RC Blakes on Becoming a QUEEN, 50/50 MEN & DADDY Issues

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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @DuvallsDiary
    @DuvallsDiary 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +613

    The father I never had! Pastor Blakes got me out of a narcissistic relationship that held me captive for 3 years! Thank you for your wisdom and guidance 🙏🏽

    • @Mrg524
      @Mrg524 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Amen!!! ❤

    • @Tnc874
      @Tnc874 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      You got yourself out of that relationship sis. He just opened your eyes to some things, but i did the work

    • @michecostafaith
      @michecostafaith 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Amen sis ❤ he helped me too

    • @lisaambrose4249
      @lisaambrose4249 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ikr

    • @wandak1889
      @wandak1889 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God Bless you Beautiful!

  • @tstewart8698
    @tstewart8698 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +273

    There's nothing on this planet comparable to a REAL godly man, who is a good husband and family man. (PERIOD)

  • @BlissfullyBlooming
    @BlissfullyBlooming 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +341

    “… queens are focused on self mastery…she combs through her history. She locates and disengages all of her triggers. She knows who she is.”
    Whew, just minutes in 🙌🏽🤓

    • @TheArriella
      @TheArriella 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @44Stephieb
      @44Stephieb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for writing this

    • @BlissfullyBlooming
      @BlissfullyBlooming 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@44Stephieb My pleasure sis ☺️💕 It was so poetic and powerful at the same time. 🙌🏽 Mr. Blakes is such an effective communicator!

    • @Dreamcicles
      @Dreamcicles 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love this so much

    • @BlissfullyBlooming
      @BlissfullyBlooming 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dreamcicles 🙌🏽👑

  • @pholoso8884
    @pholoso8884 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    All I can say is that I broke free from a 10 year soul tie because of this man's teachings. Such a blessing to the generation of young ladies who are healing.
    Specifically the line "don't be a silly woman!". I stopped being silly. 😂😂
    Thank you, all the way from South Africa!

    • @Iamgorgeousbri.
      @Iamgorgeousbri. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen!!! ❤ congratulations ❤

    • @PoeticJustic3
      @PoeticJustic3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Congrats! I'm breaking free from a two year relationship, we have a kid together. Not easy but neither was being with him! I went back and remembered quickly why I left. When I was alone God showed me I was fully capable of living without a man I was once so addicted to.
      Once you get a taste of peace. Saying goodbye starts feeling like freedom.

    • @ayananelson1223
      @ayananelson1223 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PoeticJustic3Wow this is deep🙏

  • @jodyrose7425
    @jodyrose7425 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +230

    That is how my life changed. Was a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Reading the Word. Remembering the word, and then responding to the Word. I started making sure my choices were in alignment of what the Word says.

    • @zelin7460
      @zelin7460 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Amen! Same, once I gave it to God and focused on him everything fell in place and the peace I received was unimaginable 🙏🏾

    • @AnitaMiddleton-rh9dr
      @AnitaMiddleton-rh9dr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

    • @sebentilezanini1085
      @sebentilezanini1085 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for bringing in RC Blakes...
      And that right there is the game changer!!! Aligning with His Word....you can't go wrong❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
      The right man will be loyal and make you feel emotionally safe!
      If he does the "50/50 story" he is not ready to provide fully for you....thank you!

  • @abrockington24
    @abrockington24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    I love pastor RC Blake's, he help me get through my hardest times and reminded me who I am and what I bring to the table. How God uses me and what is expected of myself per the Bible. ❤ he and Lisa are my favorite couple to resemble. I strive to be a high value for myself.

    • @sandraedwards3578
      @sandraedwards3578 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That’s beautiful 🙏🏾

    • @daionlee3603
      @daionlee3603 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same here!! RC and Lisa have a beautiful testimony. Definitely helped me know my worth!

    • @bonitawilliams3513
      @bonitawilliams3513 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I love Pastor Blake. As woman we must first know our Lord and seek His divine will as daughters in Christ. Knowing His word and seeking His perfect will and guidance through prayer. God provides when we put our faith and trust in Him, and no one else. change us to be our best selves are critical before engaging in a healthy marriage. And this also applies to men. Work on your relationship with God and the rest will fall in place.

    • @bonitawilliams3513
      @bonitawilliams3513 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Knowing your value as the daughter of God, a woman should not marry a man who is not a leader, dis- honors and dis- respects her, cannot be trusted, and didn't make her feel safe and secure. 🙏

    • @cynthiareynolds1941
      @cynthiareynolds1941 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s awesome

  • @mariahcharnelle
    @mariahcharnelle 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    thats my pastor!! its so cool to see him have such an impact on so many. his Queenology book includes a very inspiring poem called The Queen by Jan K Thomas:
    “…You will no longer be a victim- you have inherited a life you have not seen. Lift up your head and adjust your crown. You, my dear, are a Queen!…Your worth is far more than any jewel; no one could ever take your place. You were designed by God as an original, to conquer whatever you face…Your touch waters empty souls, your voice encourages us to thrive. Arise now and take your rightful place; we need our Queens to survive. You are the fire, the rock, the rose, and the stream. You are the hope, the truth, the lotus, and the dream. Get ready to walk in the path you’ve not seen. You are royalty and power…You are a QUEEN.” ✨
    i hope this blesses somebody

    • @gailhowie-irvin760
      @gailhowie-irvin760 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you for restating the poem

    • @mrs.fredrick_
      @mrs.fredrick_ 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you!! 😭 I just balled my eyes out reading that poem.

    • @mariahcharnelle
      @mariahcharnelle 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@mrs.fredrick_ im glad it could bless a few. it was well written for Queens just like you 💛

    • @mariahcharnelle
      @mariahcharnelle 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@gailhowie-irvin760 very very welcome 💖

  • @nisiisabella
    @nisiisabella 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    I truly love RC Blakes. He has been my online therapist for over two years now. I am so glad you guys have them on your show.

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same. Helped me out of some mess

  • @antonyorodgers3831
    @antonyorodgers3831 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    This was an eye opener for me!! As a Man of 4 girls and married to a Beautiful Queen!! I’ve learned so many lessons in this show today!! Thank you all for the support, LOVE and contribution to the betterment of the world!! 🙏🏽❤️💪🏾

    • @obiochaaikezogwo5315
      @obiochaaikezogwo5315 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you too for being a MAN and FATHER to your family ❤

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👏🏾👏🏾

  • @PopFizzPaperDani
    @PopFizzPaperDani 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    This was so affirming as a woman who *is* doing the inner work. ❤❤❤

  • @pracs3377
    @pracs3377 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    I forgive my dad for making me feel my femininity, womanhood was sinful or shameful before I even understood what it really meant.
    Without a father in my life, I feel exposed and vulnerable. Not just after his passing, I started feeling that way after a family member molested me and it was dismissed when I was a preteen, so the majority of my life.
    I’m on the journey to healing still at 35.

    • @jasminasinanbegovic6225
      @jasminasinanbegovic6225 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Forgive him, forgive everyone, even the one that wronged you the most. It hurts to feel betrayed by the closest to you, yet pray for them and forgive them, for your own sake, cause you deserve that healing. Don't hold that burden in your heart, nobody is worth of you walking heavy trough the life.There is nothing that God can't do for you. He loves you. He is closer to us then out jugular vein. ❤

    • @dexterjweaver4812
      @dexterjweaver4812 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏🏿

    • @bonafide_forever
      @bonafide_forever 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ⁠@@jasminasinanbegovic6225you’re right baby even though that’s so much easier said than done. She probably finds it hard to trust anyone ever since that happened. Situations like that are very likely to cause PTSD. God bless her and I pray someday she fully recovers and is able to find that forgiveness you speak of, if she hasn’t already.🙏🏽

    • @jasminasinanbegovic6225
      @jasminasinanbegovic6225 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@bonafide_forever for sure it's not easy, I am well aware of how hardships look like, yet that bravery she has to master in order for her to live freely. She also doesn't have to trust anyone instantly, give herself a time, move slowly, people show themselves very quickly trough their behavior. Intuition, control over your own emotions, healthy distance and logic is unbeatable ingredients of faith. She can do it and way beyond. She is already a survivor 💪

    • @terrybrown7510
      @terrybrown7510 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      May God continue to bless and comfort you as you heal. You can heal, you will heal!!! 💯💯

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    No. A woman 🧍🏽‍♀️ has to wait to be pursued. Thank you Bishop RC 🥰🙏🏾

    • @iamebonylaquise
      @iamebonylaquise 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯 Ladies don’t pursue…they promenade.

  • @HiddenGemK
    @HiddenGemK 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Let us engrave this in our heart and mind “I don’t think a woman should ever marry a man that does not have a mind to 100% provide for her”

  • @daddylightsministry106LaTrekaJ
    @daddylightsministry106LaTrekaJ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I ❤ Bishop RC & Lisa Blakes teaching.
    I met them in person in Dallas. They were very humble & genuine. 🙏🏼

    • @GodDogPassport
      @GodDogPassport 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you go to the queenology conference?

  • @shereebrown-FoodForFemininity
    @shereebrown-FoodForFemininity 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I am part of Pastor Rc Blakes cyber church. Not saying there isn’t anyone else with a platform that isn’t good to listen to, but I don’t recommend anyone but him and Tony Gaskins for relationship advice at the moment. Through Christ, Pastor RC Blakes changed my life, and I am honored to say that I am now one of the Queens he has described. An Amazing man of God!! Love him and Lady Lisa!❤

  • @ThatKeshia
    @ThatKeshia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    YES! As a mother of two sons… I’m extremely proud of the growth we’re all witnessing in the both of you gentlemen! LOVE TO SEE IT!☺️

    • @outsidethebox8406
      @outsidethebox8406 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same. Mother of 2 sons as well. This channel gives me hope for a future with more respectful, honorable young men again.

    • @msprettysunshine
      @msprettysunshine 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree

    • @BjtheLawyer_
      @BjtheLawyer_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We shall only hope mothers are raising their daughters properly so that your sons can have a wife!

    • @cdnicole30
      @cdnicole30 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    “If as a man You live your life so consistently that she never even has a trust issue. She never had to question you bc You practice Voluntary accountability. small acts of openness. simply leaving your phone open or giving a pass code. Simple acts give so much Safety to a woman that’s necessary.“ whew 😮‍💨 Let me tell you, you’re so mature and healing to a woman’s soul! You better teach!! Amazing work.

    • @SWOTHDRA
      @SWOTHDRA 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You gonna open your phone too? And give passwords to all your social media?

  • @NayShea7
    @NayShea7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    I respect the content the hosts put out as well as their own growth and maturity. It is so evident. Wonderful job guys👏🏾

  • @sonyau2682
    @sonyau2682 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The lord led me to PASTOR BLAKES … …….my GOD this man of GOD has guided me to the areas that I needed to look at to promote healing I am 41 years old and never been more filled and healed in my life thank you Lord Jesus for this man …..and thank you pastor for listening to Jesus and know where you are needed ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cynthiahoyi3925
    @cynthiahoyi3925 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Ahh, I’ve been saying to myself for a while that I hope I see Pastor Blakes on here. This man has wisdom that can only come from above. I discovered him back in 2017 not long after he had started “the father daughter talk”. I had just come out of relationship and was so heartbroken. He was one of the voices that kept me confident and strong to not go back. So glad I didn’t…One word that I will never forget from him is, “trust is an honour earned, not a gift given”. I also love his story about how his wife handled him not committing, learned a lot from that. May God bless you and keep you Sir. ❤️

  • @empresshunt7280
    @empresshunt7280 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I lost my dad a month ago. I loved him so much because I knew he loved me. He was my compass. He did not raise me, but he made up for it in my adult life. I miss him so much because I knew he loved me. If no other man loved me, I knew he did. I miss him so much.

  • @johnnieguy8551
    @johnnieguy8551 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    "The birth of we isn't the death of me..." 😮 I needed that message.... Thank yall HI and RC Brakes

  • @denisebowman3873
    @denisebowman3873 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Not until my 30s did I comprehensively see the damage that not only not having my father growing up, but then having an abusive stepfather has impacted my whole experience and value myself as a woman. When I sit and be very analytical about decisions I made and most that I thought were good were cultivated from broken pieces of my fatherless heart. RC Blakes have really helped me see so many characteristics that I need to develop further to access a better version of myself. Thank God for these talks

  • @lb1798
    @lb1798 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    6:43 Father-Daughter talks are vital and essential. Our father taught us SO MANY THINGS ABOUT how to allow ourselves to be treated❤

  • @jeansmith6418
    @jeansmith6418 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is a man who gives sound Relationship advice that I respect ♥

  • @ThePrimaryMaven
    @ThePrimaryMaven 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    R.C. Blake’s has been such a blessing to me. I didn’t grow up with my mom or dad. He has helped fill the voids with his messaging. 🙏🏾

  • @lovesonmyside2184
    @lovesonmyside2184 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    For Tony Gaskin and Bishop RC Blakes hit on the Head 99.9 % of the time.

  • @carlawestmorris8586
    @carlawestmorris8586 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Finally! That’s my guy, he’s the only pastor that I take advice from. Thank you for having him on your show. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
    @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back..

    • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
      @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her name is *Shelly renee white* , and she is a great spiritual counsellor who can bring back your ex..

    • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
      @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s a soul tie. Because you weren’t married just sharing demons and your demons miss her demons. They want that other house to embody sometimes and it’s gone.
      My be with anyone in sin? Waste a woman’s time and not marry her?
      A man that can’t properly care for a woman and her whole body doesn’t deserve one.

  • @trinaj.2427
    @trinaj.2427 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Pastor Blakes and his wife Lisa are such a blessing. The wisdom they share is priceless. Thank you guys for having Pastor Blakes on your show👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ladyj8487
    @ladyj8487 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    More men should be listening to this, but I’m happy to see Bishop Blakes on here🙏🏾wise counsel

  • @kathleenaoconnell5777
    @kathleenaoconnell5777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I’m so grateful you brought Bishop on the show, our society needs more of these positive influences that represents God, marriage, family, and authenticity.

  • @aishawilliams5933
    @aishawilliams5933 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I LOVE this man, he is an amazing father figure and gave me father daughter talks that I never had with my real father . Thank you for bringing him on!!

  • @tiabanks5585
    @tiabanks5585 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I never met my Father and once I started listening to Pastor Blakes I was able to heal from trauma, I actually wanted to heal, instead of just surviving, so, bless you man of God! You opened my eyes to the games men play! Real talk , and changing the way I think, my heart was opened to accept my flaws and grow from them because I really honed into the Lord, my life forever changed once I really relied on God, and forgave myself.
    And first lady Blakes thank you too Queen.

  • @Kenyetta_
    @Kenyetta_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Grateful that Pastor RC's page lead me to this interview. It's beautiful to see as a guest but host and lead the discussion with these Gentlemen. It sure was a pleasure to receive. Great Build Kings. Peace and Blessings 👑🙏🏽✨️

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Her demeanour. Her Aura. What she Exudes !🥰

  • @IndigoWisdom1
    @IndigoWisdom1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    RC Blakes is one of the few who can be long-winded and it actually feel good to listen to. Very good word and advice today!! Taking notes!!! Thanks Hardly Initiated!!! 👏🏽

    • @demetracastille8856
      @demetracastille8856 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Definitely! Some long winded people, are not saying anything meaningful.

  • @saraleedokowe21
    @saraleedokowe21 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I enjoy listening to Pastor RC Blakes. He is so calm and confident in his speech.

  • @BeverlyHall-em8ux
    @BeverlyHall-em8ux 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I've been listening to Mr. Blakes for 2 years. He's helped me in so many ways. When he said, "I brought the vision, grind, and the safe space," that's what makes his marriage healthy and successful.

  • @jamienl207
    @jamienl207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Self respect. Loved herself more than the thought of him. I love how the story ended & continues to grow ❤

  • @legaltalkwithmadamattorney
    @legaltalkwithmadamattorney 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love pastor Blake’s, can’t wait for this one

    • @domoniquechatman1845
      @domoniquechatman1845 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too! Great job Hardly Initiated!!!

  • @anissajohnson8244
    @anissajohnson8244 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He the real queen maker! 👸🏾❤️💯🙏🏾

  • @219tfair
    @219tfair 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    RC Blakes is one of the best out there hands down. Not only does he make valid points but uses scripture to support what he is saying! For me personally that’s a plus. He is biased and doesn’t male or female bash!❤

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thanks for having my Bishop. Bishop RC is a gift from the Almighty God 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @hope-miracles
    @hope-miracles 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    So grateful y’all finally brought him on!!
    We love you Bishop!! Thank you for your paternal love & wisdom. You & Lady Blake’s are such a blessing to us all. Keep going! 🙏🏾✨❤️

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree!!! The voice the entire world needs to hear! Nothing toxic....yet truthful....but MOST importantly through love....

    • @cw8365
      @cw8365 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I absolutely agree!! His lessons have revamped my ability to heal and blossom into the woman God is molding me to be! I’m forever grateful❤

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you God for giving your daughters a father like R C Blakes.
    RC Blakes has the most beautiful smile. 🙏

  • @kathywalker9546
    @kathywalker9546 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you Hardly Initiated for featuring RC Blakes! He is absolutely awesome and has changed my life. He helped me find myself in the word of GOD and I’m a better woman for it.

  • @DashaTheDivineDivah
    @DashaTheDivineDivah 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This.man really helped me on many phases of my healing and in this world is the ONLY pastor I really lean into. So happy he's on the show! He's a real one and a fully accountable man.

  • @talawoods25
    @talawoods25 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Bishop Blakes is the true definition of a good father, husband, and man of God. I respect him so much. God led me to his ministry as I went through my healing process. His teachings have been instrumental in helping me find my queenology. He is truly a blessing to this generation.

  • @libby8395
    @libby8395 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I really encourage women to read this man’s books … they truly help you understand your worth and value! ❤ ❤

  • @merianne
    @merianne 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thank you for bringing Pastor RC Blakes. This man helped me get through the toughest time in my life, he taught me things that my dad didn't. He is the template of what a king stands for . I have so much gratitude for him.

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    May God continue to shine his face upon My Bishop, Bishop RC Blakes. 🙏🏼💙🙏🏼💙🙏🏼💙🙏🏼

    • @LadyC1978
      @LadyC1978 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen Sister Lois 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾

    • @shayc59
      @shayc59 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen Sister's

  • @deanj8870
    @deanj8870 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    IM PROUD OF YOU, KINGS!! ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH!📖👑🙏🏾

  • @asha4189
    @asha4189 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Yall delivered!!! Thank you for bringing on one of the most prominent and healthy leaders in the relationship conversation. RC Blakes’ message truly blessed me

  • @talithahuey6979
    @talithahuey6979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Thank all you guys! Us beautiful single women needed to hear that all is not lost in our value and love life. A Queen was reborn! ❤❤

  • @sandraedwards3578
    @sandraedwards3578 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Rat poison so true I love pastor Blakes because he is gentle with us he talks to heal women and women

  • @HeyItsSheilaJ
    @HeyItsSheilaJ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I’m so happy to see RC Blake’s on this platform!

  • @missbossyleoreviews
    @missbossyleoreviews 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    RC is a blessing to so many women!

  • @Holy_Girl_Jay
    @Holy_Girl_Jay 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    YES Sir 🙌🏾 what a great way to end the year! Com on RC with the word:
    Where there is no vision, the people perish 👏🏾 My relationship with the word Is growing daily! Thank you Pastor 🙏🏾

  • @Tianelson1967
    @Tianelson1967 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This video from Pastor RC Blakes really resonated with me. Starting at the 46 minute mark. It made me think about a guy I was truly interested in a few years ago. His words made me understand why he's always behaved the way he does towards me. My eyes are open. Because I've always been the pursuer . Even though I knew he liked me, but I pursued him which ultimately probably turned him off. I never plan on reaching out to him again. And not out of bitterness but just because I know better now. And I'm going to be doing just what RC said. Working on myself and just being prepared.

  • @blkbutterfly7618
    @blkbutterfly7618 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    RC BLAKES the father I literally never had! You are always on time! I give so much thanks to you for getting me through some of the roughest times in my life. I also thank you Hardly Initiated for listening to your audience. This is certainly bringing your platform to such an impactful level.

  • @jussjess2829
    @jussjess2829 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This podcast just went to another level. Yall been listening as we all been asking. The bishop RC literally the number one requested guest. I cant wait to hear this.

  • @laquetianewstartmercer
    @laquetianewstartmercer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    RC Blake's is definitely THE TRUTH!!

  • @---mb6xq
    @---mb6xq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    So many gems for men and women in this one podcast! Thank you for bringing Bishop RC on. This is invaluable information!!!

  • @veeniceaii6727
    @veeniceaii6727 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    FINALLY!!!!! RC Blakes is DA’TTTRUTH!!!!
    Tysean and Ryan, you guys are doing a PHENOMENAL job!! What a way to put the final nail to 2023!!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @cdnicole30
    @cdnicole30 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He right about the sisterhood we need

  • @morganbamonti3650
    @morganbamonti3650 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    RC Blake’s, the fatherly advice I’ve never had.

  • @BrittnePtheBestGirl
    @BrittnePtheBestGirl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I've damn near cried watching this. Man. I needed this. Wow. He knows my life. This is touching.

  • @carmen81473
    @carmen81473 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor Blakes is telling the truth! My father was absent from my life for most of my life. I gave my life to Jesus at 13 years old. He fathered me in so many ways and healed every father wound in my life. When a person knows their identity in Christ, everything changes.

  • @sierranickole9242
    @sierranickole9242 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This is eye opening. It was hard to hear in the beginning as a mother to 3 daughters it worries me what my children will miss out on because of the absence of their father it brought me to tears. This message was truly felt from beginning to end. Blessings to RC, Ryan & Tysean 🫶🏾

    • @Naluca1988
      @Naluca1988 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am in your situation. I have a set of twins, girls. They are now in their teenage years and I pray that God helps us to raise them in way that will make them to make the right decisions. 🙏❤️

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God can send a great man into your lives. Keep the faith ❤

    • @sierranickole9242
      @sierranickole9242 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Naluca1988& He Will! Blessings to you ♥️

    • @sierranickole9242
      @sierranickole9242 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nikkyshamz2696I’m believing at the right time he will! Blessings to you ♥️

  • @Patricia-ri4bq
    @Patricia-ri4bq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    HI is an amazing program with needful content. Bishop RC Blakes is the ultimate Earthly Father to every woman who listens to his guidance in teaching. I listen to him daily and if I miss a day of not hearing his voice in teaching, I feel like I have not talked to My Dad that day. I love you Bishop and First Lady Lisa Blakes for your ministry to Womanhood.

  • @bparraz2011
    @bparraz2011 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This was the best show for me ever. I had to learn everything he said on my own. As a "Queen" at the age of 47 who married my husband 12 years ago, and whose father was absent and abusive, had to learn this on my own. I am trying to find avenues to teach other young women this. Simply put a relationship with Christ will help you with the relationship with yourself and others, when an earthly father is absent.

    • @MSSHARIII
      @MSSHARIII 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯

  • @agiahicks7851
    @agiahicks7851 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Okay, y’all done did it now! RCBlakes is the best! I’m so excited! Grinning ear to ear! So proud of you guys for bringing him on!😊🎉❤

  • @CourtScrub
    @CourtScrub 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    13:42 My father was pastored by RC Blakes Sr (RC’s father, a very kind and sweet man!), who married my parents, but he died before he could impart a lot of these things into me.
    But GOD and my MOTHER. And my village! And ME. 🙏🏾
    Many men and women have fathers who lead them astray or pass down trauma and misogyny and brokenness. Having a father is not enough or some sort of sure path to healthiness and wholeness. I know many women whose self esteem is low because of their fathers. Every woman has to do her own work to reach the place of inner self-love and wholeness RC has described. No one can give that to you.

  • @InheritedRoyal
    @InheritedRoyal 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was a wonderful conversation amongst real men! I appreciate you young gentlemen and Pastor Blake’s this really helped me understand who I am in Jesus in order to become a better wife and Queen! God bless you all for the message 🙏🏾

  • @mamiepreston7248
    @mamiepreston7248 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I thoroughly enjoyed the content. Father-daugher talks are an essential part of maturing into a healthy, well-versed individual. I myself never having a father to provide self-esteem or to nuture a non-sexual relationship with a man. This hits very close to home. Thriving each day to become a better person and seeking a much closer walk with the Father! I thank God for Pastor RC Blakes, sister Lisa Blakes . Big ups to you guys allowing a safe place for us fatherless daughters to obtain knowledge and perspective!!!

  • @KeeBee-f4g
    @KeeBee-f4g 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love RC Blakes. Thank you Lord for using him. He helped me get clarity after being betrayed by “friends” and the narcissist I was in a relationship for 4 years. That soul-tie left me completely broken but someone sent me RC video and I literally studied those videos. They helped me on my healing journey to find Christ who is at the center of my life!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @mcclendonhaus
    @mcclendonhaus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Whenever he speaks, on whatever platform, I listen!🙌🏾

  • @banessa2526
    @banessa2526 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When RC Blake’s said , God is going to be the father that you never had to be in your life ! I cried 😭 because I can a testify to this I didn’t grow up with a father ! And Abba father (Yeshua) has been that father figure to me ! Now , I am fully securely attached ! I love it ❤Thankful, for Gods deliverance !

  • @skc461
    @skc461 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love this man!! He helped me transform from a girl to a woman a few years ago… all through TH-cam. 🙏🏽

  • @reginadavis1028
    @reginadavis1028 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was absolutely enlightening and thought provoking! Even as a married woman!
    But I'll say this, the "sticky and tricky" part of the woman "using her resources to support HIS vision" is, how does she trust that he may not leave her ONCE he starts to see the fruit of his labor that SHE HELPED to or totally financed. That being supportive piece is very scary.

  • @jamiejackson1780
    @jamiejackson1780 วันที่ผ่านมา

    KEPT OUR LIFESTYLE AT A POINT THAT I COULD AFFORD IT!!! PREEEEACH 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 anything else would be DELUSIONAL & SUPER INCONSIDERATE Ladies!!! #MATURITY #WISDOM #VIRTUE

  • @Queenconsciousness311
    @Queenconsciousness311 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    In this vast world, Bishop RC Blakes Jr. and Tony Gaskins Jr. have been guiding lights, steering me away from shadows. Gratitude fills my heart for Father God and Jesus Christ, the foundation of my journey.
    Special love to Bishop RC Blakes Jr. for inspiring and creating a platform that amplifies voices. Queenology empowers with divine femininity, shaping my perspective. To the incredible man, your work and books filled a void as a father figure before my deeper connection with God and Jesus Christ. Your impact is immeasurable; I am eternally grateful.
    In a world silent to our community, your platform gives us a voice. Thank you to you Tysean and Ryan, for being a source of light and inspiration. Much love and appreciation to you, Bishop RC Blakes Jr., and all spreading positivity and love. 🙏💖

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    RC BLAKES is an absolute legend. A spiritual father to so many women and man.
    So so many did not have role model to teach self worth so these teachings are priceless. Lisa story @ 16:00 ❤ bless her courage

  • @daphenernorwood
    @daphenernorwood 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pastor Blakes and Lady Lisa are the real deal. You’ve had some awesome Pastors and First Ladies from Houston. I love it!

  • @wozanimkhize
    @wozanimkhize 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this. Pastor Blakes is a global treasure. His seminars need to come to South Africa in all honesty. Blessings on blessings to the entire team.

  • @petit-four1404
    @petit-four1404 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My grandmother listened to Bishop Blakes’ father. Now, I am being emphatically blessed by Bishop Blakes, Jr.🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @DioniWise87
    @DioniWise87 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    31:00 Yes, Bishop Blakes! We want a safe place from men. And I, personally, will try my best to be his safe place. Reading the Word, reading books that align with the Word and doing inner work has helped me realize what I should change to support, respect and love men in a way they’ll receive it. I’m practicing with my father, brothers, male co-workers, brothers at church, etc.

  • @lenebrantley221
    @lenebrantley221 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pastor Blakes is one of my favorite people in the world.❤❤❤

  • @TheMetamorphosisEffect
    @TheMetamorphosisEffect 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When my father or mother forsake me, God will keep me ❤
    Psalms 27:10

  • @shannaj4896
    @shannaj4896 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    So happy to see Pastor RC Blakes on the podcast today. Love his teaching & all of his videos.❤🙏

  • @CourtScrub
    @CourtScrub 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Also love RC’s transparency! GROWN MAN things.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video popped up on my TH-cam Bishop Blakes is a God send since finding him on TH-cam many years ago he is a father figure to me and teacher as a born again believer ,I never had a relationship with my physical father he was a malignant narcissist there was no relationship no connection nothing he just cared about himself only and my mother was toxic I grew up in dysfunction after my father died I winded up marrying a narcissist after 3 years I left and filed for divorce I thank God for giving me strength to get out of that abuse 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Reclusive_Butterfly
    @Reclusive_Butterfly 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    🙏🏾🦋 glad to see Pastor Blakes sharing a convo here. First time visitor of this channel. Good message. There's so much negative, toxic, & incorrect things spread through social media that's infecting society, especially younger generations, as Pastor Blakes mentions. This is why it's important for the Blakes ministry and positive platforms, God ordained platforms, to talk about these topics responsibly, maturity. The importance of a father role, yes- God uses Pastor Blakes as a Godly husband and father, to facilitate messages from our Heavenly Father. Those who can't see the problem in our society are simply part of the problem. 35k views and only 3k likes, wow!? Keep following and doing God's will.

  • @syrethashirley
    @syrethashirley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yaaaaassssss!!!! I’m so excited and jumping for joy!!!!!!! 🎉❤😊

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Thank you RC Blakes 🥰. And Hardly Initiated. Am grateful for everything. 🙏🏾God bless you . Happy New Year 🥳 🎉 Cheers 🍾🥂

    • @HardlyInitiated
      @HardlyInitiated  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Happy new year!!

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      HONORED 🙏🏽😊♥️

  • @frenzettaspeed
    @frenzettaspeed 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Pastor Blake’s wisdom. So glad that you had him on your show.

  • @kathyannjackson2339
    @kathyannjackson2339 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    RC BLAKES my spiritual father! I have listened to ALL of his messages. He is truly heaven sent so was this message. I’m grateful for his life. He is truly saving the lives of lost woman. I respect him even more how he handled his wife and her trauma Amazing!!! ❤❤❤

  • @livcreativelyy
    @livcreativelyy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The father we all needed. Thanks RC Blakes for laying it all out for us ❤