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Hang on. Work place is only work place where people earn money for living. They are not really friends. Talk please about most close relationships between family members.
I walked away from the group, because they were talking about me and excluding me from the group. I realize it was their stuff, and I might have been more knowledgeable than they. I heard that simply walking away makes people miss your prescense, and has them reflecting on their own behavior.
65 years experience on this planet and the one thing I have noticed is a serious decline in simple manners. Kindness, thoughtfulness and putting anyone, even family, first is a foreign concept.
I use to try and be nicer to people that didn’t like me. I always felt sorry for them, nothing to do with me. It’s their problem. I don’t waste my time trying to anymore
I'm working hard to do this myself. I've got a few folks at my serving job I'm pretty sure resent me because I do a LOT when I don't have guests, like extra cleaning and all (we're getting new owners and I imagine the two that give off "annoyed" vibes the most are gonna be on the chopping block because they rarely even do the bare minimum). I was trying to be helpful to everyone, but now I let them flounder after one of them chewed me out for telling her something she didn't care to hear (i was trying to be nice and say I was gonna be away from the host desk to use the restroom. She thought I was trying to make her do my job while I was gone & was like "tell the manager". I just wanted to inform her I wouldn't be up there to show guests to tables for 2 minutes & I didn't want her to miss out on tips because she was glued to her phone and not paying attention if someone walked in. Never got the chance to explain, and have only given basic info related to the moment since).
1. Lack of eye contact 2. Sarcasm 3. Exclusion from activities 4. Lack praise for accomplishments 5. Over emphasis of flaws 6. Limited communication with you 7. Contradictory behavior around you
The insight about reframing negative interactions really resonated with me. It’s empowering to shift from frustration to growth, and this perspective aligns so well with Stoic principles. Have any of you tried journaling for clarity? I’d love to hear how it worked for you!
I can always tell when I'm not liked-it's in the subtle tension hidden behind polite words and fake smiles. I handle these situations with calm professionalism, keeping my distance and refusing to get drawn into their games.
Over the years I've learned that what others think about me only hurts if I let it. I really don't care what they think I do my best to help everyone even if they are hateful. I just like to help and I will continue to do so
I'm a really empathetic person who is a helper type, too, & I've had to learn to take other folks' dislike with a grain of salt. I'd always wonder what I did wrong when someone was annoyed or snippy with me and I'd start to change myself to make them feel better... but it didn't last. I realized it was stupid because I was making everything about ONE person who didn't care about me, anyway, and neglecting my own feelings and others around me who already liked me the way I was. It's only in the past couple of years where I've been able to give myself the pep talk and mean it: "Stuff happens and it's not all because of you. You can't make everyone like you and you can't improve everyone's day. Some will like you and what you do; some won't. Just be the best you you can be and do what you need to do well." Some days are rougher than others, but yeah, it HAS gotten easier to let the negativity wash off (one of the benefits of ageing, I guess: you just don't care what others think as much).
Not an easy thing to learn. Silence is good sometimes and at other times I will just say something totally irrelevant like, it's such a beautiful day outside. Kind words most always stop a cold-hearted person bc they were expecting an argument or retaliation of some sort. Try it, it works.
Great teaching video .. Navigating this dog eat dog world, in your job, in family, and relationships in general, can become confusing, like feeling gas lighted constantly.. War of women on women, the jealousy for whatever reason is one of the most difficult relationships Ive ever had, even at 63 yrs old...So many times Ive felt like Ive been back handed..Counting true friends on one hand is the most true cliche ever .. Im still learning, being hurt, trusting less and less ..God is my refuge and if not for Him, Id have and be nothing..
Oh I know when I'm disliked, I see them, I literally feel the disguised tension masquerading as being polite, I strategically deal with these types with professional distance, I definitely don't play into their schemes
If you're a little more successful than the people around you, you'll often feel jealousy, it's very common. It used to confuse me, but now I understand. The 10 Commandments were right "thou shall not covet". Jealousy is a waste of time, you don't know what a person is going through or what they will go through.
True you cannot please everybody..Its hard for me not let them know whats the feeling of isolation due to hiding or keeping secrets specially regarding family matters.. Be it good or bad issue .a family member should never be disregarded specially when you dwell on the same space.
I’ve always struggled with interpreting mixed signals from others, but this video gives such clear, practical advice. The reminder that their dislike is often about them, not us, is truly liberating. Which of these signs have you noticed most often in your life?
Dear Sir, I'm still learning and today I have taken the decision to take myself back and be for myself. I have never forced people to be with me, but today I dont need others, I have myself. Thank You Sir for Your teachings. Amen.
Start talking as I am talking, as if I'm not in the same room with them. Avoidance of eye contact. Will not show interest as to saying or thanking me for any gift I've ever given them. Yet they want me around for family get-togethers. Just days ago, the boyfriend spoke out about how quickly she can become violent. The next day he wasn't there but he had embarrassed her in my presence by that statement he made. She was so angered at him for saying that in my presence she couldn't wait to make an attack on me. She chimed in on a conversation thinking it had opened the door enough for her to stand up, bend her body halfway over herself and made a demeaning remark about me. I didn't utter a word nor did anyone else.
I've experienced ppl subtle behavior towards me b4!! I took the stoic way out b4 realizing that's what I was doing!!! Didn't know stoic principles existed. Once I recognize I step back and FOCUS on me. I always thought that if they value me as a person/friend, they wouldn't have the behavior or they'll feel comfortable to talk about whatever the situation is!! Also, how someone feels about me is not my busy!!!!..
First off, it’s not me, it’s them. I’m the realest person I know… I have been told, people either love me or hate me…. That’s fine… because either way that’s me, not going to be phony for anyone. I want to be kind and helping to all but I will not be taken advantage of either. Walk softly and carry a big stick. ❤
I had a boss that was trying to get me to buy into a new project and I didn’t like the new direction. He got the coo involved to force me to join the effort. I quit the company and ended up in a much better situation.. in the exit interview he said “I didn’t expect this”
This video beautifully highlights the subtle art of awareness in our interactions. Recognizing these signs not only helps us navigate relationships but also strengthens our emotional resilience. Thank you for sharing such timeless Stoic wisdom!
I spent 5 years living like a hermit because my partner was a paranoid and schizoid. He was also angry and dismissive. I cared for him, but that is the last time I invest in someone who should be in a hospital.
I have a very influential presence at work. But I’m very subtle about it. I learn people and I’m genuine with them. I have silently built up a very powerful coalition of coworkers…. But I trust none of them…. Maybe one, maybe. I see people sink themselves constantly and If they only knew.
Asperger’s effects ability to make eye contact, yet we are the most honest (when safe) and I personally am the best and most loyal friend. One had to hurt me really really really bad to betray them or end the relationship.
In 1989 I read this passage in a book : I do not like thee doctor Fell. The reason why I cannot tell. But there is one thing I know full well. I do not like thee doctor Fell.
Four months pregnant and there’s only one person I told on purpose. Only my brother was excited. I didn’t tell anyone else because I’ve miscarried enough to know they aren’t happy for me when pregnant and don’t cry with me when ….
Its so strange sometimes how people will talk about you behind your back but in your presence not talk to vou at all And they not even aware that you know they gossipped about you they should tell you directly if they were unhappy about what you did or said but it does not matter still show them love and kindness because you will answer alone to god oneday no one else will be with you so there opinions of you doesnt matter ❤❤❤
They only do that because they felt you're ahead of them, the stoic's made us understand that you can only be envied by someone you're doing better than. So keep going 👍👍❤️❤️
Yes, a good friend I had known for many years started refusing to look me in the eye. Like at all, we never acknowledged or discussed this but was blatantly apparent and super awkward. He’s a weird guy so I gave him benefit of the doubt. Turns out I’m not sure if he always hated me or something happened. It’s Strange because we were friends, just wasn’t a very good friend.
The assumption is that all 'people' you encounter are basically on the same page and will act in a predictable manner to an outside stimulus - in this case-you. Another assumption is that you have some kind of importance to them they even think about you between meetings - whether they actually like you or not when you do. Mostly, they don't ever think about you. Turns out, people are much more complicated and their reaction to you is more likely going to be influenced by what's going on in their head when you get together. e.g. If they're behind in the rent or got a sick relative they may be less interactive with you - especially if you're bubbling with joy. Also, there's the NPCs you encounter who have no soul who only want to suck your energy from you. If you recognise this in a person why do you persist with a relationship? An empty house is better than a bad tenant.
How can I get someone to dislike me? Can I get someone to not like me and act in the way of this video? I have successfully got people who were in a position to get me kicked out of a place to resent me enough, on a personal level, and me and ONLY me, to get me kicked out. I did this by 1) spotting their envy and 2) nurturing both their envy and personal hatred of me. I have done this multiple times. I have also used other techniques to get others to dislike me and reject me, if possible, out in public
Insecurities in people who can't emotionally be responsible for their problems belittling other people goals. Emotional remarks upset people to not emotional reactions to emotional remarks on person emotional boundaries and limitation
I walked away from a friend which I assisted to make it in life which was my dream for him. When transaction were won and realistic. He chance. Bought a car and when I was rejoicing with him. He asked me. how did you know I bought a car, who told me. Deny the transaction did not go. in which a friend already told me is a deal done.This question put me away after all pray and happiness for him to grow.
Recognizing subtle signs of dislike is less about others and more about protecting your own peace. Self-awareness and emotional control are the real tools for navigating such situations with grace.
Must gain the understanding as SOON as possible that if people know you'll be quick to cut a Bit!# off and you are a high value person they'll recoil their behavior or disappear and the last part is up to the distressing your your sheirs
You cant MAKE anyone like you or love you..thats their choice..not ours...you cant MAKE someine stay with you if they want to leave..thats their choice... putting up with indifference is your choice..
If you need to watch a video on youtube to know this, you can’t read people lol i knew this when i was 10 years old. I know straight away if someone likes me or not and if they don’t like me i don’t carry on like a clown because i know that not everyone is going to like me just like i am not going to like everyone else i do not try to force anyone to like me i never let anyone get close to me i don’t need anyones validation if someone disrespects me by ignoring me i treat them the same way lol and subtle signs of disrespect speak louder than words lol if you refuse to look me in the eye or shake my hand i will start watching them and i won’t talk about anything in front of them and passive aggressiveness is hilarious i just subtlety let them know they are having a go at me and if they’re jealous of me i just tell them it would be nice if people who don’t work at all or as hard as me would stop expecting my tax money to fund their lifestyles lol i am very witty and i truly don’t care if i am excluded.
Who cares! I’m still rich and still going to heaven! They need to talk to their own kind of people and not me. I don’t mind being left completely alone but they are dumb enough to think I care
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I don't think they know, this is a philosophy natured in greatness for over 2000 years ago. It's only few that sort this out most often in our modern world yet they always prevail.
Too much talk n high fashionable vocabulary n beating around the bush. It would be better if you kept the talks to the point. People can understand becos everyone has experienced these feelings at some time or other.
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Hang on. Work place is only work place where people earn money for living. They are not really friends. Talk please about most close relationships between family members.
I walked away from the group, because they were talking about me and excluding me from the group. I realize it was their stuff, and I might have been more knowledgeable than they. I heard that simply walking away makes people miss your prescense, and has them reflecting on their own behavior.
Seriously. Being a hermit is the best thing. Go to work, home, and enjoy classic films. 🐶🐶🐶😍😍😍😍
It really is!❤️
65 years experience on this planet and the one thing I have noticed is a serious decline in simple manners. Kindness, thoughtfulness and putting anyone, even family, first is a foreign concept.
Thanks on your thoughtful insight ❤️🎉
@@jeanettepugh6017 I've noticed that too
…,,and gross lack of empathy!
@@wisdomdantecourt8179scary times
You can feel it.
Good thing I could care less whether someone likes me or not.
Great 👍
This. It doesn't bother me. It's a two way street- the people I don't like don't like me, so no love lost.
The people I like like me.
Like finds like.
Could or do you mean couldn't
@@jacko717 NOT ALWAYS & NOT IN EVERY CASE.
I don’t either and they all know it
I use to try and be nicer to people that didn’t like me. I always felt sorry for them, nothing to do with me. It’s their problem. I don’t waste my time trying to anymore
just dont talk to them ,never even say hello to them
I'm working hard to do this myself. I've got a few folks at my serving job I'm pretty sure resent me because I do a LOT when I don't have guests, like extra cleaning and all (we're getting new owners and I imagine the two that give off "annoyed" vibes the most are gonna be on the chopping block because they rarely even do the bare minimum). I was trying to be helpful to everyone, but now I let them flounder after one of them chewed me out for telling her something she didn't care to hear (i was trying to be nice and say I was gonna be away from the host desk to use the restroom. She thought I was trying to make her do my job while I was gone & was like "tell the manager". I just wanted to inform her I wouldn't be up there to show guests to tables for 2 minutes & I didn't want her to miss out on tips because she was glued to her phone and not paying attention if someone walked in. Never got the chance to explain, and have only given basic info related to the moment since).
Best decision ever!!!!!!..
Why would you train them to not like you? You give positive reinforcement to people who were not nice to you. That does NOT make sense!
Their dislike stems from jealousy. Kindness confuses them. Just don't be over nice!
Very simple ✌️😍❤️
Agree Robert couldn't have said it any better!!!!!..❤
1. Lack of eye contact
2. Sarcasm
3. Exclusion from activities
4. Lack praise for accomplishments
5. Over emphasis of flaws
6. Limited communication with you
7. Contradictory behavior around you
Bingo! You got it😂❤️
The insight about reframing negative interactions really resonated with me. It’s empowering to shift from frustration to growth, and this perspective aligns so well with Stoic principles. Have any of you tried journaling for clarity? I’d love to hear how it worked for you!
Autism effects eye contact
I can always tell when I'm not liked-it's in the subtle tension hidden behind polite words and fake smiles. I handle these situations with calm professionalism, keeping my distance and refusing to get drawn into their games.
Good you know, just keep moving!!❤️❤️🎉
Over the years I've learned that what others think about me only hurts if I let it. I really don't care what they think I do my best to help everyone even if they are hateful. I just like to help and I will continue to do so
That's great of you, keep going ❤️👍
I'm a really empathetic person who is a helper type, too, & I've had to learn to take other folks' dislike with a grain of salt. I'd always wonder what I did wrong when someone was annoyed or snippy with me and I'd start to change myself to make them feel better... but it didn't last. I realized it was stupid because I was making everything about ONE person who didn't care about me, anyway, and neglecting my own feelings and others around me who already liked me the way I was.
It's only in the past couple of years where I've been able to give myself the pep talk and mean it: "Stuff happens and it's not all because of you. You can't make everyone like you and you can't improve everyone's day. Some will like you and what you do; some won't. Just be the best you you can be and do what you need to do well." Some days are rougher than others, but yeah, it HAS gotten easier to let the negativity wash off (one of the benefits of ageing, I guess: you just don't care what others think as much).
I love how you blend ancient wisdom with modern examples. This makes Stoicism so much easier to understand and apply. Fantastic content!
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"Remember, it is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor."
- Seneca
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YES! That's right! "The Root cause of Suffering is Desire." - Buddha
Its good to stand strong in Self, but not good to be so careless that you dont know you have an enemy.
I'm going through this now and I have to remember that it has nothing to do with me.and I need to learn to stay silent.
Sure! Keep Stoicing🦾🦾❤️❤️
Not an easy thing to learn. Silence is good sometimes and at other times I will just say something totally irrelevant like, it's such a beautiful day outside. Kind words most always stop a cold-hearted person bc they were expecting an argument or retaliation of some sort. Try it, it works.
But don't compromise your boundaries and let people walk all over you. There IS a time to speak up if someone is violating a boundary.
Great teaching video ..
Navigating this dog eat dog world, in your job, in family, and relationships in general, can become confusing, like feeling gas lighted constantly..
War of women on women, the jealousy for whatever reason is one of the most difficult relationships Ive ever had, even at 63 yrs old...So many times Ive felt like Ive been back handed..Counting true friends on one hand is the most true cliche ever ..
Im still learning, being hurt, trusting less and less ..God is my refuge and if not for Him, Id have and be nothing..
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I agree with him , many people don’t like me , and I don’t care 🤷🏻♀️
First learn to love and trust yourself..then others will too
How do you use the gender icon, mine is not in my licannot find it tbh. Off topic but hope that is ok. Tnx.😊
Important social advice on calm emotional control to never sharing your private issues, goals with untrustworthy people.
Great👍🦾
Lucky for me people who don’t like me don’t hide it so it’s easy to know who to avoid
Good for you!😎
Oh I know when I'm disliked, I see them, I literally feel the disguised tension masquerading as being polite, I strategically deal with these types with professional distance, I definitely don't play into their schemes
Nice stoicing ✌️❤️
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Great! I distance from those types as well.
If you're a little more successful than the people around you, you'll often feel jealousy, it's very common. It used to confuse me, but now I understand. The 10 Commandments were right "thou shall not covet". Jealousy is a waste of time, you don't know what a person is going through or what they will go through.
I gone through so many times this kind of treatment. Got so hurt . I thought being good is spirituality practice but many hurt me .
Sorry, you need to learn to protect yourself from them henceforth and you will be good ❤️
A wiseman is kind thru understanding regardless of treatment. Most if not all people that dish out negative comments are in pain their selves.
I love how Stoicism helps cultivate resilience and inner peace. This video is a great introduction for anyone new to it
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I will step back, detach myself and live authentically. Thank you
True you cannot please everybody..Its hard for me not let them know whats the feeling of isolation due to hiding or keeping secrets specially regarding family matters.. Be it good or bad issue .a family member should never be disregarded specially when you dwell on the same space.
I usually tell them that Ive been treated worse by better people
Hmm... It is well!❤️❤️
I’ve always struggled with interpreting mixed signals from others, but this video gives such clear, practical advice. The reminder that their dislike is often about them, not us, is truly liberating. Which of these signs have you noticed most often in your life?
There are always some people that do not like us, and we do not like some one.
We have to live with it . . .
Sure!😊😊❤️
Very often I approach hidden dislike from others with the curiosity of a scientists - helping myself in a process.
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I cut jealous people out of my life. Their constant snarky comments and smugness got old. I don’t miss them at all and I feel so much better.
Dear Sir, I'm still learning and today I have taken the decision to take myself back and be for myself. I have never forced people to be with me, but today I dont need others, I have myself. Thank You Sir for Your teachings. Amen.
Start talking as I am talking, as if I'm not in the same room with them. Avoidance of eye contact. Will not show interest as to saying or thanking me for any gift I've ever given them. Yet they want me around for family get-togethers. Just days ago, the boyfriend spoke out about how quickly she can become violent. The next day he wasn't there but he had embarrassed her in my presence by that statement he made. She was so angered at him for saying that in my presence she couldn't wait to make an attack on me. She chimed in on a conversation thinking it had opened the door enough for her to stand up, bend her body halfway over herself and made a demeaning remark about me. I didn't utter a word nor did anyone else.
I've experienced ppl subtle behavior towards me b4!! I took the stoic way out b4 realizing that's what I was doing!!! Didn't know stoic principles existed. Once I recognize I step back and FOCUS on me. I always thought that if they value me as a person/friend, they wouldn't have the behavior or they'll feel comfortable to talk about whatever the situation is!! Also, how someone feels about me is not my busy!!!!..
If they knew me more.. they would have so many more reasons to dislike me. I am a practiced Stoic. Thank you Zeno!!!!
As stoic's we're unbreakable, undefeatable and that's who we are!❤️
First off, it’s not me, it’s them. I’m the realest person I know… I have been told, people either love me or hate me…. That’s fine… because either way that’s me, not going to be phony for anyone. I want to be kind and helping to all but I will not be taken advantage of either.
Walk softly and carry a big stick. ❤
Great! Keep stoicing❤️😊👍
I’ve often been told that having integrity is like waving a red flag in front of a (controlling) bull(y).🐂
Your insights are so on point! This video feels like a guide to recognizing hidden negativity without letting it affect your peace
I had a boss that was trying to get me to buy into a new project and I didn’t like the new direction. He got the coo involved to force me to join the effort. I quit the company and ended up in a much better situation.. in the exit interview he said “I didn’t expect this”
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This video beautifully highlights the subtle art of awareness in our interactions. Recognizing these signs not only helps us navigate relationships but also strengthens our emotional resilience. Thank you for sharing such timeless Stoic wisdom!
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.I really and truly agree with Him, many people are against me, because they are so Jealous of me, I just don't care..
Constant criticism, I feel is away of putting another person down. And can be very dangerous. Best to call it a day on this one
Rosa
I spent 5 years living like a hermit because my partner was a paranoid and schizoid. He was also angry and dismissive. I cared for him, but that is the last time I invest in someone who should be in a hospital.
I have a very influential presence at work. But I’m very subtle about it. I learn people and I’m genuine with them. I have silently built up a very powerful coalition of coworkers…. But I trust none of them…. Maybe one, maybe. I see people sink themselves constantly and If they only knew.
Thank you.I learned a lot.
Take me as I am or not!
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I would just remain silent.
Asperger’s effects ability to make eye contact, yet we are the most honest (when safe) and I personally am the best and most loyal friend. One had to hurt me really really really bad to betray them or end the relationship.
Every time I talk to myself, l always come back to the same conclusion, that I couldn’t talk to a more wiser man.
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Really good job! Keep it up!
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It doesn't need to be liked by people🔥
In 1989 I read this passage in a book :
I do not like thee doctor Fell.
The reason why I cannot tell.
But there is one thing I know full well.
I do not like thee doctor Fell.
Absolutely
Four months pregnant and there’s only one person I told on purpose. Only my brother was excited. I didn’t tell anyone else because I’ve miscarried enough to know they aren’t happy for me when pregnant and don’t cry with me when ….
I've found it to usually be self-loathing people that will dislike me for no reason that I've yet to give them
Just ignore them, they're not worth it.
This is so apropos thank you. ❤
Its so strange sometimes how people will talk about you behind your back but in your presence not talk to vou at all And they not even aware that you know they gossipped about you they should tell you directly if they were unhappy about what you did or said but it does not matter still show them love and kindness because you will answer alone to god oneday no one else will be with you so there opinions of you doesnt matter ❤❤❤
They only do that because they felt you're ahead of them, the stoic's made us understand that you can only be envied by someone you're doing better than. So keep going 👍👍❤️❤️
I love STOICISM ❤❤
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There’s something about that person I don’t like about myself,usually
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Yes, a good friend I had known for many years started refusing to look me in the eye. Like at all, we never acknowledged or discussed this but was blatantly apparent and super awkward. He’s a weird guy so I gave him benefit of the doubt. Turns out I’m not sure if he always hated me or something happened. It’s Strange because we were friends, just wasn’t a very good friend.
There's a skeleton in his closet I guess, just thread carefully!❤️❤️
The assumption is that all 'people' you encounter are basically on the same page and will act in a predictable manner to an outside stimulus - in this case-you.
Another assumption is that you have some kind of importance to them they even think about you between meetings - whether they actually like you or not when you do.
Mostly, they don't ever think about you.
Turns out, people are much more complicated and their reaction to you is more likely going to be influenced by what's going on in their head when you get together.
e.g. If they're behind in the rent or got a sick relative they may be less interactive with you - especially if you're bubbling with joy.
Also, there's the NPCs you encounter who have no soul who only want to suck your energy from you.
If you recognise this in a person why do you persist with a relationship?
An empty house is better than a bad tenant.
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@@denbo4023 wow tell like it is on your world .Hugs
Quite true.
I don't worry about if someone dislikes me. I am a good person. I do have 4 brothers 3 sisters. Learned how to get along at a young age.
People are full of shit! Take a dog,travel the world and don t give a damn about others! Problems solved
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How can I get someone to dislike me? Can I get someone to not like me and act in the way of this video? I have successfully got people who were in a position to get me kicked out of a place to resent me enough, on a personal level, and me and ONLY me, to get me kicked out. I did this by 1) spotting their envy and 2) nurturing both their envy and personal hatred of me. I have done this multiple times. I have also used other techniques to get others to dislike me and reject me, if possible, out in public
Insecurities in people who can't emotionally be responsible for their problems belittling other people goals. Emotional remarks upset people to not emotional reactions to emotional remarks on person emotional boundaries and limitation
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I work commercial construction 40 years I can tell who likes it and who don't side-step those who don't like you and keep going on you don't need them
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My manager does not like me. The only time I saw her smile at me was when I was putting on my coat and leaving for a one week holiday!
.. another incredible victory for you, enjoy.
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I walked away from a friend which I assisted to make it in life which was my dream for him. When transaction were won and realistic. He chance. Bought a car and when I was rejoicing with him. He asked me. how did you know I bought a car, who told me. Deny the transaction did not go. in which a friend already told me is a deal done.This question put me away after all pray and happiness for him to grow.
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Recognizing subtle signs of dislike is less about others and more about protecting your own peace. Self-awareness and emotional control are the real tools for navigating such situations with grace.
What someone thinks off me is none of my business 😊
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I know I need to stay for the whole thing but I just really need a list so I'm going to have to leave this
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Must gain the understanding as SOON as possible that if people know you'll be quick to cut a Bit!# off and you are a high value person they'll recoil their behavior or disappear and the last part is up to the distressing your your sheirs
To the descresion of your sheirs😊
Oh there are a bunch that don't like me
What a great feeling sweetheart ❤
If they don't speak up, it means they don't like you!
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I RESPECT MY BRAIN.
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Intuition eyes in the back of my head see everything
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I know. but it family. all I got.
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YEARS BEFORE IT HAPPENED !!
Quit giving a damn. You can’t please everyone
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You cant MAKE anyone like you or love you..thats their choice..not ours...you cant MAKE someine stay with you if they want to leave..thats their choice... putting up with indifference is your choice..
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If you need to watch a video on youtube to know this, you can’t read people lol i knew this when i was 10 years old. I know straight away if someone likes me or not and if they don’t like me i don’t carry on like a clown because i know that not everyone is going to like me just like i am not going to like everyone else i do not try to force anyone to like me i never let anyone get close to me i don’t need anyones validation if someone disrespects me by ignoring me i treat them the same way lol and subtle signs of disrespect speak louder than words lol if you refuse to look me in the eye or shake my hand i will start watching them and i won’t talk about anything in front of them and passive aggressiveness is hilarious i just subtlety let them know they are having a go at me and if they’re jealous of me i just tell them it would be nice if people who don’t work at all or as hard as me would stop expecting my tax money to fund their lifestyles lol i am very witty and i truly don’t care if i am excluded.
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My husband I left 37 years ago
Your message isn't clear! Please come again!
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What if? Who would that be in my life?
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I think about that all the time
That's why I leave them on my contact list
Yes,,,it's obvious...it's time to leave them alone,,not go back,,,and I liked 5hem So much....especially her,,she does not like me,,that's for sure
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Silence.
IM SAYING THIS AND TGIS AND YOU OVER HERE RUNING RETHORICS LIJE IM CRAZY !! SO NO ONE
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Ahh shit! No one ever liked me?! Oh well 😞
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Who cares! I’m still rich and still going to heaven! They need to talk to their own kind of people and not me. I don’t mind being left completely alone but they are dumb enough to think I care
Prefer it..dont have to deal with the drama..
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I've lost true understanding
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Hahaha....laugh at people..nothing more or less
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1/3RD RULE
1 OUT OF 3 HATE YOU,
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I don't think they know, this is a philosophy natured in greatness for over 2000 years ago. It's only few that sort this out most often in our modern world yet they always prevail.
Too much talk n high fashionable vocabulary n beating around the bush. It would be better if you kept the talks to the point. People can understand becos everyone has experienced these feelings at some time or other.
So what who cares
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