but she could not hack decency and the strength not to be brought down, I'm a lover she was a taker....stay safe and true to yourself👍
Its not death that a man should fear,
but he should fear never beginning to live.
M.Aurelius.
I watch this video every day thank you.
I cannot ever properly express how much I needed this video today. ❤
Amen!!!. That's why I love welding/fabbing!!.. you and your thoughts is like a d the world
Im alone after a hard break up. It is really hard but i know i need to work on myself and try and embrace being on my own. My journey starts with this video
💯💪💯👏
Yes, yes & yes!
I've always enjoyed being alone. But this year of '24 I've been forced to finally battle what i need to in my mind... I didn't know how had it is doing this part all alone. It's taking me time, but every week seems to be a different battle to concur.
Thank you for this video and this reminder!
Being alone is the best thing that ever happened to me. After several deployments to Bosnia and Afghanistan, I discovered that people you thought would support you were the biggest cockroaches. I live my life alone and don't want anything else