when I turned 25 i got random thought to go and get checked so I went on whim ..... sure enough something WAS wrong and my body was giving my signs and i just thought it was normal since I've had experience this things since my pre teens.I've been on a a treatment now for 2 years.
@@Elizabethx15 I have no idea what that is, but what I meant is that if men don't have any female friends it's usually a warning sign that they don't see women as people worth being friends with
I honestly don't think there is enough content on fertility clinics and the journey. I 100% understand wanting to keep that close to you, but if you are ever ready to share I'd be the first one to watch. I personally have so many questions on a topic that I don't think is fully "normalized" to talk about but it should be. Fertility can be scary, and the more we can share and learn from others, the less scary it can be.
I would personally love that you talk about your fertility journey since I was born with hypogonadism and have a long-long treatment + will have to take fertility treatments to have children in the future xx
I NEEDED this video! I’m also 21 and have never been in a relationship (I’ve never even kissed a guy) and this made me feel so much better about myself! Thank you so much!💓
Re: asking a guy out, a while ago I started to do that and, let me tell you, even when I got rejected I still felt sort of happy? I mean sure, at first it did bum me out a little bit just the fact that I had dared to go and take the first step felt pretty damn good nonetheless. 10/10 recommend!
i rmr watching allegras past relationship videos in like 8th grade and thinking she is so wise.....now im older and actually get what shes saying and am still like what a wise, confident woman
The vibe comment is so underrated I cannot explain how important it is for me as well to feel the vibe and energy not just with guys but in relation with anyone in general
honestly dealing with relationship trauma and being treated poorly in the past really do make relationships in the present hard. I'm still working through a lot of things but at the start of my current relationship I was a lot worse off than I am now. if that's something you're going through rn ur not alone, just do your best to be kind to yourself and your partner
when you said 'ew you, don't ever speak to me or my son ever again' I snorted and the chocolate milk I was drinking came out of my nose. *more of these please*
Honestly the pep talk I needed about it being jealous of exes. My bf’s ex has been such an issue that I’ve been seriously struggling with. Been watching you grow since your uni days! I appreciate ya! 💜
girl this is the best video by far you have put out!!! i have been feeling a super disconnect from you lately and this video just reminded me why i subscribed. love love love YOU
Ok, this q&a was so relatable and I felt like I was getting advice from an old friend. Thank you for being so point blank and honest with your answers, not once did I feel like this wasn’t genuine. Love you!
This whole video is actually Jerry from Cheer giving us the mat talk we deserve. That acne response is what I want to say to anyone who has ever felt insecure about anything!!! ROCK IT and I BET YOU they'll admire you for it!! BAM BAM KABLAM
Allegra I loved you and this video!!!! This was great to hear specially today. Thank you so much for everything. I totally agree that if someone makes you feel less, they are not worth it and you must move on!!! Thanks. ❤️🥰🥰🥰
To anyone who’s reading,just a quick reminder that although things are taking a weird turn in the world right now,you’re beautiful,blessed,amazing,loved,and I sincerely pray all your dreams come true,as much as I Pray my TH-cam dream comes true🙏🏽🧡
I just wanna say I have been loving and appreciate all the content you've been posting recently! I live in Melbourne Australia and a week ago we entered a stage 4 hard lockdown (curfew and all). However your content is getting me through 🙌
I love this video so much!! I relate so much to you saying you experienced trauma and had toxic tendencies in the past. Thanks for being so open about that and mental health :)
oo Allegra its eerie how similar we are but its so nice! I love watching your more sit down/chit chat q&a videos because it feels like I'm just hanging out with a friend and chatting. also I agreed with everything you said during this relationship q&a
i mean i've never met you but i've been watching your vids for a minute now... you are hella down to earth. keep doing what you're doing. i feel like your real life and on camera personality are one and the same and that ~vibe~ is rare in the youtube community.
You’re the older sister I always needed/wanted. I am in a happy relationship and married but I learned so much that I can work on, for myself and my partner to have a healthier relationship (we are happy, and healthy. I just want to keep growing as a person). Step one: getting a therapist!
I loved your relationship Q&A! Appreciate how real you got and especially love how you stressed how important it is to maintain a single life while being in a relationship! 🙌🏻. I've always been a big fan of yours but I have even more respect for you after watching this Q&A. Keep preaching confidence, independence and self-love! 💗
Spreading some good vibes to those reading this comment right now .. have an amazing rest of the day/night. If something in your life isn't going right, just trust the process! Everything will always work out in the end. Stay blessed! - From a small TH-camr!
so random but ive been watching your videos for years and I just love your energy. Esp in the past year you have been such a style inspo and breath of fresh air. Im 22 and watching your videos has helped me get my life together alottt and has me so excited to go through my 20's. keep doing you baddie
This video is fuuuucking everything. I SO want you to be a guest on Call Her Daddy and chat about shitty men, the steps you took to have a “healthy” outlook on relationships and how to be a strong, confident ass woman!
This might sound odd but I follow you in every platform and you’re such a good example of what a human being should be. I know no one is perfect but the way you are (at least what you let us see) and how you handle life and talk about it, amaze me. The world need more people like you 💛
Loving this big sister Allegra energy. Agree with every answer. But hearing the questions made me think I'm not the target audience when it comes to this. At 22 I've crossed the threshold into being confident and not really giving a fuck about men's opinions on me. But I understand a lot of young girls look up to and watch TH-camrs, so it is so nice that they have people like you to remind them!!Yes baby! I truly believe "being the person you needed growing up" is a must and I 100% see this here. Sorry for the lengthy comment. You're awesome.
So intrigued about the fertility clinic. I’m 32 and thinking on having kids soon. I’ve been off the pill for over a year but prev on for 15 years. The pill ruined my periods. My ob says I’m normal but I just swear and feel I’m not because it’s not like what it used to be in high school. I worry about my fertility
Honestly, I watch all your videos cause they’re so cool but I have to say, this video made me like you even more! Loved your answers! Love that you’re motivating these young women to BE themselves! ❤️✨
Definitely curious about the fertility clinic but, obviously is up to you to tell. My opinion is that you don't necessarily go to a fertility center to get pregnant, it can be just check on yourself and plan for the future.
your advice on peoples' judgements saying more about them than about you is so spot on! i'm 30 and so many of my friends need to hear that. like if you don't like me as i am, then i don't give a fuck about you either. boy bye. more girls need to hear that and stop bending over backwards for people who don't love and respect them for who they are. great advice.
Very curious about your fertility appointment. But share when you’re comfortable. Just being nosy here....
Same! Hehe but I’ve actually always been wanting to go to one so would be really helpful to hear her story
when I turned 25 i got random thought to go and get checked so I went on whim ..... sure enough something WAS wrong and my body was giving my signs and i just thought it was normal since I've had experience this things since my pre teens.I've been on a a treatment now for 2 years.
TV taught me that the biggest warning sign in a man is that they have a lot of female friends and real life taught me that it's when they have none
Well said. Quite true.
@@Elizabethx15 I have no idea what that is, but what I meant is that if men don't have any female friends it's usually a warning sign that they don't see women as people worth being friends with
damn. I think this is trueeeee
I honestly don't think there is enough content on fertility clinics and the journey. I 100% understand wanting to keep that close to you, but if you are ever ready to share I'd be the first one to watch. I personally have so many questions on a topic that I don't think is fully "normalized" to talk about but it should be. Fertility can be scary, and the more we can share and learn from others, the less scary it can be.
omg i laughed so hard at this q&a. "ew you, don't talk to me or my son ever again" allegra you are an icon
Should allegra have a dating advice podcast??? Yes.
I think you should have a podcast about design and the clothing industry but do it under a pseudonym, dating nah..
I would listen
Yesss definitely!
when she was telling her younger self that she was a mess.......i felt that
I guess a lot of us did ;-D
I love how more of your personality showed through in this video, you’re hilarious!!💗 Thought you had some really great tips and answers!
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I would personally love that you talk about your fertility journey since I was born with hypogonadism and have a long-long treatment + will have to take fertility treatments to have children in the future xx
I would love to see your fertility clinic experience! I’m currently going through testing so it would be nice to see someone else’s experience too!
A 30 minute vlog? We’ve been BLESSED my plants are watered, my skin is clear ✨🙌🏻
I feel like we got to know a new side of you and your humor and i just LOVE IT.
wow this Q&A was 20/10!! Holy shit so funny, so real, love Allegra wayy too much 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
“Are you sad when you’re apart? No???? Is that rude?” I’ve never felt so connected with you before lol. 😂
That relationship Q&A was literally everything. I am not in a relationship but I was listening like 👁👄👁 I'm taking this with me
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I NEEDED this video! I’m also 21 and have never been in a relationship (I’ve never even kissed a guy) and this made me feel so much better about myself! Thank you so much!💓
lol same but im 25 😂
Same but 24 haha
Same but 22! Never was interested until now but quarantine. Just going at my own pace lol
“UGH. There’s no rules. THERE’S NO RULES” 👏🏼👏🏼
The chaotic energy at the end was 10/10 - thank you
Re: asking a guy out, a while ago I started to do that and, let me tell you, even when I got rejected I still felt sort of happy? I mean sure, at first it did bum me out a little bit just the fact that I had dared to go and take the first step felt pretty damn good nonetheless. 10/10 recommend!
yess
i rmr watching allegras past relationship videos in like 8th grade and thinking she is so wise.....now im older and actually get what shes saying and am still like what a wise, confident woman
The bestie I never knew I needed. Going through a break-up rn and you've helped me so much
Me too girl, I hope you find healing, you’re not alone ❤️
@@oliviashealy Yes. Thanks
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The vibe comment is so underrated I cannot explain how important it is for me as well to feel the vibe and energy not just with guys but in relation with anyone in general
honestly dealing with relationship trauma and being treated poorly in the past really do make relationships in the present hard. I'm still working through a lot of things but at the start of my current relationship I was a lot worse off than I am now. if that's something you're going through rn ur not alone, just do your best to be kind to yourself and your partner
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when you said 'ew you, don't ever speak to me or my son ever again' I snorted and the chocolate milk I was drinking came out of my nose. *more of these please*
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I’d love to hear more about the fertility stuff ❤️❤️❤️ great vlog!!! 😘👏
Would love to hear you speak about the fertility stuff!!💜
“Ew you” LOL thanks for sharing! You by far are the most relatable “influencer” I follow!
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You seem so much happier now !! You’re glowing girl !
Honestly the pep talk I needed about it being jealous of exes. My bf’s ex has been such an issue that I’ve been seriously struggling with. Been watching you grow since your uni days! I appreciate ya! 💜
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This Q&A was everything. I need more of this Allegra!!
Love the relationship Q&A- feels like getting advice from the older sister I don't have. I've always loved how genuine you are!
girl this is the best video by far you have put out!!! i have been feeling a super disconnect from you lately and this video just reminded me why i subscribed. love love love YOU
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Ok, this q&a was so relatable and I felt like I was getting advice from an old friend. Thank you for being so point blank and honest with your answers, not once did I feel like this wasn’t genuine. Love you!
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my brain read this title as "jealousy sex with friend's ex's" lol. oh my
This was so positive, no apologies, loved it 👏🏼
Love you. Love your growth. Been following you for a while now and your confidence just radiates now and I’m so happy for you!!!
i already loved you and your content but this just completely took the love to a whole new level. you give the best advice
Only real ones know when the title was “ANSWERING YOUR BURNING RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS”
This whole video is actually Jerry from Cheer giving us the mat talk we deserve.
That acne response is what I want to say to anyone who has ever felt insecure about anything!!! ROCK IT and I BET YOU they'll admire you for it!! BAM BAM KABLAM
Allegra I loved you and this video!!!! This was great to hear specially today. Thank you so much for everything. I totally agree that if someone makes you feel less, they are not worth it and you must move on!!!
Thanks. ❤️🥰🥰🥰
To anyone who’s reading,just a quick reminder that although things are taking a weird turn in the world right now,you’re beautiful,blessed,amazing,loved,and I sincerely pray all your dreams come true,as much as I
Pray my TH-cam dream comes true🙏🏽🧡
I just wanna say I have been loving and appreciate all the content you've been posting recently! I live in Melbourne Australia and a week ago we entered a stage 4 hard lockdown (curfew and all). However your content is getting me through 🙌
wow Allegra should def give more advice videos!! podcast????
I love your Q&A as you are very honest. Thank you for such great and genuine words
this q&a was absolute gold!! honestly i loved every bit of it and stand by it
I LOVE your outfit @3:15. Wish I could wear something like that :) so cute
Those were the best answers i`ve ever heard! Super genuine
I love this video so much!! I relate so much to you saying you experienced trauma and had toxic tendencies in the past. Thanks for being so open about that and mental health :)
I loved this video so much! You could really see your personality.
oo Allegra its eerie how similar we are but its so nice! I love watching your more sit down/chit chat q&a videos because it feels like I'm just hanging out with a friend and chatting. also I agreed with everything you said during this relationship q&a
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Such an honest, open and vulnerable conversation. Thank you for sharing your heart and perspective. Very relatable :) Love all your videos!
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loved how real & hilarious u were in the Q&A!!!
i mean i've never met you but i've been watching your vids for a minute now... you are hella down to earth. keep doing what you're doing. i feel like your real life and on camera personality are one and the same and that ~vibe~ is rare in the youtube community.
You're great to watch. You and Caroline hirons have the same energy. Xx
Thank you, I did not even know I needed to hear these things so thank you
You’re the older sister I always needed/wanted. I am in a happy relationship and married but I learned so much that I can work on, for myself and my partner to have a healthier relationship (we are happy, and healthy. I just want to keep growing as a person). Step one: getting a therapist!
we lovee bubbly happy goofy allegra. so nice seeing you in a good place (like you seem to be in this vid)
I needed this! Loooooove this type of video, felt like we were just having girl talk. Thank you for being so honest and open with us! ❤️❤️❤️
yayy love that
i am Dutch and you say Van Gogh very funny :))) didnt even know what you said until i saw the paintings. loved the vlog!
I asked a guy out once and we’ve been together for 5 years since then 💕
This advice/q&a is genuinely so good ❤️ very well spoken and level headed!!
I just have to say that you are GOALS!!!!! 💪🏻❤️ these were all great advice! ❤️
HEY ALLEGRA dude you're awesome I love your beliefs and the way you think you're amazing babe
I laughed so hard this was hilariousss, you have the best personality 🔥
I loved your relationship Q&A! Appreciate how real you got and especially love how you stressed how important it is to maintain a single life while being in a relationship! 🙌🏻. I've always been a big fan of yours but I have even more respect for you after watching this Q&A. Keep preaching confidence, independence and self-love! 💗
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Allegra honestly i love your vibe in this video, you look so happy and comfortable it was contagious ❤️
This was hands down my favorite video of yours.
Spreading some good vibes to those reading this comment right now .. have an amazing rest of the day/night. If something in your life isn't going right, just trust the process! Everything will always work out in the end. Stay blessed! - From a small TH-camr!
Didn't know how much I needed this video today 💜 thank you
thanks for being so open and honest with us :)
xo
Wow love so much how open and honest you are in this video 💞
Loved this video! You’re hilarious. And such good advice.
so random but ive been watching your videos for years and I just love your energy. Esp in the past year you have been such a style inspo and breath of fresh air. Im 22 and watching your videos has helped me get my life together alottt and has me so excited to go through my 20's. keep doing you baddie
This video is fuuuucking everything. I SO want you to be a guest on Call Her Daddy and chat about shitty men, the steps you took to have a “healthy” outlook on relationships and how to be a strong, confident ass woman!
Anyone with relationship questions needs to watch! Every minute worth it. Allegras videos are my favorite!!🤍
Loved the Q&A, love seeing your humour and personality shine through! Had me cracking up and I honestly love your vlog content!
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holy crap thank you for this! This helped me so much I used to panic over liking me time and being alone omg
these love languages couldn't be more identical to my bf and mine. THANK YOU again for this video xx
This might sound odd but I follow you in every platform and you’re such a good example of what a human being should be. I know no one is perfect but the way you are (at least what you let us see) and how you handle life and talk about it, amaze me. The world need more people like you 💛
aw thank you 💕
please do more of these relationship q&as!!! loved this
i loved this video so much!! i also loveee your personality!! it felt like i was sitting, just chillin & chatting with a friend :D
The Q & A portion of this Video had me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Allegra. You are hilarious girl in your responses.
Absolutely loved this video! Realness is appreciated. Love ya from Brooklyn ❤️
I LOVED THIS VID! plz do more like this; love the relationship advice, so funny
Loving this big sister Allegra energy. Agree with every answer. But hearing the questions made me think I'm not the target audience when it comes to this. At 22 I've crossed the threshold into being confident and not really giving a fuck about men's opinions on me. But I understand a lot of young girls look up to and watch TH-camrs, so it is so nice that they have people like you to remind them!!Yes baby! I truly believe "being the person you needed growing up" is a must and I 100% see this here. Sorry for the lengthy comment. You're awesome.
So intrigued about the fertility clinic. I’m 32 and thinking on having kids soon. I’ve been off the pill for over a year but prev on for 15 years. The pill ruined my periods. My ob says I’m normal but I just swear and feel I’m not because it’s not like what it used to be in high school. I worry about my fertility
Love, love, love when you talk about relationships 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
'do you miss him when you're apart?... Allegra: no?' YES. I feel you. 🙌🏼
Mom this video was amazing!!!!!! :D love it, love your vibe 'cause you are all about vibes haha stay cute 💕
Honestly, I watch all your videos cause they’re so cool but I have to say, this video made me like you even more! Loved your answers! Love that you’re motivating these young women to BE themselves! ❤️✨
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Very curious about the fertility clinic, kinda on the same path i guess..i hope you'll end up sharing w us..
seriously, u need to talk more bout life and relationships... youre hella good at it
Watching from Kenya... Love the maasai bag😍
I love you. Thanks for always keeping it real.
Definitely curious about the fertility clinic but, obviously is up to you to tell.
My opinion is that you don't necessarily go to a fertility center to get pregnant, it can be just check on yourself and plan for the future.
This is my fave vid you’ve posted. You are so funny and real ❣️
Genuinely enjoyed this q&a so much
everything on here is so good ! thanks 🙏
I live near Toronto and the Van Gogh exhibit looks so cool!! I wanna go!!
your advice on peoples' judgements saying more about them than about you is so spot on! i'm 30 and so many of my friends need to hear that. like if you don't like me as i am, then i don't give a fuck about you either. boy bye. more girls need to hear that and stop bending over backwards for people who don't love and respect them for who they are. great advice.
Love how straight up you are in all your Q&As💓
Your outfits look so good again in this vid! 😍