I wish I could give away my children and start over again | Tuko TV
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- Esther Wairimu discovered that her husband and father of two of her kids was cheating on her when she had just delivered their second born.
The man completely absconded his fatherhood duties. At some point she sought help from one of the family friends to stand in for him. Soon the two became close and eventually she found herself pregnant with twins.
Esther feels like her life is full of mishaps and wishes she never went down this road at all.
She says that her newborn babies are closer to her househelp than to her.
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Give me those twins temporarily until she heals
She needs counselling session to accept herself.Then recover from such traumatic experience.God Grace is sufficient.
How can someone adopt this kids ,how old are they ? I am interested
Sii unipee hawa watoto
Msukuru mungu amekupa watoto kuna wengine wanahangaika kila mahari wakitafuta watoto so penda hao watoto jikubali omba mungu akusaidie na watoto ni baraka kutoka kwa mungu from. iraq
Children are blessings from God as a mother please don't reject them 😭😭😭 for us who were rejected by our parents when we were young 😭 now it's actually manifesting everywhere you go you face rejection I thank God am a prayeful person and am breaking the yoke of rejection through prayers.God I pray that one day you bless me with twins ❤️
Fornication is not a blessing from God.Guard your thoughts and sexual life.A person who has mastered the cravings for sex,lust and food has taken charge of his/her life.
@mordecai I didn't encourage fornication .My point that a child is a blessing from God whether someone got a child through fornication ,rape or whatever.....to me any child is a blessing from God
You are right. Parental rejection is the worst thing. Be strong mummy. I wish you well.
Becky you are so correct. I pray that you receive the blessing of twins with your Godly ordained spouse
@joy aww ❤️ Amen and Amen thank you
Please don’t reject them because rejection spirit can follow them all their lives
Oyie I cried with her. I see depression and loving mum who desperately need help. Please women don't judge this mama.
She’s crying for help! Hope she gets better. I’m not here to judge you sister. I’ll whisper a prayer for you.
Wow some women have it very difficult I am hear to say there is light at the end of the tunnel. Mother now grandmother life gets better HOLD on stay in prayer. Thank for this video🙏🏽
Do all that you can for your kids. Be the best mom that you can .
Do not ignore the kids . Remember that they won't be kids forever, and you may need their help when you get older .
I am happy to say that
my organization was able to find a wonderful counselor for Esther. She had her first session. Praise to God. Please ladies learn some vital lessons from Esther. Mothers teach your girls to love themselves. Fathers love your daughters and tell them they are worthy.
Peninah may God bless you abundantly. I hope she gets help.
Barikiwa... You're one amongst the very few good people.
Asanti Sana my dear.
She needs more than anything
She also needs birth control. Can you help her with that too?
@@plum_loco not really because she said she was in her menopause and she was not that who interested in men, it was the work of the devil
I have twins boy and girl, at first nlipoenda scanning I cried alot I wasn't ready for twins, I learned how to love them through people encourage, we are 2 years now happy and they are so sweet, may God guide and be with you
Urgent mental health support for this lady.
Big yes
True
No one is beyond mistakes. We all make mistakes. You were looking for acceptance and love. Don't beat yourself over it. It might seem as a mistake but it resulted to 2 beautiful babies 😍
Saying a prayer for you.
Yes you made a mistake but the mistake does not define you, the fact that you acknowledge your mistake is a step forward, now the next step is knowing that when you go to God for forgiveness He is faithful and full of mercy, God forgives a genuine heart, third step is forgiving yourself and forgive those who have hurt you, accept your children, sit down with your older children and express your feeling to them I am sure they will forgive you and together support each other then one day at a time you will make it. One debt at a time you will pay them off finally.
Read Romans 8:31-39
And finally get a therapist to assist you, right now uko na depression. You need help. Yvonne get her a therapist. Her problem as she said is not financial she feels disappointed in herself. Which is a lie from the enemy because the truth is she is hardworking, a great mother, courageous and she is blessed.
I pray that you come out of all this tests stronger and give your testimony. You are more than a conqueror in Christ.
And the way I have been praying hard for twins or even triplets. Mummy you are blessed. Take care of those bundles of joy
Unfortunately, that's the irony of life
Me too... May God honor our desires..
My prayer too aki I just pray for twins
Counseling! Counseling! Counseling! Before it's late.
Take heart Mama. You fall and rise again. No one is perfect. Don't hate yourself be strong and stand up again. Trust in God. He forgives.
In short, you are regretting the twins from another Man...Just because what will your kids say, or society think ....I mean, the kids are healthy...and growing..go back to school ..there are bigger problems out here. ..she should meet Akothee for encouragement.....
Its post partum depression.
I've realized some people are just like this. Always so concerned about what everyone says. It must be so hard living like this.
@@ken4722 I agree
@@ken4722 true kila mtu na maisha yake
She has shared herself with world, authentically. She has made a huge step towards healing.
I'm sorry that she feels this way.
I hope the kids will make her proud.
It's really sad. The husband is a jerk. Her marriage had already failed. She shoulf stop overthinking...think about your troubles less, focus on what you can change. Opportunities will come up and things will change. The more we think about our problems, the more we see, magnify them and even atract more problems. Seek to see and focus on solutions, seek counseling, spiritual help and support, e.t.c. anything to get you by..
.fight...fight....fight...with all you got for your kids and yourself. Make your life simply beautiful and let your past be. Those kids are your present..they are your gems
One bad chapter doesn't mean the story is over, you have to love your kids no matter what and remember we grow through what we go through. However good or bad a situation is it will change don't lose hope.
There's is a beautiful Rainbow after every Story 😍 Your kids are your best life partners love them GOD has he's meaning to bring them into your womb ..
Your husband didn't care anyway don't feel like u wronged him love those kids with all you have aki watu wamehangaika kupata watoto huku nje.May God intervene.
I badly need twins or triplets or quadruplets only God knows.😩 It's heartbreaking to hear how this guy runs away from a blessing.
Let her take responsibility and mother her children selflessly. Love your children and know that they are your responsibility, don't fall into the pity pit. seek help in case of post partum depression and everything will fall into place. giving away the kids and starting over again will mean more children, it's better she continues with her life. you never start again, life is a continuing journey. at her age, she is able to take care of children. she ought to change her mindset and not blame anyone. having kids is not a predicament. it's a blessing. I hope she won't harm or neglect the children. the children office should make regular welfare visits.
Depression is real .. mental illness is underated
Well said, children don’t fall from
the sky, there were 2 willing participants in this case. I think the shell-shock she’s experiencing is that she thought the man wouldn’t leave her despite eating “stolen meat from a pot”’
She is asking for help, she is speaking her truth, link her with a counsellor
This is the best comment. She needs to get herself out of this pity pit she is digging herself deeper with each passing day. Actions have consequences and sometimes consequences are life-time responsibilities (aka kids). How many times will she start over every time she messes up? Someone find her a counselor to help her understand this and help her get out of the post partum depression I feel she is going through (I could be wrong).
Well, this woman is depressed and needs counselling. When you hear someone killed her babies and maybe killer self, this are the cases. And you'll be the first one to shout ooh she should have given out the kids... She needs help, life happens
Open your eyes ladies....ati father figure,father figure my foot!!!!wenye baba zao walikufa father figure iko wapy
I wonder too..we should be vigilant and sober to know when the devil is working on us
Huo upuzi hata mimi sitakingi kusikia. Huo ni upumbafu
Do not condemn yourself mama. Noone is perfect. Out here, in the streets, everyone has fallen/sinned. Only that the sins or offences vary. Plus, you must not feel obliged to explain anything to your older kids. They too are your kids, and the only thing you owe them is unconditional love, and not explanations. May your healing begin from within you.
I would recommend someone gets her a counselor, until she accepts her situation she cannot give love.
She too the first step kudos mama all will be well
Oh my God. This lady has a clean spirit in her. Life happens but God is a mighty deliverer
Accept your situation and move on. Healing will start with you, until you accept that you did a mistake and dust yourself and move forward. Staying in your mistakes will not heal you.
How is menopause at 37?I am 39 and still trusting God for baby
May God hear you out my dear
My cousin had her 1st born at 45....God can bless you with a baby at any age
How old was Sarah when she got Isaac
May God hear your prayer🙏
Receive your blessings in Jesus name
Children are a blessing from God...Pray and God will show you the way dear
Mental health is real please God save those kids🥺🙈🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Is anyone willing to adopt the children becoz such pple r hard to change
Go to church first. repent and pray and continue with your life. Get deprived spiritually because of life's issues and the devo will hold you properly. if i find myself totally hopeless i force myself back to God and he waters my dry life!
I love this. God is the only answer but many people don't want a relationship with Him but only when they have problems
What I would like my dear Wairimu to know is . God created your twins your twins are a blessing Whatever they are from God. Just remember many people with no problems in their marriage are looking for a child and cannot have? Be proud they came and some day you will know why? Just accept what happened..
Those cute babies are your blessing mum.i wish I had twins even triplet..you may be holding your countrys next president and a doctor in your arms right now so loooove them and sacrifice your all to care and educate them and you will reap the fruit of your rewards in the future.
Oh my they are adorable little ones. In the name of the Lord blessed are these tiny babies. Lots love to them😍
Esther needs therapy someone to affirm her and journey with her. Besides that your loved and beautiful dont give up on your bundles of joy
She is hurting...😭😭😭,but it's done mama the kids are here just accept them and keep them.... they will bring you blessings to your home sweetie... don't give up ..give God your life...let God control your life
Vyenye naona she is depressed and suicidal.... only God can give her peace and comfort we will continue to pray... if any professional or pastor can offer counseling it will save her life...
You are a strong lady who has healed, and that's why you are able to talk about it, God forgives and you are free......
We have all sinned differently before and personally I can't judge you.
Madam, imagine life without a child. Am a mother of twins (boys). Imagine nothing is impossible. It's hard sometimes but God will raise you. Accept the children first then God will move you to another.
Children are a big blessings, Accept and embrace it happened and move on. Life is short to live in Regrets.
How I wish God would test me with multiple babies now. The lady is in a test, I pray she pass the test for there's good coming her way, may God intervene
Take heart mamaa children are blessings from God, take care of them.
Things started failing apart long time ago but u never new , well God is in control, no matter our situation he promise to see us through .
Take time to repent genuine then walk in the process of deliverance and healing and God will establish his throne on grace within u .
Stay blessed sis .
Those kids are beautiful🧚♀️🧚♀️cute angels .
*NEVER GIVE UP MUM INANIUMA SAMA KUOANA IVI SINCE THIS ID WHAT MY MUM WENT THROUGH AFTER GIVING BIRTH ME AND MY TWIN SISTER*
Teacher Easter.....yu are a great woman God loves you everything happens for a reason....God will see you through....i recall how yu used to encourage me when things went sour in ma life.....Never knew yu have gone through all these..... open up is a way of healing dear friend, God loves yu dear n yur kids too
Take heart Esther. God trusted you with these souls. Plz be strong for them, it may look dark but there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Praying for you Mami.
"Sijapenda vile nilifanya" the most honest act of contrition. Forgiving yourself is a process, be patient with yourself mama.
Esther ,,u need deliverance n healing + counseling,,,u can do it again again n again coz God's is watching over u..u r blsd today n forever more 🙏🙏🙏
So so sorry for the emotional difficulty you went through... God loves you and is still on his throne
think about those women who are seeking to have children crying everyday , that should help you love those kids, they will remeber how you treated them, pls love them the way you love the rest.
So sorry. I love that you say every decision has consequences
Thanks Esther for sharing your story. Please trust in Jesus that he will guide you to the paths of glory. Do not condemn yourself. We all make mistakes from which we learn lessons and become stronger. II will be praying for you and your family.
Children are a blessing and everything happens for a reason. Give God all the praise, honor, glory as their women who have never carried a pregnancy. If the Lord gave you the babies I tell you he will surely provide for them.
This woman needs conselling she is going through depresión
I agrer
Esther,,God loves u so much despite ups n downs God's in control...read Jeremiah 29:11 ,,we together in prayers💪💪💪💪 Esther
Am happy that you have beautiful. Last baby .God bless you. Hope you get the help you need. Don't feel bad you did nothing wrong.God wanted you to start new chapter but you hold the old chapter for so long. You rise your kids by yourself. God want you
Keeping standing by yourself. Until time to come. Accept single parent. You will be happy in your life. Stop any relationship .
Huuui . Giving away your children😱😱. May God help all women aki tuskikawaifikiria hivi
I'm sorry to hear this story. The lady is suffering from post-partum depression, she need urgent psychiatric care, should be hospitalized for a few days to a week, get started on meds and psychotherapy. Plus her friends and church people to hold hands and pray for her. It is not a hopeless situation but it a very serious one as she sounds suicidal and can even hurt her children due to the depression. She needs help ASAP!
i totally agree with you. she has post-partum depression
Am I the first one today..Dont give up even if you made mistakes..
Children are blessings from God in future you will celebrate.
I agree with you.
She seem absent and totaly disconnected from real life. Lady our bodies and lives are our responsibilities. Learn, grow and be careful while in tough circumstances. Life is not about money. Life for your kids now.
Hugs to you Esther, I feel your main issue is not the twins but you've suffered serious depression in your first marriage cos you genuinely loved your husband. May Almighty God restore your joy.
I can't hate my children because of I had them through cheating on my husband..... Why can't we divorse and leave separate lives I will raise my kids
You don’t know what postpartum depression is, it’s not a choice
My dear children are blessing
Choices have consequences!. But you have to give yourself another chance of making yourself better everyday. Look at your future with hope and determination.
It is well my sister. God is working in your life, it is a journey that will give you a testimony tomorrow. . Remember that other woman moving from one hospital to another in search of atleast one kid............Count yourself blessed. All will be well. Shalom
Those children are the ones who bring blessings to you. God is just waiting for you to accept them.
Please see a counselor that’s my only advise...depression on the brink of raising children with mommy issues is not a good situation...Sorry to tell you but your marriage was over so long ago prior to any affair, forgive yourself. Forgive yourself. Forgive yourself. Na seek counseling to heal, don’t condemn yourself, take care of those sweet babies na yourself....sorry if I came off harsh ama offensive, hope you find a way to move on 💛na heal from the pain.
Children were blessings 🙏
Out of the so many tragic stories of helpless ladies we watch from tuko and Lynn ngugi shows, one very sad common factor is the African parents immaturity and irresponsible act of having an average of 6 to 8 children at such tough times when majority cannot afford to raise even 2 kids.
Why don't they control their carnal desires so that lesser the kids happier and safe for parents and specially for the innocent kids who have done no mistake to suffer so much poverty nd childhood tragedies.
Hope shows like this will help to educate more couples to stick to 1 or 2 kids and make Africa a blessed place for future generations.
One exceptional fact which comes out of all these stories are majority African ladies are super strong, too tough to break, hardworking, exceptional survivors, dying commitment for their family specially their children and most are deeply religious with strong trust on God and that's why all these ladies are alive to tell their miracle stories.
God bless Africa 👏🙏
Exactly... and even after seeing how tough it is, they go on to have more kids
Or just use contraception.
@@neymar.senior umenena
@@betty541 umesema kweli
That’s exactly what is unfathomable. They see all these challenges and destitute nature of their country and continue to give birth as if someone is paying them. Selfishness in all its glory, people who give birth to kids in these times with no income 🤮
Anyway Gods grace is sufficient for us all. Keep strong, Lea watoto
It well and it is okey Esther you will come through
May God send a Destiny helper to Esther,my prayers are with you,It shall be well.....
Kids r blessings u don't have any other life b happy en raise ur kids
May God intervine in the LIife of this lady and her children..
Hugs dear
Just be strong don't regret, you will be fine mom in jesus name
I saw this story a month ago..be stong mum take care of your children ....
Shukuru Mungu sana kwa kukupa watoto wenye hawana shida yoyote aki, kuna watu huku nnje wanapitia magumu sana kwa kulea watoto wenye hawako sawa na bado wanawapenda tu sana kwa hiyo hali na hawamkosoi Mungu Bali wanamshukuru Mungu kwa yote, kindly accept your kids, love them, give them the best and you will never regret having them in your life
Hmmm some people are crying for the gift of the womb and you want to give yours away???? Just trust God, He will provide
Never regret having babies
Tell her watu wengine wanatumia billions of money wakitafuta watoto pia wengine wanaenda hadi kwa wanganga ale hao watoto na awapende
I dint understand this one at all
Give the love it 'll come back to you for they're a blessing from god
God please bless me with twins 🙏
Having a bad chapter doesn't mean you question God take care of your children many people are crying for baby but they are not lucky but you are blessed
Yvonne plz Esther is in depression,I feel sad but she is strong. Esther was appreciating the kind act of that bad of the twins he stood with her for the moment a father figure was needed for her son,plz look for the counselor to journey with her,she needs also financial support too, let Esther tell her two big children what happened,she just fell in the hands of that man thinking she is thanking him.let her love the kids I beg, children are a blessing and her husband is a disappointment to manhood
Pole sana mama, its just in the mind there is a tomorrow . it will be over . all the same a visit to a counselor or psychiatric . this is depression . it magnifies small things . may God heal you wairimu.
Its will be well Esther God has your back and he has already forgive you
Your volume is very low. Am straining to hear. However very good work and Esther you are a strong beautiful woman.
Yes it still points back to the old addeage! If a marriage is not working... Run🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️ May God intervene🙏
The things woman go true in the name of marriage aki.....
And they are so cute. Love on them
Don’t give your babies away , God blessed u and others are wombless
Easy be strong and courageous God is there for you trust him he gonna work miracles in your life the bible says in the bk of pslms 23 :6 Even if I go thr' the deepest darkness I will not be afraid, Lord for u are with me .Your shepherd's rod n stuff protect me. Ester read these srips your soul will not forcus on bad thoughts.
Don't regret watoi ni blessings kunawengi wataka ata kamoja na hawana kwahivo shukuru God
I'm sorry mama,it shall be well with your soul
Sorry my sister.. It gonna be well..peace
Pole for what you’re going through but try so much to accept and find your healing. You didn’t do anything wrong… do your best for your babies let them not know that you feel embarrassed & bitter for having them…Just know you didn’t any mistake…try to find help I think you are going through a serious depression episode.
You will be well. Hugs
U are not the first to go through this mama
It shall pass just takr up ua cross n walk
Take up ua cross n walk mama lets cry as we move babies will grow u will be fine day by day
This lady need help!! Those sweet angles are not safe. Please let her know to that she wronged nobody, God loves her unconditionally, she is a perfect mother to her babies. Hugs to her!!
You do not know what it feels for a mother not being able to breat feed and at the same time not have enough funds to buy nun that can sustain them.Enyewe mama you are strong,just hold on and see the your babies grow because for Sure this is just a passing wind tomorrow will be brighter.
i relate my story. i realy didnt want my twins but i love them now
Plz plz plz madam take heart ulee ur beautiful kids usichiblame God has areason y all this. U will regret now but in future u will smile those kids are gold watakuta machozi believe me