Episode 20: Communication
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- The lads are back together in the same room for the first time this season. They discuss why communication is the backbone of any relationship and why listening to our emotions and our truth and being able to communicate it ultimately sets us free regardless of the outcome.
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I tried out the “brave thing” yesterday:
Bank person: How are you ?
Me: horrible, I have a stressful situation & I’m hoping we can get it resolved
Bank person: (laughs nervously) let’s see how we can help you…
I will say communicating my truth definitely felt liberating and I was able to have a genuine conversation without having to force a smile
Every stage is beautiful, brutal and beneficial
Thanks for this great episode! Definitely something I could relate to. Thanks so much for sharing this video! Nice to see you lads together in the same room again!! ❤️❤️❤️
GREAT EPISODE! You really made me laugh a lot THANK YOU, just never stop doing podcasts, I love every episode :)
Thanks for the episode! You are so cute! I agree with you that the most pleasant communication is when you can say what you really think to someone and read his reaction to your words, and, based on this reaction, continue to communicate. When two want to hear each other. And not to adapt to the other and portray an interest in communication - what's the point in that at all? Like Daniel, I don't like to talk on the phone because there is not enough information for me.... The only exceptions are very close people whom I feel even without looking at them.
This stuff all rings so true. Its a comfort to know other people my age struggle with social scenarios. I do the same thing where someone goes "You know what this is?" and I say I do just so they keep talking and I dont need to. I never really get caught out by it though, poor Daniel ha! It means they cared that you were engaged in the conversation though!
Fu# you’re talking about na meetings … i go there since february (Paris) and for me this the first Time i feel just normal and comfort to say my truth whitout feel dumd or crazy about addictions (drugs and sex and complusing with the image of my body…..fear ect) …. Whao !!!! I feel so close of what you say in that conversation (sorry for my english) you put a precises words on What i feel…. Thank you guys !
Love Caravaggio's st Jerome on the wall. 28:20 on point
as everything we get better the more we practice. Nothing is selfunderstood, we need to say it. I agree that the truth sets us free. And I love Caravaggio's St Jerome poster in the room
An other great episode! I wish I could join this conversation, so much to say, so much to ask and so much to think about. 🥰
This was a great episode as always ! 😸
I'd like to react saying communication depends on so many things, the people the context, the level of affection, you basically have to adopt a new mode of communication for everyone person! And as it was said, the more you care, the more you fear of communicate at all, because it can bring you as much as it can cost you, so sometimes it's really a tough choice !
Another point, when you were saying that English people often say "how are you" starting a conversation, if it's a genuine questions or not. But you're actually lucky that even in the worst case scenario, they at least, pretend to be interested. I'm french and I had to worked with people, and a lucky day for me was when every people I saw told me "hello". Even if it was a muffled one with the other's eyes fixed on his cell.🤣🤣🤣
And to finish I have a little question. When you can't manage to have some meaningful communication with a major person of your life, how can you create it ? I keep trying with different ways, to put him in ease, and he never once succed to communicate. And the more we move on without communicating the more our relationship start fading because we can move on or evolve.
So in this case, could no communication could actually be a way to communicate ?
And no matter how hard try it'll never work ? :/
Communication is such a vast topic that I can easily see you two circling back to this. You two did a good job touching on different forms of it. To me- I find it to be equal parts words, tone, and the unspoken (vibe/energy, body language, and what’s not being said). Often what’s not being said speaks the loudest- how comfortable someone is in a situation, what they are holding back, if something is off. Even via text, and you don’t notice it until it’s off, you can tell when someone’s texting pattern is off and ask if something is wrong. When Leggy mentioned how when he asks how someone is doing, he wants to know the genuine answer- I was curious as to how he asked it. I find often we are asked this in passing and people keep walking so you give the brief “I’m fine”, “I’m here”, or “Okay. You?” Then people keep walking. If you want a truly honest answer, sit down when you ask it, ask “How are you REALLY doing?”, mention a behavior you noticed good or bad and how things are, or bring up something they mentioned in a previous conversation and ask how it went. That opens the door to letting them know you care enough to pay attention and you genuinely want to know. Just my two cents on the topic. Enjoyed having you two back together! I know you guys are going the guest route, but I hope you will have more episodes of just the two of you than with guests. Those I have liked the most so far.
This episode was great. Can’t wait for the next one
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Esse episódio está simplesmente perfeito! Vocês são demais!😍😍😍😍
Honesty first starts with yourself then you can extend that with others ! Been a born again Christian has helped me a lot to look at life first frim a spiritual perspective ! Cos the manufacturing of our reality first is done in the spiritual then it manifests to the natural ! Look into it
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Merci
Hi there, i liked the talk, the idea behind that we shall open up more, give a chance for people to care. Hence, not a joke, would actually really like to understand what s wrong with French people? We may all had bad encounter once or twice but generality like that turns to be narrow minded to me. Or at least explain the issue. Thank u
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Love you Daniel! ❤❤❤💋Crazy about your feet!❤ Pillow should be "merch"! Write to me, it would make my (birth)day and miserable miserable Valentine's day