@@lijo4518 that is a normal and scrupulous question to ask when considering marriage prospects. Only in the cloudcuckooland of America would people leave that til after years to discuss…maybe that’s why America divorce rate is so high
@futon2345 They have nothing in common & a total train wreck...and she still considering moving to America? If she's looking for a meal ticket, keep looking cuz Riley ain't it
Let’s not mix it up; culture has NOTHING to do with allowing a friend to interrogate your significant other. No matter where you’re from it’s cowardly to allow an outside party to handle your personal business.
Had Riley but handled himself like a gentleman for one moment with Violet, I’m sure all of his preemptive insults and suspicions could have been forgiven. But now, he had to show up empty handed and raging for battle. Run Violet, run
Yeah and let’s not forget violet bitches to Riley’s father and insults Riley calling it the truth and she has no regrets. She’s horrible to go straight to complain to someone family like trying to rally them against Riley and on her side. Yucks manipulative and low blow
@@RoIIingStonedYes, for a 50 year old man in America to have so little savings/retirement, it’s broke. He cannot support a family of four on that. Perhaps in blk culture it is significant?
@@Christine_Findlay Majority of Americans live paycheck to paycheck. 100k is doing better than most. No real man should be taking care of some other man’s kids anyways. That’s the sperm doners job. Why does she have that many kids and isn’t financially secure? Sounds like a personal problem.
I dunno I discussed my issues in my relationship with my ex's mother because: 1) I don't spread my business 2) She loved him and wouldn't hold grievances against him (my friends and relatives would never forget his faults) 3) She loved me 4) She was fair But I'm also not American. Culture?
She can’t trigger someone with reasonable self-esteem. If her words are potent enough to hurt him, he is not suitable for a relationship or adulting. Stop coddling adult males.
He’s a big baby. He’s only apologizing bc he thinks this will make her apologize. They are awful for one another and I hope they go their separate ways.
This woman is so cold-blooded…these two are just so wrong for each other. He wants a submissive Edith Bunker and she wants some sort of robot, apparently. This is going to end so badly if they don’t both just run for the hills…in opposite directions.
U can tell shes not attracted to him that’s why she’s still online lol. I’m sry but these ppl looking for love abroad need to realize the reality of things. N I’m saying this bc I personally know many ppl that did this from Philippines, Korea, China, Russia, Vietnam, Brazil. N the common theme? We need money, green card n I don’t want to sleep with u. In fact, last I heard u can make 15-30k to marry for the card.
@@Lambsear565 th-cam.com/video/fH2oBtO39mk/w-d-xo.html WHICH BRAZILIAN TREAT SOMEONE LIKE THIS OLD FAT AUNTY DID TO THIS MAN ARAB? AH? SHE CALLED HIM, UGLY,BLACK AND BAD!! WHICH BRAZILIAN WOMAN DID THAT TO SOMEONE SHE WAS NEVER MARRIED WITH? YA HEAD AHH!! AND WHICH BRAZILIAN SAY THAT THEY EXPECT THE MAN TO HAVE A LOT OF MONEY AND THA THEY NEED A GREEN CARD FOR WHAT? BRAZIL IS EVEN FUNNIER AND BETTER THAN THESE GRINGOS LAND FDP,,MOTHERFKER ARAB
If there's a couple that doesn't have any kind of understanding towards each other it's these two hopefully they'll find the love their both looking for with other people
She doesn’t want to talk about the past. She just wants to move on. But for him he needs to talk about it and have that closure in order to move forward. They just keep going in a circle. She doesn’t want to talk about it while he continues to bring it up.
And that's not her fault. Who wants to continue to dwindle on the past. People with trauma don't want to continue bringing up stuff that has hurt them. He doesn't know how to respect boundaries.
If you never address it. It will always find its way back around. He's doing the right thing by bringing up something that is bothering him and she should respect that and stop being selfish. She only wants to move on, because it has to do with her actions and she'd have to take accountability. But typical a man can't any understand. If the roles were reversed, I bet you'd be complaining that he needs to give her closure because some people need answers. 😂
Violet is no prize but what in the world does she even see in Riley - he is so argumentative and always has to be right - other than a ticket to America and a green card what is in this for her?
She certainly wasn't lying about him being Mr "Kill Feelings" aka killjoy 💁🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️☠️🤡. As shady as she is,Riley certainly knows how to ruin what could be an actual good moment
I'd say that goes just as equal for her. She didn't have to act like a child and refuse to take responsibility for her wrong doings. She didn't have to start calling him names, she could've handled that a lot better. But of course...he's the kill joy 😂
Violet will strip every penny from this guy and leave him on the street if she has the opportunity. I have a lot of Vietnamese friends and none of them say this a cultural thing. They all said he is getting played.
Violet's 'ugly and old' comment is just her projecting outward. She is a below average-looking Asian woman who would be considered ugly by Asian men. LOL, my Chinese friends have long told me that Western guys pursue the ugliest Chinese ladies! I know Violet is Vietnamese, although I have heard similar comments from men of other Asian cultures. Did you notice all the airbrushing on Violet's photos?
@@Christine_FindlayHow are you defending and emotionally cold-hearted woman who mentally abuses people by calling them fat and ugly and who takes no accountability on nothing at all that she does wrong? Are you so ultra feminist that because she's a woman she can't do nothing wrong and it's always a man's fault for everything? Just wondering
She received a shirtless text from a random dude, already has two children, clearly hiding a lot of things and can’t be asked about them, continued to use a dating app after insisting he deleted his. She realized after he flew across the world and saw the text of the shirtless man and she told him that he didn’t deserve an explanation that he had 0 respect for himself. That he’s so lonely and pathetic he’ll tolerate her shady behavior and still try and make it work.
@@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350No…he’s just determined to prove that the reason black men are going over seas is because black women are hard to be in relationships with. Maybe one day they will see that it’s the energy that they bring to the relationship that’s the biggest problem.
@@Lovelyone1 100% right! Black men are fed up with argumentive, rude, obese, boss chicks who think they are the prize. There is a reason why black men who stay in the USA to find a mate will be more likely to marry Mary or Lucia, rather than Tanisha.
He (claims) he hopped back on after deleting it to make sure she wasn't still using it too. As a man that lived in South East Asia for 4+ years, I can tell you that women in these countries first and foremost want a white man. Ugly, fat, old, doesn't matter. Whiteness in South East Asia equals wealth and high social standing. I can tell you with certainty the guy who texted her with his shirt off was a white guy. Violet ideally wants a man, Riley was just the only one she met on the app that was foolish and thirsty enough to go to Vietnam.@@amilllion1
They suck as a couple. We can finally see her evasive behavior clearly and for once it’s not being overshadowed by Riley being ridiculousness. These two need to leave each other alone and get therapy
I wasn’t aware that she lied about him abusing her to his father…yikes I hope Riley gets away. Absolutely a dangerous person to bring here to this county.
Violet has constantly avoided answering his questions. Don’t forget that violet said in the first episode that she never admits she’s wrong, even when she knows she’s wrong. She’s toxic
I thought Riley acted better than Violet in this episode. He was darn near reasonable. If only he didn't keep pressing for Violet to admit she had been wrong. Let's be fair, though, she was wrong, and she really should be more willing to admit when she's wrong. These two people are just not suited for each other. Like most people in the world, they each should be in therapy to resolve their issues. But moreover, they don't complement each other needs-wise. Both of them are looking for a person who will rescue them and take care of them emotionally; a person who will break down the walls of protection; a person who will show that they won't stop giving love no matter how many times they get pushed away. It's a fantasy that only exists in the movies.
Riley made a huge progress in his behavior. I really liked how he handled himself. I feel bad for him because Violet isn’t able to admit any wrongdoing. They would be a cute couple if she could meet him in the middle.
a cute couple and meet in the middle?...nah, he's insecure and crazy, anger issues, even if she is the biggest liar in the world he has too many insecurity and anger issues and can't deal with any of it...her being on the date program still...big deal sometimes those date sites its hard to delete your profile and they weren't in a commited relationship and never have been so he was totally over reacting, he's very immature and i don't trust her either but he's just too damn agressive and jealous.
I think it’s only fair both apologise to each other when both behaves badly. Violet ain’t exactly an angel herself, she’s often rude af , evasive when she’s called out on her bs and loves to insult riley, it’s so abusive.
@@asherwoodman8821 Even with one kid, university in the USA is very expensive. And, why would Riley or any man pay for some other guy's child to get an education?
I had an extremely toxic ex that triangulated me with a co worker. Than I pretty much gave up on the relationship because I was fed up with the toxicity. I got discarded and she went from 90 10 (mine and her fault) to it being 100 percent all mine within the last few minutes of our conversation lol. Everytime I tried to say we both played a part in this problem, she would say nope, its all your fault (even though it was her starting and creating all the fights and drama lol). Toxic people suck
This is a disaster waiting to happen. He does not seem like the kind of person who will be happy to support 3 people he doesn't know very well without knowing what he will get in return. I don't' think this would be a good idea for her to move in with him. If he gets mad one day and tells her to get lost, she will be lost and alone in the U.S. They don't know each other well enough, they don't get along well enough and they don't respect each other enough. It's not a match made in heaven. I think Riley would be much smarter to end it with Violet. He needs to find a fish in his own sea and Violet needs to find someone who she can get along with and trust.
@@samsongomah1318Yes it does. Yep, you’re a blk male. The mentality is rampant in your demographic. No one is convinced, you can stop cosplaying now. How pathetic! 😂😂😂😂😂
0:30 I don't know why but when the narrator of All Things Reality mocks Riley's "Motherf*****, we need to work it out!!!", I smirked. Is that just me? :)
I don't believe his apology when he's still sayng things like they fought "over Tiffany who was asking her some personal questions" and how he apologizes for "not protecting her." Very carefully chosen words considering he was the instigator 100% and was the one wanting the questions asked and answered.
Everyone on violets side about riley calling his friend but did we forget that she also went behind his back to his dad? And not to mention hid texts from a shirtless guy and stayed on a dating app?
As a thai swiss woman. I can say the way violet behaves is like a lot of older asian women behave. My mom as an example and her friends are exactly the same. If the question isnt going to be in their favor they will avoid and avoid until its not avoidable and then victimize themselves.. its really frustrating and i personally have given up on those ppl.
It is curious how people who have no business being together sometimes try so hard to “work it out”. Their relationship makes them both miserable and they are both trying to keep it going.
He stupidly thinks he can make her act how he wants, it’s like he can’t accept she’ll do whatever she wants-she’s supped her income for years with online marks and people shes dated both locally and from other countries.. there a few people that have come out since this first aired from England, Australia and the us that she’s boyfriended up online for profit.. much like Jasmine and a few other 90 day fiancé ladies, he’s one dude in her numbers game…these guys get everything they deserve because they dig their heels in and stick around despite seeing all the red flags mounting..
He a passport dumby looking for a traditional womem and obviously they already having issues and she called him ugly and fat 😅, but she thought those women were more submissive to blk men 🤔🤭
So Vile -et doesn't answer questions she "doesnt underdtand because English not good" But, she understands Rileys bank account details with no issues...& she understands how to insult & offend in the English language.
I screamed at her understanding his bank account. Lol. She is the biggest pretender on the show. She is coming to America for his money, house and his mentality. She may very well put him in jail. What a mess
Yup love how she casually brought that up while flying a kite... " how much $$ do u have & can u take care of me & my kid?? " she can say that clearly 😱
At this point both need to cut their losses and accept that they are not meant to be. Even if there wasn't a language barrier, they'd still have communication issues.
If a man told me that and I was from a different country, I would kind of want to know as well. If he made a certain promise, I would feel horrible if I came over there with my kids, and he’s unable to keep up with his promise. I would feel like trash. It’s not that she does not want to work because she already has a job. It’s just there’s going to be a few months where she can’t work.
Riley doesn’t need to date anyone of another culture if he’s not going to be understanding or sensitive to that person’s culture. He’s has a hot temper. Also, I’m not sure if she’s all that into him.
I understand Violet with the language barrier. I have the same amount of soeaking and understanding ability with Spanish, when my partner or his family have complex conversations in Spanish with me, it can be hard to properly express myself. Words and phrases don’t translate rihht or at times don’t exist in spanish how they do in english.
Hi, is it harder to understand the emotional emphasis in a second language? Say you were having an emotional conversation with your partner for example
@@hightec7906 you should watch the previous episodes then you'll understand why she acts the way that she does, she has her ways but he is extreme, it's a very toxic relationship, neither one should be together in my opinion
She is much better looking than the dark guy. Belly, eye bags, and clear indicators of insulin resistance. He is unhealthy and lacking resources. He’s lucky she gives him any attention.
@@Christine_Findlay Violet is giving Riley attention because she has no other options. As far as middle-aged Asian/Oriental women go, Violet is on the low end of the beauty scale and she comes with two daughters and a mother. We all know her mother will be part of the package! Violet has nothing to offer a man and will always need to settle for the castoffs.
@@samsongomah1318Violet surpasses him and you in societal hierarchy. She has more societal value than your demographic. Riley doesn’t have the status, look, or resources to redeem his shortcomings.. Case closed. 😂😂
If a woman isn’t interested she’s not interested if she’s not attracted to you she’s not attracted to you. You can’t buy love you can’t bargain with love unless she’s a escort. If your dumped or rejected in anyway that’s a blessing believe it or not. Because you can work on you be at peace with yourself connect with friends and people who love you learn from your mistakes and move on and find someone new someone who actually loves you.
Exactly. All the dating coaches in the world can't overcome fundamental incompatibilities. There's no cheat code for getting someone to be your significant other.
This is the reality of passport bros. These men ain’t the first choice for these foreign women. Majority of the time ppl need green cards, money/ help. If ur cringe in the US ur cringe anywhere u go. Violet keep looking online don’t delete that profile lol.
@@jaywrightesq.7730passport bros is a colloquialism and typically means Black (USA) Men that travel looking for a spouse/love they feel they can’t find where they’re from. The cast is huge so I can’t say what is/isn’t different between Riley and everyone else.
I don't blame Passport Bros for trying their lucky outside the US. At least the chances of meeting a traditional woman in another countries is much higher. Relationships are never easier, but comparing Western and Eastern Women, is like comparing playing Russian Roulette with an Automatic Pistol and a 6 Shot Revolver.
@@davideassis87 ehh but this ignores the fact that every culture has their own responsibilities and expectations for relationships. I think a lot of passport bros don’t live up to what is expected of them to attract the type of woman they’re looking for where they’re from. Marrying a traditional woman from another culture does not absolve someone from their cultural expectations.
Riley has no right to take his previous relationship out on Violet. He's paranoid and needs to get help before he dates anyone. She has been called a liar and a cheater. I personally wouldn't put up with that. Violet has every right to be upset. He yells at her for not allowing herself to be interrogated by his friend, when no doubt, he told the friend to ask her instead of asking himself. Riley needs to go home and grow up if he wants an adult relationship!! She had no right to msg his father the way she did. She needs to take accountability. But Riley, said. 'OK, no remorse, that's all I want to know" which means he's going to remember her answer to use for ammo in a later fight!
😂 everyone talking about Violet being mean or a user or trying to intentionally hurt him. This is normal viet women behavior they are very direct and blunt. Riley just seems like he wants someone to coddle him before anything is said
Run forest run! She's not gonna work out. That 1st day she left you in the hotel that was your sign to find another woman. Vietnam has lots of single women!
Riley can't support Violet and her daughters in America. Are you kidding me ? How long will 100 K last considering the cost of living ? 2 years max and after that it's hello Salvation Army
I cannot stand Riley, but Violet is a jerk too.
No she’s not, she’s a sensible woman and Riley has given her nothing but grief. I don’t blame her keeping her boundaries and wits about her
Then she shouldn't be asking how much $$ he has & if he can take care of her & her kid...clearly they are not a good match 🫣
@@lijo4518 that is a normal and scrupulous question to ask when considering marriage prospects. Only in the cloudcuckooland of America would people leave that til after years to discuss…maybe that’s why America divorce rate is so high
@futon2345
They have nothing in common & a total train wreck...and she still considering moving to America?
If she's looking for a meal ticket, keep looking cuz Riley ain't it
@@lijo4518 yeah I agree Riley only has 100k in the bank, Violet would be better off looking elsewhere
Let’s not mix it up; culture has NOTHING to do with allowing a friend to interrogate your significant other. No matter where you’re from it’s cowardly to allow an outside party to handle your personal business.
Facts
Had Riley but handled himself like a gentleman for one moment with Violet, I’m sure all of his preemptive insults and suspicions could have been forgiven. But now, he had to show up empty handed and raging for battle. Run Violet, run
Yeah and let’s not forget violet bitches to Riley’s father and insults Riley calling it the truth and she has no regrets. She’s horrible to go straight to complain to someone family like trying to rally them against Riley and on her side. Yucks manipulative and low blow
Couples parents and siblings do this, have done this & will CONTINUE to do that long after u leave this world
PERIOD
Worst pick up line ever “I make broke look good”
Saying you're broke is never a good look! Especially for a man who wants to bring a woman and her 2 kids to another country.
Social skills and decorum appears to be lacking with him. He behaved in such a crass and inappropriate manner in public on previous episodes.
$100k is not close to broke wtf
@@RoIIingStonedYes, for a 50 year old man in America to have so little savings/retirement, it’s broke. He cannot support a family of four on that.
Perhaps in blk culture it is significant?
@@Christine_Findlay
Majority of Americans live paycheck to paycheck. 100k is doing better than most. No real man should be taking care of some other man’s kids anyways. That’s the sperm doners job. Why does she have that many kids and isn’t financially secure? Sounds like a personal problem.
There is something very shady about Violet texting his father the 'wrongs' of Riley.
That's highly shady
Very sus for sure 🫣
I dunno I discussed my issues in my relationship with my ex's mother because:
1) I don't spread my business
2) She loved him and wouldn't hold grievances against him (my friends and relatives would never forget his faults)
3) She loved me
4) She was fair
But I'm also not American. Culture?
@@FionaChandollrare experiences for a western daughter in law.
Alot of other cultures mediate with the elders of the family, probably why.
Honestly, both of them are toxic. They just need to separate.
FACT 👍
Then who will we watch for entertainment 😐?
@@amilllion1 that's also true 😂
This narrator is always so refreshing and insightful! Always honest and shows both sides.
I like his relaxing voice in the videos lol.
I agree! And the only one who makes sense.
Riley has issues, but she’s purposefully triggering and hurting him.
No, he’s just a sensitive man baby
Agreed, she is too much, poor guy
He went 6000k miles to find a woman like her??
She can’t trigger someone with reasonable self-esteem. If her words are potent enough to hurt him, he is not suitable for a relationship or adulting. Stop coddling adult males.
Riley is trash,hes a baby
He’s a big baby. He’s only apologizing bc he thinks this will make her apologize. They are awful for one another and I hope they go their separate ways.
Gawd i can only hope & soon
Violet is exhausting. She never takes accountability.
The worst kind of apology is an apology in search of an apology 🙄
It was KILLING RILEY to take accountability for setting Violet up....😂😂😂😂 he only did it anyway so Violet would apologize too!
Violet not taking responsibility for anything is a major problem.
Bc she doesn’t like him she’s not even attracted to him.
So true.
She's a user.
They’re not even in a committed relationship. Looking at Riley I wouldn’t want to be accountable for that big fat baby either
@@Lambsear565true but how can she with his crappy attitude & mindset?
King of KillJoys is probably appropriate 😙
This woman is so cold-blooded…these two are just so wrong for each other. He wants a submissive Edith Bunker and she wants some sort of robot, apparently.
This is going to end so badly if they don’t both just run for the hills…in opposite directions.
Yeh bring out the worst in each other - violet makes R erupt lol
U can tell shes not attracted to him that’s why she’s still online lol. I’m sry but these ppl looking for love abroad need to realize the reality of things. N I’m saying this bc I personally know many ppl that did this from Philippines, Korea, China, Russia, Vietnam, Brazil. N the common theme? We need money, green card n I don’t want to sleep with u. In fact, last I heard u can make 15-30k to marry for the card.
She only want to be in America with her two daughters and forget about Riley
@@Lambsear565 seriously. There is a lot going on behind the scenes that we cannot ascertain
@@Lambsear565 th-cam.com/video/fH2oBtO39mk/w-d-xo.html
WHICH BRAZILIAN TREAT SOMEONE LIKE THIS OLD FAT AUNTY DID TO THIS MAN ARAB? AH?
SHE CALLED HIM,
UGLY,BLACK AND BAD!! WHICH BRAZILIAN WOMAN DID THAT TO SOMEONE SHE WAS NEVER MARRIED WITH? YA HEAD AHH!! AND WHICH BRAZILIAN SAY THAT THEY EXPECT THE MAN TO HAVE A LOT OF MONEY AND THA THEY NEED A GREEN CARD FOR WHAT?
BRAZIL IS EVEN FUNNIER AND BETTER THAN THESE GRINGOS LAND
FDP,,MOTHERFKER ARAB
If there's a couple that doesn't have any kind of understanding towards each other it's these two hopefully they'll find the love their both looking for with other people
Two damaged people = mission impossible ( entire series )
Riles is no prize but Violent ain't no oil painting either. To both of them: move to a neutral corner and cut your loses.
She doesn’t want to talk about the past. She just wants to move on. But for him he needs to talk about it and have that closure in order to move forward. They just keep going in a circle. She doesn’t want to talk about it while he continues to bring it up.
And that's not her fault. Who wants to continue to dwindle on the past. People with trauma don't want to continue bringing up stuff that has hurt them. He doesn't know how to respect boundaries.
This relationship is a hamster on a wheel...going nowhere fast 😱
@@lexansstories6952that’s understandable, but I would want to understand the person I am seriously dating’s past
If you never address it. It will always find its way back around. He's doing the right thing by bringing up something that is bothering him and she should respect that and stop being selfish. She only wants to move on, because it has to do with her actions and she'd have to take accountability. But typical a man can't any understand. If the roles were reversed, I bet you'd be complaining that he needs to give her closure because some people need answers. 😂
Thanks for saying that Violet is just as bad as he is. She seems so shady and then he’s calculating. Bad couple
Violet is the queen of Gaslighting!!😂😂😂😂😂
Violet is no prize but what in the world does she even see in Riley - he is so argumentative and always has to be right - other than a ticket to America and a green card what is in this for her?
Misery! That’s about all any woman would get from him. I can’t imagine living with him. He’s like a moody teenage girl.
and bordeline aggressive.....
Exactly, they’re both old and busted, but Riley has a serious attitude problem.
🎉She sees a Green Card & a life improvement for herself, her daughters & her brother.😂
American women dated him too. What did they see in him?
She certainly wasn't lying about him being Mr "Kill Feelings" aka killjoy 💁🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️☠️🤡. As shady as she is,Riley certainly knows how to ruin what could be an actual good moment
I'd say that goes just as equal for her. She didn't have to act like a child and refuse to take responsibility for her wrong doings. She didn't have to start calling him names, she could've handled that a lot better. But of course...he's the kill joy 😂
Violet will strip every penny from this guy and leave him on the street if she has the opportunity. I have a lot of Vietnamese friends and none of them say this a cultural thing. They all said he is getting played.
He said he has 100k...that's nothing in America & she will spend it all 👍
Yeah she’s a terrible person using culture as an excuse.
Violet just wanted to live in a American with her daughters 😅
No , she’s not desperate came to a America, she’s didn’t kissing he ass for come to America
I see why he’s single. We don’t want him over here either.
Your observation is correct.
Facts lol
Violet is a savage. 'I put a nickname for you; you are the KING KILL FEELINGS' ☠☠☠☠☠☠🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He need to runnnnnn. She called him ugly and old. She nick name killer king of feelings. He can not ask her questions.
She told no lies and she need to run!
They both need to run...from each other 🫣
Violet's 'ugly and old' comment is just her projecting outward. She is a below average-looking Asian woman who would be considered ugly by Asian men. LOL, my Chinese friends have long told me that Western guys pursue the ugliest Chinese ladies! I know Violet is Vietnamese, although I have heard similar comments from men of other Asian cultures. Did you notice all the airbrushing on Violet's photos?
@@Christine_FindlayHow are you defending and emotionally cold-hearted woman who mentally abuses people by calling them fat and ugly and who takes no accountability on nothing at all that she does wrong? Are you so ultra feminist that because she's a woman she can't do nothing wrong and it's always a man's fault for everything? Just wondering
@@Christine_Findlay - You need to run away from your parent's basement and get a job... And, unplug from social media. 🔥🤐
They barely even like each other, nevermind love each other
Its just such a toxic relationship that doesnt seem to have any positives to it at all
Lmao violet is a thug 😣and Riley is just angry & clueless. This needs to stop 🛑
I dont think think Riley is ready for a relationship its hopefully obvious.
She received a shirtless text from a random dude, already has two children, clearly hiding a lot of things and can’t be asked about them, continued to use a dating app after insisting he deleted his. She realized after he flew across the world and saw the text of the shirtless man and she told him that he didn’t deserve an explanation that he had 0 respect for himself. That he’s so lonely and pathetic he’ll tolerate her shady behavior and still try and make it work.
He’s soooooo desperate to find a woman anywhere in the world
@@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350No…he’s just determined to prove that the reason black men are going over seas is because black women are hard to be in relationships with. Maybe one day they will see that it’s the energy that they bring to the relationship that’s the biggest problem.
Hold up, He never deleted the app! Remember that’s how he caught his girl!
@@Lovelyone1 100% right! Black men are fed up with argumentive, rude, obese, boss chicks who think they are the prize. There is a reason why black men who stay in the USA to find a mate will be more likely to marry Mary or Lucia, rather than Tanisha.
He (claims) he hopped back on after deleting it to make sure she wasn't still using it too. As a man that lived in South East Asia for 4+ years, I can tell you that women in these countries first and foremost want a white man. Ugly, fat, old, doesn't matter. Whiteness in South East Asia equals wealth and high social standing. I can tell you with certainty the guy who texted her with his shirt off was a white guy. Violet ideally wants a man, Riley was just the only one she met on the app that was foolish and thirsty enough to go to Vietnam.@@amilllion1
They suck as a couple. We can finally see her evasive behavior clearly and for once it’s not being overshadowed by Riley being ridiculousness. These two need to leave each other alone and get therapy
Perfect summation
I wasn’t aware that she lied about him abusing her to his father…yikes I hope Riley gets away. Absolutely a dangerous person to bring here to this county.
Omg she is going to call the police on him and get his butt arrested for physical abuse. He is not thinking straight.
@@kaybrown2201As she should. Abuser deserve jail, no?
@@Christine_Findlayplease Let the adults talk. This ain't the time or place for 12yr olds
@@reverendx4everI agree, so keep quiet boy. 😂😂😂😂😂
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It happened TWO years ago! And after a fight with a man she had never met before! Holy hell.
Violet has constantly avoided answering his questions. Don’t forget that violet said in the first episode that she never admits she’s wrong, even when she knows she’s wrong. She’s toxic
They both are toxic.
I thought Riley acted better than Violet in this episode. He was darn near reasonable. If only he didn't keep pressing for Violet to admit she had been wrong. Let's be fair, though, she was wrong, and she really should be more willing to admit when she's wrong. These two people are just not suited for each other. Like most people in the world, they each should be in therapy to resolve their issues. But moreover, they don't complement each other needs-wise. Both of them are looking for a person who will rescue them and take care of them emotionally; a person who will break down the walls of protection; a person who will show that they won't stop giving love no matter how many times they get pushed away. It's a fantasy that only exists in the movies.
Absolutely
I get the feeling they don’t respect each other.
Riley made a huge progress in his behavior. I really liked how he handled himself. I feel bad for him because Violet isn’t able to admit any wrongdoing. They would be a cute couple if she could meet him in the middle.
a cute couple and meet in the middle?...nah, he's insecure and crazy, anger issues, even if she is the biggest liar in the world he has too many insecurity and anger issues and can't deal with any of it...her being on the date program still...big deal sometimes those date sites its hard to delete your profile and they weren't in a commited relationship and never have been so he was totally over reacting, he's very immature and i don't trust her either but he's just too damn agressive and jealous.
Cute couple? What show are you watching?
Riley has a brain mentality of a kid.
Since he apologized he wants her to.
He's so quick to rage!!!!
A really poorly behaved, manipulative kid, who never learned how to behave.
Agree...did u notice how he was clenching his jaw??
Red flags everywhere 🚩🚩🚩
His is typical for an American. Big babies
I think it’s only fair both apologise to each other when both behaves badly. Violet ain’t exactly an angel herself, she’s often rude af , evasive when she’s called out on her bs and loves to insult riley, it’s so abusive.
They are both the king and queen of killing my feelings lmao
$100,000 doesn't go very far when you have three mouths to feed and two of them are teenagers looking for a meal ticket to university.
Especially at his Age. Maybe one kid they could skirt by... Maybe. Hopefully he has good income.
@@asherwoodman8821 Even with one kid, university in the USA is very expensive. And, why would Riley or any man pay for some other guy's child to get an education?
Run run Riley she wants to be in control...Do things her way..No regrets or remorse bit what she dies..she's not for you.
Nothing is her fault. She does no wrong she says. No accountability. Awful
You can't live with someone like that.
I had an extremely toxic ex that triangulated me with a co worker. Than I pretty much gave up on the relationship because I was fed up with the toxicity. I got discarded and she went from 90 10 (mine and her fault) to it being 100 percent all mine within the last few minutes of our conversation lol. Everytime I tried to say we both played a part in this problem, she would say nope, its all your fault (even though it was her starting and creating all the fights and drama lol). Toxic people suck
This is a disaster waiting to happen. He does not seem like the kind of person who will be happy to support 3 people he doesn't know very well without knowing what he will get in return. I don't' think this would be a good idea for her to move in with him. If he gets mad one day and tells her to get lost, she will be lost and alone in the U.S. They don't know each other well enough, they don't get along well enough and they don't respect each other enough. It's not a match made in heaven. I think Riley would be much smarter to end it with Violet. He needs to find a fish in his own sea and Violet needs to find someone who she can get along with and trust.
And 100K won't go far to support Violet's two daughters, who are clearly looking for a meal ticket to university.
@@samsongomah1318As they should. Uprooting your child’s life is a major sacrifice and deserves compensation, no? 😂
@@Christine_Findlay Not it doesn't. If one is unwilling or unprepared for such radical change, then they should date locally.
@@samsongomah1318Yes it does. Yep, you’re a blk male. The mentality is rampant in your demographic. No one is convinced, you can stop cosplaying now. How pathetic! 😂😂😂😂😂
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Agree Riley is not set to the life Violet wants
0:30 I don't know why but when the narrator of All Things Reality mocks Riley's "Motherf*****, we need to work it out!!!", I smirked.
Is that just me? :)
I smirked as I was saying it 🤣
Both are stubborn people. It couldve been beautiful for them both but its toxic and miserable to watch.
I don't believe his apology when he's still sayng things like they fought "over Tiffany who was asking her some personal questions" and how he apologizes for "not protecting her." Very carefully chosen words considering he was the instigator 100% and was the one wanting the questions asked and answered.
Am i the only one that doesnt like Violet? She always thinks is the victim
I don't
No I don't. Never have.
I don't either, I never have and never will.
maybe because he always puts her in situations to be the victim in.
@user-hu9zm7zq3i no, she never apologizes then calls him ugly she isn't miss beauty queen either she has a big face
Everyone on violets side about riley calling his friend but did we forget that she also went behind his back to his dad? And not to mention hid texts from a shirtless guy and stayed on a dating app?
Violet is a submissive woman,and far as the shirtless man,she’s keeping her options open and it nothing wrong with that
@@jailamink6489she's not submissive, and there is definitely something wrong with keeping your options open :/
I’m order for him to know she was still on the dating app meant he was as well. Good for Violet!
@@Christine_Findlay violet is a player,good for her
@@jailamink6489 👍💯
i think this guy could potentially be dangerous.....
Agreed ugh
As a thai swiss woman. I can say the way violet behaves is like a lot of older asian women behave. My mom as an example and her friends are exactly the same. If the question isnt going to be in their favor they will avoid and avoid until its not avoidable and then victimize themselves.. its really frustrating and i personally have given up on those ppl.
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He would do a submission to a none blk woman, but angry towards a blk woman in the USA. Still not a real man to me and others
Passport bros will submit to non blk women yet want submission from blk women , they taking Ls
These two just cannot get along. They should part ways.
IKR serious waste of time
It is curious how people who have no business being together sometimes try so hard to “work it out”. Their relationship makes them both miserable and they are both trying to keep it going.
He stupidly thinks he can make her act how he wants, it’s like he can’t accept she’ll do whatever she wants-she’s supped her income for years with online marks and people shes dated both locally and from other countries.. there a few people that have come out since this first aired from England, Australia and the us that she’s boyfriended up online for profit.. much like Jasmine and a few other 90 day fiancé ladies, he’s one dude in her numbers game…these guys get everything they deserve because they dig their heels in and stick around despite seeing all the red flags mounting..
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Fit, feminine, and friendly huh?! That part. 😂
Exactly, passport dusties already taking Ls with their so called traditional submissive foreign preferences
His self esteem is extremely low she is screaming in so many ways she isn't into him and is clearly using him 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
He a passport dumby looking for a traditional womem and obviously they already having issues and she called him ugly and fat 😅, but she thought those women were more submissive to blk men 🤔🤭
Riley has set the tone for the relationship with the middle fingers
This is just a toxic relationship.
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Bingo!
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Neither of these 2 people, have the maturity or mind to be in a relationship period.....
So Vile -et doesn't answer questions she "doesnt underdtand because English not good"
But, she understands Rileys bank account details with no issues...& she understands how to insult & offend in the English language.
Facts!
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I screamed at her understanding his bank account. Lol. She is the biggest pretender on the show. She is coming to America for his money, house and his mentality. She may very well put him in jail. What a mess
Yup love how she casually brought that up while flying a kite... " how much $$ do u have & can u take care of me & my kid?? " she can say that clearly 😱
As she should. He is pursuing her so he needs to be able to take care of her and her children. Simple.
She was not wrong tho for asking how can he support.
What im getting is that the incident with the father happened years ago and they already solved it but riley just needs content lol
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At this point both need to cut their losses and accept that they are not meant to be. Even if there wasn't a language barrier, they'd still have communication issues.
He looks like the type guy, my house my rules.
King of Kill Feelings,that's new for me😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅lol
Very few men make me nervous or uncomfortable. Riley is one of those few who scare me
king kill feeling? 🤣 the translation nailed it!
The minute she leaves the country with her 2 daughters, it's going to be a train wreck.
If a man told me that and I was from a different country, I would kind of want to know as well. If he made a certain promise, I would feel horrible if I came over there with my kids, and he’s unable to keep up with his promise. I would feel like trash. It’s not that she does not want to work because she already has a job. It’s just there’s going to be a few months where she can’t work.
He could be lying about that $100k. 😂
It’s not violet’s responsibility to help him learn to trust. He needs to get therapy.
😂😂😂 welp!!!! Have at it passport bros
He dodged a bullet like a champ 💯💪🏆
I don’t see any romance between them two.
I think he had one good date in Vietnam…with the tour guide🤣🤣🤣
He's F crazy, the kind of crazy you don't want to be around.
Riley doesn’t need to date anyone of another culture if he’s not going to be understanding or sensitive to that person’s culture. He’s has a hot temper. Also, I’m not sure if she’s all that into him.
I understand Violet with the language barrier.
I have the same amount of soeaking and understanding ability with Spanish, when my partner or his family have complex conversations in Spanish with me, it can be hard to properly express myself. Words and phrases don’t translate rihht or at times don’t exist in spanish how they do in english.
Hi, is it harder to understand the emotional emphasis in a second language? Say you were having an emotional conversation with your partner for example
Moterfucker maybe she doesn’t want to work it out 😂😂😂😂😂that was so funny😂😂😂😂
These two always look miserable in every scene
Why does everyone hate the man? She seems pretty awful herself tf
Did you watch the previous episodes? Dude is krazy!
She hates this man so badly that she call him fat and ugly
He is unlikeable and the behavior he has displayed is unacceptable.
@@beautyfull7669 I haven't.. but I can't imagine him being crazy enough to excuse either one of their behaviors
@@hightec7906 you should watch the previous episodes then you'll understand why she acts the way that she does, she has her ways but he is extreme, it's a very toxic relationship, neither one should be together in my opinion
Violet is very close to a catfish! Lol
100% Did you notice the extreme airbrushing on her photos?
She is much better looking than the dark guy. Belly, eye bags, and clear indicators of insulin resistance. He is unhealthy and lacking resources. He’s lucky she gives him any attention.
@@Christine_Findlay Violet is giving Riley attention because she has no other options. As far as middle-aged Asian/Oriental women go, Violet is on the low end of the beauty scale and she comes with two daughters and a mother. We all know her mother will be part of the package! Violet has nothing to offer a man and will always need to settle for the castoffs.
@@samsongomah1318Violet surpasses him and you in societal hierarchy. She has more societal value than your demographic. Riley doesn’t have the status, look, or resources to redeem his shortcomings.. Case closed. 😂😂
@@Christine_Findlay you sound real dumb.
Passport Bros down bad
'The Great Reset for these two' 🤣🤣 man I love that I knew you were on the awake side brother🙈🙊
King Kill Fellings is a pretty dope nickname not going to lie.
If a woman isn’t interested she’s not interested if she’s not attracted to you she’s not attracted to you. You can’t buy love you can’t bargain with love unless she’s a escort. If your dumped or rejected in anyway that’s a blessing believe it or not. Because you can work on you be at peace with yourself connect with friends and people who love you learn from your mistakes and move on and find someone new someone who actually loves you.
Exactly. All the dating coaches in the world can't overcome fundamental incompatibilities. There's no cheat code for getting someone to be your significant other.
Ohh Violet 🤣🤣🤣!!!! How did she come up with that nickname ?!!
Dudes paying for fanny of course it’s tic for tat💭😂😂
Tank you so much Admin 💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝
What communication style. They don’t have one.
This is the reality of passport bros. These men ain’t the first choice for these foreign women. Majority of the time ppl need green cards, money/ help. If ur cringe in the US ur cringe anywhere u go. Violet keep looking online don’t delete that profile lol.
What is a passport bro, and what is the difference between them/Riley and the rest of the people on 90 Day Fiance?
@@jaywrightesq.7730passport bros is a colloquialism and typically means Black (USA) Men that travel looking for a spouse/love they feel they can’t find where they’re from. The cast is huge so I can’t say what is/isn’t different between Riley and everyone else.
@jaywrightesq.7730 I don't really see a difference, to be honest.
I don't blame Passport Bros for trying their lucky outside the US. At least the chances of meeting a traditional woman in another countries is much higher. Relationships are never easier, but comparing Western and Eastern Women, is like comparing playing Russian Roulette with an Automatic Pistol and a 6 Shot Revolver.
@@davideassis87 ehh but this ignores the fact that every culture has their own responsibilities and expectations for relationships. I think a lot of passport bros don’t live up to what is expected of them to attract the type of woman they’re looking for where they’re from. Marrying a traditional woman from another culture does not absolve someone from their cultural expectations.
Riley has no right to take his previous relationship out on Violet. He's paranoid and needs to get help before he dates anyone. She has been called a liar and a cheater. I personally wouldn't put up with that. Violet has every right to be upset. He yells at her for not allowing herself to be interrogated by his friend, when no doubt, he told the friend to ask her instead of asking himself. Riley needs to go home and grow up if he wants an adult relationship!!
She had no right to msg his father the way she did. She needs to take accountability. But Riley, said. 'OK, no remorse, that's all I want to know" which means he's going to remember her answer to use for ammo in a later fight!
Riley just be a passport bro picking up scraps.
He's too aggressive with her, especially in public. Local men are gonna see that and wanna kick his ass
😂 everyone talking about Violet being mean or a user or trying to intentionally hurt him. This is normal viet women behavior they are very direct and blunt. Riley just seems like he wants someone to coddle him before anything is said
Run forest run! She's not gonna work out. That 1st day she left you in the hotel that was your sign to find another woman. Vietnam has lots of single women!
And plenty of single women in Violet's age group who are much better looking!
@@samsongomah1318 exactly!
He should just drop her. She is not worth it.
He's not either!
Face it..they should both go their own way!! My least my favorite to watch
Riley can't support Violet and her daughters in America. Are you kidding me ?
How long will 100 K last considering the cost of living ?
2 years max and after that it's hello Salvation Army
Is that culturally wrong? I dont think a big grown man getting his friend to ask questions he is to scared to ask, flies anywhere.
These two are bad enough people separately….but they are absolutely terrible together