RANKED: 10 Explosive Moments From Season 4 of Love & Hip Hop: Miami
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ส.ค. 2023
- From messy family affairs to shocking confessions, here are 10 must-see moments from Season 4 of Love & Hip Hop Miami.
0:33 - Emjay confronts Amara
3:23 - Trick bumps into Joy’s new man
6:01 - Sukihana and Kill Bill in therapy
8:53 - Trina goes off on family
11:36 - Debbie confronts Marlon and Flo
14:12 - Gaelle comes clean about affair with Marlon
17:17 - Gaelle tells Flo about Marlon’s lovechild
20:38 - Amara vs Shay
23:24 - Ray J and Princess talk divorce
26:39 - Sukihana chooses family over Kill Bill
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Ray J calling somebody a liar and a cheater is HYSTERICAL 😂😂😂😂
It really is he's been lying and cheating on Princess for so long sad
@@msladylibra8373But didn't you hear? Randoms, strippers, and pros don't count......I guess.
Hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahaha 😂😂😂😂
@@fashioncs24🤭👏🏾🤣🤣🤣
@@fashioncs24 ray j Hella simple
Amara really got lost in the dating world. Her mom was right...
Sometimes you have to live & learn!
like she left someome broke who lived her for someone rich who want nothing to do w/ ha. money not everything i hope she learned that lesson
@@thereallalalyneeThat Man Used Her He Did Not Love Her. Like Cut It Out 😂
@@dy1228he did more for her than a dollar ever could. they only show what they want to be shown
@@thereallalalynee he was also using her tho...
@@thereallalalyneelmao i rather someone rich give me a headache than a broke mf
I don’t know if it was a fake story line or not; but, the entanglement between Marlon, Debbie, Flo, & Gaelle was trifiling.
Tht was definitely fake, I’ve seen Debbie in sc videos with Florence lol but it definitely was good entertainment
@@tinaamour3502 what about with gaelle? Have you seen anything about that? I thought that’s who she had the problem with, the sister cheating with husband or somethin?
@@tinaamour3502 I’m happy it was fake but, I personally wouldn’t even play like that for a check.
@@JoAciaTaylorExactly its vile true or nah ya'll got lil Kids its embarrassing
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️as hell
suki really called the pastor “your honor” 😭
She’s hilarious 😂
I died... Sent me to the king 😂😂😂
Not Ray saying strippers and prostitutes don't count 🤦♀️
Get away while you can Princess
Not really this is her karma for Tierra
I think they are back together in LHHATL😂😂
It’s too late 😭😭 she had hella chances
Teairra has her fxxkups, but she still dodged a bullet by not being with Ray.
@@livewell-xt5xr Exactly, after Princess spent all of season 1 coming for Teairra after knowingly fxxking Ray while he and Teairra were still dating.
“Strippers & prostitutes don’t count” HILARIOUS! Physically sleeping with someone with no emotions vs building a connection with someone to move on with is a big no no for ray lol
I literally spit my noodles out
I get why EmJae was upset and even angry with Amara. But at the end of the damn day, they all agree they were broken up by the time she got with Alan. So what exactly is there to "take accountability" for??? Shay just wanted a storyline.
He needs to cut out the hats man.
💯💯💯💯
that was his friend😭
@@Userrandom44477but at the same time, why does she have to continuously be attacked to admit it? you saw and was told and seen the result…but at the end of the day again , just cut them off , and move on to better to me 🫤🤷🏽♀️
@@Chapstick.. they were all friends. her and amara were very close and called each other sisters. then amara and emjay broke up. shay still wanted to be her friend. she wasn’t mad that she broke up with him. amara had twins with his friend who she met through him. idk about you but me and my brothers are close and if my friend had twins with one of their friends we would have a serious problem.
I understand Trina’s pain. But she really hurt Joy when she snapped at her. Joy loves her and just wants to help her heal.
I agree boo. Hopefully Joy sees its Trinas pain attacking them
Yea I honestly think she meant no harm but sometimes ppl need space and time and if they harming themselves then it’s time to step in but I hope they made up
She is still hurting really bad
@@kayjohnson9470 that doesn't mean joy wasn't wrong cause she was
help her heal with the cameras on........................ok girl lol
Was Amara wrong for sleeping with her ex's friend, maybe, but what is she taking accountability (aka responsibility) for? Her ex's feelings? Nope. Not her problem how Emjay feels. He needs to move on.
Yeah she was foul
Well he was a user anyways!!
@@andrinetoussaint7166 How? They were broken up before she dated Alan. Amara doesn't owe Emjay anything. He's just an entitled, nosy brat.
Her preference is really Dominican men.
@@xiamariansupreme72she dated her exes friend that weird... If a friend you introduced your mate to starts dating your ex after you break up that's foul out of everyone in the world you feel so g someone I introduce you too... Allen is Amaras Karma
Shay did the absolute mostttttt and MJ looking for 'closure' after Amara gave birth is crazyyyy
Amara was on line going after Shay and Shay had nothing to do with it, that's why it escalated
@@nneoma6106girl wtf is you talking about😂😂😂 you sound slow af
@@livewell-xt5xr people always bold online 😂
@@nneoma6106 exactly
MJ dragged it for max seasons at that. Bc even the reunion seasons he was still dragging it. Then apologize
Emjay: “I would’ve never did no shit like that too you”
Amara: “No, you just did it with other bitches”
Emjay: “There you go”
These men….. lord 🤦🏾♀️
Ridiculous honestly
@@winniethewocbussinattheopps That took me 😂 like woah 😳
Amara may have bad taste in men but she was right about emjay ...he was living with for money literally and cheating
Who’d he cheat with? I knew the broke part but never heard of the cheating.
@@AllHailKingRoseI haven't heard about the cheating part either.
She either is only doing this for the show or she just chooses men like her waste of a father. Either way it’s sad.
Y’all really on her side.? That women messed up ina head fr😭😭
Who'd he cheat with?!?...I think u made that part up boo....
I hate the way RJ speaks to Princess. He speaks to her like she's less than him . Alot of gaslighting comments . Girl you deserve better .
Princess getting a taste of her own medicine , because remember she laughed at Tierra now karma hit her even harder
I think thats why she won't let go, she still wants to feel like she "won".
@@loRdpharaohYep
I felt Trina when she was speaking about her mom....There's no pain greater...You never get over it.....I have been there and it's like my soul been snatched out..
Thinking about how I will one day have to experience this type of pain. It literal consumes my thoughts every single day. Peace and love to you and your mom, her spirit lives on ❤
@@niyajawn thank you!!!...I'm just grateful that I had such a wonderful mommy and I was able to be there to the end LITERALLY!!!
It is like a scar it heals but you can see it and sometimes you feel it.
However on a daily basis you live with it
@@gabdongipark thank you for your perspective on it and I’m sorry that you know how to describe it ❤️
I can honestly relate to what Trina is saying. When I lost my mom last year, my whole world changed and I’ll forever won’t be the same. It’s definitely painful 😢💔
It ain’t WTF you say but how you say it🤌🏾👌🏾
@@mrssuchafknladyy2078 exactly,
I think we can all empathize with Trina, but her delivery and attitude is always trash!
Trina is very immature. I’m not sure how much longer she will live without growth.
What’s irritating is she is not the only person to lose their mom.
We all suffer but through Christ we learn how to handle grief.
Man man they don't even know..got an angel the end of April and my God..I can't even speak of her in past-tense smh
With family like Gaelle you don’t have time for enemies.
For REAL.
She does not want her happy! WTF
Emjay acting pathetic tbh... LET IT GOOOOOOO ALREADY
He needed to hang onto Amara's name as long as possible for a check and camera time.
Storyline behavior 😮😮
I cried for Trina because I understood her and how she felt . They needed to give her space and time.
Exactly! Talking real right! They should have allowed her to grieve in her own time without interference, No one knows the pain of losing their mom until it happens to them. I can tell you it's pain that one can't isolate in one place.
She just said ain’t no time. Its off limits til the day she passes. Periodtt‼️
She was absolutely right
But she didn’t have to talk to the pastor like that and dismiss god.
@@selenamartinez2493 I agree but all that is out of pain and people crossing boundaries. You know she stays respectful major time. That right there is pure pain.. you have to allow someone to come to you when they already to talk
That Kill Bill and Suki scene was so embarrassing…
Edit: WOW. Ray J is mentally abusive asf!
Omg, very 😂😂
Ray j scene was very hard to watch 😖
Especially that disaster of a bridal shower 💀
All that cursing in front of a pastor? I couldn't imagine.
Yes he is😅
That pastor was professional af
😂😂😂😂
Gaelle is the worst sister one can have. She goes out of her way to embarrass and hurt Flo. Flo needs to cut Gaelle and Marlon out of her life permanently.
How did flo not swing on her sister. Probably one of the worst betrayals to ever experience
That's y I think it's fake
@@butameremortal9424has to be 😂. Like he’s so bad at the so called lying, Flo can’t be that naive
I’ll never hit my sister especially over a guy.
@@KewanaNeddit would be over the betrayal not the guy. As her blood sister she could have gone with anyone but she went with her sister's man that's sinister and dropping the guy would be easier than dropping your family member and now other family members feel stuck in the middle
Joy’s man did not touch Trick. He just wanted to cause a scene smh
Not at all 😂😂😂😂.
That’s what I’m saying😭
I had to keep replaying that part to make sure I wasn’t crazy😹😹
Amara is not responsible for her ex's feelings.
Joy is so beautiful! Trick really messed up with that one. 😂❤
I feel so bad for Flo 😭 she truly deserves better
No she doesn’t.
It’s all fake
Kill Bill and Suki definitely needed that pre-marital and individual counseling. When they're getting along, its beautiful. When he crosses her by saying the wrong thing, all hell breaks loose and Suki emasculates Bill into the dust and berates him as unworthy. He, in return, chews her up by verbally attacking her womanhood. If these two could have resolved their toxic holds on each other, I believe they would have been a great match.
I can understand why trina is upset loosing a parent your close to is heart breaking I love how joy didn't get defensive she just listened and let trina vent
The Gaelle thing needs to be made up because no, thats so disgusting.
Her own sister fucked her nigga out of her nigga in the world
For real!!
It’s def made up
Maaan, idk- Haitian men are something ELSEEEE
I don't think it is
It’s comical that Amara really thought Allen was going to marry her, even bragged that he would, that dude had gigolo energy from jump. He has mad women in the DR.
She looked ridiculous
Dominican men are savages
Not gigolo energy 😂
@@icyunvme2400 🤣
She has a type. MJ wasn't gonna do shit either. Over ten years and on with the same bs? Same wolf, different clothing.
This is why Amara's mom felt the need to be overbaring because she knew she raised Amara not to make smart choices because everything was decided for her and when it came down to Amara making decision about the men in her life thats what she gravitated to. more ppl that speak to her like she cant think for herself. She was an easy target being coddled.
Amara “Go return your rental.” 😂😂🤣
Trina is absolutely 100% right on what she said at no.7 - u can't ambush someone with a priest and make them feel a different way to how they feel about someone extremely close to them, dying. She has every right to feel, how she feels and they should allow her to be like that and for as long as she needs and wants to, it is her mother after all
The pastor said"oh no, we can't be doing that"
"We gotta go with the holy oil" 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
This girl is a stupid one. She let this man do her dirty so many times yet go back. She says “I’m willing to believe gielle over marlon because she is untrustworthy” but the man who cheated on you multiple times isn’t? He stooped low enough to even chest with ya sister. I can’t continue to pity women in situations like these any more.
I cannot either….there are too many dumb women believing men’s lies.
"don't mention my momma!...." "Don't bring my momma in to this"". I felt that... praying for you Trina.
Emjay, knew he was bumming off of Amari!! Emjay kept running back acting like the victim but never owned up to the fact that he cheated and used Amari's money to do it!! Males like this, need to stay by themselves until they can support themselves and a place to live!!
Honestly if I were Joy I’d never do anything for Trina again, she’s so disrespectful.
Right! Like people are excusing her behavior to the pastor. God is king and you just dismissed one of his warriors and him. Yes we feel your pain. But you’re not the last person who’s mother will die. She would’ve wanted her daughter to continue the legacy she installed in her daughter. Right now she’s being selfish
@@selenamartinez2493you’re dismissing her pain, give people time and space to grieve. When they are ready they will come on THIER terms not yours
@@lifeofmarshae you still did not have to dismiss god.
@@selenamartinez2493 she didn’t dismiss him boo she said he can’t fix that pain she feels from losing her mom and he can’t. How is that dismissing him? He can’t take away the moments she’s crying because she misses her, the moments she needs her mom and she not there, he can’t fix. Put yourself in her shoes and empathize with her pain if you can’t don’t speak on her pain or how she feels
@@lifeofmarshae I understand how she feels. I can’t imagine.
He’s doing magic towards Flo. Cause ain’t no way. May God bless them.
🇭🇹 😂
Fr
How Trina acted, I acted when I lost my dad. Looking back on it I was so hurt and I lost so many good people
Same, God will come to her Himself when it’s time…. But when my mom died I wasn’t trying to hear nothing from nobody
Emjae looked Lowkey bitter and mad that Amara moved on in general and then shay coming in they business again like girl you did not have a relationship with Amara and emjae mind your business
Losing a mother is a different kind of pain. I lost my mother while I was in my second year of university and the pain I felt is indescribable.
Amara and Emjay arguing in matching outfits is wild!!!
Flo lacks self esteem. As beautiful as she seems to be inside and out…she seems very insecure when it comes to “her man”.
Wrong
What? He’s cheated on her multiple times
@@tishuntejenkins801 exactly. Yet she still puts up with it. Wouldn’t you call that insecurity?
She enjoys being cheated on..
Pastor Adams said, "we have to get the Holy water" for Suki & Bill! 😂😂😂
When suki said ur honor 😂😂😂😂😂
Damn Trina snapped & I can’t even say that I feel her pain because my mom is still here🥲sending hugs to her though!!!
I lost my mom and grandmother two days apart and it’s only been about 3 maybe 4 years. You can’t tell someone how to grieve but you can’t cry wolf and then get disrespectful and self centered when someone tries to help the cries that your shouting. Like nah she was wrong
Right. Trina acting like they were random bitches talking crazy about her mother.
I’m sorry for your losses. Praying for you.
Praying for you all you family 💗💗💗
Please say it again for the people in the back !!
I think it's highly inconsiderate of them to have an intervention for Trina when all she is doing is grieving. She's sad because she lost the most important person in her life and yall call her being depressed!??!! Shame on all of them for only thinking about themselves!
I recently had a similar situation where I thought my mother had pass and the entire drive to the hospital, I was wailing in pain! In PAIN because I believed I had lost my mother! I can only imagine that feeling being 10x worse for Tina because her mom is gone! Shame, shame, shame on them all! And on the pastor to tell her that there would be no more pain! What?? The pain will always be there, it will diminish over time because you will have to accept that she is no longer there but that loss will always be there!
Again, shame on them all!
Who ever edits these videos never learns to turn down the damn background music!!!!!
Facts
What Trina said at 10:30 🔒 wow that’s my biggest fear bc my mom has not only been a Mom but a supportive, loving mom who’s taught me so much & been with me through every day of my life not judging me yet holding me accountable for my personal growth etc. I can’t imagine not having such pure love in my life, God keep her with me till the end of time 🙏🏻🔒
🙏🏾 amen
I think it's the most disrespectful thing to see sukihana cursing in front of this minister is just awful😮🥴🤡🤬🙋🏻♀️
She’s an awful woman.
Minister are pimps and that is all
It was a scene he agreed to do, knowing ahead of time they cuttin tf up!!! Noticed, he wasn’t too shocked lol
I'm sorry I ain't perfect and I don't judge but I cringed every time she cursed 😂. I'm glad to see she's trying to change her ways.
Trick love him some joy
Flo deserves so much better than this. She is beautiful, ambitious, and clearly a very loving person. The fact that she is able to forgive such atrocious behavior from her partner and sister takes such a big heart, but all that love could go to people who actually deserve it and who will love you back the way you deserve. I hope she recognizes her worth and leaves this man for good. And honestly, she should cut her sister off too. Not all family needs to be in your life.
Trina is absolutely right about the loss of a mother and that no one will understand until they have too. But she's wrong about how God will help you to move past anger and pain and blessed to know they are in a better place. We of course want them here with us for us but they are in a better place. Time heals but may never forget and thats a part of it too.
Religion can only do so much. Y'all gotta stop giving credit to someone/something you have never seen, and you can not touch. I'm sure Trina believes in God, but she knows that her belief has its limits. I am not trying to trash talk people's religions, but there is only so much a "higher power" can do for you. She misses her mom, and she is her motivator. Her mom was physically there for her, which something in the sky can not do for people.
@@kaiwen4105yep it’s the human experience, though I don’t yet understand, as humans we were created to love. The love overpowers the knowing that our loved ones are at peace. You may believe that they are but that doesn’t cancel out the pain those left behind feel on earth. What eases my mind is knowing that the only people who feel pain are here on earth, while those who have passed have no pain but have complete understanding.
Facts
A relationship between a person and God is private. Another person cannot come in and say what God said or wants over someone else's life lol, only their own.
Thank you for those words. My Dad died a few months ago, my family treated me horribly and I'm still out here ready to fight.. I gotta keep these thoughts
Amara leaving Emjay then fucking Allen just to end up a bm is CRAZY😂😂😂 I can’t even feel bad for her😭👎🏽
No woman deserve to go thru their pregnancy alone tho💯
@@ninanyomiiThat’s why it’s imperative for women to do their kids a favour by having children with men WHO want to be fathers.
Ray J must of lost what’s left his mind! Strippers and prostitutes don’t count! Boy Bye!! Princess deserves much better!😂
Why does Trina always take everything the wrong way? 😭 they just wanted to help her heal
That part!!
Gaslighting never helps anyone heal.
I agree her reaction was a bit much, but I do understand the words she is saying. I lost my mom and it still hurts five years later.
She makes my BP go up with all that screaming
She’s not smart
Whoever’s reading this, I pray that whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen
🥰🥰🥰
Sikuhana is so entertaining 😂she is funny, smart, and quick as hell.
Amara: *calls Shay a shitty person and trashes her business online
Also Amara: OMG WHY IS SHAY SO MADDDDD?????
ummm....ok.
And she broke shay's brother's heart.
@@nicoleraheem1195 if he was cheating on her, i can understand why Amara would move on, but yeah, from Shay's P.O.V., Amara hurt her brother so Shay is standing up for MJ
@@nicoleraheem1195As she should. He was an asshole who used her for her money and cheated on her
but she doesn’t want her brother to stand up for their mom, mentality is so backwards
Emjay trying to check Amara is HILAROUS! Amara is returning the favor and now he's acting innocent.
Suki be takinggggggggg meeee 😂
Amara ,Had a whole a baby and created a new life and mj still looking for “closure “ but you think your gonna get that from a public interview !😂 whack
Amara hair really suit her skin tone . Not the pink stripes one . The one in the scene with emjay . She looked gorgeous 😍
I feel bad for kill bill. I think he really loved Suki and was on the path to trying to be bettter. He seems he had genuine intentions for Suki and Suki got a bit of fame and is letting it get to her head like she’s too good for him. But he was with you and had ur back when nobody knew u
No he wasn’t lol he was with him bm. Then he met her she already had a fan base. Bill stays down the street from me he a regular hood Nigga
#7 Trina showed some raw emotions and I’m glad I got to see it because the pain I have from losing my Dad is a pain that can never be healed nor hidden. I will always have that missing piece from my heart😔😢🕊️
Bill loved, loved Suki. But the things she's done online, its gonna be hard to find another person willing to wife her
I swear
It’s really sad bc she used to say she’d never sell her soul for fame and money and it’s very clear she has. And in the end, you lose.
💯🎯💯🎯
Why the heck is the music louder than their voices? Cant even hear what they are saying.
gaelle just never want to see her sister happy. you already know she plotted that affair to try and split her sister and marlon.
Ray J Is The Definition Of A Narcissist 😂
Lmfaoooo Suki had me weak af. 'He don't even pray over his food. I pray over my food. I'm the one who taught him how to pray, that's why you aint in the streets no more' 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Trina’s scene I can’t relate to, however I saw my mom break down at my grandmas funeral. She passed the day after Easter @ 95. I’ll never forget the pain in my mom’s eyes 😢
Marlon is annoying AF and Flo is pissing me off for standing by a man who clearly does not appreciate her and the sad part is she knows it. Gaelle really needs to stop raining on her sister's parade. Marlon just using these women and it's sad.
Flo is enjoying this , I don’t understand how anyone on this earth would stand for such BS.. this looks all fake to me
This Marlon guy will deny something he's holding in broad daylight 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I feel Trina pain I lost my mom years ago and it’s still hurting me to this day
Wooow Ray J is so full of himself 😂 I hope princess NEVER get back with him
Don't watch the new season then... cos she back with him
VH1 there is no reason for the loud music, it’s literally louder than the clips
“Strippers and prostitutes don’t count” I’m genuinely scared of men 😭
My friend says men are demonic. 🤷♀️
Me women of nowadays ,watch them yikes stay single men...
Trina has every right to respond how she responded because she has raw emotion and everyone is not comfortable with random people praying for them.I lost my mom and you have to let her process her emotions its so hard and she probably wanted to deal with it privately and not on camera I know she is on reality tv but everything is not for a plot line
It’s crazy how amara was hollering my man my man my man and ended up empty handed
I feel exactly what Trina was saying. My son passes and it’s nothing anybody can say to me that will ever change how I feel and it’s offensive when they try especially if they haven’t experienced it.
People are calling her disrespectful when she asked for space and time. Nothing can ever change that pain you feel about losing someone.
With Trina , even though my momma is living and well (THANK YOU GOD ) I can feel her pain . I can imagine when the day comes I loose my mom , I will be the exact same way . They was wrong for that !
MJ gotta move on. He look so pathetic chasing after Amara. To be broke up and even if it was a friend of his, Amara was single so she and dude hit it off. If you care about her, let her go. Shes happy, 2 kids and is a new mama at that. She doesnt need extra stress.
Facts like dang leave her to be a single mother with her twins chile😂
He does need to move on... However getting pregnant by your exes friend that he introduced you to ( with all the men in the world) says a lot about your character... I believe the way Allen treats her is Karma... Imagine if Allen had a baby with a friend Amara introduced him to, then I guess it would be wrong
My heart hurts for Trina so bad😢😢😢I couldn’t imagine that man I hate this for her so bad💔
Damn Trina is holding on to a lot of pain behind the loss of her mother but it’s completely understandable. I feel bad she snapped on Joy. Joy was only trying to help. ❤
I felt Trina 100% I lost my dad a year ago and if you have never lost a parent you will never know what that feels like can’t nothing change how you feel period
Ray j’s logic is crazy 😂😂😂😂 men don’t surprise me anymore
as a christian, yall gotta stay praying for the knowledge cs don't be so quick to believe these prophets and their preaching once you understand the word, small things like ts become easy to read thru
Lmao “I don’t like the fact that the big coochie cat crew is here” 😭😂.
Ray J has always gotten on my nerves 😩
people in the comments talking about how Trina is wrong for the way she reacted...i watched that scene a couple times and i'm on Trina's side. People like to think the way to bring someone out of pain is by offering sweet little platitudes, in this case about how "God will take care of you", but like, at the end of the day, you cannot tell someone how they should feel about anything they're going through. It is VERY intrusive and self-aggrandizing to come in and tell someone they're gonna be "good" or that you prayed their pain away or something. This woman didn't know who Trina was, claimed that a prophet came to her about a "woman celebrity" (which could have been ANYONE), and continued being vague about how this celebrity was "going through things" like duh, EVERYONE "goes through things"; That's a common tactic for these fake prophets: being vague and letting the other person fill in the blanks for themselves, then patting themselves on the back as if they did something. She came in expecting to be the hero and that Trina would react a certain way but thats all fake af; You just spent your first meeting with her making it all about YOU and how God spoke to YOU and about how YOU and God were gonna deliver her from evil or something. what do you have specifically for Trina to let her know you get it?
It is not up to YOU how someone processes things, ESPECIALLY something as deeply personal as losing a parent/family member; you can be there for someone and support them and let them know you got them, but you can never just tell someone it'll go away and they';ll get over it.
Not to mention, they decided the best way to do this was to put Trina on the spot with an "intervention", which would be broadcast to millions (and most likely already knowing, since this is coming from Trina's COUSIN, that she hates surprises). As much as we want to help people and take their pain away, you cannot truly 'help' someone until they're willing to help themselves and that is a decision that has to come from Trina. Am I saying they should just not do anything and let Trina 'suffer'? Absolutely not. But this was not it, especially with someone like Trina who takes it VERY personally.
Thank you! I was hoping I wasn't the only person feeling the same. The moment the pastor came in with the vague, "fill in the blank" "prophesies, i knew what time it was. These fake pastors love taking advantage of people at their most vulnerable
I'm sure joy had the right intentions but sometimes those kind of platitudes can come off as intrusive and condescending. I don't know trina's religious background, but if she's not a spiritual person, this choice is even more bizarre. They should have let trina process her pain in her own time and space.
@@vday16 condescending! Thats the word i was looking for. Thank you
@@vday16 the woman didnt know anything about Trina but had already decided she had the answers. That is some side-eye shit
@@Agju I think its the fact that people are uncomfortable around grieving people and want them to just hurry up and get over their pain so that they go back to being normal. Thing people don't realise is that grief changes people on such a fundamental level even after you've healed enough to start your life again
When my grandmother died the last thing i wanted to hear was "God called her to a better place" because its dismissed the fact that all I wanted was for her to be here with me again.
I'm surprised more people are not seeing this from trina's perspective. The lack of emotional intelligence is ridiculous
@@vday16 you're preaching to the choir. you get into this place where ANY "positive message" or attempt at comfort, while well-meaning, seems like a betrayal of how you're really feeling. If you'll permit me to use another analogy, it's like when someone says, "I don't see race/color" when referring to POC. It SOUNDS okay on paper and you can see what they were going for, but when you look past the surface, people who say that are glossing over the lived-in stories, the resentments and pains, of being black/brown/yellow/purple/whatever. To say you don't see color is to ignore the stories of POC, just like someone telling Trina, or people like Trina, that "you prayed for them and God will take their pain away" is conveniently trying to gloss over their very real stories/experiences that a grieving person goes through.
It reminds me of a scene from the UK edition of Big Brother. A male contestant was told that his grandmother had passed and he decided to leave the competition. As he was going about the house, people kept saying the usual things like "at least she's in a better place" and "she lived a long full life" but he responded with stuff like "No, she lived a tough life and its not like living longer made it better" (i'm paraphrasing).
so TL:DR, people need to understand that they have give others their space and learn how to support someone without making it about them. I am definitely with Trina here; this is her experience, these are her feelings, and none of these shenanigans are going to fly.
That poor pastor had no idea what was about to happen to him with Sukihana and Kill Bill 😂
I understand Trina's reaction. She's 💔 forever.
Trina needs a lot of healing . My mom died . She was murdered . You can’t stay angry forever . I refuse . It’s not the way our moms would want it . And if I can forgive the man that killed my mom ( my dad) and keep believing in God and praying , and knowing that one day I will see her again.. than Miss Trina… so can you.
You are right… the pain cuts deeeeeeep. But I refuse to let the devil win .
She has an issue with bleeding all over people who didn't cut her. She is going to find herself alone without a support system if she keeps this behavior up. She cannot expect anyone to accept her abuse just because she is hurt.
So sorry for your lost❤️❤️
My condolences 🙏 ❤
My condolences to you.
Sorry for your lost 😢. Some people heal and some don’t !
Trina ALWAYS flies off the handle. It’s freaking annoying and ignorant. Get a grip on your emotions.
Grown asl acting like a child .
She was talking about her deceased mother, was you dropped on your head as a child?
She’s a Sagittarius
I can sympathize with her because of her circumstances. However,…Trina needs to grow up. She’s always blowing up at the drop of a hat. Which one of her friends are going to hold her accountable?
@@candyangel324 I watched the clip and I know exactly what she was talking about. I’m talking about more than this clip. Whenever she gets upset she flies off the handle. She talks all fast, walks all fast, says a bunch of nonsense about how she’s from Miami … even tho no one cares. This situation is no different. Her cousins were not trying to disrespect her in any way and she honestly wasn’t disrespected so there was no need for such a strong reaction. I hope that clears up any ambiguity from my comment and if it doesn’t … that’s just too damn bad for you isn’t it?
Amara Amara… now she with Safaree… I know y’all love her but she fast… she talking all that stuff with Allen and they not even together lol she definitely hops into relationships quickly…
she got wirh alan 5 months after emjay. n they say emjay crazy lol
No literally!!! Bragging about getting married and they didn’t last 6 months 😩😭
WHAT? she's with safaree?!? hold the phone
She with who now?
And Alan was the same man who couldn't be bothered to show up to her baby shower 🥴🥴 and talking about marriage
Amara did all that just to end up a single mother of two 😭
Yep 🤣🤣🤣 her mother tried to warn her.
@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 It’s wilddddd
Noting wrong with that even kim Kardashian is a single mom.
@@Becxx88They’re not saying single motherhood is wrong, they’re just saying that Amara was defending her bd against people she’s really close to over a man that didn’t even come to her baby shower
@@jazzy5410 Single motherhood IS WRONG.
The pastor kinda looks like Cedric the Entertainer lol
Exactly😊 I was trying to figure out who he looks like..thanks for pointing Cedric the entertainer coz he really resembles him with a little mix of Martin Lawrence
Did Amara really accuse Shay of trying to ride on her fame??? Girl, we knew about Shay waaaaaay before we knew about you!😂