Follow the new vlog channel for clownery and all my travel vlogs th-cam.com/channels/rT1FVIZvJWJ-cJq6zVgYag.html. AKA see all the vlogs where I meet up with my subscribers and anything from skincare tips, fashion videos hehe. the algo he just doesn't support it and sometimes i wanna post whatever so go to there
Yes!!! I often say this to myself and also when I'm walking in the streets I assert myself by not moving away when people are walking straight towards me haha it works!!
@@probablyverina I see your point. Of course, if there's an old person or child then I move myself but I noticed that a lot of people expect people to move away when they walk and I used to move away all the time until I decided enough was enough. I see it more as "asserting" myself than being entitled as I am still aware of my surroundings. Hope that clarifies it better ☺
1. True confidence = nothing to prove You know what you are 2. Confidence is quiet 3. You like yourself enough so you don't care what people think 4. Knowing and accepting everything about yourself 5. Practice and preparation leads to confidence 6. train yourself to be confident affirmations, shadow work, putting yourself in situations that make you confident 7. Don't tie your confidence to something than can be taken away from you Focus on other aspects 8. Confidence is not needing external validation, confidence is powerful energy that radiates 9. Confident people can laugh at them selves and can take criticism 10. Confidence is not doing things to make others like you it is about not caring what others think 11. Showing up for yourself consistently Do what you say you're going to do 12. You build confidence, it's about practice 13. Fake it till you make it but address deeper issues 14. Do things that put you outside your comfort zone. 15. Find a style that makes you feel powerful 16. Don't fidget lean back slow down your movements good eye contact
I also feel enormously confident whenever I wear black and not confident when I wear bright colours. I’ve been told that I look like I’m going to funerals or I am mourning several times but I don’t get care if I don’t have a bit of black on my outfit I do not feel good. Something has to be black.
"confidence isn't about walking into a room and thinking you're better than everyone, It's about walking into a room without feeling the need to be better than everyone else"
Not basing your confidence on things that can disappear is a huge one. I used to base my confidence on the awards and things I can achieve, so when I didn’t “win” a lot last year it felt like everything was breaking down. Thanks Simone!
I have social anxiety, I’m 17 turning 18 this year and THANKS TO SIMONE always. for teaching me this all. I started to watch her at the end of 2021 and I’m still taking notes
Confidence is not about walking into a room and thinking that you are better than everyone else... Confidence is about walking into a room and not feeling the need to compare yourself with anyone else ~not by me
Everything u said was spot on. Everyone talks about how “confidence” should be correlated to what others think of you or how u attract ppl but it’s really not it’s only about how you feel about yourself
So spot on countering all of the “trending” confidence tips! I didn’t realize till recently that my “fake it till you make it” era was a trap so damaging to me, and I think its because I was just over using it. It can be useful to get that push of confidence in the moments there is something to overcome, but making it a *lifestyle* eventually wore away at my own self acceptance, and the feeling of lying to myself put me in a confidence pitfall. It also gave me a deeper fear for failure, cause I think “failing” while faking confidence hurts a lot more than failing while being comfortable with your strengths and weaknesses.
this is how i've started seeing confidence too recently also what helped me the most, like you said, was accepting myself and my flaws as well as my qualities once you know your flaws and can face them without fear, no one's words can really hurt you anymore, because they're either talking about something that you know and accept, or something that's just plain untrue
I know you probably see comments like this in every single video, but you’ve helped me clear all my confusions abt my self confidence. Being the oldest sibling is so tiring, since no one is there to ‘pre experience’ the thing that needs to be learned. So, thank you Simone. It’s a privilege to listen to you.
This comes at perfect timing! As a artist and fellow content creator it can be hard to sometimes keep your sense of self and confidence when you’re always on the go and around other amazing people who you think are doing such better and greater things. I’ve had to learn to value myself and understand my worth outside of anyone else’s opinions on me. I recently chatted about this on my channel on how I’ve been focusing on healing my relationship with love and myself so again this video comes at a perfect time for me. Thanks for the constant inspiration and the love you spread through the YT community. Thanks again, and much love to you all! 💙
For me these tips work ❤ 👉 Believe in yourself and your abilities. 👉 Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses. 👉 Practice self-care and prioritize your well-being. 👉 Dress in a way that makes you feel good. 👉 Speak up and express your thoughts and opinions. 👉 Face your fears and take risks. 👉 Surround yourself with positive people who support you. 👉 Learn from your mistakes and failures. 👉 Embrace change and adapt to new situations. 👉 Set goals and work towards achieving them. 👉 Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. 👉 Be kind to yourself and practice self-compassion. Hope this helped you all❤
I used to think that the more louder and more attention seeker i am , the more confident I am. Just corrected myself after watching this video that I don't need external validation. Love your Simone. Please also make a video for guys on how to make a girl fall for you.
one of the practices i do to work on my confidence is.. getting into my music when driving, like really pouring my heart out with it, acting and singing along like im in a music video and I KEEP IT GOING ESPECIALLY WHEN AT STOPLIGHTS AND GOING THROUGH BIG INTERSECTIONS
cause.. being in front of cameras are in my future but zamn.. lets just say she has work to do when it comes to serving face in front of a camera and the people watching... but she's been working on it.. simone how do u serve face in front of a camera and not look like a deer in headlights
Thank you so much Simone! I don’t think you realize how helpful you are to others just by speaking the truth but this video really brought me some insight about myself. I’ve always cringed over how slow I talked in videos and I tried speaking more quicker but my words don’t come out clearly and I realize I have to embrace my slow paced talking.
this is literally the only video that actually helped me with my confidence , ive always watched vids and they be like "fake it until u make it" but it would just make me get worse and worse and never actually help me, ty simone luv u!
I've followed you for a long time now. You've taught me a lot. Recently me and my boyfriend of 7 months just broke up and I really needed this video. Thank you, sending love!
THANK YOU SO MUCH SIMONE im so grateful for your existence, you have been an influence, a motivator, and a fashion icon to me and always will be back then I used to struggle with so much depression and never understood myself I was left alone nobody understood I used to cry every birthday cz other friends of mine would enjoy themselves while I was always home grounded with my strict parents and even friends they were soo toxic, I was so done with my parents. I was never happy and blamed myself when I couldn't make them happy but then I randomly saw your videos and changed my mindset now I m in my idgaf era making myself the most optimistic person on earth thank you, Simone, I bet one day I would meet you and be besties with I owe you💗
Simone discusses the nature of true confidence, emphasizing self-acceptance, preparation, and comfort with oneself, sharing personal insights and tips.
Hey Simone can you make a video on how to have a great social life and make friends bcs it's really difficult and few people talk about it. have a Good day and tysm for sharing us your tips that's help me really much on my daily life
i just fell at school today while running, our school is like boys and girls are seperated like same building but different blocks and the boys from the windows up there were making fun of me and i was so embarassed and i really needed this thankyou so much
Odk where you came from and why you popped out of the blue on my feed.. but I love you keep shinning bright like the diamond you truly are.. thank you for the laughs at the end.. so cute filled with love and friendship ❤❤❤❤
I get my confidence from keeping the promises I make to myself. I prove to myself that I follow through on the things I tell myself I will do. That's it. As long as I know who I am, what I'm capable of, and what I've accomplished, it doesn't matter what other people think or say. I know best. I'm the expert on the subject of me. I've been through it all- heartbreak, betrayal, loss, death, victories, successes, rejection, disappointment, love, etc. I've proven to myself that I can handle whatever life throws at me. I've been in the Army, I've run companies, and I've been with various women of varying quality.. The only way to build genuine confidence is to be out there striving, grinding, reaching, searching, failing, getting back up, and do it again and again.
Hey Simone I’d love to know where you have gotten all of your wisdom/knowledge from. Any books/courses/podcasts/routines/habits etc. in particular that have helped you to become who you are? Mostly intrigued about what self development you do! Would be amazing if you did a video about it or reply to this comment!!
omg the part that you said about revising for a maths test, i was literally just revising for a maths test!!! I'm on my break right now for a few mins (which is me watching your video) and then I'm going back to revising more of it when I'm finished watching. Idk why im telling u this i just thought it was a funny coincidence lol xxx
You have nothing to prove You know exactly what you want You are so comfortable with your self Don't tell your praises to others You like yourself enough so you don't care what people think I don't care if u like me coz I like me , self acceptance Don't shy away from your shadow self, your flaws, your strengths Practice + preparation= confidence Do affirmations n shadow work You take up space you become space Don't need validation Powerful presence Can laugh at urself. Can take criticism Don't care what others think Show up for yourself Stay true to urself do not lie Stand up for yourself Fake it till you make it Go out of your comfort zone Dress what u like , which feels you , dresses that make u confident Body language , do not move , sit very relaxed plain back , do not move a lot , have a good eye contact Be comfortable with yourself.
NOTE FOR U GALS: I have ADHD. Most of the times I stutter, I stutter because I am EXCITED and thinking too fast, so I kinda "mix up" the syllables or mash up words together. If I was thinking the word "bee" but was saying "flower" and was pretty excited about it, I might stutter ot mash up the words and end up saying "I was In the garden planting a flee..." I fidget a lot because DOPAMINE. I look at everything and touch everything when I am comfy. If I am leaning back too much or too still and stiff, I'm probably uncomfortable in the situation and/or around u. NEURODIVERGENT PEOPLE MIGHT ACT DIFFERENTLY, so the tips doesnt apply to everyone.
Follow the new vlog channel for clownery and all my travel vlogs th-cam.com/channels/rT1FVIZvJWJ-cJq6zVgYag.html. AKA see all the vlogs where I meet up with my subscribers and anything from skincare tips, fashion videos hehe. the algo he just doesn't support it and sometimes i wanna post whatever so go to there
MORE SIMONE CONTENT WKSISHSISJ
"Walk into the room like the god himself sent you there". This quote really helped me towards being confident.
love that actually
Yes!!! I often say this to myself and also when I'm walking in the streets I assert myself by not moving away when people are walking straight towards me haha it works!!
Wouldn't that make you kind of entitled though?
@@probablyverina I see your point. Of course, if there's an old person or child then I move myself but I noticed that a lot of people expect people to move away when they walk and I used to move away all the time until I decided enough was enough. I see it more as "asserting" myself than being entitled as I am still aware of my surroundings. Hope that clarifies it better ☺
He did ❤
“90% of life is confidence, and the thing about confidence is nobody knows if it's real or not.”
very true
Maddie perez
Yes and thats what I love about life
Not fully True tho
❤
1. True confidence = nothing to prove
You know what you are
2. Confidence is quiet
3. You like yourself enough so you don't care what people think
4. Knowing and accepting everything about yourself
5. Practice and preparation leads to confidence
6. train yourself to be confident affirmations, shadow work, putting yourself in situations that make you confident
7. Don't tie your confidence to something than can be taken away from you
Focus on other aspects
8. Confidence is not needing external validation, confidence is powerful energy that radiates
9. Confident people can laugh at them selves and can take criticism
10. Confidence is not doing things to make others like you it is about not caring what others think
11. Showing up for yourself consistently
Do what you say you're going to do
12. You build confidence, it's about practice
13. Fake it till you make it but address deeper issues
14. Do things that put you outside your comfort zone.
15. Find a style that makes you feel powerful
16. Don't fidget lean back slow down your movements good eye contact
Very thanks.
I also feel enormously confident whenever I wear black and not confident when I wear bright colours. I’ve been told that I look like I’m going to funerals or I am mourning several times but I don’t get care if I don’t have a bit of black on my outfit I do not feel good. Something has to be black.
@@chrassr black is my happy colour🤗. It makes me feel calm
@@chrassrAHAHHAHAHAA I LOVE THATT
"confidence isn't about walking into a room and thinking you're better than everyone, It's about walking into a room without feeling the need to be better than everyone else"
Not basing your confidence on things that can disappear is a huge one. I used to base my confidence on the awards and things I can achieve, so when I didn’t “win” a lot last year it felt like everything was breaking down. Thanks Simone!
I have social anxiety, I’m 17 turning 18 this year and THANKS TO SIMONE always. for teaching me this all. I started to watch her at the end of 2021 and I’m still taking notes
turning 17 this year and in the same situation :)
I'm 18 year old😢 I was missing confidence in my life.
And now I'm feeling that confidence.
Thank you Simone 💖😊
Confidence is not about walking into a room and thinking that you are better than everyone else... Confidence is about walking into a room and not feeling the need to compare yourself with anyone else
~not by me
Everything u said was spot on. Everyone talks about how “confidence” should be correlated to what others think of you or how u attract ppl but it’s really not it’s only about how you feel about yourself
Couldnt agree more
So spot on countering all of the “trending” confidence tips! I didn’t realize till recently that my “fake it till you make it” era was a trap so damaging to me, and I think its because I was just over using it. It can be useful to get that push of confidence in the moments there is something to overcome, but making it a *lifestyle* eventually wore away at my own self acceptance, and the feeling of lying to myself put me in a confidence pitfall. It also gave me a deeper fear for failure, cause I think “failing” while faking confidence hurts a lot more than failing while being comfortable with your strengths and weaknesses.
this is how i've started seeing confidence too recently
also what helped me the most, like you said, was accepting myself and my flaws as well as my qualities
once you know your flaws and can face them without fear, no one's words can really hurt you anymore, because they're either talking about something that you know and accept, or something that's just plain untrue
I know you probably see comments like this in every single video, but you’ve helped me clear all my confusions abt my self confidence. Being the oldest sibling is so tiring, since no one is there to ‘pre experience’ the thing that needs to be learned. So, thank you Simone. It’s a privilege to listen to you.
This comes at perfect timing! As a artist and fellow content creator it can be hard to sometimes keep your sense of self and confidence when you’re always on the go and around other amazing people who you think are doing such better and greater things. I’ve had to learn to value myself and understand my worth outside of anyone else’s opinions on me. I recently chatted about this on my channel on how I’ve been focusing on healing my relationship with love and myself so again this video comes at a perfect time for me. Thanks for the constant inspiration and the love you spread through the YT community. Thanks again, and much love to you all! 💙
For me these tips work ❤
👉 Believe in yourself and your abilities.
👉 Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses.
👉 Practice self-care and prioritize your well-being.
👉 Dress in a way that makes you feel good.
👉 Speak up and express your thoughts and opinions.
👉 Face your fears and take risks.
👉 Surround yourself with positive people who support you.
👉 Learn from your mistakes and failures.
👉 Embrace change and adapt to new situations.
👉 Set goals and work towards achieving them.
👉 Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small.
👉 Be kind to yourself and practice self-compassion.
Hope this helped you all❤
I used to think that the more louder and more attention seeker i am , the more confident I am. Just corrected myself after watching this video that I don't need external validation. Love your Simone. Please also make a video for guys on how to make a girl fall for you.
If I had found anything funny within the last couple days, it would be you Simone! You have a unique way of expressing yourself it’s adorable 🙂
one of the practices i do to work on my confidence is.. getting into my music when driving, like really pouring my heart out with it, acting and singing along like im in a music video and I KEEP IT GOING ESPECIALLY WHEN AT STOPLIGHTS AND GOING THROUGH BIG INTERSECTIONS
cause.. being in front of cameras are in my future but zamn.. lets just say she has work to do when it comes to serving face in front of a camera and the people watching... but she's been working on it.. simone how do u serve face in front of a camera and not look like a deer in headlights
Thank you so much Simone! I don’t think you realize how helpful you are to others just by speaking the truth but this video really brought me some insight about myself. I’ve always cringed over how slow I talked in videos and I tried speaking more quicker but my words don’t come out clearly and I realize I have to embrace my slow paced talking.
You are so welcome!
this is literally the only video that actually helped me with my confidence , ive always watched vids and they be like "fake it until u make it" but it would just make me get worse and worse and never actually help me, ty simone luv u!
I've followed you for a long time now. You've taught me a lot. Recently me and my boyfriend of 7 months just broke up and I really needed this video. Thank you, sending love!
Self-confidence is the key to a happy life ❤
simone , you are one of the most authentically confident person i have seen. love to see more of you ❤❤
Thank you so much!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH SIMONE im so grateful for your existence, you have been an influence, a motivator, and a fashion icon to me and always will be back then I used to struggle with so much depression and never understood myself I was left alone nobody understood I used to cry every birthday cz other friends of mine would enjoy themselves while I was always home grounded with my strict parents and even friends they were soo toxic, I was so done with my parents. I was never happy and blamed myself when I couldn't make them happy but then I randomly saw your videos and changed my mindset now I m in my idgaf era making myself the most optimistic person on earth thank you, Simone, I bet one day I would meet you and be besties with I owe you💗
You remind me of my dad sometimes, he talks about a lot of the stuff you do. Watching your videos always helps a ton
im daddy asf
@@simonesquared 💀💀
Thank you so much I haven't been able to figure out the reasons why I wasn't confident and you literally answered all my questions 💗
literally woke up to this notif. perfect way to start the day thank you simone 💗💗
1 min after waking up, perfect way to start off my day with simone :))
Dittoo
Watched only two minutes but already thank you so much!
Thank you once more, you are incredible!
Simone discusses the nature of true confidence, emphasizing self-acceptance, preparation, and comfort with oneself, sharing personal insights and tips.
These tips are actually genuinely helpful! Thank you Simone!
You have no idea how much these types of videos help. Ily Simone keep slaying:)
You're just a lifesaver I swear! ~♥~ I literally needed this rn
Yayayayayay wake upp gurliessss Simone has postedddd✨✨✨💗💗💗
ILYSM 💗💗✨
YESSSSS BEEN WAITING FOR THIS! LOVE YOU SIMONE
honestly a really really great video, some takes I've seen lately on confidence on youtube have been so ass... this regained my faith in this app ngl
simone truly has the most insanely perfect timing i swear
Hey Simone can you make a video on how to have a great social life and make friends bcs it's really difficult and few people talk about it. have a Good day and tysm for sharing us your tips that's help me really much on my daily life
Thanks for the idea!
11:31 it’s clearly here you’re a real person who have comfortable with her self I like that 👍🏻💗
This is just what I needed!thank you so much! Love your videos 💜
You are so inspiring and wise, you have no idea how much I learn from your videos, just wanted to thank you a lot
simone is the type of bestfriend we never had🤍
Omg the most realest vid on confidence I’ve ever watched!! My new fav
i just fell at school today while running, our school is like boys and girls are seperated like same building but different blocks and the boys from the windows up there were making fun of me and i was so embarassed and i really needed this thankyou so much
This could happen to everyone don’t be ashamed of it. That’s the most normal thing ever that could happen.
Aw poor baby
Thank u simone because of you i spoke up for myself in school.
simone is literally the realest
Babes I wanna say something, u can take criticism and sarcasm sometimes and just laugh, but don't take disrespect, don't laugh when u're uncomfortable
i love her so much its insane
my cuuute coool amaaaazing simoneeeee love watching you xx
p.s. excited for the st tropez vlog
You are so inspirational 🥰🩵
just finished setting up my affirmations using this Wonderful vid, forever grateful, Simone 💖
Thank you sm for the new video simone
Thank you so much for this simone! Ily. This is amazing
i love your vids and happy u finally posted !! 💕
Ilysmmm simone...Thankyou queen ❤
YES GIRLL I LOVE YOU thank you for this video omgg you literally saved me love you smmm❤️❤️
Was not having the best day and simone came for the RESCUE ! LYSM SIMONEEE >3
you know who's the true winner it's simone's dog just chilling out there
Your uploads literally make my day 💖💅
Not first but I know i’ll need this! 😍
Odk where you came from and why you popped out of the blue on my feed.. but I love you keep shinning bright like the diamond you truly are.. thank you for the laughs at the end.. so cute filled with love and friendship ❤❤❤❤
That last line in German😍😍😍 me as a German viewer be like * blush * feeling appreciated🥰
Around 9 mins I was just looking at Bella behind you. She so cuuuuteee!
I love your videos so much, girl you are so pretty and give the best advice. Hope you had a wonderful week and life ❤ ilysm 🤍🦋
Thank you! You too!
Ily simone. Thank u for always slaying queen 👑💖
Thank you sm for this video 😭❤️
Simone is a queen
Honestly, speaking from experience, what you said is so true.
bro i love the way u talk it's just very calming and peaceful also i love ur videos ♡︎
Thank you so much 😀
The outro was ✨i c o n i c✨
such a great video and vibe. Girlllllll your energy is something!!!😍
thank you so much for this video, i really needed this❤
I couldn't watch your videos coz I was sick but I'm back now yayyyyy
glad ur better
you are so motivating simone !!! love uu 🤍✨️
Please do a podcast ❤ you are amazing!
your smile is so pretty i replayed it 5 times to see your smile
simone please please do a video on how to do your makeup. It's so classy and beautiful.
Tomorrow is my first day of university and i'm so nervous so i'm here to have some confidence ❤️👍
I get my confidence from keeping the promises I make to myself. I prove to myself that I follow through on the things I tell myself I will do. That's it. As long as I know who I am, what I'm capable of, and what I've accomplished, it doesn't matter what other people think or say. I know best. I'm the expert on the subject of me. I've been through it all- heartbreak, betrayal, loss, death, victories, successes, rejection, disappointment, love, etc. I've proven to myself that I can handle whatever life throws at me. I've been in the Army, I've run companies, and I've been with various women of varying quality.. The only way to build genuine confidence is to be out there striving, grinding, reaching, searching, failing, getting back up, and do it again and again.
Really needed this right now
I don't constantly move because im uncomfortable. I constantly move because I can't calm my adhd ass down xD
Thank you for everything, love you so much ❤❤❤
My happy pill : Simone 👉🏻👈🏻
I love u're accent 😍 💛 💓 💗
Hey Simone I’d love to know where you have gotten all of your wisdom/knowledge from. Any books/courses/podcasts/routines/habits etc. in particular that have helped you to become who you are? Mostly intrigued about what self development you do! Would be amazing if you did a video about it or reply to this comment!!
SIMONEE YOUR DOG IS SO CUTEE
SURPRISE GUEST BELLA MAKES HER APPEARANCE @8:54 she is the cutest
omg the part that you said about revising for a maths test, i was literally just revising for a maths test!!! I'm on my break right now for a few mins (which is me watching your video) and then I'm going back to revising more of it when I'm finished watching. Idk why im telling u this i just thought it was a funny coincidence lol xxx
I love all your videos Simone, from Philippines😍
This is amazing and so helpful, thank you!
Thanks alot ... it was a game changer! ❤
such a helpful video, your tips/information is so good
You have nothing to prove
You know exactly what you want
You are so comfortable with your self
Don't tell your praises to others
You like yourself enough so you don't care what people think
I don't care if u like me coz I like me , self acceptance
Don't shy away from your shadow self, your flaws, your strengths
Practice + preparation= confidence
Do affirmations n shadow work
You take up space you become space
Don't need validation
Powerful presence
Can laugh at urself. Can take criticism
Don't care what others think
Show up for yourself
Stay true to urself do not lie
Stand up for yourself
Fake it till you make it
Go out of your comfort zone
Dress what u like , which feels you , dresses that make u confident
Body language , do not move , sit very relaxed plain back , do not move a lot , have a good eye contact
Be comfortable with yourself.
omg i manefested this, and its finally here nyahahahahaha
soo off topic but her nails are so pretty
NOTE FOR U GALS:
I have ADHD. Most of the times I stutter, I stutter because I am EXCITED and thinking too fast, so I kinda "mix up" the syllables or mash up words together.
If I was thinking the word "bee" but was saying "flower" and was pretty excited about it, I might stutter ot mash up the words and end up saying "I was In the garden planting a flee..."
I fidget a lot because DOPAMINE. I look at everything and touch everything when I am comfy. If I am leaning back too much or too still and stiff, I'm probably uncomfortable in the situation and/or around u.
NEURODIVERGENT PEOPLE MIGHT ACT DIFFERENTLY, so the tips doesnt apply to everyone.
Her humor is great.
was just watching an old video, perfect timing
Again on the perfect time 😎 ✨ You slay Queen ✨
I need to watch this video at least once a week for the rest of my life