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- Woman Secretly Records Her Doctors During Surgery | Ethel Easter says she remains "distraught" by the comments recorded during a 2015 operation.
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I'm a nurse. We were taught back in college that when talking in front of the patient to always assume the patient can hear you, whether you're in a coma, knocked out with anesthesia or even deaf. The fact that these licensed surgeons and nurses can't even follow basic education on patient's right to considerate and respectful care is a big disappointment.
But not a surprise.
Thank you for your service!
Awesome sir
Thank you for all that you have done and will do I know that it is a very difficult time for doctors and nurses right now but I just want to let you know it will get better soon.
Sad reality people are the way people are... sad to medical professionals who put so much time and energy into their work be so rude when they think no one is watching or their just hanging with their colleagues!
No matter what, never have beef with these people:
1- your cook
2- your barber
3- your surgeon
4-your waiter/chef
5- your barista
@Palak V cause The chef will give you food poisoning
The Barber Will give you a bad hair cut
And The Surgeon well you saw the video
and the driver
and your priest or Pastor...
I am a retired ICU nurse that has treated many patients that were in comas and I was always taught that they might be able to hear what I was saying. Indeed that was true because I had a patient tell me that I helped them live through the night because of how kind I talked to them and they heard me pray for them. The patient was intubated and put in a drug induced coma but could hear everything going on!
God bless you!!!!
God bless you Lisa.
God bless you for your empathy and compassion. ❤
Yep. I used to do the same. I'd talk about the weather outside, their family, anything really. It's not just courtesy...it serves as a constant reminder that that it's not all about infusions and ventilator settings.
I am an RN and I always talk to all of my patients alert, comatose, IDD, it don’t matter they do❤
Some people only go into healthcare for the money so so sad😢
My doctor wouldn't do anything to figure out why I was in pain. For 10 months she kept giving me different pills to mask the pain. I told her I needed actual tests done and she left the room for a minute. I heard her through a vent telling her co-worker I was a whiney bitch. I left and went to the ER. Told them what happened and they did an ultrasound and sent me for a scope and found out I had a bleeding ulcer. They moved me to a different doctor, thank God.
😮😮😮😮😮
I hope you went back to the first doctor and told her how much she sucked 😊 I hope you are feeling better.
Damn...
You should have gotten a lawyer and served her with a lawsuit.
@@rickyruiz99082:18
Whether she was a handful or not there's still a such thing as professionalism
@ronlovesit same reason ppl record cops when they get pulled over....she had a bad feeling about it
@Paul David I have but this doesn't have anything to do with me. Plus I wasn't caught lol 😂
@@quentinwooten30 I love how you brushed off the fact that you do the same thing.
Bullshit! She set them up! And I heard nothing racist in the recording........The word "clinic" mentioned in one of the discussions means this piece of garbage, low life, excuse for a woman, was a charity case. The doctor performed the surgery for nothing...that wasn't enough for her and her husband. She provoked disgust prior to the surgery with her attitude, baiting a response, and then setting a trap to catch aggravated human beings....Listen to the second case! Half a million pay out, a trap was set for a payday from an honest statement, made be an excellent anesthesiologist...( a woman of color, mind you ) about a piece of garbage man....I suggest you listen to the audio again, Quentin.
Scott this is this most fallacious, confirmation biased bullshit I've seen in about a year.
Immature on both sides
DangoDaikazoku1776 sums it up
gold lion m,,queen
they still performed the job as expected.. who cares about the shop talk... one would have to prove they treated one case as non equal
DANGO, i was gonna say immature on both sides too, then i remember the principles of "Cause and effect" .... if she wasn't rude im sure she wont be insulted...
plus, i hate how she quickly jumped to play the race card, like i was "RACIALLY PROFILED"
Fedor Amuricano seriously! Cause and effect?! That's an excuse 😀 okay
I had a motorcycle accident and I was in coma for almost 2 mos and I recall several conversations going in and out of consciousness, specifically the one where my 3 Drs called my parents into my room, away from my family, to tell them to say their goodbyes as they couldn’t do anything else for me, besides keeping comfortable. That devastated me and in “my mind” I tried to yelled for them to please don’t give up on me. 😢 it was pure desperation and sadness
My parents refused to believe them and they took me home and with guidance from another Dr, I was up and jumping in less the 2 weeks, like nothing happened.
Never assume that because someone is sleeping, in coma or under anesthesia that they can’t hear you.
Wow, two weeks. That's an important story. I thought doctors knew that people in comas can often hear you. I'm glad you pulled through.
Wow I'm so sorry that you had to hear that and hear your parents go through that and were helpless the whole time!!! Sounds awful!! 😢 But I'm glad yiu made it to tell your story ❤❤❤
Thank you, yes, in 2 weeks I was up that’s why until today I wonder what they were doing that I couldn’t wake up or maybe it was just a coincidence… I will never know.
"That just doesn't seem like the thing to say to the person that's going to do your surgery"
-That sent fucking chills down my spine.
I agree. It sounded predatory. Very creepy. It’s like he has a belief he is a god. Just gross.
@@evelynsaliba5399it sounded like a legitimate threat. Absolutely psycho
Me too very scary and threatening 👁️
Yeah like they would purposely kill you
It was menacing
All surgeries should be recorded by the hospital, just to keep medical staff professional.
Agreed
Damn right just like the police that have cameras too
@C Bryce, VERY good idea!!!!!! They should 100% do that!!!!!
Amen!
Audio only? What about video recording during a procedure, while you are naked?
"that's not the type of thing you'd want to say to someone doing your surgery" wow they must feel SO much control.
Well it makes sense, even though it's fucked up. Think about it, you don't want to be screwing with people that make your food either, and this dude said it in a joking manner. Though I agree one could argue some of this isn't very "patient friendly".. People talking in a criticizing manner about other people and fooling around in what they think is a operation amongst trusted colleagues probably happens all the time. I've been operated on and I wouldn't be surprised if the people operating on me would've made some embarrassing/what I could interpret as insulting comments whilst I was out. Why the hell would you even look at this in a criticizing manner. The question is.. Did they do the operation successfully/did they behave in a acceptable manner when dealing within the patients direct awareness.. I can't say they have to be serious all the time. I'd rather have a surgeon that fools around and makes stupid comments whilst still doing their job then a surgeon that's stressed out, afraid of saying something that might be taken to damn seriously which in turn could hurt his reputation and possibly his performance. Also people of all races can make dumb ass comments about any other race.. taking such things seriously tends to be the issue. It's about intend, it's not about "just words". Black and white are not offensive in and of itself, making a joke is not offensive. Taking offense and expecting it to be meant as an insult when someone doesn't mean to be hateful at all is in fact offensive. Assuming the worst in a person without understanding intend is an insult. This world is becoming so backwards it's becoming ridiculous :/ Overemotional people brainwashed by MSM to take offense and see reason to be offended in everything they can. Supporting a dividing narrative when in reality what they really desire is joy and peace. People have just been programmed to continuously find reason for unrest which is very depressing to think about
Even if she hadn't spoken those "choice words", Black people still have every reason to fear doctors. She was clear in understanding how healthcare works for our population and for all we know, that hernia surgery was purposely put off because she's black and her health isn't as important.
Do some research on Black women's gynecological health and how often they die because of negligence from their doctors.
Doctors kill more people than any one Else, and who knoes how many was on purpose
Right. It sounds more like a threat.
@@pookie4288 I am the reason victims don't speak up? we're talking about a person that wouldn't even have been conscience. You can't play the victim of something that wasn't meant for your ears. People criticize others about all kinds of things. And it's not always pretty either. Also no one said this is anyone's fault, why do you even describe this as "always their fault" how about, it's nobody's fault and nothing much happened to begin with. I never said race has anything to do with speaking truth. If anything race is better left out, I just mentioned race because for some reason people like to make a point about something being an issue in relation to their race when all to often it shouldn't even be/isn't meant to be about race. If this pandemic has shown us anything it's that the people we trust in can do the most terrible things for personal gain. And yes, of course the only reason the doctors apologized is because they got caught. Like I said, they probably talk like this amongst themselves all the time without thinking much about it.. Maybe it's not meant to be a big deal to begin with :/ The reason they can talk like this behind someone's back instead of saying these things straight to someone's face is in fact because of sympathy and having a base understanding. So I guess you'd say she's a victim of people speaking their minds without the intention of actually hurting someone.... I can imagine worse things in life then this. I just gave myself as an example, this quite possibly happened with me as well when I was out for an operation. I can't be bothered though, unless they'd be like.. physically assaulting me :/
Being a medical student in India , when we were on posting in labour room,, I heard our senior madam scolding a patient who was crying loudly during labour pain" what were you thinking while making this".It was such a humiliation to a pregnant lady. Felt so sorry for her to went through it.
I hope so you retain your empathy for your whole life
Dude, here in USA , the hospital had only 'Male doctor as a obstetrician' and the nurses were females who were seen 'Inferior' to a doctor
The insult happened to a woman in labour who was taken care by female nurses and doctor was enjoying outside in assembly until his 'Main and inly job to cut a woman and pull baby ' does not arises . When male doctor was not there , the nurses 'Helped' her improve labour by telling her to squat on a squat bar on bed and walk and take up an 'Upright birth position' as opposed to the sleeping pose , cos sleeping pose increase pain amd risks of uterine exhaustion.
And really, the woman improved labour from 1cm. Dilation in 6 cm in just 20 mins, she said to nurse she was comfortable giving birth holding on to squat bar of the bed, and nurses were so loving to her until 'MALE DOCTOR ' came inside.
Suddenly, the nurses under his influence stopped using their own brains and turned rude to woman in labour, shouting 'How dare you choose your own birthing position, when we say lay flat on back , do it, we know and we are 'IN CHARGES of your baby' !!!
And the male doctor just yawned and came like as if having a morning walk , as if the woman was not imporatnt, and when he came, he put on gloves
'Coercively and forcefully pushed back woman into 'SLEEPING POSITION' who was squating while 'Crowning out baby' and imagibe woman was already had half baby out on squat bar, and while she was in discomfort of half baby out instead, he forcefully pushed her hard thud !!!, as if he is fighting her, and took out scissors and cut her 'Intimatr areaa', a forcful episiotomy when already baby was out safely lol, i.e. cut her without necessity and also WITHOUT ANESTHETIC
And then laughed at her husband saying 'What kinda stitch you want to have for her, an extra husband stitch to make ger seggsy tight at bottoms or remain loose only, a husband stitch and she will be more seccsier during post pregnancy seccgs!!!!'
@@chatgpt4135 what the hell yr
Kya h ye sb😢😢😢😢
I work at a hospital and I can tell you I’ve heard the most disgusting things come out of doctors and nurses mouths and they face no repercussions after due to their occupation.
Worked in a hospital as well... The genuinely good and caring ones tend to get burned out and leave the profession sooner.
Mamy doctors are just drug dealers , some are arrogant asshats , and some regular people who do a great job. I still understand how they might get aggravated at someone threatening to sue them , and then coming in for surgery. Did they do a good job on the surgery? That's what is important, and the entire precious thing, they weren't being racist , she's looking to sue them, saying this is precious and that is precious, no context or reasoning , just the words on a edited video, nope I don't go for that sh1t.
They were being immature and rude for sure. For that they shoukd be punished by their job, a lawsuit , no , calling them racists and the rest is going to get her blacklisted from anyone touching her if she needs a doctor.
My father worked in a hospital. He wasn't a surgeon, he did first responding and emergency room work, and I can say they deal with a lot, stress, violence, and death , so most does have a sense of humor most people wouldn't like, myself included. That diesnt equal racist or anything else, it means asshat that is childish.
I was in a coma for two weeks, and as I came to I was terrified, disoriented, confused and in pain. I was way too weak to get up or move, and my speech was slurred. I know I was a handful, I remember constantly pressing the call button because I was terrified and didnt understand where I was or why I was there. The nurses in the ICU did not like me when I was like this. they made absolutely no effort to calm me down or reason with me. Instead they moved the call light out of my reach and closed the door and blinds and ignored me unless they had to see me.
It was horrible to me and only made me even more terrified. I tried to tell my mom but she insisted I was just hallucinating.
Some health care workers are simply cruel. The rotten few overshadow the true Angels.
How awful for you! You might benefit from hypnotherapy to overcome the trauma. Best wishes.
In your case yes, that's borderline neglect.
But from what I know this woman's surgery was done well, was cared for well. The doctors kept their comments private and didn't say any of this directly to her. She basically eve dropped on their conversation.
For sure what they were saying was pretty horrific. But that's why private convos exist.
@@violahamilton782 Thank you so much my friend
@@francisbalfour1243 wait for your turn...
@@bijoucelia8638 honestly I wouldn't care. I wouldn't be there to make friends or get praise, I'd be there for surgery and as long as it was done well I couldn't care what their superficial opinion of me is.
As a nurse, this is true. Doctors and nurses are very cold hearted and many are in it for the status and money.
@Andy Goodman LMFAO
Yes! My Doctor is a cold one, too. He says such insensitive things. I'd love to have a Female GP, but, they're hard to come by in my County...those that aren't overbooked, already.
@Andy Goodman doctors don’t make the cure, genius scientists do.
They see blood, Dead and heavy injury every day no wonder there cold hearted.
Doctors and nurses are heroes right now. Please don’t profile huge groups of people based on your personal experience. Especially people that are vital in maintaining the wellbeing of others in the midst of a humanitarian crisis. It is really demeaning and ignorant to say this. I come from a family of doctors that are nothing like this. What happened in this clip was unprofessional and wrong, but it is not normal.
A doctor last year said about my dying mother in front of me (then 15 years old) that she doesn't care about her (mom) and her family and that she is done with her. After she died they left her... Without any professional steps to make sure she's actually dead. It breaks my heart, because my mom was a doctor too and she used to put so much love in her job.
Not only this one doctors but many others, through my life I've been through so many stuff that made me hate doctors sooooo much
Wow I'm so sorry about that dear.
How can someone say that to amid infront her mother,let alone sick mother
Arching easy money through dishonest ways. They let the courts figure it out. LOL on jokers.
I'm very sorry for your loss ❤ You and your mother deserve better.
If i were you i would send a very strongly worded letter to the medical board in charge of the doctor who said that to you, even nothing else that doctor needs to sincerely apologise to you. ❤
@@fantasea114 unfortunately in my country, that would count as a harassment and that am invading thier work privacy...
I worked in a hospital OR for over 10 years, and I can tell you for a fact that despite saving lives and being good at it, SOME doctors/surgeons are some of the worst human beings you will ever encounter. I've seen doctors launch instruments across the room and even at the surgical techs when an instrument breaks.
As a medical student, I also hate the toxic culture especially in surgery and OB. They are callous and rude people. They threw metal charts at us interns
@@randomdude1398 I am so sorry for that abuse and bullying you went through :( The toxic culture of med school and residency is actually WHY I didn't pursue that path- how sad it literally deters people. I became a nurse and then a nurse practitioner instead. Less pay, less prestige, but the culture in the NP world is so different. Patients feel it too ... I hear all the time "nurse practitioners listen better, my previous doctor was an arrogant jerk". It makes me so sad. There are fantastic doctors out there- I know tons of them! - but I think the culture of med school kinda sends some of them down a dark path that they never find their way from. It sounds like you have the gift of self awareness to know how to not end up like that!!! I wish you best of luck in the challenging time ahead and your patients will be lucky to have you. :)
@@randomdude1398 why?
If they save lives they automatically can’t be “one of the worst human beings”. Those who take lives are the worst. You colleagues were just toxic and maybe tired of everything, maybe some mental issues (this work is tough for mentality, cutting people every day)
She had threatened to hire a lawyer before her surgery.
Ya. She might be a bitch, I don't know? But, that doesn't excuse the doctors behaviour. not at all.
Fun Pazion yeah they still shouldn’t make comments like that
Their comments during the surgery weren’t right but she had no business hiding a microphone in her weave.
@@animegrl207 That's not the point, It's unprofessional and just straight up rude.
@@animegrl207 not really..
“That doesn’t sound like something you should say to the person doing your surgery” is... is that a threat? Omg. This makes me terrified to have surgery.
This happens alot more than we know..
Overreacting be like:
@@jow230 it’s called being unprofessional. Surgeons have the power to kill you. You trust them not to let their personal bias get in the way. That’s fucked up.
@@jow230 no it's not a "joke"... it's a threat. A very unprofessional unaccountable threat.
Imagine if the pilots in mid-air saying to the passengers or a police pointing a gun at a random suspect saying something similar... “That doesn’t sound like something you should say to the person flying the plane or pointing a loaded gun to your head” ...it's not a "joke"!!
@@jow230 no, its not.
The above comments have given a good response to your statement.
They should start recording every surgical procedure...it protects the staff and the patient.
My son recently graduated and he is very disappointed with the disposition these medical professional have with their patients. He says they call it "compassion burnout" but some of them seem to never had any in the first place
That part😐
Hello Pretty, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
@@user-tv1xj5ji6x Thanks. 🙂 No rona over here. All good. Lol
@@twinqt578Okay..
Well I am happy to know you’re safe from the virus. Hope you’re having a nice and a wonderful day today??
The nurses made fun of my mother when she was dying of liver failure. They said she brought it upon herself by drinking alcohol. She never had a drink in her life. It was the pills they had been giving her for over twenty years. RIP mom
I’m so sorry 😔
Damn man, make her proud lil bro
Thats disgusting.
@@mariejuana2993 yeah that’s honestly so rude
May she rest in peace im so sorry for your loss:((🙏🏽❤️
I'm not surprised. A lot of doctors are cold hearted. It's the whole "Your life depends on me" mentality that makes them have this arrogant attitude. I said a lot not all. It's unethical and dishonorable. If you have this little regard for a human life laying in your care. Just quit.
They're just normal people.
Lmao bitch you should do your own surgeries.
@@aleisterhanley151, dumbass what are you so pressed about?
@@aleisterhanley151 Lol, no one can do their own surgeries unless they have superpowers, that's why we trust others and they end up doing this 🤢
@@aphradite321 Yes, they end up doing this, a successful surgery. They should sue her for eavesdropping - this is their job, that is their coworkers and this is what people do with coworkers. If surgeons now have to spend a 10 hour surgery in silence for fear of offending a comatose patient then they should all resign and let these whiny bastards perform their own surgeries.
Honestly the world is turning into a cesspool of regulations.
That female anesthesiologist is🤢🤢 Think she's so pissed off with the patient just talking to him for 5mins! What if her anger leads to harm of patient!! She must be thrown out of practice!
I've worked side by side with literally hundreds of doctors and nurses over the past 10 years and sadly almost all of them say mean things about their patients behind closed doors
“Did you see that belly button” Why would someone join the medical field if different looking bodies amuse/shock them??
No Kidding, how immature was that statement!
@@LV2UJC-FM Yeah, it’s really worrisome😔
Actually it was funny. Their job is very stressful can they not have a little fun when nobody was supposed to be offended
@@crowofjudgment1743 Maybe I’m boring but I never find criticizing people’s bodies funny-well that’s a lie, I probably would have found it funny when I was a toddler, but now I just can’t seem to find the fulfillment. I’m jealous of the people who never matured past kindergarten, life must be so damn easy when you lack empathy and self awareness😩
@Lauren J lady no one is above being laughed at, we all have our defects, stop being pretentious and acting like you care all the time, and instead direct your empathy where it really matters
You threatened to sue them right before surgery... then you expected them to be nice while you’re unconscious? I would’ve said some stuff too
Yeah. And imagine litting her hair on fire. She could have died or shock 🤯 genius
Me too!!!
Bitch shes having heart surgery tf thats serious dumbass they fucking DOCTORs bro
Goes to show you, you probably dont have a job where you had to learn that the doctors gossiping is unacceptable. For you to comment this is the reason you will never be a doctor, If you have studied anything major in your life you should know that doctors and judges should never be biased or take things to personally. They should always be mindful and stay respectfully even if there is someone who is even cussing at them. Why do you think Doctors can have dieing patients and don't take it 100 percent to hart when the dead patients family starts blaming the doctor. Because they are thought this you uneducated idiot
@@ellanaleija1358 Doctors and Judges aren't the Borg from Star Trek, this woman's an asshole.
This is why I never leave a family member in the hospital alone. I stay and sleep on the recliner or whatever they have. I help them to the bathroom and do all the stuff the nurses are supposed to do. I listen carefully to drs instructions because a lot of times the patient can’t remember later.
Hello Norma, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
As someone who works in oral surgery. In a setting where patients are out 90% of the time. I like to pretend its my Mom or a family member who I am working on. So i treat the patient with the upmost respect and give them the best possible care I can. No matter how difficult or different the patient is. You never know what they are going through
I thank you on behalf of all your patients your a good soul
Tbh I used to think that dentists are the worse out of doctors, turns out they're the nicest :(
What a set up... be confrontational in the pre-surgery meeting and then secretly record them talking shit, and then sue them.. genius.
Something tells me when she goes out to eat at a restaurant, her food might have a touch of saliva😬
David Gwin something tells me that she might curse at the waiter and then put a microphone into the food and send it back into the kitchen then sue them
Yeah. Genius ppl always in the hospitals. I always encounter that.
Imma go in high as hell...and record them talking shit...I'll own me a hospital
They delayed her operation by two weeks, she probably had already paid for it and was in alot of pain. Have some compassion.
She hid a recorder.....in her hair extensions.
the alleys Nick K whats hair extensions? Weave?
Prince Joy look it up. It wouldn’t hurt to be a little less ignorant.
Prince Joy
STOP being a SMART ASS!
Prince Joy no
I know right that got me dead
I worked in the OR as a surgical tech and let me be very clear when I say that most of these doctors talk about patients a lot and it's totally disrespectful and sickening.
Hello Alisa, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
as someone who has worked in healthcare, I couldn't imagine speaking about a patient like this. That is shameful, hurtful and very unkind. Patients put their trust in you, and are vulnerable. You aren't sitting on the playground at school, you are entrusted to take care of someone.
Sounds like in the first case, they should have referred her to a different doctor. She demanded to have the surgery within 2 weeks or she was going to sue them. Public or private, there's usually wait times based on urgency and availability. I certainly wouldn't be touching/operating on someone who's threatening me. It sounds like she put the recording device hoping to find something she could sue the doctors over too.
You’d think as surgeons they’d behave PROFESSIONALLY. This is disturbing
Thank you! Totally uncalled for
Did you say because they were doctors? You don't know how snooty and previlaged they act. Lol, good one.
You'd think they were normal people talking to their coworkers. You want them to watch their tongues around people who are unconscious and not even a part of the conversation?
That picture hella disturbing
@@SilverBackStacker Thank you, at least some folk still have common sense in the world.
I’m just going to say…I’ve worked for doctors. This is nothing compared to some of the horrible things I’ve heard. Unfortunately, lots of doctors are awful.
Worked on Healthcare all my life. I admire doc was studying to be one. I've been in the OR and have heard things. This is mild
Doctors have been nothing but disappointments to me this doesn't surprise me one bit
Dentists too!!!!!!
Totally agree.
Totally agree, these comments were mild.
This is exactly why I quit working in the medical vocation. They hire too many unprofessional personel. This is very serious!!
I am a physician and ALWAYS have a lot of respect for all patients, in front of them, behind their back ( never talk about patients to others when it is irrelevant) and this is disgusting, No patient should go through this. This is against every morality not to mention that this does not meet the high standards for healthcare professionals !
Imma record school if we getting this much money for being insulted
I'd be a millionare
@@badtaste5944 who wouldn’t lol
Duh😂
You'll get fooled.
@@badtaste5944 add a couple more digits on to that million for me please
“doesnt seem like the thing to say to the person whos doing your surgery” 😃 excuse me WHATTTT
Surgeon think he's such a high up entitled person. Ugh.
Hopefully you don't work in a place where you have to pretend you have good morals. Lol. Mc Dees for you Sir.
@@katiemilady197 No. He's pointing out what an idiot a person has to be to threaten the person that will be operating on them. It's like telling your waiter that you're not tipping them while ordering your meal. Expect a healthy dose of saliva on your food. Entitled? To what? To remark to the other people in the OR what a difficult person they have that day? Then they can be on guard, watch what they say and know in advance what a jerk the patient is.
Right? And people are so dumb. These people TAKE AN OATH that no matter what they will preserve life. Thats scary for him to even joke about these things.
Technically that's a threat to your life, sick psychopaths, this world is full of satanic egotistical freaks
When I had attempted to overdose on my antidepressants back when I was 17, I always remember the nurses addressing me at the counter as suicide girl. Given the fact I had just attempted to take my life on purpose - it definitely wasn't the best thing to hear. I was already hurting and alone ... and scared ...
So sorry girl. Not exactly the same thing, but I attempted to overdose a while ago and in the ambulance one of the paramedics kept scolding me for being ungrateful for life, asking what I was trying to do to my family, if it was my goal to go to hell, on and on. I know with the job he had and maybe in his personal life he could have lost people the same way. I wasn't in my right mind at the time though and saying those things weren't motivation to get better, they made me feel awful. But at least he was trying to get through to me? It's such appalling form for nurses to refer to you that way so carelessly, like just a hospital bed and not a human. Shame on them
One other thing. You should have someone advocating for you when in a healthcare environment. You can legally appoint a family member to advocate for you when you are receiving care. Talk to a lawyer to reset up such a document. For example, recently my husband underwent a test in a faith based hospital. When the tech came in, he did not introduce himself either to myself or my husband. He then removed part of my husband's hospital gown, again without saying what he was doing. I was there. I very politely asked the techs name, which he begrudgingly gave. Then when he touched my husband without asking, removed an area of clothing. I spoke up and said to the tech, you need to ask to touch the person and asked why he was removing my husband's clothing without asking. The tech didn't like that, but had I been the patient, I would told the tech to not touch me without permission ( Yes, they are supposed to ask!) I then reminded the tech that my husband was not a Medical cadaver. They did stop treating husband with disrespect. Also, if you are being examined by a medical provider, you have the right to tell them to wash their hands and put on sterile gloves before examining you. And they may not touch you without your express permission.
My sister was an ICU nurse for 14 years, and after hearing her talk about work, I believe this happens all the damn time.
It shouldn’t...
@@deepakgorantla1012 yeah you’re a “student”, students are taught every rule in the book. But no one follows everything especially these stupid things.
@john america yawn
@@siddhant... but you still should never talk about them like that specially for the racist part. this is just disgusting.
@David Winehouse or maybe just have human decency, right david?
trust no one. even salt looks like sugar~
This is actually deep.
Sophia Armesto stfu
Diana Lopez You stfu
***** What's so funny?
wings
These kind of doctors can even fail your surgery on purpose if they don't like you at all from the looks of it.
Exactly
Separate situation but relatable. I’m currently living in a temporary homeless hostel and the staff bully me. Everytime I go out (they do random room checks) I double bag/knot my open foods and video how I left my room before I go out. When people don’t like you or show hostility there’s no telling what they can do to your things
Yes, exactly my experience.
This is the reason why, no matter where I am I WILL NOT ALLOW INJUSTICE TO TAKE PLACE INFRONT OF ME. Idgaf if your a doctor, nurse, police officer, my boss whoever you will be corrected. Y’all allow people to get away with whatever and never stand up for yourselves or others and it’s completely sad
😢👏👏👏 Thank you! I will join you!!
When he said, "that's not the type of thing you'd want to say to someone doing your surgery " I was scared for her life, honestly it's like a scary movie.
@@FeelTheLack Exactly? What kind of damn fool would insult and threaten with legal action the person soon to be applying a scalpel to their inner organs??
@@FeelTheLack um... does, does that matter? That's not reason or excuse to abuse your power and position. If you or anyone else thinks it is, please re-evaluate.
@@iCOOKIEmischief It's not an excuse to do something bad to them hon, but it is human nature to treat others how they have treated us. It is a sad fact of life that most of us can't rise above when given the opportunity.
If the surgeon was professional, they shouldn’t have said that in the first place. And I bet they know now, that they are very sorry for saying that.
Well, still very unprofessional.
Why on earth do people do this? It’s disgusting. She knew.
I think she is a karen
only in america.
lol
police. teachers, store managers, now doctors. who next?
hhahahahaha
fcking america.
She threatened him with lawyers before surgery cuz she couldnt do it sooner
@@rennisdodman8739 you
@@maxteis5006 there are more important people who are dying faster I know cuz I just recently had surgery they put you at a level my mom is also a medical director so I would know she is a karen if your not dying it is not a priority 😂
As a nurse, I'll tell you, most doctors are that way. And you people take their advice to vaccinate and take pills. Unbelievable. I did 20 years and all I did was stand up for my patients and fellow good nurses time and again against these health care monsters. In the end. It was a losing battle. They were simply too many. And too powerful. I'm out, now. Regretting the day I will be a patient and at their mercy. Hopefully, there will be a few good nurses around.
Thank you for being one of good ones and telling the truth x
Yes..thank you for being a good human being first and foremost
God Bless You
Many a Nurses are struggling to really care for sick and hurting people
Matthew 25:35-40 KJV
35 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
36 Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.
37 Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?
38 When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.
I woke up midway during my hernia surgery and the doctor was smoking lol
When I worked in the emergency room for a while, I could NOT believe the way patients were talked about and mocked behind their backs. Everyone assumed most were lying , embellishing their problems or just drug seeking. It was awful to see how they judged every person coming in.
That’s something I’m witnessing as an x ray tech student. They’re so disrespectful and callous. It makes me hate being there and it’s sad cause I thought I would love it.
You're exactly right. I was in x-ray school and saw it first hand. Don't come to the er with a serious issue even without insurance 😒 the staff will talk badly about you and not give the best care. They might even ridicule you to your face.
@@jaclynlockwood1234 I was in x-ray school and was dismissed the semester before graduation.... it was all unethical and I witnessed the most of it. I'm a black woman and often would be the only one in my area. It didn't bother me one iota. What did bother me was when someone would slip up and say something like yeah but not a black girl.. in any case I'm no longer there & what a reality check to be behind the scenes.
Did you ever say anything? These things need to be reported it’s not right…
horrid
*wait you can sue somebody for insulting and offending you. i should be a billionaire already. where's my mulla?*
The Potato Boy lol what the heck that's is kinda sad tho
The Potato Boy yea but then our bills go up so just move on 😂
The Potato Boy lol
😂😂 and...Aweee
The Potato Boy 1000th like
Cowardice ... say it in front of her face when she's awake and lucid
Refused sedation for a spinal injection. The staff was joking and having a great time, and I joined in, even answered a riddle the doctor asked and the others didn't get.
At the end the doctor commented that I handled it very well and asked what I was on. The nurse looked and said she couldn't find that i was on anything. When I said, "Nope," you could have heard a cricket fart.
I didn't have an issue with the OR staff. I DID raise hell about one of the nurses using my cell phone while I was undergoing the procedure. She was apparently expecting me to be too confused by the sedative to figure out what happened, but the phone was NOT where I left it and my last call was to the taxi, NOT to her gossip buddy in the clinic front office. (And yes, this was back in the stone age. Phones have locks now. Use it!)
“Doesn’t seem like the think you’d tell the person who’s doing your surgery”
first of all, That raises some flags
I've never spoken to my surgeons disparagingly, just seems so rude to speak to some one rudely who is doing your surgery.
@@Citariss that's a red flag too
@Evelyn Zlon BINGO!
@@Citariss seriously, he literally threatened her, why is no one picking up on that?
I agree. I would never allow a surgeon to operate on me after there being so much conflict previously
For $500, 000, my doctor can call me every name in the book...
😂😂😂
My man
Lol
😂😂😂😂
@brinabrina no the doctors have to pay 500k or they face prison time
The problem isn’t that these “healthcare professionals” got caught, the problem is that they should NOT BE WORKING IN HEALTHCARE IF THEY ARE THE KIND OF PEOPLE WHO CAN SAY THESE THINGS. There is a lack of quality of care epidemic going on all over the world and none of these “healthcare professionals” are ever held accountable or responsible considering “justice systems” are literally set up to protect “doctors” at all costs.
It’s not enough to be able to afford healthcare, the healthcare needs to be superb. Every single human being deserves quality healthcare. These “doctors” & “healthcare professionals” think they’re gods and can get away with anything. they are far too privileged and protected by society & the system. THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE SO IF YOU ARE A VICTIM OF NEGLIGENT HEALTHCARE, YOU NEED TO SPEAK UP AND TRY TO FIGHT BACK OR ELSE THINGS WILL NEVER CHANGE AND JUST GET WORSE. End of story.
If you see victoriam times, you would understand
4 classes of MEN ruled and narcissitically ruled over all other folks like bureaucrats without any 'QUESTIONING BACK' , they were
1. Religious Preacher preists
2. Physicians used to own'People's bodies and bodily authority
3. Kings , were almost dictators dictating dressing rules
4. Barber surgeons used to cut anybody they desire
No matter whatever they did, however they tortured people , people saw that totrture as a 'NORMAL loving and necessary control of them over their bodies'.
Now, you see, barber surgeons were totally oagan and unskilled and almost killed many , but peopl still could not rause voice against them
Male physicians were ones who made the fake concepts of hysteria and obstetric dilemma amd fun fact which is hidden in history is when males actually took 'Delivery' in hands from midwives, and chose to focre womwn to come in hospital at that time , 'No Woman' with any 'Real infection or disease was ever treated in a hospital with medicines', instead the place of women as patients in hospital was only for one reason 'A disease called CHILDBIRTH', that was only admissible reason for woman to come in hosputal as a patient and 99 % of rich women who went to men for childbirth in hospitals DIED and babies died with heavy infectious outbreaks, while death rate of home Births that were assisted by female nurses, auxillary nurses or mdiwives had 60-70% survival rate and a serene and calm experience because midwives and nurses knew everything from turning a baby in womb to perineal massage to different birth positions to improve labour speed to emergency episiotomy by 'Burning the traditional blade' and even maintaining sterility like that, with remaining 10-20% women dying cos of diseases like bp, diabetes or a transverse position of baby, etc. Things for which women nurses had 'NO ACCESS to education' to find treatment for.
What men used to do in hospital then ?
They used to put a big white sheet on woman's body right from neck to feet, and force her in lithotomy pose with legs locjed in stirrups with she screaming with all pain cos of locking her like a prisoner, she forced to not scream, she lays such motionelss for hours with nobody in her room and then the male students used to go to treat MALE PATIENTS who were there for TB, typhoid, fevers amd jaundice, etc. And take urine and blood tests and touch those patients, then come to woman's room , oogle at her 'Nakeed parts' which were easily in thwir feont while she was laying flat, take scissor and cut her without Emergency necessity and pull baby with'Soiled, dirty hands with which they had treated a 'Leprosy , tb or malaria patients'. Amd these women and babies died as a rssult of painful and wild sepsis.
These deaths haplened for many years, until a 'New male physician secretly told male docs to look why women in home births were having better survival, and to watch secretly technique of midwives, and then they saw that,when women perform childbirths, the women and nurses maintauned 'Hygiene' by sterilising hands, and then he introduced washing hands for male docs in labor room that he learned from midwives, but instead of being grateful ge later shamed that 'Nurses and midwives are still inferior than male doc's brain and way of thinking'.
But did anybody sue these male docs in clurt saying 'Childbirth is not field of male docs' , they should either teach surgery and medicine to already skilled midwives so that they can know more, or stop killing women by 'UNSCIENTIFIC PRTOCOLS'
No nobidy was sued in courts as they had blessing hand of kings and political men too. But women never had it.
And ti to this date, as long as 'Human body' is treated as something 'Sinful, vulgar , dirty, and shame culture surrounds, people will lack basic knowledge of health and docyors will see themselves as 'OWNERS' not workers.
Some doctors forget they are working on human beings. They have no humility and are unable to understand the true weight of their responsibility. They’re only worried about the weight of their wallet. Disgusting people.
O they do understand. Everyone is worried about the weight of wallet medical feild just worked hard and spent hours in learning and training for it and deserve the money for it. Without them you would all be dead because no doctors surgeons exist to fix you.
@@starwarscrazy4540 learn some punctuation please.
I wouldn't want that energy while my body is open.
Where you from?
I was like what's the big deal before I read your comment. Energy is everything
They do record surgeries where I had an ablation surgery
many doctors and nurses and their staff are arrogant, medical fireld is streaming with lobby payouts...
Truth
Why is everyone getting angry about the woman? The doctors were supposed to be professionals not talking behind her back while in surgery. PERIOD.
I know a former anesthetist who said the Drs would make comments/disparaging remarks about their patients while operating on them quite often. She hated it and left her medical job!
CerddWen that’s why we were told to “ pray over and for the person “,whilst operations were being carried out. I know some people don’t believe in the Bible , but it works. 😊
@@oiputthatback7361 she is a Christian, but I doubt a secular hospital would encourage prayer!
CerddWen I understand , but I meant friends , family or church who would take it in turn to pray throughout the duration, not the hospital staff .That is how we did it in my fellowship. 😊
@@oiputthatback7361 Oh I see - sorry I thought you meant in the hospital! Good idea to pray throughout the whole duration :D
“Doesn’t seem like the thing to say to the one who’s doing your surgery” … Omg, my blood chilled at that. Hope she sued, as that’s a legit threat! 😨
Don’t think we’re getting the full story here. I think she might have been confrontational and rude to the staff before the surgery. Still, what they said during the surgery was very unprofessional.
God heard it all ...
Matthew 12:36
King James Version
36 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
James 1 :19 Kjv
Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:20 For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
Words are important
Matthew 7:1-3 kjv
1Judge not lest ye be judged
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
This happened to me when I was in my 20's in surgery. They were talking together and said I would never remember because of anesthesia. But I heard them bad mouthing me on the table and I remember. You come to these people for help and they stand there judging you. If your a professional act like one.
*you're
@@cyberpleb2472 lmao
@@cyberpleb2472 if you get the point, why correct it?
@@penpinson12882 Why are you so keen to accept laziness and sloppiness?
@@cyberpleb2472 I’m not. I just dont reply with unnecessary things.
I never wanna go into surgery. Shittalk is NOT the worst thing that can happen.
Unless you actually need it?
Truth.
*starts dying and needs surgery*
I hope u need surgery in 2 days
Yeah I hope you need surgery normie
There are other things Doctors and Residents may do during surgery. They may experiment on you. I went to a renown hospital for treatment of a "delicate" situation that required surgery. The first clue I had that something was up was I had 3 male "attendants" which I later believed to be residents who wanted to "observe" the procedure, I watched them smirk as they put me under before I got to the operating room. After the surgery, my recovery was so painful, I knew I had been used as a guinea pig while all three "residents" practiced the same procedure. The doctor was a cold fish. I never physically recovered from the procedure. But, sadly, I had signed papers that gave them permission to use me as a teaching tool. I am lucky to be alive.
do you seriously believe that?
@@farahababneh791 Did you read the words, "I went....." means it was a personal, true life experience.
I have no sympathy for scammers who set people up to get legal compensation. Nobody needed to hear this. As if we don't know these people share opinions amongst themselves. It would be different had they actually harmed her of course. Instead, she has harmed herself by posting it. (Who does this?)
"That just doesn't seem like the thing to say to the person that's going to do your surgery." That sounded kinda like a threat. Like if he wanted to, he could harm her during surgery.
Yeah 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
@Arthur james cant you be quiet and stop causing a riot?
@Arthur james That seem like a joke to you. The doctor operating you and meanwhile making a comment like that.
If he did, he would be charged with malpractice and be in deep trouble. He wouldn't dare even if he wanted to. It was a joke anways.
Bruh that isn’t a threat. A threat is “imma kill you” and trust me I’ve gotten a considerable amount of them. Did they kill me? No
I had a tech in the hospital make horrible comments about my daughter. The hospital has placed the case under investigation, what pisses me off is my kid is a minor. I was shocked beyond belief that adults would be behaving this way.
I am so sorry that happened to you and your daughter :( I hope they get into alot of trouble for that.
@@aerionarodgers3353 It's still affecting her and makes her question herself instead of having that beautiful confidence that was instilled into her.
Horrible, rude medical personnel, I experience myself, and not just ones.
You may want to start reading about Cluster B disorders. Once you read about these disorders, which are personality disorders, there will never be a time when any human behavior in the world surprises you. You will understand why murderers murder, con artists con, why people are "addicts", serial killers, cult leaders, Trump, Kanye, Russel Brand, and must about any other noticeably f'ed up human being behaves they way do and why they're like toddlers in adult bodies.
It’s not adult it’s just men :(
My grandmother died minutes after a doctor said 'she wont be there for long' hearing this my grandmother got tensed up, she had like sudden asthma symptoms and died by a heart attack. 😞😔
I really wish that doctor go through the same pain we went through.
Did you report this? If not you should.
@@9395gb it's a government hospital in South india. There were recent cases where doctors did surgery and forgot a surgical instrument inside the dressing and the case reached nowhere! How can my case do anything! Let God deal with it😔
@@jancyvidya8243 Hello Jancy, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
When I had surgery a few years ago I found a surgeon who I felt REALLY comfortable with. I was seeing her for care for a while before, and then ongoing for months after, the surgery and I know she's the nicest person ever. I was worried because the day of the surgery I found out she'd have another doctor who was doing a fellowship working alongside her and I hadn't met him before that day. He seemed ok though. Later I saw him for care a couple times for a bit of an emergency when my primary doctor was out of town, and he was a total angel. I feel blessed to have had good people working over me when I'm unconscious, laying there totally vulnerable. But I'd had a bad experience in the past so I knew how important it was to me to find a doctor I was REALLY comfortable with to do my surgery. If I had a single reservation with them, I would have switched doctors. There are some gems out there, just gotta dig.
My thing is she had problems with them before the surgery and she still went to them
Nashua Andrews Has to be the most sensible comment here.
Nashua Andrews right. If she they had a tense meeting then I don't think I'll go or trust them with my surgery
Nashua Andrews - It's now become every Americans inalienable RIGHT to behave like an ass, and then demand money if they feel the slightest bit offended people's reaction to their behaviour.
Yeah if I was the lawyer of the doctor, I would use this recording against her. because if i was in a law suit with someone, i would not be going on tv saying that we got into it and then i came back for your services. technically, she can't sue for words spoken badly against her. SHe chose to continue with their services and so that's the price she will have to pay. That's shame on her, because they fooled her twice.
Nashua Andrews What if there was no other hospital she could go to that specializes in removing hernias? I work in the medical field and where I live only certain hospitals specialize in certain things 💁 also as a professional woman like you stated in the comments since when was it okay to lack professionalism I wasn't aware it was their jobs as medical professionals to make someone uncomfortable before and during surgery it's their job's to be rude? I've never did anything like this nor have I seen it working under the doctors where I work rather the patient was rude or not
I've had the unpleasant experience of witnessing my coworkers and other hospital staff members make fun of the way a mother reacted who just lost her daughter. I was the only one to comfort her while everyone else laughed. I no longer work there.
Honestly whenever something gives you a lot of stress you use humor as a way to cope with it. They’ve seen hundreds of mother’s lose their daughters so at that point it wasn’t such a big thing to them anymore. All the stress of working in a high-pressure job can really only be combatted with humor. I know cause I worked one myself. As long as you still get the job done effectively it doesn’t really matter.
@@geechyguy3441 foolish attempt at excusing vile behavior.You need to get your head checked.
@@geechyguy3441 u sound dumb as hell
@@youtubepremium2152 How is being a doctor or not being a doctor relevant 2 the expectation of professional behavior??
I hope you called those horrible coworkers out.
Lots of people on this world are mean spirited and disgusting I am not surprised! And they’re all doctors, lawyers, teachers etc!
Why does this mean spirited people are clumping in the positions of power?
Who threatens to sue the surgeon if the, surgery isn't booked within rwo weeks? I have zero sympathy for her.
One of my best friends is a traveling RN. She’s real young too. She told me “I will always be loyal to my patients but I will NEVER be loyal to a hospital” and she shared with me how greedy & neglectful hospitals are and how verbally abusive doctors can be. Disgusting
It's ridiculous! You would think that those "prestigious" universities should teach those doctors some manners
It’s very true i work behind the scenes and everyday it’s something
That reminds me of a anime called tenjou tenge. It was a small clip from a wrestler character back story.
@@Broken_Helix It is often the most "presitgious" in our day and age that lack basic humanity. Too busy boasting about their PhD or whatnot.
@@phandanouvong_1975 You seem to have a misbelief of what humanity is
I've lost trust in doctors ever since they ignored my grandma's continuous calls for help when she couldn't breathe. I had to call up there and demand that they give her a treatment for them to do something.
Sue them!!
@@Amberxxbbunni it's sad but something that needs to be spot lighted. Older people do not get treatment at hospitals because they are "old" so they act like it's wasted resources to try to add 10 years to someone who is 70. Versus giving treatment to add 60 years to someone who is 20. Their logic makes no sense. These are our grand parents and parents for gods sake. The people we love and who raised us.
@@mohammadalikarimi8055 I don't know how it works in other countries. But where I live we exercise palliative care. It is inserted into a patients careplan when there's only unnecessary suffering to try to extend a person life and all care given is only to increase quality of life until the end.
There are also things that a person have to consider. A weakend body might not be able to take all kinds of medicines, under go major surgeries, partake in intense rehab plans, etc. compared to a young healthy body (which is always taken into consideration when deciding care for a person). There's of course the factor of people getting weakend by age, however the number itself isn't what decides a persons care, a patients physical evaluation does (which is what weakens with age).
@@mohammadalikarimi8055 actually, their logic makes sense, but it’s still a wrong thing to do. 🤷♂️
@@lordium1848 it does make sense. Just doesn't seem humane.. it's right and wrong at the same time.
Not sure why she would even sign to go through with the surgery if she has any worries about the doctors talking like this. She is a scam artist
This is why you should always be careful what you say about people, whether to their face or not, because even when you think that they can’t hear you, they might still be listening.
I have worked in the medical field before. I used to think it was a professional and honourable career until I started working with them, but I have never met people that are more disrespectful and entitled. No matter what your work is, if you don't have the person's best interest in hand-do not do the job. I'm glad she recorded it, and I hope she sues the crap out of them.
I have to agree. After nearly 4 years in the medical field, most of the healthcare workers shouldn't be in the field.
@@Mai-lh3xc honestly, healthcare can be one of the most frustrating places you'll ever work. The stuff you see is of nightmares. People dying all the time, feces, vomit, physical assault that you can do nothing about. The public has no clue... it can be like a horror movie. You also are always facing a lawsuit. The stuff in the video is the way workers unload from all the stress... although it's not the right way.
Like you always do your work for the interest of others and not buy a new car, phone, get a house etc. You guys are probably cursing at your home office right now and judging these guys, who never thought the patient was going to listen any of that, by doing the same, hypocrites
I started working for the law enforcement and also thought it was a professional, honorable career. Some are legit professionals but others ones are egotistical assholes who take advantage of their authority
@@anh7807 being racial can't have any better excuse
I’ve said it a million times, and I’ll say it again... it’s hard to find an employee who really cares!! Wether it’s retail, the medical field, or any job for that matter. To have empathy, compassion and professionalism is a rare find.
That is actually a good point
Retail people em so moody or rude to costomers..
because most humans are narcissistic. antinatalism is the way
At least in my case it's hard to be too much of the first two items because you have both management and patients being rude to you. I had a patient scream at me for 30 minutes because I told him I can't fax him his results when they come back the next day. So between that, other people being mean and management saying you have to be faster and handle more and more? It's easy to bite back any empathy and compassion you have
I swear
Regarding a colonoscopy, a lot of people don’t know this, but you can have them done without sedation. I know a lot of people that don’t want one without sedation, but this is yet another reason to not go under if possible.
Dude, I'm a nurse, and health care "professionals" who behave this way are not only irreparably disgusting humans, but they undermine aaaany trust the public has in the rest of us who take our professions seriously. Being in the hands of a surgeon/doctor/nurse/etc is an incredibly vulnerable position, and for these "professionals" to BETRAY that trust makes me feel literally sick to my stomach.
Just so y'all know, most of us work hard to show our patients the respect that they deserve, and fortunately it's rare for me to catch a fellow health care worker being so flippantly unprofessional. Generally speaking, the folks who have busted their butts building a career in caring for others take that honor seriously (but, yeah-- every once in a while you find a real turd in the punch bowl, and I'm thankful to patients like this one who blow the cover on crappy providers. That surgeon doesn't deserve the priviledge/responsibility of having those who are vulnerable in his care)
How exactly did they “betray” her trust. They did their job and performed the procedure successfully and sent her on her way despite clearly finding her to be an insufferable patient to work with. The “betrayal” in this instance was them hurting her fragile feelings, boo hoo.
When I was 7 year old kid, the doctors insulted me right in front of my poor immigrant mother knowing she couldn’t do anything because the lack of education. I looked at her as she lowered her head with a sad expression. I didn’t know what she was feeling but it must have been devastating feeling powerless to stand up for her kid and with the lack of money and education to change doctors and clinics.
Ok 7 years old
@@dingdong896notice how they're referring to the past tense. perhaps they were talking about an experience they had when they were 7, not talking about that they're 7 right now
@@rosethz2474 my bad sorry
@@dingdong896 and, there really is nothing wrong with being 7 either, we all should let the kid be themself.
@@rosethz2474 hey i didn't said anything wrong about being 7 years old
That was really unprofessional and rude of the doctors but it worries me that the women felt the need to hide the recorder in her hair.
Ashley Cole well it's illegal to record someone without consent.
space girl If it was illegal to talk during surgery you'd find the death rate ridiculously high
It can't' be illegal to talk during surgery. The doctor has to ask for tools, wraps, etc. Plus the anesthesiologist has to tell the doctor if things aren't working safely.
I wondered about the safety of someone putting a recorder in their hair before surgery. That is a lot of hair!
space girl They're allowed to talk about patient information (they need to, anyways) and anything too private(exact address, background, etc) wouldn't be available to them in the first place. Things like talking about "Oh she was so rude" or "Why are all my patients like this" are not restricted at all. It's common sense not to say it to the patient's face, after all, and doctors need *some* sort of conversational outlet other than "Yo can you hand me the scalpel" or "So uh... nice weather we're having? Not that I've gone outside in the last 12 hours or anything"
Ashley Cole obviously that was the reason...and she was obviously right....duhhh....she also said that they had a lil disagreement involving her case not being booked within the two weeks prior to her surgery....
This is so beyond disgusting as a healthcare worker I’m so sorry this happened to you
Why would you even trust someone with your health after an exchange of words?
Hello Ashley, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
They say this kind of thing to your face when they think you’re poor, homeless and can’t do anything about it. It’s really sad and despicable. I have heard so much worse from trifling nurses.
Ever considered not biting the hand that feeds? Not insulting your doctors and nurses? Or is it just that they should treat you, the person they're helping, with compassion but not the other way around? Such entitlement.
@@chegadesuade actually they are being paid WELL for what they do. Your insinuations are disgusting. #1 they aren’t “the hand the feeds”. They are providing a service at considerable cost, & you are entrusting them with your life. #2 you insinuate that holding them accountable is “insulting”, or asking questions isn’t showing “compassion”…? You sound like you’re a drug addicted healthcare worker yourself.
Very true . Unfortunately poor are treated badly.
@@chegadesuade
Where exactly did the OP even imply that they exhibit the same behavior?
True words spoken by the original poster of this comment….First responders and medical staff get much due praise for caring for others, saving lives etc;, and they should get just as much energy put towards their bad behavior. For as many compassionate, caring, and bright staff there are out there, there’s just as many lazy, uncaring, and disgusting staff that risk you or your loved one’s safety through bad practices, ineptitude, misinformation, carelessness etc;. It should ALL be all called out, good and bad…..If you or a loved one have to go in the hospital, always have someone monitor first responders and hospital staff to make sure they’re thoroughly doing their job.
When they said that she hid the recorder in her hair extensions i blurted out "UNBEWEAVEABLE" 😂😂💀💀
Lmao😂😂😂
ESP Yep, that does it, I'm killing myself.
Thats some next leven ninja shit. Haha hiding it under them weave
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You’re fired!!!😂😂😂☠️💀
She set them up for this and no doubt now will have a huge settlement . I hope she gets nothing sounds like she was rude and threatening before her surgery.
I can understand the threatening part- threatening to get lawyers for not getting surgery in 2 weeks. Also, surgeries can take time to schedule. BUT, there were some comments they made that were uncalled for- like her belly button
$500000 for that one comment?
Seriously
My wife and I were Surg Techs for a while and we were appalled at how the surgeons would make fun of and insult the patients while they were under. They also treated the nurses like crap. I don’t miss that gig at all.
After watching "Dr Death" I think I would have to be pretty desperate to go under the knife.
Agreed!!!! There was a previous comment about how Nurses are taught to speak around Patients even if they are in a Coma because we are to assume they can still hear, hearing is the last Sense to go. The Nurses enraged me more than anything because as a Nurse I am used to appalling behavior by Surgions especially ( 4th Year Residents are not Pretty either) NOT CONDONING, but after 25 years have accepted that they are almost UNTOUCHABLE
Most doctors are arrogant jerks.
I worked in the animal nursing world as well, same thing.
Veterinarians are equally if not more disrespectful..
What a nightmare. Hope karma bites them in the arse!
No doubt this has been going on for ages.
Fuck ur feelings
What, not human beings?
How is this shocking to anyone? That is the exact thing most did in high school to raise ones own self esteem by pointing out others faults.
All part of the social acceptance training as children in America.
Now it's called bullying. Use to be teasing. Can't arm teachers for teasing. But bullying, on my god, arm the janitor too.
Hell if it relaxes the surgical team, I'll give them notes with pointers.
Ben Smith what the fuck
Pingijno
Oh it's you?
You wish to change how an adult thinks. Raise the child accordingly. As long as parents are to busy chasing currency. There will be no time to raise the child. Don't worry the state will program them for you.
THIS IS HAPPENING...
Am I surprised ? People are to busy consuming to recognize the rulers ruling them.
Look who's squatting at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave.
Mankind is evolving into the rulers' wishes .
No one lets another's opinion effect them, unless they let it. If they are the steward of of there own being, what is the issue?
The sad fact is this is how one judges themselves imperfections against another's. Pointing these imperfections out about others. Distracts others from their own. And no one is perfect...
In high school? Not everyone was as immature as you. Anyway,they're not high schoolers anymore. They're at work,in a professional setting.
As you said,none is perfect so those doctors should be more humble.
For those of you not from Houston, Harris Health is the Harris County hospital district, for uninsured patients who are typically lower income. I was a patient of their services after I was laid off and uninsured. Which May Day a lot about how this patient is treated.
There is more to this story than what is being reported. Especially the first story! Why did the patient threaten to sue her surgeons before the surgery?
Maybe all operations should be recorded. Then they would be straight up professional.
There is "MUST BE PROFESSIONAL" language vs "BUSSINESS/CASUAL" language. You should not get paid for spying on "BUSSINESS/CASUAL" language.
Whats next? Cameras in the breakroom?
@@brandoncook3158 Nah
@@brandoncook3158 This isn't "business/casual" medicine doesn't neatly fit into that simplistic category. You are entrusted with someones health. You don't make disparaging remarks while performing surgery.
@@brandoncook3158 Are you entrusted with the care of someone in the breakroom? These things are not the same.
I work as a medical professional and I've heard so much doctors trash talks their patients behind their back. Sometimes, its not about how educated you are but how well mannered you are after all. Education doesn't necessary mean you've adopted manners and values.
Andrea Angeles I'm in health care too and could write a book about the things I've heard everyone say about everybody. It's crazy. We are supposed to be helping people.
Andrea Angeles yes
Very well said! 8)
*+Andrea Angeles*
That may well be right. Although here in New Zealand, staff are encouraged to keep talk to a minimum in the OR. By the way, you may want to edit that last sentence so it comes across as coherent.
if they think patients are annoying why be doctors
This happened to my mother too, and she was hearing everything😢
This reminds me of the way I’ve heard fellow Childcare workers speak in front of babies… just bc they can’t speak doesn’t mean they can’t hear you
Let's be real people, persons talk behind people back,we are only offended because they got caught
True
@EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS Nah you most definitely have said something behind someones back at some point in your life that you wouldnt dare say to themselves.
@EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS There is no grown adult who has not done it. Unconciously we as humans do it. Thats just the truth, you might not want to do it which is good, or you try your best not to do it, but you definitely did it at some point in your life. To say that you never talked behind someones back in your life is a pretty bold and ridiculous statement.
@EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS Definitely but human nature is the same wherever you go.
@EMMA ~ PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS Who the hell would talk behind someones back in their home lmao? People do it in secret.
Unfortunately as a non medical worker in a hospital I hear things like this all too often. Doctors saying patients are lying about pain or ignoring their concerns. Nurses commenting on people's appearance. I've even heard nurses making fun of women who are making loud noises during birth which is incredibly awful. When you're in horrible pain the last thing someone taking care of you should do is make fun of you. Working in a hospital ruined my perception of them for me. I don't trust anyone at face value and I always get a second opinion now.
Don’t trust them any more than you would trust a stranger with your child. People are terrible.
Yes, a nurse yelled at me to stop screaming when I was in labor. Then my next child, a very nice nurse showed me how to breath during labor. What a big difference by sharing the littlest tip, and how different people can be.
Its these days
@@AprilMay.2023 I would have showing how to breath or ease the pain would be the the first standard response
I'm in medical school and unfortunately doctors do say that people lie about their pain sometimes, especially in emergency rooms they have nothing to do so they start rambling about something that happened a while ago or recently. A lot of nurses told me some stories that happened and they laughed about it. I don't approve of this but it is what it is can't do anything.
I am a retired registered nurse and health care professionals should not be talking derogatory remarks about patient even they thought she is under the anesthesia. Very unprofessional conduct. 😢
I still can't get over "she hid a recorder in her hair extensions" 😂
Where else could you hide it! They won't even let you keep your underwear on because it "might catch fire", gee why on earth would it catch fire? What are they doing!
I don't see how people can get in trouble for this, regardless. The fact that she hid the recorder is proof that she was fishing for a lawsuit. People are entitled to their opinions, people are entitled to free speech. Just because you don't like what they say doesn't mean you should be awarded millions of dollars for "damages". What damages? The fact that this practice is a thing in this world is ridiculous. People can sue for anything.
@@donnie_deadite....where did I say I don't like it?
@@Pikachu-qr4yb Don't think they were referring to you.
@@donnie_deadite the girl was saying you shouldn’t talk about someone who’s doing your surgery thats an extremely dangerous and evil way of thinking that’s practically threatening to kill someone that specific person should get sued not for anything over like 10k though