sober in my 20s 𖥔 ࣪ answering your questions

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  • @sowhatbackoff
    @sowhatbackoff หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    big shout out to our girl for being strong funny amazing woman who stands as such a good influence❤

    • @celybird
      @celybird  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Crying🥹😭💖 I love you

  • @rylee2716
    @rylee2716 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    1 year and 1 month sober today! Thanks for sharing so much with us. If you’re reading this, YOU ARE CAPABLE of staying sober. It can definitely have its ups and downs but it’s soooo worth it!!

  • @jinelledawkins
    @jinelledawkins หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The thought of being in Italy and not drinking is so real and it resonated. Also the thought of never having a cute drink with a girlfriend again was also valid. You were mourning something that you once enjoyed.
    Keep going Cely ❤. Your growth is evident. 🎉

  • @The_GingerFiles
    @The_GingerFiles 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Been following you since LI. I'm a mom of a recovering addict. He's 16 mos sober and as a mom I could not be more proud of him. Extremely proud of you and will def be following your journey.❤️🙏

  • @NewPerspectives314
    @NewPerspectives314 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It's so impressive you've realized the things you have at a young age, I hope you continue to flourish! Merry Christmas !

  • @sanyavasquez3486
    @sanyavasquez3486 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Anyone who doesn't support your decision is not a real friend. My mother was an alcoholic and quit cold turkey and it was the best thing she did for me as a young child. You're very strong!

  • @jhanaeimani
    @jhanaeimani หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    cely never stop the authentic being that you are🧚‍♂️ we see you, empathize with you and are genuinely inspired by you, thank you for your transparency

  • @art.thomas
    @art.thomas หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Congratulations, Cely! I've been sober 1 year and 9 months as of 3 days ago. I did break my sobriety for a wedding and I know I needed it. I knew I would want to break it one day to learn if I was on the right path. I drank, didn't get tipsy and felt AWFUL the next day and I know with confidence I will walk with sobriety forever. I'm so glad to have more online personalities on their sober journey, thank you so much for sharing 🫶🏽 SO excited to see you share more sober adventures and activities 🥹💖

  • @KrazyLikeKi
    @KrazyLikeKi หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Congratulations Cely 💖 this was so heartwarming, inspiring and genuine. Rooting for you throughout this journey of yours!

    • @celybird
      @celybird  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This means the world to me🥹 thank you so so much💖

  • @candicemartinez6761
    @candicemartinez6761 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    3 years and 4 months sober you got this Cely!

  • @kaivaughn380
    @kaivaughn380 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    queen i loved you on aftersun!! your authentic self is perfect and so fun to watch on TV!!

  • @tianaflores1526
    @tianaflores1526 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2 years and 4 months sober. I absolutely loved your video. I could definitely relate to some of your experiences. Getting sober was the best decision I ever made. I wish I made it sooner. Good luck on your journey! You got this.

  • @carriehagstrom9777
    @carriehagstrom9777 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for opening up so much! I’m proud of you! And you’re helping so many people!

  • @CAlferez
    @CAlferez หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so proud of you Cely! I grew up in a similar family situation and really just afraid of alcohol/addiction. I felt really insecure in my early 20s because I felt like a boring stuck in the mud. Now that I’m two years away from my 30s I’m truly grateful I didn’t let those thoughts win. Watching my fam navigate addiction is hard, and I know how hard you worked to be sober 🙌🏽 take it all day by day and lean on your people. Here’s to the rest of your life!

  • @maddyhammond367
    @maddyhammond367 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes please do a sober in your 20s series ❤ love this video and your energy. I needed this today:)

  • @linduhsays
    @linduhsays 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your mom is gorgeous!!! Congratulations on your 6-month sobriety!!🎉That is a huge milestone!!!And thank you for being vulnerable. (Also none of it was silly & it’s ok to cry/be emotional, all of your feelings & thoughts are valid!!) This was so healing & inspirational for me! I’ve decided to be sober for 2025, (for similar reasons as you) hoping for it to be long-term but going to take it one step at a time. Love you Celys & Thank you for sharing your journey!💕

  • @chismecitoreality
    @chismecitoreality หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Congratulations ❤🎉 sober for 4 years 5 months, only by God's grace!!! Best decision ever!! Jesus has been with me every step of the way🤍🤍

    • @jesusiskingofmyheart
      @jesusiskingofmyheart หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen! Jesus is the way the truth and the life! Sober for 3 years now. Thank you Jesus 🥹❤️🕊️🎄

    • @celybird
      @celybird  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much🥹💖 and congrats to you too!!! I love hearing your testimony💖💖💖

  • @monicarodriguez6736
    @monicarodriguez6736 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re a huge inspiration! This whole video just made it so much more easier and so clear that my sober journey starts now, that i can do it thank you so much ❤

  • @ericareese4361
    @ericareese4361 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are inspiring me to get sober. Had me crying.. that you for being so vulnerable and honest with us. You have no idea how much this video and sharing your journey with us will help so many people. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @michelleevers5
    @michelleevers5 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so happy I found you on social media Cely!! I needed this testimony more than you know. I’ve been struggling with getting sober for years and this video gives me hope!! ❤

  • @angelinaperez9897
    @angelinaperez9897 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super proud of you!! Love how raw and authentic this video is 🥹 you are amazing! Thank you for sharing. Love you a million Cely 💕✨🦋

  • @aishajones4627
    @aishajones4627 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lmao the "what do you mean I'm never gonna blackout again?!" is real AFFF thank you for this video I;m on day 5 and videos like this help so much! Love ur energy since your love island debut.

  • @juanitagarcia2769
    @juanitagarcia2769 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing your journey and being yourself. Glad you didn't edit out that section because your message resonates with a variety of people. My father was an alcoholic so I was always scared to drink, thinking I would be an alcoholic. I finally started drinking when I was about 24, and it just wasn't really my thing. I was always the DD and had so much fun with my friends at the club that you couldn't even tell I was the sober one! At a young age it's the thing to do, so there was some pressure to drink to have fun, but luckily my friends accepted me how I am and still enjoyed my company if I didn't drink. Keep surrounding yourself with the right people, and don't apologize for being yourself. I think it takes a strong person to be so vulnerable to the public and not put on a fake act like everything is great. Your bubbly attitude & positiveness are enjoyable traits that the world needs. ❤

  • @devonicacarrasco4729
    @devonicacarrasco4729 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your sobriety is encouraging and your life journey you’ve shared is beautiful. You motivate me to choose sobriety for the rest of my life 💛 With God, a sober life is possible and beautiful ✨ Stay strong beautiful! Continue to share your journey. ❤

  • @alyssaAltenberger
    @alyssaAltenberger 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I haven't struggle with addiction but I was raised around an addict dad and now that i was taken out of that situation really showed me a new path. And you sharing this shows that people can change

  • @MaddyLayne-o9r
    @MaddyLayne-o9r หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awe Cely, congratulations on being sober! It such a big accomplishment and I'm so proud of you 🥹🩷

    • @celybird
      @celybird  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you angel🥹💖

  • @juliaramos9894
    @juliaramos9894 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations! I love hearing your journey and so inspiring! I grew up with an alcoholic dad as well and a mother who does not drink and neither do my sisters really. I don’t really either but I love this and love supporting you ! You are beautiful!!!!!❤

  • @Curlygirlnikki
    @Curlygirlnikki หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just started my journey 2 days ago and it’s not a coincident this video came out just now! Thank you for sharing your story❤❤❤ love you!!!

  • @sanyavasquez3486
    @sanyavasquez3486 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So proud of you. You're a very beautiful person inside and out. I fell in love with you watching Love Island. Such a positive person and so loving. You always complemented everyone and that really spoke to me. You're just the best in my opinion.

  • @maya_howl25
    @maya_howl25 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    GIRL! Cry! 😭 I’m right here with you! Your emotions are beautiful ❤ real and 🎉 I’m giving you your flowers 💐 thank you so much for existing and being you 🍯

  • @okayania
    @okayania หลายเดือนก่อน

    love u cely ty for being so vulnerable and cool w us 🫶🏻

  • @toniajones5061
    @toniajones5061 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such a good vlog. Congratulations and you are always our Cely. Love this version!!❤❤❤

  • @faygf9861
    @faygf9861 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been thinking about getting sober for some time and youve really been inspiring me. thank you for being so honest with us and letting us understand you a little better. love you so much.

  • @lindsayosteen1998
    @lindsayosteen1998 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So proud of you girl! You inspire me ❤

  • @carsonisaac12
    @carsonisaac12 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I also have an alcoholic father. It really impacted me at an early age. I am 26 and have never had a drop of alcohol. It is very hard to stay sober at this age, so I am so proud of you for doing this for yourself!!! Sober is the new sexy lol

  • @dayview1
    @dayview1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love you bookie!!!!so proud of yuuu

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations, Celybird! I quit many years ago, and I did not like who I was when I drank. Celebrate how amazing you are! Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 ❤️!

  • @cupcup2734
    @cupcup2734 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Celyyyy girl I love you so so much and I’m so glad that you are being true to yourself and staying sober💕💕i look up to you so much and you inspire me so much thank you for sharing your journey🫶🏼 I’ve been sober my whole life and I constantly feel judged for it so I know it can be hard.that being said I love seeing that you are doing good and I’m rooting for u 😋🫶🏼🫶🏼❤️❤️❤️

  • @allimariaram
    @allimariaram หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you so much for sharing!! this is wildly relatable and helps so many of us 🩷💚 you are crushing it!!

    • @celybird
      @celybird  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahhh 🥹💖 thank you so much 💖💖 these comments mean so much to me!!

  • @noelgarcia5525
    @noelgarcia5525 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am happy for you, that you’re going on this journey 🙌🏽🙌🏽 & Congratulations! on being sober your truly incredible.

  • @marilynn519
    @marilynn519 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so proud of you Cely girl! ✨💛

    • @celybird
      @celybird  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much queen🥹💖

  • @jazminjimenez1929
    @jazminjimenez1929 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i can relate to this a little too much, thank you for this Cely. from my heart to yours, i am so proud of you & i pray that God continues to bless your life tenfold.❤️✨✝️

  • @ashleymedes3620
    @ashleymedes3620 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sm for sharing girly! I’ve been considering it for a while and watching your journey has inspired me sm.

  • @taylarmadeeefit
    @taylarmadeeefit หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss you and needed this ❤

  • @belindadolor7723
    @belindadolor7723 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Major Respect Cely Bird 🙏🏽 You rádiate Joy !

  • @alinafemalitoni7251
    @alinafemalitoni7251 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was so beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing Cely

  • @xeniaamirah472
    @xeniaamirah472 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So proud of you Cely ❤

  • @carolynmartin5964
    @carolynmartin5964 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Keep up the good work! You’re beautiful and amazing!

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations on being sober ❤ keep going ❤ God is with you

  • @Wavesurfer12
    @Wavesurfer12 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Take a shot of water everytime you say amazing ;) ! It’s my favourite way to have shots with my friends but it’s just water also mocktails help with feeling fancy with drinks with the friends 😊💕

    • @celybird
      @celybird  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂💖 WATER SHOTS FOREVER!!!

  • @anabelmarquez5256
    @anabelmarquez5256 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sameee being sober feels amazing and gemini gang periodddd

  • @Essbeexo20
    @Essbeexo20 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Proud of you honey ❤

  • @Yo-sj2fp
    @Yo-sj2fp หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cely! Thank you for being vulnerable.

  • @dorothymunania1954
    @dorothymunania1954 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so beautiful...and you are beautiful and you got this girl 💞

  • @vanessathomas120
    @vanessathomas120 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations Cely love you!❤

  • @robert6
    @robert6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations that’s amazing and very honest! I didn’t drink a lot but when I drank I drank and last year I got very drunk on my 30th birthday and then 3 years later I had surgery to remove my gallbladder and then right after that I decided to quit drinking! For me I needed something major to happen to me to get me to quit drinking otherwise I wouldn’t have! I’m very proud of myself I have been celibate for almost 15 months!

  • @almamj__01
    @almamj__01 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are amazing 💕

  • @joe11125
    @joe11125 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations!! I'm about to hit one year next week!

  • @shelbytaylor4605
    @shelbytaylor4605 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oooo the story about the man not accepting your decision to go sober triggered me!!

  • @tolushittu3663
    @tolushittu3663 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So proud of you❤

  • @haileyyy8468
    @haileyyy8468 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    first video i’ve watched and the ending caught me off guard , idk if that’s your outro but i didn’t expect that i went from 🥺 to 😧 to 😭

  • @okayygabby__
    @okayygabby__ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you cely ❤

  • @justlinag
    @justlinag หลายเดือนก่อน

    on week #2 of not drinking, I needed this video so bad

  • @LeliHearts
    @LeliHearts 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Been 5 months sober now and I get you Cely I’m wayyyy more emotional now 😅😂😭 I cry more often now lol

  • @chismecitoreality
    @chismecitoreality หลายเดือนก่อน

    U have me crying over here😭😭 relate to it all.

  • @ChiefDre
    @ChiefDre หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Started my sober journey two years ago age 27. Never going back

  • @chelseajus
    @chelseajus หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very real and inspirational 🫶🏻

  • @chismecitoreality
    @chismecitoreality หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hear you Cely, ive had so many emotions after quitting. I mourn the loss of drunk me. But its a fake identity that was never mine to begin with

  • @jhanaeimani
    @jhanaeimani หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not me crying real tears

  • @jamespittman
    @jamespittman หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video and Merry Christmas to you and your family This Wednesday.❤

  • @Yo-sj2fp
    @Yo-sj2fp หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A lot of people are very much in denial about alcohol. A majority of people do suffer from alcoholism without acknowledging it

  • @Cj8888__
    @Cj8888__ หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love u Cely ❤❤❤❤

  • @hannahkelliott1722
    @hannahkelliott1722 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lack Discipline?? people who lack discipline are people who have to drink.. U GO GIRL

  • @hannahkelliott1722
    @hannahkelliott1722 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yes congrats!! kets be friends

  • @YingjiaWan-k8u
    @YingjiaWan-k8u 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Good job! I'm from Asia, and I remember being shocked at how normalized drinking is in American colleges, and the social isolation a person can experience just from not drinking. I just want to say that a lot of the concepts/identities associated with drinking is heavily socialized. It's not coming from the self. I come from a culture where drinking is only somewhat normalized in middle-aged men's dinner tables and those are widely considered the most boring social occasions one will ever find themselves in. I know TONS of super interesting people who do not drink. I mean, if drinking is what makes people funny, relaxed, charming, etc., then there would be ZERO funny, relaxed, charming people in cultures where drinking is not a big part of normal people's life, and you know it's not true. Drinking is just one behavior that has been attached to particular meanings in one particular society at one particular period of history. It is not PART of anybody. You're Cely, and you are not what you drink.

  • @Vnonie
    @Vnonie หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🏼🫶🏼👏🦋

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey cely bird ❤

  • @williemacon30
    @williemacon30 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations now will you accept my onion ring so we can live happily ever after

  • @KristineRomero-im7vw
    @KristineRomero-im7vw 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I celebrated my first year sober-versary yesterday, 1/1/25. It has been the most liberating, freeing journey. I grew so much closer to God too. It’s okay to grieve the old versions of ourselves, but we get to rejoice in this new space where we have unexplainable peace, joy and freedom that alcohol or any kind of substance will never be able to offer. 🤍

  • @Vnonie
    @Vnonie หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🏼🫶🏼👏🦋