@@unrulysinner635 She might not have been sleeping, but she was zoning out, dozing off, and being dismissive the whole time. Don't walk into court acting a fool with an attitude, it never ends well.
I was wondering the same thing like something isn’t adding up, even I have left over money after paying rent from my 2nd job You have 3 jobs which is 3 incomes and between those you don’t have any extra money 🤔?
Her falling asleep indicates either a _medical condition_ *(legal drugs)* OR _drug dependent_ *(illegal medicine)* Either way she is -blowing- through her money and her child will suffer
Actually there's this pretty popular case where Judge Judy was arguing against a teenage defendant who was an accomplice in a stabbing. Said defendant was yawning repeatedly during the conversation which caught Schindler's attention. (Albeit not nearly as aggressive as she was towards the defendants casual recanting of said stabbing)
Why does she have to do it for free? The woman is an adult and has her own child. The mother did her job and raised her kid. She’s not obligated to take her adult child back into the home. What difference does it make whether the money went to the mother or to a landlord? Either way, the government was disbursing the funds.
Robbing tax payers??? her husband serve the damn country who wont serve him due to the color of his skin...He's not at home to raise the kid she doesn't have her husband ect...That money was rightfully owed and some..Also the mother paid taxes...Two extra people in the home mean more electric heat water ect..I cant stand u people....ugh
I cant even imagine choosing not to live with my husband if he was stationed overseas, and for 2 years?! To deprive a child and for what? You married a military man, you go where he goes. Sheesh.
many postings are unaccompanied. My Father went away for 6 months once. he was in the British Royal Air Force. After that he was sent for 3 months to Singapore.. again unaccompanied. We joined him on the first one.. but it took that long for him to get 'points' for our RAF housing for a place to become free. its not at all unusual.
@@mariahoulihan9483 6 months w/o family is normal yes, but 2 years isn't. He wasn't deployed to a combat zone, he was stationed overseas. It isn't the same. The family definitely could've went. She just didn't want to.
My ex husband was in Korea for a year and we weren’t with him. Had nothing to do with there being no available housing, it was because he was cheating on me. He got a Vasectomy without my knowledge. Our son was 13. He didn’t need that kind of father figure. He even went to Germany without us. Jerk.
I've only watched Part 1 of 3, but I don't like how JJ asked him if he's living on Gov't property. It made him seem like a deadbeat. As an honorable soldier who at any time could lose his life for his country these benefits are earned. . . I'm heading to watch Part 2
She’s not saying he’s a deadbeat. Some military people live on government property while others choose to live off base. It’s more a technical term nothing personal.
One thing she also got wrong was saying the govt was sending her money. Technically the govt paid the man for his military services so it’s his hard earned moneyZ Second he stated he wasn’t married to her and seems like he wasn’t on child support so he was sending money on his own accord. Not the govt. so no it wasn’t the govt money and she wasn’t receiving govt money. jJ made it sound like ok girl was on welfare. The money she was receiving was her money to use to take care of their child which he was doing
There is a difference between getting clear facts, which is what JJ does, and trying to make anyone look like anything. Responses to her questions reveal what she needs to know, that's why she asks- to figure each person out.
BS If you live on base, the BAH is deducted from your paycheck. In other words he was lying to collect it. It is meant to offset the cost of housing when you do not receive government provided housing, which he was. It is based on whether you have dependents to support who do not live on base. In other words, all or that money WAS BASED ON HIM CLAIMING HE WAS SENDING IT HOME, since he was living on the base. NOT JUST WHAT HE DECIDED TO SEND, ALL OF IT!! Put another way so even dullards can comprehend, he was stealing it from the government since he lied about needing it for his families housing, stealing it from his wife, and from his kids and putting it in his pocket!!
That man worked for that money, helping to protect our country!!! It’s not like they were on welfare. It’s not different than other government personnel and it wasn’t FREE MONEY!!
What she means by payment from the government is what’s called Basic Allowance for Housing, or BAH. It’s an entitlement given to all service members who aren’t living in the barracks, or who have dependents, etc. it’s technically not an “earned” thing, but part of a budgeted allotment based on rank and location. Does that make sense? Btw, I know this because my husband and I are both service members (Army and Navy).
Exactly 💯 this is one of the reasons I have a love/hate thing for JJ. She thinks she's the only person entitled to have anything, including an opinion, LOL. I agree with her on a lot of things, but she's very elitist, rigid and contradictory. If she doesn't like someone or is in a bad mood, watch out!!
Ou are absolutely wrong he did not work for that money. Cola, which is what there talking about is money above what the soldiers base pay is. The soldier works for his base pay and HIS FAMILY is supposed to get the rest. It money the military intended he soldiers to use to provide for his family, not himself. The military can actually charge him for fraud if someone wanted to push the issue. I would be very surprised that after this his finances don't change.
@@babiifrshj07yeah but that BAH is for the spouse when you’re not there. It’s not free money for him to spend. He wouldn’t have gotten BAH if he was single. That money since they weren’t with him was definitely supposed to go to the spouse. I know because I was Finance in the Army. I had an Asian mom come in frazzled because her husband left her there with a little bit of money. We had to contact his unit and the unit legally put the paperwork in to have money taken from his paycheck for his wife. I took her to the bank to open an account since I had car seats for my kids. I took her to the commissary so they can have food in the house. She needed diapers and food for her baby. It was a huge mess. My husband tried it with me but I was Finance in the Army so he gave me my allotment and a General POA. It’s why they have BAH with or without dependents. He was getting BAH with dependents. Japan is NOT a deployment. It’s a duty station. Who is he fighting out there? Anime? Stop the BS! My husband tried that same trick when he went to Korea. I know exactly how to read orders. He just simply didn’t turn the paperwork in to add his dependents onto his orders. He can fool someone else but he definitely CANNOT fool me. Civilian spouses simply don’t know any better so they take the word of their military spouses. My husband could NEVER EVER play that game with me. He had grief for a whole year while he was in Korea. I’m my parents rebel child. I was living my best life. 😌😌😌😌😌 One monkey don’t stop any show. I don’t mind traveling by myself.
@@briancarey1159he did not receive COLA for her because she wasn’t with him. He got BAH unless he told them a boldface lie and said they were with him.
Here is where JJ is wrong on this one. She said "we" pay the mother $750 a month to do what the mother should pay on her own anyway. Stay at home mothers whose income come from the father/other provider are not doing anything wrong. This man gets his money from "us" because he serves in the military. JJ isn't sitting on a military base anywhere defending this country. He is entitled to his pay because he is serving us, JJ and America. And his wife is entitled to whatever her husband earns because they are a family. Military payis not welfare
I absolutely agree. JJ is always harsh and cruel to people who she deems are getting handouts from the government, and then brings it around to her taxes making these handouts possible. Everyone pays taxes madam, including the wife who is working three jobs. Besides, as the defendant is in the armed forces, his dependents are entitled to receive certain sums of money for their welfare whenever he's deployed on service. It's not a handout. JJ earns millions of dollars a month for working as a TV judge and shooting for probably half a month. Why does she begrudge government aid to the disabled and people in the services?
JJ is wrong! If the wife is working 3 jobs, then she needs to contribute to her mother's house. $700 per month in rent is more than fair. The plaintiff seems to be driven by money that she's not entitled to. They could have put the money in a trust fund for college.
The wife deserved some money to pay her rent there living with her mother. And to disrespect a Judge is rude as you were rude to her. Shows your disrespect for people in general.
@@RuthLovesJesus It is because she happens to be in Judge Judy's courtroom. Regardless of her moody situation, she appears disinterested in the case between her mother and her soon-to-be ex. Even at one point, she looks as though she's falling asleep. She should put aside her attitude and self-pity and instead commit herself to resolve this case with her mother.
@@RuthLovesJesus If she's depressed, she shouldn't have appeared for the hearing in the first place. It's her choice. Either she snaps out of her moody tinglings or stays home. Either way, her mother is going over the case for herself and her daughter, and mainly she's the one that's doing most of the talking on their behalf. As a litigant or defendant, you must come fully prepared and competent in solving cases with Judge Judy. This is a courtroom. Not a mental facility aiding people with unbalanced emotions.
Plantiff: he didn't pay anything Also plantiff: outlines almost $1500 in monthly bills the defendant paid. And the daughter/defendant's wife(?) seemed very nonchalant and like she didn't really want to be there.
You definitely have no clue about how the military works whatsoever. I can’t stand civilians when it comes to military affairs. You guys are just clueless. 🙄🙄🙄
This happens a lot when military wives want to stay in the states instead of traveling to Japan or Germany, etc with their husband. The soldier receives BAH (a housing allowance) for his dependents that he WOULD NOT be getting if he were single. It sounds like he was sending her some money, so that’s good. It would be unethical for him to keep that money all to himself when it’s given to him to support his family.
That's not how BAH works. I'm single and have no kids and I receive FULL BAH. That's because I don't live on base, in the dorms or barracks. And during a deployment, I would still be receiving full BAH, even if I where to live on base during the deployment. I would only NOT RECEIVE BAH if I where NOT DEPLOYED and living on base.
M C The reason you receive BAH is because of your rank. He receives BAH because of his rank plus his kids, he would be receiving other pays. Separation pay which he should give to his wife. why are you even comparing your situation to his when you don’t have kids?
I presume that over there in the USA now, ye also have Military Wives and Dependent Husbands. P. S. Here in West coast Ireland we're trying hard to hold on to the old plural pronoun "ye" but we're failing.😕
I like how every person has a different definition of how it works. And you’re all probably right. The military sounds like it runs very smoothly and is not confusing with paperwork at all.
Judy LOVES to ask questions and interrupt before people are allowed to answer. At 1:36 she was ready to cut the gentleman off when he was answering the question SHE ASKED. She needs to relax so she can appropriately conduct these cases.
I remember when my dad was deployed to Korea and 6yo me and 8 yo brother and our mother had to stay in the States and live on the money the government provided. It wasn’t enough to live very good back then (1957) and we ate a lot of potatoes and Campbell’s soup, no Christmas or birthday gifts either. Mom couldn’t work as we had no car and couldn’t afford child care. Today the military appreciates the sacrifice the families make more than they did then.
My favorite brother in law was a career man. Though retired now, he still puts in a solid 50 hours a week. My sister married him and adopted his daughter, she already had a fully disabled son. They had another son together, who is also fully disabled. Most of the time they traveled as a family. Five bases, three continents and seven off base housing over a 25 year career. My sister is educated, runs her home and became fluent in several languages over time. When stationed where work was available, like Germany, my sister worked full time, even with two disabled boys and a husband frequently deployed. The BAH often helped keep them above water. Between medical costs, travel, clothing, food allowance provided as benefits they were able to travel the world. But they worked for everything they have today and sacrificed greatly for my brother in law to fullfil his dream of serving his country, living a faith driven life and providing for the family. There were no hand outs, as JJ hinted around. God bless and protect those serving us, to allow us freedoms like these women have taken for granted. Go Army Green!
The grandma was doing her daughter a favor. The daughter couldn't find a place to live for $700. I don't feel she was trying to enrich herself at taxpayer expense . I'm sure utilities and food went up,and the level of financial security for the whole family was improved.
I’m confused by the whole tax payer expense statement though. The man was serving his country and protecting it and earned his money to send to his girlfriend and child. It’s his money. It’s not welfare that the gf signed up for. Granted I think she might have mismanaged the money from the looks of it but still it’s their money. Not welfare money
You don’t know how BAH works do you? I clearly see that you don’t. That money isn’t free money. He works for it and it’s designed for his dependents. It’s not section 8. I think before you speak, you should know what you’re talking about because disrespectfully, you don’t
I remember seeing this, now that I’m in the military I can say that JJ misinterprets military pay/benefits. We still pay rent when we live on gov property unless we’re in a dorm lmao
I get so sick and F'ing tired of people acting like tax payers are the only income for military. It's as if people that do this don't understand military members pay taxes, too. Dependents don't make a windfall. As for the Defendant, he was withholding the money that was supposed to be designated for his wife and child. He was using that money like an allowance for whenever he felt like it. He didn't pay anything where he was living. I know that duty station well, and he had everything he needed on and semi-off base. His wife was paying their bills as well as caring for their daughter, vehicle maintenance, etc... We knew so many like him in our 25 years. They get married so they can make the extra money and convince their spouse to live at home to "save money," meanwhile living like a bachelor with 95% of the paycheck to blow on partying off-duty.
JJ can have some insane ideas sometimes, and it is especially ironic for an incredibly wealthy woman who is paid millions. Being deployed overseas and working for the military can be very intense. They deserve to be well compensated, including family benefits in my opinion. These people are pulled away from their lives, friends, and families, often for months or years at a time. That isn't an easy thing for most people to do. If the defendants wife chose to move in with her mother to help with things during that time, so be it in my opinion. He still deserves that money.
I think her issue was wholly with HER having the money. I can see where you might have gotten that from her asking if he was living on government land, etc. but I think those were moreso leading questions to tear her apart.
They should have contacted the military lawyer. I realize when it happened to me it was in the mid 1980s, but my husband was getting money for me and our three children in addition to what a single active Army person was paid. They IMMEDIATELY contacted his command with a letter stating that he was to have a separate allotment sent to me and our 3 children because the Army gave extra specifically for housing for his dependents. He was threatened legal ramifications if this wasn't done. And it was sent through the military as a separate allotment to me. They were polite, professional, and explained it all to me and it was done.
Once again, JJ completely out of touch with the reality of working class people. $700 is hardly ENRICHED. She probably spends that much on Botox per month.
Ah yes after watching parts 2&3 yesterday we finally get to see part1. Kinda like eating the ice cream cone then the ice cream then the cherry on top .
This money would only enrich her if she was receiving a lot more than it cost to have more people living in her house. I had a relative move in with me for a year, and my utility bills more than doubled just from ONE person. and this was two people. More AC and heat running, more showers, more laundry adds up. So JJ thinks grandma is wrong for not being willing to eat this?
JJ uses the words “government property” as if this soldier is living in section 8. He pays his on base housing with his blood. JJ is getting worse as she gets older.
totally agree, this is a line that she needs to keep her mouth shut on. Anything the government pays the military is in exchange for their life, you don't compare that to anything.
Her and her mother want money from her army husband the young wife even though she looks older then her. Mother sits there rolling her eyes back and forth no class while her mother is trying to get money from the government free money most people who come to court are trying to get free money from someone it's all bout money
That woman never worked 3 jobs in her ENTIRE life. She's so disinterested in this case and probably disinterested in life itself that she cant even stay awake in court.
Defendant had a choice to give his wife money when he was in Japan but preferred not to and they lived on base housing but hearing this first part of JJ he lived in bachelor quarters which is odd, usually military men or woman with a family live on the base since living off base is expensive.
If he qualified for a BAH in that amount he's an officer and they have access to bachelor's quarters but also have a right to their own place. He would have gotten a housing allowance regardless of having dependents, so he's not lying and the $200 more sounds on par to what the military offers for dependents. She also just outlines roughly $1400 per month he was giving her. She should know how to have some chill because she has 1 kid with him and she may not know that child support in the military is entirely different to what a court can grant. Right now she gets many military benefits, including Tricare, after the divorce, no Tricare for her.
BAH should have gone to the wife imo. that’s literally what it’s there for especially if he was living on base rent free. Can’t leave your kid homeless bro.
Sounds like they were separated, but she just outlined $1400 per month he was paying, depending on what branch he's in child support may be capped at 1/6 his pay. He is entitled to a housing allowance whether or not they are together, that much is true and a BAH at that rate suggests that he's an officer, and being deployed he's still entitled to both bachelors quarters and a home of his own. If they are separated and they do not share a home, he's still entitled to a home of his own and therefore the BAH and since he has a kid, not having her as a spouse would make 0 difference in regard to his BAH.
That's not how BAH works. It goes to the person who is serving, which is him. He will get BAH whether he is married or not, after a certain time served. Also, he was deployed when he was living in government housing, so he will also be getting BAH while deployed, whether living on government housing or not. He will only NOT RECEIVE BAH if he was not deployed and living in the dorms or barracks.
JJ really turned nasty in the later seasons. I find it rich that she thinks $700 is enriching someone. That coming from an entitled Judge that made $50 million a year to arbitrate cases on tv.
Well if she is getting 700 bucks a month to pay rent, and her mom isn't charging her rent, yes she is getting free money and taking advantage.and what JJ makes money wise dont have a damn thing to do with what she said.
@@Fickets JJ is acting like the mom was getting rich by receiving $700 a month when actually a lot of that could’ve been going to cover the added expenses that come from having two people move into your house.
“Madam, don’t sleep. This is court.” Dying 🤣🤣
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"Madam, don't sleep." Literally me 24/7 😂😂😂
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Oh, you own slaves?
@@Whatthafukc I'm the sleepy one, Jesus
@@Whatthafukc That's a disgusting assumption for you to have made just because the people in this case are black.
@@devoutburrito😐 ikr
Falliing asleep in JJ's court takes real audacity LMAO
And it's rude.
She definitely wasn’t sleeping. Judge Judy was just being dramatic
@@unrulysinner635 She might not have been sleeping, but she was zoning out, dozing off, and being dismissive the whole time. Don't walk into court acting a fool with an attitude, it never ends well.
INDEED i was like jeeeez she ate too many donuts I think
@@itsnadaaaa exactly…..which doesn’t mean sleeping.
she was really sitting there falling asleep, the hell??😂
...king robot
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She wasnt JJ is being extra
She wasn't falling asleep but she was definitely checked out of the conversation, like she was bored and would rather be somewhere else.
She clearly wasn't asleep. She was bored but not sleeping watch it again
Look like the plaintiff will lose her case big time! Her daughter didn’t pay her rent and doesn’t work so she should be SUING her, NOT her son-in-law!
The daughter works 3 jobs yet still can't pay rent?
@@spoonb16acrx2003lying
@@spoonb16acrx2003That housing allowance is supposed to go to his family tho.
@@laurencameron3150it did. She’s suing him for something that wasn’t his responsibility years after the fact
So the daughter works 3 jobs, doesn't pay rent, but also doesn't have any savings? Where does her money go? 🤔
I was wondering the same thing like something isn’t adding up, even I have left over money after paying rent from my 2nd job
You have 3 jobs which is 3 incomes and between those you don’t have any extra money 🤔?
weed and cheeseburgers from the looks of it.
@@sterlingforbes3872 My thoughts exactly 😂😂😂
Her falling asleep indicates either a _medical condition_ *(legal drugs)* OR _drug dependent_ *(illegal medicine)*
Either way she is -blowing- through her money and her child will suffer
@Sterling Forbes
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Why was his wife looking like that like she is fed up😂😂😂
I’ve never heard JJ tell someone not to sleep. Pay attention, lady!
She got pissed when a defendant yawned one time LoL 😂
Her eyes were down…
Actually there's this pretty popular case where Judge Judy was arguing against a teenage defendant who was an accomplice in a stabbing.
Said defendant was yawning repeatedly during the conversation which caught Schindler's attention. (Albeit not nearly as aggressive as she was towards the defendants casual recanting of said stabbing)
@@TheRoflcer Do you remember the name of the episode?
@@waimeagrl5142 You literally just have to type 'judge judy stabbing case' into TH-cam. It's the first result.
How in the world did the Defendant ended up with such a sad sack of a person like the Plaintiffs daughter?
Black men will f anything.
He is fine. I don’t get it
They probably looked a lot different 7+ years prior to this point.
My thoughts exactly.
Alcoholic lenses.
“Madam, don’t sleep. This is court.” She’s got a lot of NERVE to fall asleep in JJ’s court room 😭
JJ is the 👸 of savage lol! “ We paid you each month for what a mother should do for free!” 😂😂💀💀
She may as well have said that in Greek.
Why does she have to do it for free? The woman is an adult and has her own child. The mother did her job and raised her kid. She’s not obligated to take her adult child back into the home. What difference does it make whether the money went to the mother or to a landlord? Either way, the government was disbursing the funds.
@logicalblackman8228 in which we pay taxes for that to happen. Come on now.
@@amethystthedarkrai648 you also pay taxes for soldiers to house their dependents. Come on now.
@logicalblackman8228 she literally 3 jobs, doesn't pay rent and she doesn't have money? Come on man, you know that's BS
😂😂😂 the plaintiffs daughters face is hilarious when they first put her on camera!!
The person who cut this one together is a frickin genius
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The wife is the kinda person that you’d take to Las Vegas for a bachelorette party and she’s fall asleep in the bushes being sober… 😂
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Ha....ha.....love it...totally agree!!
Sounds like this happened! Lol😂
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She looks like she's ready to fall asleep here in the courtroom too.
The wife is a mood.
A bad, disrespectful one.
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For you maybe? She gives off major slob energy
It's called LazyLob
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Wow, you just jumped to all conclusions.
I could tell that plaintiff was KNOT having such a good day 😂
I was waiting for somebody to say it🤭
I was searching for this comment. 🤣
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“Madam, don’t sleep 😴. This is court. Move over 👩🏻⚖️ “ 😂😂💀
She is working three jobs??? So I’d be tired too!!
He made a good decision for sure
After a BAD decision.
That knot on the plaintiff is HUGE 😂
I know right!!! I’m like dang how’d that happen?!?😂😂😂
I noticed that too 😂😂😂😂😂
you know, maybe she has cancer. dont be so ignorant.
@@djanime317 you know, maybe she has cancer. dont be so ignorant.
@@ashantistewarttv7308 you know, maybe she has cancer. dont be so ignorant.
I'm not a huge Judy fan but I love it when she calls out the ones who get caught basically robbing tax payers
Robbing tax payers??? her husband serve the damn country who wont serve him due to the color of his skin...He's not at home to raise the kid she doesn't have her husband ect...That money was rightfully owed and some..Also the mother paid taxes...Two extra people in the home mean more electric heat water ect..I cant stand u people....ugh
you are not a fan but ur watching this episode🤣🤣
I couldn't agree with you more. Then the gall to sue him for more money after paying almost 1450 in support.
@@kaybagnaut1574I’m a dedicated JJ watcher!
So let me guess u r a trumper/traitor 🤡
I cant even imagine choosing not to live with my husband if he was stationed overseas, and for 2 years?! To deprive a child and for what? You married a military man, you go where he goes. Sheesh.
many postings are unaccompanied. My Father went away for 6 months once. he was in the British Royal Air Force. After that he was sent for 3 months to Singapore.. again unaccompanied. We joined him on the first one.. but it took that long for him to get 'points' for our RAF housing for a place to become free. its not at all unusual.
@@mariahoulihan9483 6 months w/o family is normal yes, but 2 years isn't. He wasn't deployed to a combat zone, he was stationed overseas. It isn't the same. The family definitely could've went. She just didn't want to.
My ex husband was in Korea for a year and we weren’t with him. Had nothing to do with there being no available housing, it was because he was cheating on me. He got a Vasectomy without my knowledge. Our son was 13. He didn’t need that kind of father figure. He even went to Germany without us. Jerk.
hardship duty. Most Korea assignments you can't bring a spouse.
@@INKOSK4114still his father you have no right to hold your kid hostage that’s between you and your husband keep your kid out of it
I've only watched Part 1 of 3, but I don't like how JJ asked him if he's living on Gov't property. It made him seem like a deadbeat. As an honorable soldier who at any time could lose his life for his country these benefits are earned. . . I'm heading to watch Part 2
She's meaning military housing on post
She’s not saying he’s a deadbeat. Some military people live on government property while others choose to live off base. It’s more a technical term nothing personal.
One thing she also got wrong was saying the govt was sending her money. Technically the govt paid the man for his military services so it’s his hard earned moneyZ
Second he stated he wasn’t married to her and seems like he wasn’t on child support so he was sending money on his own accord. Not the govt. so no it wasn’t the govt money and she wasn’t receiving govt money. jJ made it sound like ok girl was on welfare.
The money she was receiving was her money to use to take care of their child which he was doing
@@BootyWarrior80892 Thank you! People that don't understand how the military works shouldn't comment on military issues.
There is a difference between getting clear facts, which is what JJ does, and trying to make anyone look like anything. Responses to her questions reveal what she needs to know, that's why she asks- to figure each person out.
When they said help with the baby i thought a newborn, not a 7 year old!
So they expected him to pay for EVERYTHING???
Her money is hers + so is husbands 😀
She a Gold Digger, cause he ain't no Broke N*&&$#
That's par for the course for women, especially black women.
@@robertlunderwoodBlack women make more money than Black men so Black women are not benefiting at all from you broke black men.
@@robertlunderwoodYeah but a white man would pay the bills with no problem . Only black men don’t like taking care of the family’s they make
The government didn’t “give” him anything!!!!!! That money was part of the compensation for his service to this country!!!!! Very bad take Judy!
Agreed!
THANK YOU!
Not true. Service member’s dependos are entitled to BAH. I went through this when I was going through a divorce while enlisted.
@@garymckinnonak The government does GIVE BAH. It is earned.
BS If you live on base, the BAH is deducted from your paycheck. In other words he was lying to collect it. It is meant to offset the cost of housing when you do not receive government provided housing, which he was. It is based on whether you have dependents to support who do not live on base. In other words, all or that money WAS BASED ON HIM CLAIMING HE WAS SENDING IT HOME, since he was living on the base. NOT JUST WHAT HE DECIDED TO SEND, ALL OF IT!! Put another way so even dullards can comprehend, he was stealing it from the government since he lied about needing it for his families housing, stealing it from his wife, and from his kids and putting it in his pocket!!
That man worked for that money, helping to protect our country!!! It’s not like they were on welfare. It’s not different than other government personnel and it wasn’t FREE MONEY!!
What she means by payment from the government is what’s called Basic Allowance for Housing, or BAH. It’s an entitlement given to all service members who aren’t living in the barracks, or who have dependents, etc. it’s technically not an “earned” thing, but part of a budgeted allotment based on rank and location. Does that make sense? Btw, I know this because my husband and I are both service members (Army and Navy).
Exactly 💯 this is one of the reasons I have a love/hate thing for JJ. She thinks she's the only person entitled to have anything, including an opinion, LOL. I agree with her on a lot of things, but she's very elitist, rigid and contradictory. If she doesn't like someone or is in a bad mood, watch out!!
Ou are absolutely wrong he did not work for that money. Cola, which is what there talking about is money above what the soldiers base pay is. The soldier works for his base pay and HIS FAMILY is supposed to get the rest. It money the military intended he soldiers to use to provide for his family, not himself. The military can actually charge him for fraud if someone wanted to push the issue. I would be very surprised that after this his finances don't change.
@@babiifrshj07yeah but that BAH is for the spouse when you’re not there. It’s not free money for him to spend. He wouldn’t have gotten BAH if he was single. That money since they weren’t with him was definitely supposed to go to the spouse. I know because I was Finance in the Army. I had an Asian mom come in frazzled because her husband left her there with a little bit of money. We had to contact his unit and the unit legally put the paperwork in to have money taken from his paycheck for his wife. I took her to the bank to open an account since I had car seats for my kids. I took her to the commissary so they can have food in the house. She needed diapers and food for her baby. It was a huge mess. My husband tried it with me but I was Finance in the Army so he gave me my allotment and a General POA. It’s why they have BAH with or without dependents. He was getting BAH with dependents. Japan is NOT a deployment. It’s a duty station. Who is he fighting out there? Anime? Stop the BS! My husband tried that same trick when he went to Korea. I know exactly how to read orders. He just simply didn’t turn the paperwork in to add his dependents onto his orders. He can fool someone else but he definitely CANNOT fool me. Civilian spouses simply don’t know any better so they take the word of their military spouses. My husband could NEVER EVER play that game with me. He had grief for a whole year while he was in Korea. I’m my parents rebel child. I was living my best life. 😌😌😌😌😌 One monkey don’t stop any show. I don’t mind traveling by myself.
@@briancarey1159he did not receive COLA for her because she wasn’t with him. He got BAH unless he told them a boldface lie and said they were with him.
Here is where JJ is wrong on this one. She said "we" pay the mother $750 a month to do what the mother should pay on her own anyway. Stay at home mothers whose income come from the father/other provider are not doing anything wrong. This man gets his money from "us" because he serves in the military. JJ isn't sitting on a military base anywhere defending this country. He is entitled to his pay because he is serving us, JJ and America. And his wife is entitled to whatever her husband earns because they are a family. Military payis not welfare
I absolutely agree. JJ is always harsh and cruel to people who she deems are getting handouts from the government, and then brings it around to her taxes making these handouts possible. Everyone pays taxes madam, including the wife who is working three jobs.
Besides, as the defendant is in the armed forces, his dependents are entitled to receive certain sums of money for their welfare whenever he's deployed on service. It's not a handout.
JJ earns millions of dollars a month for working as a TV judge and shooting for probably half a month. Why does she begrudge government aid to the disabled and people in the services?
I think JJ means, it's STILL tax money. She's not wrong
JJ is wrong! If the wife is working 3 jobs, then she needs to contribute to her mother's house. $700 per month in rent is more than fair. The plaintiff seems to be driven by money that she's not entitled to. They could have put the money in a trust fund for college.
@@El_Nombre-e3x That's like saying congressmen are on welfare. It's not welfare if you're working for the government.
The wife deserved some money to pay her rent there living with her mother. And to disrespect a Judge is rude as you were rude to her. Shows your disrespect for people in general.
Part 2 couldn’t take any longer 😂 this one has me on the edge of my seat
the uploaded it yesterday by accident lmao
The caption under his name 🤣. "Says he was deployed."
The ex wife looks like such a pleasant happy person.
And that greedy monster in law.
I love when she asks questions that sound very stupid so they can hear how it sounds. 😂😂😂
The daughter certainly looks like she’s a lot of fun.
Not to mention she appears to have a broken neck because it droops on the right side of her shoulder.
Maybe she’s depressed, she’s literally going through a divorce and who knows what else. Why are people so insensitive?!
@@RuthLovesJesus It is because she happens to be in Judge Judy's courtroom. Regardless of her moody situation, she appears disinterested in the case between her mother and her soon-to-be ex. Even at one point, she looks as though she's falling asleep. She should put aside her attitude and self-pity and instead commit herself to resolve this case with her mother.
@@isabelbeckerman9226 You clearly don’t understand the definition of depression smh.
@@RuthLovesJesus If she's depressed, she shouldn't have appeared for the hearing in the first place. It's her choice. Either she snaps out of her moody tinglings or stays home. Either way, her mother is going over the case for herself and her daughter, and mainly she's the one that's doing most of the talking on their behalf. As a litigant or defendant, you must come fully prepared and competent in solving cases with Judge Judy. This is a courtroom. Not a mental facility aiding people with unbalanced emotions.
Plantiff: he didn't pay anything
Also plantiff: outlines almost $1500 in monthly bills the defendant paid.
And the daughter/defendant's wife(?) seemed very nonchalant and like she didn't really want to be there.
She was probably forced by mom LOL
Yeah but Big Mama wants her cut...
Why is Mommy suing daughter's husband for debts??? 🤔
Woohoo part 1 finally released!
I know!
The wife is trifling AND lazy AF….She really thinks he’s supposed to pay all of her bills…She’d scamming & her mom is TOO.
You definitely have no clue about how the military works whatsoever. I can’t stand civilians when it comes to military affairs. You guys are just clueless. 🙄🙄🙄
Exactly
@@arleneaugustahair8393 I'm in the military and I agree with her lol
@@arleneaugustahair8393 LOL men in the military disagree with you
He was deployed to Yukosuka, Japan, and JJ says, "...and at the Time you were deployed to the coast of Japan....."
Yeah I caught that! 😂 I was like Yeahh she definitely misheard himz it’s not coast of Japan, it’s Yokosuka. A city in Japan named Yokosuka
This happens a lot when military wives want to stay in the states instead of traveling to Japan or Germany, etc with their husband. The soldier receives BAH (a housing allowance) for his dependents that he WOULD NOT be getting if he were single. It sounds like he was sending her some money, so that’s good. It would be unethical for him to keep that money all to himself when it’s given to him to support his family.
That's not how BAH works. I'm single and have no kids and I receive FULL BAH. That's because I don't live on base, in the dorms or barracks. And during a deployment, I would still be receiving full BAH, even if I where to live on base during the deployment. I would only NOT RECEIVE BAH if I where NOT DEPLOYED and living on base.
M C There’s SINGLE BAH and DEPENDANT BAH. If you have dependents you will be sending money back. people with children get more BAH than you.
M C The reason you receive BAH is because of your rank. He receives BAH because of his rank plus his kids, he would be receiving other pays. Separation pay which he should give to his wife. why are you even comparing your situation to his when you don’t have kids?
I presume that over there in the USA now, ye also have Military Wives and Dependent Husbands.
P. S. Here in West coast Ireland we're trying hard to hold on to the old plural pronoun "ye" but we're failing.😕
I like how every person has a different definition of how it works. And you’re all probably right. The military sounds like it runs very smoothly and is not confusing with paperwork at all.
0:19 realy girl sit up and change that attitutde you have.
Let’s go! Happy Friday everyone have a great weekend
Judy LOVES to ask questions and interrupt before people are allowed to answer. At 1:36 she was ready to cut the gentleman off when he was answering the question SHE ASKED. She needs to relax so she can appropriately conduct these cases.
I remember when my dad was deployed to Korea and 6yo me and 8 yo brother and our mother had to stay in the States and live on the money the government provided. It wasn’t enough to live very good back then (1957) and we ate a lot of potatoes and Campbell’s soup, no Christmas or birthday gifts either. Mom couldn’t work as we had no car and couldn’t afford child care. Today the military appreciates the sacrifice the families make more than they did then.
My favorite brother in law was a career man. Though retired now, he still puts in a solid 50 hours a week. My sister married him and adopted his daughter, she already had a fully disabled son. They had another son together, who is also fully disabled. Most of the time they traveled as a family. Five bases, three continents and seven off base housing over a 25 year career. My sister is educated, runs her home and became fluent in several languages over time. When stationed where work was available, like Germany, my sister worked full time, even with two disabled boys and a husband frequently deployed. The BAH often helped keep them above water. Between medical costs, travel, clothing, food allowance provided as benefits they were able to travel the world. But they worked for everything they have today and sacrificed greatly for my brother in law to fullfil his dream of serving his country, living a faith driven life and providing for the family. There were no hand outs, as JJ hinted around. God bless and protect those serving us, to allow us freedoms like these women have taken for granted. Go Army Green!
3 jobs? cant pay rent? and no savings when is she spending her checks on?😂
The grandma was doing her daughter a favor. The daughter couldn't find a place to live for $700. I don't feel she was trying to enrich herself at taxpayer expense . I'm sure utilities and food went up,and the level of financial security for the whole family was improved.
I’m confused by the whole tax payer expense statement though. The man was serving his country and protecting it and earned his money to send to his girlfriend and child. It’s his money. It’s not welfare that the gf signed up for.
Granted I think she might have mismanaged the money from the looks of it but still it’s their money. Not welfare money
You don’t know how BAH works do you? I clearly see that you don’t. That money isn’t free money. He works for it and it’s designed for his dependents. It’s not section 8. I think before you speak, you should know what you’re talking about because disrespectfully, you don’t
I remember seeing this, now that I’m in the military I can say that JJ misinterprets military pay/benefits. We still pay rent when we live on gov property unless we’re in a dorm lmao
She pissed me off when she said that.
its like she cant bare the thought of our troops not being supported lol
When I was in the military (20 years ago) we didn’t pay rent to live in government housing so things change
yup, totally ignorant about military pay. you dont get SHIT if you live on base.
I get so sick and F'ing tired of people acting like tax payers are the only income for military. It's as if people that do this don't understand military members pay taxes, too. Dependents don't make a windfall.
As for the Defendant, he was withholding the money that was supposed to be designated for his wife and child. He was using that money like an allowance for whenever he felt like it. He didn't pay anything where he was living. I know that duty station well, and he had everything he needed on and semi-off base. His wife was paying their bills as well as caring for their daughter, vehicle maintenance, etc...
We knew so many like him in our 25 years. They get married so they can make the extra money and convince their spouse to live at home to "save money," meanwhile living like a bachelor with 95% of the paycheck to blow on partying off-duty.
No sympathy on this end = We do not care 😂😂😂😂
Furthermore this is part of his benefits. How dare judge Judy imply that this a scam
She was talking about the plaintiffs
JJ can have some insane ideas sometimes, and it is especially ironic for an incredibly wealthy woman who is paid millions. Being deployed overseas and working for the military can be very intense. They deserve to be well compensated, including family benefits in my opinion. These people are pulled away from their lives, friends, and families, often for months or years at a time. That isn't an easy thing for most people to do. If the defendants wife chose to move in with her mother to help with things during that time, so be it in my opinion. He still deserves that money.
I think her issue was wholly with HER having the money. I can see where you might have gotten that from her asking if he was living on government land, etc. but I think those were moreso leading questions to tear her apart.
Good thing it is a volunteer army.
@@christinesbetterknitting4533 I don't understand.
I spent 22 years in the U.S.M.C.
Personal feelings aside the law is clear and the judge's status is irrelevant.
They should have contacted the military lawyer. I realize when it happened to me it was in the mid 1980s, but my husband was getting money for me and our three children in addition to what a single active Army person was paid. They IMMEDIATELY contacted his command with a letter stating that he was to have a separate allotment sent to me and our 3 children because the Army gave extra specifically for housing for his dependents. He was threatened legal ramifications if this wasn't done. And it was sent through the military as a separate allotment to me. They were polite, professional, and explained it all to me and it was done.
Once again, JJ completely out of touch with the reality of working class people. $700 is hardly ENRICHED. She probably spends that much on Botox per month.
Ah yes after watching parts 2&3 yesterday we finally get to see part1.
Kinda like eating the ice cream cone then the ice cream then the cherry on top .
What is wrong with the wife??? She actually looks like she's about to fall asleep 😂🤣
This is exactly why I hate paying taxes…paying for low life’s smfh
He seems to be a responsible man, too bad he caught up with an irresponsible woman plus greedy in law....it must be s terrible experience.
This money would only enrich her if she was receiving a lot more than it cost to have more people living in her house. I had a relative move in with me for a year, and my utility bills more than doubled just from ONE person. and this was two people. More AC and heat running, more showers, more laundry adds up. So JJ thinks grandma is wrong for not being willing to eat this?
He said “Yokosuka Japan” and Judy said ‘ yea when you were on the coast of Japan ‘ 😂😂
She was literally looking down not sleeping 🙄
She was bored. 🤣
Exactly JJ was being extra
Of course he didn't send no money, he didn't care. He was in Japan, free like a dog off the leash. He didn't care about nobody but himself.
Part 2 has been re-loaded, still on yesterday's time slot. Waiting for part 3 now.
The way he dogges bullets, he should be on the front lines!!
What was that he married?
JJ uses the words “government property” as if this soldier is living in section 8. He pays his on base housing with his blood. JJ is getting worse as she gets older.
totally agree, this is a line that she needs to keep her mouth shut on. Anything the government pays the military is in exchange for their life, you don't compare that to anything.
Exactly. Deployment is not a free government vacation.
Also the “money paid by US” referring to taxes like girl give it a rest smh. “Bootstrap” mentality & verbiage🥴✌🏾
The slovenly daughter of the plaintiff is falling asleep in court…the defendant is lucky to be done with her/it.
Who wants to bet they will re-upload the other parts of this case from yesterday 😄.
Lol I was wonder that same thing!
I'm surprised they deleted it. They usually just let it go.
I deliberately didn't watch them just in case this happened. It was really hard 🙈
I freaking love Judge Judy Man the way she lets people have it for scamming the system. It’s my joy and pleasure right now in life. 😂
Didn't watch two an three yesterday because I had a feeling one was uploading! Lunch gang check in! Taco salad 🥗 today.
Omg my husband just went to pick me up a taco salad! Yum can’t wait
These kind of scams are common unfortunately. 😢
No man in his right mind will deal with that attitude. The eye-rolling, lips poked out, and physical demeanor screams attitude.
🤣🤣🤣Get it together; you are in court!
How is she falling asleep? 😂
That knot on her head is killing me
I cannot KNOT🤕 believe this case.
😂😂😂 I see what you did there
"she got paid to do what a mother should do for free"
why does it seem like they were both using this guy for money
Omg thank you for noticing that too. Wtf is going on here? 😂
Cause they were😂
lmfaooo “don’t sleep” 💀💀
They take doe parts 2 and 3 just to repost them today?
It seems they redid them probably into 2 parts
Maaaan, this poor guy. Her and the mom saw a walking check
Note to self: be careful who you marry and who you get pregnant.
Tying a knot in it helps as well in some cases.
Watch out for the dependapotomus
Bitter mothers always try to dictate their daughters’ relationships. Go get your own man!
Part 2 & 3 is gone they were in my history but what the heck 🧐🤨🤔
They messed up their upload schedule it seems, so they're fixing it. Parts 2 and 3 will be re-uploaded
At 3:47 her excuse have to be the dumbest thing I ever heard in my life
How do you work 3 jobs and still don’t have money to help when you’re not helping to begin with ? Like what are you doing with your money ?
my thoughts exactly!
Sounds like she can work three jobs but not work 40 hours yknow what I mean? 😂
She didn't seem right
Took me almost the whole video to notice the giant bump in the center of grandmas forehead
As a veteran JJ is def making it seem like he was on welfare instead of saying he was deployed
He wasn’t even deployed! Japan isn’t a deployment. It’s a regular duty station just like Korea, Germany and Italy are. They’re overseas duty stations.
4:36. He paid, not "us". If he was not a soldier, there would not be any "us" paying.
JJ is a bit biased here.
His family is still thousands of miles away, he didn't get anything he didn't earn.@@arleneaugustahair8393
You just said my daughter has three jobs and couldn't pay any of the rent LOL
“Madam don’t sleep” 😂😂😂😂
Her and her mother want money from her army husband the young wife even though she looks older then her. Mother sits there rolling her eyes back and forth no class while her mother is trying to get money from the government free money most people who come to court are trying to get free money from someone it's all bout money
That woman never worked 3 jobs in her ENTIRE life. She's so disinterested in this case and probably disinterested in life itself that she cant even stay awake in court.
😂😂
Yoko! My hubbie was stationed there too. Retired after 23 years! 💗Bless Him!
Nobody is going to talk about that knot the grandma has 🤔
Let’s knot talk about it…
Listen you can fall asleep in class. But not in judge Judys courtroom 😂
hahah hey judettes lol
Good looking good solduer with a sack of potato 😢
Defendant had a choice to give his wife money when he was in Japan but preferred not to and they lived on base housing but hearing this first part of JJ he lived in bachelor quarters which is odd, usually military men or woman with a family live on the base since living off base is expensive.
did you not hear the party where he did give her money?
If he qualified for a BAH in that amount he's an officer and they have access to bachelor's quarters but also have a right to their own place. He would have gotten a housing allowance regardless of having dependents, so he's not lying and the $200 more sounds on par to what the military offers for dependents. She also just outlines roughly $1400 per month he was giving her. She should know how to have some chill because she has 1 kid with him and she may not know that child support in the military is entirely different to what a court can grant. Right now she gets many military benefits, including Tricare, after the divorce, no Tricare for her.
@@peryole Exactly. Judge Judy doesn't know how military pay works.
@@peryole oh woo hoo. Tricare. I know what that's about woo hoo Tricare. Are you out of your mind? Lol
Madam don't sleep. U are in court. 😂😂
BAH should have gone to the wife imo. that’s literally what it’s there for especially if he was living on base rent free. Can’t leave your kid homeless bro.
Sounds like they were separated, but she just outlined $1400 per month he was paying, depending on what branch he's in child support may be capped at 1/6 his pay. He is entitled to a housing allowance whether or not they are together, that much is true and a BAH at that rate suggests that he's an officer, and being deployed he's still entitled to both bachelors quarters and a home of his own. If they are separated and they do not share a home, he's still entitled to a home of his own and therefore the BAH and since he has a kid, not having her as a spouse would make 0 difference in regard to his BAH.
That's not how BAH works. It goes to the person who is serving, which is him. He will get BAH whether he is married or not, after a certain time served. Also, he was deployed when he was living in government housing, so he will also be getting BAH while deployed, whether living on government housing or not. He will only NOT RECEIVE BAH if he was not deployed and living in the dorms or barracks.
The minute I saw the picture for this video I knew this girl was going to be something else. No thank you
They are ridiculous for just posting this today.
Exactly my thoughts!
Where is the other ones? I can’t find them now
Thank you for your financial support.
They must be smoking something over there
would you like to see the manager, karen ?
She’s KNOT the one
JJ really turned nasty in the later seasons. I find it rich that she thinks $700 is enriching someone. That coming from an entitled Judge that made $50 million a year to arbitrate cases on tv.
Well if she is getting 700 bucks a month to pay rent, and her mom isn't charging her rent, yes she is getting free money and taking advantage.and what JJ makes money wise dont have a damn thing to do with what she said.
$700 would be awesome right now. I’d definitely be enriched if I received that.
@@eddieisgreat5150 And you think JJ pays her fair share in taxes? Rich people have loopholes and CPA’s that see that they don’t.
@@Fickets JJ is acting like the mom was getting rich by receiving $700 a month when actually a lot of that could’ve been going to cover the added expenses that come from having two people move into your house.
They didn't deserve a penny
He’s fiercely trying to hide that he received $1600/month for the entirety of 2015.