To create a environment where everyone alive can be themselves with no filter. Everyone is equal and open to differences, working towards a better future together. Not a Utopia, A human world of understanding and awareness.
I can't tell you how happy I am to have found your channel. And I'm just absorbing it all and waiting for the blow up. You're going to have the top INFJ channel on TH-cam, not sure if you know that already lol. But it's coming and I'm here for it! Thanks so much. I can't tell you how empowered I feel now! 💜
Im just now getting the understanding of these 4 function stacks and how they make each personality different. This has been a huge eye opener for me. Now i understand why i like "outgoing" men, ie Se. Im always pouring my Ni into what they're doing. Problem is bc they are Se dominant they dont gv a flip abt me. Then there are Ni guys who hv ideas for me but lack Se to contribute. Ugh....so im hvg to learn how to motivate myself rather than looking to others for stimulation or motivation. I thought it wld be easy bc ive done so much in the past, but i realize i must hv been ard a lot of Se's who--again--were not real friends, but were stimulating enough in my environment and active in their businesses to keep me going. I also realize that bc of my Ni i stood out from them and may hv bern intimidating--stirring up unwanted competition and covert "hate". Now ive cut them out of my life.... *crickets* But im slowly preparing to move again. I love you, Wenzes❤
Hi Wenzes, Thank you for all this priceless advice. It really feels like you're cracking the code of my INFJ brain. I've been watching your videos for a few months and now I'm taking the time to make a youtube channel so I can comment and show you my thanks.
Thank you so much for your insight and your gentle and wise approach. I have trouble finding motivation to do household chores. If I’m not in the public eye, or doing something for somebody, I find it extremely challenging to take responsibility for my personal life and it weighs me down emotionally and psychologically; I feel guilty and shameful. I have this all or nothing mentality so at times, I go all out and try to do everything the same day and push myself to perfection, only to realize that I’m not actually able to fit everything into one day and secondly, I can’t do it perfectly enough. I give up and don’t do anything for days or even weeks and get stuck in this cycle. If you have any tips, please share. I realize where I need to be but I don’t know how to get there. Mainstream TH-camrs’ advice, and articles don’t help as they don’t reach deep enough to address core issues. As an INFJ, I feel like chores and household work are meaningless pursuits. Although I can afford to have a helper do the work, I don’t want to do it because I understand that I need to be responsible for myself first and if and only if I can’t do it (not because I don’t want to), I will to resort to that option. I think it has something to do with childhood too, as my mother used to work so hard and always complain about being the “servant” in the house. I would constantly feel bad because she would guilt trip me into doing things and often times, I would do it even when I didn’t feel like to make her stop complaining. Responsibilities at home seemed like obligations and felt restrictive and suffocating. I hated it. I also feel guilty about having my own place since I moved out and feel undeserving of all the good things I have in my life. And somewhere in that mix, is the fear of losing everything, because I feel like I’m a fake (INFJ chameleon effect). On the bright side, I am growing slowly everyday. It has been only two weeks since I found out that I’m an INFJ. It’s great to know I’m not the only one and to see you living your best life, gives me hope and I feel that I can also get there, with effort and by being patient with myself.
Needed this today! ❤️ I suffered greatly in college due to big dreams/little action and constant NI-TI loops. After a couple years of creative hibernation I'm finally gathering the courage to look back at my previous visions, and I feel ready to take realistic steps towards those goals. Throughout all of this, part of me has known that those dreams would never to come to fruition without some type of internal SE work being done. This video helps confirm that, and I look forward to (enjoyably) exercising those weaker parts of my personality. Thanks for the push, Wenzes! 😊
As an INFJ, we value our freedom so much that when someone steal our hearts, we become angelically demonic. And we hate the person we are in love with...even if we know that they are a mistake. Taylor Shift really uses her creative art to express this... what a Barnum Effect.
I appreciate the titles you have on this video. For sure I'll be reviewing it - probably take notes! ✍ Your presentation is so practical on how to make this work! 🙂👍
i so need to hear this. i have been dealing with heart ache from an old crash/first love that popped back up in my life. thank you so much. your videos have been so helpful since my divorce. HUG
Thank you very much Wenzes. Every second of this video is very priceless for me. Whatever you said is all correct. We can stick to a vision more than other personality types, but we face difficulty in facing the current reality. I am very grateful to you for this amazing enlightment🙏🙏🙌😊
I've been watching your videos for years. I've recently rediscovered your channel again through my effort of making personal progress as an infj. I have to say you have the best infj videos out there, still! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I finally understand my function stack interaction in order to achieve success in my life. Makes soooo much sense now! I've also read The big leap as per your recommendation via another video, and wow what a great way to approach life by actively applying focus and feeling in the best way 🙌
don't feel guilty. because there is a hard point in reality and the clear mind escape from your own countries burden really can help lclear the mind. but finding you is a blessing enough to give second chance in my own country. so you need not to feel guilt. But relate on the matters. you can say situation has pulled things together better then tearing them apart for some people
You have such down-to-earth advice. I decided to watch this one because it's something that's big for me. The vision is as necessary as the action in order to create what we want. I think I might actually be an INTJ, not an INFJ, but it applies the same to pretty much everyone.
don't worry I am aware to a point that google and such defines the means of finding cloned information and desires unquie threads of input to find individual conversation threads ... its a series of challenges.. the data mining. it's a figment of the normal. over cut and past. sometimes even grammar errors
Cool I actually have experienced this stuff for the past 2 years at my work and I am almost there! Thanks for realizing it because I didn’t think about this aspect.
according to data links. the score board goes to secuss rate like hash tags for information. the analytics score on higher ends for jobs and zones in cretin ways to access points or was at one previous point before AI was made and google to connect resources
Hi Wenzes! Came across your channel just two days ago and I'm so encouraged by your videos especially this one. :-) I've read materials that talk about tertiary temptation and inferior grip as if one can never really make good use of the tertiary and inferior functions. I just find this refreshing and empowering compared to how INFJ's are usually described. I have a question though. What do you think are the chances that your videos will also resonate to other NF's? I ask that because I've been questioning over the past few weeks if I'm an INFJ or not. I seem to be part-INFJ and part-INFP, which technically is impossible. =)) I took the Socionics test after watching your other video (INFJ vs INFP) and I came out INFj. When I look at MBTI functions, however, I can still relate more to being an INFJ. LOL. And I find your videos are very helpful.
Oh Wenzes, you are the best! This is what I was about to come to lately... and you nailed it so well and so exactly!!! I needed to hear that, to understand and sort myself out!!! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! 🙏
I wanted to be an architect when I was young. But i'm not that good in maths. I really tried, I studied and tried even to learn more maths, until after 3 years I finaly understood that i'm not going to succeed.
I really appreciate your content. May I ask at what point you made the jump from corporate to this? I'm in private equity, decent income, and it's hard for me to believe that I can completely replace my current salary with a part time passion side project
Actually the moment I switch I was barely making any money through my side hustle yet (that was two years ago after I had the channel for 4). But I had enough money saved up to get by for 10months if I wouldn’t make any money. It took a while before I broke even but now it‘s definitely paying off 😊...before doing this full time I wasn‘t able to put enough energy into this project to make it highly profitable
@@Wenzes I love this. I always wondered how other people made the leap but no one really talks about the "financials" of making the leap. I think that would be a video we'd all enjoy. Meaning, what did the first month look like after you made the leap? Cash runway? How many videos did up have up already? How many services were you offering? THANK YOU! Your videos are great. I have about 2 years saved up now, so... maybe I can do it too haha
well. that is the part that gets interesting on an honest high school education. however odd. I want to keep that low grade score and prove some ground that academic system is not always fruitful
well evolution can only help with so much. at least start with a believable world. not that things didn't seem spooky enough with treading conversation and hashtags
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Great video! Keep it up Would you like to be TH-cam friends? :]
What NI VIsion are you eager to turn into your SE Reality?
I'd love to live on my own so I can decide on the energy in my environment.
Create my TH-cam channel focused on self-development or things I think about, build generational wealth, and live on my own!!
To create a environment where everyone alive can be themselves with no filter. Everyone is equal and open to differences, working towards a better future together. Not a Utopia, A human world of understanding and awareness.
Bring morals back to the world
Stop minimizing myself because on this base, depends everything else in my life.
You get it to my mind, I was depressed for 8 years, am 28 and now because of you I found my true self and how to express it, thank so much Wenzes
❤️😊
I can't tell you how happy I am to have found your channel. And I'm just absorbing it all and waiting for the blow up. You're going to have the top INFJ channel on TH-cam, not sure if you know that already lol. But it's coming and I'm here for it! Thanks so much. I can't tell you how empowered I feel now! 💜
So happy my channel is helpful to you! 😊 I look forward to the future and help even more 🥳
Aha moment 💡I finally understand the ni/ti loop concept.
I have a video that specifically focuses in that aspect that comes out in a week 😀
Im just now getting the understanding of these 4 function stacks and how they make each personality different. This has been a huge eye opener for me. Now i understand why i like "outgoing" men, ie Se. Im always pouring my Ni into what they're doing. Problem is bc they are Se dominant they dont gv a flip abt me. Then there are Ni guys who hv ideas for me but lack Se to contribute. Ugh....so im hvg to learn how to motivate myself rather than looking to others for stimulation or motivation. I thought it wld be easy bc ive done so much in the past, but i realize i must hv been ard a lot of Se's who--again--were not real friends, but were stimulating enough in my environment and active in their businesses to keep me going. I also realize that bc of my Ni i stood out from them and may hv bern intimidating--stirring up unwanted competition and covert "hate". Now ive cut them out of my life.... *crickets* But im slowly preparing to move again. I love you, Wenzes❤
Hi Wenzes,
Thank you for all this priceless advice. It really feels like you're cracking the code of my INFJ brain. I've been watching your videos for a few months and now I'm taking the time to make a youtube channel so I can comment and show you my thanks.
Woohoo!!! Glad I could help you on your journey! You got this 👍😊
Same here! YT channel prep thanks to Wenzes and Clay Arnall too! God blesd you both
You're like my INFJ big sister :') so glad I found you
Thank you so much for your insight and your gentle and wise approach.
I have trouble finding motivation to do household chores. If I’m not in the public eye, or doing something for somebody, I find it extremely challenging to take responsibility for my personal life and it weighs me down emotionally and psychologically; I feel guilty and shameful. I have this all or nothing mentality so at times, I go all out and try to do everything the same day and push myself to perfection, only to realize that I’m not actually able to fit everything into one day and secondly, I can’t do it perfectly enough. I give up and don’t do anything for days or even weeks and get stuck in this cycle.
If you have any tips, please share. I realize where I need to be but I don’t know how to get there. Mainstream TH-camrs’ advice, and articles don’t help as they don’t reach deep enough to address core issues. As an INFJ, I feel like chores and household work are meaningless pursuits. Although I can afford to have a helper do the work, I don’t want to do it because I understand that I need to be responsible for myself first and if and only if I can’t do it (not because I don’t want to), I will to resort to that option.
I think it has something to do with childhood too, as my mother used to work so hard and always complain about being the “servant” in the house. I would constantly feel bad because she would guilt trip me into doing things and often times, I would do it even when I didn’t feel like to make her stop complaining. Responsibilities at home seemed like obligations and felt restrictive and suffocating. I hated it.
I also feel guilty about having my own place since I moved out and feel undeserving of all the good things I have in my life. And somewhere in that mix, is the fear of losing everything, because I feel like I’m a fake (INFJ chameleon effect).
On the bright side, I am growing slowly everyday. It has been only two weeks since I found out that I’m an INFJ. It’s great to know I’m not the only one and to see you living your best life, gives me hope and I feel that I can also get there, with effort and by being patient with myself.
Needed this today! ❤️ I suffered greatly in college due to big dreams/little action and constant NI-TI loops. After a couple years of creative hibernation I'm finally gathering the courage to look back at my previous visions, and I feel ready to take realistic steps towards those goals. Throughout all of this, part of me has known that those dreams would never to come to fruition without some type of internal SE work being done. This video helps confirm that, and I look forward to (enjoyably) exercising those weaker parts of my personality. Thanks for the push, Wenzes! 😊
Woohoo! You got this Colin! Just actively choose taking action towards your goals...before you know it, it will become second nature 👍😊
As an INFJ, we value our freedom so much that when someone steal our hearts, we become angelically demonic. And we hate the person we are in love with...even if we know that they are a mistake. Taylor Shift really uses her creative art to express this... what a Barnum Effect.
I even say, I reserve the right to change my mind at any time, sometimes mid sentence.
Yet another great "Where the rubber meets the road" presentation! OUT- Standing, Wenzes! BTW, you ARE cool! 😊
I appreciate the titles you have on this video. For sure I'll be reviewing it - probably take notes! ✍ Your presentation is so practical on how to make this work! 🙂👍
Yeay 😀
My intuition led me to you thank you
😊👍
i so need to hear this. i have been dealing with heart ache from an old crash/first love that popped back up in my life. thank you so much. your videos have been so helpful since my divorce. HUG
Happy they are helpful 😊👍
Thank you very much Wenzes. Every second of this video is very priceless for me. Whatever you said is all correct. We can stick to a vision more than other personality types, but we face difficulty in facing the current reality. I am very grateful to you for this amazing enlightment🙏🙏🙌😊
Happy the video resonates with you 😀
I've been watching your videos for years. I've recently rediscovered your channel again through my effort of making personal progress as an infj. I have to say you have the best infj videos out there, still! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I finally understand my function stack interaction in order to achieve success in my life. Makes soooo much sense now! I've also read The big leap as per your recommendation via another video, and wow what a great way to approach life by actively applying focus and feeling in the best way 🙌
don't feel guilty. because there is a hard point in reality and the clear mind escape from your own countries burden really can help lclear the mind. but finding you is a blessing enough to give second chance in my own country. so you need not to feel guilt. But relate on the matters. you can say situation has pulled things together better then tearing them apart for some people
Thankyou for opening my vision!!
You have such down-to-earth advice. I decided to watch this one because it's something that's big for me. The vision is as necessary as the action in order to create what we want. I think I might actually be an INTJ, not an INFJ, but it applies the same to pretty much everyone.
Glad the video resonates with you. I too believe it applies to people who are much more intuitive than sensing! 👍😊 Wish you a great week
Wenzes same to you darling
don't worry I am aware to a point that google and such defines the means of finding cloned information and desires unquie threads of input to find individual conversation threads ... its a series of challenges.. the data mining. it's a figment of the normal. over cut and past. sometimes even grammar errors
I really appreciate your practical application approach to how to help INFJs. I don’t there is very much out there of this sort. Awesome work!
So happy it resonates :D thanks for the feedback
Cool I actually have experienced this stuff for the past 2 years at my work and I am almost there! Thanks for realizing it because I didn’t think about this aspect.
Happy I could help 👍😊
You’re really coming for me with this video 😅😅
according to data links. the score board goes to secuss rate like hash tags for information. the analytics score on higher ends for jobs and zones in cretin ways to access points or was at one previous point before AI was made and google to connect resources
Where were you all my life?
Thank you ma'am this is really helpful for me 🙏❤
That was such a cool angle to look at a situation! Thanks Wenzes. Also thanks for the bonus - thud at 15:01 :D
Happy you liked it ☺️👍😊
Thank you
Hi Wenzes! Came across your channel just two days ago and I'm so encouraged by your videos especially this one. :-) I've read materials that talk about tertiary temptation and inferior grip as if one can never really make good use of the tertiary and inferior functions. I just find this refreshing and empowering compared to how INFJ's are usually described.
I have a question though. What do you think are the chances that your videos will also resonate to other NF's?
I ask that because I've been questioning over the past few weeks if I'm an INFJ or not. I seem to be part-INFJ and part-INFP, which technically is impossible. =)) I took the Socionics test after watching your other video (INFJ vs INFP) and I came out INFj. When I look at MBTI functions, however, I can still relate more to being an INFJ. LOL. And I find your videos are very helpful.
thank you for realizing that
Oh Wenzes, you are the best! This is what I was about to come to lately... and you nailed it so well and so exactly!!! I needed to hear that, to understand and sort myself out!!! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! 🙏
☺️ so happy it resontes with you Aisulu 👍😊👍 more great things to come
loving you Wenzes
😊
Stop lecturing me INFJ mom hahahahaahaha jokes aside really insightful conversation. Thank you!
😉
You helped me so much with this video. Thank you, Wenzes
I wanted to be an architect when I was young. But i'm not that good in maths. I really tried, I studied and tried even to learn more maths, until after 3 years I finaly understood that i'm not going to succeed.
How does one meditate?
I really appreciate your content. May I ask at what point you made the jump from corporate to this? I'm in private equity, decent income, and it's hard for me to believe that I can completely replace my current salary with a part time passion side project
Actually the moment I switch I was barely making any money through my side hustle yet (that was two years ago after I had the channel for 4). But I had enough money saved up to get by for 10months if I wouldn’t make any money. It took a while before I broke even but now it‘s definitely paying off 😊...before doing this full time I wasn‘t able to put enough energy into this project to make it highly profitable
@@Wenzes I love this. I always wondered how other people made the leap but no one really talks about the "financials" of making the leap. I think that would be a video we'd all enjoy. Meaning, what did the first month look like after you made the leap? Cash runway? How many videos did up have up already? How many services were you offering? THANK YOU! Your videos are great.
I have about 2 years saved up now, so... maybe I can do it too haha
well. that is the part that gets interesting on an honest high school education. however odd. I want to keep that low grade score and prove some ground that academic system is not always fruitful
Whats RI
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throw a bitcoin in the wishing well and watch it grow
What happened to your INFP content?
I never had any particular INFP content :)
@@Wenzes Oh, I could have sworn I saw some, that's why I subbed?
Just an infp and infj relationship videos, but most of my content is helpful to all intuitives
@@Wenzes arrr yes that's the one I saw.
Ok then I guess my next question is can you do INFP specific content please? Thanks :)
well evolution can only help with so much. at least start with a believable world. not that things didn't seem spooky enough with treading conversation and hashtags
Great video! Keep it up Would you like to be TH-cam friends? :]
What did you like about the video?
Love tight sweater