I am so glad op contacted his daughter, and she is reasonable enough to see her "parents" we're evil and chose to ignore them and meet op. They both were blind sided by this, truly a horrible family. Hopefully she takes after op
They say he should have tried harder to reach out, they blocked him for no reason and didn't invite him to anything. How about you reach out by not blocking him???
You think Reddit stories are true? 99% are fake and just follow a single script- Parents do something bad and then want to reconcile after I find success/after they find out the truth/after they face backlash etc.
There’s no issues that can be resolved. You can potentially send your daughter some contact info if she ever wants to talk. Be aware your ex family may try and use her to manipulate you. You have a wife and son, protect them, that’s your job, even if you have to protect them from your ex family. These people are too toxic to expose your loved ones to.
wow, this video was really eye-opening and well-made! it's crazy to think about the lengths families will go to protect secrets. but honestly, i can't help but think that keeping something like this under wraps can be more damaging in the long run. wouldn't it be better to just confront the truth instead of carrying around that burden? just my two cents!
Is this real ? How many families are out there abandoning their kids? Through thick and thin nobody in my entire family would just single out and abandon someone
I sort of see never being in you child’s life but just abandon them and never speak to them for decades after raising them? This just doesn’t seem real. No matter the amount of money I just don’t see a mother and father blocking their children
As for your daughter, you can set up a trust for her and leave her a letter explaining everything. If you meet her , all you can do is explain your side; then it's her choice. You don't know her and she doesn't know you, but at least you tried. That's all you can do. Keep that toxicity as far away as possible. It's not your fault.
I feel like quite a few of these stories are just written to spark engagement. If you had good relations with your family prior to this, i highly doubt they would just cut contact, especially the immediate family unless you're so blind to their disdain
It's a very common style of modern fairytale. Man (usually) is betrayed by those closest to him, hits rock bottom, succeeds despite the odds, then his betrayers come crawling back asking forgiveness, which is refused.
I think it was selfish to contact the daughter, being a good parent is putting your child’s wellbeing above your own, this was all about him put his own over hers.
this video was really well done and kept my attention throughout. it's crazy how families can keep such huge secrets, but honestly, it makes me question the loyalty in these relationships. like, how do you even continue to trust anyone after something like that?
wow, this video was really eye-opening and very well done. the storytelling kept me engaged the whole time. but honestly, i can't help but think that keeping such a huge secret in the family is just going to lead to more problems down the line. i get the desire to protect the family image, but isn’t it better to address these issues openly?
this video was really well put together, and I appreciate the courage it must have taken to share such a personal story. that said, I can’t help but wonder if keeping this secret within the family might have hurt everyone involved more in the long run. honesty usually seems to be the best policy, right?
this video is super engaging and definitely kept my attention. it’s quite wild to think about the complexities of family dynamics, but i can't help but wonder if keeping such a huge secret really brings anyone peace in the long run. i mean, honesty is tough, but isn't it better to face the truth rather than live in a lie? just my two cents.
this video was really well put together and had me hooked the whole time. but honestly, i can’t help but wonder why the family thought keeping such a big secret was okay. it just seems like someone should've stepped up and said something sooner. i mean, wouldn’t it have been better for everyone to deal with the truth instead of hiding it?
great video, really well done! it's fascinating to hear all these family dynamics. but honestly, i can't help but think that keeping such a huge secret can tear a family apart in the long run. do you think it's better to confront these issues openly rather than bury them? just my two cents!
this video was really well put together, and it definitely kept me engaged. but honestly, i can’t help but think that the family should’ve been more open about what happened. hiding something that impactful just creates more tension and pain in the long run. what do you all think?
The only thing I will tell this original poster that get yourself tested to see if this is actually your daughter or not if your ex-wife cheer on you who knows if this is actually your kid or not
Wow, this video really sheds light on a complicated situation, and I appreciate the way you approached it. But honestly, I can't help but think about how long such a secret can eat away at family dynamics. Do you really believe it’s possible to move past something like this without it affecting relationships permanently? Seems like letting go is a lot easier said than done.
@@EvilVillainInc they just make me really mad whenever they doormat to like extreme levels like it's exhausting to hear them wine about their problems but the solution is so simple a blind person could see it
what a powerful story, and i appreciate how openly you shared such a personal experience. that said, i can't help but wonder if keeping this a secret for so long did more harm than good. i mean, should family bonds really be stronger than honesty? it's tough, but maybe confronting the truth could've led to healing instead of just hiding behind secrets.
this is a really compelling video, and I appreciate how you approached such a sensitive topic. that being said, I can't help but think it's quite troubling that family secrets like this can fester for years without anyone addressing the emotional fallout. shouldn't honesty be prioritized over keeping the peace?
this video is really interesting and you did a great job presenting such a complicated story. but honestly, it's hard to believe the family kept this a secret for so long. i mean, how do you not talk about something that massive? seems like there's more to this story than meets the eye.
Wait...Did he just take their word she was his daughter??..was a D.N.A test ever done ?...quit calling them your family , their not ,...blood only means the cuts deeper when they wrong you..family is those who truly care...forgiven a wrong just because it " family "...is stupid...they still did what they did to you.( in my opinion your cousin , for damn sure and probably your uncle would have got an ass-kicking , the cousin should have gotten one even before this...cant say I feel any sympathy and even less respect for your mental weakness , non- confrontational approach...
really interesting video, you did a great job presenting such a sensitive topic. but honestly, i can't help but wonder if keeping this a secret for so long makes the situation even more complicated. shouldn't the truth come out for everyone's sake, especially that poor kid? it feels like there's a lot of unresolved feelings lurking beneath the surface.
OP shouldn't be assuming wild things like that's his daughter. I'd bet 1k that thing isn't the daughter by dna test. OP is acting soft and gullible assuming sht like that. I lost respect for the man by the end of the story. He gladly let himself get swindled like a chump. Stay hard
this video was really engaging and I appreciate the honesty in sharing such a personal story. but honestly, I can't help but wonder if the family should have come clean sooner. keeping such a huge secret can really complicate relationships in the long run, don't you think?
great video, really captivating story! it's crazy how family dynamics can get so complicated. honestly though, i can't wrap my head around how the wife could do that and just keep it hidden. seems like there's a lot more to unpack here than just a betrayal. what do you all think?
What an interesting and thought-provoking video! I really appreciate how you shared such a personal story. However, I can’t help but wonder if keeping a secret like this just leads to more hurt in the long run. Shouldn’t the focus be on honesty and transparency, even if it’s painful? Just my two cents!
I really appreciate the way you shared your story, it takes a lot of courage to open up like this. But honestly, I can't help but think about how complicated family dynamics can get. While I understand the desire to protect loved ones, keeping such a huge secret seems unfair to everyone involved. It's hard to see how trust can ever be rebuilt after something like this. What do you all think?
this video was really well-made and kept me engaged throughout. but honestly, i can’t believe that the family kept such a huge secret for years. like, how is that even possible? it feels bizarre to me that no one felt the need to address it openly. what do you all think?
This video is really eye-opening and well put together. it's hard to believe how such a big secret could be kept for so long. but honestly, I can't help but wonder how the cousin felt about it all. Seems a bit unfair to put all the blame on the wife when emotions and family dynamics are so complicated. what do you all think?
I am wondering if this family is middle eastern or traditional Hispanic family with a head of the clan. I would go on the offensive against them since he is more successful than thus Uncle.
This is why you go no contact with toxic family members
Exactly! Cutting off toxic family can be hard but sometimes necessary. Have you ever faced something similar?
i know this isn't the place for this but i have a story i need to get off my chest
@@NingiKhathi so uhh what is it
I've done that for 22 years now. What a peace of mind it's been. Not to my parents tho
Sooooo true
You need to get a DNA test first before you wanna start calling her your daughter..
He is a wimp he won't
Imagine choosing your nephew that stole your son's wife over your son???
I am so glad op contacted his daughter, and she is reasonable enough to see her "parents" we're evil and chose to ignore them and meet op. They both were blind sided by this, truly a horrible family. Hopefully she takes after op
Nobody will Ever treat you Better OR WORSE THAN....FAMILY!!!
Profound statement
Why put ..... Before the word family? Did you want to emphasize the pause between those two words? Learn how to punctuate
He should sue them and look into criminal charges about basicaky kidnapping hus child from him.
That wouldn't be possible
@@ArtscoStudioShortssomething could
How is that kidnapping
WERE IS GODZILA?
IS SHE ALRIGHT?
The boys are always there for you 😭😭 they’re the only real ones you’ll have
There's a ton of reddit stories of people's friends destroying their lives lmao.
They say he should have tried harder to reach out, they blocked him for no reason and didn't invite him to anything. How about you reach out by not blocking him???
Lol it's projection.
[19:04] This meeting was such a mix of emotions, but it’s heartwarming to see them both trying to build a future together. 🥰
just block them all and tell your cousin and family to stfu.
It's a fairy story. It isn't real.
Or better yet, sue them, they lied and His the children from him,you should at least sue them
Now all i want is cake 😅
Me too😂
Wait a minute I'VE HEARD THIS STORY BEFORE
You think Reddit stories are true? 99% are fake and just follow a single script- Parents do something bad and then want to reconcile after I find success/after they find out the truth/after they face backlash etc.
There’s no issues that can be resolved. You can potentially send your daughter some contact info if she ever wants to talk. Be aware your ex family may try and use her to manipulate you. You have a wife and son, protect them, that’s your job, even if you have to protect them from your ex family. These people are too toxic to expose your loved ones to.
His cousin and ex commited fraua if the cousin put his name as father
wow, this video was really eye-opening and well-made! it's crazy to think about the lengths families will go to protect secrets. but honestly, i can't help but think that keeping something like this under wraps can be more damaging in the long run. wouldn't it be better to just confront the truth instead of carrying around that burden? just my two cents!
A touching tale of resilience
This is why people choose to end their families relationships
Sometime I really hate when a family members don't act like a real legitimate family member but always act like a total strangers
Is this real ? How many families are out there abandoning their kids? Through thick and thin nobody in my entire family would just single out and abandon someone
I sort of see never being in you child’s life but just abandon them and never speak to them for decades after raising them? This just doesn’t seem real. No matter the amount of money I just don’t see a mother and father blocking their children
As for your daughter, you can set up a trust for her and leave her a letter explaining everything. If you meet her , all you can do is explain your side; then it's her choice. You don't know her and she doesn't know you, but at least you tried. That's all you can do. Keep that toxicity as far away as possible. It's not your fault.
Life’s struggles turned into strength
Inspiring story about overcoming challenges
I feel like quite a few of these stories are just written to spark engagement. If you had good relations with your family prior to this, i highly doubt they would just cut contact, especially the immediate family unless you're so blind to their disdain
It's a very common style of modern fairytale.
Man (usually) is betrayed by those closest to him, hits rock bottom, succeeds despite the odds, then his betrayers come crawling back asking forgiveness, which is refused.
How can you do
This to a person?
People don't realize, family is not important.
I think it was selfish to contact the daughter, being a good parent is putting your child’s wellbeing above your own, this was all about him put his own over hers.
this video was really well done and kept my attention throughout. it's crazy how families can keep such huge secrets, but honestly, it makes me question the loyalty in these relationships. like, how do you even continue to trust anyone after something like that?
Dude how can you be sure that she is your daughter, dude you believed them😂 , Dude ur naive😂 . LAD take a Dna test😂
Hardcore betrayal
wow, this video was really eye-opening and very well done. the storytelling kept me engaged the whole time. but honestly, i can't help but think that keeping such a huge secret in the family is just going to lead to more problems down the line. i get the desire to protect the family image, but isn’t it better to address these issues openly?
this video was really well put together, and I appreciate the courage it must have taken to share such a personal story. that said, I can’t help but wonder if keeping this secret within the family might have hurt everyone involved more in the long run. honesty usually seems to be the best policy, right?
Should sue your uncle for all he's worth.
MAN am sorry.
He can sue them
Wild story 💀💀
Are you sure she's your biological daughter
Oh i remember this one op did it right and met his daughter it was cool 😎
True
this video is super engaging and definitely kept my attention. it’s quite wild to think about the complexities of family dynamics, but i can't help but wonder if keeping such a huge secret really brings anyone peace in the long run. i mean, honesty is tough, but isn't it better to face the truth rather than live in a lie? just my two cents.
this video was really well put together and had me hooked the whole time. but honestly, i can’t help but wonder why the family thought keeping such a big secret was okay. it just seems like someone should've stepped up and said something sooner. i mean, wouldn’t it have been better for everyone to deal with the truth instead of hiding it?
great video, really well done! it's fascinating to hear all these family dynamics. but honestly, i can't help but think that keeping such a huge secret can tear a family apart in the long run. do you think it's better to confront these issues openly rather than bury them? just my two cents!
this video was really well put together, and it definitely kept me engaged. but honestly, i can’t help but think that the family should’ve been more open about what happened. hiding something that impactful just creates more tension and pain in the long run. what do you all think?
The only thing I will tell this original poster that get yourself tested to see if this is actually your daughter or not if your ex-wife cheer on you who knows if this is actually your kid or not
DNA test
Wow, this video really sheds light on a complicated situation, and I appreciate the way you approached it. But honestly, I can't help but think about how long such a secret can eat away at family dynamics. Do you really believe it’s possible to move past something like this without it affecting relationships permanently? Seems like letting go is a lot easier said than done.
Good story but the speed is first
Thank you for your comment 🥰
Is this a doormat story
Ty for the heads up. I can’t stand simp or doormat stories
@@EvilVillainInc they just make me really mad whenever they doormat to like extreme levels like it's exhausting to hear them wine about their problems but the solution is so simple a blind person could see it
Not really no he didn’t even know what happened and immediately wanted nothing to do with then
what a powerful story, and i appreciate how openly you shared such a personal experience. that said, i can't help but wonder if keeping this a secret for so long did more harm than good. i mean, should family bonds really be stronger than honesty? it's tough, but maybe confronting the truth could've led to healing instead of just hiding behind secrets.
this is a really compelling video, and I appreciate how you approached such a sensitive topic. that being said, I can't help but think it's quite troubling that family secrets like this can fester for years without anyone addressing the emotional fallout. shouldn't honesty be prioritized over keeping the peace?
this video is really interesting and you did a great job presenting such a complicated story. but honestly, it's hard to believe the family kept this a secret for so long. i mean, how do you not talk about something that massive? seems like there's more to this story than meets the eye.
Wait...Did he just take their word she was his daughter??..was a D.N.A test ever done ?...quit calling them your family , their not ,...blood only means the cuts deeper when they wrong you..family is those who truly care...forgiven a wrong just because it " family "...is stupid...they still did what they did to you.( in my opinion your cousin , for damn sure and probably your uncle would have got an ass-kicking , the cousin should have gotten one even before this...cant say I feel any sympathy and even less respect for your mental weakness , non- confrontational approach...
Thank you for sharing
really interesting video, you did a great job presenting such a sensitive topic. but honestly, i can't help but wonder if keeping this a secret for so long makes the situation even more complicated. shouldn't the truth come out for everyone's sake, especially that poor kid? it feels like there's a lot of unresolved feelings lurking beneath the surface.
All of this is vile
OP shouldn't be assuming wild things like that's his daughter. I'd bet 1k that thing isn't the daughter by dna test. OP is acting soft and gullible assuming sht like that.
I lost respect for the man by the end of the story. He gladly let himself get swindled like a chump. Stay hard
Yeah, we are going to have to talk about «childhood lovers», have your AI call my AI, cuz that’s not okay
this video was really engaging and I appreciate the honesty in sharing such a personal story. but honestly, I can't help but wonder if the family should have come clean sooner. keeping such a huge secret can really complicate relationships in the long run, don't you think?
Update
Is it your bio. Kid?
great video, really captivating story! it's crazy how family dynamics can get so complicated. honestly though, i can't wrap my head around how the wife could do that and just keep it hidden. seems like there's a lot more to unpack here than just a betrayal. what do you all think?
What an interesting and thought-provoking video! I really appreciate how you shared such a personal story. However, I can’t help but wonder if keeping a secret like this just leads to more hurt in the long run. Shouldn’t the focus be on honesty and transparency, even if it’s painful? Just my two cents!
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It's not his place of employment. It's his BUSINESS. If he built it, it's his business. This smacks of AI stories trying to create drama.
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I really appreciate the way you shared your story, it takes a lot of courage to open up like this. But honestly, I can't help but think about how complicated family dynamics can get. While I understand the desire to protect loved ones, keeping such a huge secret seems unfair to everyone involved. It's hard to see how trust can ever be rebuilt after something like this. What do you all think?
OP's family sucks, as well as his disgusting ex
this video was really well-made and kept me engaged throughout. but honestly, i can’t believe that the family kept such a huge secret for years. like, how is that even possible? it feels bizarre to me that no one felt the need to address it openly. what do you all think?
This video is really eye-opening and well put together. it's hard to believe how such a big secret could be kept for so long. but honestly, I can't help but wonder how the cousin felt about it all. Seems a bit unfair to put all the blame on the wife when emotions and family dynamics are so complicated. what do you all think?
DNA weird.
I am wondering if this family is middle eastern or traditional Hispanic family with a head of the clan. I would go on the offensive against them since he is more successful than thus Uncle.
The background is so fucking distracting I couldn’t read it
The background is beautiful
first, pin pwease
Why would you ever speak to them again? Zero sympathy...cut contact and move on.