I am 55 yrs old. This channel is for youngsters, but I watch all your videos because it makes me feel so reassured. That my beliefs and the way I conduct my life is correct. For example today's topic. Whole of my youth passed away doing things for my loved ones. It is only since last few years that I have prioritised myself and am living the way I want to. Am extremely overwhelmed by this video since I can totally relate to it. Can't thank you enough.
Same, maine bhi ese hi jeene ka faisla le lia tha after pandemic. 1. Reduce stress as much as possible. 2. Avoid people that cause stress. 3. Prioritise my health and sleep over anything else. 4. Focus on Career
@@sanjanagrover7436 then we should get married and our 3rd child should marry a hippie in Goa.. ...ye kisney bola ki zumba instructors need to be dumb ? Which book mam ?
I am a mum of 2 kids and a professional too..Hectic Life !! But....4 years back I decided to live for myself and also do allll my duties Efficiently. Living my MYSELF has made me cheerful..younger...and now I really don't care about likes n dislikes of others. My life is BEAUTIFUL 💕 It was soo nice to hear you for the first time sir.
My brother is from SRCC and IIM AHMEDABAD...HE is out of this rat race ..make my trip guy was his batchmate...he is very happy...he has kept a cow at his backyard...he is enjoying his life... people r so surprised when they learn about his achievements.. Even my husband is from IIT DELHI...ALL his life he has worked in senior positions..now,he has left his job and started teaching maths to kids..i can see such a joy. and contentment on his face which is priceless... people call him insane but I know what he has gained..
Who cares what others think. Like Chetan mentioned, its about having that sense of achievement, that feeling of doing what makes u happy is far better than what others think.
i was living for others for 32 years but after my seperation i come to know no one was think about me at all..so i have decided now i will live for myself and make my life more beautiful and happy. Thanks for sharing your story to making me reconfirm that i am going on right direction.
@@vikrantshukla94because maybe the other half was self serving and wouldn't give emotional support . But I'm only guessing. Some people are very cold and more sensitive people don't feel appreciated around them. Maybe sensitive people also need validation from others to feel complete ,which is a drawback too.
I am 56 and I started living for myself from the age of 46. And I am perfectly happy with my present life enjoying working, traveling and doing whatever I like. Chetan you are completely right in your sincere view. All the best friend.
Absolutely True !!!! I am 39 Years Old still haven't done this . People around us give us so much pressure and it takes a lot to understand it . Fact is NoBODY Cares aboout You other than YOU !!
पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं आपसे ईमानदारी से कहूं तो मैं पहले कभी आपसे इतना प्रभावित नहीं थी पर अब हूं धन्यवाद इतने महत्वपूर्ण विषय पर इतनी गंभीरता के साथ आत्मीयता से बात करने के लिए आभार🙏
ha yrr , and that point ki , U urself will feel ki yr kahi selfish toh nahi ho gaya hu mai , others will tell u ki yr kitna selfish ho rha ... this is the hardest part to calm over .. hope we will work on this and understand these points 💛
I am 64 after retirement I have started living for myself.i do what I like without caring for others. I do my role in family whatever needed otherwise love to be alone in my own way reading writing swimming listening videos talks . don't take stress and don't bother what others think
I feel that just thinking about future or getting snapped into daydreaming imaging extraordinary things for u would not take u anywhere better than ur current situation, instead of just working for it on daily basis.
Thankyou Chetan sir for giving such superb advice which you learned at 45, but I could learn at 25 , your efforts can save my upcoming years. You motivates us by your own journey you lived so far & you are so true with your words what actually you faced in life. Thanks a ton buddy, you can never imagine how many lives you are improving by your efforts👏. God bless you.
While watching this video,I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face.It takes immense courage to admit this,forget about discussing it.The best decision i took a year back was to only listen carefully to all that you say and that just changed so much in me.Thank you so much sir.
I am 35 years of age and i deeply thanking you today itself as i had realised and was half way there in prioritising myself however i was still confused till I watched this video 🤔 you made it crystal clear that i am at the right path 😎🎉❤️ …may god bless you with his best 😇😇
I saw you on TV years back. You weae specs, u we're having less hair on head. Your we're less alive. I am shocked to see you now. It's you. So young, so alive. No specs, no fear, so much confidence. Wow. You changed for so much better. Keep going. Thanx.
Chetaaaan sir you have changed a lot since nach baliye ! I was a school girl when I used to watch that show and honestly I didn't like the way you presented yourself in that show. You gave wrong perception of yourself to people. BUT NOW. WOW I can listen you whole day. You are so real now and presenting yourself authentically as you are. Now I respect and adore you for how fearlessly you are expressing yourself, your mistakes, your low and highs ! This is helping me a lot !
hello sir, my story is very similar to yours. I was a lecturer of botany for 18 years and living for others and for my image and then left my job and became a you tuber and healer. And Now I am enjoying life and living for myself.
Dear Sir, absolutely right and perfect advice. I am from IIT Kanpur. Please write something on life of researchers and their family members. Lots of things can be written and people need to know about it.
I have recently started watching ur videos and u don't say fake things which I really appreciate... I am in the middle of dilemma about making a life decision and from past 3 years my life is miserable, health degraded badly and I am stressed even in my sleep.... But listening to ur videos help me change my perspective... Thanks a lot..😇
Absolutely right 🤩 I've recently realised the importance of keeping self in the epicenter of my life rather than always living as per others' way of thinking.
it’s absolutely true… i am following you from the seminar when you were in Patna , I guess in 2013-14 and your each and every word motivates me alot to change my life 👍👍 Thanks a lot 🙏🙏
I see you grow tremendously on mental and emotional level. Earlier when you were on nach baliye i saw you quite innocent and naive where other judges were making fun of you, your looks, your hairs, your dancing skills etc but now you are much more mature and peaceful. Hats off to you. You inspire me a lot..
Absolutely definitely ...i m married one...i literally told u this is the thing which is everybody think in once a day or so much...... 4 LOG KYA KAHENGE.......pata wo char log aaj tak n mile...or na kisi ko mile hai .....kisi k jeete ji.....milte hai marne ke baar KHANDHA dene k liye.....to kyun marta hai insan ...dusro k liye.. Apne liye jiyo dusra kya sochta hai kya karta hai bhadh me jaye sab.....apne liye jiyo..or unke liye jiyo jo tumhare liye jeete hai.... Thank u sir ....kal kuch hua tha mere sath....apke words ki bahut zaroorat thi....pata hai mujhe bhi ye sab par jab koi aisa jiske words magical hote hai seedhe andar tak tinch karte agar wo wahi bole to baat hi kya hai.......love u sir ..god always bless u..
Hi Chethan, I'm also learning to live life from my perspective. What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Initially people may think that we are selfish... Let them think. Once we work for our higher purpose, those who can understand will understand. Too much care for others opinions is destructive... Whether it is money or power or anything for that matter... 👍👍👍 Thanks for the wisdom. 🙏🙏
Bilkul sahi btaya h sir aapne….. hum dusro ki soch k according khud ko jeete h khud k liye jeena is so important. You are my ideal sir aapse bhot khuch sikha h maine aur sach khu to after reading your books slow down my life to think for my self and ha m jeene lga hu khud k liye thank u so much for landing on this planet. Happy for you mom and dad.
I'm 29 years old and just realised I don't live for myself. Thank you sir for creating content which is no where on TH-cam, it's nice to know you personally and feels great to become better person from your videos.
Your talk remind me of my inner self that i am behaving the same as you lived your life like living for others. Really grateful to talk your heart out about this topic.
I kind of started living for myself a couple of years back after I read Ayn Rand. She has improved my life just you have sir. Thank you to both of you!
I'm lucky that I am member of this family. You telling in this video , this things realised me about 6 months ago . From that day I'm live for my self ! Life becomes easy & better when anyone start living for their own self !
Inspiring video...l waste 50 yrs of my life for those close relatives who give no value to me but in my heart i had fear to loose them ...but during crona i watch so many motivatonal videos that i realise to live for yourself
You look like a new/different person altogether... I mean it in a very good way. It is evident on from your face that you have been living what you are teaching in this video for a substantial time now. Kudos
Love from Bangladesh Sir....really needed this video . I am in my 20's and I also feel like that I am less living for myself. Though I am aware of this but it is really hard to get over this though I am trying really hard and this video really lighten me up today..thank you
Covid time was very bad for entire world , many lost their close ones. But I think it also gave time to many people to realise their mistakes ,to change their thought process and I'm also one of them . ✨ Thank you for such great contents ! 🔥❤️
To be honest, it is very scary to start thinking about living life the way we actually want to live, it is very inspiring that popular figure like you are acknowledging real things 👍👍
@@lalita6252 Keeping yourself busy in improving yourself and spending time with positive people and books of wisdom will help for sure. And since it's function of brain to generate thoughts , let brain do it but you keep doing things which are crucial for your growth as an human being. Try it and celebrate life in a cheerful manner 👍
I m 26 yrs old but not enjoying my life but today after watching ur video I decided to enjoy life first starting not to think what others will for me..🙏thanku sir..
"dekho ,acche se nahi padhoge to log kya kahenge,acche se maa baap ke dar mein nahi rahoge to log kya kahenge...."etc etc etc ,,aise multiple type k "duniyo ko lekar exxtra conscious karne waali upbringing ,society ka structure logon ko doosro k liye he jeena sikha deta,you r right sir,subconscious level pe itna tezi se ye cheez kaam karti hai ,ki humko pata he nahi chalta ki hum kab choti choti cheezon ko leke doosron ko impress karne k liye useless cheezon pe dimag khapate hain, jaise kapde kaunse pahane ki wo log mujhe achha samjhen,kapde ka brand,hair style, humara english ka accent ,humari intellectual baaton ki mental library,ye tamam cheezen hum log create karte hain taaki doosron ko khush kar k khud khush feel kar saken and this sucks,,,i am happy ki aap 45 ki age mein seekh gaye ,hopefully main bhi jaldi he apne liye jeena seekh jaun... thank you sir.
Dropped out of my college because i was not not happy studying what i was studying and the mental breakdowns i was going through for something i didn't care a bit about,Now i am preparing for something i am passionate about and which aligns with my future career.Thanks Chetan i appreciate your efforts for making such great videos.
So this one is really interesting hear me out!,while i was in bangalore where i was still attending college.This one evening i called my dad spontaneously and said him everything i was going through which at that time only my mom and my two sisters knew about but they couldn't just go talk it behind my back to dad cause he might get inflamed so yeah i spoke to him about it and i had only put up 2-3 sentences and got me entirely even more than i knew for what was going on with me and why was i facing such things and he asked me to do whatever is the best possible thing i could do and not to worry he sent me money and asked me to party hard not and that was like an eye opener i have something to fall back upon.Left college partied with my friends for that entire week came back home and now i am preparing for colleges in delhi.
You have made money success in life so its easy for you to say it. But if we start living for ourselves. We will be satisfied with very less. We won't grow in life. For ex: If someone is making money to help others. He is living for others. If someone is making money to spend like rich buy expensive things. He is living for others approval. Whatever we do in life it is attached to some purpose. And that purpose involves so many other people. IN any case if we strive to grow and do more in life. We are caring about others. We can't just sit at home and record videos and think we are living for ourselves. You have made money success in life so its for you to say it. You should say live for your family and loving ones. THat makes more sense. Think again. Thank you
bro i will not write very much bcz i don't feel to . i will just say ki think again what he is saying... he doesn't mean ki u should not think for others well being,. He is saying ki , 1) don't work for other's approval etc , do it for ur love and interest. 2) put urself first than others , this is the hardest part to do bcz we have been taught to think for others first since childhood but that give rise to expectations from others which hurt often, frustration etcc
i nva liked him specially whn he was judge of nach baliye bt the time i heard his mindset for d 1st tym i was like he didnt just wrote india's best selling books bt brought lots of positive changes from those..he is like a big brother to me..sir i respct u alot n thnx for sharing ur honest opinions,stories,past mistakes,learnings,mindset n lots of positive thoughts..its take courage to be a BRAND like him to be a youtuber n connct with million of people n changing their lives
Yes , I started living for myself from this year + lockdown also ... It's really really tough to live for yourself without caring your closest one that what are they ar thinking about us & stopping not to do such things or behave in such a way We daily learn something new with the help of such teacher ( You (great person+ great experience) )
It's true its not easy to live for ourselves first but life ek bar mili hai jo sabse pahle humare khud k liye hai. Thank you so much for motivating us....🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very true …nobody teaches you this concept that we should not seek validation and love from everyone…especially when you are trained in childhood that you have to live for others…and it’s very very hard to unlearn these things …but doing it takes immense courage …it’s very painful sometimes but you shedded light on this concept that’s really great of you 🙂🙂🌸🌸this is a very deep and most fundamental thing of our life…grateful to you 🌸😊
Great Sir, this is mind blowing, eye opener video . Thanks Sir Very important invest our time your self . Good Health and happiness always very premium our Life.
Agreed sir, I feel it's like a ladder. Pehle khud ke liye jeena aa jaye and khud ko samajh le, tabhi sahi mayne me family, society or country ke liye jee sakte hain hum...Thanks again!!!
Tnq sir, i also experienced it. I think, khud k liye jeena chahiye or mujhe lgta h aapki life m sbse jyada important apke goals hona chahiye jo ki apneaap se bnaya ho n ki kisi or ki opinion pr
I am pH. D scholar sir and there is race for publishing paper in journals without taking care of any thing even ourselves but after watching your vedio sir I started prioritising my and my self first... Thank you sir GOD bless you lot of love and good health
Hlo sir, I am fortunate enough that I got your video . I am 17 years old boy after listening you, my maturity became double of my age.yeasterday one incident happend with me where some of my friends were offering me cigarette to smoke and suddenly I remembered your lessons from previous videos that we have to prioritise our own ethics in life ,I faced that pear pressure and told them that I am leaving to my home,I don't need the cigarette because I want to make changes in my life and ,I started living for my own.You are like a krishna of modern Mahabharat sir, Love your thoughts sir,not your fan but inspired by you alot🥹🙏🏻
I have currently finished my graduation in BSc in Endoscopy technician and in medical field your life is stressed doctor and nurses are always poking you with their words but it does not affect my mindset because I lived for myself and focused on my studies and passed graduation in BSc in Endoscopy technician course.
Aaj se hi sir ... I live for my self ... I am in state of live where I am getting this lesson ... Lesson of self Love... U can't make some one happy until you ur self is... And v. Happy to see this vedio... This is my first vedio on this of urs sir ... Thank you u r absolutely right sir .... I learnt that do what makes u happy ... Know ur self ... 😊✨
Awesome 👍 video Chetan sir.... TH-cam per first time aisa laga ...jaise kisi ne sachhe dil aur atma se koi baat kahi ho....I have no words for your advice 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Muzhe 21 year lag gaye ye samajh ne me ki khud ke liye jeena chahiye khud se important koi nehi he . Aapka agar koi saccha sathi he to bo aap khud he . Itne taklif jhele me jindegi me ki ab is duniya se koi ummeed nehi rahi . Be happy with yourself
thankyou sir, kuch month se apne liye jina suru kiya h to bhut ache se apki baat ko smjh pai, bhut achi baat share ki apne. hum dusro k liye sochte rhte h durse kya bolengye kya sochnegye arre yrr bolne do kya krna khud k dekho , all you trouble only you no one come to share it with you plzz every girl & boy connect yourself what he is teaching ,this is not a motivational thought only its also a life lesson to everyone....
Thank you so much sir.....itna acha lession dene ke liye🙂🙂 apne liye jina kitna importent hai. Ye mai aaj aap ke duara sikha.......apne liye jina zindagi ka sabse bara sukun hai❤️🙂
I am 55 yrs old. This channel is for youngsters, but I watch all your videos because it makes me feel so reassured. That my beliefs and the way I conduct my life is correct. For example today's topic. Whole of my youth passed away doing things for my loved ones. It is only since last few years that I have prioritised myself and am living the way I want to. Am extremely overwhelmed by this video since I can totally relate to it. Can't thank you enough.
Very nice suggestion.
I do very much agree.
Thanks
I am 52 years
I am 51 yrs, anyone cannot make anyone happy all the time.
👍
जब पहले हम अपने लिए जीयेंगे, जब पहले हम अपना ध्यान रखेंगे तभी तो हम दूसरों के लिए भी जी पाएंगे और उनका ध्यान रख पाएंगे।👍
Same, maine bhi ese hi jeene ka faisla le lia tha after pandemic.
1. Reduce stress as much as possible.
2. Avoid people that cause stress.
3. Prioritise my health and sleep over anything else.
4. Focus on Career
build a career in health industry.. Anything related to that.
@@sanjanagrover7436 learn zumba and become a zumba instructor....
@@sanjanagrover7436 then we should get married and our 3rd child should marry a hippie in Goa.. ...ye kisney bola ki zumba instructors need to be dumb ? Which book mam ?
@hardik Sharma ...it happened c same with me .I also decided the same
@@jeekakrishna yeah I completed Btech in Biotechnology 🙏❤️
I am a mum of 2 kids and a professional too..Hectic Life !!
But....4 years back I decided to live for myself and also do allll my duties Efficiently.
Living my MYSELF has made me cheerful..younger...and now I really don't care about likes n dislikes of others. My life is BEAUTIFUL 💕
It was soo nice to hear you for the first time sir.
Weldone meenu
@@create40urself thanks
My brother is from SRCC and IIM AHMEDABAD...HE is out of this rat race ..make my trip guy was his batchmate...he is very happy...he has kept a cow at his backyard...he is enjoying his life... people r so surprised when they learn about his achievements.. Even my husband is from IIT DELHI...ALL his life he has worked in senior positions..now,he has left his job and started teaching maths to kids..i can see such a joy. and contentment on his face which is priceless... people call him insane but I know what he has gained..
Who cares what others think. Like Chetan mentioned, its about having that sense of achievement, that feeling of doing what makes u happy is far better than what others think.
This country will change the day people realise this :)
Yes i try it all the time
Glad to hear that..
Great feat...may i know that maths tutor name or link, i have some plans, may be he can teach India at scale
"IT TAKES A LOT OF NEW LEARNING, AND UNLEARNING, TO LIVE FOR YOURSELF". Simply wow. Thanks
For someone living in the rural part of West Bengal with no proper guidance, you are an angel..you're my mentor
West Bengal here also 😊
M also from rural part of West Bengal
i was living for others for 32 years but after my seperation i come to know no one was think about me at all..so i have decided now i will live for myself and make my life more beautiful and happy. Thanks for sharing your story to making me reconfirm that i am going on right direction.
Can u elaborate like why you got separated?
@@vikrantshukla94because maybe the other half was self serving and wouldn't give emotional support . But I'm only guessing. Some people are very cold and more sensitive people don't feel appreciated around them. Maybe sensitive people also need validation from others to feel complete ,which is a drawback too.
Yesterday I was living for others, but today onwards I live for myself.i promise you sir I will change my life!!
How is it going?
@@abhijitdesai8861 it going to change my life.
@@abhifinology6681 12 days done.. any noticeable change?
@@abhijitdesai8861 yes bro but it is gradually changing me.
Yes you can. Just believe.
I am 56 and I started living for myself from the age of 46. And I am perfectly happy with my present life enjoying working, traveling and doing whatever I like. Chetan you are completely right in your sincere view. All the best friend.
Absolutely True !!!! I am 39 Years Old still haven't done this . People around us give us so much pressure and it takes a lot to understand it . Fact is NoBODY Cares aboout You other than YOU !!
Thats a great realization..
पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं आपसे ईमानदारी से कहूं तो मैं पहले कभी आपसे इतना प्रभावित नहीं थी पर अब हूं धन्यवाद इतने महत्वपूर्ण विषय पर इतनी गंभीरता के साथ आत्मीयता से बात करने के लिए
आभार🙏
You are amazing sir. I think this issue is the root cause of all the mental health related problems. Very thought provoking video.
ha yrr , and that point ki , U urself will feel ki yr kahi selfish toh nahi ho gaya hu mai , others will tell u ki yr kitna selfish ho rha ... this is the hardest part to calm over .. hope we will work on this and understand these points 💛
I am 64 after retirement I have started living for myself.i do what I like without caring for others. I do my role in family whatever needed otherwise love to be alone in my own way reading writing swimming listening videos talks . don't take stress and don't bother what others think
I Never Dreamed About Success. I Work For It.
I feel that just thinking about future or getting snapped into daydreaming imaging extraordinary things for u would not take u anywhere better than ur current situation, instead of just working for it on daily basis.
Desires come true but dreams don't ...
💯 true, I learnt this at the age of 55, after loosing everything at the cost of my health 😭
Thankyou Chetan sir for giving such superb advice which you learned at 45, but I could learn at 25 , your efforts can save my upcoming years. You motivates us by your own journey you lived so far & you are so true with your words what actually you faced in life. Thanks a ton buddy, you can never imagine how many lives you are improving by your efforts👏. God bless you.
I live for myself, I Priotise Myself, never thinks what people will say and never care about what will they say.
Thanks sir, for this amazing content
Living for yourself takes great courage . Awesome advice Sir .😊
100p @swati
Never discontinue youtube sir. People like me from rural background are also watching you. You are changing people's lifestyle. LOVE YOU
While watching this video,I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face.It takes immense courage to admit this,forget about discussing it.The best decision i took a year back was to only listen carefully to all that you say and that just changed so much in me.Thank you so much sir.
Absolutely true... unknowingly we live for others,I really like the ease with which you speak.
I am 35 years of age and i deeply thanking you today itself as i had realised and was half way there in prioritising myself however i was still confused till I watched this video 🤔 you made it crystal clear that i am at the right path 😎🎉❤️ …may god bless you with his best 😇😇
Really good. I am also in this type of condition. Same here. May God bless you too.♥️
I saw you on TV years back. You weae specs, u we're having less hair on head. Your we're less alive.
I am shocked to see you now. It's you. So young, so alive. No specs, no fear, so much confidence. Wow. You changed for so much better. Keep going. Thanx.
I was living for others...but now I'm 24 yrs old ...trying to live for myself...nice video 👍..thanku sir for sharing your life experience ♥️
Chetaaaan sir you have changed a lot since nach baliye ! I was a school girl when I used to watch that show and honestly I didn't like the way you presented yourself in that show. You gave wrong perception of yourself to people. BUT NOW. WOW I can listen you whole day. You are so real now and presenting yourself authentically as you are. Now I respect and adore you for how fearlessly you are expressing yourself, your mistakes, your low and highs ! This is helping me a lot !
hello sir, my story is very similar to yours. I was a lecturer of botany for 18 years and living for others and for my image and then left my job and became a you tuber and healer. And Now I am enjoying life and living for myself.
Kaash hum jab young the aaisa guidance Hume bhi milta! Now am 41 but still I watch these videos and find value in watching these videos!
Dear Sir, absolutely right and perfect advice. I am from IIT Kanpur. Please write something on life of researchers and their family members. Lots of things can be written and people need to know about it.
+1
Are you pursuing PhD at iitk?
How can chetan sir tell what he hadn't face ... open your own channel, share your research experiences and it's up and down
I have recently started watching ur videos and u don't say fake things which I really appreciate...
I am in the middle of dilemma about making a life decision and from past 3 years my life is miserable, health degraded badly and I am stressed even in my sleep....
But listening to ur videos help me change my perspective...
Thanks a lot..😇
Absolutely right 🤩 I've recently realised the importance of keeping self in the epicenter of my life rather than always living as per others' way of thinking.
Sidhi baat no bakwas. Aaj Chetan Bhagat ko pura country Janti he. Salute you.
it’s absolutely true… i am following you from the seminar when you were in Patna , I guess in 2013-14 and your each and every word motivates me alot to change my life 👍👍 Thanks a lot 🙏🙏
You are right sir
I should be happy by my own not when she makes me happy.
I see you grow tremendously on mental and emotional level. Earlier when you were on nach baliye i saw you quite innocent and naive where other judges were making fun of you, your looks, your hairs, your dancing skills etc but now you are much more mature and peaceful. Hats off to you. You inspire me a lot..
I know! I hated him after nach baliye but his TH-cam channel made me realize what a wonderful person he is, ardently following him now
@@SD-xz9ml that show was really cringy..no one should make fun of others like they all were doing to Chetan sir
@@SD-xz9ml which episode is it on youtube now!??
Depression me the Chetan Bhai...kaahe ki bankerwa bolis ki kitna kma lete ho dk Bose?
Absolutely definitely
...i m married one...i literally told u this is the thing which is everybody think in once a day or so much......
4 LOG KYA KAHENGE.......pata wo char log aaj tak n mile...or na kisi ko mile hai .....kisi k jeete ji.....milte hai marne ke baar KHANDHA dene k liye.....to kyun marta hai insan ...dusro k liye..
Apne liye jiyo dusra kya sochta hai kya karta hai bhadh me jaye sab.....apne liye jiyo..or unke liye jiyo jo tumhare liye jeete hai....
Thank u sir ....kal kuch hua tha mere sath....apke words ki bahut zaroorat thi....pata hai mujhe bhi ye sab par jab koi aisa jiske words magical hote hai seedhe andar tak tinch karte agar wo wahi bole to baat hi kya hai.......love u sir ..god always bless u..
Hi Chethan, I'm also learning to live life from my perspective. What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Initially people may think that we are selfish... Let them think. Once we work for our higher purpose, those who can understand will understand. Too much care for others opinions is destructive... Whether it is money or power or anything for that matter... 👍👍👍 Thanks for the wisdom. 🙏🙏
Too much care for someone takes us foregranted
Bilkul sahi btaya h sir aapne….. hum dusro ki soch k according khud ko jeete h khud k liye jeena is so important. You are my ideal sir aapse bhot khuch sikha h maine aur sach khu to after reading your books slow down my life to think for my self and ha m jeene lga hu khud k liye thank u so much for landing on this planet. Happy for you mom and dad.
I'm 29 years old and just realised I don't live for myself. Thank you sir for creating content which is no where on TH-cam, it's nice to know you personally and feels great to become better person from your videos.
True Nisha
Never heard such real talk.. In no filter mode. Very clean and pious.. Thnk you so much.
Real life lessons, I always feel connected with your wisdom 🙂
Your talk remind me of my inner self that i am behaving the same as you lived your life like living for others. Really grateful to talk your heart out about this topic.
Thank you so much for putting these productive videos in the era of reels and snaps . Really appreciate your time and effort Chetan.
You are transforming lives.Keep shining.Yes, living for myself.❤️
Thanks!
I have read all your books. Thank you sir. Because of you , i fall in love with reading.😊
Development mentality atmogan
I kind of started living for myself a couple of years back after I read Ayn Rand. She has improved my life just you have sir. Thank you to both of you!
I'm lucky that I am member of this family.
You telling in this video , this things realised me about 6 months ago .
From that day I'm live for my self !
Life becomes easy & better when anyone start living for their own self !
Inspiring video...l waste 50 yrs of my life for those close relatives who give no value to me but in my heart i had fear to loose them ...but during crona i watch so many motivatonal videos that i realise to live for yourself
It really takes a lot of Guts to tell the truth & to share your life learning with us & to get inspired. Bowing down to you 🙇🙇 for your Honesty ✨💫
You look like a new/different person altogether... I mean it in a very good way. It is evident on from your face that you have been living what you are teaching in this video for a substantial time now. Kudos
Love from Bangladesh Sir....really needed this video . I am in my 20's and I also feel like that I am less living for myself. Though I am aware of this but it is really hard to get over this though I am trying really hard and this video really lighten me up today..thank you
You are doing a great job Chetan Sir. People in this world are still not understanding the value of mental health. Please keep up with your thoughts 🙏
Covid time was very bad for entire world , many lost their close ones.
But I think it also gave time to many people to realise their mistakes ,to change their thought process and I'm also one of them . ✨
Thank you for such great contents ! 🔥❤️
Thank you sir...much needed this...aaj se sir khud ke liye jiyungi... priority sirf khud ko dungi.
To be honest, it is very scary to start thinking about living life the way we actually want to live, it is very inspiring that popular figure like you are acknowledging real things 👍👍
sir, I also want to live for myself
@@lalita6252 All the best for your bravery 👍
@@mysticguy1174 sir, I want to live in present, but my mind always think about the things which disturb me...how ti get rid of this habit of mine
@@lalita6252 Keeping yourself busy in improving yourself and spending time with positive people and books of wisdom will help for sure. And since it's function of brain to generate thoughts , let brain do it but you keep doing things which are crucial for your growth as an human being. Try it and celebrate life in a cheerful manner 👍
I m 26 yrs old but not enjoying my life but today after watching ur video I decided to enjoy life first starting not to think what others will for me..🙏thanku sir..
Before you share love ,store some love for yourlsef!!❤vedio was soo touching thankyouu soo muchh Chetan Sir🙏
This is the best motivational video i have come across in long time. I have seen it 5 6 times. Every time it rejuvenates me and makes me calmer.
I also started living for myself in covid times! Great video!
That's awesome!
"dekho ,acche se nahi padhoge to log kya kahenge,acche se maa baap ke dar mein nahi rahoge to log kya kahenge...."etc etc etc ,,aise multiple type k "duniyo ko lekar exxtra conscious karne waali upbringing ,society ka structure logon ko doosro k liye he jeena sikha deta,you r right sir,subconscious level pe itna tezi se ye cheez kaam karti hai ,ki humko pata he nahi chalta ki hum kab choti choti cheezon ko leke doosron ko impress karne k liye useless cheezon pe dimag khapate hain, jaise kapde kaunse pahane ki wo log mujhe achha samjhen,kapde ka brand,hair style, humara english ka accent ,humari intellectual baaton ki mental library,ye tamam cheezen hum log create karte hain taaki doosron ko khush kar k khud khush feel kar saken and this sucks,,,i am happy ki aap 45 ki age mein seekh gaye ,hopefully main bhi jaldi he apne liye jeena seekh jaun...
thank you sir.
Dropped out of my college because i was not not happy studying what i was studying and the mental breakdowns i was going through for something i didn't care a bit about,Now i am preparing for something i am passionate about and which aligns with my future career.Thanks Chetan i appreciate your efforts for making such great videos.
How did you overcome the phase of depression?
So this one is really interesting hear me out!,while i was in bangalore where i was still attending college.This one evening i called my dad spontaneously and said him everything i was going through which at that time only my mom and my two sisters knew about but they couldn't just go talk it behind my back to dad cause he might get inflamed so yeah i spoke to him about it and i had only put up 2-3 sentences and got me entirely even more than i knew for what was going on with me and why was i facing such things and he asked me to do whatever is the best possible thing i could do and not to worry he sent me money and asked me to party hard not and that was like an eye opener i have something to fall back upon.Left college partied with my friends for that entire week came back home and now i am preparing for colleges in delhi.
All the best BTW you're handsome
थैंक यू सर,,
पिछले 8 साल से मैं यही गलती कर रहा था।
आज 29 की age में आपने बड़ी सीख दे दी।
अब आपकीं तरह मैं भी खुद के लिए जीना सीखना शुरू कर रहा।
❤️🙏
You have made money success in life so its easy for you to say it.
But if we start living for ourselves. We will be satisfied with very less. We won't grow in life.
For ex: If someone is making money to help others. He is living for others.
If someone is making money to spend like rich buy expensive things. He is living for others approval.
Whatever we do in life it is attached to some purpose. And that purpose involves so many other people.
IN any case if we strive to grow and do more in life. We are caring about others. We can't just sit at home and record videos and think we are living for ourselves. You have made money success in life so its for you to say it.
You should say live for your family and loving ones. THat makes more sense. Think again. Thank you
bro i will not write very much bcz i don't feel to . i will just say ki think again what he is saying... he doesn't mean ki u should not think for others well being,. He is saying ki , 1) don't work for other's approval etc , do it for ur love and interest. 2) put urself first than others , this is the hardest part to do bcz we have been taught to think for others first since childhood but that give rise to expectations from others which hurt often, frustration etcc
i nva liked him specially whn he was judge of nach baliye bt the time i heard his mindset for d 1st tym i was like he didnt just wrote india's best selling books bt brought lots of positive changes from those..he is like a big brother to me..sir i respct u alot n thnx for sharing ur honest opinions,stories,past mistakes,learnings,mindset n lots of positive thoughts..its take courage to be a BRAND like him to be a youtuber n connct with million of people n changing their lives
puri sachhai hai sir is video me.bahut acha laga ye sab janke hum log dusron ke liye jite hai aaj se apne liye jina hai❤❤
Yes , I started living for myself from this year + lockdown also ... It's really really tough to live for yourself without caring your closest one that what are they ar thinking about us & stopping not to do such things or behave in such a way
We daily learn something new with the help of such teacher ( You (great person+ great experience) )
It's true its not easy to live for ourselves first but life ek bar mili hai jo sabse pahle humare khud k liye hai. Thank you so much for motivating us....🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sahi bat boli sir ne
Koi kisi ka nahi hai apne liye jiyo
👍👍✍️🔥🇮🇳
Very true …nobody teaches you this concept that we should not seek validation and love from everyone…especially when you are trained in childhood that you have to live for others…and it’s very very hard to unlearn these things …but doing it takes immense courage …it’s very painful sometimes but you shedded light on this concept that’s really great of you 🙂🙂🌸🌸this is a very deep and most fundamental thing of our life…grateful to you 🌸😊
Feeling good to read your comment. I can feel this very clear. Nice to share this ♥️
Thankyou Chetan, definitely you are so sincere and truthful. Hare krishna
Great Sir, this is mind blowing, eye opener video . Thanks Sir
Very important invest our time your self .
Good Health and happiness always very premium our Life.
Helped man!
Literally i think for the moment and obviously i will make my life easy
truely agree,with u iam 22 years old and very much focused,just because i am detaching myself from irrelevant conversations.
Agreed sir, I feel it's like a ladder. Pehle khud ke liye jeena aa jaye and khud ko samajh le, tabhi sahi mayne me family, society or country ke liye jee sakte hain hum...Thanks again!!!
Yes it is definitely right sir ,for me I am the most important person in my life and I am .thank you so much sir
How true! We all want to prioritise ourself and do it but needs some validation from motivational and successful person. So ab apne liye jeeyenge 🥂
Thank you for this video Sir! It's really eye opening and shows me the right path at 21
Yes sir, I will live for MYSELF from today!!
great sir,,,,I think 99 percent people are doing and living this way....u gave us a new dimension of doing and living ...thanks man
Tnq sir, i also experienced it. I think, khud k liye jeena chahiye or mujhe lgta h aapki life m sbse jyada important apke goals hona chahiye jo ki apneaap se bnaya ho n ki kisi or ki opinion pr
I am pH. D scholar sir and there is race for publishing paper in journals without taking care of any thing even ourselves but after watching your vedio sir I started prioritising my and my self first... Thank you sir GOD bless you lot of love and good health
Chetan Sar बहुत-बहुत dhanyvad aapka experience share karne ke liye🙏
Sir iam 38 years old. I will live my life happily after watching this . Sir you are amazing.
Hlo sir, I am fortunate enough that I got your video .
I am 17 years old boy after listening you, my maturity became double of my age.yeasterday one incident happend with me where some of my friends were offering me cigarette to smoke and suddenly I remembered your lessons from previous videos that we have to prioritise our own ethics in life ,I faced that pear pressure and told them that I am leaving to my home,I don't need the cigarette because I want to make changes in my life and ,I started living for my own.You are like a krishna of modern Mahabharat sir,
Love your thoughts sir,not your fan but inspired by you alot🥹🙏🏻
Keep it up!
I am 40 and still living to meet other expectations and regretting lost chances.
But now on I will try to live for myself
Superb and important topic
Nice explain
Sir ji
I have currently finished my graduation in BSc in Endoscopy technician and in medical field your life is stressed doctor and nurses are always poking you with their words but it does not affect my mindset because I lived for myself and focused on my studies and passed graduation in BSc in Endoscopy technician course.
Yes earlier you looked lost and confused. Good you have realized it. Be happy.God bless!
Aaj se hi sir ... I live for my self ... I am in state of live where I am getting this lesson ... Lesson of self Love... U can't make some one happy until you ur self is... And v. Happy to see this vedio... This is my first vedio on this of urs sir ... Thank you u r absolutely right sir .... I learnt that do what makes u happy ... Know ur self ... 😊✨
Thank you so much Sir for this wonderful video…I am Sixty plus lady…retired but live for my loved ones
Awesome 👍 video Chetan sir.... TH-cam per first time aisa laga ...jaise kisi ne sachhe dil aur atma se koi baat kahi ho....I have no words for your advice 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes sir...we should live for ourselves and we need a lot of unlearning 🧚♀️khude liye jio
Thanku so much i m 30 but I started living for myself....last 2years.... after watching ur video feels immense peace something relatable with me ❤
Happy to help!
Muzhe 21 year lag gaye ye samajh ne me ki khud ke liye jeena chahiye khud se important koi nehi he . Aapka agar koi saccha sathi he to bo aap khud he . Itne taklif jhele me jindegi me ki ab is duniya se koi ummeed nehi rahi . Be happy with yourself
thankyou sir, kuch month se apne liye jina suru kiya h to bhut ache se apki baat ko smjh pai, bhut achi baat share ki apne. hum dusro k liye sochte rhte h durse kya bolengye kya sochnegye arre yrr bolne do kya krna khud k dekho , all you trouble only you no one come to share it with you plzz every girl & boy connect yourself what he is teaching ,this is not a motivational thought only its also a life lesson to everyone....
U r right. Subconsciously I am living for other people's validation, they saying tht I am successful. Making me first.
Thank you soo much Sir!
Loved it!❣️
I m sixty years old lady ….working still…I m living for others…always in stress…thank you so much Sir
Thank you so much sir.....itna acha lession dene ke liye🙂🙂 apne liye jina kitna importent hai. Ye mai aaj aap ke duara sikha.......apne liye jina zindagi ka sabse bara sukun hai❤️🙂
Sir, Am 32 now and i can relate the same ...thank you so much sir... God bless you