STORYTIME: Inside the Mind of a Narcissist: My Ex's Story

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  • @PrincessJay
    @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +237

    okay yall, i feel like i can finally woosah after sharing my story. I hope you all enjoy & are able to learn from my adolescent mistakes!! again be nice in the comments #nohate ❤️

    • @aaliyah_dhbk_kindness9461
      @aaliyah_dhbk_kindness9461 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      We love you Jay ❤

    • @Hey_itsmary.2
      @Hey_itsmary.2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Also jay it is unsafe to be in a house/different state with all those men and you be the only girl…..ik he was your friend but….things happen please bring a friend with you next time❤

    • @Itsmejeremiahh
      @Itsmejeremiahh หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Get this girl to 1m

  • @samariap377
    @samariap377 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +582

    Bipolar and sassy is a crazy combo. Men like that give me anxiety lmao.

    • @juices4779
      @juices4779 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Ong I can’t do the sassy shi 😭

    • @Heyyallhey1111
      @Heyyallhey1111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He def bi polar

    • @VaehBiah
      @VaehBiah 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yess like it's so scary 😬

    • @zful291
      @zful291 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THISSSSSSSSSS

  • @cartiergrls
    @cartiergrls 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    i genuinely feel like he has no respect for women. feeling some type of way because a woman is driving him, refusing advice from her, letting his friends disrespect her, ignoring her when she agreed to ride with him but accepting his friends offer, and disregarding her boundaries all just seems like he’s insecure in his masculinity and views her as beneath him.

    • @djxn_
      @djxn_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Exactly & just petty & selfish. He gets annoyed when she asks him to do things but she would do anything he asks!

  • @Mikaylaho_444
    @Mikaylaho_444 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +374

    "do not be mislead bad company corrupts good character" 1 Cor. 15:33

    • @Mikaylaho_444
      @Mikaylaho_444 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      hope this blesses you Jay I love you girly!

    • @aleshiathompson7183
      @aleshiathompson7183 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Shows u that the scripture is right cos jay started match energies with the 2 mean guys 🙃

    • @tanialaurenn
      @tanialaurenn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @myalana
    @myalana 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +319

    Narcissistic af! I feel like narcissists purposely trigger you and then act confused while knowing exactly what they're doing! Super scary and manipulative especially the silent treatments he kept giving you 👎🏾

  • @mars3333
    @mars3333 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    girl being nice & setting boundaries is IMPORTANT!! you let him run over you & i hope you can learn from this because you can only remain nice if you prioritize your comfort & needs!

  • @stakks1074
    @stakks1074 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

    first off the way he kept tryna push a relationship in your face was a definite red flag 😂😂😂

  • @DeesSovereignTouch
    @DeesSovereignTouch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    truthfully sista gworl-- idk how you even lasted that long. the sassiness is so beyond me

  • @Khaviah
    @Khaviah 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    A whole rollercoaster of emotions, girl you’re strong because I’d be soooo overwhelmed

  • @KiraJones-x7f
    @KiraJones-x7f 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +232

    It don't matter wth he paid for he offered tht from jump tht don't mean he can treat u any kinda way don't make excuses for these narcissistic men ❤

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      🥹🥹dangggg ur right, it’s okay #youliveandyoulearn

  • @BlackChildDiaries
    @BlackChildDiaries 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    So he was basically leaving you on read…in person. He so sick 😭

  • @Noratrendz
    @Noratrendz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    M is a real definition of let your past remain in your PAST‼️‼️‼️
    I’m glad we got to hear this cause what😭😭😭

  • @divinesimbi8687
    @divinesimbi8687 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +166

    His friends clearly Don't like him 😂

    • @Hey_itsmary.2
      @Hey_itsmary.2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yes he’s projecting

    • @Marcyy65
      @Marcyy65 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely

  • @laila2820
    @laila2820 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    i cannot believe people actually act like this and see no wrong in there actions 😩

    • @AceDiorOfficial
      @AceDiorOfficial 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I can’t eitherrrr 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @elenam.sogoba9045
      @elenam.sogoba9045 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      its genuinly cause they think there right when their wrong

  • @destinimachelle
    @destinimachelle 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

    Coming from a 2 yr manipulative relationship, he sounds like he is bipolar with the constant mood and attitude changes and then the mix of manipulation and gaslighting by saying “i love u” after his tantrums. But free him and just pray for him from a distance.

  • @kaylafrear1514
    @kaylafrear1514 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    it's giving he sassy asf and jealous of you

  • @aleilajadee
    @aleilajadee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    jay i love how you always smile thru wtv your going thru it insipres me to not let things that anger me show thru my face , and to really put me back into reality that wtv someone has going on & how badly they treat you ESPECIALLY when you have a good heart. that its their spirit not yours. so thank you jay.

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      much love to you❤i’m happy to hear you’re able to learn something from my experience! you are very much welcome

    • @aleilajadee
      @aleilajadee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PrincessJay ❤❤yes you have inspired me so muchhh this past year jay im so proud of your growth .

  • @Brilovessosa
    @Brilovessosa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Omg the messages of him saying he falling in love with you after he walk out on you ewww….

  • @iiiam.ess3
    @iiiam.ess3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    the bowling situation is lowkey valid i would have left or said something

    • @PrinnyAshhh
      @PrinnyAshhh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      yh she should have texted him about it,so he understood why she was gone for so long .But everything else he’s a weirdo .

    • @fefesanaa5375
      @fefesanaa5375 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      no fr he wasnt wrong

    • @girlbossqueen7
      @girlbossqueen7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      but he dosent communicate he should have said how he felt and i don’t think its that serious tbh like why couldn’t he wait with her while her video uploaded?

    • @CaramelToast-gp7sc
      @CaramelToast-gp7sc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ​@@girlbossqueen7it's valid,his anger was valid, priorities but then you're with someone so you should be considerate...the rest of the problem he was dead wrong

    • @absolutelyajah446
      @absolutelyajah446 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nah bc if he would’ve walked her to the bathroom he would’ve known what happened. I wouldn’t have gaf to tell him what was going on either he didn’t even care really lol

  • @vannessatakang6214
    @vannessatakang6214 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    honestly so glad y’all didn’t do anything because his behavior probably would’ve been 10x worse, glad this was a learning experience for you and you can move forward!

    • @alexandriafoster52
      @alexandriafoster52 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was celibate?

    • @vannessatakang6214
      @vannessatakang6214 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@alexandriafoster52 i’m not sure if it’s her being celibate or just not engaging in sexual activity but she did mention not wanting to do anything sexual with him

  • @pokemonmaster191
    @pokemonmaster191 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    And this is exactly why they couldn’t get any other girls to commit to the trip or link with them there.

  • @CrystalVibes_
    @CrystalVibes_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    letting ur friend disrespect sb u wanna “be with” is crazyyyy 😭 u dodged a bulletttt

  • @chelseahoney31
    @chelseahoney31 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As a mother of a 23 year old daughter, this video makes me glad I taught my daughter not to take mess from nobody, especially a man. I’m glad I like my daughter’s respectful boyfriend because this video is making me want to pull up on this boy. He should be thanking his lucky stars that you even gave him the time of day.

  • @eileen8403
    @eileen8403 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Driving unsafe is a form of abuse!!

  • @tabithamorse275
    @tabithamorse275 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    1:04:30 quote of the day “if I’m too much, find less” clocked Jay period 💕💕💅🏽

  • @shaniyacaneus6
    @shaniyacaneus6 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I be letting too much stuff slide just like this too! Then when I stand up for myself I be feeling bad even though I’m not in the wrong. Like there’s genuinely no hate or meanness in some folks and people take that as a weakness and try to run over you! Jay I’m glad you cut him off, He ain deserved to have someone like you in his life!!!

  • @Hey_itsmary.2
    @Hey_itsmary.2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Girl he don’t actually like you he just wants someone’s presence….please create those boundaries to protect yourself🫶🏾

  • @na6737
    @na6737 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Girlll you accepted wayyy too much disrespect

  • @LexxAnah
    @LexxAnah 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    ATP I’m convinced this man may be battling demons… you don’t have to talk to him but keep praying for him cause sheesh

  • @thagoat4759
    @thagoat4759 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    ngl yall really need to be careful when it comes down to being just friends with dudes who clearly like you. although you told him multiple times yall will never be together, you know he likes you. yall are doing many diff activities that he is taking in as dates & relationship activities. atp you playing with your safety bc this guy is clearly insane & yk how guys get when they don’t get what they want. saying this out of love

  • @TheeAaliyahChantel
    @TheeAaliyahChantel 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    He took your niceness and used it to the best of his advantage, because it was like no matter how he treated you, you would let him back in your space! but you live and you learn, I love you Jayyyy, you got this girl❤️

  • @lyfewithtyty
    @lyfewithtyty 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    leave that boy where he at from this point on he's an ex for a reason lol

  • @mikeshawearing
    @mikeshawearing 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I married a narc. Silent treatment, cheating speed walking 30 feet ahead of me. 9 years of misery and I will never go back. It triggered my anxiety and I constantly have to take deep breaths to avoid a panic attack. It affected my mental so bad. Run and don’t look back!

    • @Nami43391
      @Nami43391 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry that you went through that

  • @meganwright7317
    @meganwright7317 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    I’m sorry but the high volume sound effect for his voice sends me every time 😂😂😂😂😂😂I’ll just comment when I’m done with the video but this is teaaaaaa

  • @Riixdestinyy.__
    @Riixdestinyy.__ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    It’s giving he’s bipolar or something idk 😂

    • @dejahlee3480
      @dejahlee3480 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      He very much is 😂

  • @adriannaalaria
    @adriannaalaria 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    The way I would’ve caught the first flight back girl whew the strengthhhhh lol

  • @LuzNoelia
    @LuzNoelia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Abuse comes in different ways. This is one of many.

  • @Tigeabee
    @Tigeabee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love how spiritual she is

  • @everythingtea247
    @everythingtea247 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Lets get jay to 700k she deserves it♥

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ❤❤🥹

  • @itssnayyofcc
    @itssnayyofcc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    honestly im flabbergasted that these men really sassy fr . but prioritizing your peace is alwaysss #1 💕

  • @biancaagwatu681
    @biancaagwatu681 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    No because i really feel bad… she really REALLY tried to let shit slide and give him the benefit of the doubt multiple timesss. you don’t treat people like this. he never bothered to acknowledge her feelings… he’s done and i support you all the way❤️

  • @Lilomilo2
    @Lilomilo2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Girl this is actually dangerous no joke…this is not something you can dibble and dabble in I haven’t finished the video but this is the type of situation where your life can be on the line. He constantly pulls you back and forth energetically and you’re a very bright bubbly person. People like that drain the life and light out of you and you become unrecognisable even to yourself. I dealt with someone like this and I would get swayed as well but I left before it got too deep because he realised he had a hold on me and I wasn’t actually leaving. He crossed a lot of boundaries and made me uncomfortable and he would’ve kept doing it if I stayed because I “let” him. Stay strong girl don’t go back Ik sometimes it can be thrilling but it’s unhealthy and toxic and very detrimental to your emotional health. It’s not worth it especially to cost your life sw down the line 😩. He definitely needs prayer and to focus on his self healing and you focus on yourself as well ❤️

  • @Liddalls
    @Liddalls 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Them two grown man being aggressive towards you and no one else make me think they got something going on with each other idk tho 😅😂 .

  • @megalesimes
    @megalesimes 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I think he was low key trying to get to drunk/tipsy for you to let your guard down and do something you wouldn’t normally do (not necessarily sex)

  • @komplex9405
    @komplex9405 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    gaslighting, delusion, 0 accountability, and love bombing on top of that?! you literally should've stood on blocking him. sorry you went through this.

  • @noaccount8202
    @noaccount8202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I rewatched the pt 2 I can really tell that you was abt to break down like omg …this man really tried to break you down but I really like the way you didn’t let that break your heart God was always keeping you strong ❤

  • @laya.jana3
    @laya.jana3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl you have grown so much in the last couple of years/months. Watching your old videos compared to your most recent videos is amazing just watching you grow. Your whole look is different, your speech is different. It's so refreshing. I love watching you grow every single video you post. Keep up the amazing work girl! 🩷

  • @shyla.simonee
    @shyla.simonee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    A hourrrr jay make sure he don’t enter ur life again protect ur peace

  • @parkjervon2123
    @parkjervon2123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Let me just say Jaylene you are emotionally, mentally, and (physically 🤭) out of his league. God has bigger and much better plans than some narcissistic man child. So glad you listened to all his signs because who we surround ourselves by as Christian’s is VERY important. Much respect and much love, you got yourself a new follower bookie 🥰

  • @vannessatakang6214
    @vannessatakang6214 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    got my popcorn ready, pt. 2 let’s goooo! update: him consistently telling you he’s crying in those messages was def a way to garner sympathy and try to make you feel sorry for him, this was crazyyy

  • @Cyb3rK4y4
    @Cyb3rK4y4 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    AAAAA FIRSTTTTT! I'M WEAK AT THE FACIAL EXPRESSIONS 😂JUST WHEN I THOUGHT IT COULDN'T GET ANY WORSE😭😭😭

  • @essuncebroughton
    @essuncebroughton 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I love you jay. But whole bowling alley ordeal was your fault. You were outside the bathroom for 20 min while you guys are supposed to be hanging out. Cmon neoww 😂😂

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      oopsss😭😰i trieddddd. i should’ve just stayed home lol. now i know tho!

    • @janelleee2280
      @janelleee2280 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I feel like in her defense she told him what she was doing before 😭😭😭 and he still told her to come with her computer anyways sooo what did he expect

  • @theyluvvniyaa.
    @theyluvvniyaa. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yesss Jay ! Love the storytimes & sorry you went through this ☹️, men are sick.

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      not all men, i still have hope ❤much love!!!

  • @makala-anastasiao.3988
    @makala-anastasiao.3988 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    girl i've met two men like this and they still continue to act this way towards me. its not the same situation but it's super similiar. And all i can say is let go and give it to god. give yourself grace as well jay ! SOME men really just suck :((((

  • @Obeymyswag01
    @Obeymyswag01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    The bowling alley part would I have irritated me too I’m not gonna lie.

  • @fatoumattakah2647
    @fatoumattakah2647 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    with the whole bowling alley situation i understand why he was upset but apart from that he was moving nuts

  • @therealtisha2066
    @therealtisha2066 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    He’s probably bipolar and doesn’t even know 😭😭

  • @nnekaokike315
    @nnekaokike315 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    jay you’re funny af the text messages had me weak 💀💀

  • @KHenry-k5x
    @KHenry-k5x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    His behavior is really concerning.Yikes

  • @Gjfbbj
    @Gjfbbj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don't let no one change your nice spirit! Surround yourself with people who brings out the best in you.

  • @kk-dh4kw
    @kk-dh4kw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +209

    had to click this real quick .

  • @lillocs7216
    @lillocs7216 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    the messages are crazy like he’s unhinged fr lmfao and clearly trying to manipulate you but you so real 😭😭😭😭

  • @SaluteMarie
    @SaluteMarie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bruh that man was hella sassy it’s so crazy , how he played with you like this literally ruined the vibes ! Definitely gotta watch the vlog next !

  • @SondaeBre
    @SondaeBre 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's not funny but the part that got me was the spaming of "you left ", "you left". then blocked blocked blocked 😭😭

  • @Txs.ashleyyy3
    @Txs.ashleyyy3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    my mouth DROPPED at 8:29 right along with you cs WHATTTTT

  • @samariap377
    @samariap377 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Feelings are valid but reactions are not

  • @meayrajohnson8002
    @meayrajohnson8002 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This whole entire situation of how he is treating you and it’s just an example of don’t let too much slide like let people know their limits because it went too far way too many times in this story, the amount of disrespect… 29:26

  • @KiraJones-x7f
    @KiraJones-x7f 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    😂 So crazy because I was actually eating popcorn before I clicked the video so I'm just munching and listening

  • @morgannv
    @morgannv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    i don’t know if you would ever feel comfortable but i would love to watch a testimony video from you. 💕

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i have one on my channel already (link below💕💗) th-cam.com/video/9MsvA357zwE/w-d-xo.htmlsi=WGdWgSdcazHnBM7Y

  • @Leegirl269
    @Leegirl269 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I literally looked at those past videos and he was definitely sassy like he had an attitude bad😂😂

  • @dieunicaa
    @dieunicaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    They way I would’ve deleted his pictures off my camera after he said to get someone else to take my pictures 😭 you better then me girl

  • @andrianna3027
    @andrianna3027 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    I really hope he look at this video and do some self reflecting instead of feeling like you are attacking him

    • @djxn_
      @djxn_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      He’s somewhere saying I LOVE TF OUTTA HER & “CRYING”.

  • @hellothere1973
    @hellothere1973 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The rainbow at the end 🥹❤️ look at God! He really said that’s a wrap. The end, new beginning. I think that’s Him saying, you passed. Cause that was definitely a test

  • @aniyachristina
    @aniyachristina 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    He gotta be the only child😂

    • @makyabrooks3939
      @makyabrooks3939 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i said the same thing😭

    • @CinnamonSugar202
      @CinnamonSugar202 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      On god or a Leo or both 😂

  • @alteriamccullers4283
    @alteriamccullers4283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He was mad at his friends and taking his energy out on you ..😂

  • @sydney4264
    @sydney4264 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Baby you better than me I woulda been onna first flight home at the first sign of a attitude

  • @morgannv
    @morgannv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    the no diddy’s got me jay😭😭

  • @darrhiannawilson5466
    @darrhiannawilson5466 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM he was werid rude narcissistic and Bipolar and he didn’t deserve you he was BIG tripping 😂😂

  • @itsdaya2139
    @itsdaya2139 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    ITS ALWAYSSS A GREAT DAYY WHEN THE PRINCESS POSTTSS🎉🎉❤️

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      XOXO❤❤

  • @ThePrettiestCommenter
    @ThePrettiestCommenter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oh girl the hair ateeeee !

  • @elenam.sogoba9045
    @elenam.sogoba9045 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I Literally love these videos cause i literally just came out of a narcisscitic relationship and all these videos are so retable

  • @_ambi.n
    @_ambi.n 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    that man gay😂😂

  • @findiojeda2686
    @findiojeda2686 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cannot wait to watch the vlog after watching these videos

  • @chaniam1989
    @chaniam1989 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Maybe you tryna get a free trip out of him knowing his feelings for you was the first problem. His attitude was the cherry on top 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @PrincessJay
      @PrincessJay  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      idkkk but M begggggggedddd me to go on that trip so it had nothing to do with me getting a “free trip” 😰

  • @Hersheybabyy
    @Hersheybabyy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jay I’m sorry u went thru this I would’ve been so overwhelmed maybe even start crying or crashout , I want to say congratulations in advance for your blessings that god will give you❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @luvvabi2678
    @luvvabi2678 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    besides this crazy story time can we just say you look really pretty

  • @MarleyOwie-xm8rw
    @MarleyOwie-xm8rw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It was soooo easy to see smt was off during the vlogs i know hes punching a wall for fumbling you

  • @queendariah5862
    @queendariah5862 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Haven't finished the video yet but as far as the bowling incident, if it was me, I would've stayed home and said I can meet you after I finish uploading my video if that works for you. I would not be trying to hang out while also on my phone the entire time and then standing outside the bathroom for however long but that's just me. ❤

  • @Riahhhbbyy
    @Riahhhbbyy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    yess girl u wasn lying bout grabbing us sum popcorn 😭 ts bout to be a mfkn good ssa vid hope u doin good girlyy💯💗

  • @yolandafoster6419
    @yolandafoster6419 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2 narcissistic people in a relationship won’t work

  • @hellothere1973
    @hellothere1973 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I’m not even trynna be bias but even with the way he’s texting, you can see some sort of obsessive behavior. Like if you closely analyze and look at his word choice and what he chooses to put in all caps it’s very telling. He has like an old school energy where they mistaken toxicity for love. We see it a lot with the older folks. I honestly think that he needs to do some healing internally and I say this with love because you can’t keep pushing someone away and then wondering why they so far or don’t want to be around you when you’re possessive. It will only make people want to get away from you. I’m not sure if this is something he grew up around but he definitely needs to recognize the problem first and want that change. I can tell that he is very adamant about what he believes so unless he becomes willing and open in realizing that there’s growth and healing that needs to take place then he’s going to find himself in a repeated cycle. He is not alone and there is someone that can help him. We all need Jesus and we all need healing. It’s all a matter of acknowledging that. But thank you for sharing Jay and I’m praying for the both of you ❤
    Also I wanted to add that his spirit seems like it is restless and looking for somewhere to rest. He probably that thought he could find that in Jay but you can’t find your identity and solace in people. People can be a reason and point you to that solace and peace but it’s all within because God will meet you within yourself. His spirit is troubled and that’s why it may come off as narcissistic and crazy but he’s not. He’s just leaning on his own understanding and listening to his heart which we all know the heart is deceiving and the enemy can put thoughts in our minds. Definitely pray for him.
    Also remember Ephesians 6:12
    “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.”
    I remember too in the first video where you guys reuninted and were sitting, he said something that didn’t sit right with me and it was something along the lines of “everybody else was using you” something like that and it left a bad taste in my mouth because sometimes people will say something and act like they are defending you, when in reality they’re there to do the same thing. I don’t think he liked you, I think he liked the idea of you. You’re beautiful black woman, smart, successful, woman of God and have an amazing work ethic, so a lot of people are going to try to shoot their shot but a lot of people are selfish and care about themselves. Everything nowadays is transactional and it’s sad. It’s hard to tell who’s genuine or not. So when you talked about you only being there for the aesthetic of the pictures, it just brought me back to that first video when he was talking about the people in your past and how they used you. You’re an opportunity for a lot of these people and it’s sad that they may see that way. Pray and ask God to protect you and give you His wisdom and discernment.

  • @cayde526
    @cayde526 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    8:50 spoke to me thanks girl

  • @MarvaleyWilliam-
    @MarvaleyWilliam- 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He just wants everything to be bout him....🙄🙄🙄

  • @immyloveth1071
    @immyloveth1071 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had to jump on this real quick because am going through the same sh!t 😢
    Love you Jay and thanks for sharing this it has really given me a go ahead

  • @Liyah12336
    @Liyah12336 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TEAM WE NEED SOME MORE STORYTIMESS LOL LOVE IT!

  • @daeemoniquee
    @daeemoniquee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I been on this video for 2 days now 😂 it’s like i think im finish then BOOM another ATTITUDE 😂😂😂

  • @bolaaa-yk3cd
    @bolaaa-yk3cd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I am no one to judge but I believe that honestly the whole “man of God” thing was to get closer to you. He shows no regard to his religion with the way your describing him. I noticed this from your q&a vid with him. This is very common once you’ve given your life to God men will convince you they’re holy to talk to you but never actually truly are. Sorry you experienced this

  • @Jill.zora368
    @Jill.zora368 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He’s trying to make his friends feel like you having a good time and having fun not trying to show the negativity he’s giving you

  • @NayaBarcelona
    @NayaBarcelona 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sorry but I just screamed at that comparison when you put up the two pictures!! 😂😂😂 You might want to get Nice’s contact info for future pics lol he actually did a good job.

  • @donttrip9650
    @donttrip9650 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    The bowling thing is very much disrespectful on your end. If you had a job to do stay home. Your grown tell him no.