Postpartum Depression is so real🥲

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  • @VanishreeVanishree-fe7xz
    @VanishreeVanishree-fe7xz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    My baby girl is 7 month old , still suffering alot with depression, no breast feeding no family support... So much 😢 my only strength is my child smile

  • @israthriyana9022
    @israthriyana9022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Eanakku 8 month boy erukanga, emergency c section, bp rise 200
    Baby born after 4th day bp naala fex vanthuruchu, ean fex vanthuchu kettapa 1000la one person ku ipdi aagum sonaga,i faced lot of dipression 😢 ean eanakku mattum ipdi aachu apdinu, romba dipression nyt timela thaniya aluthuttu eruppen,
    Every each hour once bp check pannanum 40 days, en husband konjam vittutu veliya ponalum aluga varum
    Baby porantha happy ella, baby kitta kathitte eruppen
    Kathurappa lam en husband enna calm pani thoonga vachiduvanga
    3 months job pogama enkuda erunthu enna care panipaathaga
    MY Husband is my second mother ❤
    May Allah give him healthy life

    • @AbiManyu-li1qb
      @AbiManyu-li1qb หลายเดือนก่อน

      Enode husband enode ammavirkum melaga ennai parthukondar. intha jenmathil enaku kidaitha varam enadhu kanavar.

  • @Betterlife-nn8xp
    @Betterlife-nn8xp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I have 1 year old baby , living alone in abroad and breastfeeding ur cluster feeding baby , recovering from emergency c section and ended up in a calcium deficiency.. I feel like my brain is fogged and no longer able to make a proper decision , not able to bath peacefully , because ur child needs u always .. there are days my body is giving up .. I feel sad always and irritated , hormones spike up like anything , back pain trigger after pregnancy I roll many times every single day to sleep peacefully.. yeah postpartum depression is real 😢 there women’s who fail to speak up a.

    • @IrfansView2
      @IrfansView2  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      more strength to you💖

  • @vijayabharathi4445
    @vijayabharathi4445 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    It is real. The new mother craves for all the attention from the husband. Others attention means nothing if the husband is not there to emotionally support you and to understand your new version.
    It can even make the mother feel bad for the changes she is going through. Every day is the same for her from day to night, having incomplete sleep! It's all overwhelming!

  • @prabak8032
    @prabak8032 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Postpartum depression is very very worst experience in every girls life. Actually I had two daughters elder one studying 1std and younger one is one year old. From day 1 I only manage my hardest path with my husband support. Whatever i did like, scolding , screeming, throwing things towards babies and husband, my husband being very cool and say its OK da. From that word makes me very quilt after sometimes. Fact is theses are the things we go through our mood swing time. So please people give support to Evey postpartum women as much as possible. Else, kindly shut out. Don't comment badly

  • @incretesowmya9757
    @incretesowmya9757 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Postpartum depression is real 💯 it's been 2 years still I'm struggling to overcome it

  • @Dpforver12
    @Dpforver12 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes it is very true.. iam a mom of two sons.. what ur sis said is very true. I suffered a lot with my mom in law. She kept saying that my milk was not sufficient for my son. Already i was into depression after sleepless nights, feeding kid, doing household works n recovering.. i couldnt take it for months together. I felt i was in some seperate world. Thank God my husband understood my state of mind and took of our son when he was at home.. ❤❤

  • @indhujapalanisamy5003
    @indhujapalanisamy5003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Postpartum depression is so real... I have 1 and half year old kid... One thing the family can do to help new mother is first 6 months post delivery care mother more than the baby( becs baby needs feed and sleep but new mother need recovery from delivery and lot more) post sixth month allowing mothers to have some me time alone helped a lot in my case...

  • @shyamc339
    @shyamc339 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Aasifah nee semma intelligent love the way how embrace the family

  • @sd-ud6iq
    @sd-ud6iq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    After my delivery my mil created lots of misunderstanding between me n hubby arrange marriage so no proper understanding.till my child one year v were separated.i was depressed.i lived for my child only.now v r together all problem solved but can't even think about that period.horrible geel

  • @sarahsamayal5533
    @sarahsamayal5533 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Serious na epo vara feel pandren... Enoda second baby ku 1 yr aguthu epo vara ennala depression la erunthu veliya vara mudiyala.. Yen tension agranu teriyama tension agran.. First baby 4yrs aga pothu avaluku school ready panni anupanum... Entha baby um pathukanum.. Yen second baby plan pannanu kooda feel pana.. Entha society alathan second baby ah plan panna.. Rendu baby kum 2.5 yrs difference... Athukey enala samalika mudiyala...

  • @iyarkaiezhilagam8430
    @iyarkaiezhilagam8430 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ya it's true I faced it.stay strong alia good people (soul)around you so never have such depression.

  • @pradhukanz7765
    @pradhukanz7765 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes very real.. but family support only can help to overcome it

  • @yusufsafna5338
    @yusufsafna5338 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Exactly its very true irfan anna plz take care of your wife in that kind of situation every wife need husband's attention in that time be with her make her feel u r there for her ❤

  • @AkGer3
    @AkGer3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Postpartum depression is Real. Partner support plays a vital role in overcoming it. Stress, hormones spike, body changes everything takes a toil in your body, mind and soul, but after few years everything becomes normal.I have 4 kids and am pregnant with my 5th baby by September.

  • @B.K.Lrammi
    @B.K.Lrammi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah it's very true ....nanum anubavachiruken till now ..ana veliya kaamikama poitu iruku 😢

  • @vgayathri6109
    @vgayathri6109 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im undergoing extreme depression.wen a newborn mother didnt get enough support from family .wen she is not able to get her physical strength back with nutritious food .she will find difficult to accept the changes that she is undergng physically. New born mother always need a mother care .she need good food ,love ,support and sleep to avoid this depression

  • @rishanafasheer244
    @rishanafasheer244 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes it’s real for every mothers

  • @mycookingstyle1992
    @mycookingstyle1992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    family support is very very important for a mom in postpartm

  • @prabhavathibalaji7474
    @prabhavathibalaji7474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's true, when we got second child that time we have to take care of two. Doing everything for first child, cooking, taking care of 5 month old is difficult

  • @LITTLEYAANCLOTHING
    @LITTLEYAANCLOTHING 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1000000000000%%%%%%%%%% True true true, Yenda pulla pethukitom nu lam thonirku, Saddest part enana, normal delivery dhana ,poi velaya paru nu solradhu dhan.It took 1.5 years for me to come back for my normal life, atleast 50% of sleep, Particularly breastfeeding, it makes us Literally sleepy whole day,. Also, Ena ivlo gundaaita, indha vaarthaya yaarum poi pulla petha yartayum soladhinga nallaarupinga, Not everyone have the will power to be back to their old shape.

  • @Mrsfarooz
    @Mrsfarooz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Well said..my dear brother irfan❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @florinejanani7324
    @florinejanani7324 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said ... The period of theirs is different from current

  • @sonykarthi
    @sonykarthi หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's not easy to handle this I also have this depression 😢now a days this is promblem now a days I have first baby happy but second baby is always burden I thing in depressed time but now iam happily living with two babies😂😂❤

  • @rosevijay6942
    @rosevijay6942 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now,i have 2yr and 6 month girl baby,no one help me,and also c section,daily met family prb but im so happy,bez 4yrs to wait my baby,

  • @rathivenkatesh8532
    @rathivenkatesh8532 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Romba correct anna. Till now iam facing it my son age is 3 years old

  • @sneghasarathy7993
    @sneghasarathy7993 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Going through this face now my baby is 2 mth both are boys every body who comes home tells me u deserve a girl its ok nu u know it not ok end of the day my boys are my life 🧬 they are not options nxt mit they say u became more fatter than bf guys I am always on fatt side dha epo dha evn ga kannuku na therirana 😢😮 milk supply 1st babies chors and i am here all alone doing household work and managing kids i have a maid called selvi akka she is literally my kadavul which is extremely difficult 😭 and asifa is sooooo true i am having it for my 2 nd baby 😢 guddos to all the women's

  • @cutie6884
    @cutie6884 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I have 10 month old baby.. Yeh bby form aanathula irute thaniya tha iruka.. Amna appa. Mamiyaar nu yaar um illa..
    Husband um wrk poiruvaru ennala nimathi sapta thoonga wrk panna kuda mudiyalA.. Yesterday kuda sethura laa ma nu thaa thoonuchi... Vairu neraiya nimmathiya saptu thoongi evlo naal aachu nu kuda theriyala.. 😢but ithula yaarkume sonna puriyathuu..
    Face panra engalukku tha theriyu😊😢😢

    • @AbiManyu-li1qb
      @AbiManyu-li1qb หลายเดือนก่อน

      Konja nal apditha irukum. Mother feed pathalena doctor consultation ode formula feedum kodunge.apro daily vegetables neraiya sapdunge.baby rest edukrapo ningalum rest edunge. Recover aga konjanal edukum. Be bold.ninge happy ya iruntha onga kidum happya irukum.

    • @cutie6884
      @cutie6884 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@AbiManyu-li1qb ohhh thank you sisyyy ❤❤❤❤

  • @keerthigamurugan3655
    @keerthigamurugan3655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What you told is crt sis 🤗 atha generation vera ithu vera it's true 💯 I've a one yr daughter I'm literally in the postpartum depression through out the year now only I'm come out from that. nega ipo itha pathi pesrpo tha konja peaceful iruku ithu enaku matum illa elaarukum iruthrukunu.

  • @arunjaya14
    @arunjaya14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes is very true I am 7 month baby mummy c section papa poranthathum 15 I am very dipression azhuthuttey tha iruppa recovery romba kasta patta

  • @fathimafemeena9937
    @fathimafemeena9937 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    After one of marriage.... I got pregnant... Mataintaining one baby in joint family is a big task.. After 2 years again got my second p 2:02 2:02 2:02 regnarendume c section ippo dubainla rendu peraiyum mentaina pandra de kastam its true feeling pasangala thevaiye illama nthittuvom theva illama sandai varum nalla kathanum num thonumnc

  • @bankingbureau9379
    @bankingbureau9379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am a mom of 3 months baby..till now i never underwent so called postpartum depression because of my family and husband support..A mom needs a mom..!!! Amma matum kooda erunthangana pothumm.. Ethayum handle panidalam...

  • @AjmalkhanAmir
    @AjmalkhanAmir 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes iam faced postpartum depression for 2 delivery . Yen da baby ku health problems irrunthu naanum ennodap mom mattum than baby a ni8 fulla paathukuvom vera family members support illa. romba stress aahi babies veruthutan. Ennoda first delivery ku family members ellarum help a irruthanga. 2 baby earlier poranthanaala ennoda family mem enna romba hurt pannaga intha postpartum deppression la irrunthu veliya varathu konjam kastam first delivery ku onnum theariyathu 2 delivery la than romba kadupa irrukum

  • @logeswarisuman4963
    @logeswarisuman4963 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ellathumelayum kovam varum, nambala edhuku eduthalum kora solramadhiri irukum adhum work from home during postpartum is a hell....😢

  • @kiruthikaswaminathan3841
    @kiruthikaswaminathan3841 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kandipa real nga yarru anupavikiranag avangaluku thaan theriyum

  • @user-dh2tn8on6n
    @user-dh2tn8on6n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ashifa..oya me loke inna ape wayaswala inna hama amma kenek wenuwemma katha kara...a wachana tika loku balapaamak saha panividayak..Good job..❤

  • @afrinprazi6141
    @afrinprazi6141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, knjm kaistama irukum but baby face pakkumpothu yen iped pannrom thonumm …
    Aliya sis yethum yosikathiga delivery insha allha nalapadiya irukanum 🎉🎉🎉

  • @dhivyaguru1431
    @dhivyaguru1431 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I go through alot till 5 months after gone....yes postpartum depression happens....

  • @ranganathanranga6370
    @ranganathanranga6370 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    👋 bro Irfan so much for your family very nice 👍💓

  • @priyankapraveenraj
    @priyankapraveenraj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Literally im im postpartum depression my son is 6 month old mental agiruvanonu thonuthu😢😢

  • @meeranmohideen9375
    @meeranmohideen9375 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes true kovama varum kuripa na mulichi kedakum bothu husband kaunthadichi thoonguna avlo kovam varum thatti elupi pullaiya Kaila kuduthutu na thoongeruven sila neram alugaiya varum

  • @saarashakil322
    @saarashakil322 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is really true💯 Irfan family ❤

  • @jy751
    @jy751 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had wild thoughts of throwing my baby from balcony ..I was away from my family in another city. They couldnt come and stay and I don't know why it's crying every time I take to hospital at 2 in night doctor will shout saying it's colic. I was scared to go to balcony...then i realised this is not good and something is there. Those times no smart phones. Only number phones i went to psychiatrist saying something happened to me..she was so nice. She explained about this postpartum depression and alhamdulillah now kids grown up ..that too my first daughter was born after 5yrs inspite of that I wasn't able to love her..

  • @matharasi19
    @matharasi19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's true... So many hurdles needs to face... Completely avoid millk tea coffee for baby acidity
    Breast feeding correct position takes a month
    Constipation biggest pain than labor
    Due to this unable to take regular tablets after delivery which we taken as earlier, no proper take care of us,no care about the stomach exercise etc

  • @hemasharma1846
    @hemasharma1846 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have faced depression for 7 months becoz of all experienced people in my family there taunts with 40 days of baby in my hand and telling to wake me up at 6 and tell me to make tea and other house hold chores....i used to get angry y did i have a baby just because of my family pressure

  • @sandhyatirunavukarasu191
    @sandhyatirunavukarasu191 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My baby boy is 8 month old. Im in my moms place beacsue my husband is in abroad. I got emergency c section thn later i goy blood clot nd urine infection because im not taken enough water nd fluids so one of 1000 people may affect this kind of issue like doctor said. After my delivery my husband came im unable to spend time he wnt to his home town nd he didnt spend proper time nd im unable to feed my baby beacsue of my headache once everything normal my body is giving day by day different issues kind of back pain leg pain nd so many stuffs i will show my anger mostly to my mom sister nd father. My husband went to abroad thn later i used to fight with him lot i dont like to live dont know wt happened to me im lost totally my family is big support i will shout my baby sometimes i will say sorry to him but my husband didnt get anything wt im going through if my family is not here i may lost totally . Delivering a baby is not a joke or simple thing like earlier days its rollercoster sleep food bath nd our career everything we should give up..

  • @bhavyaannayaraju3883
    @bhavyaannayaraju3883 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got pregnant as soon as I completed my 3rd month of my marriage ,love marriage my parents dint agree struggled a lot after delivery, no body at home only me n baby alone,feed d baby cook food ,clean d house , give bf,lunch,diñer for my husband's two mamas dey were not supporting in anything faced a lot money problem expected 75k will happen for c sec but almost including everything it costed 2L, harmones hike , can't go outside, just feed do d household,can't eat anything , c-section pain , wen I try to eat baby use to get up n cry , all dis was a big trauma for me I had become like a sycho ,omg I don't know how I managed to stay in dos days now it's gonna be 2 yrs for my kid am little bit k n coming out of it , it's not so easy to be women .

  • @thasujaffar6529
    @thasujaffar6529 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its soooooooooooo real... nowww facing😢.. Totally changed life style

  • @divyadivi3
    @divyadivi3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes I too faced this kinda depression at my early stage... Romba romba kastama irukum😢but namma pulla sirupu pakumbothu ela stressum pogum😅but one advice partner should take equal responsibility of child avanga baby tha ne? Ean pondati matume pathukunam? Purshan samalika koodatha?

  • @fathimahamza9670
    @fathimahamza9670 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yuh that's really true nw I m facing the same but I calm my self by dng dhikr much I also have 2 toddlers and last son 1 and half mnth. Husbnd ennathan support a irantha lum ellm nawe pannanum nda oru mentallti iki so ala kola ellm semma kowam warum pullel ku adika warum husbnd oda sanda pudika thonum

  • @dhasalingam3846
    @dhasalingam3846 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Akka neega solurathu true than ah 5 years baby irukan second pregnancy la irukan 6 month complete aagala pothu pregnancy starting la irunthu oru payam irunthuta iruku baby pirathathuku aprm epadi samilika poromnu😔

  • @ramyaa4411
    @ramyaa4411 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When is ur delivery date ??

  • @user-tn3dh6do5l
    @user-tn3dh6do5l 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's really true bro

  • @priyakanthan5678
    @priyakanthan5678 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even I felt the same when I was pregnant with my 2nd child. No one understands the pain Sonna ulagathula ne matuma pulla Pethanu solluvainga

    • @hemasharma1846
      @hemasharma1846 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We should say yes to those people

  • @sabarisai7556
    @sabarisai7556 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Crtt a solranga enakkum ellam same feellll second pregnancy time

  • @manjukv8095
    @manjukv8095 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100%TRUE...

  • @ahmedkabeer7497
    @ahmedkabeer7497 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's really worst experience in my life. Husband must support wife. I had gone through this.. same as asifa sis.. I used to get angry on my husband only. It's very difficult to maintain house hold work and kids with very less age gap. That too no sleep ... Feeding... Washing kids clothes... With c sec pain ... With back pain... I felt y did I born ? Y did I marry this man ? Am I not fit to be mother ?

  • @natarajans7967
    @natarajans7967 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If u have postpartum depression then u should check with your OB If u have Gene mutation ( MRFHR)

  • @shahfinisha1904
    @shahfinisha1904 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Irfan sister kadha tan enakum 2 babys one and harf years la neraya stress

  • @mishalthefishlover3428
    @mishalthefishlover3428 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100%real...😢

  • @kalpanasuresh4080
    @kalpanasuresh4080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Delivery date eppo siss

  • @bhavyaannayaraju3883
    @bhavyaannayaraju3883 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Athu Vida kodume aanuthu ennathu na wen I was pregnant my husband took care of me like a baby but as soon as delivery happened, he wakes up , get ready go to job come home evening play with baby for an hour n den eat sleep dats it doesn't care about me dat was making more tensed pushed me into more depression. Bro my kind request to u is how u take care of Aliya sis now take care of her like dat only after baby born also bcoz dat means a lot to us

  • @CR3.143
    @CR3.143 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    சூப்பரா சொன்னிங்க சிஸ்ட்டர் 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @sonaasik489
    @sonaasik489 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    101%correct

  • @jasvika2022
    @jasvika2022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel it bro😢

  • @shamelig5218
    @shamelig5218 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very very true

  • @thameem.m7668
    @thameem.m7668 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hii akka

  • @user-dh2tn8on6n
    @user-dh2tn8on6n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    true...❤

  • @nivethasrinivasan5744
    @nivethasrinivasan5744 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100 % 😢

  • @rizrizkazuhri2525
    @rizrizkazuhri2525 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯 true

  • @GSK_FOODIES-TAMIL
    @GSK_FOODIES-TAMIL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😢😢😢😢😢yes dr❤

  • @danish7581
    @danish7581 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mashallah happy family ❤

  • @user-kw8hi2cs6p
    @user-kw8hi2cs6p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi anna Anni how r u ? We all r waiting for papa akka healthy food saptunga please oru hii sollunga please

  • @user-nz6pf1du4p
    @user-nz6pf1du4p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First comment so cute family❤❤

  • @radharamesh8679
    @radharamesh8679 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi fst cmt

  • @redrose5003
    @redrose5003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    இதெல்லாம் ஒரு மேட்டரே கிடையாது அந்த காலத்துல வருஷத்துக்கு ஒரு குழந்தை பிறக்கும் நார்மல் டெலிவரி தான் எல்லோரும் நல்லா ஆரோக்கியமா தான் இருந்தாங்க எல்லாத்துக்கும் நம்ம மனசுதான் காரணம் ஆசிபா ஜி😂😂😂❤

    • @mercyshanthi9555
      @mercyshanthi9555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Those days also they suffered but in in silence.dont be ignorant please

  • @user-rl1kc5re4k
    @user-rl1kc5re4k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Who hate Irfan>>>>>>>>>

    • @user-gd1wg
      @user-gd1wg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      We dont

    • @aYTuser00
      @aYTuser00 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Why r you spreading hate bro💩🤦‍♀️

    • @sreelekha9616
      @sreelekha9616 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Nobody

    • @AB-ce3nn
      @AB-ce3nn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Stop spreading hate, pidikalana better not to watch videos

    • @user-rl1kc5re4k
      @user-rl1kc5re4k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AB-ce3nn adhe Mari ungaluku indha comment pidikalana thalli poite iruga😹