Wait..why are you destroying yourself to keep the cheating jerk husband who goes around drinking here there and abused you? All these stories of these men...sounds like they're all manufactured from same company 🙄 yet all these women going above and beyond to keep them. I'm lost
Same here! Hmong women can do better and get rid of these none quality men. Send them back to be fix since they didn't past quality inspection from the start.
Gosh, I don't understand why some women loves being in these toxic relationships. I don't think she's in any position to lecture other people. I'm tired of these toxic relationship stories. Is this all some Hmong women amount to be? How about empowering yourself to leave these cheaters, spend time investing in yourself, self love, and chasing after your dreams instead of lecturing other people and continuing putting up with these losers.
LMFAO unfortunately it is true in the Hmong community. These Hmong women only chased after d*cks, they're willing to forsake their own children for. Fighting over a worthless pice of sh*t...Sadly it's not like he's all that good looking, tall and handsome and have money and a great job. Disgusting
@@myprecious6751 I know right! Even if he's good looking and makes a million buck, why waste your life in this non-productive relationships. Plus telling other people to live like you do. Geesh!!
This goes deeper and back to the Hmong community/culture as a whole. Women still believe they are worthless without a man. They were taught at a young age that a man is the head of the family and without him they will not get any respect from the community, that having a toxic or abusive husband is better than being a poj nrauj. Until our community stops shaming poj nrauj, we will continue to have women putting up with abuse. I hope the new generation breaks these stigmas and have the courage to leave a toxic/abusive relationship.
@@heysoniher I'm with you there and the mentality has to change. I also don't understand the concept of having so many children or having more children with the mindset that the man will not be able to leave the relationship. Or using the kids as an excuse to endure these toxic relationships. I think it does more harm than good when your children grow up seeing all these bad examples. I will never understand that mindset.
All Hmong sisters..please remember this is American. Your husband has no more right than than you when it comes to cheating or having more than 1 partners.
Niam lau mesvaj lo yog niam ntshuabteevyaj kv nyiam mloog kj cov neej neeg heev li kv muaj txhua txoj kiag lawm os Tab si yog koj hai tau zoo dua qhov no nw yuav zoo heev Muab piv txwv li koosloos Yog koj tham thiab kaws tau zoo li kooloo cov yuav zoo mloog dua Thiab yuav mloog tau nkag siab zoo dua Yog koj ua li ntawv nw yuav zoo mloog dua Nyob li ntawm kv xwb
I feel sorry for the children. I could care less about this adult woman who chooses to drown herself with alcohol and make excuses to be with a cheater and abuser.
Waug cov niamtsev aww Txhob muab cov pojnrauj hu lub npe dab tuag tshaib, suav tuag tshaib, dab toj ntxas, tsam lwm Hnub ces nej tus txiv muab nej tso tseg mus ua pojnrauj thiab os.
Beer belly, no thanks! As a woman, it is hard to lose belly fat after having kids and after age 30. Drinking alcohol makes it worse. My father drank a lot but my mother refused to drink and now she’s 60 but still looking good. Ladies, if he’s going to cheat and leave, he will do it regardless. It’s not worth risking your health to stall him.
Hom neeg zoo li ko yog hom taub loj tsis yog ntim hlwb yog ntim quav ntim rwj xwb nawb vim li cas kuv hais li nav txiv quav cawv ces koj yuav ua nrog nws ces neb 2 niam txiv quav cawv ces yog neb taug ib txoj kev lawm yog txiv quav yeeb ces neb 2leeg yov quav yeeb yuav taug ib txog ke ua no es thiaj muaj cov niam txiv quav2 cawv muaj cov niam txiv quav2 yeeb yog coj li nej ko nawb pes tias koj yuav tsum ua thaj quav cawv thiaj yog koj hlub nws koj yuav tsum ua thaj quav yeeb es thiaj yog koj hlub nws nonononono nws tsis yog kuv nawb txoj kev quav cawv kuv tsis quav ntsej kuv hlub kuv tus kheej dua li kuv hlub nws nawb kuv tsis nrog2 nws taug ib txoj kev nawb zoo los nyob tsis zoo nrhiav dua kev taug nawb tau txiv quav qaib quav yeeb quav na quav mos lwj quav ntses quav kas cees quav casino tus txiv yog kuv tau nws hom no no yog ib yam nws taug lawm kuv yuav tsis lawv nws qab kiag nws mus tuag lawm los nws mus nws vim kuv hais tsis tau lawm nws los txog tsev lawm los nws los nws kuv tsis aub2.......!eb nws nawb yus yuav tau nrhiav dua tswv xwb as ntiaj teb no tsis yog yus ib leeg thiaj txawj ua pojnrauj as...txawm nws yuav zoo nraug cuag nraugzaj los yog nws coj hom no lawm ces kuv yeej tsis fwm nws lawm txawm pojnrauj yuav muab nws nqos ib tog zus tuaj los kuv tsis tau quav ntsej txog nws yeej tsis kav nws kiag li muaj ib hnub twg nws lub neej ces ciaj dev kiag xwb as lawv tsis k3 hlo nawb kuv tus kheej nawb ok
You guys are so toxic! Just get a divorce and go on your ways. You don’t need to stoop to his level to get revenge. The best revenge is living a good and successful life without him. You are doing it all wrong, sister.
The moment your husband says he's going to cheat on you that's the moment you should have divorced him and make him pay you alimony and child support! If he complains, tell him to feel like a king when he cheated on you. Why drink yourself away? You are just making him happy to cheat and does what he does. I can't call him a dog because dogs are loyal to their owners so he's just a straight up loser/abuser! You need to love yourself sister!
In the Hmong community, there are no rules that allow Hmong men to cheat and marry multiple wives. These rules are self proclaimed. It’s stupid and self demoralized. A good man only loves one woman, treats her with respect, cares for her, and be with her. He never breaks her heart…😩🤠!
Nothing empowering about this story, my sister. Love yourself, and move on. He doesn't deserve you, don't destroy yourself for a man like this. Drinking gets you no where. So many of these women are just wasting your lives for this trash ass man.
Amen! Drinking especially binge Drinking is a horrible habit. Trust me, once you suffer bad health from it, your loser husband will leave your @$$ in a heart beat. Save yourself woman!
Don’t you hear what she said, my husband loves me, he just cheats because i can’t do what he like? She’s out of her mind. Women like her ain’t gonna do your group.
Vim nej cov poj niam tsis ua li peb cov txiv neej nyiam li tiam 21 no ne. Hmoob yeej ib txwm duas cov ntxaig tias tau txiv tub sab ces yus ua tub sab no nev. Tau txiv nyiam ua li dev thiab npua saum txaj ces nrog ua xwb hos. Feem coob txiv neej yeej hlub nej tabsis nej tsis hlub nej cov txiv tiag2. Nej pheem hais tias tej kev sib hlub yog tsiaj xwb no ne. Science twb hais tias peb yog cov tsiaj uas ntse tshaj plaws no nev.
Kuv yog ib tug niam tsev, ko tus niam tsev ntawm ko nav koj txhob hais tias cov poj nrauj yog dab tuag tshaib dab nyob tom tej ntug kev tos koj tus txiv nawb. Tim koj niag txiv tsis hlub tsis fwm tsis nav thwm koj xwb koj niag txiv ua ua taws mus thab thab cov nkauj nrab xwb nawb.
American law prohibits from marrying 2 women or more, we are Hmong but we live in America so we are obliged to comply with the law of the country. everyone who has multiple wives, it's only because no one has reported them and they believe they have the right to do this
Koj niag txiv es nim zoo zoo nraug haub yaus,,,,, niag quav beers quav dev tham hluas nkauj saib tsis taus koj. Neeg zoo nkauj zoo nraug mas yuav tsum coj zoo coj ncajncees be faithful for you woman.
If your husband is planning on cheating on you, don't stoop to his level, just leave when you have the evidence that he has cheated on you. While he is cheating on you instead of drinking and going around talking to other men, come up with a plan on how you are going to beat him in court and get him for everything that is owed to you. You are no better than your husband.
Men always make excuses to f.. around no matter how good you are, or not. Sick of the going back and forth about revenging. Looks like you enjoy the drama.
Vim yog peb cov poj niam hmoob muab ruam dhau los yog siab zoo dhau thiaj li nteeg rau txoj niag kev dag no ua cas nej cov poj niam ho tsis nug rau cov txiv neej tias tus nom tus tswv twg tsim txoj cai tias txiv neej thiaj muaj cai ua hluas thiab thiaj muaj cai yuav niam yau Vim yog txiv neej tuaj them nej nqi tshoob thiab tuaj pe nej Kom nej nco ntsoov tias cov txiv neej uas tuaj yuav nej es them nqi taub hau rau nej es los yuav nws es nej tsis tau khwv them nej tus kheej ces tsuas yog li 30% xwb nad hos 70% ces nej yeej rov los khwv them nej tus kheej xwb txhob ruam2 uas yuav ntseeg cov lus dag ntawv thiab tseem muaj ib co txiv neej tuaj dag nej cov poj niam tias nws niam cem dej txiv neej lawm es Kom nej cov poj niam cia li cia nws Rog nej pw tag ces zoo thiab thiaj pab tau no cas nej cov poj niam yuav ruam2 txog qhov cov txiv neej liam2 ntawv dag tau nej os ntse mi ntsis thiab mas.
Her logic to get back at him doesn't make sense. Hurting yourself for someone to love you doesn't work. It makes them tired of you and gives them more reason to leave. He is in the wrong. His old logic via masogynistic views are wrong. But, you should have moved on from that toxic mindset. It is just selfish male bullshit. I am sure, you would have found someone more your tempo that shares your values.
Hmong culture say, do like your husband do. She right, F the cheating hmong men. More hmong women should live this way. Nothing wrong with what she's doing. Can't beat'em, join him. 😅
Toxic couples. There’s no way it’s gonna go anywhere being toxic like that, it’s just gonna ruin it more n worse than it is. They might as well leave each other before someone gets killed…smh 🤦🏻♀️
Moob women only do the "things" for other men but not for her husbands. Hlub & ua kev hlub tsi yog lam. Your bedroom is your private room and you can do anything (plus txwjnkawm tsi sis qhas).
Ua cas kuv tus yeej tsis nyiam poj niam li no maj kuv kuj xav paub thiab vim kuv mloog niam ntsuab teev cov neej neeg mas poj niam los hais tias lawv cov txiv nyiam poj niam ho ib co txiv neej hais tias lawv nyiam 22 poj nim no xyov dag los tiag vim kuv tus hais tias nws tsis nyiam poj niam no ua rau kuv tsis nkag siab li
Wtf is wrong with these ruam ruam Hmong tradition way of marrying many wives for the husband but the wife have no right to do it back? Ruam dhau tamsim no vajhuam sibluag. Nws ua ces u can either leave or pay it back with his own medicine.
Peb cov niam tsev hmoob mas ruam Tshaj ruam es huas nyiaj huas hauj lwm huas ub huas no tsis taug qab tus txiv ces zoo li no ntag mas peb cov txiv tus twg ua ua hluas yeej meem raws yerj meem haus dej hauv cawv li nws thiaj li haum os tau txiv liam ces zoo li zaj dab neeg ntag mas
No, wrong! Hmong men does not have the right to 2 wives! If so, every woman should have the same equal right too! Stop using excuses for your son/father to get second wife!
These hmong women needs to wake up. They think winning over a freaken cheating man is the meaning of life. In a relationship, it's not about winning. It's about making each other happy. Besides why would still want him after he's been hoeing around. I just don't get these hmong women.
Ib nkawm niam txiv twg es tus txiv pheej tig ua hluas thiab tus niam tseem nyob taus nrog yog cov yug hauv Laos thiab Thailand tuaj nkaus xwb. Nowadays mas tej rules of law ntawm Hmoob rau cov hluas tiam no tsis apply rau leej twg lawm vim poj niam thiab txiv neej muaj kev kawm txawj ntse tib yam nkaus. Tsis tas li los tus niam tseem khwv tau income ntau dua tus txiv lawm.
Stop chasing these worthless Hmong men. Instead think smart. Take all the money open a separate account and put everything in that account where he has no access. Go and do what makes you happy. Leave him to his and do you.
Koj tus txiv ko ruam tiag tiag, nyob lub teb America no poj niam muaj nqis tshaj peb cov txiv neej nawb, kom paub tias yam tej tsiaj mos lwj luag yeej kom tua tus txiv xwb.
Once a husband cheats, better off divorcing him right away!!! Cheater will always be a cheater!!! Have respect, love, take care, and put yourself before your husband or anyone else!!! If he starts to cheat he is no longer love and respect you! Why should you be so stressful for a cheating husband?!! Don't be stupid!!! It is going to cost you to look older faster than him ladies!!!! Just think if you were to cheat just like him do you think he is going to stay and be like you sister!!!! Be smart and divorce an @$$!!! Every women like you sister that are being afraid to be divorcee have no respective and love for yourself no wonder men look down on us women and make us look older than them. Too much stress the older you are!!!
They are not kidding when they say “Hmong me are allowed to marry multiple wives” ladies. It’s obviously it’s true bc it happens, there’s no debating that. What the mother in law said is also true. That’s what they do to keep the women in check. If that’s the religion you choose to believe in, believe it all the way!
@@heysoniher another person trying to lie to themselves. What happens when the bride is brought home? Chicken thing happens right? what does that represent? Shes officially enters the grooms family dab right? Shes welcomed in with open arms and doesn’t offend the dab whatsoever so that means ITS ALLOWED. That means when she dies, they will go into the same afterlife/path as the groom. When you cross the line of what happens to you in the afterlife, you’re bringing in religion rather you like it or not.
@@amazinggrace8136 What does the chicken thing have to do with being a polygamist? Where in the Hmong religion did it state that men can marry multiple wives? No one is trying to lie to themselves. You are grasping at straws trying to make a point by bringing in religion to a polygamy life style.
@@heysoniher it’s allowed bc THEY LITERALLY MARRY IN THE OTHER WIVES IN! what more do you need lol. Maybe the chicken thing shouldn’t be done if they already have a wife? Hey there’s an idea 😂 you asked where in the religion does it say men can marry multiple wives? There is your issue, where does it say they cannot? Nowhere! Their gods don’t have any problems with it why do you?
@@amazinggrace8136 You are confused with what is culturally acceptable and what is religion. The Hmong religion has no god or gods so you obviously don't know what you are talking about.
Thaum Lub Hauv paus Yog Tim koj ne, koj Yuav Tau yoog NWS Tsis Txhob mus txhawjj2 Txog Lub neej Hauv Vaj Hauv tsev, Txiv neej Twb Tsis nyiam COV poj Niam ua Niam tsev os, sij hawm ua si Yuav Tau ua si Lub sij hawm ua Niam tsev Mam ua Yeej tsis Tau lig li mog COV mi Niam tsev aw 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Woman, you're destroying yourself. Drinking is not the answer to your problems.
Wait..why are you destroying yourself to keep the cheating jerk husband who goes around drinking here there and abused you? All these stories of these men...sounds like they're all manufactured from same company 🙄 yet all these women going above and beyond to keep them. I'm lost
Same here! Hmong women can do better and get rid of these none quality men. Send them back to be fix since they didn't past quality inspection from the start.
Gosh, I don't understand why some women loves being in these toxic relationships. I don't think she's in any position to lecture other people. I'm tired of these toxic relationship stories. Is this all some Hmong women amount to be? How about empowering yourself to leave these cheaters, spend time investing in yourself, self love, and chasing after your dreams instead of lecturing other people and continuing putting up with these losers.
LMFAO unfortunately it is true in the Hmong community. These Hmong women only chased after d*cks, they're willing to forsake their own children for. Fighting over a worthless pice of sh*t...Sadly it's not like he's all that good looking, tall and handsome and have money and a great job. Disgusting
@@myprecious6751 I know right! Even if he's good looking and makes a million buck, why waste your life in this non-productive relationships. Plus telling other people to live like you do. Geesh!!
Yas 👏
This goes deeper and back to the Hmong community/culture as a whole. Women still believe they are worthless without a man. They were taught at a young age that a man is the head of the family and without him they will not get any respect from the community, that having a toxic or abusive husband is better than being a poj nrauj. Until our community stops shaming poj nrauj, we will continue to have women putting up with abuse. I hope the new generation breaks these stigmas and have the courage to leave a toxic/abusive relationship.
@@heysoniher I'm with you there and the mentality has to change. I also don't understand the concept of having so many children or having more children with the mindset that the man will not be able to leave the relationship. Or using the kids as an excuse to endure these toxic relationships. I think it does more harm than good when your children grow up seeing all these bad examples. I will never understand that mindset.
If u cant beat them, join them. It works like magic.
This is not 1975. Two can play the SAME game!
Temptation is everywhere stay home and stay safe.
Muaj li thiab
Dhuav txiv neej hmoob txoj kev ua El cheater dhau lawm os. Txiv neej yeej tsis sawm zoo.
All Hmong sisters..please remember this is American. Your husband has no more right than than you when it comes to cheating or having more than 1 partners.
Hoyo txog txij poj nrauj thab nej cov txiv los nej cov txiv yeej mus thab2 lawv thiab na. Cov txiv neej txim txiaj muaj nyiaj yog nws tsis mus thab poj nrauj yeej tsis muaj leej twg thab tau nws na.
Niam lau mesvaj lo yog niam ntshuabteevyaj kv nyiam mloog kj cov neej neeg heev li kv muaj txhua txoj kiag lawm os
Tab si yog koj hai tau zoo dua qhov no nw yuav zoo heev
Muab piv txwv li koosloos
Yog koj tham thiab kaws tau zoo li kooloo cov yuav zoo mloog dua
Thiab yuav mloog tau nkag siab zoo dua
Yog koj ua li ntawv nw yuav zoo mloog dua
Nyob li ntawm kv xwb
Some men are like that but not all.
Tig Los hlub koj tus kheej es Txhob care ib tug txiv zoo li no mas. Txiv neej tshuav coob os
These women are the reason why them men can be like that. Them women allow.
Nej yuam kev lawm. Nej xav tias dej caw lom zem heev tabsis dej caw yuav txo nej txoj sia yooj yim xwb os mog😊
I feel sorry for the children. I could care less about this adult woman who chooses to drown herself with alcohol and make excuses to be with a cheater and abuser.
Waug cov niamtsev aww Txhob muab cov pojnrauj hu lub npe dab tuag tshaib, suav tuag tshaib, dab toj ntxas, tsam lwm Hnub ces nej tus txiv muab nej tso tseg mus ua pojnrauj thiab os.
Kuv xav li koj thiab. Sawvdaws yog tibneeg ib yam xwb. Txhob hais lus saib tsis taus lwm tus. Yus tus txiv mus tham lawv thiaj tham tau xwb.
koj txhob hai tias poj nrauj tsaw txiv zoo nraug thiab muaj nyiaj koj twb tsaw koj thiaj xaiv tu txiv zoo li ko koj thiaj xaiv tus zoo nrauj thiab muaj nyiaj
Yus los yus tsev nws hu los yus mam mus tos nws
Beer belly, no thanks! As a woman, it is hard to lose belly fat after having kids and after age 30. Drinking alcohol makes it worse. My father drank a lot but my mother refused to drink and now she’s 60 but still looking good. Ladies, if he’s going to cheat and leave, he will do it regardless. It’s not worth risking your health to stall him.
This “if you can’t beat him then join him” mentality is going to cost her greatly at the end.
She’s going to pay more higher prices later. What she paid wasn’t enough.
Just wait until she’s ill and he’s gone with the younger better looking chic
That's what my x say too.
If you can’t beat them join them 😅
So you can get liver failure with him? No thanks!
Sister, yog koj xwb koj thiaj tseem nyob. To me, it doesn't matter men or women. Peb sawv daws muaj siab muaj ntsws tib yam ces mob siab ib yam xwb.
Hom neeg zoo li ko yog hom taub loj tsis yog ntim hlwb yog ntim quav ntim rwj xwb nawb vim li cas kuv hais li nav txiv quav cawv ces koj yuav ua nrog nws ces neb 2 niam txiv quav cawv ces yog neb taug ib txoj kev lawm yog txiv quav yeeb ces neb 2leeg yov quav yeeb yuav taug ib txog ke ua no es thiaj muaj cov niam txiv quav2 cawv muaj cov niam txiv quav2 yeeb yog coj li nej ko nawb pes tias koj yuav tsum ua thaj quav cawv thiaj yog koj hlub nws koj yuav tsum ua thaj quav yeeb es thiaj yog koj hlub nws nonononono nws tsis yog kuv nawb txoj kev quav cawv kuv tsis quav ntsej kuv hlub kuv tus kheej dua li kuv hlub nws nawb kuv tsis nrog2 nws taug ib txoj kev nawb zoo los nyob tsis zoo nrhiav dua kev taug nawb tau txiv quav qaib quav yeeb quav na quav mos lwj quav ntses quav kas cees quav casino tus txiv yog kuv tau nws hom no no yog ib yam nws taug lawm kuv yuav tsis lawv nws qab kiag nws mus tuag lawm los nws mus nws vim kuv hais tsis tau lawm nws los txog tsev lawm los nws los nws kuv tsis aub2.......!eb nws nawb yus yuav tau nrhiav dua tswv xwb as ntiaj teb no tsis yog yus ib leeg thiaj txawj ua pojnrauj as...txawm nws yuav zoo nraug cuag nraugzaj los yog nws coj hom no lawm ces kuv yeej tsis fwm nws lawm txawm pojnrauj yuav muab nws nqos ib tog zus tuaj los kuv tsis tau quav ntsej txog nws yeej tsis kav nws kiag li muaj ib hnub twg nws lub neej ces ciaj dev kiag xwb as lawv tsis k3 hlo nawb kuv tus kheej nawb ok
All the names calling in this story so accurate LOL
You guys are so toxic! Just get a divorce and go on your ways. You don’t need to stoop to his level to get revenge. The best revenge is living a good and successful life without him. You are doing it all wrong, sister.
I agree
It is ok. Let her. She want him to have a piece of his own meds. Let her. Let him know how she feel.
txiv neej los yeej tsis muaj cai os vim nws siab hlob xwb kuv niam pog los tsa tsa tub cai ib yam li koj niam pog thiab tiag
U can’t control anyone to love u please love ur self life too short 😢
The moment your husband says he's going to cheat on you that's the moment you should have divorced him and make him pay you alimony and child support! If he complains, tell him to feel like a king when he cheated on you. Why drink yourself away? You are just making him happy to cheat and does what he does. I can't call him a dog because dogs are loyal to their owners so he's just a straight up loser/abuser! You need to love yourself sister!
Zoo siab 6 cov dab neeg
In the Hmong community, there are no rules that allow Hmong men to cheat and marry multiple wives. These rules are self proclaimed. It’s stupid and self demoralized.
A good man only loves one woman, treats her with respect, cares for her, and be with her. He never breaks her heart…😩🤠!
Yes! Agrees! 👏
Exactly 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yog kawg!
Thov qhuas tus nuam tsev no. Cov laus tias hais tsis taus ces yuav tuag. Hais tsis mloog ces join kiag. Hehe
Tus txiv neej ko yog Dab Ntxwg nyoog xwb tsis yog txiv neej Hos yog Txiv Dab Ntxwg nyoog xwb siab thiaj li phem tshaj plaws li ko rau koj
But, like a brake pad. It can be replace.
Ma viv ncaus aw koj ma hais yog tshaj plaw lawm os
Nothing empowering about this story, my sister. Love yourself, and move on. He doesn't deserve you, don't destroy yourself for a man like this. Drinking gets you no where. So many of these women are just wasting your lives for this trash ass man.
Amen! Drinking especially binge Drinking is a horrible habit. Trust me, once you suffer bad health from it, your loser husband will leave your @$$ in a heart beat. Save yourself woman!
I find pretty interesting how couples in these kind of toxic relationships comes forward after one is sick of the other. 🤷♀️
That i allowed him to cheat on me.
I have a monthly meeting to empower women and self worth and positive support group. I really would love to have these Hmong women attend my group...
Can you please connect with me? I would love to have my daughters and nieces attend😍
Location?
Don’t you hear what she said, my husband loves me, he just cheats because i can’t do what he like?
She’s out of her mind. Women like her ain’t gonna do your group.
@edenvue7113 you'll be welcome it's free
cov niag txiv neej tsw sawm zoo yuav zaj kom xwb yom HA HA!!!
If your spouse is going to cheat leave THEM. I will not tolerate and stay. I have money and I do not need him.
Nws ntaus ces rho nws khoom xwb.
Vim nej cov poj niam tsis ua li peb cov txiv neej nyiam li tiam 21 no ne. Hmoob yeej ib txwm duas cov ntxaig tias tau txiv tub sab ces yus ua tub sab no nev. Tau txiv nyiam ua li dev thiab npua saum txaj ces nrog ua xwb hos. Feem coob txiv neej yeej hlub nej tabsis nej tsis hlub nej cov txiv tiag2. Nej pheem hais tias tej kev sib hlub yog tsiaj xwb no ne. Science twb hais tias peb yog cov tsiaj uas ntse tshaj plaws no nev.
Xu xu siab kawg li os tus niam qhuav xyaum ntshai yuav ua tau txhav txhav kawg li ov.
Easier said than done. Never judge.
Txiv yuav tau 10 tus. Quas puj tsuas tau tuab tug. Koj paub tsawg. Niam pog hais thaj neeb nqis hiav hos.
Kuv yog ib tug niam tsev, ko tus niam tsev ntawm ko nav koj txhob hais tias cov poj nrauj yog dab tuag tshaib dab nyob tom tej ntug kev tos koj tus txiv nawb. Tim koj niag txiv tsis hlub tsis fwm tsis nav thwm koj xwb koj niag txiv ua ua taws mus thab thab cov nkauj nrab xwb nawb.
To this lady, is your husband a king? Billionaire?
Koj kuj ntse lawm thiab mas, cov pojniam ruam li koj niam pog lawv ces kawg zaum tsaws quaj ua qhev nkag kaws lawm xwb.
Hehe txiv neej ces phim ua li no xwb os.
American law prohibits from marrying 2 women or more, we are Hmong but we live in America so we are obliged to comply with the law of the country. everyone who has multiple wives, it's only because no one has reported them and they believe they have the right to do this
First?!
Yuav tau nyaum li koj hai no thiab naw
Tus niam tsev koj zaj neej neeg no zoo li neb 2 niam txiv yog neeg ruam xwb os cov neeg zoo thiab xav ua lub neej tiag tiag lawv tsis coj li neb nawb mog
Cov txiv quav cawv tsis hais nej cov poj xwb kuv los yeej dhuav
Omg girl ur so confused.
Koj niag txiv es nim zoo zoo nraug haub yaus,,,,, niag quav beers quav dev tham hluas nkauj saib tsis taus koj. Neeg zoo nkauj zoo nraug mas yuav tsum coj zoo coj ncajncees be faithful for you woman.
Sister I understand you and agree. But if it gets bad drop his behind.
If your husband is planning on cheating on you, don't stoop to his level, just leave when you have the evidence that he has cheated on you. While he is cheating on you instead of drinking and going around talking to other men, come up with a plan on how you are going to beat him in court and get him for everything that is owed to you. You are no better than your husband.
Men always make excuses to f.. around no matter how good you are, or not. Sick of the going back and forth about revenging. Looks like you enjoy the drama.
This is America, not Laos. Why do some women go through these types of abuse? Please love yourselves 1st.
Hi
Kuv ce kawg yuav xyaum koj lub no xwb lau zaj no ma zoo ib lub hom phiaj heev
Yog kawg
That’s why we marry outside the Hmong race..
Vim yog peb cov poj niam hmoob muab ruam dhau los yog siab zoo dhau thiaj li nteeg rau txoj niag kev dag no ua cas nej cov poj niam ho tsis nug rau cov txiv neej tias tus nom tus tswv twg tsim txoj cai tias txiv neej thiaj muaj cai ua hluas thiab thiaj muaj cai yuav niam yau Vim yog txiv neej tuaj them nej nqi tshoob thiab tuaj pe nej Kom nej nco ntsoov tias cov txiv neej uas tuaj yuav nej es them nqi taub hau rau nej es los yuav nws es nej tsis tau khwv them nej tus kheej ces tsuas yog li 30% xwb nad hos 70% ces nej yeej rov los khwv them nej tus kheej xwb txhob ruam2 uas yuav ntseeg cov lus dag ntawv thiab tseem muaj ib co txiv neej tuaj dag nej cov poj niam tias nws niam cem dej txiv neej lawm es Kom nej cov poj niam cia li cia nws Rog nej pw tag ces zoo thiab thiaj pab tau no cas nej cov poj niam yuav ruam2 txog qhov cov txiv neej liam2 ntawv dag tau nej os ntse mi ntsis thiab mas.
Koj hais Yog lus 💯 sister!!
Her logic to get back at him doesn't make sense. Hurting yourself for someone to love you doesn't work. It makes them tired of you and gives them more reason to leave.
He is in the wrong. His old logic via masogynistic views are wrong.
But, you should have moved on from that toxic mindset. It is just selfish male bullshit.
I am sure, you would have found someone more your tempo that shares your values.
Do not take any advice from this toxic story.
Sis im the same like you. I can't win i join them. But my hubby didnt turn out cheating on me.
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Cov niag ntsej muag txiv tshob cuab quav dev qias neeg khib nyiab ntawd tsuas zoo ntawm yus txhais tes xwb o..yog phem dhau lawm txhob khuv xim thiab ma..
Hmong culture say, do like your husband do. She right, F the cheating hmong men. More hmong women should live this way. Nothing wrong with what she's doing. Can't beat'em, join him. 😅
You lowered yourself to meet your husband. He was already beneath you.
Toxic couples. There’s no way it’s gonna go anywhere being toxic like that, it’s just gonna ruin it more n worse than it is. They might as well leave each other before someone gets killed…smh 🤦🏻♀️
Moob women only do the "things" for other men but not for her husbands. Hlub & ua kev hlub tsi yog lam. Your bedroom is your private room and you can do anything (plus txwjnkawm tsi sis qhas).
Haha dab toj ntxas.
Ua cas kuv tus yeej tsis nyiam poj niam li no maj kuv kuj xav paub thiab vim kuv mloog niam ntsuab teev cov neej neeg mas poj niam los hais tias lawv cov txiv nyiam poj niam ho ib co txiv neej hais tias lawv nyiam 22 poj nim no xyov dag los tiag vim kuv tus hais tias nws tsis nyiam poj niam no ua rau kuv tsis nkag siab li
Wtf is wrong with these ruam ruam Hmong tradition way of marrying many wives for the husband but the wife have no right to do it back? Ruam dhau tamsim no vajhuam sibluag. Nws ua ces u can either leave or pay it back with his own medicine.
Peb cov niam tsev hmoob mas ruam
Tshaj ruam es huas nyiaj huas hauj lwm huas ub huas no tsis taug qab tus txiv ces zoo li no ntag mas peb cov txiv tus twg ua ua hluas yeej meem raws yerj meem haus dej hauv cawv li nws thiaj li haum os tau txiv liam ces zoo li zaj dab neeg ntag mas
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No, wrong! Hmong men does not have the right to 2 wives! If so, every woman should have the same equal right too! Stop using excuses for your son/father to get second wife!
These hmong women needs to wake up. They think winning over a freaken cheating man is the meaning of life. In a relationship, it's not about winning. It's about making each other happy. Besides why would still want him after he's been hoeing around. I just don't get these hmong women.
Koj tu txiv yog dev thiab npuas txhoj cais xwb .
Hmoob tsis muaj ib tsab cais hais tias txiv neej muaj cais hmoob tsis muaj ib phaus ntawv los qhias tiaj teb tias txiv neej hmoob muaj cais uas dev rau ub rau nos yog leej twg muaj phaus ntawv nos nos ces kuv xav tau .
Sister no matter how angry you are. You need to stop with the names calling. Pog nraug, soon you will be joining.
Cov txiv dev cheat tsis tas yuav lawm os sister aw. Qias neeg dhau lawm. Nws twb muab nws lub cev qhov sacred tshaj plaws rau yus coj mus ua tsuas tag lawm.
Sister please leave him before one of yall end up dead. I say this bc you said you both always arguing and insulting each other.
Txawj piav tiag tiag
Ib nkawm niam txiv twg es tus txiv pheej tig ua hluas thiab tus niam tseem nyob taus nrog yog cov yug hauv Laos thiab Thailand tuaj nkaus xwb. Nowadays mas tej rules of law ntawm Hmoob rau cov hluas tiam no tsis apply rau leej twg lawm vim poj niam thiab txiv neej muaj kev kawm txawj ntse tib yam nkaus. Tsis tas li los tus niam tseem khwv tau income ntau dua tus txiv lawm.
Sorry, I dislike this kind of lifestyle...Life of Nonsense people...SMH
Are all the Hmong people age 40+ that ratchet nowadays? 😂
Lol neb ces sib phim kiag xwb os tsis muaj ib tug zoo dua ib tug li os
Niag poj ruam cas koj yuav mus ruam cuag niag maum npua ma lov ? koj kuj nug kom nws muab tau nws txoj cai haistias txiv neej muaj cai tham tau hluas nkauj thiab yuav tau niam yau los rau koj saib ?
2) leej twg tsis tau yuam kom nws tuaj pe niam pe txiv nws txaus nws siab pe.
3) nug nws seb lub tebchaws uas peb nyob no yog tebchaws dabtsi ? hmoob twb haistias mus txog luag ntuj yuav tau yoog raws luag txuj, mus txog luag teb lawm yuav tau siv luag txoj cai.
Stop chasing these worthless Hmong men. Instead think smart. Take all the money open a separate account and put everything in that account where he has no access. Go and do what makes you happy. Leave him to his and do you.
Es yog cov pojniam liam es tus txiv ho cov tus ne, es cov pojniam hos ua li cas?
Koj tus txiv ko ruam tiag tiag, nyob lub teb America no poj niam muaj nqis tshaj peb cov txiv neej nawb, kom paub tias yam tej tsiaj mos lwj luag yeej kom tua tus txiv xwb.
tu me niam tsev aw nej ma haib tiag2 thiab ua tau lom zem kawg nkau li lau 👍👍👍👍
Once a husband cheats, better off divorcing him right away!!! Cheater will always be a cheater!!! Have respect, love, take care, and put yourself before your husband or anyone else!!! If he starts to cheat he is no longer love and respect you! Why should you be so stressful for a cheating husband?!! Don't be stupid!!! It is going to cost you to look older faster than him ladies!!!! Just think if you were to cheat just like him do you think he is going to stay and be like you sister!!!! Be smart and divorce an @$$!!! Every women like you sister that are being afraid to be divorcee have no respective and love for yourself no wonder men look down on us women and make us look older than them. Too much stress the older you are!!!
They are not kidding when they say “Hmong me are allowed to marry multiple wives” ladies. It’s obviously it’s true bc it happens, there’s no debating that. What the mother in law said is also true. That’s what they do to keep the women in check. If that’s the religion you choose to believe in, believe it all the way!
Marrying multiple wives is not a religious thing, but a cultural and man made rule to favor men. Religion has nothing to do with it.
@@heysoniher another person trying to lie to themselves. What happens when the bride is brought home? Chicken thing happens right? what does that represent? Shes officially enters the grooms family dab right? Shes welcomed in with open arms and doesn’t offend the dab whatsoever so that means ITS ALLOWED. That means when she dies, they will go into the same afterlife/path as the groom. When you cross the line of what happens to you in the afterlife, you’re bringing in religion rather you like it or not.
@@amazinggrace8136 What does the chicken thing have to do with being a polygamist? Where in the Hmong religion did it state that men can marry multiple wives? No one is trying to lie to themselves. You are grasping at straws trying to make a point by bringing in religion to a polygamy life style.
@@heysoniher it’s allowed bc THEY LITERALLY MARRY IN THE OTHER WIVES IN! what more do you need lol. Maybe the chicken thing shouldn’t be done if they already have a wife? Hey there’s an idea 😂 you asked where in the religion does it say men can marry multiple wives? There is your issue, where does it say they cannot? Nowhere! Their gods don’t have any problems with it why do you?
@@amazinggrace8136 You are confused with what is culturally acceptable and what is religion. The Hmong religion has no god or gods so you obviously don't know what you are talking about.
Thaum Lub Hauv paus Yog Tim koj ne, koj Yuav Tau yoog NWS Tsis Txhob mus txhawjj2 Txog Lub neej Hauv Vaj Hauv tsev, Txiv neej Twb Tsis nyiam COV poj Niam ua Niam tsev os, sij hawm ua si Yuav Tau ua si Lub sij hawm ua Niam tsev Mam ua Yeej tsis Tau lig li mog COV mi Niam tsev aw 🙏🙏🙏🙏