I am 55 yrs old. This channel is for youngsters, but I watch all your videos because it makes me feel so reassured. That my beliefs and the way I conduct my life is correct. For example today's topic. Whole of my youth passed away doing things for my loved ones. It is only since last few years that I have prioritised myself and am living the way I want to. Am extremely overwhelmed by this video since I can totally relate to it. Can't thank you enough.
I am a mum of 2 kids and a professional too..Hectic Life !! But....4 years back I decided to live for myself and also do allll my duties Efficiently. Living my MYSELF has made me cheerful..younger...and now I really don't care about likes n dislikes of others. My life is BEAUTIFUL 💕 It was soo nice to hear you for the first time sir.
Same, maine bhi ese hi jeene ka faisla le lia tha after pandemic. 1. Reduce stress as much as possible. 2. Avoid people that cause stress. 3. Prioritise my health and sleep over anything else. 4. Focus on Career
@@sanjanagrover7436 then we should get married and our 3rd child should marry a hippie in Goa.. ...ye kisney bola ki zumba instructors need to be dumb ? Which book mam ?
ha yrr , and that point ki , U urself will feel ki yr kahi selfish toh nahi ho gaya hu mai , others will tell u ki yr kitna selfish ho rha ... this is the hardest part to calm over .. hope we will work on this and understand these points 💛
My brother is from SRCC and IIM AHMEDABAD...HE is out of this rat race ..make my trip guy was his batchmate...he is very happy...he has kept a cow at his backyard...he is enjoying his life... people r so surprised when they learn about his achievements.. Even my husband is from IIT DELHI...ALL his life he has worked in senior positions..now,he has left his job and started teaching maths to kids..i can see such a joy. and contentment on his face which is priceless... people call him insane but I know what he has gained..
Who cares what others think. Like Chetan mentioned, its about having that sense of achievement, that feeling of doing what makes u happy is far better than what others think.
i was living for others for 32 years but after my seperation i come to know no one was think about me at all..so i have decided now i will live for myself and make my life more beautiful and happy. Thanks for sharing your story to making me reconfirm that i am going on right direction.
@@vikrantshukla94because maybe the other half was self serving and wouldn't give emotional support . But I'm only guessing. Some people are very cold and more sensitive people don't feel appreciated around them. Maybe sensitive people also need validation from others to feel complete ,which is a drawback too.
I feel that just thinking about future or getting snapped into daydreaming imaging extraordinary things for u would not take u anywhere better than ur current situation, instead of just working for it on daily basis.
I am 56 and I started living for myself from the age of 46. And I am perfectly happy with my present life enjoying working, traveling and doing whatever I like. Chetan you are completely right in your sincere view. All the best friend.
While watching this video,I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face.It takes immense courage to admit this,forget about discussing it.The best decision i took a year back was to only listen carefully to all that you say and that just changed so much in me.Thank you so much sir.
पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं आपसे ईमानदारी से कहूं तो मैं पहले कभी आपसे इतना प्रभावित नहीं थी पर अब हूं धन्यवाद इतने महत्वपूर्ण विषय पर इतनी गंभीरता के साथ आत्मीयता से बात करने के लिए आभार🙏
Thankyou Chetan sir for giving such superb advice which you learned at 45, but I could learn at 25 , your efforts can save my upcoming years. You motivates us by your own journey you lived so far & you are so true with your words what actually you faced in life. Thanks a ton buddy, you can never imagine how many lives you are improving by your efforts👏. God bless you.
Absolutely True !!!! I am 39 Years Old still haven't done this . People around us give us so much pressure and it takes a lot to understand it . Fact is NoBODY Cares aboout You other than YOU !!
hello sir, my story is very similar to yours. I was a lecturer of botany for 18 years and living for others and for my image and then left my job and became a you tuber and healer. And Now I am enjoying life and living for myself.
I am 64 after retirement I have started living for myself.i do what I like without caring for others. I do my role in family whatever needed otherwise love to be alone in my own way reading writing swimming listening videos talks . don't take stress and don't bother what others think
I am 35 years of age and i deeply thanking you today itself as i had realised and was half way there in prioritising myself however i was still confused till I watched this video 🤔 you made it crystal clear that i am at the right path 😎🎉❤️ …may god bless you with his best 😇😇
it’s absolutely true… i am following you from the seminar when you were in Patna , I guess in 2013-14 and your each and every word motivates me alot to change my life 👍👍 Thanks a lot 🙏🙏
Chetaaaan sir you have changed a lot since nach baliye ! I was a school girl when I used to watch that show and honestly I didn't like the way you presented yourself in that show. You gave wrong perception of yourself to people. BUT NOW. WOW I can listen you whole day. You are so real now and presenting yourself authentically as you are. Now I respect and adore you for how fearlessly you are expressing yourself, your mistakes, your low and highs ! This is helping me a lot !
Absolutely right 🤩 I've recently realised the importance of keeping self in the epicenter of my life rather than always living as per others' way of thinking.
Your talk remind me of my inner self that i am behaving the same as you lived your life like living for others. Really grateful to talk your heart out about this topic.
Dear Sir, absolutely right and perfect advice. I am from IIT Kanpur. Please write something on life of researchers and their family members. Lots of things can be written and people need to know about it.
You look like a new/different person altogether... I mean it in a very good way. It is evident on from your face that you have been living what you are teaching in this video for a substantial time now. Kudos
I see you grow tremendously on mental and emotional level. Earlier when you were on nach baliye i saw you quite innocent and naive where other judges were making fun of you, your looks, your hairs, your dancing skills etc but now you are much more mature and peaceful. Hats off to you. You inspire me a lot..
I saw you on TV years back. You weae specs, u we're having less hair on head. Your we're less alive. I am shocked to see you now. It's you. So young, so alive. No specs, no fear, so much confidence. Wow. You changed for so much better. Keep going. Thanx.
I'm lucky that I am member of this family. You telling in this video , this things realised me about 6 months ago . From that day I'm live for my self ! Life becomes easy & better when anyone start living for their own self !
I have recently started watching ur videos and u don't say fake things which I really appreciate... I am in the middle of dilemma about making a life decision and from past 3 years my life is miserable, health degraded badly and I am stressed even in my sleep.... But listening to ur videos help me change my perspective... Thanks a lot..😇
Love from Bangladesh Sir....really needed this video . I am in my 20's and I also feel like that I am less living for myself. Though I am aware of this but it is really hard to get over this though I am trying really hard and this video really lighten me up today..thank you
I kind of started living for myself a couple of years back after I read Ayn Rand. She has improved my life just you have sir. Thank you to both of you!
I'm 29 years old and just realised I don't live for myself. Thank you sir for creating content which is no where on TH-cam, it's nice to know you personally and feels great to become better person from your videos.
Hi Chethan, I'm also learning to live life from my perspective. What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Initially people may think that we are selfish... Let them think. Once we work for our higher purpose, those who can understand will understand. Too much care for others opinions is destructive... Whether it is money or power or anything for that matter... 👍👍👍 Thanks for the wisdom. 🙏🙏
Bilkul sahi btaya h sir aapne….. hum dusro ki soch k according khud ko jeete h khud k liye jeena is so important. You are my ideal sir aapse bhot khuch sikha h maine aur sach khu to after reading your books slow down my life to think for my self and ha m jeene lga hu khud k liye thank u so much for landing on this planet. Happy for you mom and dad.
Yes , I started living for myself from this year + lockdown also ... It's really really tough to live for yourself without caring your closest one that what are they ar thinking about us & stopping not to do such things or behave in such a way We daily learn something new with the help of such teacher ( You (great person+ great experience) )
Covid time was very bad for entire world , many lost their close ones. But I think it also gave time to many people to realise their mistakes ,to change their thought process and I'm also one of them . ✨ Thank you for such great contents ! 🔥❤️
To be honest, it is very scary to start thinking about living life the way we actually want to live, it is very inspiring that popular figure like you are acknowledging real things 👍👍
@@lalita6252 Keeping yourself busy in improving yourself and spending time with positive people and books of wisdom will help for sure. And since it's function of brain to generate thoughts , let brain do it but you keep doing things which are crucial for your growth as an human being. Try it and celebrate life in a cheerful manner 👍
Agreed sir, I feel it's like a ladder. Pehle khud ke liye jeena aa jaye and khud ko samajh le, tabhi sahi mayne me family, society or country ke liye jee sakte hain hum...Thanks again!!!
Dropped out of my college because i was not not happy studying what i was studying and the mental breakdowns i was going through for something i didn't care a bit about,Now i am preparing for something i am passionate about and which aligns with my future career.Thanks Chetan i appreciate your efforts for making such great videos.
So this one is really interesting hear me out!,while i was in bangalore where i was still attending college.This one evening i called my dad spontaneously and said him everything i was going through which at that time only my mom and my two sisters knew about but they couldn't just go talk it behind my back to dad cause he might get inflamed so yeah i spoke to him about it and i had only put up 2-3 sentences and got me entirely even more than i knew for what was going on with me and why was i facing such things and he asked me to do whatever is the best possible thing i could do and not to worry he sent me money and asked me to party hard not and that was like an eye opener i have something to fall back upon.Left college partied with my friends for that entire week came back home and now i am preparing for colleges in delhi.
You have made money success in life so its easy for you to say it. But if we start living for ourselves. We will be satisfied with very less. We won't grow in life. For ex: If someone is making money to help others. He is living for others. If someone is making money to spend like rich buy expensive things. He is living for others approval. Whatever we do in life it is attached to some purpose. And that purpose involves so many other people. IN any case if we strive to grow and do more in life. We are caring about others. We can't just sit at home and record videos and think we are living for ourselves. You have made money success in life so its for you to say it. You should say live for your family and loving ones. THat makes more sense. Think again. Thank you
bro i will not write very much bcz i don't feel to . i will just say ki think again what he is saying... he doesn't mean ki u should not think for others well being,. He is saying ki , 1) don't work for other's approval etc , do it for ur love and interest. 2) put urself first than others , this is the hardest part to do bcz we have been taught to think for others first since childhood but that give rise to expectations from others which hurt often, frustration etcc
This is Really the Most needed topic to be discussed I started prioritising myself more these days i avoid toxic people much socializing feel calmer but retaliated with backlash people calling me selfish introvert and even insane
Absolutely definitely ...i m married one...i literally told u this is the thing which is everybody think in once a day or so much...... 4 LOG KYA KAHENGE.......pata wo char log aaj tak n mile...or na kisi ko mile hai .....kisi k jeete ji.....milte hai marne ke baar KHANDHA dene k liye.....to kyun marta hai insan ...dusro k liye.. Apne liye jiyo dusra kya sochta hai kya karta hai bhadh me jaye sab.....apne liye jiyo..or unke liye jiyo jo tumhare liye jeete hai.... Thank u sir ....kal kuch hua tha mere sath....apke words ki bahut zaroorat thi....pata hai mujhe bhi ye sab par jab koi aisa jiske words magical hote hai seedhe andar tak tinch karte agar wo wahi bole to baat hi kya hai.......love u sir ..god always bless u..
Sir you are so truthfull thats your specialty. They can say you are not the best writer but they cannot deny the fact that you are the most truthful and practical writer
i nva liked him specially whn he was judge of nach baliye bt the time i heard his mindset for d 1st tym i was like he didnt just wrote india's best selling books bt brought lots of positive changes from those..he is like a big brother to me..sir i respct u alot n thnx for sharing ur honest opinions,stories,past mistakes,learnings,mindset n lots of positive thoughts..its take courage to be a BRAND like him to be a youtuber n connct with million of people n changing their lives
Inspiring video...l waste 50 yrs of my life for those close relatives who give no value to me but in my heart i had fear to loose them ...but during crona i watch so many motivatonal videos that i realise to live for yourself
Very true …nobody teaches you this concept that we should not seek validation and love from everyone…especially when you are trained in childhood that you have to live for others…and it’s very very hard to unlearn these things …but doing it takes immense courage …it’s very painful sometimes but you shedded light on this concept that’s really great of you 🙂🙂🌸🌸this is a very deep and most fundamental thing of our life…grateful to you 🌸😊
Totally agree.. and like you said living for yourself is not the same as being selfish. Also people are attracted to one’s who prioritize their happiness.
Genuine and daring opinion 🙏🙏🙏 subscribed as soon as I came across and got a glimpse of your channel sir...... amazing work ..... encouragement se bahra video 👍👍
It's true its not easy to live for ourselves first but life ek bar mili hai jo sabse pahle humare khud k liye hai. Thank you so much for motivating us....🙏🙏🙏🙏
Tnq sir, i also experienced it. I think, khud k liye jeena chahiye or mujhe lgta h aapki life m sbse jyada important apke goals hona chahiye jo ki apneaap se bnaya ho n ki kisi or ki opinion pr
Hlo sir, I am fortunate enough that I got your video . I am 17 years old boy after listening you, my maturity became double of my age.yeasterday one incident happend with me where some of my friends were offering me cigarette to smoke and suddenly I remembered your lessons from previous videos that we have to prioritise our own ethics in life ,I faced that pear pressure and told them that I am leaving to my home,I don't need the cigarette because I want to make changes in my life and ,I started living for my own.You are like a krishna of modern Mahabharat sir, Love your thoughts sir,not your fan but inspired by you alot🥹🙏🏻
You know Chetan...ur talking abt subjects that are enlightening us. Making us think n self introspect. It's really helping in sorting out those noises in our head ...that no one helps you with. I'm thankful that uv chosen to talk on topics that are so relevant n needs addressing But most importantly ur speaking from your heart ❤️ N I can see ur wish is only to help others in their journey ..this journey of life. Thank you so much 🙏 I listen to you talk again n again to actually imbibe it n make it get into my head wat ru trying to advise n put it into action rather than sunliya aur phir bhool gaye. Thanks again 🙂
Aaj se hi sir ... I live for my self ... I am in state of live where I am getting this lesson ... Lesson of self Love... U can't make some one happy until you ur self is... And v. Happy to see this vedio... This is my first vedio on this of urs sir ... Thank you u r absolutely right sir .... I learnt that do what makes u happy ... Know ur self ... 😊✨
Watching your video I came to know about you and your thoughts. I read your books like Half girlfriend, 3 mistakes of my life. It's really well explained and simple to understand. Salute you sir.
I do agree with you ,I had always tried to live for myself with my rules and had taken lot of decisions in my life ..I struggled as well few years ago lot due to some reasons when there was a person who passed away .. I would say ,it's not easy continuously to live without validations of other person ,it would require lot of clarify in life for all the aspect of life ..I am trying but I also get stuck into my past if I would have done something else in past then it could have been better ..surely it is insecurities when I compare myself with other whether they might also not be happy but when I do compare even subconsciously or when someone may comment something ,it really affects me .I am working on it .thanks for this video and reminding me that ,I am most important ..not money and muscles only Sir like you shared in other video
Thode din pehle hi I realised that it's affecting me how people think of me and I shouldn't make anyone unhappy with my actions or words. It's strange coz I've been a person who didn't care about these things but everyone around us tells us the same thing ki dusro ke liye pehle socho kyunki apne liye to jaanwar bhi sochte hain and things like that. Now after the realisation and this video, I've decided to be my older self and think less about other people. As you said sir, no one's coming to appreciate you and now I don't even care. Thank you sir :)
I am 55 yrs old. This channel is for youngsters, but I watch all your videos because it makes me feel so reassured. That my beliefs and the way I conduct my life is correct. For example today's topic. Whole of my youth passed away doing things for my loved ones. It is only since last few years that I have prioritised myself and am living the way I want to. Am extremely overwhelmed by this video since I can totally relate to it. Can't thank you enough.
Very nice suggestion.
I do very much agree.
Thanks
I am 52 years
I am 51 yrs, anyone cannot make anyone happy all the time.
👍
I am a mum of 2 kids and a professional too..Hectic Life !!
But....4 years back I decided to live for myself and also do allll my duties Efficiently.
Living my MYSELF has made me cheerful..younger...and now I really don't care about likes n dislikes of others. My life is BEAUTIFUL 💕
It was soo nice to hear you for the first time sir.
Weldone meenu
@@create40urself thanks
Same, maine bhi ese hi jeene ka faisla le lia tha after pandemic.
1. Reduce stress as much as possible.
2. Avoid people that cause stress.
3. Prioritise my health and sleep over anything else.
4. Focus on Career
build a career in health industry.. Anything related to that.
@@sanjanagrover7436 learn zumba and become a zumba instructor....
@@sanjanagrover7436 then we should get married and our 3rd child should marry a hippie in Goa.. ...ye kisney bola ki zumba instructors need to be dumb ? Which book mam ?
@hardik Sharma ...it happened c same with me .I also decided the same
@@jeekakrishna yeah I completed Btech in Biotechnology 🙏❤️
"IT TAKES A LOT OF NEW LEARNING, AND UNLEARNING, TO LIVE FOR YOURSELF". Simply wow. Thanks
You are amazing sir. I think this issue is the root cause of all the mental health related problems. Very thought provoking video.
ha yrr , and that point ki , U urself will feel ki yr kahi selfish toh nahi ho gaya hu mai , others will tell u ki yr kitna selfish ho rha ... this is the hardest part to calm over .. hope we will work on this and understand these points 💛
For someone living in the rural part of West Bengal with no proper guidance, you are an angel..you're my mentor
West Bengal here also 😊
M also from rural part of West Bengal
My brother is from SRCC and IIM AHMEDABAD...HE is out of this rat race ..make my trip guy was his batchmate...he is very happy...he has kept a cow at his backyard...he is enjoying his life... people r so surprised when they learn about his achievements.. Even my husband is from IIT DELHI...ALL his life he has worked in senior positions..now,he has left his job and started teaching maths to kids..i can see such a joy. and contentment on his face which is priceless... people call him insane but I know what he has gained..
Who cares what others think. Like Chetan mentioned, its about having that sense of achievement, that feeling of doing what makes u happy is far better than what others think.
This country will change the day people realise this :)
Yes i try it all the time
Glad to hear that..
Great feat...may i know that maths tutor name or link, i have some plans, may be he can teach India at scale
i was living for others for 32 years but after my seperation i come to know no one was think about me at all..so i have decided now i will live for myself and make my life more beautiful and happy. Thanks for sharing your story to making me reconfirm that i am going on right direction.
Can u elaborate like why you got separated?
@@vikrantshukla94because maybe the other half was self serving and wouldn't give emotional support . But I'm only guessing. Some people are very cold and more sensitive people don't feel appreciated around them. Maybe sensitive people also need validation from others to feel complete ,which is a drawback too.
Living for yourself takes great courage . Awesome advice Sir .😊
100p @swati
Absolutely true... unknowingly we live for others,I really like the ease with which you speak.
I Never Dreamed About Success. I Work For It.
I feel that just thinking about future or getting snapped into daydreaming imaging extraordinary things for u would not take u anywhere better than ur current situation, instead of just working for it on daily basis.
Desires come true but dreams don't ...
I live for myself, I Priotise Myself, never thinks what people will say and never care about what will they say.
Thanks sir, for this amazing content
Yesterday I was living for others, but today onwards I live for myself.i promise you sir I will change my life!!
How is it going?
@@abhijitdesai8861 it going to change my life.
@@abhifinology6681 12 days done.. any noticeable change?
@@abhijitdesai8861 yes bro but it is gradually changing me.
Yes you can. Just believe.
I am 56 and I started living for myself from the age of 46. And I am perfectly happy with my present life enjoying working, traveling and doing whatever I like. Chetan you are completely right in your sincere view. All the best friend.
While watching this video,I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face.It takes immense courage to admit this,forget about discussing it.The best decision i took a year back was to only listen carefully to all that you say and that just changed so much in me.Thank you so much sir.
पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं आपसे ईमानदारी से कहूं तो मैं पहले कभी आपसे इतना प्रभावित नहीं थी पर अब हूं धन्यवाद इतने महत्वपूर्ण विषय पर इतनी गंभीरता के साथ आत्मीयता से बात करने के लिए
आभार🙏
Thankyou Chetan sir for giving such superb advice which you learned at 45, but I could learn at 25 , your efforts can save my upcoming years. You motivates us by your own journey you lived so far & you are so true with your words what actually you faced in life. Thanks a ton buddy, you can never imagine how many lives you are improving by your efforts👏. God bless you.
Never discontinue youtube sir. People like me from rural background are also watching you. You are changing people's lifestyle. LOVE YOU
Absolutely True !!!! I am 39 Years Old still haven't done this . People around us give us so much pressure and it takes a lot to understand it . Fact is NoBODY Cares aboout You other than YOU !!
Thats a great realization..
hello sir, my story is very similar to yours. I was a lecturer of botany for 18 years and living for others and for my image and then left my job and became a you tuber and healer. And Now I am enjoying life and living for myself.
I am 64 after retirement I have started living for myself.i do what I like without caring for others. I do my role in family whatever needed otherwise love to be alone in my own way reading writing swimming listening videos talks . don't take stress and don't bother what others think
जब पहले हम अपने लिए जीयेंगे, जब पहले हम अपना ध्यान रखेंगे तभी तो हम दूसरों के लिए भी जी पाएंगे और उनका ध्यान रख पाएंगे।👍
Thank you so much for putting these productive videos in the era of reels and snaps . Really appreciate your time and effort Chetan.
I am 35 years of age and i deeply thanking you today itself as i had realised and was half way there in prioritising myself however i was still confused till I watched this video 🤔 you made it crystal clear that i am at the right path 😎🎉❤️ …may god bless you with his best 😇😇
Really good. I am also in this type of condition. Same here. May God bless you too.♥️
it’s absolutely true… i am following you from the seminar when you were in Patna , I guess in 2013-14 and your each and every word motivates me alot to change my life 👍👍 Thanks a lot 🙏🙏
Chetaaaan sir you have changed a lot since nach baliye ! I was a school girl when I used to watch that show and honestly I didn't like the way you presented yourself in that show. You gave wrong perception of yourself to people. BUT NOW. WOW I can listen you whole day. You are so real now and presenting yourself authentically as you are. Now I respect and adore you for how fearlessly you are expressing yourself, your mistakes, your low and highs ! This is helping me a lot !
Absolutely right 🤩 I've recently realised the importance of keeping self in the epicenter of my life rather than always living as per others' way of thinking.
Your talk remind me of my inner self that i am behaving the same as you lived your life like living for others. Really grateful to talk your heart out about this topic.
Dear Sir, absolutely right and perfect advice. I am from IIT Kanpur. Please write something on life of researchers and their family members. Lots of things can be written and people need to know about it.
+1
Are you pursuing PhD at iitk?
How can chetan sir tell what he hadn't face ... open your own channel, share your research experiences and it's up and down
You look like a new/different person altogether... I mean it in a very good way. It is evident on from your face that you have been living what you are teaching in this video for a substantial time now. Kudos
I see you grow tremendously on mental and emotional level. Earlier when you were on nach baliye i saw you quite innocent and naive where other judges were making fun of you, your looks, your hairs, your dancing skills etc but now you are much more mature and peaceful. Hats off to you. You inspire me a lot..
I know! I hated him after nach baliye but his TH-cam channel made me realize what a wonderful person he is, ardently following him now
@@SD-xz9ml that show was really cringy..no one should make fun of others like they all were doing to Chetan sir
@@SD-xz9ml which episode is it on youtube now!??
Depression me the Chetan Bhai...kaahe ki bankerwa bolis ki kitna kma lete ho dk Bose?
Real life lessons, I always feel connected with your wisdom 🙂
💯 true, I learnt this at the age of 55, after loosing everything at the cost of my health 😭
Sir any advice for me ?
I saw you on TV years back. You weae specs, u we're having less hair on head. Your we're less alive.
I am shocked to see you now. It's you. So young, so alive. No specs, no fear, so much confidence. Wow. You changed for so much better. Keep going. Thanx.
I'm lucky that I am member of this family.
You telling in this video , this things realised me about 6 months ago .
From that day I'm live for my self !
Life becomes easy & better when anyone start living for their own self !
I have recently started watching ur videos and u don't say fake things which I really appreciate...
I am in the middle of dilemma about making a life decision and from past 3 years my life is miserable, health degraded badly and I am stressed even in my sleep....
But listening to ur videos help me change my perspective...
Thanks a lot..😇
Love from Bangladesh Sir....really needed this video . I am in my 20's and I also feel like that I am less living for myself. Though I am aware of this but it is really hard to get over this though I am trying really hard and this video really lighten me up today..thank you
I kind of started living for myself a couple of years back after I read Ayn Rand. She has improved my life just you have sir. Thank you to both of you!
I'm 29 years old and just realised I don't live for myself. Thank you sir for creating content which is no where on TH-cam, it's nice to know you personally and feels great to become better person from your videos.
True Nisha
You are transforming lives.Keep shining.Yes, living for myself.❤️
Thanks!
Hi Chethan, I'm also learning to live life from my perspective. What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Initially people may think that we are selfish... Let them think. Once we work for our higher purpose, those who can understand will understand. Too much care for others opinions is destructive... Whether it is money or power or anything for that matter... 👍👍👍 Thanks for the wisdom. 🙏🙏
Too much care for someone takes us foregranted
This is the best motivational video i have come across in long time. I have seen it 5 6 times. Every time it rejuvenates me and makes me calmer.
It really takes a lot of Guts to tell the truth & to share your life learning with us & to get inspired. Bowing down to you 🙇🙇 for your Honesty ✨💫
Bilkul sahi btaya h sir aapne….. hum dusro ki soch k according khud ko jeete h khud k liye jeena is so important. You are my ideal sir aapse bhot khuch sikha h maine aur sach khu to after reading your books slow down my life to think for my self and ha m jeene lga hu khud k liye thank u so much for landing on this planet. Happy for you mom and dad.
I have read all your books. Thank you sir. Because of you , i fall in love with reading.😊
Development mentality atmogan
Yes , I started living for myself from this year + lockdown also ... It's really really tough to live for yourself without caring your closest one that what are they ar thinking about us & stopping not to do such things or behave in such a way
We daily learn something new with the help of such teacher ( You (great person+ great experience) )
Covid time was very bad for entire world , many lost their close ones.
But I think it also gave time to many people to realise their mistakes ,to change their thought process and I'm also one of them . ✨
Thank you for such great contents ! 🔥❤️
Thanks sir 👍
How purely n beautifully u hve explained ur experiences n thoughts.
Keep motivating us.
I was living for others...but now I'm 24 yrs old ...trying to live for myself...nice video 👍..thanku sir for sharing your life experience ♥️
Thank you sir for your advice.. I will definitely follow it
To be honest, it is very scary to start thinking about living life the way we actually want to live, it is very inspiring that popular figure like you are acknowledging real things 👍👍
sir, I also want to live for myself
@@lalita6252 All the best for your bravery 👍
@@mysticguy1174 sir, I want to live in present, but my mind always think about the things which disturb me...how ti get rid of this habit of mine
@@lalita6252 Keeping yourself busy in improving yourself and spending time with positive people and books of wisdom will help for sure. And since it's function of brain to generate thoughts , let brain do it but you keep doing things which are crucial for your growth as an human being. Try it and celebrate life in a cheerful manner 👍
Your each and every word is so soothing and makes me feel light. Feels like a therapy. Can't thank you enough!!
I also started living for myself in covid times! Great video!
That's awesome!
Agreed sir, I feel it's like a ladder. Pehle khud ke liye jeena aa jaye and khud ko samajh le, tabhi sahi mayne me family, society or country ke liye jee sakte hain hum...Thanks again!!!
Before you share love ,store some love for yourlsef!!❤vedio was soo touching thankyouu soo muchh Chetan Sir🙏
You are right sir
I should be happy by my own not when she makes me happy.
Dropped out of my college because i was not not happy studying what i was studying and the mental breakdowns i was going through for something i didn't care a bit about,Now i am preparing for something i am passionate about and which aligns with my future career.Thanks Chetan i appreciate your efforts for making such great videos.
How did you overcome the phase of depression?
So this one is really interesting hear me out!,while i was in bangalore where i was still attending college.This one evening i called my dad spontaneously and said him everything i was going through which at that time only my mom and my two sisters knew about but they couldn't just go talk it behind my back to dad cause he might get inflamed so yeah i spoke to him about it and i had only put up 2-3 sentences and got me entirely even more than i knew for what was going on with me and why was i facing such things and he asked me to do whatever is the best possible thing i could do and not to worry he sent me money and asked me to party hard not and that was like an eye opener i have something to fall back upon.Left college partied with my friends for that entire week came back home and now i am preparing for colleges in delhi.
All the best BTW you're handsome
I totally agree sir....and counter intuitively the more you stop living to impress or confirm the more better relationships with people one has.
You have made money success in life so its easy for you to say it.
But if we start living for ourselves. We will be satisfied with very less. We won't grow in life.
For ex: If someone is making money to help others. He is living for others.
If someone is making money to spend like rich buy expensive things. He is living for others approval.
Whatever we do in life it is attached to some purpose. And that purpose involves so many other people.
IN any case if we strive to grow and do more in life. We are caring about others. We can't just sit at home and record videos and think we are living for ourselves. You have made money success in life so its for you to say it.
You should say live for your family and loving ones. THat makes more sense. Think again. Thank you
bro i will not write very much bcz i don't feel to . i will just say ki think again what he is saying... he doesn't mean ki u should not think for others well being,. He is saying ki , 1) don't work for other's approval etc , do it for ur love and interest. 2) put urself first than others , this is the hardest part to do bcz we have been taught to think for others first since childhood but that give rise to expectations from others which hurt often, frustration etcc
great sir,,,,I think 99 percent people are doing and living this way....u gave us a new dimension of doing and living ...thanks man
You are doing a great job Chetan Sir. People in this world are still not understanding the value of mental health. Please keep up with your thoughts 🙏
Never heard such real talk.. In no filter mode. Very clean and pious.. Thnk you so much.
थैंक यू सर,,
पिछले 8 साल से मैं यही गलती कर रहा था।
आज 29 की age में आपने बड़ी सीख दे दी।
अब आपकीं तरह मैं भी खुद के लिए जीना सीखना शुरू कर रहा।
❤️🙏
This is Really the Most needed topic to be discussed I started prioritising myself more these days i avoid toxic people much socializing feel calmer but retaliated with backlash people calling me selfish introvert and even insane
Absolutely definitely
...i m married one...i literally told u this is the thing which is everybody think in once a day or so much......
4 LOG KYA KAHENGE.......pata wo char log aaj tak n mile...or na kisi ko mile hai .....kisi k jeete ji.....milte hai marne ke baar KHANDHA dene k liye.....to kyun marta hai insan ...dusro k liye..
Apne liye jiyo dusra kya sochta hai kya karta hai bhadh me jaye sab.....apne liye jiyo..or unke liye jiyo jo tumhare liye jeete hai....
Thank u sir ....kal kuch hua tha mere sath....apke words ki bahut zaroorat thi....pata hai mujhe bhi ye sab par jab koi aisa jiske words magical hote hai seedhe andar tak tinch karte agar wo wahi bole to baat hi kya hai.......love u sir ..god always bless u..
Sir you are so truthfull thats your specialty. They can say you are not the best writer but they cannot deny the fact that you are the most truthful and practical writer
i nva liked him specially whn he was judge of nach baliye bt the time i heard his mindset for d 1st tym i was like he didnt just wrote india's best selling books bt brought lots of positive changes from those..he is like a big brother to me..sir i respct u alot n thnx for sharing ur honest opinions,stories,past mistakes,learnings,mindset n lots of positive thoughts..its take courage to be a BRAND like him to be a youtuber n connct with million of people n changing their lives
Thank you for this video Sir! It's really eye opening and shows me the right path at 21
Helped man!
Literally i think for the moment and obviously i will make my life easy
Same situation I am facing now,,but i will change myself ..thank you so much sir for giving us precious advice....❤️
Inspiring video...l waste 50 yrs of my life for those close relatives who give no value to me but in my heart i had fear to loose them ...but during crona i watch so many motivatonal videos that i realise to live for yourself
Kaash hum jab young the aaisa guidance Hume bhi milta! Now am 41 but still I watch these videos and find value in watching these videos!
Very true …nobody teaches you this concept that we should not seek validation and love from everyone…especially when you are trained in childhood that you have to live for others…and it’s very very hard to unlearn these things …but doing it takes immense courage …it’s very painful sometimes but you shedded light on this concept that’s really great of you 🙂🙂🌸🌸this is a very deep and most fundamental thing of our life…grateful to you 🌸😊
Feeling good to read your comment. I can feel this very clear. Nice to share this ♥️
Totally agree.. and like you said living for yourself is not the same as being selfish. Also people are attracted to one’s who prioritize their happiness.
Lovely video. Thanks Chetan. I read your 5. Someone when I was in my 3rd / 4th year of engineering . Great motivational talk.
Genuine and daring opinion 🙏🙏🙏 subscribed as soon as I came across and got a glimpse of your channel sir...... amazing work ..... encouragement se bahra video 👍👍
Chetan Sir you kept all the things inside you infront of us without any filter.
Love you❤
It's true its not easy to live for ourselves first but life ek bar mili hai jo sabse pahle humare khud k liye hai. Thank you so much for motivating us....🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thankyou Chetan, definitely you are so sincere and truthful. Hare krishna
Tnq sir, i also experienced it. I think, khud k liye jeena chahiye or mujhe lgta h aapki life m sbse jyada important apke goals hona chahiye jo ki apneaap se bnaya ho n ki kisi or ki opinion pr
Hlo sir, I am fortunate enough that I got your video .
I am 17 years old boy after listening you, my maturity became double of my age.yeasterday one incident happend with me where some of my friends were offering me cigarette to smoke and suddenly I remembered your lessons from previous videos that we have to prioritise our own ethics in life ,I faced that pear pressure and told them that I am leaving to my home,I don't need the cigarette because I want to make changes in my life and ,I started living for my own.You are like a krishna of modern Mahabharat sir,
Love your thoughts sir,not your fan but inspired by you alot🥹🙏🏻
Keep it up!
You know Chetan...ur talking abt subjects that are enlightening us. Making us think n self introspect.
It's really helping in sorting out those noises in our head ...that no one helps you with.
I'm thankful that uv chosen to talk on topics that are so relevant n needs addressing
But most importantly ur speaking from your heart ❤️
N I can see ur wish is only to help others in their journey ..this journey of life.
Thank you so much 🙏
I listen to you talk again n again to actually imbibe it n make it get into my head wat ru trying to advise n put it into action rather than sunliya aur phir bhool gaye.
Thanks again 🙂
Yes brother, you are absolutely right.. I am going to live for myself.... Thank you for inspiring me.
Sidhi baat no bakwas. Aaj Chetan Bhagat ko pura country Janti he. Salute you.
Sir your content is amazing it's close to reality and people need such kinda podcasts .💯💯💯
Always happy to hear you . constant inspiration for me. Worth 17 minutes spend. Thanku sir ☘🌺
Aaj se hi sir ... I live for my self ... I am in state of live where I am getting this lesson ... Lesson of self Love... U can't make some one happy until you ur self is... And v. Happy to see this vedio... This is my first vedio on this of urs sir ... Thank you u r absolutely right sir .... I learnt that do what makes u happy ... Know ur self ... 😊✨
puri sachhai hai sir is video me.bahut acha laga ye sab janke hum log dusron ke liye jite hai aaj se apne liye jina hai❤❤
After watching this video, i got an assurance that im on the right path. Thank You Sir 💯
Happy to help!
Watching your video I came to know about you and your thoughts. I read your books like Half girlfriend, 3 mistakes of my life. It's really well explained and simple to understand. Salute you sir.
Awesome Video Sir🌟 Thank you so much for simply explaining the Importance of Self-priortizing 👍🏼 I watch all your other great content videos 😇
This video is an eye opener for everyone .Thanks a lot sir. ❤️🙏
Clarity I got ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much sir 💐🙏 your learning are priceless 😊
How true! We all want to prioritise ourself and do it but needs some validation from motivational and successful person. So ab apne liye jeeyenge 🥂
I CAN SEE A LOT OF CHANGES IN MYSELF AFTER WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS , APPLYING EACH AND EVERY WORD! THANKYOU
I'm glad!
You are the focus of your life, thankyou for this line sir
I do agree with you ,I had always tried to live for myself with my rules and had taken lot of decisions in my life ..I struggled as well few years ago lot due to some reasons when there was a person who passed away .. I would say ,it's not easy continuously to live without validations of other person ,it would require lot of clarify in life for all the aspect of life ..I am trying but I also get stuck into my past if I would have done something else in past then it could have been better ..surely it is insecurities when I compare myself with other whether they might also not be happy but when I do compare even subconsciously or when someone may comment something ,it really affects me .I am working on it .thanks for this video and reminding me that ,I am most important ..not money and muscles only Sir like you shared in other video
Love this new and better version of CB!
Can feel the Spurt of energy.
Thode din pehle hi I realised that it's affecting me how people think of me and I shouldn't make anyone unhappy with my actions or words. It's strange coz I've been a person who didn't care about these things but everyone around us tells us the same thing ki dusro ke liye pehle socho kyunki apne liye to jaanwar bhi sochte hain and things like that. Now after the realisation and this video, I've decided to be my older self and think less about other people. As you said sir, no one's coming to appreciate you and now I don't even care. Thank you sir :)