You know these type dont appreciate when people help them cause they believe God sent those people to help them. In his eyes, God is making his mom serve him, not that his mom is generous for not kicking his A$$ in the street.
@@BreMyselfAndiiI don't think he works, I think he just spends his whole day praying and going on the internet about Jesus and that's all. I would love to see this man pretend to be a provider or a real man for even like 5 minutes
its not misogynystic i think...he did not down grade any woman. he spoke of the standards he has and what he expects. its just traditional but not misogynistic at all. just my view.
He isn't going to be able to make enough money, on his own, to support her. If he can't provide... he needs to learn that his pride is a sin, and start being humble.
@@GxportWait someone above just said he’s been working all this time since he’s been living at home, that he should have a big nest egg. So did he or did he not work?
@@bigwoogcI know right 😂😂 he knows the technical stuff but doesn't get it is so much more than that & that every woman is different in their likes & dislikes.
Men who want to wear the pants and yet can't pay the bills grind my gears. Being the provider is a part of the masculine role, too, not just being in the leadership role. Leadership isn't all fun and games.
Doesn't Meisha have a job and Nicola doesn't? Most american women, stratch that, most WOMEN wouldn't date a guy who never has a job in his life. I don't get why Meisha is dating this leech for so long and being humilated by him.
I won't lie: Meisha is a very beautiful woman. WIthout stating the obvious, Meisha looks like a Megan Fox-clone. I'm sure Meisha will be on another TV show after 90 Day. @@mycinnamongirl
Her responses regarding her daughters are worrying. She won't say that he isn't that type of man, that he would not judge or overstep or make them uncomfortable - because she knows he absolutely is the type to do just that. Instead, she concedes that they are all "strong enough" to handle it? You don't bring a highly conservative, traditional, misogynist home to your daughters and justify it because they can take it. Why would you even risk turning their safest space into a war zone for a lukewarm loser? "I brought this possible bomb into the house because we all know how to defuse bombs around here!"
Narcissism is extremely toxic. Look up Lorne Armstrong. He's a 53 year old unemployed complete loser and is an RSO yet he thinks he's something special and deserves beautiful, much younger, wealthy women.
I want to like her. I want to root for her.. but she’s absolutely the type of woman to choose a man over her own children. I really sympathize with them. They’ll be the true victims in this mess.
I agree. Her being this desperate to make this tire fire of a man work is also a big red flag. She strikes me as the kind of woman who will pick this lover over her daughter's while telling herself it's OK because " thier "strong and independent " which I fully believe but still thier teenagers who need thier mom.
@@ModpamellaCali Exactly There we go 👍,I never found this relationship genuine. Her facial expressions were like she was chewing a wasp , especially when he told her how she barely expressed she loves him. She's using the faith as a bond to build on,but they are 2 different & she has zero physical attraction to him .
Why does she want him? I really don't get this! This lady needs to find a compatible mate. I think she had so much surgery that she feels lesser on the inside and does think she can't get a better looking man. GIRL GET A BETTER LOOKING MAN AND HAVE A BALL! STOP CHASING THIS PERSON!
Here's the thing. The Bible says "wives, submit to your husbands." But also goes to say that "husbands must love their wives as Jesus so loved the church, willing to give her life for her." It does not even state that wives must love their husbands. It also says a man that does not provide for his family is worse than an infidel. It also tells wives and husbands to "submit" to one another and take care of each others' needs. The Bible says a man does NOT force a woman to submit either. He is supposed to treat her with respect and she is supposed to do the same. Women in the Bible worked and also handled finances. They were not idiots, weaklings, doormats, or punching bags. People must give the Bible its full context.
Her daughters and her are so beautiful and it shows that she’s doing a great job in raising them. And I do hope they’re relationship between her daughters don’t break because of this guy. Who really doesn’t seem to bring anything to the table except being religious. I think she deserve so much better.
Probably teaching her daughters the same brainwashed religious bs she is living. Shut up & obey a man for God. She's creating more slaves with vagina for man.
I only feel bad for her kids. Meisha knew exactly what she was getting into and is choosing to put blinders on and think she can 'Americanize' him a little to make him more tolerable. She's delusional and she'll probably end up pushing away her family or divorcing him.
Of course this doesn't apply to *all* religious people but just like someone's already said, it sticks out more for religious people because they're all sighting 1 thing rather than speaking from different perspectives from their experience. Kinda paradoxal how religious texts are the most open for interpretation yet specific and exclusive thing in the world. Perfect for people like Nichola to build a personality and moral high horse around someone else's words alone.
@@jeremiahsymonette4781 I didnt say it was. Naturally having faith is not the issue. But the more person screams about being religious and holy, the more it's just a tool to manipulate.
It seems like Meisha's only requirement for a man is for him to be religious, and nothing else. That's exactly what she got, so that's all on her for having no other standards.
There is nothing wrong with a religious man, but basing it on that factor alone should come with all of its own sub factors like his character (is he following morals of Scripture?), does he know the doctrines of the faith? I feel like this kind of stuff is pretty simple but I dunno how it got tossed underneath the rug.
I am relating so hard about the "the girls are teenagers. And shouldn't have to fight off a grown man with gender issues of any type." THANK YOU!! I have chosen to stay single since 2012 for my 2 daugthers. Best wishes to you all.
Meisha is out of her mind. Nicola is a 50 year old professional scrub with a superiority complex. He has never had any responsibility and still lives with his mommy. I can’t stand dudes like him. Always trying to tell women to submit to them when they are the biggest losers on the planet. Nicola will destroy any confidence her daughters have built up. Meisha is so desperate for this relationship to work. She’s going to lose her entire family over that dude.
The funny thing is that these “scrubs” always end up with the women . While men like myself ; better looking and established with good jobs can’t get a text back. 🤷♂️. You love scrubs .
@@andrewcruz1931I come from a Christian family so there’s lot of Christians like Nicola in my circle. Dudes in their 40s still living with their parents and making next to nothing. Trust me, no one is after them and I doubt they’ll get married. But I am in LA, it could be different in any of the fly over states. Nicola is just an incredibly lucky dude to have Meisha. They connected on religion basis but obviously they didn’t connect on any other level… so it’s 50/50 they get married and stay together. Be yourself, someone will text you back:)
@@andrewcruz1931 "You love scrubs" That sounds like something a bitter incel would say. Also, judging by your profile picture, you're not anymore better looking than he is. I don't know about your job situation, but I would say that you can't get a text back because you're clearly not as good of a person as you claim to be.
If any woman falls for a man who insist that he is more superior than her, she is not only desperate but has very very poor self respect. This woman is asking to be abused mentally and maybe even physically.
He's a joke 😂 but also a total jerk. Meisha's home will become a war zone. Poor girls and poor Meisha. She'll regret the moment she applied for his K1 visa. 🙄 😢
I’m completely baffled by her choice in this “ man’…🤦🏻♀️. I don’t get it. What exactly is it she sees in him? His good looks 😂? He’s living in his mother’s basement 😂…come on !!!! She needs help..
Misha is delusional if she thinks he’s a good significant other. He’s horrible. He’s controlling and doesn’t do anything that’s kind or worth pursuing.
0:03 - 0:08 Nicola: "Woman need to listen to the man. There's no other way. That's what the bible say! I bet even hardcore religious people are shaking heads and asking,"Nicola, are you kidding me?". I feel sorry for Meisha being humilated while Nicola is saying these naive nonsense. :(
Him saying the Bible says man is the head of the house & supports the family, yet this guy doesn’t work, hasn’t worked & has no intention of working so how is he supporting his family??? Meisha is making a huge mistake with this dork & it has to do with her finding religion, someone please explain to her that there are other men out there that are religious & they work & accept women as equals that this guy is not her last chance & he is going to be a problem between her & her girls no matter what he says. He thinks he is boss & he is not going to be ok with them doing what they are used to because he doesn’t believe I even associating with others that are as he puts it “ like us” believe the same things due to religion. Hope she is ok with a 3 second sex life. Everyone seems to be missing a big point the Bible doesn’t talk about sex as a fulfilling thing that is to enjoy, it is for procreating so he could be thinking pleasing a partner & enjoying sex is not even something to be considered. He keeps saying he learned everything in 5 th grade science & hasn’t bothered to look any further. How can she think he is going to be ok with her telling him how to please her when he prefers her silent & thinks he knows more about everything than she does. Nicola will have loads of opinions about the girls even if he doesn’t say it to them he will expect her to do as he says & he has told her this. This will hurt the girls & mothers relationship no matter what she says he will at some point start voicing exactly what he thinks & wants in every aspect of her life the girls included. Why would this woman marry a dude she hasn’t even had sex with that is totally inexperienced & very bossy even though he has no intention of working so even though she is under him in his mind she is the one that will be financially supporting them. What happens if she marries him & finds he is completely inadequate in bed & has no intention of changing, what is he going to do here all day? Oh right sir on his computer in prayer groups & telling all everything about the Bible because he is such an expert on it. This is going to be her biggest mistake in her life & it will damage her life with her girls.
This man uses the "it's in the bible" just because he knows most people haven't read it, to me it´s clear that his interpretation is something that's beneficial for him and nobody else, that's really far from what the bible teaches.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
She knows him yet is still with him. At this point, this is her choice and I don’t feel sympathy for her. He’s a religious man with strong beliefs from a different culture. He won’t understand why he has to make any changes to adjust to the American way, and I haven’t seen Misha asking him to change anything either. Again, this is her choice and decision - and she’s in this knowing how firm he is in his beliefs, so on some level she understands and wants this.
@@mycinnamongirl Very good point, it wouldn't surprise me. Christian, Cleo, and Jasmine were all on it to boost their social media presence/platforms. Meisha probably is, too.
This, honestly, is putting far too much on the power of religion. The higher source is not something that you test. And this is beyond ridiculous. Nicola is set in his ways, highly pious, stubborn and misogynistic. Throw in the fact that he doesn't seem to have a trade he can count on once he's married is a recipe for disaster. And... the fact that he's not even the slightest bit empathic will prove to be the honeymoon night from hell. I can't get the possible image of him scrubbing the skin off his "peen" after consummating the marriage before going into prayer. Not sure what Mesha end goal really is.
I just want to ask you, and please be thoughtful before you answer. Would you say that if Nicola was a highly religious practicing Muslim? Just curious.
@@maryreilly5092 Yep. Since I married a super, duper religious, had a prayer clock set to alarm for call to prayer, practicing Muslim with two visits to Mecca behind him. Nicola is not honoring GOD. He seems to be self-flagellating for something only he understands. Meisha (it seems) will allow him to turn some of pain outward.
@@guinealove3744 Fantastic! I think being super religious is wonderful and there are numerous overlaps between the Bible and the Quran. Both reside in a place of honor in my home and both resonate the view that men are the head of the house and both declare this is a privilege not to be abused. ! I think Nicola's belief is honorable and maybe old fashioned to modern Americans, however, we should not slap a label on the man or dismiss his devotion to his Faith as I am sure you would not want that done to your man. Marriage is sacred in both FAITHS and it's the business of the man, the woman and God. I don't like that men, confident and strong in their Faith are attacked by the public.
@@maryreilly5092 What you or I do at home is our respective business. We are talking about two willing participants on a reality show. And you in your religious zeal have chosen this forum to spew a religious agenda. I choose not to engage with someone I know nothing or care anything about. Therefore, let us agree to disagree. Good day madame.
Fellow Christian here. Okay so. It’s God, man, woman, children. Yes the woman should follow her husband. The man is the head of the household. A man who Is a provider, who is a leader. BUT! The Bible also says, that we shall submit to one another. Both husband and wife. Also it says Husbands love your wife like how Christ loved the church. A biblical marriage is a commitment that is based off of mutual respect, unconditional love, and serving on another. It’s not just the man. For both partners to serve one another both has to be good to one another. A woman will not follow a man that is not leading her and his family properly and vice versa.
Exactly! I hate when dudes are cherry picking what they like. It’s a huge responsibility to be the head of household. They just want to tell a woman what to do and her to submit like a slave. Doesn’t work like this.
I like how he pick words from bible. But 0 accountability for his way of life. Why she would follow guy who cant provide protect and love her the way she needs it. Women will submit to you if she see you as capable leader. But this entitlement he is showing is beyond ridicilious. Hey i am man you must listen me!!! So cringe...
Poor nikola he is so stupid. Poor misha she's so stupid. She needs to do better not only for herself. But for her daughters, she is going. So set them up to be judged ridiculed condemned. She will lose her daughters because of him period that man is not worth any of it. He is old, Virgin and has no experience. How to deal with women besides his mom? And I doubt that's a good enough example. And he has no job that will be profitable enough to provide for a family of 4 since he is the head of the household. What kind of money job experience is he bringing to this table?
I don't know why Meisha keeps calling it an annulment it's a divorce. In order to get an annulment you have to be married less than a month in the US. And good luck with Nicola he's a handful! I also find it odd why it took 8yrs for her to meet him in Israel if they're so in love.
It's catholic "annulment", not a legal one. In English this name is unclear but it means that past marriage is considered by church "court" as invalid. But I have no idea what reason she provided.
@@StarlaBizarre no. It's nothing to do with her daughters she's already divorced. This annulment purpose is to give her permission to get married for the second time
What a great commentary on these two. His Biblical life philosophy is fine as a single man, but I don't know any woman in the modern would buy it as a lifestyle. We have moved beyond the 1600s by now. You asked great questions here!
5:45 He doesn't think it'll be easy to 'please her', sex for a super religious man is not about 'pleasure' it's about reproduction. Not to mention she's the woman so he doesn't care if she is enjoying it or not. That's the kind of guy she chooses to marry so she can't come back later and ask him to care about her needs.
It's just sad to see that a woman her age still does not know that you cannot make a man have feelings or emotions that he don't. He's just not that into it. If he's even into women at all.
I want to know what's going on with Meisha for her to think this is the best option for her and a good use of her time. Do you truly want to grow old with this guy? Is it desperation? And while Nikola may not say anything to her daughters directly, he will 100% be in Meisha's ear trying to get her to correct them. I thought her daughter were college age, I didn't know they're just high schoolers. I'm shocked Meisha is being so reckless.
He came to Minnesota to see her but he is no longer in Minnesota according to meishas comments on Instagram. It’s unknown if they are still together As much as I couldn’t stand Statler, she said truth literally about everyone during tell all.
Just in my closed minded atheist mind don't women create men literally. I mean literally grow and give birth to men. So why didnt God make it the other way round if he wanted women to be seen as " women were created for men".
I truly think Nicola is on the Autism Spectrum. He is hyper fixated on religion and he thinks he is all knowing about things he has little experience in. Plus he is socially awkward. I really wonder if he is on the spectrum.
What does this woman see in this man. Someone explain this love thing to me. Im fully grown but still cant understand where people like meisha fall for a guy like nicola. Hes not a great looking guy. He dosent have much going for him. So how did he manage fo swipe the bag. I have a lot to learn for sure its right down cryptic.
he’s right that the bible does say that women are supposed to listen to their husbands however it also states that the man must be able to provide, protect, love and look after his wife… which he can’t do either because he’s broke and immature
Meisha thinks she can "check" and "handle that" yet backstage she calls Nikola and lets him complain and throw a fit about how her daughters disrespected him, she didn't check him then so how will she do it later? He's going to come into her home, gaslight and manipulate Meisha, judge her daughters, look down on them, act like they're less than and treat them like crap and we all know he'll be home all day and not working so he'll have plenty of time to do it. If Meisha's coming in to correct the behavior afterwards it's already too late, her daughters will feel hurt and judged, the damage will be done. He will get sick of her daughters and sick of Meisha having a relationship with them and he will try to destroy their relationship, he will drive the girls away, her daughters will leave the home and the relationship with their mother will be permanently damaged. If you believe in god, you must believe that he gave you your children, he wouldn't put someone in your life to be a burden on you or to stress your relationship with the children he gave you. God did not put this man in her life, she did that, god would want peace, love, harmony and happiness for all his children, Niko ISN'T ANY of those things, he's a test or a lesson, not a god send. There's two things you NEVER, EVER give up in a relationship, your kids and your peace, this man will take both! NO ONE is worth that loss Meisha, no one is worth your daughter's self worth or your's, RUN!
The pure audacity of this dude who would be homeless if not for his mother to be talking about superiority 😂
You know these type dont appreciate when people help them cause they believe God sent those people to help them. In his eyes, God is making his mom serve him, not that his mom is generous for not kicking his A$$ in the street.
@@wardiya3arbiya Exactly, and I would bet he even believes his mother is SUPPOSED to support him, because he's a mAn.
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For a man that’s going to depend on a woman’s budget their entire marriage he has a lot of nerve to be misogynistic 👀
Not taking his side AT ALL but he probably has a lot saved if he worked but lived in his moms basement
@@BreMyselfAndii it has never said he worked.
@@BreMyselfAndiiI don't think he works, I think he just spends his whole day praying and going on the internet about Jesus and that's all. I would love to see this man pretend to be a provider or a real man for even like 5 minutes
its not misogynystic i think...he did not down grade any woman. he spoke of the standards he has and what he expects. its just traditional but not misogynistic at all. just my view.
@@BreMyselfAndii you’ll be surprised a lot of men are still broke while living off of other people
Now we know why Nicola is single at almost 50 😂
He isn't going to be able to make enough money, on his own, to support her. If he can't provide... he needs to learn that his pride is a sin, and start being humble.
Absolutely not in the US as man in his 46s who doesn’t know how to work.
Great point!!
@@GxportWait someone above just said he’s been working all this time since he’s been living at home, that he should have a big nest egg. So did he or did he not work?
@@Candy-O1776no idea where that person got that info from. . It said he NEVER worked.
The thought of having to work with him & his constant preaching and one up manship would drive me crazy!
Sorry, but having sex with a man with only a 5th grade education is NOT anybody's idea of a good time. He's stuck at 10 years old!
He is a Loser.
He only has a fifth grade education, and he’s never worked??? Oh Lord!
@@Candy-O1776 no,Nicola said he learned all about s*x in 5th grade so now he knows everything he needs to know about it🙄
@@bigwoogcI know right 😂😂 he knows the technical stuff but doesn't get it is so much more than that & that every woman is different in their likes & dislikes.
@@Candy-O1776 I apologize, meant a 5th grade sexual education. I don't know how far he went academically.
His beliefs DO NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE ELSE.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR ALL THE PATRIARCHAL ASSHOLES IN THE BACK !!! Those bitches be too scared to hear the truth up at the front!!!
100% well done!!
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Men who want to wear the pants and yet can't pay the bills grind my gears. Being the provider is a part of the masculine role, too, not just being in the leadership role. Leadership isn't all fun and games.
Whoever pays the bills wears the pants. Period.
This 💯
lol how about it's up to the couple to decide for themselves@@marknewton6984
I cannot stand this man, who lived and was supported by mommy.Wake up Meisha. he is no God/ you are too good for him
Mama's boy
Nicole -How are you going to support the family, if you have never had a real job.
Doesn't Meisha have a job and Nicola doesn't?
Most american women, stratch that, most WOMEN wouldn't date a guy who never has a job in his life.
I don't get why Meisha is dating this leech for so long and being humilated by him.
@@kenterminateddq5311reality fame. She used to be a reporter.
He’s going to catch dinner n god will provide 🤲
@@Lambsear565😂😂😂
I won't lie: Meisha is a very beautiful woman. WIthout stating the obvious, Meisha looks like a Megan Fox-clone.
I'm sure Meisha will be on another TV show after 90 Day. @@mycinnamongirl
Her responses regarding her daughters are worrying. She won't say that he isn't that type of man, that he would not judge or overstep or make them uncomfortable - because she knows he absolutely is the type to do just that. Instead, she concedes that they are all "strong enough" to handle it?
You don't bring a highly conservative, traditional, misogynist home to your daughters and justify it because they can take it. Why would you even risk turning their safest space into a war zone for a lukewarm loser?
"I brought this possible bomb into the house because we all know how to defuse bombs around here!"
I fully agree with everything you're saying this feels like the set up for an abuse survivors story
🏆 She's saying "I'm doing something bad for my daughters but they'll be ok because they're strong, so taking care of them is not a priority "
Very good analysis. I am shocked she is doing that cause she seems like a smart woman and a loving mom. Maybe I am wrong
So very true. She’s willfully blind to what this will do to her daughters.
I completely agree with you, and I'm really concerned for her daughters, honestly. Nicola is just gross.
This guy is just proof that when you a loser in every single way possible. You’ll grasp on to anything that gives you authority and confidence.
Yeah but a loser shouldn’t even be able to have opportunities.
Do all 'losers' do this? Have extreme confidence? Haven't ever noticed that...
@@andrewcruz1931 How does someone become a 'loser' if you never got an opportunity? You can only lose if you compete.
Narcissism is extremely toxic. Look up Lorne Armstrong. He's a 53 year old unemployed complete loser and is an RSO yet he thinks he's something special and deserves beautiful, much younger, wealthy women.
I want to like her. I want to root for her.. but she’s absolutely the type of woman to choose a man over her own children. I really sympathize with them. They’ll be the true victims in this mess.
Yep
I agree. Her being this desperate to make this tire fire of a man work is also a big red flag. She strikes me as the kind of woman who will pick this lover over her daughter's while telling herself it's OK because " thier "strong and independent " which I fully believe but still thier teenagers who need thier mom.
😂😂😂 He's delusional! If she thinks this guy will ever change, then she is heading in the same direction.
She is also delusional. And not very bright...
I’ve never understood how this man ever had a chance with her .
He dosen't, she is on a PR Tour. Period.
@@ModpamellaCali Exactly There we go 👍,I never found this relationship genuine. Her facial expressions were like she was chewing a wasp , especially when he told her how she barely expressed she loves him. She's using the faith as a bond to build on,but they are 2 different & she has zero physical attraction to him .
Does Nickels even like Meisha?! He seems so indifferent to her. 🧐
Why does she want him? I really don't get this! This lady needs to find a compatible mate. I think she had so much surgery that she feels lesser on the inside and does think she can't get a better looking man. GIRL GET A BETTER LOOKING MAN AND HAVE A BALL! STOP CHASING THIS PERSON!
She knew what she was signing up for, she had the chance to get an American man...but she decided to travel 🧳 thousands of miles to Israel 🤷♀️.
She’s waayy out of his league!
Sad thing is, she doesn't realize it.
She needs to feel more empowered and confident. There are truly religous men who cherish their wives
Nah, roughly in the same league
BullIf she were she would have been taken already.
But her self esteem is not.
Meisha could've found a perfectly normal person but instead chose a power hungry goblin she either has some weird complex or fetish
Here's the thing. The Bible says "wives, submit to your husbands." But also goes to say that "husbands must love their wives as Jesus so loved the church, willing to give her life for her." It does not even state that wives must love their husbands. It also says a man that does not provide for his family is worse than an infidel. It also tells wives and husbands to "submit" to one another and take care of each others' needs. The Bible says a man does NOT force a woman to submit either. He is supposed to treat her with respect and she is supposed to do the same. Women in the Bible worked and also handled finances. They were not idiots, weaklings, doormats, or punching bags. People must give the Bible its full context.
Yes! Perfectly stated. Context is everything!
So true
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You’re right ! It says Obey not Love.
Absolutely 💯
Nicola has crazy eyes 👀, it's bad when even Riley's giving solid advice 😅
I can’t understand why she is jumping through hoops for a man who is emotionally and intellectually stunted by choice. He’s not even cute.
Her daughters and her are so beautiful and it shows that she’s doing a great job in raising them. And I do hope they’re relationship between her daughters don’t break because of this guy. Who really doesn’t seem to bring anything to the table except being religious. I think she deserve so much better.
Probably teaching her daughters the same brainwashed religious bs she is living. Shut up & obey a man for God. She's creating more slaves with vagina for man.
I don't understand how she was married for so long, has two children out of it and yet somehow got it annulled????
@@StarlaBizarreSame! I cant believe it.
@mycinnamongirl, really? I didn't know that. Is that a strictly Catholic thing ?
I only feel bad for her kids. Meisha knew exactly what she was getting into and is choosing to put blinders on and think she can 'Americanize' him a little to make him more tolerable. She's delusional and she'll probably end up pushing away her family or divorcing him.
or maybe the man will bring some moral values to the young people ? especially in USA where life is becoming so demonic
So delusional!
And this ladies and gentlemen is proof that he isn’t a virgin by choice 😂
e' Vero!!
Megan fox from target
She can do so much better. Poor lady :(
You get what you deserve.
This man just shows how deeply religious people are - cherry picking within their religion to manipulate situations and benefit themselves.
If he's such a Bible literalist, he should have a problem with getting his hair cut or wearing the outfit he's wearing or eating shrimp
This is how some people are period. Puritanical and hypocritical behaviors are not exclusive to religious people.
@@jeremiahsymonette4781 it’s more noticeable in them because they literally have a book to cherry pick from
Of course this doesn't apply to *all* religious people but just like someone's already said, it sticks out more for religious people because they're all sighting 1 thing rather than speaking from different perspectives from their experience. Kinda paradoxal how religious texts are the most open for interpretation yet specific and exclusive thing in the world. Perfect for people like Nichola to build a personality and moral high horse around someone else's words alone.
@@jeremiahsymonette4781 I didnt say it was. Naturally having faith is not the issue. But the more person screams about being religious and holy, the more it's just a tool to manipulate.
It seems like Meisha's only requirement for a man is for him to be religious, and nothing else.
That's exactly what she got, so that's all on her for having no other standards.
There is nothing wrong with a religious man, but basing it on that factor alone should come with all of its own sub factors like his character (is he following morals of Scripture?), does he know the doctrines of the faith? I feel like this kind of stuff is pretty simple but I dunno how it got tossed underneath the rug.
I am relating so hard about the "the girls are teenagers. And shouldn't have to fight off a grown man with gender issues of any type." THANK YOU!! I have chosen to stay single since 2012 for my 2 daugthers. Best wishes to you all.
Nicoli is an example of what happens when a discord mod meets a women in real life
Meisha is out of her mind. Nicola is a 50 year old professional scrub with a superiority complex. He has never had any responsibility and still lives with his mommy. I can’t stand dudes like him. Always trying to tell women to submit to them when they are the biggest losers on the planet. Nicola will destroy any confidence her daughters have built up. Meisha is so desperate for this relationship to work. She’s going to lose her entire family over that dude.
The funny thing is that these “scrubs” always end up with the women . While men like myself ; better looking and established with good jobs can’t get a text back. 🤷♂️. You love scrubs .
No, she won’t. She’s smart. She told me on Instagram, he is no longer in Minnesota. So… we don’t even know if they are still together.
@@andrewcruz1931I come from a Christian family so there’s lot of Christians like Nicola in my circle. Dudes in their 40s still living with their parents and making next to nothing. Trust me, no one is after them and I doubt they’ll get married. But I am in LA, it could be different in any of the fly over states. Nicola is just an incredibly lucky dude to have Meisha. They connected on religion basis but obviously they didn’t connect on any other level… so it’s 50/50 they get married and stay together. Be yourself, someone will text you back:)
@@andrewcruz1931 "You love scrubs"
That sounds like something a bitter incel would say.
Also, judging by your profile picture, you're not anymore better looking than he is. I don't know about your job situation, but I would say that you can't get a text back because you're clearly not as good of a person as you claim to be.
@@simplegirlslifestyle261 Girl, stop entertaining and coddling these incels.
If any woman falls for a man who insist that he is more superior than her, she is not only desperate but has very very poor self respect. This woman is asking to be abused mentally and maybe even physically.
She wants to be a Bob the Builder but will be abused.
He's a joke 😂 but also a total jerk. Meisha's home will become a war zone. Poor girls and poor Meisha. She'll regret the moment she applied for his K1 visa. 🙄 😢
Yes he is a joke and a jerk. He is a Mama's Boy!
“the man is the provider” - the man who’s been living off of his mother, a woman for 46 years
I wouldn’t waste my next and maybe last opportunity (according to her church) of marriage on a dud like Nicola. She’s gonna regret this so much!
I’m completely baffled by her choice in this “ man’…🤦🏻♀️. I don’t get it. What exactly is it she sees in him? His good looks 😂? He’s living in his mother’s basement 😂…come on !!!! She needs help..
He is sooo unfortunate looking 😂
Misha is delusional if she thinks he’s a good significant other. He’s horrible. He’s controlling and doesn’t do anything that’s kind or worth pursuing.
This
She is deluding herself. What she sees isn't there, its just a fantasy. He has zero skills but manages to be arrogant.
0:03 - 0:08 Nicola: "Woman need to listen to the man. There's no other way. That's what the bible say!
I bet even hardcore religious people are shaking heads and asking,"Nicola, are you kidding me?".
I feel sorry for Meisha being humilated while Nicola is saying these naive nonsense. :(
She likes the humiliation? Sad.
Am I missing something?
What on earth does she see in him?
We now know EXACTLY why hes never been married.
I would have been out back when he said "you are cute when you are mute"
People can't take jokes anymore??? That was obviously a joke 🤦♀️ y'all are weak asf
That busted steering wheel in his car is a representation of this guy's life....
Omg.His interpretation of Bible is so wrong and so literal...Someone should explain that to him.
Him saying the Bible says man is the head of the house & supports the family, yet this guy doesn’t work, hasn’t worked & has no intention of working so how is he supporting his family???
Meisha is making a huge mistake with this dork & it has to do with her finding religion, someone please explain to her that there are other men out there that are religious & they work & accept women as equals that this guy is not her last chance & he is going to be a problem between her & her girls no matter what he says. He thinks he is boss & he is not going to be ok with them doing what they are used to because he doesn’t believe I even associating with others that are as he puts it “ like us” believe the same things due to religion.
Hope she is ok with a 3 second sex life.
Everyone seems to be missing a big point the Bible doesn’t talk about sex as a fulfilling thing that is to enjoy, it is for procreating so he could be thinking pleasing a partner & enjoying sex is not even something to be considered. He keeps saying he learned everything in 5 th grade science & hasn’t bothered to look any further. How can she think he is going to be ok with her telling him how to please her when he prefers her silent & thinks he knows more about everything than she does.
Nicola will have loads of opinions about the girls even if he doesn’t say it to them he will expect her to do as he says & he has told her this. This will hurt the girls & mothers relationship no matter what she says he will at some point start voicing exactly what he thinks & wants in every aspect of her life the girls included.
Why would this woman marry a dude she hasn’t even had sex with that is totally inexperienced & very bossy even though he has no intention of working so even though she is under him in his mind she is the one that will be financially supporting them.
What happens if she marries him & finds he is completely inadequate in bed & has no intention of changing, what is he going to do here all day? Oh right sir on his computer in prayer groups & telling all everything about the Bible because he is such an expert on it.
This is going to be her biggest mistake in her life & it will damage her life with her girls.
I hate when ppl justify their ignorance with “that’s what the Bible says”
The man is the head of the household when they aren’t 50 something old virgins who lives with their mom 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I despise this man so much. The misogyny, the crazy religious thinking, the living with his mom at 46 and no job. Miesha deserves better.
This man uses the "it's in the bible" just because he knows most people haven't read it, to me it´s clear that his interpretation is something that's beneficial for him and nobody else, that's really far from what the bible teaches.
It is in there though lmao! I know b/c when I was younger I read it back to back several times
Meisha needs to think twice. If she thinks Nic is crappy at feelings then she’s in for a rude awakening in the bedroom!!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
She knows him yet is still with him. At this point, this is her choice and I don’t feel sympathy for her. He’s a religious man with strong beliefs from a different culture. He won’t understand why he has to make any changes to adjust to the American way, and I haven’t seen Misha asking him to change anything either.
Again, this is her choice and decision - and she’s in this knowing how firm he is in his beliefs, so on some level she understands and wants this.
It’s not gonna work. If it was meant to be would’ve happened a long time ago. And good things aren’t a struggle.
True. Good things are easy.
This is relationship is madness!
MEISHA! HURRY UP AND GET OUT OF THIS MID-LIFE CRISIS ALREADY! YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS! YOU ARE WASTING YOUR PRECIOUS TIME!
She's clearly not playing with a full deck.
Is she.... dimwitted?
@@mycinnamongirl Very good point, it wouldn't surprise me. Christian, Cleo, and Jasmine were all on it to boost their social media presence/platforms. Meisha probably is, too.
This, honestly, is putting far too much on the power of religion. The higher source is not something that you test. And this is beyond ridiculous. Nicola is set in his ways, highly pious, stubborn and misogynistic. Throw in the fact that he doesn't seem to have a trade he can count on once he's married is a recipe for disaster. And... the fact that he's not even the slightest bit empathic will prove to be the honeymoon night from hell. I can't get the possible image of him scrubbing the skin off his "peen" after consummating the marriage before going into prayer. Not sure what Mesha end goal really is.
I just want to ask you, and please be thoughtful before you answer. Would you say that if Nicola was a highly religious practicing Muslim?
Just curious.
@@maryreilly5092 Yep. Since I married a super, duper religious, had a prayer clock set to alarm for call to prayer, practicing Muslim with two visits to Mecca behind him. Nicola is not honoring GOD. He seems to be self-flagellating for something only he understands. Meisha (it seems) will allow him to turn some of pain outward.
@@guinealove3744 Fantastic! I think being super religious is wonderful and there are numerous overlaps between the Bible and the Quran. Both reside in a place of honor in my home and both resonate the view that men are the head of the house and both declare this is a privilege not to be abused. ! I think Nicola's belief is honorable and maybe old fashioned to modern Americans, however, we should not slap a label on the man or dismiss his devotion to his Faith as I am sure you would not want that done to your man. Marriage is sacred in both FAITHS and it's the business of the man, the woman and God. I don't like that men, confident and strong in their Faith are attacked by the public.
@@maryreilly5092 What you or I do at home is our respective business. We are talking about two willing participants on a reality show. And you in your religious zeal have chosen this forum to spew a religious agenda. I choose not to engage with someone I know nothing or care anything about. Therefore, let us agree to disagree. Good day madame.
@@maryreilly5092well, women aren't supposed to preach do stfu
Fellow Christian here. Okay so. It’s God, man, woman, children. Yes the woman should follow her husband. The man is the head of the household. A man who Is a provider, who is a leader. BUT! The Bible also says, that we shall submit to one another. Both husband and wife. Also it says Husbands love your wife like how Christ loved the church.
A biblical marriage is a commitment that is based off of mutual respect, unconditional love, and serving on another. It’s not just the man.
For both partners to serve one another both has to be good to one another. A woman will not follow a man that is not leading her and his family properly and vice versa.
YES! 🎉 Another person in the comments who actually understands the full context and NOT just what was said condensed.
Exactly! I hate when dudes are cherry picking what they like. It’s a huge responsibility to be the head of household. They just want to tell a woman what to do and her to submit like a slave. Doesn’t work like this.
I like how he pick words from bible. But 0 accountability for his way of life. Why she would follow guy who cant provide protect and love her the way she needs it. Women will submit to you if she see you as capable leader. But this entitlement he is showing is beyond ridicilious. Hey i am man you must listen me!!! So cringe...
I can’t take no grown ass man serious about being the head of anything if he still lives with his Mama!🤣🤣🤣
I still fail to see any redeeming qualities of Nicola. There are plenty of American catholic men who are not misogynistic.
Omg I feel for these girls
Living in the old testament?
He looks like he was alive when it was written
He sure is.
EXACTLY 💯
For me my children will ALWAYS come first. And if someone else tries to disturb my list of proprieties they can gtfo
She can do so much better
So so much better.
So so so much better! Lol
He wants to be in charge? Bro, you dont even have a job or your own house. You will live in Meisha and will fully depend on her. 😒
Poor nikola he is so stupid. Poor misha she's so stupid. She needs to do better not only for herself. But for her daughters, she is going. So set them up to be judged ridiculed condemned. She will lose her daughters because of him period that man is not worth any of it. He is old, Virgin and has no experience. How to deal with women besides his mom? And I doubt that's a good enough example. And he has no job that will be profitable enough to provide for a family of 4 since he is the head of the household. What kind of money job experience is he bringing to this table?
BUT Nicola u have NO MONEY to provide?!?!?!
Im still not sure why Meisha is with Nicola.
I don't know why Meisha keeps calling it an annulment it's a divorce. In order to get an annulment you have to be married less than a month in the US. And good luck with Nicola he's a handful! I also find it odd why it took 8yrs for her to meet him in Israel if they're so in love.
It's catholic "annulment", not a legal one. In English this name is unclear but it means that past marriage is considered by church "court" as invalid. But I have no idea what reason she provided.
@@melomankapl8756wow, that sucks that her two teenage daughters are not valid
@@StarlaBizarre no. It's nothing to do with her daughters she's already divorced. This annulment purpose is to give her permission to get married for the second time
I have no idea what she sees in him.
n-Ecoli is going to take Meisha for a spin once they get married!
Unless a man is paying my bills i will not submit.
What a great commentary on these two. His Biblical life philosophy is fine as a single man, but I don't know any woman in the modern would buy it as a lifestyle. We have moved beyond the 1600s by now. You asked great questions here!
She's going to regret this whole mess at some point 👉🏼
I wonder what she see's in him.
5:45 He doesn't think it'll be easy to 'please her', sex for a super religious man is not about 'pleasure' it's about reproduction. Not to mention she's the woman so he doesn't care if she is enjoying it or not. That's the kind of guy she chooses to marry so she can't come back later and ask him to care about her needs.
If Meisha marries Nicola will she be able to get another annulment because it’s inevitable. He’s not ready for her
It's just sad to see that a woman her age still does not know that you cannot make a man have feelings or emotions that he don't. He's just not that into it. If he's even into women at all.
A lifetime membership of marriage counseling is needed here. Hope the best for them.
How does he expect to be a provider when he doesn’t have a job and still lives at home?
Meisha has such good genes, those girls should thank their mum. Beautiful family 🎉🎉🎉
She's gonna need another annulment XD
I cant help but love Jasmine 😂😂 "ur gonna lose ur virginity"
I want to know what's going on with Meisha for her to think this is the best option for her and a good use of her time. Do you truly want to grow old with this guy? Is it desperation? And while Nikola may not say anything to her daughters directly, he will 100% be in Meisha's ear trying to get her to correct them. I thought her daughter were college age, I didn't know they're just high schoolers. I'm shocked Meisha is being so reckless.
He came to Minnesota to see her but he is no longer in Minnesota according to meishas comments on Instagram. It’s unknown if they are still together
As much as I couldn’t stand Statler, she said truth literally about everyone during tell all.
Just in my closed minded atheist mind don't women create men literally. I mean literally grow and give birth to men. So why didnt God make it the other way round if he wanted women to be seen as " women were created for men".
Exactly🙏
I can’t get over how stunning she is 😊
I'm honestly surprised that the Catholic church annulled a wedding that resulted in children...?
Exactly, must have been money involved. They have 2 nearly adult children together
Money gets you an annulment….seen it happen
She found God and Catholicism after she divorced the father of her two daughters.
I truly think Nicola is on the Autism Spectrum. He is hyper fixated on religion and he thinks he is all knowing about things he has little experience in. Plus he is socially awkward.
I really wonder if he is on the spectrum.
Misha is so beautiful, elegant, and holds herself very well!
What does this woman see in this man. Someone explain this love thing to me. Im fully grown but still cant understand where people like meisha fall for a guy like nicola. Hes not a great looking guy. He dosent have much going for him. So how did he manage fo swipe the bag. I have a lot to learn for sure its right down cryptic.
I mean .. even his friend says she's way out of his league! She should run away knowing that alone
I really dont understand what she sees in him.
Shes deserves so much better.
he’s right that the bible does say that women are supposed to listen to their husbands however it also states that the man must be able to provide, protect, love and look after his wife… which he can’t do either because he’s broke and immature
Man is in charge, woman need to listen to the man. Hello ?? Pls get a job before u even wanna say these nonsense 🙄
TLC is the real mvp for finding all these lunatics
Meisha thinks she can "check" and "handle that" yet backstage she calls Nikola and lets him complain and throw a fit about how her daughters disrespected him, she didn't check him then so how will she do it later? He's going to come into her home, gaslight and manipulate Meisha, judge her daughters, look down on them, act like they're less than and treat them like crap and we all know he'll be home all day and not working so he'll have plenty of time to do it. If Meisha's coming in to correct the behavior afterwards it's already too late, her daughters will feel hurt and judged, the damage will be done. He will get sick of her daughters and sick of Meisha having a relationship with them and he will try to destroy their relationship, he will drive the girls away, her daughters will leave the home and the relationship with their mother will be permanently damaged. If you believe in god, you must believe that he gave you your children, he wouldn't put someone in your life to be a burden on you or to stress your relationship with the children he gave you. God did not put this man in her life, she did that, god would want peace, love, harmony and happiness for all his children, Niko ISN'T ANY of those things, he's a test or a lesson, not a god send. There's two things you NEVER, EVER give up in a relationship, your kids and your peace, this man will take both! NO ONE is worth that loss Meisha, no one is worth your daughter's self worth or your's, RUN!
Maan, she knows what's gonna happen when she breaks him off..that guy gonna be her gimp 😅
This is all for tv , for a change the person in America is the better looking one lol 😂
Why does she like him? She could find someone who isn't so....much.
Misha should have brought home a dog not a useless man