Not The Video We Wanted to Make
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 เม.ย. 2023
- We're back at our cabin in the woods but we receive some unexpected news. We love you Lectric! Thanks for keeping us moving (even through treatment) and for sponsoring this video. Check them out here: bit.ly/lectricxeamonandbec
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Welcome back to our cabin in the woods. We haven't been here since Bec finished treatment for breast cancer and there are so many difficult memories in these spaces. Then, to receive a call back for another mammogram and biopsy has sent us into a bit of a spiral. We are trying to remain positive and we appreciate each and every one of you! We really debated whether or not to post this episode but you all have been a part of our breast cancer journey from day 1. It feels like you should definitely be a part of the story as it continues ❤️🥰☀️
0:14 the video we DID want to make
1:33 dump run 🏃♀️
3:40 our worst contractors ever!
6:14 call from Bec's doctors
9:47 ice cold polar plunge 💧
11:47 cabin morning routine
16:15 family bike ride
18:47 this was so dangerous 😬
19:53 our greenhouse update
22:37 iced strawberry matcha latte
25:24 staying strong 💪
27:50 anxiety about cancer recurrence
29:30 Habit photography sesh
30:52 doctors call
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I'm a stage four cancer survivor. 3.5 yrs since diagnosis, 1.5 yrs in remission. The fact that you have someone to hug you and tell you it will be alright makes me cry. I never had that.
Praying the blood of Jesus over you and your life. God bless you. XO
I didn’t either. 😢
sending a big hug. you are not alone
Even if you have or see no one around, you are never alone. You just aren't. Those we love that are no longer physically present, ARE spiritually present. I know it firsthand. When my mother passed, in the days leading up to her departure, she was seeing and conversing with them, and me, at the same time. She wasn't high from meds either. It sounds way crazy to even repeat. Also, my dogs both noticed traffic that I simply could not see, but felt. No one dies alone either. Many come to carry us "home." Apparently we had a living room full. My mother was asking me who all the people were, if I could see them bc she did not recognize all, only some. I just told her they were her guardian angels til she got stronger. She asked, "Do you really think so?." I replied, "Definitely." We both knew she was going, but I just didn't want to be in that reality bc if I were to, it would've been my unraveling. I saved myself a lot of grief by how I chose to view her transition. If only I knew I could've done it sooner with others before her. Still, I can bend whatever I face to alter the outcome. Anyone can. Your mind is the sharpest tool in your box, and best used to your greatest advantage. Her exit, how it went and what I see now since it, changed my life. It empowered me. I now empower others bc we do not have to suffer anything unless we choose to. Everything IS a choice. Don't like the one before you, you change it. All things are possible with God. 🙏❤💫
Me neither
We're here for you, 1.3M strangers are thinking about you and rooting you on.
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@@warwolf279gaming5 It was 1.3 when I first posted. Regardless, that was unnecessary and I can tell that you're a blast at social gatherings.
He is low budget Chris pine 25:49
10000000000000000% ❤️🙌🫶
Definitely this !!!
My partner is a breast cancer survivor (since 2001). She goes thru this almost after every mammogram, the radiation treatment caused scarring which shows up funky on x-rays. I hope this turns out to be the case for you as well, stay strong.
Yes! So glad you mentioned the scarring, as my scarring has caused some ‘suspect’ images on my mammograms, too.
my friend had breast cancer and decided to have a double mastectomy. but she was 22 when it happened and the risk of it returning was so much higher since she theoretically had so many more years of remission to live through. the risk wasn't worth it for her. after her surgery, they biopsied her breasts and found a small cancerous tumor in the left breast. she had no regrets. I hope everything is okay with Bec. mindset is absolutely a huge part of it, and I'm glad she and Eamon have each other!
@TeenDream888 Isn't Eamon wonderful for her to have. He's excited to have ten more years of freedom. I know he's joking, but that helps lighten Bec's worries I think.
I actually went thru the same thing. And I've never had any issues before. But, they had contacted me years ago with the same request... I handled it the same way, with fear and breaking down. It turned out that it was nothing to worry about. I'm praying that it turns out the same for you, Bec 🙏
I had a non cancerous mass removed and yes shows up on Mamo and scares me every time. 😳
"You guys dont come here to be sad". We come here because youre genuine and you have a unique ability to make us feel like actual friends. We care. We love. We appreciate. We worry. And we will all be ok. ♡
Thank you for saying that because you are right. I've followed since they were one of the only van living channels. I started with Eamon and Bec then The Indie Project.
When I tell you my stomach sank when I saw the title. I feel confident saying that your audience doesnt JUST watch for positivity, fun adventures, some project you’re working on, a yummy recipe, Oso cutesness, etc - we love those things but we watch because somehow someway, you’ve made us feel like we are apart of your life as much as you are apart of ours. We watch because we love you guys, Oso, the family, your journeys and we will always be here for the good, bad, and the ugly. While we may have subscribed for entertainment we stay because it feels like now we are checking in on our old friends. Sending my best!! See you next time🤍
This is SO TRUE...thank you for saying what I was feeling!
Well said! So true ❤❤
Absolutely!! so well said!
Thank you SO much for this comment Savanah! It means more to me than I can explain 💛✨
Beautiful said agree 💯 ❤
I'm not just here for positivity. I'm here because you feel like friends. As friends, I want to support you through the good and the bad. I'm sending you so much love and strength! ❤❤❤
Same! I'm here to make sure Bec and Eamon are ok. The good, the bad, and the not positive. I want to hear it the same.
Me too :)
Very well said and I totally agree.
Beautifully said ❤
Same ❤
Cancer sucks. 3 time survivor here. It’s called PTSD. You can have a full wonderful life, enjoying every minute then something happens and BOOM…..that sick pit in your stomach returns. I feel so out of control. I’m glad you’re being diligent and your doctor is being thorough. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts 🙏
Pls don’t ever think that you can’t share your journey because you think we didn’t come to watch a sad video. I’m sure I speak for everyone when I say we love y’all and want to see everything that you are willing to share!
I guess they know but I think even for eamon and bec there’s times they just don’t want or can’t film. I just hope they are well. I’m so worried.
"You did not tune in here to feel down" - no, we tuned in to support you through all of this. ❤ Sending love and strength!
We love you Bec!
I hope you guys are ok! 1.19 million people are here for you guys!!❤️❤️
Thank you so much!! I appreciate the love and support ❤
My heart just sank. You two are always in my prayers. Currently watching the video but wanted you guys to know how loved ya all are. ❤
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I think you should share whatever you need to. You are so brave and positive, but you don't always have to be.
Perfectly said.
I had left breast cancer when I was 31. I also had to choose my treatment as far as surgery. I chose bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction. I feel your emotions so much! Like I am there again. I am 65 and have been cancer free since surgery. Love and prayers to you!❤😊
That is encouraging! I'm 32 and was just diagnosed with er/pr positive her2 negative breast cancer. May I ask what kind you had? So far they think stage 1, but won't know until surgery. I'm doing a bilateral as well for peace of mind....going flat though.
I’ll spare you my tale but you are wise to do the double mastectomies. The damn stuff is insidious.
My dear friend also found the tiniest confirmed cancerous lump in her right breast at 31. She called on me to stay with her during her treatment and recovery. Her family had a long history of breast cancer, and she chose the double mastectomy with reconstructive surgery and has now been cancer free for six years and holding strong. I applaud you for your life saving and brave choice. It isn’t easy, but I can absolutely state that we’re I to find myself in a similar situation, I would choose this same option. It saves lives.
anneholiday, you don’t actually think I hear YT’ers sit and read these comments and then respond to you? Don’t expect a response to your question.
@@marciamusial9952 How rude. Firstly, the question was posed to a comment or, not a YT content creator. Secondly, they respond all the time. They are after all human, and neither side show freaks or gods. The person losing the question raised a very personal and important question to someone who has actually gone through a situation similar to one they themselves are going through right now. I cannot imagine anyone who has gone through such a trial wouldn’t take the time to reach out to someone else going through a similar trial. They have learned empathy through pain. It’s unfortunate you don’t appear to have any. Your comment was callous and unfeeling. If the OP sees this comment I am sure they will respond. Most people would and do. Even if they happens to be “influencers”.
@EamonandBec I’m worried for Bec. We haven’t seen anything since she was going for the biopsy. Please know that whatever is going on with your health I have faith you will conquer this too. And you are in my thoughts daily.
As a mammography technologist I understand how stressful it is to be called back. We do often see post surgical changes that can be hard to define. Especially on your first mammo post treatment which is now your new baseline and they will compare any changes to that. Sending you love and strength❤️
I wish they hadn’t left the message for her and left her stranded with that information with no explanation over a whole weekend. It seemed very cruel to me.
Yes Lori. You are exactly right. I had a friend whose first mammogram after breast cancer surgery required a biopsy. It ended up being scar tissue. Much strength and peace of mind Bec.
@@youtooaromatherapyyoga2991 I understand what you mean. However, the hospitals, clinics have many patients and unless they deal with each case in a timely fashion, they will end up with a backlog and quite possibly, even forget to contact a patient they thought would be better to call on a Monday. That would be far crueler and to avoid such 'accidents' happening, they contact people immediately.
Its so nice of you to spread good thoughts and energy! That's what we all need!!!
Mammograms created so much repeat stress for me, that we ultimately decided our peace of mind is more important than my boobs. For us, that decision has been so liberating. It's so important to honour yourselves, to live your truth, and to come to your own decisions, in your own time. Love and strength to you both!❤
“I don’t want not knowing, to be the reason I’m not living” -Bec. Man did I ever need to hear that, thank you Bec. You’re in my thoughts and prayers my friend, you got this 💪🏽
The cute hair, stays Bec ❤💪💯🫶
Constantly in awe of you two exceptional humans. Sending all of our love xox
🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@danicali_dontFwsocal An incredibly hurtful and negative comment, couldn't you just be kind?
. Be careful....karma is a b--ch. " One should examine one's self for a very long time before thinking of condemning others" Moliere
@dani cali I really PITY you. Seeing all the different nasty and spiteful comments you leave on people's walls... you must be a very sad, unhappy and unfulfilled person. It is really too bad this is all you can find to say to someone going through so much. So much spite and envy... I just hope she is not letting this get to her.
Right! I agree always. I’m tryna get connected to you all so I can share hair ideas with Bec! I’ve followed you guys, Bec and Kara and Nate for years!
In August I disconnected from the world while experience a NDE due to chemo and all I existed in was a warmth that I label pure love. November I competed 12 rounds of chemo. I completed physical therapy for broken bones. I’m on immunotherapy now until my cancer becomes resistant. January I relearned how to bend and walk. Yesterday I spent my first night on a sailboat, fully abled. All I could think of were you and the boys, I stayed in a home beach of mine, very close to frying pan shoals, which I grew up sun tanning by but never heard of.
I love a life of love and fun and saying “yes” these days. I’d love to share the love with all of you one day, but I know the love is there already. Maybe I’ll apply to nanny like I’ve thought up, maybe Eamon and Bec will see my messages in Instagram and decide to hike in Peru with me! Maybe I’ll go Prius camping and run in Kara and Nate like I’ve dreamed for for almost 5 years now.
I love the support you all share, I love the love you give. I agree with being in awe of the beauty of these humans. There is so much beauty in all this love. I know you sent the love to them, but I hope my love gets tangled in along the way. We have so much to teach the world still, and I think it all comes from love. I would love to spread or share the love with you all sometime!!
There is nothing sweeter than when your dog knows you are going through something and is just trying to be there and distract you! Sending you great thoughts and well wishes!!! You have got this!!!!!
Bec we don't come here to be discouraged but we are here to walk with you guys through whatever you are doing. So don't try to be anything in particular, least of all a hero. Just keep being real, share what you want and take care of yourself. I'm so proud of you. And I'm equally awed by Eamon who has been such a steady force for you. We're here and we will be here.
Thank you for bringing a perspective that so many don’t see. Cancer is a lifelong journey. It’s always in the background even during remission. You get reminders of it every now and then that bring back the fear and anxiety all over again. I’m a 5 time survivor and I totally get it. Your survivor community is here for you bec! We love you and are surrounding you with love and support always.
I agree about it being a life long journey i watch a youtuber go every so many months to get a MRI done on his head to make sure his cancer hasnt returned hes went through years of chemo & recently went through radiation his wife & him have had there first child a few years ago which they call there miracle baby because doctor's were sure if he would be able to have a child let alone as soon as he did when he came off chemo
Stay strong!
Honestly if the hospital booked your appointment in 3 weeks time- the drs are just being super thorough. You got this🙏🏾
No one understands that anxiety unless they have received that diagnosis. I was diagnosed with breast cancer at 36 and I still get scan anxiety every time. You're reaction is raw and real
Bec,
When you said “I can’t be a good mom if I’m not alive” I teared up. My mom died of breast cancer when I was 16 because she did not see a doctor regularly. It is likely she would still be with us today if she had gone earlier and taken more precautions. You are so strong and you will get through this. You will both make amazing parents one day.
I'm so sorry for your loss honey
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Never, ever again - apologize for a post that isn’t “completely happy and upbeat” I (we) are invested in YOU! SO happy for the doc calling. You got this. Over and over, again. Sending love and prayers for Spring! 💐
Worried about you both as nothing is active, praying all is ok. If your reading this. We’re all here. We’re all keeping posative. 💙💗
Came here to say the same.. I was waiting for another video this week but nothing. I’m worried for them 🥺
Golly Gee praying everyone gives you plenty of attention and forks out tons on money to you. We all know money and pity party's cure cancer. 😂
Missed you guys this week. Im really hoping everything is ok. As a mammo tech I know that it can be very unnerving to get that call . Just remember to put good things out to the universe. 85% of call backs are negative . They will be being extra careful given your previous diagnosis . Praying that its just post surgical changes which can also be very common. I cried with you but I hope for you! Sending love and strength!!
I was diagnosed at age 30 with stage 3 breast cancer 3 months ago!! I am currently going through chemotherapy!! I love your videos because they give me a lot of hope for getting through treatment!! And it's nice to feel less alone!! Thanks so much for posting about your cancer journey even though it is hard to talk about sometimes!! Sending thoughts and prayers that everything stays good with your remission!!
You’ve got this 💛✨ remember… whatever cancers got you’ve got more. More love, more strength, more courage. Go get ‘‘em xx
@@eamonandbec Ahhhh thanks!!!! 😊
Did you get the "safe & effective" over the past few years?
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You got up and journaled, meditated and did yoga, while exercising and eating healthy all day. I can't even do that on a good day let alone while stressed. You're so strong Bec!
I had an abnormal mammogram after my lumpectomy too. Turned out to be post-surgical changes. It would have been nice to know how common that is. Hope this helps more women to know that.
I started watching you when I was diagnosed with cancer(oddly enough showed up as recommended)you’ve helped me in ways and I am extremely grateful. I just found out I was in remission two weeks ago. Of course I am happy but the thoughts of all the trauma I experienced is something that will never go away. I am 100% rooting for you.
Eamon was wondering what to say but he was doing a great job of trying to be hopeful and just be there for her even if he had nothing to say. That alone is usually what is needed. Just someone to be around and be supportive in hard times. ❤️
Yeah you can tell Eamon is truly in synch with Bec --- knows when words will just make things more complicated
Well said 😊
I had a preventive double mastectomy without reconstruction last year and I love it. It is so freeing. No more mammograms, no more biopsies, no more bras, no more worry. I was inspired to go flat after watching Olena Hue’s journey. Thank you for sharing your journey, Eamon & Bec.
Good for you Neena for having the intelligence ,courage and determination to go flat. I am a 10 year breast cancer survivor and I have scan anxiety every year. Maybe one day I will choose the same option as you . Sending hugs from California. 😇
@@mindydavis9132 Thank you. Hugs from Nevada!
I'm a breast cancer survivor, left breast mastectomy. The best advice I can give is to your spouse, when you don't know what to say just say "I Love you" no matter what. A journal like you've been doing is sooo cleansing and healthy. Life is Good 😊
Hi Bec, you have been on my mind. I know it's probably hard to read all of the comments, but I just wanted to tell you that you are a huge inspiration. It must be hard to put yourself out there while you are dealing with health unknowns. I started following you both a few years ago, and you inspired me to go for it with #vanlife in 2021. I am 55 years old and I can assure you that living in the present, embracing all of the beauty moment to moment is the tonic so many of us need to drink. Too many of my generation are stuck in our conditioned reality. You and Eamon prove that we don't have to live that way. I am deeply grateful for the work that you do. I look forward to your videos every week. Take all the time you need, breathe, come back stronger and full of the charisma and joy that is at the very heart of you. Much Love, Mardi (Cobourg, Ontario).
Agreed. Hello from Hamilton Ontario ❤
I've had cancer twice, both my boys have had it, the younger one got all the way to IIIB and we all beat it. We all view C as a gift that reminded us to LIVE. You are living gigantically. Prayers for you!
She has tears in her eyes but still that beautiful smile .That girl is dynamite.
Having a partner like him, that is everything!!!
Becca I’m currently going through a cancer scare myself and watching your videos helps me so much. Never be afraid to share all of the parts of your journey, even the difficult ones ❤
The way I BURST into tears when you said “I can’t be a good mom if I’m not alive” 😭 We’re here for it all, Bec. The good, the bad, the bald, the party ponies, everything! Love you guys so much!! I’ve never prayed so hard for someone I’ve never met. ❤
Bec we have been dealing with my husbands cancer for over 30 years now. It is a huge emotional battle every time you have a scan or get called back in. I think jumping in ice cold water is very therapeutic!! Every day is a gift!! You've got this and so does Eamon!!
Thank you Anna 💛!! Sending lots of love to you and your husband 🌞
I am 12 years out. Tomorrow I go in for another lumpectomy, but thank heaven this one is just a calcified oil cyst. It is very large (the size of a marble shooter), and painful. I am grateful for every day! I am so blessed! You two are strong and will get thru anything in your way. Prayers for your continued healing!
I can’t believe they call you on a Friday and make you wait until Monday for clarification. Thank you for sharing all of this. As someone who was recently diagnosed with a. Potentially life-threatening disease, I empathize with the anxiety of not knowing, but am also trying to live in the moment. It’s not easy. Your story gives me courage.
So you are keen to destroy a Doctors weekend with his family
This has happened to me so many times-the level of anxiety waiting is overwhelming.
@@MegaWilderness can you touch your toes with that stretch?!? The Dr could have communicated better in the first place as to why the testing was required and the anxiety would at least have a basis of fact. How that would affect the Dr’s weekend is nonexistent. Doctors are hired to care for their patients and that should include their mental health, specifically in such stressful diagnosis’s.
Honestly, when Oso nudged his face aaganist your face, it was like he was assuring you everything is okay.
You are SOOO strong Bec, more than you know it.
You surround yourself with such positivity and just know that you're not alone.
You have Eamon, Oso, family and friends, and your youtube family.
This is just another battle you will face and win.
Amen 🙏
Sending you lots of warm care to ease your worries. Consider this a warm hug, no matter what the news or next steps. My husband just started his cancer journey and the phrase that helps us with our day to day focus is "It's a diagnosis, not a prognosis because you control your prognosis through the decisions you make and the mental attitude you keep." You got this, even when you are anxious, worried, and frightened. You and Eamon were role models for our journey, even before we knew we needed to take this journey and we are grateful to you for how you show up and share your life. We are grateful for the ups and downs, the joys and the sorrows. Thank you for being!
what a beautiful phrase! i’m sending you and your husband a lot of healing energy for his journey and lots of love❤️❤️❤️ a big hug from switzerland🫂❤️
I'm 29, recently diagnosed with brain cancer, a mother, and start chemo and radiation soon after 3 failed cycles of extended gamma knife radiation. Never feel bad for sharing your journey or "how much is to much" for a video support is so important, and you never know the impact your willingness to share your journey could have on someone who is facing the same war you've faced. The comfort of knowing they aren't alone, and the Inspiration and hope. Hoping all tests came back good! You are not alone ❤️
That was a lovely statement. So incredibly sorry to hear what u are going thru. I wish u all the best. Sending u tons of positive vibes n huge hugs as u go on your journey ❤️🙏
4 years after treatment and the sky high anxiety at every check up is sooo real. I have to remind myself so many humans get this horrible shit everyday. I am not an island. I feel you Bec. Deeply
Bec, I am right there with you. My ultrasound didn’t come out well and I have a double biopsy scheduled in three weeks. I was “with you” through your cancer journey and admired your grace and strength during the whole thing. Here’s to the Universe blessing both of us with good news❤
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Also at the end you say “ you did not join this blog to be sad”. = We all joined to watch you go through the lives we are all living and have comfort that we are not alone! Thank you for sharing your story with us. It is most helpful! Love and hugs.
Thinking about you guys! Bec you’re so strong. You guys really don’t owe us anything. We’re lucky that you have shared this much of your lives with us. We all miss you and hope that healing hands guide you through the next chapter. Hope to see your smiling faces soon.
My uncles recently had been found with cancer for the 5th time, he is 79 and still going , youve got this! Millions of people are here for you ❤️
you said in the video "people didnt come here to watch me being sad"
we come here to watch you be whatever you want
Yass 🙌🙌
Yeah, I particularly like that they show both the happy and the sad. Makes it feel real and not an instagram couple that need to show everything from the best angle.
Family is here for the good, bad, & ugly....don't feel bad about sharing it all! Hugs and prayers!❤🙏❤️
I so agree, we want to support you, in whatever life is showing you now. Be strong and know you are cared for so much by us all 😍
I watched the pregnancy announcement video before I watched this one. I’m glad to know all those fears bec was experiencing are finally put to rest. Congratulations to you both ❤
I’m finishing up my breast cancer treatment. I’m 3C Inflammatory.
Your videos have helped and encouraged me so very much. Praying it’s nothing and God bless
Yeah, and just because God gave you cancer, it doesn't mean that God doesn't love you. I mean, of course God loves you-he just works in mysterious ways, right‽ There're whole wards, in most hospitals, full of children dying of cancer and for sure all those sweet kids are going straight on up to heaven when their dead (which, for most of them, is sooner than later I guess)-that God, He's such a kidder sometimes. So enjoy what little time you have left and, oh yeah, remember to give the Church lots of money before you die so they can continue to do "God's important work" (the Church doesn't even have to pay taxes on all the free money they get-how's that for a serious miracle). Before I let you go, don't forget to say "hi" to the Big Guy for me when you see him in a few days (assuming, of course, you gave the Church lots of money so as to be sure you're going to heaven and not you-know-where).
I was 6 months ahead of you with breast cancer, surgery, chemo, radiation, so watching you go through the same things with such determination and grace, was really supportive and encouraging to me. Every scan or checkup I have, every odd pain…..can’t stop the anxiety and fears from creeping in. Sending you positive thoughts. All the very best.
I think my journey of treatment (surgery,chemo) was at the same time with you…..this was my relapse..
My best wishes to you ❤…stay healthy ..
When the anxiety creeps in you need to think (or say) “F’off - negative thoughts!” I believe it really helps. Very important to stay strong 😘
Hugs. I'm glad you're here to comment. ❤
Oh Bec, oh Eamon. Tears here and here for you at the same time. We're not dropping in to YT E&B because we expect a performance. Let that go. We're here for you and the shitty roof work, scary doctor's calls, sweet sloppy pup kisses, scary hard workouts, and learning about growing green things. Remember what your Mom said (or should have said): Just be yourself and they'll LOVE you. Lots of love, lots of hugs, and more love on top of that. Plus, you have the best angel on your side and hovering there with you. xoxo
Seeing someone very close to me go through this at 24, that support at the end after good news is just as vital as staying strong when times are tough. No I'm not a 34 year old man sitting here crying over how special that little bit of relief was and some happiness added in at the end with the hugs. Sending love from Kara and Nate's hometown. You are a warrior.
I have no idea how I stumbled upon your channel… but I truly admire how you have chosen to approach all of this. You will have hard days but the fact that you try so hard to enjoy each moment together is beautiful.
The fear is always there. 20 years later after breast cancer twice, I have had many mammograms that were “questionable”. Each time is the same worry and hope battle. Your therapist is right in her recommendations. I did tamoxifen for three years and couldn’t do it longer because of joint pain. My doctor was glad I did it and understood when I couldn’t. Something worked and I have my mammo in two weeks, and am here to be able to worry. It is OKAY! Blessings!
I had both breasts removed over 20 years ago at the advice of my doctors. I understand every fear, every scenario that invades your brain and wrecks your sleep and every pain that sends your mind to the worst case results. I think it is impossible not to go to those dark places and to worry yourself into a frenzy. Tamoxifen was difficult in some ways but not as horrible as I had imagined. This journey is not an easy one but Bec you have such a positive mind set and wonderful support people around you. I think this scare will pass and you will return to your wonderful , beautiful life with wisdom and a courage that you never knew you had. I will keep you in my thoughts and I am sending good vibes your way dear. This too shall pass. ....
"am here to be able to worry" ♥
I'm sorry you're having to go through this, Bec. As a cancer survivor I can attest to how scary it is when anything comes up. Praying for you. ☀🌈
Bec My wife was diag with breast cancer. She had a lumpectomy . She was also a heart patient. She had a great life and fought everything that came her way. Please take care of yourself.
I am so proud of you! I am in the exact same boat as you are. I went through breast cancer all last year and on my mamo in April they found calcifications or fatty something. It paper said suspicious malignancy. My heart sank. I postponed my biopsy until June. I am about to go on a vacation this week and I just want to linger in the unknown for a while without pain. I know you know what I am talking about. God bless you and your husband. You guys are just so precious.
I just came back to TH-cam after losing my hubby to cancer, but he lived 8 years longer than they thought he could. Keeping a positive outlook can make a huge difference. I know it keeps you on a rollercoaster of emotions and is always lurking in the background, but you guys have a great life. I hope you can focus on living that great life.
This is really hitting home for me because I’m two years in remission with breast cancer. I woke up this morning. Had my coffee turned on my TH-cam and there you are. And why it’s weird about it is I have my mammogram scheduled for today as a follow up as well. We are going to be fine. Just fine.❤
Scanxiety is real. I just had high markers- but scans came out clean at the follow up and the markers were falling, so grateful. Hope yours are the same. ❤
So many prayers and uplifting, positive, HEALTHY vibes to you dear Bec!💛 Your resilience and positivity is astounding and your realness is loved and appreciated. It’s not always sunshine and rainbows, and I for one love that you show that. ⛅️🌈
All the positive energy and vibes you guys have sent Bec must be working. Her body is healing in those vibes and that positive energy at this moment. Thank you guys.
It’s been 20 years since my 1st Breast Cancer diagnosis. Even I had to wait a day to watch this video when I saw your title, it brings back so many memories. Don’t beat yourself up about waiting and don’t feel bad if you have to take some time to feel sad. Sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers your ways while you play the waiting game. Take time each day to do a little something that brings you joy.
I think most of us genuinely tune into your channel because you feel like family. Thank you for always being so open and genuine with us and encouraging everyone to live in the moment. I love that you are allowing yourselves to feel grateful for all the little things and for the wonderful care you are receiving from your health care specialists. That in itself can help tame the subconscious mind ❤
Well said Lisa, I live on the other side of the world to Canada (New Zealand) but both Eamon and Bec feel like they could live round the corner from here… I really appreciate their realness and the way they both work together it is encouraging for me to see other people that have a genuine love for each other no matter what happens… they Eamon and Bec will be in my thoughts and Prayers.
I am an 11 year breast cancer survivor. I’ve had to take “extra” pictures many times and had to have biopsies. I actually developed necrosis after 2.5 years which is quite unusual. However that’s exactly what it was. It wasn’t cancer. It’s always terrifying but I’ve had to learn that I can’t run ahead. All I can deal with is what I know right now. Playing the what if game is so destructive. Sending positive thoughts and for me that means prayers. There is always, always hope.
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending strength and healing vibes to you, Bec ❤
It’s the craziest feeling. I’m sitting here in tears. My stomach dropped when I saw the thumbnail! I literally fast forwarded the video to calm my nerves. I was so scared to get bad news. It’s just amazing to me that we can feel so close to people we have never met! Bec you are such an amazing beautiful awe inspiring woman and I’m so incredibly happy that you have such a caring loving person like Eamon to be by your side through everything. I’m fully emotionally invested in your channel and and so thankful that you share your lives with us! You both make me push to have a better outlook on life and make me want to go after the life I want. Hugs and high fives to both of you! 😁
I feel better just seeing this comment. I didn't think to skip to the end. I'm still watching ❤
I did the same thing.😬
Kids in 1 year or 10 years, you guys are the most loving parents to Oso and will be such amazing parents when the time comes! ❤
Keeping positive for you and Eamon in these challenging times. You are so strong, not just on your own but with Eamon beside you. I know you can tackle this obstacle, Bec. 🧡💙🧡💙
Watched 14 days ago. Been thinking of you ever since Bec. I’ve done a powerful meditation that included you, envisioning each one of your cells healing. 🙏 Eamon you are the best support a person could have. ❤ to you both.
As soon as i saw the title my heart dropped.
Please, tell me Oso is okay. I'm afraid to watch.
@@zenseed75 Oso is fine, don’t worry ❤
@@leeknowtakethewheel2877 ❤️ thank you
My mother in law has been struggling with breast cancer and chemo has been so hard. I keep thinking about you and your journey as we navigate family life with her illness. You have so many people in your corner, guys ❤
Wishing you all the healing, love & joy Bec & Eamon!!! You can do this! Stay in the high vibrations!
For years you've brought us joy and helped us realize life can be different, its all about choices. But this video ... all I think of is how many lives your transparency thru this journey will save. Blessings and joy to both of you!❤
We just found out my mom has breast cancer and there's no words. Positive thoughts to everyone dealing with this.
Praying for your mom In Jesus Name!!❤️🙏🏽
Something you may want to try is painting Lugol's iodine on them. It can also be taken internally. If you research you will find that many are deficient in this vital nutrient.
Read Joe Dispenza’s book Being Supernatural! Have your mom read it too! Latest truth about how our body heals! He researched all cases of spontaneous healing to find WHY! All his research and teaching based on that ability for spontaneous healing and how to tap into it!!!
Anamaria sending you and your mom love and prayers. ❤
lost my mom to metastatic breast cancer. i fucking hate cancer. the best vibes for your mom & everyone else going through this.
Never be afraid to share guys, we’re all here because we’ve grown to love and care about you, not because we just want to be “entertained”
Sending you all so much love and positivity ❤
Exactly this 👆❤
Sharing the joys and sorrows makes you human. We don't need perfection, we need to see you as authentic people. And we celebrate your successes, and we are her to support your journey and care about you in good times and bad. Please take care, Bec and Eamon, and your viewers are good people who have come for the journey with you.
Im so happy Bec isnt going through this alone. I did and it hurt. Thank you Eamon. Support her. Youve been doing great. Bless you both. 💖
My heart is with you Bec ❤ couldn’t watch this with dry eyes. You give voice to the millions who deal with the same fear. All my prayers are with you.
I feel like your dog knows exactly what to do to cheer you up and make you feel better! Play, cuddle, appreciate!
There's nothing like some good puppy love!!
In the childhood cancer world. Moms call it Scanxiety. There is so much anxiety when scans are coming up. My daughter did chemo for 2 &¹/2 years and then blood work every month after treatment for a year. Now she is almost 3 years post treatment, and i now checks every 3 months & it still causes so much anxiety. Prayers sent for enjoying the moment.
Love to YOU momma. You are a warrior for your child!!! Bravo. ❤
Honestly you two are just bloody awesome! Bec you’ll be fine I’m sure. You can do this 💪🏼🙏🏻. I had cancer two years ago and there is so much anxiety about ‘what if’ but try and focus on ‘what if it isn’t’ always visualise the best possible outcome and lean into those feelings. I know it’s hard but it’s hard to go through this anyway. Sending love to anyone who reads this as I totally understand your anxieties and overwhelm ❤️🙏🏻
Sending lots of love, prayers and peace to both of you! You've got this Bec!
Ugh I feel the feels in this. ❤ Surviving and living life after breast cancer is brutal some days. I have been through this exact thing. Scans and more biopsies right after finishing treatment. I’m 32 now and am on Tamoxifen- no kids yet. I’m 3 years clear this coming Saturday ❤ one day at a time, love!
The way that Eamon is trying to calm Bec down and just there. It was so real and sweet. Thanks for sharing this with us ❤️
Aw Bec, im so sorry you have to go through this... its a roller coaster to say the least. You two are so inspiring, keeping it real is so relieving to see. Life isnt easy, but we also dont need to make anything harder than it needs to be and sometimes that is a challenge in itself. Sending you love and patience over the next few weeks. Enjoy this sunshine and your incredible space you have created that exudes healing and tranquility!
Sending you all the positive vibes ❤
Been thinking about you guys, it’s crazy to feel so connected to people you have never met. You two are an inspiration, much love from sw Ontario ❤️❤️
Just a little reminder that you are so so loved in this community!
I’m glad you’re taking the time to invest in yourselves and hope you know that we’ll all be here if/when you’re ready to come back! 🌸🩷
I have been watching you guys for a few years. You know how you started watching certain TH-camr's and you just connect? Your sweet, genuine and loving spirits radiate through the screen and you feel like friends. So when you guys hurt, I do to. As a Healthcare provider for nearly 20 years and having loved ones go through similar experiences, I can empathize with phone calls like this. I'm praying for you guys and just know someone in Georgia cares about you. You got this!!
And we are giving a booster hug with thousands of our arms around you giving you a squishy hug. And Eamon too!
We love you and Eamon and Oso!
Diagnosed with breast cancer 10/2020. Every time my phone sends a notification that I have a new test result in, I stop breathing. Keep slaying life! We’re only here for a short time. 💗💗💗
Hi Bec and Eamon - I found your channel last year while on my own breast cancer journey. I got so much inspiration from you Bec at times I needed it most. You are so strong, have a partner whose love is unwavering, and have many many followers who pray for you. Sending positive karma your way.
I'm so glad that the doctor called to talk to you. It always helps to get the professional's opinion, and for them to explain things to you. Big hugs and prayers ❤
I truly think this IS the kind of video I wanted to be watching, showing resilience, self-love, self compassion and how to stay connected with what really matters, understanding that there will be some downs among the ups and that it's just part of the process to get ourselves through them both. So thank you for that ❤️🩹
Well said! ❤
Bec, you and Eamon have weighed heavy on my heart these last few days. I am sending all the love and strength to you both.
You are both such an inspiration. The love you have for life and eachother. Even when you were both scared at the news, you flipped it around and stayed as positive as you could. It has to be agonizing not knowing and waiting so long. Keep up the good work. We are praying for you. xo
This is my first comment on a video ever, but I just felt so reminded of my own breast cancer journey. I was diagnosed 10 years ago at age 26. My first scan 6 months after treatment they found a suspicious mass and i was terrified for a whole week until the results of the biopsy were in. So I can totally relate to your feelings. It ended up being a fibroadenoma. I think just because of your history they are being super careful. Im sending you all the positive vibes!! ☀️
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It’s almost as if Oso knew you needed to be lifted up the way he was asking you to play and sitting with you during your meditation. Our pets know when we need to be comforted. Thank you for sharing even the difficult times in life. Just know that you’ve got tons of people in your corner.
You are so strong and I love the support you have. Crying can be a refresher and your self care is amazing. Thanks for sharing.
I always go back and watch the last episode before your next one releases, to see where you both were then so I can fully appreciate the mental state you will be in when the new one comes out.
Watching this video the second time makes me appreciate both of your spirit, and fall in love with the two of you all over again.
I can not express the immediate peace you bring to my life just hearing your journey.
Not only because I have full belief that your lives will continue to be beautiful. But because of the absolute and genuine joy you both bring to my home.
Love you both so much, see you again in less than an hour now ❤