Well because is someone who was looking to kidnap/r*pe/rob/etc, their more likely to try somewhere that woman are living in. If they see high heels vs dirty workboots outside a door, their probably going to go for the house with the heels outside of it.
Lmao she was so casual about that first one “soooo I got this super cute pink torch of amazon, I love the colour, and oh yeah it’s also a fricking tazer”
Edit: This was from 2 years ago, perfume is NOT enough. PAVA works better, but if you can't afford anything like PAVA or pepper spray. *Hornet/wasp spray, carburetor cleaner, or break cleaner* are WAY better alternatives than perfume. That's not to say perfume won't completely work, it can depending on the brand, and quantity. Perfume is enough, always bring it around you. When needed spray it in attackers eyes.
Such an entitled privilaged mindset. You cant imagine what its like to be a man. Women have the luxury of having men sacrifice their safety as disposable protectors of women
@@anitabonghit2758 So even if that was true about "men being the protectors" you think men should be able to use women like objects? That women deserve to be treated like pieces of meat? That we don't deserve to have respect or feel safe when we are alone? I'm an advocate for all gender equality. I don't think men are superior or women are superior. In the end we are both people, people who struggle in different varieties of life but also share similar struggles and societal standards that connect us and don't make us that different from each other. I understand that the motive you come from is one of narrow-minded beliefs and I don't blame you because most beliefs stem from propaganda or the environment you grow around. It's not fair, both are unfair, not a woman's life or man's life have more or less worth. However, it seems there is inequality that comes talking in terms of human decency. Without the standards, without the roles, women and men are just people at the end of the day and it is unfair that women are being stripped of human decency and respect, something that every person no matter gender should have, that they have to go about everyday fearing rape, being targeted, or kidnapped when walking alone or being out at night
@@justmyopinion4409 no. Men dont use women as objects. And me objecting to the objectification of men as womens disposable meat shields by women or women erroniously assuming a mans lived experience (the actual victims of societal violence), does not equate to me thinking women should be objectified. You dishonest feminist cultist
@@anitabonghit2758 I didn't say shit about being a feminist. Stop assuming that every person that doesn't agree with your mindset is some feminazi you stereotypical misogynist prick
@@HanaNa-vd4pj Im sorry. Its really disgusting feeling and If the stalker is someone you know, I heard that it's worse than someone random on the street. I hope you are doing well now.
I’m deleting this comment later I think... One time I was in the mall with my mom and dad, and I had gotten lost and I went to the jewelry store to ask the man that worked there if they could call my parents and tell them I was waiting at the store for them because I got lost. While I waited, a man tried to grab me and after my parents found me, I told them what had happened. We went to a mall a few miles away from the first mall and I saw him again. I’m still traumatized. Keep in mind, I was six when that happened. This was so many years ago, but I still have thoughts of it happening to me again...
The flashlight teaser will be very handful for me I am a trans girl and in my country there’s been a lot of people going missing specially GIRLS and teenagers so that flashlight will b very helpful if someone tries to kidnap me 🤧and also men are killing trans women here so if you live in Puerto Rico pls be careful babes.
I am so sorry i have heard it's pretty bad, stay safe girl. I would recommend you buying something more, not only the teaser, just in case you have to defend yourself from a group
I wish Canada would allow self defense weapons! It’s illegal to own a pocket knife/taser/etc. you can’t use anything for self defense legally, it’s scary.
Replace the pepper spray with a small travel sized can of hairspray. And instead of a knife, use a fork, seriously you might think it's stupid but it can still taken your attackers eye out!
Yep Travelling Witch, great ideas thanks. Last time I looked, carrying official self-def stuff is also illegal here in Australia so instead, I carry: a letter opener - a very strong, sharp plastic one so no prob's at airports (...will we ever go overseas again? Just realised I miss going through the security gates! 😆); a small can of either Tea-tree Oil spray or insect repellent, both of which sting like crazy in the eyes and are momentarily blinding...there's heaps of substitutes when you start thinking about it. Good luck with putting your unofficial self defense kit together! 😎
I love cute self defence items. Like no one expects a pink flashlight to be a tazer or a pastel blue fidget toy to have an extremely loud personal alarm.
Carry a notebook with weird gibberish words on the cover and weird random symbols so if a creepy sus guy follows you get the notebook and pretend to say latin-ish words,stare at his soul like your saying spells and BRING A KNIFE. Try to say “alohomora,rictumsempra” or “sectumsempra” BUT MAKE SURE HE DOESNT KNOW THE MEANING THOSE WORDS. Try to act psycho or go nuts .DO NOT CARE ABOUT WHAT SITUATION OR EVENT ARE YOU IN
@@Sunflowerramune haha I carry a notebook full of Minecraft enderman language. If I don't want to talk to someone I'll just mutter gibberish to myself, pretending to read it.
Nothings has actually happened to me before, but I used to walk home from school and was suuuuuuper paranoid, I have some pretty good tips tho: -if you’re on the side walk and you start to see a sus car/van slow down or somthing, casually speed up/slow down and stay behind a parked car next to the sidewalk(you don’t necessarily have to hide, just continue walking there) it makes it a lot less convient for them to pull over and talk to you, plus you have that extra car as a barrier - I used to have a lunchbox with a metal water bottle in it which I would carry, so whenever I had to walk past someone I thought was sus, I would switch the hand hold the lunchbox to the one closest to where I would pass the person, It would make it easier to hit them with it and I knew it would’ve hurt bc my metal water bottle -act and walk very confidently, predators/creeps/whatever else can be more drawn to girls that looks shy or submissive(ew that word is gross but you know what I mean), hold you head high!
I used to walk from my school to my sibling's school to get picked up by my mom and she always told me to never walk close to the road, always stay on the "inside" part of the sidewalk. She also told me to stay by a group of other students who were also walking (I usually just walked a few feet behind people) because it's harder to take someone when there are people around. (My school wasn't in a bad area but it's better to be safe than sorry)
If I feel someone behind me I laugh like I've remembered something funny and I start skipping quickly. If the person/car speeds up, I get my weapons and alarm sorted out (they're disguised so I can take them to school) and run.
I was walking to my grandpa's house this morning with my older sister (we are both girls) and we walked past about 2 men and 1 kinda sus car but they just drove/walked past idk of it's different in England where I am.
Additionally, in some places carrying pepperspray is against the rules/law, so if you are allowed too, hairspray also works. I have accidentally sprayed myself in the face with it before, it really hurts. (if it's non-natural and/or scented, it hurts Waaaay more)
I woke up at 2:30 am and started crying because of a dream I had about being kidnapped. And I’m still crying. Just the fact that I’m only 14 yrs old says enough.
Ok so once when I was like 17 or 18 I was out in a store and I see a guy following me inside the store so I bought a knife not a big one but a small and sharp one without him seeing and I was in the counter to pay may money and thank God that there was a lady I said her that a guy is following me from the streets into the store she saw a knife in my stuff and she said "you can open the knife for self-defense it is free for you" and she added "don't go straight to your house head on to another place" and I said " thankyou ma'am" and headed out just like she said I turned away from my house and the guy suddenly became faster and was like trying to catch me I heald the knife in my hands inside my heart it was like "just do or die" so I kept walking and kept calm and i pretended to tie my shoe laces that guy was about to grab me I cut his ankel and punched his balls and ran..... I felt a sudden guilt and the guy was in pain and I went upto him he said "run" and he weakly stood up and kicked someone behind me I was shocked and I cut the another guy's ankel too and I helped the first guy up and took him to the hospital..... Turns out that guy saw me being followed by a creepy guy and followed me into the store and tried to protect me and he said "you walked so fast I tried to catch up to you because the guy was across the street and when you were about to tie your laces I was gonna tell you but you just cut my ankel" I was so sorry for him I paid his hospital bills and thanked him for it and what happens to the other guy he is in jail maybe.... Moral of the story - no one can be a creepy follower😑 but GuRl be safe and just be sus about everyone 🙂.....
Ikr the guilt that we face by accusing someone wrong mistakenly but it is our safety so,mistakes might happen.but it is so nice of you to take him to the hospital and help him.i wish that laws were stricter for women in my country too . Something like this hapenned to me also.it was 1 year ago,i was in 8th grade my mom and i used to go to my brother's schl to pick him up after my mom picked me like always and i didn't knew but my mom noticed that a man was following us for the las 1 week or so.then one day,my mom noted his bike's no.but he didn't even stopped there.she told me about him by then,then 2 days later he came again so,my mom stopped the rickshaw (the taxi we were in)and walked up to him and grabbed him by his collar and by the time i reached his bike i saw him shaking in fear.
Anyone got any advice for if they grab your elbow, like I was in this situation last week and I literally resorted to putting my cigarette out on their hand but I just need other options
if they grab your elbow from the front, thumb their eyes with the other hand, if they grab both your elbows from front, headbutt them/ knee them in the balls if they grab one of your elbows from behind, elbow their stomach with the free arm / stomp on their foot if they grab both your elbows from behind headbutt them, just swing your head back, they'll let one of their arm go to nurse their pain so at that time you can elbow them back and run
@@seth9577 don't worry, height doesn't always matter, a short woman can take down a muscular man if she practices, you need to be ready for these situations. I'm not a pro but you should definitely check out self defence techniques!
I've been watching a lot of these, and I love how people take time out of their day to protect other people.. and then more people make compilations out of them to make more people feel safe! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
I told my mom that I’d feel more comfortable with a taser made or a knife and she said no and I thought it was dumb cause I used to walk from school to my friends house and my friend lives kinda far from my school so
U can make a pepper spray 1 empty spray can Mix pepper; water and vineger pour it into the empty bottle n your pepper spray is ready and you can also you nail filer as knife(some of them are sharp). Hope this might help you☺
Omg if I was your friend irl I would but you one!! My mom won't let me have a taser but I asked my dad and he gave me his foldable pocket knife since I almost got kidnapped twice Not to mention I'm just 12
Y'all know the "who are you I'm from anchent grease" that's me now with all of my defense moves *Person walks by* *Me ready to punch whoever gets close*: *W H O A R E Y O U I M F R O M A N C H E N T G R E A S E*
Tip: if you’re walking alone, ALWAYS be checking your surroundings especially look behind you constantly. Storytime: I was walking alone to my car after my college class (it was dark). I saw a teenage guy on his skateboard who was far away but he caught up to me. I heard his skateboard come closer and closer towards my direction (he was behind me) and I kept walking to the side to leave room for him to pass but i heard the wheels of his skateboard coming directly to me. I wanted to turn to see what he was doing but I was paralyzed from fear and that’s when he passes me as he shoves his hand down my ass and quickly skates away. Since then i check behind me and if there is a man/guy I stop abruptly and turn and wait until he passes me because I rather walk behind them
I don’t know if it’s because of the anniversary of my past trauma or because of our world and the current state we’re living in, but has anyone else recently started just binging these types of videos ? Like, I’ve always had anxiety about safety, but again, I have trauma. But lately, it’s not the same kind of fear. It’s not fear of what *has* happened to me reoccurring. It’s the fear of what *hasn’t* happened and *could* happen. I am used to having fear about specific things. But now, I have this fear of even leaving my house sometimes. Just yesterday, the cops came to deal with a domestic abuse report a few houses away from me. My sister lived next to people who were arrested for kidnapping a kid. There have been countless amber alerts and missing people reports in my city. I just want to be able to leave my house and feel safe. But it seems like everyday, I just feel more and more anxious and I feel like it’s getting more dangerous to leave my house. I never had a fear just because I was born a woman. How is it that it’s becoming potentially deadly just because of gender? Our world is going downhill fast and no one seems to want to fix it other than women and a select amount of men who see that things are not ok. The amount of questions that run through our heads about our safety should be 0. These are just a few that I know several women- if not all women- ask themselves. Why do we have to protest for rights we should’ve had already? Why do we have to check under our cars before we get in them? Why do we have to carry mace and knives and alarms just to go on a run or go shopping? Why do we have to feel afraid to go out alone? Why is it so common for us to get raped, abused, drugged and assaulted that it’s made us used to be constantly be tense and alert? Why do we get hate for things we didn’t do? Why do we get shamed for speaking out? Why are we told to stop showing the world that we aren’t safe? Why are survivors blamed for something they had no control over? *Why are we being forced to live in a world where so many people want us to be submissive, quiet, obedient, and be put down instead of lifted up?* What happened to the world when we were kids? When parents and teachers would tell everyone- girls and boys- that we could be anything we wanted to be? That we were going to change the world and make it an amazing place? That we were going to grow up in a safe, happy, and beautiful world? Now look at us. The women are teens and adults living in a dangerous world where we have very little control over our own lives. And the men? They live in the world we were all promised. They are safer than us. They have more control over things. They have the power to be who they want without fighting for it as much as we do. It’s pathetic that women were never given the world we were told we would get. It’s pathetic that we got the exact opposite of what we were told. I refuse to live in this world. We need to do better. We need to *be* better. Because if we don’t, what’s gonna happen to the next generation? Are we gonna go back in time to when women were baby-makers and stayed in the kitchen and didn’t work? Because if we are, I’m never having kids. I refuse to have kids if I’d be forcing them to live in that world. If I’d be forcing them to be taught that men are superior to women. If you don’t like what I’m saying, then you don’t understand or don’t want to accept that our lives are not what they should be.
Your feelings and worries are valid. If we were born equally into this world there would be no hate. But every time you are afraid remember that you are not alone. Women need to protect and support each other because we really don't have anyone else. I hope that you will always be safe.
I was just gonna comment on that....gurl! you know I should be watching anime knowing the world is the best place for everyone but, unfortunately, it isn't. Sometimes it's just depressing when I watch stuff specifically about women's safety.
The fact that me, a middle schooler, has to look this video up because my school starts so early that it’s dark out and I have to walk ten minutes alone in the dark to my bus stop is disgusting.
Ikr my mum found one of thoes alarms in an old dusty box and she pulled it and it nearly turned me deaf and I was like 10 foot away putting the alarm in someone's ear would definitely blow their eardrums.
Me, a dude: these can come in handy for me, my girlfriend and maybe future children *Watches every video of these I can find to make sure we're all protected and so I can protect strangers who seem like they're in trouble*
Ladies, keep bright lipstick or marker in your pocket or purse at all times. If you think someone is following you, you turn around, look them dead in the eye and start just drawing all over your face. If they were following you and gonna try something, they'll think you're crazy and leave you alone. Stay safe out there sisters.
@@lavenderfields. Lipstick isn't. Neither is washable marker. and sure now you have to walk around with it but I'd rather get some weird looks for a bit till I can get to the bathroom than get snatched.
Just having a bigger dog (medium sized is fine to) just with you also will scare off and will make you less on an easy target. I have a mini Aussie he's a smaller type dog but with creepy people or animals he'll start barking and ludging a bit. Once had this one drunk guy following me and I never felt more happy to have a dog that isn't overly socialized.
I have a small dog but his bark sounds like a big dog. Him barking in my garden and some scuffed, muddy size 10 workboots by the door is enough to keep the murderers away.
Yup, and if that doesn't work, just get one with a *big bark.* Doesn't matter what breed, just one with a big, loud bark. Attackers/kidnappers, etc. are more likely to run away if you have a dog with a big, loud bark than one with a small, quiet one. It can even be one of those ankle-biter dogs, as long as they have a big, loud bark. If you don't have a dog, what I'd do is just go on a iPad or phone and search for dog noises and play it. That way anyone nearby in the dark will think you have a dog and won't attack you. I actually was terrified of dogs when I was little, but now I like dogs. My great aunt actually has a dog and she has a very loud and big bark. She may look intimidating and scary, but she's actually a really nice dog. Stay safe ladies
Okay, so I've never been in a situation before, but I had this brilliant idea, what if people carry two bottles of pepper spray?? One in your purse and one in your pocket, so when you reach for the one in your purse and they take it, you just grab the one in your pocket and voila, you are unstuck :)
I have a weaponised squishie that my brother made me. Has a hidden knife blade and concealed mace. If the person attacking me manages to get my bag with my pepper spray keychain, I have a backup in my hand.
@@Moo-2310 id be careful with that, and make sure concealed carrying a knife is legal where you're at, cause if its not and if for any reason you're searched by police you would probably get a charge, cause i know where im at at least, the only knife i can conceal is a folding knife, i legally have to wear my fixed blade knife in its sheath and worn openly so people can see it
One thing I use to keep myself safe is singing, now before you think “oh well singing might make you happy but it won’t make you safe” let me explain. I love walking around at night. I find it calming. And I sing because the truth is, people will respond faster to someone going from singing to screaming then from silence to screaming. If for whatever reason you don’t want to sing, u can do this; if someone is following you or stalking you; go crazy I’m talking straight out of a psycho ward/mental facility I’m talking crab walking while screaming the abcs to the tune of living on a prayer I swear the weirdo will freak out. Another thing you can do is fake a phone call. If this is happening during or after corona you can use this Talk about random stuff like a movie or something. If you have no idea what to talk about talk about gift ideas for a friend’s birthday. Being on a phone call will make you seem like you’re not alone Or you can say “no I haven’t gotten my test results for the coronavirus.” If this is happening after COVID say this instead; “No I haven’t gotten my test results for the phidomi virus. Did you know it’s supposed to be the next coronavirus?” The stalker won’t want whatever you have.
i went to a pool awhile back with my friend and she said there were people looking at us weird. i'm 12 btw and wayyyyy to paranoid so im watching alot of these
A really good tip is to check your local county laws on concealed weapons and what is legal and illegal to carry on your person. Where i am it is illegal to cary a knife over 2 inches and you need a conceal and carry license to have a tazer out side of your home. A lot of these videos look cool but some of these gadgets can get you in serious trouble.
Back before quarantine, I would usually walk from my apartment to the bus stop every morning for school, and luckily nothing bad has happened so far but I would always get a little paranoid during the winter when it was still dark out when I had to walk
This is very helpful because I’m a 10 year old who’s always on my way to school being followed by 3 men and I told my mum she’s not allowing me to go anymore but I’m trying to show her I can defend myself since I’m going to secondary school next year
Not meaning to scare you, but you CANNOT defend yourself against a grown man. These gadgets are nothing more than toys and a last resort. You will most likely never get into real danger. But don't let those videos or gadgets give you a false sense of security. Avoiding dangerous situations is always the best thing so listen to your mum XD
Ive been watching these for awhile, i find all the safety items super handy as a male rape victim, maybe they'll help me get over my fear of going outside alone or working night shifts :D
Maybe men would shut up if they knew the shit the women in their lives have been through 🙄 Edit: I'm a feminist too, I believe in fighting for men's rights as well and I think the way we treat men in this country regarding mental health, child custody etc is disgusting. However, men still have it easier in today's society because there was never a period in time where women were treated better or even equally to men. Wow, we can vote, that's like the bare minimum in an actual democracy. Now how about you actually teach men not to rape instead of pushing ideas that make women the one at fault for their own assault. How about you stop teaching *five year old girls* to not wear tank tops because it's "distracting" and instead tell those five year old boys that being mean to his school yard crush is bad so he doesn't grow up thinking that treating someone you love like shit is normal. Also, just wanted to tack this on at the end, some of y'all sound like pick me girls and it's embarrassing. Stop.
Something Mischievous I’m a girl. I’m 16. And I advocate for men. If men try to advocate for themselves, people like you will say “you wouldn’t last one day in our shoes.” Oh yeah? You wouldn’t last in their shoes either.
I’ve been using personal alarms since my mom bought me my first one over TEN YEARS AGO when I was TWELVE. My family is mostly women so teaching self protection/defense is always a priority basically from birth. What a world we live in that a literal child has to learn and do these things just to stay alive.
In my whole 20 years of living I never thought of investing into these safety keychain, until one day I went to the grocery store to pick up medicine for my grandparents. A random old man walk passed me and gave me a double stare and even cat called me. Of course I ignored him and kept my guard up. Then, I went to the pharmacist and he literally stood right behind me like I could feel his breath breathing down my back. Thankfully there was another customer right behind him so he had to go away. However, he went to hide in another aisle to stalk me! His face still scare me to this day. Anyway, I saw there was a cane being sold so I grabbed it as a defense tool. Next thing I know he tried to quickly grab me, but I immediately backed away and swung the cane and threaten him to leave me alone. So yeah, safety keychains are a must have.
Also...if you can see ANYONE around you, be specific and address them directly. Instead of “help help! Someone!” Try something like “You, in the blue hat! Please help me! Call the cops!”
PSA: It's illegal to attack anyone with any item EVEN if you're being physically assaulted in Canada. Warning out to my Canadian friends. Don't bother trying to get most of these tools and focus on getting alarms and or the seat belt/window breaker. Also learn the self defense moves. Or else you'll just get attacked and land in jail. p.s. Instead of trying to get pepper spray which is illegal in Canada to carry unless you're in an area with known bear populations. (AND if you get caught with that mace outside of a forest your done) Anyways!! My point is... Pick up a mini bottle of hair spray. Use it as pepper spray. Its undetectable as a weapon once used it's not a suspicious thing to carry. Hope this helps!
It’s sad we live in a world like this 😔 It’s also sad that us women have to defend ourselves from men in many different ways As a girl myself I’m scared for my future. I’m only 14 but I understand what women go through I hope if I ever have a daughter in the future I’ll teach her how to defend herself and if I have a son I’ll educate him too ❤️❤️ To all women, don’t let yourself be used or hurt by anyone else especially men We are strong humans and we need to work together to keep each other safe ❤️❤️❤️ Come on ladies let’s show what we’re made of! ✨❤️✌️
Exactly, alot of these videos upset me cause there not adressing the different levels of legality, hidden blades are one of the biggest no nos where im at, it makes me so upset to see people talking about comb knives, key knives,and lipstick knives, because i could see a young women purchasing one online, and catching a charge because she "saw it on tiktok" people need to know how to protect themselves legally everywhere
We need to be taught about this in school. Because many people don't know how to defend themselves when it comes to something like this most of the time.
I’ve had an unconditional from my 1st choice uni, and the course is just perfect for me...but it’s just in a really high crime-rate city...people literally stand outside of student halls waiting to mug you from what some alumni have said. It scares me a lot but I’m in love with the course and it’s a Russel group uni, so I’m very torn. I’m not confident in self defence and I can’t afford replacement items such as laptops and phones... definitely getting pepper spray and a taser 😂
What a sad world 🌎we have 😔 we cant even go out side 😐 without knowing or needing these😖 it is so sad 😭 women are not "things" we are people😭 pls don't useeee us we are people 😭😔😔 why cant we simply go outside Ty for posting this thank you 😁 💓 alot
To loosely learn some good ways to defend yourself especially if your frail in particular is read "weak hero". It a web comic. It shows and almost teaches the weak points of a person and if your weak yourself how to use most of your body. Also it REALLY good read in general.
Great video! Have you ever done martial arts? I'm doing Krav Maga and found that when my male partner is wearing a cup, groin kicks don't seem to work very well. Do you have any experience practicing on a guy wearing a cup?
@@thot_patrol3007 not every move works even if it does you need some strength to do this 200 pound guy on you choking you your already tired from struggling low on air your not gonna rip his hands of your inch wide twig wrist
i watch these cause i’m a young girl and me and my best friend a lot of times roam stores by ourselves, or other things and i’ve been followed by a man before. also there was a shooting at my school yesterday so i like having safety things, and my dad is a retired cop
@X̲x̲x̲ Kingxx well, shouldn't it be that you're the one offended by the original comment. At least more than 90% times, this is for women to be safe from men. I don't think anyone of us fear women while walking on the road
Even though I'm in a super safe area I have insane trust issues so it takes me awhile for me to trust someone so I'm always scared so this is extremely helpful but hopefully I never have to use these
It's actually disgusting that us women need to carry self defence to protect ourselves against these slobs who have NO RIGHT to even think that they have permission to even breathe the same air as us, disgusting.
I got to an all girl school and let me tell you the amount of kidnapping attempts are CRAZY HIGH like around November girls could not go with public transport because this dude tried kidnapping a year 10 and Arg the amount if times I got catcalled for SITTING IMGSHSHDH
If someone ever is grabbing me trying to choke me or something I probably won't be able to get away unless someone helps me because I look like a stick. Or if I have pepperspray or a tazer or something.
Unfortunately I'm underage to have mace and a taser in my state (California). Do you guys happen to know any good hairspray brands that I can use to replace?
The tool that is a flashlight and taser is so smart not bc it’s 2-in-1 but bc it only looks like a flashlight. It’s not shaped like a taser so nobody is suspicious I love that
Wish I have tge loud keychain thingy when I got touched in my own house in the middle of night and couldn't scream because I was speechless and scared (cuz it's by someone I should trust do it). But alas, even if my family knew, they just said boys will be boys :')
I have the key knife too! My mum gave it to me last year when I started walking to school by myself. She's had it since she was a teenager too and she told me her first boyfriend gave it to her. I also have a small pocket flashlight that has a really strong light so it momentarily blinds someone if I shine it straight at them.
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an alarm: from mom
A mace: from mom
A VERY SHARP KNIFE: from dad
Yeah my dad gave me his foldable pocket knife cause I told him me and my friend are literally chased by a middle aged man when we were in 6th grade
@Unknown Hooman yeah
@@Mirabri thats kreepy
@Isobella Wisniewski I want a folded knife 😭
Yeah my mom got me mace to keep in my backpack cuz I walk home from school but now I carry it in my purse for safety when I walk away from my mom
Ladies!
Never leave anything feminine on the outside of your house, or in your car. Trust me.
I got a bunch of things in my car and on my front porch that would make people think I’m a guy, bunch of ‘male’ clothes sitting on the passengers seat
Why??
Well because is someone who was looking to kidnap/r*pe/rob/etc, their more likely to try somewhere that woman are living in. If they see high heels vs dirty workboots outside a door, their probably going to go for the house with the heels outside of it.
¡ᒷᔑꖌ𒈙𒐫꧍𒈙𒐫¡ᒷᔑꖌ𒈙꧄𒈙I𒈙𒈙ꧥ𒈙L𒈙ᔑ𒈙𒈙ꦼ𒈙ᓵ𒈙O𒈙ᔑ𒈙ד𒈙ⶡ𒈙ד𒈙ꡳA𒈙Ⱐ you're not gonna have your heels when your home is invaded 😳
Buy some huge ass work boots and get them muddy and scuffed. Leave them outside and people will assume you're a buff guy.
Lmao she was so casual about that first one “soooo I got this super cute pink torch of amazon, I love the colour, and oh yeah it’s also a fricking tazer”
Yeah, because it is casual to have those these days. Women and just girls in general are in fear. I am so scared and I think of the worst situations.
@@losthpe2995 and the world still thinks we all have equal rights.
My sister told me once to carry pepper spray, I was TEN. It’s sad the kids had to know this
@@GreatRunas its really sad that this is so casual to keep theses's thing on you because you think you can get kidnapped😓
Yeah I think we heard that in the video..
My paranoid self needs these
same I already have pepper spray
@@beautybabes3208 I have nothing ;-;
Beautybabes I have a pocket knife
Edit: This was from 2 years ago, perfume is NOT enough. PAVA works better, but if you can't afford anything like PAVA or pepper spray. *Hornet/wasp spray, carburetor cleaner, or break cleaner* are WAY better alternatives than perfume. That's not to say perfume won't completely work, it can depending on the brand, and quantity.
Perfume is enough, always bring it around you. When needed spray it in attackers eyes.
I have my shoutgun.But I can't always have it.So I have my another weapons
What a sad world we live in😔we shouldn't have to be learning all these things so that we can simply go outside
Thanks for sharing these ❤
Such an entitled privilaged mindset.
You cant imagine what its like to be a man.
Women have the luxury of having men sacrifice their safety as disposable protectors of women
@@anitabonghit2758 Oof, my brain cells have been reduced to one just by reading that comment.
@@anitabonghit2758 So even if that was true about "men being the protectors" you think men should be able to use women like objects? That women deserve to be treated like pieces of meat? That we don't deserve to have respect or feel safe when we are alone? I'm an advocate for all gender equality. I don't think men are superior or women are superior. In the end we are both people, people who struggle in different varieties of life but also share similar struggles and societal standards that connect us and don't make us that different from each other. I understand that the motive you come from is one of narrow-minded beliefs and I don't blame you because most beliefs stem from propaganda or the environment you grow around. It's not fair, both are unfair, not a woman's life or man's life have more or less worth. However, it seems there is inequality that comes talking in terms of human decency. Without the standards, without the roles, women and men are just people at the end of the day and it is unfair that women are being stripped of human decency and respect, something that every person no matter gender should have, that they have to go about everyday fearing rape, being targeted, or kidnapped when walking alone or being out at night
@@justmyopinion4409 no. Men dont use women as objects. And me objecting to the objectification of men as womens disposable meat shields by women or women erroniously assuming a mans lived experience (the actual victims of societal violence), does not equate to me thinking women should be objectified. You dishonest feminist cultist
@@anitabonghit2758 I didn't say shit about being a feminist. Stop assuming that every person that doesn't agree with your mindset is some feminazi you stereotypical misogynist prick
I need those in case If I got stalked again by a fat tall creepy middle age man and actually got attacked
@@HanaNa-vd4pj I got stalked twice first time I was alone, second time I was with my friend lol
Ughh same around where I live there's a guy chasing kids I'm not a kid but I'm just over 4,10 so lucky me has to be extra cautious.
@@HanaNa-vd4pj Im sorry. Its really disgusting feeling and If the stalker is someone you know, I heard that it's worse than someone random on the street. I hope you are doing well now.
I’m deleting this comment later I think...
One time I was in the mall with my mom and dad, and I had gotten lost and I went to the jewelry store to ask the man that worked there if they could call my parents and tell them I was waiting at the store for them because I got lost. While I waited, a man tried to grab me and after my parents found me, I told them what had happened. We went to a mall a few miles away from the first mall and I saw him again. I’m still traumatized. Keep in mind, I was six when that happened. This was so many years ago, but I still have thoughts of it happening to me again...
@@m6x9l4 you don't have to delete this...
The flashlight teaser will be very handful for me
I am a trans girl and in my country there’s been a lot of people going missing specially GIRLS and teenagers so that flashlight will b very helpful if someone tries to kidnap me 🤧and also men are killing trans women here so if you live in Puerto Rico pls be careful babes.
I would use when im older and walking in a alley way to make sure i don't get attacked or raped or kidnapped
Omg that is so scary I hope u stay safe (u sound like a very kind person tho for real)
I am so sorry i have heard it's pretty bad, stay safe girl. I would recommend you buying something more, not only the teaser, just in case you have to defend yourself from a group
@@drownedtrashrat3501 Take the taser. If you cant handel a knife properly do not use it.
What does trans woman mean? Sorry if im offensive..
I wanna get myself the loud alarm keychain thing. There are many situations where you could need that and I wanna have atleast that.
me too, and the pepper spray
It’s really bad in the uk we aren’t allowed pepper spray - I think not completely sure
@@chloedundundun3597 How about spray against animals? Is that allowed in your country? If so maybe you could use that against a human too.
@@wildrose7309 I’m not sure but I do have a keychain which has and alarm which is very loud and a torch
@@chloedundundun3597 Oh that is good! Stay save 🌹
4:25 When she said "in case I'm attacked" for the 5th time, y'all felt that
Men watching this wondering why us girls need all of these safety items and fighting tips: 👁👄👁
@@heeeallle9295 yea I hate females who think all males don't know that females are especially targeted for crimes.
It was just a joke- I know many males know why we need this stuff, like I said, just a joke.
Woman should not be afraid when the go outside
not really lol they also get raped, 1/24 men get raped and 1/6 women do n I’m pretty sure the guys r aware of that
@@IsaacNg28 most of rapes happen by someone u know, it’s pretty unreasonable to be scared
I wish Canada would allow self defense weapons! It’s illegal to own a pocket knife/taser/etc. you can’t use anything for self defense legally, it’s scary.
Replace the pepper spray with a small travel sized can of hairspray. And instead of a knife, use a fork, seriously you might think it's stupid but it can still taken your attackers eye out!
Yep Travelling Witch, great ideas thanks.
Last time I looked, carrying official self-def stuff is also illegal here in Australia so instead, I carry: a letter opener - a very strong, sharp plastic one so no prob's at airports (...will we ever go overseas again? Just realised I miss going through the security gates! 😆); a small can of either Tea-tree Oil spray or insect repellent, both of which sting like crazy in the eyes and are momentarily blinding...there's heaps of substitutes when you start thinking about it. Good luck with putting your unofficial self defense kit together! 😎
Are you serious? Whelp I guess I broke the law that one time I visited Canada
the small three prong gardening rakes! they could easily hurt someone’s face and aren’t a weapon, just a “hobby.”
@@b.m2754 Ty for the information 💖. Im like really paranoic and I find this so useful.
It looks all aesthetically pleasing a cutesy until they casually say "oh and this is also a tazer :D!"
That’s the best part! No one expects a cute girl to be carrying a pink taser!
I love cute self defence items. Like no one expects a pink flashlight to be a tazer or a pastel blue fidget toy to have an extremely loud personal alarm.
Carry a notebook with weird gibberish words on the cover and weird random symbols so if a creepy sus guy follows you get the notebook and pretend to say latin-ish words,stare at his soul like your saying spells and BRING A KNIFE.
Try to say “alohomora,rictumsempra” or “sectumsempra” BUT MAKE SURE HE DOESNT KNOW THE MEANING THOSE WORDS.
Try to act psycho or go nuts .DO NOT CARE ABOUT WHAT SITUATION OR EVENT ARE YOU IN
@@Sunflowerramune haha I carry a notebook full of Minecraft enderman language. If I don't want to talk to someone I'll just mutter gibberish to myself, pretending to read it.
I'm fricking buying it, it's so cute and I love the colour
Where can you find that puff with a safety alarm?
Hana Clay ty
Amozon I think
Hana Clay thx
Also you can search on google safety alarm and then go to the shopping option
Slef defense babe on google, I've looked at their stuff
Nothings has actually happened to me before, but I used to walk home from school and was suuuuuuper paranoid, I have some pretty good tips tho:
-if you’re on the side walk and you start to see a sus car/van slow down or somthing, casually speed up/slow down and stay behind a parked car next to the sidewalk(you don’t necessarily have to hide, just continue walking there) it makes it a lot less convient for them to pull over and talk to you, plus you have that extra car as a barrier
- I used to have a lunchbox with a metal water bottle in it which I would carry, so whenever I had to walk past someone I thought was sus, I would switch the hand hold the lunchbox to the one closest to where I would pass the person, It would make it easier to hit them with it and I knew it would’ve hurt bc my metal water bottle
-act and walk very confidently, predators/creeps/whatever else can be more drawn to girls that looks shy or submissive(ew that word is gross but you know what I mean), hold you head high!
I used to walk from my school to my sibling's school to get picked up by my mom and she always told me to never walk close to the road, always stay on the "inside" part of the sidewalk. She also told me to stay by a group of other students who were also walking (I usually just walked a few feet behind people) because it's harder to take someone when there are people around. (My school wasn't in a bad area but it's better to be safe than sorry)
If I feel someone behind me I laugh like I've remembered something funny and I start skipping quickly. If the person/car speeds up, I get my weapons and alarm sorted out (they're disguised so I can take them to school) and run.
I was walking to my grandpa's house this morning with my older sister (we are both girls) and we walked past about 2 men and 1 kinda sus car but they just drove/walked past idk of it's different in England where I am.
Additionally, in some places carrying pepperspray is against the rules/law, so if you are allowed too, hairspray also works. I have accidentally sprayed myself in the face with it before, it really hurts. (if it's non-natural and/or scented, it hurts Waaaay more)
It's actually kinda sad that we have to go to these extra and extreme measures even if it's just a walk in the park, smh😔
fr just kill those kidnapper and rapists
I woke up at 2:30 am and started crying because of a dream I had about being kidnapped. And I’m still crying. Just the fact that I’m only 14 yrs old says enough.
“This is a flashlight”
*Shows into camera*
My eyes at 3am:
🚨💡
Ok so once when I was like 17 or 18 I was out in a store and I see a guy following me inside the store so I bought a knife not a big one but a small and sharp one without him seeing and I was in the counter to pay may money and thank God that there was a lady I said her that a guy is following me from the streets into the store she saw a knife in my stuff and she said "you can open the knife for self-defense it is free for you" and she added "don't go straight to your house head on to another place" and I said " thankyou ma'am" and headed out just like she said I turned away from my house and the guy suddenly became faster and was like trying to catch me I heald the knife in my hands inside my heart it was like "just do or die" so I kept walking and kept calm and i pretended to tie my shoe laces that guy was about to grab me I cut his ankel and punched his balls and ran.....
I felt a sudden guilt and the guy was in pain and I went upto him he said "run" and he weakly stood up and kicked someone behind me I was shocked and I cut the another guy's ankel too and I helped the first guy up and took him to the hospital.....
Turns out that guy saw me being followed by a creepy guy and followed me into the store and tried to protect me and he said "you walked so fast I tried to catch up to you because the guy was across the street and when you were about to tie your laces I was gonna tell you but you just cut my ankel" I was so sorry for him I paid his hospital bills and thanked him for it and what happens to the other guy he is in jail maybe....
Moral of the story - no one can be a creepy follower😑 but GuRl be safe and just be sus about everyone 🙂.....
Wow, that was quite the story. I hope he is in jail and that the other guy is safe somewhere.
Ikr the guilt that we face by accusing someone wrong mistakenly but it is our safety so,mistakes might happen.but it is so nice of you to take him to the hospital and help him.i wish that laws were stricter for women in my country too .
Something like this hapenned to me also.it was 1 year ago,i was in 8th grade my mom and i used to go to my brother's schl to pick him up after my mom picked me like always and i didn't knew but my mom noticed that a man was following us for the las 1 week or so.then one day,my mom noted his bike's no.but he didn't even stopped there.she told me about him by then,then 2 days later he came again so,my mom stopped the rickshaw (the taxi we were in)and walked up to him and grabbed him by his collar and by the time i reached his bike i saw him shaking in fear.
That was so nice of the other guy protecting you! God bless him ☺️
God bless the guy who helped you, and god bless you to, its true, tjere are alot of guys out there who are good💗
@@belgie1356 yes ☺️
Anyone got any advice for if they grab your elbow, like I was in this situation last week and I literally resorted to putting my cigarette out on their hand but I just need other options
if they grab your elbow from the front, thumb their eyes with the other hand, if they grab both your elbows from front, headbutt them/ knee them in the balls
if they grab one of your elbows from behind, elbow their stomach with the free arm / stomp on their foot
if they grab both your elbows from behind headbutt them, just swing your head back, they'll let one of their arm go to nurse their pain so at that time you can elbow them back and run
@@HanaNa-vd4pj no need to thank me! we all need to look out for each other!!
@@arina8404 I didn't get it. Also what happens If Im shorter than the intruder?
@@seth9577 don't worry, height doesn't always matter, a short woman can take down a muscular man if she practices, you need to be ready for these situations. I'm not a pro but you should definitely check out self defence techniques!
I just throw my arm back and forth pinching at their fingers with my bicep and then into their ribcage.
I've been watching a lot of these, and I love how people take time out of their day to protect other people.. and then more people make compilations out of them to make more people feel safe! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Gee way
I told my mom that I’d feel more comfortable with a taser made or a knife and she said no and I thought it was dumb cause I used to walk from school to my friends house and my friend lives kinda far from my school so
I meant mase
@@isabellaespinoza7800 Maybe you can use perfume as a self defense weapon. It might not sound like a good idea, but it’ll do as your own pepper spray
U can make a pepper spray
1 empty spray can
Mix pepper; water and vineger pour it into the empty bottle n your pepper spray is ready and you can also you nail filer as knife(some of them are sharp). Hope this might help you☺
Omg if I was your friend irl I would but you one!! My mom won't let me have a taser but I asked my dad and he gave me his foldable pocket knife since I almost got kidnapped twice
Not to mention I'm just 12
@@abigaillawrence2034 that's if they're close enough,but a pepper spray doesn't need to be close good idea if your being abducted though
Y'all know the "who are you I'm from anchent grease" that's me now with all of my defense moves
*Person walks by*
*Me ready to punch whoever gets close*: *W H O A R E Y O U I M F R O M A N C H E N T G R E A S E*
@@morganpalmer6811 ... I think that's the point of the joke.
@@quandalanglesmangle1106 i fr don't remember commenting this lmao sorry that sounded real stupif
@@morganpalmer6811 Anyways you corrected "grease" but not "anchent"??
@@gali13896 IM SORRY I STG I DONT EVEN REMEMBER COMMENTING THIS IT WAS PROBABLY LIKE TWO IN THE MORNING AND I WAS BEING STUPID LOLOL
Tip: if you’re walking alone, ALWAYS be checking your surroundings especially look behind you constantly.
Storytime: I was walking alone to my car after my college class (it was dark). I saw a teenage guy on his skateboard who was far away but he caught up to me. I heard his skateboard come closer and closer towards my direction (he was behind me) and I kept walking to the side to leave room for him to pass but i heard the wheels of his skateboard coming directly to me. I wanted to turn to see what he was doing but I was paralyzed from fear and that’s when he passes me as he shoves his hand down my ass and quickly skates away. Since then i check behind me and if there is a man/guy I stop abruptly and turn and wait until he passes me because I rather walk behind them
Aww i feel so bad for u i hope u dont go through this again :C
I don’t know if it’s because of the anniversary of my past trauma or because of our world and the current state we’re living in, but has anyone else recently started just binging these types of videos ? Like, I’ve always had anxiety about safety, but again, I have trauma. But lately, it’s not the same kind of fear. It’s not fear of what *has* happened to me reoccurring. It’s the fear of what *hasn’t* happened and *could* happen. I am used to having fear about specific things. But now, I have this fear of even leaving my house sometimes. Just yesterday, the cops came to deal with a domestic abuse report a few houses away from me. My sister lived next to people who were arrested for kidnapping a kid. There have been countless amber alerts and missing people reports in my city. I just want to be able to leave my house and feel safe. But it seems like everyday, I just feel more and more anxious and I feel like it’s getting more dangerous to leave my house. I never had a fear just because I was born a woman. How is it that it’s becoming potentially deadly just because of gender? Our world is going downhill fast and no one seems to want to fix it other than women and a select amount of men who see that things are not ok. The amount of questions that run through our heads about our safety should be 0. These are just a few that I know several women- if not all women- ask themselves.
Why do we have to protest for rights we should’ve had already? Why do we have to check under our cars before we get in them? Why do we have to carry mace and knives and alarms just to go on a run or go shopping? Why do we have to feel afraid to go out alone? Why is it so common for us to get raped, abused, drugged and assaulted that it’s made us used to be constantly be tense and alert? Why do we get hate for things we didn’t do? Why do we get shamed for speaking out? Why are we told to stop showing the world that we aren’t safe? Why are survivors blamed for something they had no control over? *Why are we being forced to live in a world where so many people want us to be submissive, quiet, obedient, and be put down instead of lifted up?* What happened to the world when we were kids? When parents and teachers would tell everyone- girls and boys- that we could be anything we wanted to be? That we were going to change the world and make it an amazing place? That we were going to grow up in a safe, happy, and beautiful world?
Now look at us. The women are teens and adults living in a dangerous world where we have very little control over our own lives. And the men? They live in the world we were all promised. They are safer than us. They have more control over things. They have the power to be who they want without fighting for it as much as we do. It’s pathetic that women were never given the world we were told we would get. It’s pathetic that we got the exact opposite of what we were told. I refuse to live in this world. We need to do better. We need to *be* better. Because if we don’t, what’s gonna happen to the next generation? Are we gonna go back in time to when women were baby-makers and stayed in the kitchen and didn’t work? Because if we are, I’m never having kids. I refuse to have kids if I’d be forcing them to live in that world. If I’d be forcing them to be taught that men are superior to women. If you don’t like what I’m saying, then you don’t understand or don’t want to accept that our lives are not what they should be.
Your feelings and worries are valid. If we were born equally into this world there would be no hate. But every time you are afraid remember that you are not alone. Women need to protect and support each other because we really don't have anyone else. I hope that you will always be safe.
I was just gonna comment on that....gurl! you know I should be watching anime knowing the world is the best place for everyone but, unfortunately, it isn't. Sometimes it's just depressing when I watch stuff specifically about women's safety.
Yeah same I'll spend like a month at a time binging these videos
The fact that me, a middle schooler, has to look this video up because my school starts so early that it’s dark out and I have to walk ten minutes alone in the dark to my bus stop is disgusting.
It really is sad that we need to have weapons just to go outside
Women should never even have to learn this, simply unfair. Thank you for getting this together for women who need it
@X̲x̲x̲ Kingxx no one said they can't!
@✨😔🤚X̲x̲x̲ Kingxx✨ ok?
@@shakira7301 ALOT of ppl did
TIP:
If you have a loud hand held alarm when you are in danger turn on AND PUT IT IN THEIR EAR that WILL make them run
Man that actually cab work
Ikr my mum found one of thoes alarms in an old dusty box and she pulled it and it nearly turned me deaf and I was like 10 foot away putting the alarm in someone's ear would definitely blow their eardrums.
Me, a dude: these can come in handy for me, my girlfriend and maybe future children
*Watches every video of these I can find to make sure we're all protected and so I can protect strangers who seem like they're in trouble*
Ok?
Same lol
@@Wallflowerzizme I smell a man hater
@@Wallflowerzizme he litterly said he will help women in need -_-
That runners defense got me thinking; “What happens if you stubbed your toe of something and sliced your foot with the knife bracelet?”
"Anything used to protect yourself could be your downfall"
Ladies, keep bright lipstick or marker in your pocket or purse at all times. If you think someone is following you, you turn around, look them dead in the eye and start just drawing all over your face. If they were following you and gonna try something, they'll think you're crazy and leave you alone. Stay safe out there sisters.
This is helpful!
...Until you realise it's permanent.
@@lavenderfields. Lipstick isn't. Neither is washable marker. and sure now you have to walk around with it but I'd rather get some weird looks for a bit till I can get to the bathroom than get snatched.
@@lavenderfields. ??? Don’t you know lipstick is temporary lolll
Rapists don't care if you're crazy or not
Just having a bigger dog (medium sized is fine to) just with you also will scare off and will make you less on an easy target.
I have a mini Aussie he's a smaller type dog but with creepy people or animals he'll start barking and ludging a bit. Once had this one drunk guy following me and I never felt more happy to have a dog that isn't overly socialized.
I have a small dog but his bark sounds like a big dog. Him barking in my garden and some scuffed, muddy size 10 workboots by the door is enough to keep the murderers away.
Yup, and if that doesn't work, just get one with a *big bark.* Doesn't matter what breed, just one with a big, loud bark. Attackers/kidnappers, etc. are more likely to run away if you have a dog with a big, loud bark than one with a small, quiet one. It can even be one of those ankle-biter dogs, as long as they have a big, loud bark. If you don't have a dog, what I'd do is just go on a iPad or phone and search for dog noises and play it. That way anyone nearby in the dark will think you have a dog and won't attack you. I actually was terrified of dogs when I was little, but now I like dogs. My great aunt actually has a dog and she has a very loud and big bark. She may look intimidating and scary, but she's actually a really nice dog. Stay safe ladies
@@xstrawberryaveryx9550 my dog is a chihuahua pug and he has such a loud bark.
Okay, so I've never been in a situation before, but I had this brilliant idea, what if people carry two bottles of pepper spray?? One in your purse and one in your pocket, so when you reach for the one in your purse and they take it, you just grab the one in your pocket and voila, you are unstuck :)
I have a weaponised squishie that my brother made me. Has a hidden knife blade and concealed mace. If the person attacking me manages to get my bag with my pepper spray keychain, I have a backup in my hand.
@@Moo-2310 tell me how to make it
@@freshstuff7094 idk, my brother is a genius and I have no idea how his creations work.
@@Moo-2310 id be careful with that, and make sure concealed carrying a knife is legal where you're at, cause if its not and if for any reason you're searched by police you would probably get a charge, cause i know where im at at least, the only knife i can conceal is a folding knife, i legally have to wear my fixed blade knife in its sheath and worn openly so people can see it
One thing I use to keep myself safe is singing, now before you think “oh well singing might make you happy but it won’t make you safe” let me explain. I love walking around at night. I find it calming. And I sing because the truth is, people will respond faster to someone going from singing to screaming then from silence to screaming. If for whatever reason you don’t want to sing, u can do this; if someone is following you or stalking you; go crazy I’m talking straight out of a psycho ward/mental facility I’m talking crab walking while screaming the abcs to the tune of living on a prayer I swear the weirdo will freak out.
Another thing you can do is fake a phone call. If this is happening during or after corona you can use this
Talk about random stuff like a movie or something. If you have no idea what to talk about talk about gift ideas for a friend’s birthday.
Being on a phone call will make you seem like you’re not alone
Or you can say “no I haven’t gotten my test results for the coronavirus.” If this is happening after COVID say this instead;
“No I haven’t gotten my test results for the phidomi virus. Did you know it’s supposed to be the next coronavirus?”
The stalker won’t want whatever you have.
Hahahaha hahhaha Yea, you should also cough alot!
@@freshstuff7094 true
i went to a pool awhile back with my friend and she said there were people looking at us weird. i'm 12 btw and wayyyyy to paranoid so im watching alot of these
A really good tip is to check your local county laws on concealed weapons and what is legal and illegal to carry on your person. Where i am it is illegal to cary a knife over 2 inches and you need a conceal and carry license to have a tazer out side of your home. A lot of these videos look cool but some of these gadgets can get you in serious trouble.
I've been binge watching all these Safety and Tips for womem 😂
I need these. TuT too bad most of the items are illegal in my country.
Back before quarantine, I would usually walk from my apartment to the bus stop every morning for school, and luckily nothing bad has happened so far but I would always get a little paranoid during the winter when it was still dark out when I had to walk
make more videos like this please
It’s a great world we live in
Men start harassing us the second we become developed at all, thanks so much for this video!
0:35 what if she actually broke her window while demonstrating 😂
4:55 perfectly in time with music
This is very helpful because I’m a 10 year old who’s always on my way to school being followed by 3 men and I told my mum she’s not allowing me to go anymore but I’m trying to show her I can defend myself since I’m going to secondary school next year
Not meaning to scare you, but you CANNOT defend yourself against a grown man. These gadgets are nothing more than toys and a last resort.
You will most likely never get into real danger. But don't let those videos or gadgets give you a false sense of security.
Avoiding dangerous situations is always the best thing so listen to your mum XD
Thats horrible. You should take some self defense classes.
You're so little. I hope you stay safe. Travel with an adult because that would be safe
@@shakira7301 thank you very much I started doing that a week ago I never saw them again
Ive been watching these for awhile, i find all the safety items super handy as a male rape victim, maybe they'll help me get over my fear of going outside alone or working night shifts :D
It'd be helpful if parents tell their girls to be strong and fight for themselves instead of being overprotective
And raise their boys RIGHT
Yeah.
Teach men to respect women
It is so sad we need to do all of this, yet men will say “not all men” 🤦🏽♀️
Maybe men would shut up if they knew the shit the women in their lives have been through 🙄
Edit: I'm a feminist too, I believe in fighting for men's rights as well and I think the way we treat men in this country regarding mental health, child custody etc is disgusting. However, men still have it easier in today's society because there was never a period in time where women were treated better or even equally to men. Wow, we can vote, that's like the bare minimum in an actual democracy. Now how about you actually teach men not to rape instead of pushing ideas that make women the one at fault for their own assault. How about you stop teaching *five year old girls* to not wear tank tops because it's "distracting" and instead tell those five year old boys that being mean to his school yard crush is bad so he doesn't grow up thinking that treating someone you love like shit is normal.
Also, just wanted to tack this on at the end, some of y'all sound like pick me girls and it's embarrassing. Stop.
Rubber Duck uh because why generalize half the population. Men go through shit too, and not all women are good. Women do messed up crap as well.
Rubber Duck maybe they would shut the hell up if women stop assuming they have it sooooo much easier
@@darlingemi Yes but that's not we are talking about try going in a woman's shoes bet u wouldn't last an hour.
Something Mischievous I’m a girl. I’m 16. And I advocate for men. If men try to advocate for themselves, people like you will say “you wouldn’t last one day in our shoes.” Oh yeah? You wouldn’t last in their shoes either.
I am so happy for those who can use such things to protect themselves. Because in Russia, you can be easily jailed for injuring a rapist
noooo
@@megvuru Yes😓
But then how are you supposed to defend yourself
Bruh tf seriously what's wrong with the world
@@Sword792 no way. in the opinion of the authorities, we ourselves are to blame if we became victims
I’ve been using personal alarms since my mom bought me my first one over TEN YEARS AGO when I was TWELVE. My family is mostly women so teaching self protection/defense is always a priority basically from birth. What a world we live in that a literal child has to learn and do these things just to stay alive.
I might let my mom know, cause one time when she was at the store someone tried to sneak up on her and steal her purse
In my whole 20 years of living I never thought of investing into these safety keychain, until one day I went to the grocery store to pick up medicine for my grandparents. A random old man walk passed me and gave me a double stare and even cat called me. Of course I ignored him and kept my guard up. Then, I went to the pharmacist and he literally stood right behind me like I could feel his breath breathing down my back. Thankfully there was another customer right behind him so he had to go away. However, he went to hide in another aisle to stalk me! His face still scare me to this day. Anyway, I saw there was a cane being sold so I grabbed it as a defense tool. Next thing I know he tried to quickly grab me, but I immediately backed away and swung the cane and threaten him to leave me alone. So yeah, safety keychains are a must have.
Hey besties! Just know that if a guy "does things" to you scream "FIRE" instead of "R@PE" people are most likely to come save you from a fire😚
This is actually sad. It’s true, but sad.
woah, sad
people are messed up
Also...if you can see ANYONE around you, be specific and address them directly. Instead of “help help! Someone!” Try something like “You, in the blue hat! Please help me! Call the cops!”
Me who has crippling anxiety: *add to cart*
PSA: It's illegal to attack anyone with any item EVEN if you're being physically assaulted in Canada. Warning out to my Canadian friends. Don't bother trying to get most of these tools and focus on getting alarms and or the seat belt/window breaker. Also learn the self defense moves. Or else you'll just get attacked and land in jail.
p.s. Instead of trying to get pepper spray which is illegal in Canada to carry unless you're in an area with known bear populations. (AND if you get caught with that mace outside of a forest your done) Anyways!! My point is... Pick up a mini bottle of hair spray. Use it as pepper spray. Its undetectable as a weapon once used it's not a suspicious thing to carry. Hope this helps!
Im glad this video is one of them out there. *
1:39 when ur not able to do it (Me in my head:great love that🤧)
This is really cool im glad to see that women have all these ways of defending themselves😁
It’s sad we live in a world like this 😔
It’s also sad that us women have to defend ourselves from men in many different ways
As a girl myself I’m scared for my future. I’m only 14 but I understand what women go through
I hope if I ever have a daughter in the future I’ll teach her how to defend herself and if I have a son I’ll educate him too ❤️❤️
To all women, don’t let yourself be used or hurt by anyone else especially men
We are strong humans and we need to work together to keep each other safe ❤️❤️❤️
Come on ladies let’s show what we’re made of! ✨❤️✌️
@@shrxia.4699 that too forgot about that 😂
Yes! Go ladies!
I NEED THESE, I should go on a shopping spree and get these for my birthday
Just go around coughing if a dude follows you, just remove your mask and cough with saliva! Gross but works
Even tho I'm not a female (I'm genderfluid) I feel unsafe when I'm out and about
Same here.
If you’re female presenting it’s always good to be careful
@@Wallflowerzizme what if they aren't?
I have a friend who wears a knife at her waist and a dagger hidden in her boot whenever we go in the woods. She said it’s “because it looks cool”
6:15 Illegal in almost every state. Made of a hard plastic those not detectable but still lethal and extremely sharp points.
Exactly, alot of these videos upset me cause there not adressing the different levels of legality, hidden blades are one of the biggest no nos where im at, it makes me so upset to see people talking about comb knives, key knives,and lipstick knives, because i could see a young women purchasing one online, and catching a charge because she "saw it on tiktok" people need to know how to protect themselves legally everywhere
We need to be taught about this in school. Because many people don't know how to defend themselves when it comes to something like this most of the time.
0:05 omg where can I buy one?
Yep to all girls and even boys stay save and always follow thes safety stwps
Stay safe out there queens 👑💛
You too ma’am ✨😌
I’ve had an unconditional from my 1st choice uni, and the course is just perfect for me...but it’s just in a really high crime-rate city...people literally stand outside of student halls waiting to mug you from what some alumni have said. It scares me a lot but I’m in love with the course and it’s a Russel group uni, so I’m very torn. I’m not confident in self defence and I can’t afford replacement items such as laptops and phones... definitely getting pepper spray and a taser 😂
I might use that wall choke defense at school if I get choked and my friends always cover xD
Can someone pls answer why there are buttons on the personal sound alarm, I’m confused!
What a sad world 🌎we have 😔 we cant even go out side 😐 without knowing or needing these😖 it is so sad 😭 women are not "things" we are people😭 pls don't useeee us we are people 😭😔😔 why cant we simply go outside
Ty for posting this thank you 😁 💓 alot
These are safety tips for EVERYONE everyone needs this stuff honestly
IDGAF IF I USE A TIGER LADY OR NOT I WANT IT SO BAD IMMA CLAW A BISH :3 🐯
Do you know where to find the tiger lady claw.
yess if anyone knows pls tell
Plssss
My mom is gonna look at me when I show all the stuff on my Christmas list 😂🤚🏼
Self defence weapons are illegal in Canada :((((
Damn, I'm sorry it's illegal
Honestly it needs to be legal because what happens if someone gets kidnapped
What about the loud alarm thing? Atleast that shouldnt be illegal.
Yeah inmy country too.Btw i am from myanmar.
@@JLC-hd1lj If you pop their ear drums with it it can still be considered a weapon lmao kinda stupid
Why though?
To loosely learn some good ways to defend yourself especially if your frail in particular is read "weak hero". It a web comic.
It shows and almost teaches the weak points of a person and if your weak yourself how to use most of your body. Also it REALLY good read in general.
1:42 at that point just have a whole ufc fight with them
Great video! Have you ever done martial arts? I'm doing Krav Maga and
found that when my male partner is wearing a cup, groin kicks don't seem
to work very well. Do you have any experience practicing on a guy
wearing a cup?
What about very timid boys with very weak stature what am I gonna do self defense classes
Yes. Self defense classes are important for safety.
@@thot_patrol3007 not every move works even if it does you need some strength to do this 200 pound guy on you choking you your already tired from struggling low on air your not gonna rip his hands of your inch wide twig wrist
I need to get these, so happy I found your channel.
Me watching this as im like 11 years old AND started my period: .... I shall use these tips!
i watch these cause i’m a young girl and me and my best friend a lot of times roam stores by ourselves, or other things and i’ve been followed by a man before. also there was a shooting at my school yesterday so i like having safety things, and my dad is a retired cop
Stay safe
the farm to that this was in my recommendations 😔
i needed these!👀
It’s so sad how none of these tiktoks maybe wouldn’t be here is SOME men weren’t perverts and harassed women☹️
true
@X̲x̲x̲ Kingxx it’s okay I know I meant more men than women do it but not all mem
@X̲x̲x̲ Kingxx well, shouldn't it be that you're the one offended by the original comment. At least more than 90% times, this is for women to be safe from men. I don't think anyone of us fear women while walking on the road
@@johnjohnson-jk6ms why are you saying black people it could be white people to!?
Shakira are you saying some people should not fear women
After watching these i really want to learn kick boxer now bc i dont have any of those iteams.
Ahhh, what a wonderful world we live in, where having to carry around knives and tazers to survive our everyday lives is just ✨ normal ✨
Even though I'm in a super safe area I have insane trust issues so it takes me awhile for me to trust someone so I'm always scared so this is extremely helpful but hopefully I never have to use these
I shouldn't have to feel unsafe while I'm checking my mail
Be better guys
Guys looking for something cool look at the last one.Dont know about you but i loved it.
It's actually disgusting that us women need to carry self defence to protect ourselves against these slobs who have NO RIGHT to even think that they have permission to even breathe the same air as us, disgusting.
hey were do you get those defence chains cuz im a kid if i want to go anywere i have to walk by my self somtimes with my toddler bro
I got to an all girl school and let me tell you the amount of kidnapping attempts are CRAZY HIGH like around November girls could not go with public transport because this dude tried kidnapping a year 10 and Arg the amount if times I got catcalled for SITTING IMGSHSHDH
where do i get the kit in the second vid?
If someone ever is grabbing me trying to choke me or something I probably won't be able to get away unless someone helps me because I look like a stick. Or if I have pepperspray or a tazer or something.
Unfortunately I'm underage to have mace and a taser in my state (California). Do you guys happen to know any good hairspray brands that I can use to replace?
You can start putting stuff that hurts you eye in a spray bottle and call it a dat tbh
You can use perfume, it definitely stings cause I got it in my eyes once
if someone were to choke me against a wall id weird them tf out and be like “thats kinky o.o”
The tool that is a flashlight and taser is so smart not bc it’s 2-in-1 but bc it only looks like a flashlight. It’s not shaped like a taser so nobody is suspicious I love that
Wish I have tge loud keychain thingy when I got touched in my own house in the middle of night and couldn't scream because I was speechless and scared (cuz it's by someone I should trust do it). But alas, even if my family knew, they just said boys will be boys :')
I have the key knife too! My mum gave it to me last year when I started walking to school by myself. She's had it since she was a teenager too and she told me her first boyfriend gave it to her.
I also have a small pocket flashlight that has a really strong light so it momentarily blinds someone if I shine it straight at them.
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Thanks for these! I now know how to protect myself tysm!!