@@StanChrisStanChris I had a brother that was gay, he married another man at first it was difficult for me because when were younger he took me to a gay bar in Tucson and a guy grabbed my butt. I knocked the guy out with one punch having been in excellent shape at the time. But I still loved my brother. I happen to not be gay, but I do admit I have seen some guys that were really cute!! To show emotion such as hugging is quite fine with me so long as it is done in respect. I realize some guys are into other guys and witnessed this in the jails I worked in during my career with my sheriff's office!! It was much more the officers behaving this way, not the inmates. Of course I am a believer so that says much about this topic!! I am surprised you did not encounter a guy hitting on you, as you very good looking, or the opposite of some guy being offended and going off on you!!
huge props to the dude's dad for being so cool. And his reaction was just warming to my heart. Love you no matter what, doesn't matter to me, just said all the right things.
I am sure his son walked away with a new level of respect for his Dad, and that they had a dad to son and son to dad talk when he got home. Always tell your family you love them, it is not about a sexual matter when you do this. I am 67 my brother is 74 we tell each other we love each other every time we talk, we also hug, I love him because he is my brother.
this puts Greece before Italy. well done. yet it seems this is a rare example were politicians and the law is far ahead of the general opinion in society. but it is a good thing. the young generation seems on board and the old won't matter in this regard
This stuff is important. Good to see many guys are comfortable. The dad's reaction in the end was so cute. And that guy himself too, coming back for a hug. So wholesome :)
The black guys and Vince were so great. Nice to know young straight guys out there are like that. Honestly those guys deserved the full $100 imo for 5/6. Vince’s dad was also great and Vince hugging you was adorable.
Absolutely love your brother. And love how you teach the world to accept gays. I have been gay for years and am coming out slowly because of your bravery😢. My hero ❤
OMFG the "Pay to call ur parents and come out as gay" question.... You could build an empire out of that one question. Literally spend the next year asking people that and u will be the biggest thing in the world.
I think we can afford them some benefit of the doubt. It could be that they are scared of being made fun of by peers or maybe they think it's controversial with all the lgbtq activism going on around collages these days. It doesn't necessarily mean they are homophobic or have an issue with gays, it could be more self preservation. At the end of the day I don't think it helps going around calling everyone homophobic if they don't conform or say and do what we would like them to. If they aren't going around attacking or being hateful and mean to gay men then their is no reason to assume they are homophobic. There is real homophbia and discrimination that still goes on in society and in the work place, and if you go around calling everyone homophobic for minor things it begins to lose its meaning and people will start just rolling their eyes when a homosexual person reports real homophobia because people think here we go again another gay person reading homophobia into every little thing. That's my theory on it anyway.
Chris, probably the most indepth and fascinating interview you've done so far! And as usual you look so hot in those tight skinny jeans and haircut fade! 💜🌈
Great video! I got 5/6 correct! The end was very heart warming. A parent who wants their kids to be happy no matter what you are! It brought a tear to my eye! Keep up the great work Chris! ❤
These guys are awesome, and that dads comment made me tear up. Soooooo let's remove smacking the ass as gay actions because guys do that in sports all the time.
I had that happen to me back in 1979, I punched the guy for touching my butt. I was on military leave and thought for sure police would be talking to me, then my First Sergeant back at my base, however nothing came of it, the guy was out cold!!! Good thing I did not kill him with that punch!!! I would be slower to react that way now, but I am much older now, In my opinion hugging is not gay or sexual unless you are engaged in sex!! I hug many men at my church and I am not here to judge anyone. I hope you stay safe in your videos, bound to meet a guy that was like me at age 22, I was a jerk then!!! Funny what age and wisdom do to a man or woman!!!
Best video you’ve ever done. Also of this category of video you asked the most respectful light hearted questions. Other TH-camrs who’ve done this take it too far. Keep up the good work🤓
Wow, the guy who called his dad shows how well he was raised. Props to his parents. He is comfortable with himself and he exudes confidence. Alpha male 100% because he doesn't need anyone to tell him that he is, he already knows it and he's fine with people asking questions about his sexuality.
Awesome! I got to the end of watching this, and then I realised I was grinning like a bloody Cheshire Cat, from ear to ear! So great! Thank you Chris! 🥰
I had to hit pause before the ‘dad call’. I came out at age 20 to both my parents in 2010. If I called my dad today and told (reminded) him I am gay, I think it would break both out hearts all over again. The love is there but acceptance is something different in my experience. It sucks.
This video raised an interest fact: toxic masculinity. Feminism has done a pretty good job discussing that along time, but toxic masculinity is still undiscussed in our societies...
"What's something you think gay guys are good at?" they get uncomfortable, and the question isn't sexual AT ALL. They could say decorating, listening, cooking....but they freak out because THEY'RE thinking sex
The guy who called his dad when he was asked the first question to rate the other guy he said he would give that guy a 0 which I thought wasn’t nice cause also the way he said it sounded rude but as the video progressed and more questions were asked he started to seem friendlier and even agreed to call his dad for the joke which is sort of an easy 100$ but it also takes guts to do
5:06 honestly if I were straight 😂 I would think of it as a compliment or better yet it would be a sign that I’m attractive and so females might have the same opinion. I know not everyone has the same personality. But we can all understand taste, for example I like guys with sort hair , and a girl could like guys with short hair
What a great video! I teared up a little with Vince and his Dad's reaction. You should do a follow up video that's shows how they reacted to all these nice comments.
@ 7:33 it's honestly **B L O W I N G MY DAMN MIND, ** just how many of these dudes are GENUINELY THINKING you are propositioning them for sex, with these frankly silly/ultimately innocuous questions to begin with, *with a very abundantly clear extra camera person/crew, out in the god damn open in the middle of the day on a college campus probably well versed in being approached by people asking similarly content driven sort of questions,* the signs are more than abundant to me that you couldn't possibly be hitting on them in any way shape or form.... So it comes down to: being genuinely nervous in some regard to the questions in general (which is admittedly fair enough... But several of the standoffish dudes answered questionable questions to begin with, so it's not adding up.) OR GENUINE naivety in believing the gays™ are all out here, looking for some strange™, for no discernable reason whatsoever. So is it Real nervousness, post answering some revealing questions, or real inflated self importance, to think some dude(s) with cameras are propositioning college kids for the sex, in the middle of a gloomy Tuesday..... Yall decide. Lol To really hammer this point home, you -asked some tik tok-coded questions, with a camera person, in the middle of the day -rarely, if ever, showed any actual interest in them or their answers in any sort of way to *EVER* suggest anything beyond content related purposes - asked multiple people the exact same questions in different areas of the campus... Leading me to believe this is a campus where such interview style questions is fairly commonplace, if you didn't suddenly get in any trouble with how several of these kids responded. (Wiling to bet it has a conservative leaning tho lowkey.) -NEARLY ALL OF THEM, except the uppity dude with the yes-man attached to his hip, answered some version of some of these questions... Yet stopped at a specific question that gave them the random vibe they were being hit on. ... These kids are either really attached to cartoonist stereotypes of gays, or they've been dead-ass propositioned for sex on this campus before. Which would also make some of them liers, since it was the same dudes that refused to admit to 'doing anything gay, ever.' wild video lol
The first guy who didn't answer the "what are gay guys good at?" question looked more like he didn't want to say something offensive. I don't think it was toxic masculinity.
I love that the dad was so accepting. The guy with the backpack seems like he would be a strong ally. The guy at the coffee stand seemed very genuine and accepting. And the 3 guys seem like they would be very straight but not bothered. The guy who called his dad seemed very questionable at first, but he came through at the end...
Damn, Vinny! You had me squinting my eyes at you when you said Joey's a 0, but won me over at the end! When the 10 said he was a 7, I just knew that it'e because he's humble, which makes him hotter!
I am a 45yr old gay man from San Francisco born and raised. I have fought for our rights and protested for ours and many others. I was there outside of the building the very 1st talks of same sex marriage and watching the proceedings on a news monitor and the San Francisco Chronicle took my photo. I am so proud of you for what you're doing for our community. One thing I am SO happy you don't have to deal with is just how bad homophobia was in the 80s and 90s. I was surrounded by toxic masculinity. I was ridiculed my whole F-ing life and being born with insane genetics being Mexican, Native and Norwegian viking blood I'm just beautiful, lol. Lucky, but it is not a lie or wives tales. It is a curse. People are intimidated and being gay as a young, very young child and apparently everyone knew at 3yrs old. Which was why they felt they had to call me names, make fun of me; but I was not afraid to be myself. I wasn't going to change how I was "acting " I knew I was into men when I was 3yrs old. I saw a porn and knew right away and compared what I had and saw the woman and I was CONFUSED. I had battled alone inside not understanding why I was a boy and not a little girl. I struggled to understand and then my father took me to a gay pride in the 80s. I was so small. I loved cowboys, but have a spiritual connection with horses. My father spared no expenses and he dressed me in some dapper up to date cowboyness and my father loved his shoes so he took me and bought me the best cowboy boots they had. They were grey and black snake skin boots and a Stetson Hat. Then took me to San Franciscos best toys store FAO Swartz to find me the best horse on a stick to match my attire. Yes kid. That's what we had in those days, so shut up😏 After that he took me to my first Pride. I will never for the rest of my life forget everything he told me. I'm crying now. He showed me someone walking down the street in a full chicken costume eating something, then showed me the floats of men and woman dancing half naked or just naked. Seeing the men dressed leather and the celebration of being who are. He told me, son look around here. You're lucky to be born in a city with such diversity. People have fought for centuries for their rights to believe in, or Free themselves. This is the outcome of struggling and fighting for your rights. You're my only child and I know you're special. This city celebrates every culture, religion and sexual identity. Whatever it is that you feel you want to be? You need to know that you're NOT ALONE. There are people JUST LIKE YOU, WAITING for you to find them and when you get older, you will, and I'll be right there for you, whoever you want to be, cause I'm your dad and you're my son and I love the Bups(my nickname). I love my father very much and I miss him. That is a man. That is a man that was able to talk to EVERYONE and without judgement. Your videos help creating more men like my father. So I appreciate you and thank you for taking our community forward in such a way to unite through humor and gay masculinity to be less threatening to the hetero male ego. Much love kiddo. This shit is funny AF😂
It’s crazy that the group of brothers were the coolest, I had the perception that the black community was more homophobic, but it was the white dudes that seemed way more uncomfortable on this one
Damn that guy with the braids has a REALLY good gaydar! Also he's weirdly attractive!!! Weirdly because he's not my usual type but there's something about him...
I really like your content, but as a blind person, I need to let you know the text that you type on the screen I can't see it, so perhaps, if you could have synthetic speech to read it or if you could read it, then you would be fully assessable for a wider audience 0:06
they are not toxic you are, EVERYBODY needs to know content before getting asked a question. the world does not circle around you. it's amazing you have never been hit before
So declining to answer some questions automatically means “toxic masculinity” but trying to decipher a dude’s sexuality based on a single photo isn’t? 🤔
You should have given that guy in the green pants 100 dollars anyway. He was great! And the three guys who answered 4/5 right, 100 too! Man! you tough.
hypothetically, if you scrolled back up & hit the like button for me. I would hypothetically kiss you 😚
Hypothetically, do I still get a kiss as a friend even though I'm a girl 😔🫶🏼
Liked! 🩵🩵🩵 Anything for you stanchris senpai!!! 🤭🤭
I always hit the like button, come visit this old bear and I will do all the kissing down stairs so to speak ❤😂, I live in Pennsylvania ❤😂😂😂
Only hypothetically? That's a shame 😔
lol 😂
“Why is he holding his waist like that?!” 💀💀💀
love that part 😂😂😂
9:51
It must be how gays hold their hips 😂
he's gay af, he's gay as! i love kelon 🧡💜💞
I died. Then, he zoomed in, I died even more. 🤣
At the end the guy said I love you and he hugged him , that is a sign of a guy who is not afraid to show a another guy some appreciation
facts! Vinny was awesome
@@StanChris Vinny is a legend
That's a guy who's confident enough to be like whatever. And his Dad, way awesome acceptance & love (:
Some of us are introverts and we don’t care for overt displays of emotion; regardless of whatever label you’ve let others define you as.
@@StanChrisStanChris I had a brother that was gay, he married another man at first it was difficult for me because when were younger he took me to a gay bar in Tucson and a guy grabbed my butt. I knocked the guy out with one punch having been in excellent shape at the time. But I still loved my brother. I happen to not be gay, but I do admit I have seen some guys that were really cute!! To show emotion such as hugging is quite fine with me so long as it is done in respect. I realize some guys are into other guys and witnessed this in the jails I worked in during my career with my sheriff's office!! It was much more the officers behaving this way, not the inmates. Of course I am a believer so that says much about this topic!! I am surprised you did not encounter a guy hitting on you, as you very good looking, or the opposite of some guy being offended and going off on you!!
huge props to the dude's dad for being so cool. And his reaction was just warming to my heart. Love you no matter what, doesn't matter to me, just said all the right things.
I am sure his son walked away with a new level of respect for his Dad, and that they had a dad to son and son to dad talk when he got home. Always tell your family you love them, it is not about a sexual matter when you do this. I am 67 my brother is 74 we tell each other we love each other every time we talk, we also hug, I love him because he is my brother.
He had me tearing up. That was so sincere.
My country, Greece, has recently legalized equality on marriage, and I'm so happy for this! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
2000 years after yall STARTED it. Lol
this puts Greece before Italy. well done. yet it seems this is a rare example were politicians and the law is far ahead of the general opinion in society. but it is a good thing. the young generation seems on board and the old won't matter in this regard
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Omg congrats!! I didn't hear about this!
@@awkwardpawsome
Social anxiety is scared of Chris
it didn’t used to be but now it is 😂😂
@@StanChris frr you glew up socially, i remember your first interviews you were sooo shy 🙈
7:45 THAT ONE GOT PERSONAL
"What's something you think gay guys are good at?"
"Head. Probably..." 😏 Yeah sure, 'probably' haha
Cut the video right after too
i actually cried at that phone call, what a wholesome dad
This stuff is important. Good to see many guys are comfortable. The dad's reaction in the end was so cute. And that guy himself too, coming back for a hug. So wholesome :)
at 1:24 his voice when he said “sure” made me feel instantly that he was fearful of what others thought of him.
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the ending really surprised me. how sweet and cool of the dad!
The black guys and Vince were so great. Nice to know young straight guys out there are like that. Honestly those guys deserved the full $100 imo for 5/6. Vince’s dad was also great and Vince hugging you was adorable.
The fathers response really touched my heart❤❤
Absolutely love your brother. And love how you teach the world to accept gays. I have been gay for years and am coming out slowly because of your bravery😢. My hero ❤
Wow that guy who was too uncomfortable and walked away lmao
You know he’s done some gay stuff. 😂
Hes a closted queen
He doesn't look very confident in himself to start with
It shook his whole insecure core, mans didn’t know what to do but flee. 😂
As a gay guy who is not out, what's really disturbing is when a straight guy THINKS you're hitting on him and calls you on it.
The guy claiming he has good gaydar and then hesitates on Joey Gaseffa, then you know he doesn't lol.
The fact this was in my school is even funnier. Respect the grind.
OMFG the "Pay to call ur parents and come out as gay" question....
You could build an empire out of that one question. Literally spend the next year asking people that and u will be the biggest thing in the world.
I feel sad for the straight guys who just can't cope. What are they afraid of? Good interview.
I think we can afford them some benefit of the doubt. It could be that they are scared of being made fun of by peers or maybe they think it's controversial with all the lgbtq activism going on around collages these days. It doesn't necessarily mean they are homophobic or have an issue with gays, it could be more self preservation. At the end of the day I don't think it helps going around calling everyone homophobic if they don't conform or say and do what we would like them to. If they aren't going around attacking or being hateful and mean to gay men then their is no reason to assume they are homophobic.
There is real homophbia and discrimination that still goes on in society and in the work place, and if you go around calling everyone homophobic for minor things it begins to lose its meaning and people will start just rolling their eyes when a homosexual person reports real homophobia because people think here we go again another gay person reading homophobia into every little thing. That's my theory on it anyway.
@@janx8695very thoughtful response
We, the Gays, are kind and sweet to each other, straights have another mentality.
Uhhh... yeah... I've had mixed reactions with that one...
I'll trade you realities. But seriously, If you actually feel that way. I would not trade you realities and enjoy yours, it's beautiful.
Gays are kind and sweet to each other? Are you sure?
@@Merlin4193 Yes.
I have nothing to talk with homophobes and straights.
Those were some cool straight guys, but the Dad at the end wins the award of best human in that video! Loved it.
I really loved the answer from the last guy´s father.
Agreed. Awesome
You're such a cutie, Chris. I love the way you can't hold back laughing, but you're really chill and that's awesome
Chris, probably the most indepth and fascinating interview you've done so far! And as usual you look so hot in those tight skinny jeans and haircut fade! 💜🌈
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Agreed
Agreed
Great video! I got 5/6 correct! The end was very heart warming. A parent who wants their kids to be happy no matter what you are! It brought a tear to my eye! Keep up the great work Chris! ❤
it’s not even toxic masculinity. it’s just insecurity.
"Since when is it weird to rate other" people?
Since ever!
since 1987 specifically.
These guys are awesome, and that dads comment made me tear up. Soooooo let's remove smacking the ass as gay actions because guys do that in sports all the time.
I had that happen to me back in 1979, I punched the guy for touching my butt. I was on military leave and thought for sure police would be talking to me, then my First Sergeant back at my base, however nothing came of it, the guy was out cold!!! Good thing I did not kill him with that punch!!! I would be slower to react that way now, but I am much older now, In my opinion hugging is not gay or sexual unless you are engaged in sex!! I hug many men at my church and I am not here to judge anyone. I hope you stay safe in your videos, bound to meet a guy that was like me at age 22, I was a jerk then!!! Funny what age and wisdom do to a man or woman!!!
*THIS WAS EXCELLENT. PLEASE MAKE MORE.* 👑🤩😎🥰😍🏳️🌈
Chris like honestly answer if vince was really gay that dad would take the staution the right way.
you’re right!
Best video you’ve ever done. Also of this category of video you asked the most respectful light hearted questions. Other TH-camrs who’ve done this take it too far. Keep up the good work🤓
that is the most W dad I’ve even seen 😭
"head.. probably" lol he trying to hideee
You know he definitely has experience 😂
Wow, the guy who called his dad shows how well he was raised. Props to his parents. He is comfortable with himself and he exudes confidence. Alpha male 100% because he doesn't need anyone to tell him that he is, he already knows it and he's fine with people asking questions about his sexuality.
Your brother, Joey, is a SOLID 9.5
Awesome! I got to the end of watching this, and then I realised I was grinning like a bloody Cheshire Cat, from ear to ear! So great! Thank you Chris! 🥰
As a Bi guy who likes more guys i the first thing to answer the question "What are the gay men good at?" Is the same as 7:53 LMAOOOO
My goood! I did not see that last one coming... 😢 He was so cute and his dad's reaction just shows what amazing kids they must be. Respect.
I had to hit pause before the ‘dad call’. I came out at age 20 to both my parents in 2010. If I called my dad today and told (reminded) him I am gay, I think it would break both out hearts all over again. The love is there but acceptance is something different in my experience. It sucks.
There are some films that begin with a guy asking other guys if they will do things for money, you know the type.
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1:12 his posture nerfed him
This video raised an interest fact: toxic masculinity. Feminism has done a pretty good job discussing that along time, but toxic masculinity is still undiscussed in our societies...
You got good gaydar….
“Type shit….” Had me dying 😂😂😂😂
11:15 was actually a great moment
it was 🥲
And here we see why my day gets better and better, the fewer and fewer straight people I have to deal with
Rating people in general is weird it’s objectifying
Its normal human behavior. Everyone does it everyday in their head.
"What's something you think gay guys are good at?" they get uncomfortable, and the question isn't sexual AT ALL. They could say decorating, listening, cooking....but they freak out because THEY'RE thinking sex
I love “word”. You’re such a skater 🛹 😂👍
The guy who called his dad when he was asked the first question to rate the other guy he said he would give that guy a 0 which I thought wasn’t nice cause also the way he said it sounded rude but as the video progressed and more questions were asked he started to seem friendlier and even agreed to call his dad for the joke which is sort of an easy 100$ but it also takes guts to do
true! He was sweet he actually apologized after for rating him a 0 😂
5:06 honestly if I were straight 😂 I would think of it as a compliment or better yet it would be a sign that I’m attractive and so females might have the same opinion. I know not everyone has the same personality. But we can all understand taste, for example I like guys with sort hair , and a girl could like guys with short hair
the dad at 12:00 so wholesome! my heart 😊
Great video! I liked your comments between the segments, putting everything in the appropriate context!👍🏼
What a great video! I teared up a little with Vince and his Dad's reaction. You should do a follow up video that's shows how they reacted to all these nice comments.
@ 7:33 it's honestly **B L O W I N G MY DAMN MIND, ** just how many of these dudes are GENUINELY THINKING you are propositioning them for sex, with these frankly silly/ultimately innocuous questions to begin with, *with a very abundantly clear extra camera person/crew, out in the god damn open in the middle of the day on a college campus probably well versed in being approached by people asking similarly content driven sort of questions,* the signs are more than abundant to me that you couldn't possibly be hitting on them in any way shape or form.... So it comes down to: being genuinely nervous in some regard to the questions in general (which is admittedly fair enough... But several of the standoffish dudes answered questionable questions to begin with, so it's not adding up.) OR GENUINE naivety in believing the gays™ are all out here, looking for some strange™, for no discernable reason whatsoever.
So is it Real nervousness, post answering some revealing questions, or real inflated self importance, to think some dude(s) with cameras are propositioning college kids for the sex, in the middle of a gloomy Tuesday..... Yall decide. Lol
To really hammer this point home, you
-asked some tik tok-coded questions, with a camera person, in the middle of the day
-rarely, if ever, showed any actual interest in them or their answers in any sort of way to *EVER* suggest anything beyond content related purposes
- asked multiple people the exact same questions in different areas of the campus... Leading me to believe this is a campus where such interview style questions is fairly commonplace, if you didn't suddenly get in any trouble with how several of these kids responded. (Wiling to bet it has a conservative leaning tho lowkey.)
-NEARLY ALL OF THEM, except the uppity dude with the yes-man attached to his hip, answered some version of some of these questions... Yet stopped at a specific question that gave them the random vibe they were being hit on.
... These kids are either really attached to cartoonist stereotypes of gays, or they've been dead-ass propositioned for sex on this campus before. Which would also make some of them liers, since it was the same dudes that refused to admit to 'doing anything gay, ever.' wild video lol
This is one of your best videos - much to enjoy and think about…. And the part with Vince was touching…
One of the best videos yet
The first guy who didn't answer the "what are gay guys good at?" question looked more like he didn't want to say something offensive. I don't think it was toxic masculinity.
straight guys are getting more action than me. smh!
I was super scared and uncomfortable with the calling the dad thing, but thank goodness it turned out alright!
nahh no way that dude at 1:35 must be in some sort of deep delusion tob be rating the other guy a 3 while rating himself a 7
Vince and his Dad were the coolest kats!
We need more Vinces and his Dad.
Oh, and yes, I just subscribed to your channel, buddy.
I love that the dad was so accepting. The guy with the backpack seems like he would be a strong ally. The guy at the coffee stand seemed very genuine and accepting. And the 3 guys seem like they would be very straight but not bothered. The guy who called his dad seemed very questionable at first, but he came through at the end...
Damn, Vinny! You had me squinting my eyes at you when you said Joey's a 0, but won me over at the end!
When the 10 said he was a 7, I just knew that it'e because he's humble, which makes him hotter!
The hug at the end was priceless. It was genuine guy. You made my night Chris. I know this is old but still
I am a 45yr old gay man from San Francisco born and raised. I have fought for our rights and protested for ours and many others. I was there outside of the building the very 1st talks of same sex marriage and watching the proceedings on a news monitor and the San Francisco Chronicle took my photo. I am so proud of you for what you're doing for our community. One thing I am SO happy you don't have to deal with is just how bad homophobia was in the 80s and 90s. I was surrounded by toxic masculinity. I was ridiculed my whole F-ing life and being born with insane genetics being Mexican, Native and Norwegian viking blood I'm just beautiful, lol. Lucky, but it is not a lie or wives tales. It is a curse. People are intimidated and being gay as a young, very young child and apparently everyone knew at 3yrs old. Which was why they felt they had to call me names, make fun of me; but I was not afraid to be myself. I wasn't going to change how I was "acting " I knew I was into men when I was 3yrs old. I saw a porn and knew right away and compared what I had and saw the woman and I was CONFUSED. I had battled alone inside not understanding why I was a boy and not a little girl. I struggled to understand and then my father took me to a gay pride in the 80s. I was so small. I loved cowboys, but have a spiritual connection with horses. My father spared no expenses and he dressed me in some dapper up to date cowboyness and my father loved his shoes so he took me and bought me the best cowboy boots they had. They were grey and black snake skin boots and a Stetson Hat. Then took me to San Franciscos best toys store FAO Swartz to find me the best horse on a stick to match my attire. Yes kid. That's what we had in those days, so shut up😏
After that he took me to my first Pride. I will never for the rest of my life forget everything he told me. I'm crying now. He showed me someone walking down the street in a full chicken costume eating something, then showed me the floats of men and woman dancing half naked or just naked. Seeing the men dressed leather and the celebration of being who are. He told me, son look around here. You're lucky to be born in a city with such diversity. People have fought for centuries for their rights to believe in, or Free themselves. This is the outcome of struggling and fighting for your rights. You're my only child and I know you're special. This city celebrates every culture, religion and sexual identity. Whatever it is that you feel you want to be? You need to know that you're NOT ALONE. There are people JUST LIKE YOU, WAITING for you to find them and when you get older, you will, and I'll be right there for you, whoever you want to be, cause I'm your dad and you're my son and I love the Bups(my nickname).
I love my father very much and I miss him. That is a man. That is a man that was able to talk to EVERYONE and without judgement.
Your videos help creating more men like my father. So I appreciate you and thank you for taking our community forward in such a way to unite through humor and gay masculinity to be less threatening to the hetero male ego.
Much love kiddo.
This shit is funny AF😂
Thank you for fighting for our rights
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Its the people like you who made the us a better place for lgbtq people
I think this is your funniest video yet!!
You should ask after a few beers..
This was a fun social experiment. More, please!
thanks!
It’s crazy that the group of brothers were the coolest, I had the perception that the black community was more homophobic, but it was the white dudes that seemed way more uncomfortable on this one
Damn that guy with the braids has a REALLY good gaydar!
Also he's weirdly attractive!!! Weirdly because he's not my usual type but there's something about him...
Girl I would do his laundry and cook for him!
Always interesting content, Stan!
Your brother is hilarious 😂😂😂
10:90 SHERLOCK HOLMES zooming in!
He wants that $100!!!
I really like your content, but as a blind person, I need to let you know the text that you type on the screen I can't see it, so perhaps, if you could have synthetic speech to read it or if you could read it, then you would be fully assessable for a wider audience 0:06
is this satire or
How did u write this comment
Braile@@Ilovegracieabrams123
@@Ilovegracieabrams123 I use dictation on the iPhone
U must be joking 😂
That last interaction with the dad was so cool. Got my subscription!
You need to post moreeeee I love your videos
Dude was way too comfortable calling his dad for his dad not to be cool with it.
that last guy has such a nice dad 🥺
Wish we could ALL have a brother like yours! And a friend like the last dude!
Great vid Chris! 👍🤗
Stan, I’m an older bear… way too old. You are hilarious… you are a good ambassador to us gays.. thanx
The guy and the end is amazing 😭😭😭
I did not expect for kelon/psyiconic too show up
they are not toxic you are, EVERYBODY needs to know content before getting asked a question. the world does not circle around you. it's amazing you have never been hit before
12:32 bros dad now thinks he is😂
So declining to answer some questions automatically means “toxic masculinity” but trying to decipher a dude’s sexuality based on a single photo isn’t? 🤔
yh I feel like there were some things that were considered "toxic masculinity" just bc they wanted to argue that people are toxic 😂
May not be toxic, but definitely weird
Alright Joey Mills, I see you
I´m surprised some were really pissed by being asked to rate someone. A bit rude and sad.
I didnt know it was possible for college to make guys more straight 😂
Straight guy allies are so often the product of having gay brothers or cousins
Not rating people isn't necessarily toxic masculinity. Some people don't like the idea of rating people.
they didnt ‘not rate’ tho, bro said ‘zero’😭😭😭
@@sxbliminxls1272 that was 1 guy and i wasn't talking about him
I guess so but those guys who walked away would have rated a woman instantly if the pic was of a woman.
we need more men / fathers like him in this world fr
Some of those reactions were depressing in 2024.
You should have given that guy in the green pants 100 dollars anyway. He was great! And the three guys who answered 4/5 right, 100 too! Man! you tough.
I like Joey a lot. Don’t care if he kissed a guy before. 😊 He is just so funny & adorable.
It's wonderful to hear a father accept his son for saying he's gay. My father was a marine, and he would have killed me if he found out I was gay.
omg the guy that got 5/6 on the gaydar did so good bc why did i get the same score as him 😭😭
Got love “DENIES doing anything gay” instead of “says they haven’t done anything gay” hahahahah😅
Red plaid jacket guy is our newest coolest ally.