WHAT DOES A FILIPINA WANT FROM YOU? A Real Talk With A Real Filipina!

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  • @HelgaBabushka @TheFilipinaPea #reaction #international #thephilippines
    What does a Filipina want from you besides your love and attention? Do Filipinas want jewelry and fast cars? Guys with big ... muscles? Let's find out what one popular Filipina vlogger in Canada has to say, after spending half her life in the west! She may have a different and useful perspective on east/west relationships, and what each side has to offer. What does a Filipina want from you? The answer might surprise you.
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  • @TheFilipinaPea
    @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +112

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    • @gordonkistler916
      @gordonkistler916 ปีที่แล้ว

      hold his lumber while he slumbers, if you don't hold it you don't own it!

    • @gordonkistler916
      @gordonkistler916 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girls make sure your man is well fed and well screwed before he leaves home because somewhere out there is a whore with a sandwich!

    • @kelloncupid
      @kelloncupid ปีที่แล้ว

      Best friends forever 😢

    • @gotaplay
      @gotaplay ปีที่แล้ว

      Pea , please read my message in messenger ....

    • @geecheelionmusic
      @geecheelionmusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seems I'm always out of the first 10. But see me as first even though the technology Matrix seems to be delaying me. It is my Tuesday Devotion service to be among the first. It is My Prayer. I am the First to say I Love You.

  • @1Chuck4U2C
    @1Chuck4U2C ปีที่แล้ว +182

    My Filipina wife and I watched this together, she could not stop laughing. She Identified with the both of you. I’m 66 and she’s 55 years old. Life in the Philippines is wonderful.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Is she a lumberjacker, too? 🤣🤣🤣

    • @dangerousdanny8290
      @dangerousdanny8290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea Wish Rush was still alive. You just coined a new phrase....Filipina Pea on the cutting edge of Societal Evolution.

    • @tilapiadave3234
      @tilapiadave3234 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why do you feel the need to show age?

    • @Last-Ninja-1
      @Last-Ninja-1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congrats, to you both. Have you seen Part 1? Towards the end The Filipina Pea, does a cat impression, totally wonderful. Never been but, seems that I have to leave the UK.

    • @pauljensen4773
      @pauljensen4773 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tilapiadave3234 troll

  • @GTRNights
    @GTRNights ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Can confirm. My Filipina once told me "The only thing I really need from you is just that you love and respect me." It also seems like I can't tell her I love her enough. For her it just never gets old. Over 2.5 years together and she still gets "kilig" when I tell her I love her for the 10th time that day.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Only 10 times? 😳
      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kevinlkeys
      @kevinlkeys ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheFilipinaPea 🤣🤣🤣

    • @StoicEver
      @StoicEver ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That seems very sweet. Congrats to you.

    • @Mr-Clark
      @Mr-Clark ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Keep your Filipina in her home country.
      The moment you move her to the west, it's only a matter of time before she turns into the beasts you ran away from.
      It also depends on her age. If she's under her 40s, don't bring her to the west. Over 40s, she has lost her super power against you.

    • @anwiii55
      @anwiii55 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Mr-Clark sure it's more likely she will stray away if you bring her back to the home country but you make it sound like you want to put her in jail. if she strays, all that means is that either you did something wrong or she wasn't the one to begin with. why would people choose that for themselves to begin with? if you don't know who you're with, that's a major problem.....

  • @johnstreckfuss3068
    @johnstreckfuss3068 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Double Trouble for the Hyenas of the West. Good morning, and thank you both for reminding us that intelligent, kind, and feminine women are still out there!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +36

      We’re still here, waiting for you! 👍😊

    • @geecheelionmusic
      @geecheelionmusic ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TheFilipinaPea Please Honey Wait for me. Someday I'll be Free of this prison and I can be with you. No LDR.

    • @johnstreckfuss3068
      @johnstreckfuss3068 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I’d love to see a collaboration/reaction piece of you two reacting to videos posted by some of our awful Western women.

    • @The_Chad_007
      @The_Chad_007 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@ajw9377he clearly is...

    • @anteperic2836
      @anteperic2836 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea on my way😁

  • @krunk485
    @krunk485 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I had a girlfriend from the Philippines. I can honestly say that it was the best 3 years of my life. She could cook, clean, and was very loving. It really isn't hard to keep a man happy.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👍👍👍

    • @sandrabentley8111
      @sandrabentley8111 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So what happened?

    • @joew9690
      @joew9690 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sandrabentley8111 Nothing hes happy with her still. You lost ho..s.

    • @davidramsey5952
      @davidramsey5952 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes Really, how can I keep us men Hanging?? WHAT HAPPENED!!! 🤔🧐

  • @andymanaus1077
    @andymanaus1077 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I am making plans for my first trip to the Philippines within the next 12 months. I feel like the West is terribly broken in so many ways and there is nothing I can do to fix it. I hope I might find in the Philippines someone who is simply a caring and devoted person, as I want to be for her, but more importantly I would like to learn more about your beautiful country and people.
    I also love karaoke.
    Thank you Pea for all your hard work, love and dedication in bringing our cultures closer together.

    • @charleshueckstaedt5064
      @charleshueckstaedt5064 ปีที่แล้ว

      THE WEST IS BROKEN , ITS PART OF A PLAN !

    • @bluemenace04
      @bluemenace04 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its good to know a filipina before going. That filipina can be your translator and protect you from scammers and make you aware of what's going on in that town. Thats what my lady did for me anyways. I would've been lost had I not known her before I went there. But there's so many beautiful ladies in the Philippines, more than I could count

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Plenty of karaoke here for sure 🤣👍❤️

    • @edbrackeen5979
      @edbrackeen5979 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I moved here 4 years ago. You need to talk to me about this.

    • @MitchSpargur
      @MitchSpargur ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm just back from Cebu 1 month..happy to give tips anytime.

  • @questioneverything594
    @questioneverything594 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I'm a Black guy from New York. Filipinas are fantastic women and make wonderful partners and wives!!! Guys: just treat them with love, affection, respect and be good to her overall and you'll have the best woman and wife, and they'll also be a great mother to your children. She'll give her entire self and her focus to you for life.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ❤️❤️❤️
      And yes - question Everything!!

  • @closeredge5198
    @closeredge5198 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The things you two are talking about are what mature men expect: feminine women being themselves and being open about family, relationships, and culture . It IS controversial because of the degradation of society! Many western institutions don't want men and women to be happy, together, and STAY together ✨️ I do, and I love hearing from both of you about your wonderful country ❤️

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well then I’m glad you’re here today, CE 👍❤️

  • @RobertoRoccoAngeloni
    @RobertoRoccoAngeloni ปีที่แล้ว +33

    When you know how to cook, you create a house, a family, an identity for your family.
    I still remember how my grandmas used to cook, the feeling of belonging to a family it creates.
    Among cousins we still remember that special food grandma use to cook for us.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can cook! I can cook! 🤣🤣

    • @leilavillaflor7835
      @leilavillaflor7835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can cook too 😆😂

    • @geecheelionmusic
      @geecheelionmusic ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea I know. I mentioned that in the song I wrote right after watching you cooking video.♥

  • @robertlalor8090
    @robertlalor8090 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    You girls are so funny. You are confident without being arrogant. Anyone who says that a Filipina is submissive has not truly met a Filipina. Thanks ladies.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Soooooo true, Robert 👍😊

    • @peteb6072
      @peteb6072 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely not submissive

    • @nozoto
      @nozoto ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And they're not gold diggers in general. Unless she's one of the bad apples and all you have is money to flaunt at her face while being a total pushover, it's unlikely a Filipina is gonna exploit you...
      Because she comes from a country in development doesn't mean her pride has a price tag. I am tired of these clichés from jealous harpies.

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The women are so dang funny. Granted, there’s all types but in my circle of friends the women are fun to be around.
      I do not recommend for any guy who is emotional or temperamental. You have to be cool headed and someone that can treat emotion words for what they are. Often woman can be demanding. You do need to have some skill with them. If you feed a fire by escalating an argument, that’s your problem. Let them cool off when they need to. They are amazing but they are emotional and if you know how to handle the emotions I think you’ll reap the rewards also. They can be submissive in a way and also let you lead, but they’ll keep you in check also and that’s a good thing.

    • @scottulbrich5376
      @scottulbrich5376 ปีที่แล้ว

      got that right,

  • @kennethblack7376
    @kennethblack7376 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Any western woman I ever slept with was not a lumberjacker! I am in my first relationship with a filipina and no western woman I have ever dated or married comes close to the authentic love I receive from this beautiful woman. Every day she blows my mind with her love and her passion. And, I love seeing you two together! You compliment each other so well.

  • @randycook1741
    @randycook1741 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I never felt this much love before in my life my Filipino girlfriend is amazing!! I think you pea for what you do you are amazing too!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @teem_gen_x
    @teem_gen_x ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great conversation, ladies! You both are confident in being true to your core family values. I wish both of you continued success now and in the near future.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much, Jason! ❤️👍

  • @yoyojoe9240
    @yoyojoe9240 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great Interview Pea.!!

  • @roguetiger3163
    @roguetiger3163 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Now this was totally enjoyable and entertaining...smiled through the entire video....Filipinas just know how to make you feel good....a 🌟 🌟 🌟 🌟 🌟 production!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Rogue! It was fun, yes 🤣🤣

  • @preseil6285
    @preseil6285 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    😄😄 Pea, you are so funny, and you and Helga together are hilarious. Thank you for keeping it real.
    My Filipina wife is American born but she shares the qualities you describe. She is with me through thick and thin. During the rough times like job loss and financial trouble a lot of other women would leave. Not her. As long as she is loved and respected that is all she needs. The only reason she would leave is infidelity.
    Special thanks to Helga for being on your channel 👍😊
    Take care, Pea and enjoy your week😄🤙🥳

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She would leave over infidelity? 😳
      Then I hope she never finds out about us 🤣

    • @preseil6285
      @preseil6285 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea 😳🤣

  • @stub4958
    @stub4958 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Women like the two of you remind me why I went to the Philippines in February. I have a friend and his wife that live there. They tried to set me up a few of their friends, but sadly none of them worked out. I have a positive outlook on life, so maybe next time!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you have a positive outlook, you’ll do well here!
      (It takes a positive outlook to deal with the Philippines) 🤣🤣

    • @stub4958
      @stub4958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea I had a blast on my trip there. I did a lot of tours and when one fell through, I either took a cab to a place to do one on my own, or took it as a day to sit by the pool. I became friends with 2 of my tour guides, really nice guys!

  • @garylambert6481
    @garylambert6481 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My wife is actually a little older than me. I personally believe Filipinos are so nice, caring, fun, appreciative of the simplest things, & have very wholesome family values.

    • @garylambert6481
      @garylambert6481 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also very close to even distant relatives

  • @donrogers1101
    @donrogers1101 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was in the Philippines in the mid-1960s and I absolutely loved every day I was there. Now, 60 years on I have several friends who are married to Philipinas and they are beautiful, hard working and absolutely devoted to their families. What more could a man ask for? BTW I love your posts and your humorous attitude. Wish I could visit there again but alas, 'tis just a dream!

  • @MrMartellSincere
    @MrMartellSincere ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Filipinas and Filipinos are seem intriguing, colorful and fun to be around as well being intelligent and engaging to me for nearly 10 years. I appreciate the Philippines forever and hope they don't lose their innocent and loving nature to be corrupted by the West and America. Speaking as a disabled TH-camr. Thank Filipina Pea 🫂🤗

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for that, Martell 👍❤️❤️

    • @MrMartellSincere
      @MrMartellSincere ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea you're welcome 😁

    • @ARedMotorcycle
      @ARedMotorcycle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You haven't spent enough time around them. Sometimes to discover truth, you must have a more open perception. Some will call you a pessimist or a cynic. But actions speak for themselves. It took me 20 years of repeated visits. But, overall, it's still the lesser of two evils at the domestic level. Only lesser of two evils, but not righteous. I'll just continue to mind my Ps and Qs, but I'm already going to vent my frustrations through creative writing and animation. Artistic expression is the best way to deal with unfairness and adversity.

    • @adamdavis4164
      @adamdavis4164 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've never been to the Philippines, BUT I now wish I had went many years ago.

    • @MrMartellSincere
      @MrMartellSincere ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adamdavis4164 I wish I was rich myself to move to the Philippines and connections to the people as I've met and talked to plenty of them via social media platforms and they seem down to earth people

  • @RioStevie
    @RioStevie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Helga’s videos!!!! Just like you, she’s always on point, and brings the fire 🔥!!!!!!

  • @Niftynorm1
    @Niftynorm1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Helga was a great interview and it looked like you had fun doing it. Take care Pea.

  • @beaumershon3066
    @beaumershon3066 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this channel! hehe, what a great interview! Hugs from the other side of the pond.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it!! 👍❤️

  • @stephenmarsh1918
    @stephenmarsh1918 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Hi Pea, what you want from us western men, all the love and respect is what we want from you, especially us more mature guys and it is so refreshing to hear that you don't expect 6 figures. God Bless the majority of Filipina women, you have already saved a lot of us western men from toxic feminism. TC x

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Mr-Clark
      @Mr-Clark ปีที่แล้ว

      Well men with 6 figure bank accounts don't go to the Philippines. Majority of men who go there are on the verge of bankruptcy thanks to western women who divorce graped them. Men who want to live out the rest of their lives conflict free. Away from the toxicity of 300lb pink haired tattooed Jabba da huts or America.

  • @davidmesser5033
    @davidmesser5033 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My Filipina is certainly this way. If I call her by her name instead of using a term of endearment like babe or sweetheart, she instantly asks me why I am mad at her.
    She also will fight back if she feels like I am not respecting her. I've learned that simply asking and respecting her opinions, wants, and desires (I'm not talking about sexual desires), she gives me all of her heart.
    They aren't selfish or self-centered, entitled, what have you done for me type of women. Filipinas give more to a relationship and family than any woman I've dated in my country ever if you just take care of her and the kids. Keep a roof over their heads and food on the table.

  • @clasdauskas
    @clasdauskas 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good interview. And your dress in the intro/outro is really nice.

  • @richardsamsung4612
    @richardsamsung4612 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Woohoo....I'm coming back to Philippines very soon to spend more time with a special beautiful Filipina.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      You lucky man!! ❤️❤️❤️👍

    • @stub4958
      @stub4958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have fun! I just got back, no special someone, (it ended before I went), so I just took a bunch of tours and relaxed.

  • @peteb6072
    @peteb6072 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You both have the same humor… both at the top of your game. The Filipina Queen of You Tube and the Filipina Queen of ticktock…lots of good information…I love the whole Filipino mindset.. the part of family and faith.. I’m so lucky to have the best partner

  • @bryantcowart5713
    @bryantcowart5713 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So we get more! Hey Pea! ❤

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You sure do, and this one’s the fun one 🤣👍

  • @georgeargyropoulos5664
    @georgeargyropoulos5664 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for that generosity, George 👍👍❤️❤️

  • @MEETMagazine
    @MEETMagazine ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My favorites! ❤

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @josephdracula7487
    @josephdracula7487 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😎👍🤿🇵🇭Got to tell you I married my Filipino wife 28 years ago and I would never change a thing! We are one and support each others! So many times we return to the Philippines and made the decision to move and live here! We have a beautiful home on the beach and many of her family around! I have always respected my wife and she also to me! I know what I am getting into and openly welcome to live with the Philippine culture! Well got to say I live that culture in the USA and firmly believe that here in the USA the Philippines culture would make us a better country! This interview with your friend should open people’s eyes 🇵🇭 Thanks Pea!

  • @47boogieman67
    @47boogieman67 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Miss p. This was a great interview it was like we are listening in on a private conversation between two Filipinas. Getting some honest thoughts not saying or doing anything to get views just an honest conversation great job

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We almost forgot we were on camera 🤣

  • @paulb5907
    @paulb5907 ปีที่แล้ว

    12:45 holding the lumber ! priceless, i never knew it was like a comfort blanket , my thai mrs used to do that too , crazy days , see you on the next video

  • @charlescox2840
    @charlescox2840 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re number one!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re number 2 here, too! 🏆🏆❤️👍

    • @charlescox2840
      @charlescox2840 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea Never!!

  • @Zoo2020
    @Zoo2020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had so much fun with this video. Between the two of you I was laughing so hard. I had to share this video my Philippina.

  • @csquared7759
    @csquared7759 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You don't use tons of makeup, your hair is real, your skin is prefect, your fit and feminine and which man in the world would not want to wake up next to a beautiful Filipina everyday. As for me helping her family if were a couple then her family is my family and I want to see them thrive. After living my life in the west, it's time for me to find my peace, my soulmate. Another good post.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      (I hate makeup) 😊

    • @tilapiadave3234
      @tilapiadave3234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just make VERY sure your help is targeted to assist them to help themselves ,,, just handing over money does NOT help in the long term

    • @geecheelionmusic
      @geecheelionmusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea You don't need it. I like you Natural.

    • @csquared7759
      @csquared7759 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tilapiadave3234 I want to start a business that will be able to pull the family up, and grow even after I'm gone. Company were someone in the family can aspire to be a lawyer because it would help the company, were going to school would be a high priority and there is money to do it. Some thing that can grow.

    • @csquared7759
      @csquared7759 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea And your beautiful without it.

  • @offworlder1
    @offworlder1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always wake up very happy in the morning, she does more then hold the lumber.😊

  • @kerryroach6032
    @kerryroach6032 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To find someone to spend life with is a great blessing .To find someone you can be yourself is amazing. If I wasn't afraid to fly I would definitely go to Philippines. So beautiful and smart

  • @kendonius4928
    @kendonius4928 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great interview!!!! Interesting facts/perspective on the Filipina mindset.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Ken, my friend 👍❤️

    • @kendonius4928
      @kendonius4928 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea WOW! an upgrade to friend!!

  • @nenitacuddehay853
    @nenitacuddehay853 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My English husband was 20 years senior than me, we were married for 27 years with 2 well behaved sons. Unfortunately he passed away 4 years ago with heart complications. He was bed bound for 2 years and I looked after him until his last breath.

  • @denishealey9899
    @denishealey9899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Little Pea, wonderful interview with Helga, you must do it again sometime.

  • @javieritomac
    @javieritomac ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really love and enjoy the interview with Helga i did went and subscribed to her channel salamat po pea for introducing her to us.

    • @javieritomac
      @javieritomac ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Interview to the link watch , love and enjoy salamat po for sharing this amazing interview pea🇵🇷🇵🇭

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dazamistwalker
    @dazamistwalker ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I checked out a few of Helga's videos on her channel and honestly she comes across a lot better on your channel than she does on her own sometimes, maybe because she's a bit newer and still finding her footing or because you're such a more seasoned interviewer? You really put her through a tough interview and she handled herself SO well! Respect to both of you ladies!

  • @jefferyrichard3835
    @jefferyrichard3835 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hello Pea, enjoyed the conversation with you and your guest. Learn something new every time I watch one of your videos. Their’s a lot of layers to you Pea. Please remember, always be honest and true to who you are. People, especially like myself will have your back as you reach for your goals. Very good interview. 👋🏿👍🏿

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s SO nice to know you have my back 👍❤️

  • @nonspecifically
    @nonspecifically ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love both of you!!!

  • @jairusmedley8246
    @jairusmedley8246 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Pea I really enjoyed your interview with Helga. I can't wait to go to the Philippines this year. I am about to leave the US and work in Asia/Pacific where I will be closer to the Philippines. I appreciate your videos that help us Westerners understand Filipino culture (even though I am already sold). I did notice you did my dare video at the end. Much love Jairus P.S. I wonder if this new dare video will come to fruition.

  • @dantae666
    @dantae666 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you do a series on traveling the phillapines. I am overwhelmed with my planning where to go and what to see be interesting to get a local perspective on things ?

  • @Beyondthelensproductions
    @Beyondthelensproductions ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Flipina’s are loving, feminine, love their families and genuine. They love men when they are men. And they love being women. Are not feminists. To me those are some of the key reasons Western men find women in the Philippines so attractive.

  • @villagesdreamin1950
    @villagesdreamin1950 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the way you girls are so honest it is so refreshing. Thank you for sharing my friend. Love you always Pea

  • @jonanamar8503
    @jonanamar8503 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I married a beautiful Filipina and I am so happy now. Once you go Filipina you never go back👍❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s got to Rhyme…let me know when you solved that puzzle.

  • @stevemayeske4212
    @stevemayeske4212 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love all your videos. Especially this one. Gives me hope!

  • @johnlobley
    @johnlobley ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ALL HAIL THE UNDISPUTED PEA
    ...and always let the ads play

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wonder if people listen to you? I sure hope so, but I thank you no matter what! ❤️

    • @LordLucan-7
      @LordLucan-7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheFilipinaPeaYeah, support you're favorite TH-camr guys, WATCH THE ADS.

  • @leg414
    @leg414 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting and funny! Not to mention what goes thru a Filipina's mind...So Thanks!
    Peace!

  • @williamhoward8604
    @williamhoward8604 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Precious Pea this was a great video. It is so very inspiring to hear how a Filipina loves her man. But I must say that me personally, your personality and attributes are still number one to me. Pea you are the type of woman who creates fire in a man to serve and adore you. You're very sweet and realistic and that makes us men want to protect and love you like a baby kitten 😁. Therefore, it is not hard to be loyal to you and to really have your respect by eye contact is surprised to see our little Filipina woman really being fulfilled and completed as a woman. And watching her mature properly because she knows that she is truly loved. Some of us " passport Bros " are seriously searching for the authentic Filipina woman who is filled with her culture. And we really do choose her to love and to make happy and to adore. With the right chemistry, the love is a very real!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As long as I’m number One! 🤣👍

    • @williamhoward8604
      @williamhoward8604 ปีที่แล้ว

      @The Filipina Pea Absolutely!!!! 😁.
      You truly are my first Filipina love LOL
      But your videos have truly impacted me and I hold a special appreciation for you and you only. I appreciate you being so sweet with me as your fan. Much respect to you

  • @gilleslaviolette8147
    @gilleslaviolette8147 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your friend is so much fun! I hope I can find one like her!! Take care!

  • @madbmxduval4368
    @madbmxduval4368 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Helga is right. Protect and educate these beautiful Filipina.

  • @justflylow
    @justflylow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really fun video Pea! You found someone just as wonderful as you to bring on the show!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s always my goal 👍❤️😊

  • @nickporter1185
    @nickporter1185 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do you hold his lumber when he slumbers 😂 learning about Philippine women just keeps getting better. Kept up the great and entertaining content.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I’m a tree hugger 🤣

    • @geecheelionmusic
      @geecheelionmusic ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea To have you hug my tree, or any part of me, would give me LIFE.

    • @mikelivingood7797
      @mikelivingood7797 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheFilipinaPea Western women do the reach and pat. They roll over and reach out to touch you to make sure you are there. Then if you moved, they start patting around on the bed. (I do have to confess moving out of the way for fun) Filipinas must take this to 11. Ok, buster you are not going anywhere without this.
      Thank you for answering one of my concerns, I was worried with the heat in the Philippines, there might not be much snuggling in the bedroom. There is no better way to have sweet dreams than to be close to the one you love.
      I do have to ask, if a man needs to use the bathroom or get a drink, what is the best way to... disengage? Should I just plan on having a glass of water bedside to drink and refill?

  •  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been chatting with a lady there and so far I have found her to be very great and we are still finding out things and getting to really know each other. Your videos have been great help. I love learning new things about your culture and ways of life

  • @loneranger668
    @loneranger668 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ladies, my compliments to both of you on your honesty, your candor, your ability to know how/when to be a woman, and your true attitudes without the facades. That is what really separates the Philipina woman from the Western woman.

  • @michaelworthington9603
    @michaelworthington9603 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love all your videos. But I especially enjoyed this one. Im coming to the Philippines in the next 2 years, and it has become a mission for me.

  • @roybowman8824
    @roybowman8824 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You two are remarkable together! ❤

  • @CarefreeChris
    @CarefreeChris ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All I can say is I'm so glad I live here now. :) What an incredible place to live. Thanks Pea.

  • @AdamKidd1972
    @AdamKidd1972 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    No matter where live never rush to find love. Take your time to find happiness with no regrets. Many misconceptions out there so do your research working on yourself. Each person is responsible for their own happiness in life. Where ever you go always respect the people and their culture. Live life and let others do the same regardless of the cave trolls out there.

  • @Clauderoberts29
    @Clauderoberts29 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two wonderful beautiful ladies had me rolling, I appreciate you both. Can’t wait until I’m back there in 2 weeks.

  • @Devieisreal
    @Devieisreal ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your videos!! 🎉

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      I love that you love them! 🤣❤️👍

  • @idiot-cd6pl
    @idiot-cd6pl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aother dose of double cuteness. Looks like that interview got a bit persponal in places, the Pea actually started blushing. Thanks for the interview and keep them coming.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And it’s hard to make me blush 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sharhune2735
    @sharhune2735 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My mother always told me that the way to a mans' heart is through his stomach. My wife is a fantastic cook, in my jaded opinion and after 36 years of marriage, I cannot complain. Already subscribe to Helga and I'll see you next Friday. Take care

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      See you in three days 👍❤️

    • @grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114
      @grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I disagree. I enjoy cooking and can cook better than most women.. The way to a man's heart is to keep his balls empty.

  • @kevinlkeys
    @kevinlkeys ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this conversation...Your good attitude and strong femi😘nity reminds me of the beautiful Filipina whom I plan to visit this August

  • @raygalles2517
    @raygalles2517 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pea, both of you are so amazingly honest (and beautiful). You need to become professional relationship coaches for Western women. They need to know it's not all about them. Thank you for restoring my faith in ladies.

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helga has some funny shorts on TH-cam. Love how this interview was both lighthearted and serious at the same time 👍

  • @finallyfriday.
    @finallyfriday. ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Get a grip, girls. Hahaha
    Love it!!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAHAHAHAHA
      and yes, we sure will 🤣

  • @billharris3090
    @billharris3090 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I only pray that when I get there next month that I will be able to meet someone like you awesome ladies. Thank you for sharing

  • @47boogieman67
    @47boogieman67 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay okay I know Miss p. I'm 2 hours late. I am honestly trying to be on time I just can't seem to wake up LOL LOL but there is a great big thumbs up

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m used to you being just a bit late 🤣🤣

  • @scpay
    @scpay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really enjoyed this vid, you, Helga, and Ismi/Roger are my fav's. Stephan

  • @jeremywheeler8417
    @jeremywheeler8417 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Interesting. Helga doesn't seem very westernized for living in the west for so long. That's refreshing because the scariest thing would be to get with a lovely Filipina only to take her home and she becomes American. Thanks for keeping it real.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      I sure can happen, yes 😳

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine got Americanized…vintage, greatest generation. Like an great wife from an earlier era and then all the benefits of the Filipino background also. It can go that way too. Just make sure that you deserve her and practice your religion like a traditional guy. Don’t think you can be a non-traditional husband that’s not prepared and think that’s going work somehow.

  • @bf2940
    @bf2940 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My 2 favorite filipinas together!!! ❤ Thank you 😊

  • @slainteron4027
    @slainteron4027 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well you did it, you made the wife spew coffee with the videos opening line

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES!!! But I claim no responsibility for the cleaning bill 🤣

  • @markwilliamson2795
    @markwilliamson2795 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful interview....wonderful real women....I love how it went ballistic at about 12:00 in....YES !

  • @glenproctor1999
    @glenproctor1999 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Holding the equipment isn't just a Filipina thing by any means! I can testify 🤣 I love when a lady does that to me, especially when I'm not expecting it! One of my big bugbears is stereotyping of whole groups of people. As a teacher, I tried hard to convince people that they are individual and unique and they have their own talents and skills. Loved this conversation, told me so much about another culture and I love learning about people! Thank you Helga and lovely Pea ❤🥰

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      Considering the origin of the word testify, I bet you can! 🤣🤣🤣👍

    • @glenproctor1999
      @glenproctor1999 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea 🤣😂🤣❤

  • @rayjagoda7673
    @rayjagoda7673 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl should be a scuba diver! Never comes up for air. What a great insight! Love you pea!

  • @ronaldhunter6798
    @ronaldhunter6798 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nothing wrong at all with Both of you 😅 thank you for your honesty I love Filipinas yall so dope! Most are so positive probably best attribute other then holding the lumber while i slumber😁 wish i could clone Sweet Pea and Hilga...

  • @Kingmichael4691
    @Kingmichael4691 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You ladies are a riot with these questions. Thanks Pea.

  • @TheWaterman2011
    @TheWaterman2011 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These conversations are interesting-My Fiancee is on her way to the USA now. We dated for 4 years. Some foreigners are very serious about what we want. We will make our money and go back to the Philippines to build our forever home.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my gosh, you must be so excited!! ❤️

  • @rona8663
    @rona8663 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Pea. Very entertaining and fun. Thanks.

  • @geecheelionmusic
    @geecheelionmusic ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When someone asks me who is Sweet Pea, I tell them without hesitation. Calling you The Woman I Love is only a start. I defend you always against trolls and haters. I Love My Filipina.

  • @KutWrite
    @KutWrite ปีที่แล้ว

    Fun, cute, and informative. Love to see Pea blush!
    Salamat po!

  • @danelionheart5881
    @danelionheart5881 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Most of the girls I have dated have always held the Banana well pinched the tic tac in my case. Seems to me that is a form of comfort to them knowing they are holding their mans love connection . I on the other hand can't sleep knowing they have the grip of love and end up getting excited and have no other choice but to use that affection. When little willy wakes up he needs a work out to go back to sleep . I never dated a Filipina But I have seen more video's then most and from watching the Video's I have learned that a true Loving Filipina will do everything no matter what to please her man . Most Filipina's don't care how much money you have as long as you make enough to lay food on the table and spend time with them letting them know you love them .
    Ask youre self this . Why would you wish to be with a girl that fells you need to buy them a lot of gifts why you should treat them like they are gold while they treat you like crap when you can be with a Filipina that will treat you like a GOD even if you had little money and bought them little things like a Night out at Joli Bees or a simple flower. Most Filipina's are not gold diggers yes there is a few but not all. Most Filipina's just want to love you as much as you love them nothing more and a true Filipina will always do or try to do anything that makes you happy. No Western Girl would do anything as well as a Filipina . And if they said they will they lied

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be careful with those tic tacs!

    • @danelionheart5881
      @danelionheart5881 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea LoL I love you Pea you always make me smile

  • @tonywilliams7918
    @tonywilliams7918 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredible amount of useful redundancy. A true pacifier to developing and enduring a relationship with a Filipina. Thank you for sharing Pea.

  • @larrychurch375
    @larrychurch375 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I tell my asawa ko everyday how much I love her and always respect her and we have a awesome marriage I love the way she treats me 100% better then any American woman ever did I always treat my asawa ko good

  • @andylondon9635
    @andylondon9635 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video sweet Pea. Not sure how lumber slumber would work out, I think it may lead to other things

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s okay - you can sleep afterwards 🤣

  • @Jazz-tv7jr
    @Jazz-tv7jr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The family is the basic and most important aspect of Filipino culture. Divorce is prohibited and annulments are rare .
    And the Philippines is a collectivist society, in which the needs of the family are prioritized over the needs of the individual. Filipinos value social harmony and maintaining smooth relationships, which means they may often avoid expressing their true opinions or delivering unwanted news.

  • @paulioshak9438
    @paulioshak9438 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg I that was one of the funniest comedy movies. Especially that clip. Way to go, always crazy creative. The rest of the show was sooo informative. Had no idea the culture was so cuddly and touch real romantic. Wow. I really want that in my life.

  • @jmd1327
    @jmd1327 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Holding the ‘lumber”… 😘 I wouldn’t be able to sleep easily 😉 but sure, what a treat that would be! I think that would bring us closer together. And, sharing natural smells between partners are primal instincts that bond and excite. You are both very special and beautiful women. Thank you for your honest expression of love ❤️

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’ll get used to it 🤣

    • @anwiii55
      @anwiii55 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yea it's all good until she has a nightmare and her hand gets tense and tight....and then you'll be having a nightmare of your own haha

  • @Crazykid949
    @Crazykid949 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pes:
    You were right about the extra content on the patreon page. No need for additional spice to watch that! That's hotter than a Habanero.
    The entire interview with Helga was great, and I had to watch it a couple times to catch the spots I missed from laughing.
    I can't wait for Helga's book to come out, I think it will make for and interesting read.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the plug, CK ❤️❤️😊

    • @Crazykid949
      @Crazykid949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea I promote what I believe in

  • @rogandbingofbingalahtravel3680
    @rogandbingofbingalahtravel3680 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's all about mutual respect, plain and simple!

  • @TOPGone29
    @TOPGone29 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i can't tell in words how much i like this attitude. Just treat them with respect, be nice to them and you will have a wonderful life together.

  • @bluemenace04
    @bluemenace04 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    From my experience, my lady wanted me to be genuine and honest with her, she also wants me to be loyal to her and her alone. My shape was never a deal breaker her but she wants me to be in good health and eat healthy with her. She worries about my health a lot so I've been pushing myself to get in better health.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her and her only? And you're fine with her telling you how you should play? I couldn't let a woman tell me who I can sleep with....

    • @bluemenace04
      @bluemenace04 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 I choose to do what I want. What I want just happens to align with what she wants as well. My lady lucky I have no interest in other women in the slightest because I chase after what I want. I have no interest in anyone else for love.

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bluemenace04 Any red-blooded man who says he doesn't desire other women is lying to himself and trying to appease a woman.

  • @DesignerVamp
    @DesignerVamp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On my way!!!! Sounds like a great place:)