October Reset: Can I Balance it All??

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  • @mrssmurf55
    @mrssmurf55 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I did it Lydia got my degree working 2 jobs caring for a dying sibling and a sudden death of another sibling it was 30 yrs late it was on my bucket list and I finally did it at 50. I'm wishing you all the luck for your education ❤

  • @roxyjinks9643
    @roxyjinks9643 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love when I go to someone’s house and it’s messy it makes me feel right at home! I feel uncomfortable if it doesn’t looked lived in!

  • @crystal482
    @crystal482 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love that you don't family vlog and you give your children privacy. I'm strongly against family vlogging, I believe it's a form of child abuse. Anyways, you're a gem, very inspiring. Love this channel.

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You see my kids when they cross the background, I don't hide them. But I know better now then to just stick a camera in their faces. It's so weird.

    • @crystal482
      @crystal482 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nothing wrong with that, perfect!

  • @sunflowerfields4409
    @sunflowerfields4409 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awww! I love the story about the woman with the tiny card table! That's how it should be. I find myself apologizing for my home too much. Finally, a friend of mine told me, " we don't come to see your house. We come to see YOU". That stuck with me because it's true.

  • @melaniegraham1413
    @melaniegraham1413 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are such a blessing. Beautiful spirit and encouragement. Thank you for sharing.

  • @rosebud7233
    @rosebud7233 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The history, fair and business fair sounds so cute!

  • @joycecook8876
    @joycecook8876 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Today Israel was attacked and when I saw your scripture at the end, thought how appropriate for today. I love that you leave them at the end each time. Great vlog lineup and I’m sure Jaxson loves that comforter. It looks perfect! 🍃🍁🪴🍂

  • @kellyjardine4856
    @kellyjardine4856 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love how you described how you are finding you don’t notice what’s going on outside your home as much, or need to know what’s going on right as it’s happening. I have felt the exact the same way 😊

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We are not meant to have so immediate access to all the tragedies.

  • @granitemoss1451
    @granitemoss1451 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "The Undertaking..." sounds just unique and off-beat enough for me so I just ordered it from the library. Thanks for the suggestion!

  • @Spot4art
    @Spot4art ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always say “that’s not my story to tell” …recognizing personal privacy is almost oxymoronic on social media. Refreshing to see your attitude and life example. Sharing experiences to help others in a curated way is great. ❤️

  • @brightenyourcorner951
    @brightenyourcorner951 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I never want to miss these monthly vlogs. You are inspiring and so great!

  • @cindydavidson8511
    @cindydavidson8511 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you are so honest about homemaking skills I'm right there with you Lydia .You crack me up but your a great mom for sure!!!!

  • @juliejackman2649
    @juliejackman2649 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There's a book called "Lies Jane Austen Told Me" that sounds like something you would like. I loved it. I'm sure if I knew Jane Austen books better then it probably has a lot of comparisons that would make the book even better. It takes place in modern times. ☺
    I ❤ how you said you like your house to be lived in. That is exactly same with me. 😀. I love having the evidence, if you will, of kids playing, dishes mean we have food, etc.

  • @kimandmikedial9582
    @kimandmikedial9582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How is it October?! I can relate! We have been through speech therapy hoops with pediatrician, city , and now public school. And we will have to start again as we change age groups and services end. I feel ya mamma, hang in there.

  • @mstorry9325
    @mstorry9325 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im so proud of you! Its great to see a mom doing all the mom life and pursuing additional education. Thanks for being honest in your journey and how your balancing everything. ❤

  • @lilypad342
    @lilypad342 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jebediah Senn😂😂😂😂!!! And you are on point with LESS to go AROUND! I feel that immensely. I love watching you because you are my friend, my neighbor. Other budget minded or get out of debt channels make me sad and feel like a flop! You are true blue down to earth!! Thank you so much for sharing with all of us!! I greatly appreciate you

  • @chelsiemendoza8102
    @chelsiemendoza8102 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing how you had feelings about being uncomfortable having people in your home, I’ve been struggling with this for a long time and I want connection but this has been a road block, glad to hear I’m not alone and there is hope!

  • @brittanyhickman5114
    @brittanyhickman5114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing video as always! I’m in a similar boat with the disabilities. My son was diagnosed in February this year and getting the necessary services and dealing with insurance has been awful. I live on East Side of the Big Island of Hawaii and we’re considered a little more rural. We’ve paid quite a bit out of pocked to make sure what he needs. I’m just happy I’m in a financial position to do so as I know it’s difficult for so many. Sending much love and positive thoughts your way for you and your ohana. 🌺

  • @sabahatnaheed1435
    @sabahatnaheed1435 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For a mom, you do a lot! Keep going!

  • @sharp.9469
    @sharp.9469 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Monthly resets are my favorite!! My kids are grown , married with kids and we still say “ Did you watch Legend of Sleepy Hollow , Charlie Brown yet this year?” So they won’t get over it.
    Lastly that Pilgrim crack made me laugh for 5 minutes I had to pause your video so I wouldn’t miss anything. Love you Lydia

  • @juliecox647
    @juliecox647 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even though my kids are all older (two are technically adults although my heart does not like to admit it lol!) every once and a while they surprise you with wanting some of those traditions again. Just last night our 17 year old daughter asked if we would watch a movie with her, with the request that it was in our room all squished at the head of the bed with popcorn. When things were extra crazy and we were exhausted with three littles that was our special thing to do. It gave us the break we needed but was super exciting for them.
    This year our daughter who is away for school is pretty adamant about some of the traditions we should do when she is home at Christmas, some have been put away for several years already, but it is those memories that help ground them when they are dealing with all the adult things in their lives.

  • @luzmariaperez2180
    @luzmariaperez2180 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lydia, I appreciate your monthly resets and variety of topics. I especially appreciate how you keep things real by reporting back on not just your successes but things that maybe fall off the tracks a little bit and how you face them head on and just "reset". Have a wonderful day.

  • @Positioned2win
    @Positioned2win ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great video. I love how you are down to earth and we are living similar lives🙌🏾🥰. I homeschool my 3 older kids (13,12,9), my four year old has a rare neurodevelopmental disorder and the fight for getting what she needs between insurance and paperwork it’s sooooo much. Sometimes I feel like giving up but it’s not an option. We fight for our babies. I also have my own business, I create and build revenue streams for people- personal brands or business owners. Your take on everything is so refreshing to hear and see.

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. It’s so hard to fight them for these things.

  • @MsSarahJam
    @MsSarahJam ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good to catch up with you Lydia, and thanks for the autumn update video.

  • @SweetlyHome
    @SweetlyHome ปีที่แล้ว

    Lydia, you are such a delight. I laughed way too hard about the Jedidiah hair comment. Like out loud. Thank you for your words in this video. I really needed some of your encouragement today.

  • @MichelleL22
    @MichelleL22 ปีที่แล้ว

    There are needles that are open at the top and you just pop the thread down into it… cause otherwise I would have lots of clothes without buttons!! Lol, you crack me up! I spent the last couple days refinishing bathroom cabinets cause me son went back to college and his bath cabinets look like he’s been sacrificing goats in there… lol. He just told me , mid paint, that’s he’s coming home for break next week… smh. I’m gonna cover them..😂

  • @jessicavasquez1376
    @jessicavasquez1376 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos so much! Thank you for sharing and for these amazing questions and recommendations! God bless you and your amazing family ❤❤❤

  • @lindsaygrillot5214
    @lindsaygrillot5214 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos. Thanks for sharing :)

  • @lynnbrown9164
    @lynnbrown9164 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Good job advocating for your child!. You are right. The best job!

  • @chavaspropheticlife
    @chavaspropheticlife ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your humor 😂 thank you for your openness! I can completely relate with you. Great video ❤

  • @hollyreadschildrensbooks
    @hollyreadschildrensbooks ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re awesome!!!! Thanks for inspiring me ❤

  • @aleshiawheeler9590
    @aleshiawheeler9590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lydia ! I know you’ve mentioned speech therapy for one of your kids - you might want to look into united healthcare childrens foundations. My youngest goes to speech therapy & they reimburse us for those costs!!! Another mom told me about it ( my kiddo has been in SPeech Thery & OT ) for 5 years and never had heard of this ! They even approved him even though we have a hsa ! Worth a shot !!

    • @aleshiawheeler9590
      @aleshiawheeler9590 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s an application you have to complete & they approve or deny you ! ❤️

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว

      Good to know. Our insurance now covers both ST and OT fully because we got a diagnosis.

  • @quuqeemonster
    @quuqeemonster ปีที่แล้ว

    Jebediah hair, your funniest comment everrrr !!!

  • @Crystal-je7gx
    @Crystal-je7gx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning. Glad to see everything is working out.

  • @kelliegirard2875
    @kelliegirard2875 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good morning Lydia. You are so relatable and I enjoy your videos.❤

  • @MillsandMe
    @MillsandMe ปีที่แล้ว

    You are delightful!!

  • @susanvelez6534
    @susanvelez6534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol the moms and the rum ….. Jesus loves us honey we got this. I would be an advocate for your son in a moment

  • @jennymeier3018
    @jennymeier3018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your videos! And your positivity and humor!! And how do you do it all??

  • @mariadamore1963
    @mariadamore1963 ปีที่แล้ว

    you need to look into easy thread needles! they are a game changer!!!

  • @edinahalliday6479
    @edinahalliday6479 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos. What coffee pot do you use and how to you make your milk froth

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว

      I have an instant pot coffee maker. Honestly it’s not that great. I have a milk frother that froths my milk.

  • @paulawilliams1474
    @paulawilliams1474 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Jen 😋

  • @jenniferhudson7022
    @jenniferhudson7022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I also look like a pilgrim today. Jebidiah lol!

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What cheer. I don't know what pilgrims say.

  • @susanvelez6534
    @susanvelez6534 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh and have you read THE LAST THING HE TOLD ME? Try to check that one out it is sooooo good. I swear they made it an Apple TV series. I don’t have nor will I pay but what a great book. Now when have I ever told you about a book,In all these years I have watched your videos. I wish I was young like you and the ladies I follow. I’ll be 62 on October 8th and all I do is walk /cook/ grocery shop/ clean/ watch you tube/ hang out with my partner and we go for great drives. I use to be so busy now I’m in the season of life where I really don’t know how to deal with no responsibility. A lot of my friends god bless them have passed, it’s just weird. I use to be on the go here, there ,and everywhere. I love the peace and the quiet but….. even the grocery store job I had to leave. All and I mean all of the employees gossiped and I just couldn’t no matter how I minded my own business.I felt like I was in freaking kindergarten 😂 anyway enough rant ❤love you Lydia Senn

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did read it.

    • @susanvelez6534
      @susanvelez6534 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheRealLydiaSenn Whoo hoo I must have missed if you shared it with us

  • @LauraForest
    @LauraForest ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes me sad, but it might help someone: i know a few families who have moved states to get access to insurance-covered intervention/therapies for autism and similar genetic disorders. California, specifically.

  • @Natalie-Cornacchione
    @Natalie-Cornacchione ปีที่แล้ว

    Me currently at the library searching for this video to see what your monthly book recs are

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you find?

    • @Natalie-Cornacchione
      @Natalie-Cornacchione ปีที่แล้ว

      @TheRealLydiaSenn Good Wives, Jackie Kennedy's memoir, The Book Woman's Daughter (sequel to the book woman of troublesome creek) and Sex Cult Nun (history and memoir about escaping from a cult). Trying to read more fiction even though half of these are not fiction ☠️

  • @carmarasmussen8118
    @carmarasmussen8118 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jebediah 😂

  • @32073207100
    @32073207100 ปีที่แล้ว

    Were you able to obtain any financial assistance or scholarships for your schooling?

    • @TheRealLydiaSenn
      @TheRealLydiaSenn  ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope. It's just me working and paying my tuition.