Wathinta indaba enkulu maKhumalo:generational trends/genetic dispositions are major contributors to the manner inwhich Men treat their women emshadweni. Sometimes my background as a women also attracts me to a man with such background traits bese zitholana phezulu🤛🤜. This is so complex and painful, bcos as you said it's recurring. Siyabonga kwiGumbi, Mseleku Queens. Big Up!!
Mayeni & maNgwabe are my best though ngilithanda lonke ladies, unity and respect that's what I see and love from all you, Angazi lenzanjani lizwane kanje li share indoda, I salute you ladies, and loving you gals.
First of all your unity. Humbleness, indlela leninikana sikhatsi ngayo nakuphendvula lomunye I love it. I was in an abusive relationship for almost 15 years, ngangitsi wentiwa tjwala, ngoba nase a sober is a nice and caring men, emaphoyisa bese adziniwe agcina atsi sekatobopha mine nyalo, kulapho ngacala khona kuvuleka nekucabanga kutsi ngifune indlela yekuphuma but it was not easy ngokuyitjela ngiyathanda la angiyindawo, kwase kuta bhusha afuna kungicoba , ngasindza, wabuya ngelelinye lilanga washo watsi bengifuna kukwenta I mince meat namuhla ngabe bayangibuka bayangenyanya bantfu and no police case, kunzima langaphandle bomama julani kulendaba, nkulunkulu namadlozi can help to free yourself from abuse
I love u bomake kakhulu... Ayikho nayinye nje intfo lekumele ihlalelwe ngumake loshaywako emshadweni... Make loshaywako u are enough just leave this man lokuhlukubetako.... Remember u are your own woman... U were before this man nd u will be after him.... Makhumalo I love you so so much...
Woow what a topic, I'm glad I went out to the toxic relationship it been 13yrs of marriage and I went out i don't blame myself this thing is so huge even children get affected it's not about us only
I pray that all women everywhere in the world will find strength from God to leave any kind of toxic relationship. God bless💜. I would love to add on the love part, in a relationship love alone is never enough and if you see women leaving long term relationships, its not cause they no longer love their partner. Sibashiya uthando lusavutha kakhulu ngoba basixakile.
I concur with what Thobile and maYeni said about men who beat up wo men when they are drunk and those that have grew up in the eyes of abuse. Some men fail to express themselves when they are sober, they bottle up, hence they resort to alcohol to be more violent. Then those who grew up with abusive parents saw it as a norm and thus they are practicing it
I love you o mama mseleku mina i think you guys should have your own talk show .. televised .. it shows to me ingani akha nani nje on your relationship as sister wives ..
Mina nganishayelwa ukuthi asikwazi ukuthola abantwana.ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sathola ukuthi uye unenkinga kodwa ngisho esetholile akazange asho kubo wabayeka baqhubeka bacabanga ukuthi inking ikimi. Lento kshuthi yayimudla bese ekhiphela kimi konke ukucasuka kwakhe eskhundleni sokuhlala phansi sithole isixazululo, this went on for years ngaze ngakhetha ukuhamba ngoba ngase ngibona ukuthi ngizofela ubala.two years after I met a new man n we have a handsome baby boy.
Ngingamane ngibeyisahluleki, why do I have to tolerate into engilimazayo, abuse is abuse whether its physically, or verbal nor emotional. Hlukumezeke in the name of love.
Mina ngazi ukuthi umuntu okthandayo akakuzwisi ubhlungu kuzekuphindeke ngoba, as a lady pain it's a pain alibekezeleleki ukuhlukumezwa masingakwenzi isikho singabantu besfazane
Mamkhulu ngyazifela ngawe🥰MaK has so much to say kuba engathi uyabeqa abanye awubaniki ithuba ayke we don't blame you it's wisdom, kodwa take note on that ukuze sizokwazi ukuyilandela kahle into yenu nikhuluma nonke♥️
Ngiyafumelana noMakhumalo the background part before you get to marriage it's important cos whatever bad or good habits of family it follows you mina I have experienced that in my family
Hay akayeki qalile qalile iwas there abusive relationship for 7yrs ngithi zoshintsha u cc akusekona kumthanda useyamusaba not ngoba emuthanda I've been there engashiyeki ngizitshela kuthi ngyamthanda kanti ukwesaba u cc akabaleke ngezinyawo zombili
This is A sensitive issue ti me as A young guy because We Almost Lost my Mom due to that My Late Dad Stabbed Her Almost to Death towards that She ws hospitalised for Months We almost grew up withot A Mother she never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period that Devalued Her And Her state of Well being She suffered indeed in Her Marriage after the Hospital case dats wen she Was out of the Marriage " She never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period"
Sanibona makhosikazi ako Lwandle..... Mina I think umuntu Uma ekushaya akakuthandi nje tuuuu, and kungabanjani xaniza ne complainant le so that nizokwazi umane nibuza kuye ezinye questions bengibonisa bandla
I love you MaKhumalo❤❤the way she is and her energy is the best for me. MaMkhulu is the true definition of uMfazi or inkosikazi yomntu❤❤
MaKhumalo hlezi unolimi olwakhayo🔥🥰❤️
Always here for maKhumalo.♥️
Ubuhlakani obukuwe sisi.😇
Mayeni is so calm.. What a soul!
Mayeni is rude sometimes
She's rude nxa kufanele
@@euserbiamatadirappoppyt6130u sometimes wakho kuxa kumelee aberude if u see it as rudemna ndiyibona as standing up for herself ,akawumeli udoti nix
Makhumalo❤❤❤👌 so intelligent ❤❤😍😍Mzilikazi 🤗
Makhumalo ave ungibusisa sis wam 🙌❤️❤️😍🥰🔥
MaKuumalo I hear you madam...your words are from an intelligence women
Wathinta indaba enkulu maKhumalo:generational trends/genetic dispositions are major contributors to the manner inwhich Men treat their women emshadweni. Sometimes my background as a women also attracts me to a man with such background traits bese zitholana phezulu🤛🤜. This is so complex and painful, bcos as you said it's recurring. Siyabonga kwiGumbi, Mseleku Queens. Big Up!!
Muhle Mangwabe. Unomoya ophansi ❤️❤️
Mayeni & maNgwabe are my best though ngilithanda lonke ladies, unity and respect that's what I see and love from all you, Angazi lenzanjani lizwane kanje li share indoda, I salute you ladies, and loving you gals.
First of all your unity. Humbleness, indlela leninikana sikhatsi ngayo nakuphendvula lomunye I love it. I was in an abusive relationship for almost 15 years, ngangitsi wentiwa tjwala, ngoba nase a sober is a nice and caring men, emaphoyisa bese adziniwe agcina atsi sekatobopha mine nyalo, kulapho ngacala khona kuvuleka nekucabanga kutsi ngifune indlela yekuphuma but it was not easy ngokuyitjela ngiyathanda la angiyindawo, kwase kuta bhusha afuna kungicoba , ngasindza, wabuya ngelelinye lilanga washo watsi bengifuna kukwenta I mince meat namuhla ngabe bayangibuka bayangenyanya bantfu and no police case, kunzima langaphandle bomama julani kulendaba, nkulunkulu namadlozi can help to free yourself from abuse
Uhlakaniphile MaK😍
This is beautiful boomama bakwa Mseleku❤ Ma'K wethu omhle, Ma'Yeni ngomoya ophantsi, ma'Ngwabe ongayithathi noba ayiyo, awu Ndlunkul'uCele umqolo wooDuma😍🥰❤ Ma'K no Mhuntuza kodwa ninani🔥😍🥰❤
BIG UP TO YOU LADIES... MAYENI YOU ARE VERY CALM ....ALL I SEE HERE IS RESPECT
I love u mamkhulu all the way from Lesotho 🇱🇸
Mayeni, your Wisdom though i just love you
Mayeni your wisdom I see you
I loooove Mayeni and Mangwabe
Loving someone doesn't mean that they are good for you,sometimes it's best to love someone from a distance.
I love u bomake kakhulu... Ayikho nayinye nje intfo lekumele ihlalelwe ngumake loshaywako emshadweni... Make loshaywako u are enough just leave this man lokuhlukubetako.... Remember u are your own woman... U were before this man nd u will be after him.... Makhumalo I love you so so much...
Makhumalo hleeee
I love these ladies too much and Mayeni takes a cup
Ngangimncane ngina 23 esengilobola Sina bantwana ababili esejola Uma ngimbuza angishaye ngakhetha impilo yami okundlula loyo mendo ngabaleka nabantwana bami... Ngaphola ngazimela Kodwa indlela ingangihlukumezeke ngakhona isiphelile iminyaka eminingi Kodwa kusenzima ukuvula inhliziyo yami ngithande futhi
MaYeni MaKhumalo ❤❤❤
Oh ladies I love you so much the way eni humble ngayo,Indoda ezothola Mina izoba nenhlanhla ngoba I learned a lots from you all 🙏
Woow what a topic, I'm glad I went out to the toxic relationship it been 13yrs of marriage and I went out i don't blame myself this thing is so huge even children get affected it's not about us only
Makhumalo ❤️😊
GUYS mayeni is such an inspiration
Makhumalo uyakhona ukwakha sisi ungayeki sisi ubancende abanenkinga sifundalukhulu kuwe
MaKhumalo 🙌🙌🙌🙌
I love you mamkhulu ❤️❤️😍
Me too l really love her
T good to see u guys together ubudlelwane buzodlondlobala❤️
Noma kungaze kube nesizathu akusho ukuthi kumele aze akushaye ikhona indlela yokulungisa izinto for the fact that ukubeke isandla kumele ubheke ngenye indlela bese uqaphele ngobakungenzeka angagcini
Nginithandani nobayi 4 bakithi stylish woman's of Baba uMseleko nibahle sengathi ningavumeli usathane phakathi kwenu love u beautiful♥️
I pray that all women everywhere in the world will find strength from God to leave any kind of toxic relationship.
God bless💜.
I would love to add on the love part, in a relationship love alone is never enough and if you see women leaving long term relationships, its not cause they no longer love their partner. Sibashiya uthando lusavutha kakhulu ngoba basixakile.
Kwesinye iskhathi umuntu ukuhlukumeza ngoba esazi kakhulu ngawe ,wazi kahle ukuthi noma engakwenzani akekho ozokulwela.
Futhi akukho la uzoya khona that's why independent's is important
@@iamanafricanmashamase546 true
True
Sanibonani bomama mina ngiyanithanda nje mahala ❤❤do what you do best love the platforms of adressing women issues ..
MaYeni ❤️👌
Al of you Queens are so beautiful. The show is inspiring 🙏🙏
Inzima Indaba yokuhlukumezeka thanks bomama amazwi enu ayasakha
Ave ngimthanda uMamkhulu ❤
Yoh laze lamnandi igumbi look amakhosikazi lisinikeza I foundation e strong Keep it up bomama Siyabonga nangesizotha senu🙌👋
Ngthanda Makhumalo❤️
I concur with what Thobile and maYeni said about men who beat up wo men when they are drunk and those that have grew up in the eyes of abuse. Some men fail to express themselves when they are sober, they bottle up, hence they resort to alcohol to be more violent. Then those who grew up with abusive parents saw it as a norm and thus they are practicing it
Some men just want to feel superior in their own homes.
Mahle amakhosikazi kamseleku ❤️🌹
Mangwabe cela u Thobile Aku plake ngama weave
You have a good and inspiring content ladies , I love 💕 you maK ur thinking capacity is very smart
Makhumalo
Mmmm wow this show supposed to be on TV. Yafundisa kakhulu
Mayeni 🥰🙌
Into ebalulekile ukuthi uma ungena kurelationshp noma ngabe isemshadwen ubeke wena phambili noma Injabulo yakho phambili unganikeli ngawe ngenxa yothando
Love you MaYeni ❤️❤️❤️
Eish Makhumalo, yho i thought she was absent. Yhu cant keep quiet.
Ai Mawami Makhumalo unobuhlakani ngimthanda iscefe❤️
I love Mma Khumalo and Mma Yeni
I love you o mama mseleku mina i think you guys should have your own talk show .. televised .. it shows to me ingani akha nani nje on your relationship as sister wives ..
They are all beautiful. Wow...
This would absolutely be a hit show. the view but make it sister wives
Definitely would be a hit show, have them host different sister wives and get their views on relationships and marriages 👌🏾🙌🏾
Weeeee ngahamba ngangabheka emuva ngasengifile isbhaxu ngibekezela lapho njalo ungshayela ukth ubuya ezintombini zakhe zimphathise umphako kungonakele lu2o nje ngoth ngyaphendula nje sixoxa sengozwa ngesbhaxu nje ngishawelwan awu we bakwethu ngashiya bo
Siyabonga ukuthi ukhe the wena cc uphuma usaphila.
Mina nganishayelwa ukuthi asikwazi ukuthola abantwana.ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sathola ukuthi uye unenkinga kodwa ngisho esetholile akazange asho kubo wabayeka baqhubeka bacabanga ukuthi inking ikimi. Lento kshuthi yayimudla bese ekhiphela kimi konke ukucasuka kwakhe eskhundleni sokuhlala phansi sithole isixazululo, this went on for years ngaze ngakhetha ukuhamba ngoba ngase ngibona ukuthi ngizofela ubala.two years after I met a new man n we have a handsome baby boy.
So why didn't you get him arrested? Y'all always let these men get away with so much.
Ngingamane ngibeyisahluleki, why do I have to tolerate into engilimazayo, abuse is abuse whether its physically, or verbal nor emotional. Hlukumezeke in the name of love.
Mina ngazi ukuthi umuntu okthandayo akakuzwisi ubhlungu kuzekuphindeke ngoba, as a lady pain it's a pain alibekezeleleki ukuhlukumezwa masingakwenzi isikho singabantu besfazane
Mamkhulu ngyazifela ngawe🥰MaK has so much to say kuba engathi uyabeqa abanye awubaniki ithuba ayke we don't blame you it's wisdom, kodwa take note on that ukuze sizokwazi ukuyilandela kahle into yenu nikhuluma nonke♥️
Always and I wonder what is wrong with her
Niyalona uhleli labantu bakhuluma isizulu lemfundo yenu ayi angisho lutho umuntu ofuna ukwazi ngeke azi Ngoba vele luxoxwa ngesizulu Nina ke🤷
Mayeni is the best 👌❤
Mayeni mamkhulu😊😘😍
Nice intro MaYeni.🥰
Ngiyafumelana noMakhumalo the background part before you get to marriage it's important cos whatever bad or good habits of family it follows you mina I have experienced that in my family
bahle omama Mseleku bahlakaniphile bonke indlela abayphatha ngayo inkinga yomuntu iyakha ksala kuwe ukt ukhethan
Makhumalo uyitshaye ngqo
Mamkhulu Nkosi🔥❤️
MaKhumalo🥰❤
We need English subtitles please family..some of us don't understand 😢The topic sounds interesting
the show is for isizulu not mabhunu
@@mduduziMavundla7242 andihleki🤣🤣🤣
@@mduduziMavundla7242
but they have an international audiance
and it will make commercial sense ( more money)
so lovely .and beautiful
Mangwabe😍
Makhumaloh💞👌
Ngizithandela umaYeni nje no Makhumalo guys niyasakha nje nonke niyathandwa yithi
Yabona eyokubekezela ayisebenzi bagcina besibulala labantu wakushaya nje baleka ngenyawo zombili ungalindi ukuze akuphinde impilo iyodwa ayikho eyesibili
Into ebuhlungu ukuthi ngisho ungamuceba kubo bayamuvuna ngoba uye oletha isinkwa, usaba nokubuyela ekhaya ngoba awufuni ukubukeka njengesahluleki.
Molo mntase Makhumza❤️💐
Sanibonani zithandwa zami ave nginithanda yazina. Baqinisile bathi love is blind. Ngelinye ilanga lomlisa uzobubona ubu wrong bakhe
I love you Makhosi kazi.
Hay akayeki qalile qalile iwas there abusive relationship for 7yrs ngithi zoshintsha u cc akusekona kumthanda useyamusaba not ngoba emuthanda I've been there engashiyeki ngizitshela kuthi ngyamthanda kanti ukwesaba u cc akabaleke ngezinyawo zombili
Hhay uyakhetha uMseleku we bantu, mahle lamakhisikazi
This is A sensitive issue ti me as A young guy because We Almost Lost my Mom due to that My Late Dad Stabbed Her Almost to Death towards that She ws hospitalised for Months We almost grew up withot A Mother she never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period that Devalued Her And Her state of Well being She suffered indeed in Her Marriage after the Hospital case dats wen she Was out of the Marriage " She never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period"
I like to follow the wives from namibia but they don't use English more and I can't keep up cause I understand nothing.sad
Please add English subtitles 🇧🇼
home girl😀😘🇧🇼
Mayeni ❤️❤️❤️
Yhoooo bomama nayithinta lendaba mna ndoyika nokungena emendweni ngoba iyajika indoda ibeyinto ongayazi sekuphakathi
MaNgwabe😍
Mayeni girl I love
Mayeni 👑
Sanibona kwaMseleku , eyokushaywa cha bantu besifazane awusiyo inja yakhe azohlezi ishaywa,colleague wami wafa edutshulwe boyfriend ehlezi kwi abuse relationship
So interesting 🤔
KODWA Mayeni 🥰 mft
There is no love in being abused women out there start loving yourself and stop thinking that your love is around a man. Only God loves you
Woow ❤️ ❤️ MA K
Kodwa ke yona indoda ingona itshaywa ngubani ?
Umfazi a ngaphongu tshaywa angazi yingani ? Hayibo akulungile lokho
Love you all my beautiful sisters ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hawu yaqamuka ivideo isengakapheli lendaba, sicela ichubeke boMseleku, ngiyanithanda nonke makhosikazi aMseleku nami ngiyafisa ukuganwa noma sengehluleka ngokuthi bamane babe babili nje kuphela
Makhumalos wisdom 👏
Macele Mamkhulu I love you girl ❤️
Love her too❤
Nitholakala kuph umuntu uma efuna ukubhala?
Sanibona makhosikazi ako Lwandle..... Mina I think umuntu Uma ekushaya akakuthandi nje tuuuu, and kungabanjani xaniza ne complainant le so that nizokwazi umane nibuza kuye ezinye questions bengibonisa bandla
Thanks ladies niyasivula amehlo ninobuhlakani