I can't even begin to explain how much I needed to this video. I've been reopening my old wound and holding my own knife. Allowing life to take over, and love to fill and over flow through me to rewrite the journey : ) Thank you for sharing this Alexi!
Alexi I cannot thank you enough for this message. I'm currently going through a breakup after being cheated on. The pain is still so real right now but this gives me hope. The thing that scares me even more than the breakup is holding onto this pain and bringing it into future relationships. I want to be in a healthy, trusting relationship and I know that is what I deserve. Everything you say in this video resonates deeply with me and I am making the promise to myself now that I will face this fear and let it end with this relationship.What more can I do?
When I was young it was difficult to learn but easy to forget. Now it is easy to learn and difficult to forget. When I was young, I wanted to grow old When I am old, I want to be young again. Now I dont want to think or want something I simply want to live.
So interesting revisiting this video several months later and realising how far I have come. I am no longer re-opening several wounds and working on the deeper ones....timeless video with so much insight and wisdom #youarethebest #loveyoulots 💗 xxoo
Alexi,This came up as an Advertisement and i chose to listen;-The title carried so much weight for me.I am so glad i did.I let this play out;kept pulling out the knife.You have blessed me and i look forward to watching other videos.Thank you. All the way from Kenya:-)
miss60kiss so happy you found me on here :) thanks for joining the family...and I'll let you know when I'm back in Africa (I go to Tanzania every year!)
Alexi Panos Hey dear...you come to Africa? wow how cool is that would looove to meet you.Have you been to Kenya? Its not that far from Tanzania....Lemie know.Keep doing what you are doing:-)
Alexi I can't thank you enough for this awesome message it has helped me in a time of need. Love all your videos and your talk at HATCH was so inspiring. Thank you! Peace and Blessings
Christie Monson Thank you Christie!! I'm so happy we got to meet at Hatch :) And so happy this message speaks to you. It was certainly a hard learned lesson in my life :)
1MINaDAY Thank you! I sure hope so! My mission is to share my truth in hopes of inspiring others to do the same :) Thanks for finding me and supporting!
oh Thanks Alexi, This is what I am trying to tell someone ! I've been in a relationship for 4 years and things are just not working out anymore; because of her jealousy! she wants to control even my friends I hang around with! Everything that I want to do something and I do she says it hurts her that she had suffered a lot with relationships before I Met her and that I am making it worse... But I do need to be free .. I don't know how to deal with it, do you have any suggestion ? love all your videos ;D
Serious question for you Alexi Panos ...how long did it take you to let it go? I realise and I am willing to admit that it's me..but its the letting go that I am struggling with. Continual knife fight..and its so exhausting! *work in progress*
Nerida Holladay It varied for different wounds. The deeper ones took a little longer. Honestly--they'll keep showing up until you REALLY deal with them, and they often get triggered by those closest to us (significant others!) so if you find yourself being triggered...take a step back, notice the Wounded Self operating and ask yourself what that Wounded Self is really craving. (It's often craving love, attention, security, etc to feel "safe") Then, ask how your Higher Self can provide a solution to that need without it being projected onto the other person. It's a work in progress UNTIL it's clear...but you have to be willing to pull it up to the forefront and stare it in the face everytime it comes up. That's the only way it will heal. If we keep burying it and pretending like it's not there, that's when get in trouble because it never truly heals and we'll keep attracting people and circumstances that will force us to keep reopening the wound.
Alexi Panos you hit the nail on the head and really clarified things for me..thank you. I think I know what I need to do moving forward..and Week 3 of The Bridge Method is right on time. Love you lady! That is all ;)
Hey Rozli! You've got to be willing to tackle the wounds, HEAD ON. It will keep coming up until you really deal with it at the core. And even then, these wounds may be triggered again by certain people, places, or situations. However, taking radical responsibility of YOUR role in the PRESENT is KEY to moving on. Try meditating before bed and clear your mind, or find a healthy hobby that distracts you from the pain. And remember, no one in this world makes us complete. We are ALREADY perfect, whole, and complete. You are ALREADY in the most important relationship of your life... and that's the one with yourself! ;) Give yourself grace and honor that journey.
There has been too much pain for too many years. Pain and loss have come to define my life.
I can't even begin to explain how much I needed to this video. I've been reopening my old wound and holding my own knife. Allowing life to take over, and love to fill and over flow through me to rewrite the journey : ) Thank you for sharing this Alexi!
Nina Tomaro
Absolutely wonderful. If only the healing happened sooner!
hahahah yes, sometimes a shorter healing time would be AWESOME...but it happens when it happens :)
Alexi I cannot thank you enough for this message. I'm currently going through a breakup after being cheated on. The pain is still so real right now but this gives me hope. The thing that scares me even more than the breakup is holding onto this pain and bringing it into future relationships. I want to be in a healthy, trusting relationship and I know that is what I deserve. Everything you say in this video resonates deeply with me and I am making the promise to myself now that I will face this fear and let it end with this relationship.What more can I do?
When I was young it was difficult to learn but easy to forget.
Now it is easy to learn and difficult to forget.
When I was young, I wanted to grow old
When I am old, I want to be young again.
Now I dont want to think or want something
I simply want to live.
YESSS! Love this!
Alexi, I Love It, you are so on point. Totally agree, will share this link with others. Thank you soooo much
+Paulette Langford Awesome---glad it resonates!
This resonates with me so much thank you Alexi
So interesting revisiting this video several months later and realising how far I have come. I am no longer re-opening several wounds and working on the deeper ones....timeless video with so much insight and wisdom #youarethebest #loveyoulots 💗 xxoo
+Nerida Holladay Thank you for sharing this love! I truly appreciate you!
Ouch, So much in truth, thank you.
Thank you Leo Sprague :)
Alexi,This came up as an Advertisement and i chose to listen;-The title carried so much weight for me.I am so glad i did.I let this play out;kept pulling out the knife.You have blessed me and i look forward to watching other videos.Thank you. All the way from Kenya:-)
miss60kiss so happy you found me on here :) thanks for joining the family...and I'll let you know when I'm back in Africa (I go to Tanzania every year!)
Alexi Panos Hey dear...you come to Africa? wow how cool is that would looove to meet you.Have you been to Kenya? Its not that far from Tanzania....Lemie know.Keep doing what you are doing:-)
miss60kiss YESSS!! I love Kenya but haven't been in years! Where are you there?
Thank you! You are awesome!
Yep so true!!! Thankx so much🤗
Thank you for this. It helped.....
Luv u..helping us lot..I am getting better..thnk u..
Thank you Alexis
At my age I love this Alexi.
Mark Daniele So happy it resonates Mark!
been posting on FB hoping it will catch on.
Wow.. Nothing has made more sense to me, recently than this!
Thank you my love!
just lOve THIS MESSAGE ! THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL !
+Marissa Lewis just LOVEEEEEEE you!!! Missing you guys! Give love to my little "babe" ;)
Alexi I can't thank you enough for this awesome message it has helped me in a time of need. Love all your videos and your talk at HATCH was so inspiring. Thank you! Peace and Blessings
Christie Monson Thank you Christie!! I'm so happy we got to meet at Hatch :) And so happy this message speaks to you. It was certainly a hard learned lesson in my life :)
Much needed thank u
love this inspiring words....thx
Happy you found me Paa Kwesi :)
Nice explanation
+Honey Dubey Thank you love!
Been hurt in the past?? Watch this.
New video out on TH-cam!
Alexi Panos your channel is going to blow up! Love the style and message behind it. Big fan.
1MINaDAY Thank you! I sure hope so! My mission is to share my truth in hopes of inspiring others to do the same :) Thanks for finding me and supporting!
Alexi Panos You're awesome, what a beautiful person with a great message, hopefully one day we get to chat so I can tell you my story. :) Keep it up.
oh Thanks Alexi, This is what I am trying to tell someone ! I've been in a relationship for 4 years and things are just not working out anymore; because of her jealousy! she wants to control even my friends I hang around with!
Everything that I want to do something and I do she says it hurts her that she had suffered a lot with relationships before I Met her and that I am making it worse...
But I do need to be free .. I don't know how to deal with it, do you have any suggestion ? love all your videos ;D
+1 @Daniel Hoy
Thank you
Thnx alexi i it did make sense and healped me
i know now the answer to my problem
thnx to you again
thank you! ❤❤❤❤❤😀💙💙💙💙
Fabulous. Sublime. ❤️
thanks Wendell, appreciate you watching!! :) xxoo
makes me so happy!
thank you!
+Anna Pawlaczyk Thank you for watching and commenting, it means a lot
Hi I am sometimes suffering from what I did wrong in the past. sometimes the memories come to me ..make me feel shame... could u give me any advice ?
Serious question for you Alexi Panos ...how long did it take you to let it go? I realise and I am willing to admit that it's me..but its the letting go that I am struggling with. Continual knife fight..and its so exhausting! *work in progress*
Nerida Holladay It varied for different wounds. The deeper ones took a little longer. Honestly--they'll keep showing up until you REALLY deal with them, and they often get triggered by those closest to us (significant others!) so if you find yourself being triggered...take a step back, notice the Wounded Self operating and ask yourself what that Wounded Self is really craving. (It's often craving love, attention, security, etc to feel "safe") Then, ask how your Higher Self can provide a solution to that need without it being projected onto the other person. It's a work in progress UNTIL it's clear...but you have to be willing to pull it up to the forefront and stare it in the face everytime it comes up. That's the only way it will heal. If we keep burying it and pretending like it's not there, that's when get in trouble because it never truly heals and we'll keep attracting people and circumstances that will force us to keep reopening the wound.
Alexi Panos you hit the nail on the head and really clarified things for me..thank you. I think I know what I need to do moving forward..and Week 3 of The Bridge Method is right on time. Love you lady! That is all ;)
Great, Great, Great !!!
+Weiss Friedrich Thank you SO much love!
excellent. you may find Carly Simon's song 'I haven't got time for the pain' helpful.
thank you for the suggestion Paul I will check it out!
YES!
yes ohh so true ''xx
:) well said
Let go. And Let GOD!!! :D LOVE YOU ALL!!! #GIVELOVEAWESOMELY!♥:D
+Lane Uhler Thank you for watching and commenting, it means a lot
how do i actually do that?its in my subconscious to the point that i dream of her
Hey Rozli! You've got to be willing to tackle the wounds, HEAD ON. It will keep coming up until you really deal with it at the core. And even then, these wounds may be triggered again by certain people, places, or situations. However, taking radical responsibility of YOUR role in the PRESENT is KEY to moving on. Try meditating before bed and clear your mind, or find a healthy hobby that distracts you from the pain. And remember, no one in this world makes us complete. We are ALREADY perfect, whole, and complete. You are ALREADY in the most important relationship of your life... and that's the one with yourself! ;) Give yourself grace and honor that journey.
Let go and let God? Really? I could’ve got that advice off of a bumper sticker