This is one of the three things that no woman should ever joke about with her man. Ever. Simply giving voice to that idea gives it life in his mind and soul. He heard you say that if you were clever enough you could and would actually cheat on him. He can never unhear it.
The smart husband would have asked for your phone as soon as you got home from the party. The OP here evidently doesn’t respect her husband or their marriage. It sounds like her husband has a gut feeling about the OP and the “joke” was the final straw.
Guess you need to think before saying something as stupid as cheating on your husband. That’s a big red flag. Means you actually thought about it. Contemplating how to do it. Watch what you say. Shows you were actually thinking about cheating. Watch how you hurt your husband. Stay single men!!!
Words have power, careless remarks without consideration of their impact on who they're directed at is not forgivable or tolerated. There's no fixing stupid, disrespect husband and live without him. Good job on being an idiot.
I would never cheat , really ?! I just need to drink more next time so I can blame you and the alcohol , I can explain , it was a mistake , it was only sex , it didn't mean anything , we can fix this ; I'll cook your favorite meals , we can go to therapy tomorrow .......
Every joke, even the stupidest one, carries a grain of truth. She may not have cheated yet, but the idea of the cheating certainly flashed through her mind a few times, and so the thought was planted already there, it just lay there in her head, thrown somewhere on the floor, in a corner of her mind, and the lightness of amusement and fun only lifted this thought from the ground like the wind rustling a leafs and pull it out as a stupid, inconsiderate, insensitive offensive joke. It's not for nothing that they say: think twice before you speak. But even so, it seems to me that this reaction was a little a bit over the line, i guess, after inicial impact he should slowly downplay the drama because the message about his opinion on the cheating and possible consequences was delivered with 100% certainty.
The moral of this story: Women never know when to shut up.
How does one joke about cheating? She just spoke her heart and future intentions
This is one of the three things that no woman should ever joke about with her man. Ever. Simply giving voice to that idea gives it life in his mind and soul. He heard you say that if you were clever enough you could and would actually cheat on him. He can never unhear it.
So funny talking about how to sneak away for a weekend and get away with cheating on your spouse. Just hilarious.
That wasn't a joke, and it definitely wasn't innocent. Why would you ever think that comment was okay?
The truth hurts, shes cheating, shes been doing what she said, he knows the truth and hes done. Hes a King.
This is something most men take very seriously....and the smart ones leave NEVER TO RETURN....
The smart husband would have asked for your phone as soon as you got home from the party. The OP here evidently doesn’t respect her husband or their marriage. It sounds like her husband has a gut feeling about the OP and the “joke” was the final straw.
She is a cheater. tested the waters with a "joke". no one makes a joke about cheating unless they are already cheating or will be cheating.
Guess you need to think before saying something as stupid as cheating on your husband. That’s a big red flag. Means you actually thought about it. Contemplating how to do it. Watch what you say. Shows you were actually thinking about cheating. Watch how you hurt your husband. Stay single men!!!
Words have power, careless remarks without consideration of their impact on who they're directed at is not forgivable or tolerated. There's no fixing stupid, disrespect husband and live without him. Good job on being an idiot.
She claimed to never have even thought about cheating after announcing details of how she would go about it ... Yeah Right !
Gotta be something else. That comment doesn't have that reaction on its own. If it does, she's well shot of him
The weak one is him, no trust and what trust there was shattered wayyyy to easily…his fault not hers
I would never cheat , really ?! I just need to drink more next time so I can blame you and the alcohol , I can explain , it was a mistake , it was only sex , it didn't mean anything , we can fix this ; I'll cook your favorite meals , we can go to therapy tomorrow .......
So called jokes like that are emotional abuse.... IMO
Every joke, even the stupidest one, carries a grain of truth. She may not have cheated yet, but the idea of the cheating certainly flashed through her mind a few times, and so the thought was planted already there, it just lay there in her head, thrown somewhere on the floor, in a corner of her mind, and the lightness of amusement and fun only lifted this thought from the ground like the wind rustling a leafs and pull it out as a stupid, inconsiderate, insensitive offensive joke. It's not for nothing that they say: think twice before you speak. But even so, it seems to me that this reaction was a little a bit over the line, i guess, after inicial impact he should slowly downplay the drama because the message about his opinion on the cheating and possible consequences was delivered with 100% certainty.
Another little sensitive boy
Agreed, a complete overreaction. Her husband is too immature to be married.