Your right webby and in pattaya it will never change,i have met teachers office girls in different places udon ubon korat we are just atms always will be
Cracking vid mate, that echo on the audio under that roof canopy is very distracting though. Definitely agree with your points though. It’s always about money. It’s all just a transaction, nothing more. Their ‘love’ always comes with conditions attached, even though they have very little to offer in return, apart from boom boom.
Greetings from Llantwit Major! Absolute truth, it can only be viewed as a game. Pay as you go is the strategy, be respectful and polite, but keep feelings in check! That said I saw a lot of Farangs being disrespectful and ignorant of Thai culture, this gives us a bad reputation too. I’m a fit 70, and I just enjoy the company of a pretty girl, not really into aerobics anymore, been there done that 😉 As a result I have made friends with the girls, and have never been asked for money. I made it clear. Anyway it’s just an old duffer offering an opinion. Great Channel Steve, may bump into you when I come out for another month on July 8th😎
After living here for years and in many areas of Thailand I would say you are spot on, but it applies not only to bar girls, but to a huge majority of all women in The country.
Exactly the temptation for both men and women is just to great I'm very happily married to a wonderful Thai lady in Australia if we lived in Pattaya I'd be deforced by now to many beautiful young girls available if you have reasonable amounts of baht 😅
Without doubt this is THE most important video you've done mate. I speak from experience of meeting a bar girl and going from "I need money 1000bht for my sick buffalo" to me being completelt drai ed of over 750 grand in 5 years. There are lovely girls but there are BAR girls, and you must draw that line! Thank you for saying what you have Webby and I mean that!
@welshboywebby You're not afraid to say how we can feel when living in the real world of Pattaya. Our western morals don't matter as far as being susceptible to a manipulative girl and that should be highlighted more often. As I said there ARE nie girls but you need to get to know them as friends too
Nightmare want want want I learned after my first trip 4yrs ago you can take the girl from the bar but not the bar from the girl money is the ultimate goal not you ,you would be cast aside like trash if a richer sponsor comes along and guys no matter what you think she will be screwing once you go home even if she goes back to the village ,some guys get lucky but many get burnt ,when you live here it's a different ball game cos your here so beware ! webby is spot on with everything
Its spot on, it all evolves around money. When you only in Pattaya for holidays, dont even bother, just fo short time, have fun, go home and dont start chattin on Line with the ladies. living in Pattaya is another situation, you can have company but you have to deal with jealousy, cultural differences, a lady who has no real interest in you and last but not least a constant demand for money.
@@welshboywebby i made all the mistakes in the past, but we learn. We simply are no match for these hardened girls. The pressure on them put by the family to bring in money is enormous. Pattaya is no place for naiev and sensitive guys
I had a real Thai wife (never bar girl or freelance). Not too bad on the money but the Jealousy was insane. Even when i bought her to UK. In fact it got worse over here. It is what split us up in the end.
In May I was just playing pool in a bar, nothing more, and the lady started talking about her leaky roof. It soon moved on to can you give me 10k to fix it and it didn't stop even after I laughed it off. That's the first time I've experienced such a blatant push for money and it made me drink up and move on.
I'm 62. I've been coming to Pattaya since 2004 after my divorce. I lived in Chiang Mai 2005-2009. I never considered my lady friends in Pattaya as my steady girlfriend. I stayed with girls in Pattaya, but my girlfriends over the years I met in Bangkok or Chiang Mai under social circumstances. All worked jobs, one girl gave up working in a hair salon, and I helped her with an automatic 10,000 baht per month, and I picked up our living expenses. She only had her mother to take care of between her siblings. She would even do hair for wedding parties and personal clients. All my girlfriends were industrious at business and saving. I always understood pay for play in Pattaya. I made the arrangements, and she accepted. Your bar girl is making pretty good money, so if you want 100% of her time, you will need a very clear arrangement.
you are right about that. money money money. you could give her money 364 days of a year and if you don't on the 365 day you are a bad guy and she will treat you like you never gave her a penny. I will NEVER be ok with giving them 10 or 15k a month to send to their family so i guess will be single/fun life for me
I live here and had girls stay with me years ago money money money now prefer my own company and call in my regulars who i have known for around 10 years when i feel the need which is not as often as years ago lol saved myself a fortune
Honest dialogue. I am born Burmese and married to South Korean 37 years now. Not all HUNKY DORY. 37 years is a huge long time. I do dream of Thai Girl Friends a lot but I do learn a lot from you and other vloggers.
Good vid. The honesty is commendable because a lot guys won't admit that they've fallen into the bar girl trap, etc, and will try to pretend they've been to wise and above it all. In the end, we are all emotional creatures, and it takes real practice to learn how to stay out of the entanglement$.
Many of these girls know the various holiday seasons for different countries. They know how to have boyfriends that won't clash due to different holiday times. I watched a friend drop her boyfriend off at the airport and with crocodile tears wave goodbye. Leaving the airport I asked my gf why her friend wasn't coming. Oh she has something to look at here and then taking a taxi to see her mum. That evening we were back at the bar in Cha am and the friend turned up with a new bf. She had just dropped one off and picked another up. She sat looking at a small diary working out the next departure/arrival set up. Talk about hunting season. The long inbetween stretch is for the ultra gullible who remain at home sending money across for every excuse in the book. That was way back since 2002 and with my wife passing a few months ago I will never entertain another girl again, no lady nonsense drinks nothing. Take a woman home yes, but no typical bar girls and the set up. Before, I kept away from bars with foam bottle coolers and stuck to Thai bars and restaurants sat at a table, listening to live music and meeting decent people. I would be handed the bill and many times be joined to drink up and take a girl to a Thai night club. I can not stand entering a bar and being pestered for drinks. It doesn't happen in the Thai places. Learn the language, keep learning and enjoy the true experience. No more family support and the book of excuses although they still ask to borrow money (give) but that's normal amongst themselves anyway. The new single me, round 2 more wiser than ever. Freely roam the bars alone or sit feeding a stranger and her friends, just to collect the foam bottle cooler full of bills. Might as well stand out 7/11 handing out beer, cheaper.
Fantastic advice Webby but in all honesty you will never stop guys going there and falling for the girls, you might as well stop the sun coming up. I fell in love with a bar girl on my first visit, tried to marry her later, it all went wrong( surprise) but luckily had a great time and didn’t lose a fortune. However had a succession of friends did the same thing, 4 mates all married bar girls, one got divorced, 2, married older bar mama types and remained married until they died, and one mate married has 2 kids and lives in England. I’ve been married to. Thai lady for 20 years now, though she’s a Thai chef and never worked a bar. So what you say is 100% true, if you can get her out of the bar and say back to Wales you may, just may stand a chance, although as you say you will have responsibility for her family.
I’m sorry to say that we’re having cutbacks at the Pattaya Bargirls Union Marketing Dept and we’re having to let you go 🤣😂 Telling it as it is as always Webby 👌🏻👍🏻
If you take a lady away from her job, someone is going to have to cover her expenses - same would be true in western countries. My girlfriend not only was never jealous, but would share me with her friends and co-workers - don't think this would happen with a western lady. That's not to say I haven't met other ladies who wanted me to be exclusive, but I have also met others who were fine with me not being exclusive and would share me.
Fuck that and yeah been there and done that and got the t-shirt far too much hassle, and the weird mood had put me off, Thai girls !! Best go to the Philippines, bro
Great video webby. Full of truth all the way. In my opinion every thai girl thinks a farang is a ATM machine money is all they want and once u stop it they go.. Very cold hearted girls as well leave in a second once u stop money
@@welshboywebby thanks for the reply, yes unbelievable respect for thai men but none for a farang once the money stops no matter if a bar girl or freelance or working in hotel or Shopping mall. Money no 1.👌
Pay for play only with a bar girl. If you really want a girlfriend, try and find someone who is a civil servant or has another regular job, she will still expect some sort of support but it wont be anywhere near as much agro as a bar girl.
Forget money! Even if you have more than what they ask the phycological damage their work, bad past and bad habits create is beyond our imagination. So....best case scenario is If you are an expert and know how to100% handle them you will be fun for a while and nothing more, in the end they will succumb to their mental issues. Conclusion is its not worth it.
On the money (no pun intended) with that one Steve. Been there, done that and need less to say had the same money money outcome. Maybe some day I'll find a way to take possession and turn the place into the Issan Hilton.
If she is an 8-10 Just give her severance pay-monthly (if you want her 24 hours)-take care of her financially-that way-if you break up she has cash and is not abandoned-better than a divorce settlement-don’t say you love her (yet)
@@welshboywebbyShe was working in a bar for a reason mate - not because of our stunning good looks and sparkling personalities. If she is supporting kids or a family back home, you better be prepared to step up or move on to a different one who don’t need the money as desperately. Simple as.
What you said is 100 percent on the ball. I'm here now in jomtien, no interest in dragging a girl along for a month. I go where I want, but I when I want. No pressure, I no hassle. 😅
Everyone thinks sooner or later… This one is different.! Unlikely, unless she works for the state, or has a regular well paid job. Guess what.? She’ll not be working in a bar. Everything mentioned here is mostly true, and WILL come to pass. I live here, most bargirls stick to the age old play book. But the odd one is super smart,and play the long game, and that can seriously compromise you financially . Once you are sucked into their world, letting go emotionally is difficult. When they ask for money - Sometimes a lot of it. Be firm, say no. Because here you pay. How about paying her Mortgage. 32,700 Baht a month. That was recently dropped on me. The little white lies are cumulative, eventually it Always ends the same way…. I just don’t know WTF to say to them anymore…
This is why you don't take lady from a bar if you want her as girlfriend .it's OK for her to butterfly. But you can't. She only after money that why she working bar .pattaya not best place to find lady to marry .
If you were looking for a genuine long term relationship rather than just using them maybe you should attempt to learn the language and understand the culture. Maybe a trip to Issan is in order.
Its a hilarious game, its like you dont even have to be considered a boyfriend, dont you dare take another girl from the bar you saw the girl from last night. Let alone she had 5 customers already...this sums up the jealousy but x10 if boyfriend.
if i rent /pay a painter or contractor or a maid for my condo is it my "boyfriend/girlfriend" then? You pay the lady for her WORK service nothing else..she's not you girlfriend she is your employee!
#1 rule always remember you are a customer. Once you know that there is not a problem and a load of fun, they get more money than they can ever dream of from working farm and we have a million times better life than drinking Brains (shit pint) in Weatherspoons with zero chance of having the company of a young fit bird, not that you would find one in a UK Wealtherspoons
Not all girls are the same I think if they’d been in a bar girl for a very long time it is very difficult for them to change and let’s be honest. They have been through a lot of mental health problems due to the fact that they picked up and dropped on a regular basis. Imagine someone coming along I’m telling you, they love you and spoiling you then dropping you like a stone. As I said not everyone is the same we all different and you can’t typecast people.
Hi, I am genuinely interested do you want a partner or are you just happy being on your own ? Going to Thailand and spending all that money have you had bad experiences in the UK? It's hard finding someone who is genuine i know since my husband died , it has frightened me I wish you all the best bud genuinely intrigued take care x
While I think you make some very valid points, it’s not all Thai ladies, as a lot of your comments imply (not you). There are many successful and happy relationships with Thai ladies but I would agree wholeheartedly that avoid a bar girl. People may believe they are the one that turned them, that is only true as long as the cash is flowing. I would also add that you have a 99% chance of finding the wrong lady in Pattaya, there are the odd gems out there. Just wanted to add a little balance, more to the comments, than the general content of the video. No offence intended.
I love all comments. I agree. I know my friend,has been married over 20 years, happy as living in Wales, I said it on my live today, pattaya is,not a place to find love that's for sure
I never used to break the 3 day rule for the first 10 years of going to Thai but then I met my current thai gf who I’ve been with for 2 years who’s good as gold. I don’t give her a salary, she earns her own money as a beautician but I’ll sometimes help her out if she needs something. She’s not the jealous type lets me go to my friends bars if we go to Pattaya while she will sit in the condo and watch Korean shite. I will say I’m 36 and she is 35… it’s funny when these 50+ year olds fall in love with a Thai girl half their age or more and expect the feelings to be mutual… of course the girls are only after one thing ฿฿฿฿฿!
Pay as you go is the only sensible option, don’t let your sex drive ruin your life. Hope you’ve learned your lesson. Good luck and happy hunting. I will try and catch you in September 🍺
Stand outside 7/11 handing out beer. Same thing, buy them nothing just walk into a bar and enjoy your beer. Cheap Charlie so what you don't know them and they don't know you and don't want to know you.
Nice one webby, have you ever had a thai GF and thought, ok this ones different i can deal with this. The other thing is how have your break ups been, heard so.e thai girls go chucky mental on break up
Take a trip over to Philippines webby bring a Filipina girl back to Thailand she will love you forever and only ever ask for fruit and veg all good are kid
Fucking hell Webby, you been visiting Pattaya for over a decade, living there for over a year, and you have only just released what the brasses are all about lol😂
Lol well stop falling in love then, every other month, 😂, you have to remember your falling for young girls, who would have nothing in common with you in your own country, so it's pretty obvious to anyone,, my mother is 83 never been out of the country she was born in, and she knows what Thailand is all about 😂
@@welshboywebby same lol I'm 58 now and have made a promise to myself to think of me me and only me I'm there in Jan and will use witherspoons for the golf society I get you a pint if I see ya
Men, remember they are not your girlfriends, they are someone you rent. Ans you are not their boyfriends, you are their client.
Spot on mate
When you see it like this you will have no problems.
Flies that hang around the buffalos ass are valued higher !!!
Haha
Agree
Your right webby and in pattaya it will never change,i have met teachers office girls in different places udon ubon korat we are just atms always will be
100%
Absolutely spot on, I've been to Thailand 5 times not even come close to getting loved up, i just have my fun that's it just be a butterfly!
Absolutely
Cracking vid mate, that echo on the audio under that roof canopy is very distracting though. Definitely agree with your points though. It’s always about money. It’s all just a transaction, nothing more. Their ‘love’ always comes with conditions attached, even though they have very little to offer in return, apart from boom boom.
They have to return or give apart from stress amd hassle, yeah I really need to get a new mic mate
Greetings from Llantwit Major! Absolute truth, it can only be viewed as a game. Pay as you go is the strategy, be respectful and polite, but keep feelings in check!
That said I saw a lot of Farangs being disrespectful and ignorant of Thai culture, this gives us a bad reputation too.
I’m a fit 70, and I just enjoy the company of a pretty girl, not really into aerobics anymore, been there done that 😉
As a result I have made friends with the girls, and have never been asked for money. I made it clear. Anyway it’s just an old duffer offering an opinion.
Great Channel Steve, may bump into you when I come out for another month on July 8th😎
100% mate defo meet for a beer
After living here for years and in many areas of Thailand I would say you are spot on, but it applies not only to bar girls, but to a huge majority of all women in The country.
100% mate, the ones who works in hotels and stuff are just as,bed
Exactly the temptation for both men and women is just to great I'm very happily married to a wonderful Thai lady in Australia if we lived in Pattaya I'd be deforced by now to many beautiful young girls available if you have reasonable amounts of baht 😅
Without doubt this is THE most important video you've done mate. I speak from experience of meeting a bar girl and going from "I need money 1000bht for my sick buffalo" to me being completelt drai ed of over 750 grand in 5 years. There are lovely girls but there are BAR girls, and you must draw that line! Thank you for saying what you have Webby and I mean that!
Wow, thank you, my friend, I thought I was,going to get shit making this video
@welshboywebby You're not afraid to say how we can feel when living in the real world of Pattaya. Our western morals don't matter as far as being susceptible to a manipulative girl and that should be highlighted more often. As I said there ARE nie girls but you need to get to know them as friends too
I've always spoke what I think it's,the only way to get through life mate
:)) 750k over 5 years is birdseed for a girl way out of your league
Nightmare want want want I learned after my first trip 4yrs ago you can take the girl from the bar but not the bar from the girl money is the ultimate goal not you ,you would be cast aside like trash if a richer sponsor comes along and guys no matter what you think she will be screwing once you go home even if she goes back to the village ,some guys get lucky but many get burnt ,when you live here it's a different ball game cos your here so beware ! webby is spot on with everything
Cheers mate
Its spot on, it all evolves around money. When you only in Pattaya for holidays, dont even bother, just fo short time, have fun, go home and dont start chattin on Line with the ladies. living in Pattaya is another situation, you can have company but you have to deal with jealousy, cultural differences, a lady who has no real interest in you and last but not least a constant demand for money.
100%
@@welshboywebby i made all the mistakes in the past, but we learn. We simply are no match for these hardened girls. The pressure on them put by the family to bring in money is enormous. Pattaya is no place for naiev and sensitive guys
Totally agree
@@gerardpor3191 that sir is a fact. Gotta be ruthless in the game
I had a real Thai wife (never bar girl or freelance). Not too bad on the money but the Jealousy was insane. Even when i bought her to UK. In fact it got worse over here. It is what split us up in the end.
It's mental mate in it
In May I was just playing pool in a bar, nothing more, and the lady started talking about her leaky roof. It soon moved on to can you give me 10k to fix it and it didn't stop even after I laughed it off. That's the first time I've experienced such a blatant push for money and it made me drink up and move on.
Haahaha
Then they wonder why no customer !
I’ll fix it 555
Krap Pom
@@cheapcharliepip.4015But hey we don’t understand the circumstances they live in😂😂😂😂!
I'm 62. I've been coming to Pattaya since 2004 after my divorce. I lived in Chiang Mai 2005-2009. I never considered my lady friends in Pattaya as my steady girlfriend. I stayed with girls in Pattaya, but my girlfriends over the years I met in Bangkok or Chiang Mai under social circumstances. All worked jobs, one girl gave up working in a hair salon, and I helped her with an automatic 10,000 baht per month, and I picked up our living expenses. She only had her mother to take care of between her siblings.
She would even do hair for wedding parties and personal clients. All my girlfriends were industrious at business and saving.
I always understood pay for play in Pattaya. I made the arrangements, and she accepted.
Your bar girl is making pretty good money, so if you want 100% of her time, you will need a very clear arrangement.
I'm single mate but like your comment
you are right about that. money money money. you could give her money 364 days of a year and if you don't on the 365 day you are a bad guy and she will treat you like you never gave her a penny. I will NEVER be ok with giving them 10 or 15k a month to send to their family so i guess will be single/fun life for me
Snap
Been going to Thailand for ten years Straight for 60 days at a time and you’re 90% spot on
What's the 10% I'm wrong lol
I live here and had girls stay with me years ago money money money now prefer my own company and call in my regulars who i have known for around 10 years when i feel the need which is not as often as years ago lol saved myself a fortune
Good advice
Absolutely spot on 🏆👌🙏
Glad you think so!
Webby I have 24 years of Thailand,whilst I don't know it all I've learnt a lot on the way,you are spot on mate.
Cheers I do try
Honest dialogue. I am born Burmese and married to South Korean 37 years now. Not all HUNKY DORY. 37 years is a huge long time. I do dream of Thai Girl Friends a lot but I do learn a lot from you and other vloggers.
Cheers
Mate, please don't forget:
She is never yours, its only your turn.
Agree
very spot on summary,i can confirm myself been through all the same shit,after a while you become jaded because of your experience
Agree 👍
Good vid. The honesty is commendable because a lot guys won't admit that they've fallen into the bar girl trap, etc, and will try to pretend they've been to wise and above it all. In the end, we are all emotional creatures, and it takes real practice to learn how to stay out of the entanglement$.
Agree
If it flys, f___s or floats..... rent it.
Many of these girls know the various holiday seasons for different countries. They know how to have boyfriends that won't clash due to different holiday times. I watched a friend drop her boyfriend off at the airport and with crocodile tears wave goodbye. Leaving the airport I asked my gf why her friend wasn't coming. Oh she has something to look at here and then taking a taxi to see her mum. That evening we were back at the bar in Cha am and the friend turned up with a new bf. She had just dropped one off and picked another up. She sat looking at a small diary working out the next departure/arrival set up. Talk about hunting season. The long inbetween stretch is for the ultra gullible who remain at home sending money across for every excuse in the book. That was way back since 2002 and with my wife passing a few months ago I will never entertain another girl again, no lady nonsense drinks nothing. Take a woman home yes, but no typical bar girls and the set up. Before, I kept away from bars with foam bottle coolers and stuck to Thai bars and restaurants sat at a table, listening to live music and meeting decent people. I would be handed the bill and many times be joined to drink up and take a girl to a Thai night club.
I can not stand entering a bar and being pestered for drinks. It doesn't happen in the Thai places. Learn the language, keep learning and enjoy the true experience. No more family support and the book of excuses although they still ask to borrow money (give) but that's normal amongst themselves anyway. The new single me, round 2 more wiser than ever. Freely roam the bars alone or sit feeding a stranger and her friends, just to collect the foam bottle cooler full of bills. Might as well stand out 7/11 handing out beer, cheaper.
Thanks for sharing and sorry for you loss
Fantastic advice Webby but in all honesty you will never stop guys going there and falling for the girls, you might as well stop the sun coming up. I fell in love with a bar girl on my first visit, tried to marry her later, it all went wrong( surprise) but luckily had a great time and didn’t lose a fortune. However had a succession of friends did the same thing, 4 mates all married bar girls, one got divorced, 2, married older bar mama types and remained married until they died, and one mate married has 2 kids and lives in England. I’ve been married to. Thai lady for 20 years now, though she’s a Thai chef and never worked a bar. So what you say is 100% true, if you can get her out of the bar and say back to Wales you may, just may stand a chance, although as you say you will have responsibility for her family.
100% awesome comment
Brilliant video
Every word is so true
Cheers
Jeez, your Thai language skills are excellent!
Hahaha
I’m sorry to say that we’re having cutbacks at the Pattaya Bargirls Union Marketing Dept and we’re having to let you go 🤣😂
Telling it as it is as always Webby 👌🏻👍🏻
Haahah
If you take a lady away from her job, someone is going to have to cover her expenses - same would be true in western countries.
My girlfriend not only was never jealous, but would share me with her friends and co-workers - don't think this would happen with a western lady.
That's not to say I haven't met other ladies who wanted me to be exclusive, but I have also met others who were fine with me not being exclusive and would share me.
Thank for sharing
Excellent information mate 👌
Glad it was helpful!
Excellent info, very, very true points , very difficult to meet normal thai girls e.g office workers etc 😅😅😅
Cheers
On the list of where you stand, you forgot to add you are behind the famous sick buffalo 😂
Haha
Fuck that and yeah been there and done that and got the t-shirt far too much hassle, and the weird mood had put me off, Thai girls !!
Best go to the Philippines, bro
I'm defo going one day
This is like a confesssional haha.
Haahah great fun in it
Great video webby. Full of truth all the way. In my opinion every thai girl thinks a farang is a ATM machine money is all they want and once u stop it they go.. Very cold hearted girls as well leave in a second once u stop money
They leave in a heart beat mate, the thing is,they are so respectful to thai men
@@welshboywebby thanks for the reply, yes unbelievable respect for thai men but none for a farang once the money stops no matter if a bar girl or freelance or working in hotel or Shopping mall. Money no 1.👌
Make your hotel room in Pattaya a sanctuary for just you alone and noone else and you will have no pomplems!
Thanks for sharing
A business transaction is better than nothing here in usa ive been single for 8 years im 48
Haha I get it mate
Pay for play only with a bar girl. If you really want a girlfriend, try and find someone who is a civil servant or has another regular job, she will still expect some sort of support but it wont be anywhere near as much agro as a bar girl.
They are all a nightmare
Excellent advice.
I once bought a bar girl a toastie I’m still not over it
Haahah
After a few day's they will do your head in with dramas like a real relationship best is short time every one's happy 😊
Thanks
this could be about any kind of women and girlfriends, not only pattaya =) stay single everyone!
I do like being single
Forget money! Even if you have more than what they ask the phycological damage their work, bad past and bad habits create is beyond our imagination.
So....best case scenario is If you are an expert and know how to100% handle them you will be fun for a while and nothing more, in the end they will succumb to their mental issues. Conclusion is its not worth it.
Thanks for sharing
Never forget fellas your the Prize 🏆
You know what, mate, that is so true
@@welshboywebby My Thai male friends told me to avoid getting serious with the women, had a whale of time butterflying around.
One thai guy who is with a thai owner said you men are thick as shit paying for thai lady's 😆 something like that anyway
Spot on pay as you go rent everything and I mean everything and it actually works out cheaper 😅
Thanks for sharing
On the money (no pun intended) with that one Steve. Been there, done that and need less to say had the same money money outcome. Maybe some day I'll find a way to take possession and turn the place into the Issan Hilton.
Everything is about money money money 💰 anyone says anything else is living with their eyes closed
@@welshboywebby 100% mate!
Do a video bout the misses u brought home to wales webby the pros and cons the upside n downside
I have I did it last year mate
Based on this video. No one ever would. Hope people take advice. I’m about to emigrate to Thailand and so t be going anywhere near the women!
Say again there are letters missing 😆
If she is an 8-10 Just give her severance pay-monthly (if you want her 24 hours)-take care of her financially-that way-if you break up she has cash and is not abandoned-better than a divorce settlement-don’t say you love her (yet)
I'm not given anyone money on the monthly thai men don't, so why should we
@@welshboywebbyShe was working in a bar for a reason mate - not because of our stunning good looks and sparkling personalities. If she is supporting kids or a family back home, you better be prepared to step up or move on to a different one who don’t need the money as desperately. Simple as.
Hi mate, that is 100% right, and that is what I've done, there is noway I will send money to a family I've never met 😆
What you said is 100 percent on the ball. I'm here now in jomtien, no interest in dragging a girl along for a month. I go where I want, but I when I want. No pressure, I no hassle. 😅
Enjoy mate
You have to catch them fresh, before the Pattaya bug sets in 5555
I have and it still gets down to money in the end
Farm fresh you will not find here. They are al ready in de game back home, going whit the boys and doing the caraoke bars. Here it's just next level.
Anacondas !!!
@@rudygeerts7384 I guess I am lucky then ;) 5555
Everyone thinks sooner or later… This one is different.!
Unlikely, unless she works for the state, or has a regular well paid job. Guess what.? She’ll not be working in a bar. Everything mentioned here is mostly true, and WILL come to pass. I live here, most bargirls stick to the age old play book. But the odd one is super smart,and play the long game, and that can seriously compromise you financially . Once you are sucked into their world, letting go emotionally is difficult. When they ask for money - Sometimes a lot of it. Be firm, say no. Because here you pay. How about paying her Mortgage. 32,700 Baht a month. That was recently dropped on me. The little white lies are cumulative, eventually it Always ends the same way…. I just don’t know WTF to say to them anymore…
Great comment
Don't know what to say?? Just say NO!
@@sajjie8121 - correct - And off they shall go. Result. 🙂
100% agree.. All boils down to one word - MONEY
Btw, you have placed Ferang too high at number 8 below the dog. We are below the fleas on the dog! 😂
Hahaa
This is why you don't take lady from a bar if you want her as girlfriend .it's OK for her to butterfly. But you can't. She only after money that why she working bar .pattaya not best place to find lady to marry .
Pattaya ain't the best place to find anything lol but I love It
Me ATM of Bank of Falang !!!
Haha
If you were looking for a genuine long term relationship rather than just using them maybe you should attempt to learn the language and understand the culture. Maybe a trip to Issan is in order.
Been issan a,few times
Its a hilarious game, its like you dont even have to be considered a boyfriend, dont you dare take another girl from the bar you saw the girl from last night. Let alone she had 5 customers already...this sums up the jealousy but x10 if boyfriend.
Agree
Is it possible for a western expat to have a girlfriend in this area who isn't essentially an employee?
Nope
if i rent /pay a painter or contractor or a maid for my condo is it my "boyfriend/girlfriend" then?
You pay the lady for her WORK service nothing else..she's not you girlfriend she is your employee!
Thanks for sharing
You said you'd save talking about money till the end, but then never talked about it. Like how much does a GF cost?
I did say all the way through mate, it costs a fortune
100 % correct Webby in every way
Cheers 🍻
#1 rule always remember you are a customer. Once you know that there is not a problem and a load of fun, they get more money than they can ever dream of from working farm and we have a million times better life than drinking Brains (shit pint) in Weatherspoons with zero chance of having the company of a young fit bird, not that you would find one in a UK Wealtherspoons
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Not all girls are the same I think if they’d been in a bar girl for a very long time it is very difficult for them to change and let’s be honest. They have been through a lot of mental health problems due to the fact that they picked up and dropped on a regular basis. Imagine someone coming along I’m telling you, they love you and spoiling you then dropping you like a stone. As I said not everyone is the same we all different and you can’t typecast people.
Not a chance in hell is,that true mate, everyone are the same, it's the same old she is different, thanks anyway for your comment
Hi, I am genuinely interested do you want a partner or are you just happy being on your own ? Going to Thailand and spending all that money have you had bad experiences in the UK? It's hard finding someone who is genuine i know since my husband died , it has frightened me I wish you all the best bud genuinely intrigued take care x
So I take you are a lady, Thailand is all about money
So after experiencing this once why would you do it again?
Because it's fun when you know what the game is
I would prefer to keep my money and dignity
I live here and I didn’t hear any lies 🙏🏽
Haah
Spot on,,,,,,
Cheers
While I think you make some very valid points, it’s not all Thai ladies, as a lot of your comments imply (not you). There are many successful and happy relationships with Thai ladies but I would agree wholeheartedly that avoid a bar girl. People may believe they are the one that turned them, that is only true as long as the cash is flowing. I would also add that you have a 99% chance of finding the wrong lady in Pattaya, there are the odd gems out there. Just wanted to add a little balance, more to the comments, than the general content of the video. No offence intended.
I love all comments. I agree. I know my friend,has been married over 20 years, happy as living in Wales, I said it on my live today, pattaya is,not a place to find love that's for sure
@@welshboywebby yeah totally agree
She’s your employee not your girlfriend, but that’s okay as long as you realize that
Brilliant
if your buying her stuff all the time and taking her for meals and buying her gifts all the time hope you keep the receipts lol
Haahah
I never used to break the 3 day rule for the first 10 years of going to Thai but then I met my current thai gf who I’ve been with for 2 years who’s good as gold. I don’t give her a salary, she earns her own money as a beautician but I’ll sometimes help her out if she needs something. She’s not the jealous type lets me go to my friends bars if we go to Pattaya while she will sit in the condo and watch Korean shite. I will say I’m 36 and she is 35… it’s funny when these 50+ year olds fall in love with a Thai girl half their age or more and expect the feelings to be mutual… of course the girls are only after one thing ฿฿฿฿฿!
Thanks for sharing
Basically, don't bother 😅
Yeah
Does she pay her bills in 1 baht coins
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Pay as you go is the only sensible option, don’t let your sex drive ruin your life. Hope you’ve learned your lesson. Good luck and happy hunting. I will try and catch you in September 🍺
Ok mate cheers
Stand outside 7/11 handing out beer. Same thing, buy them nothing just walk into a bar and enjoy your beer. Cheap Charlie so what you don't know them and they don't know you and don't want to know you.
True
Similar here too butty. Money, money, money. Welshman in Costa Rica.
It's,all about the money money
Can't understand why you need this in your life. It's a very sad situation. Lol
Lol
All those girls wer my girlfriends 24hrs u can enjoy them just like me
Agree
I find u. can’t even have a conservation . They can barely string a sentence. They just look at there phones
Haha, that's so true 👍
Why even get a "girlfriend" for money in Pattaya? Does not make any sense at all. There are many "girlfriends" that will leave you in the morning.
True
Nice one webby, have you ever had a thai GF and thought, ok this ones different i can deal with this. The other thing is how have your break ups been, heard so.e thai girls go chucky mental on break up
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They go mental then leave and find a new boyfriend in about 20 seconds and that's the end of that lol
🤣🤣🤣
Spot on Welsh Boy Webby. Anyone who thinks their relationship is different is a delusional fool.
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How long have you lived in pattaya now
18 months
sounds like a right laugh having a thai bird lol remind me not to have a thai bird pay as you go is best lol
Lol
Its not your girlfriend ITS YOUR TURN
Haha
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Cheers
I must be lucky i come to pattaya once a year same woman works in a bar paid her bar fine thats it
Great
Btw Chiang mai a lot better but its all relative
I hated it there mate
@@welshboywebbyI'm talking about the people specifically, they are much kinder up there without doubt
Morals and principles 😂😂😂 you??? In Pattaya, are you for real 😭😭😭
They don't go hand in hand that's for sure
I don't understand, why go there looking for love? Have your fun and move on !
Agree
Take a trip over to Philippines webby bring a Filipina girl back to Thailand she will love you forever and only ever ask for fruit and veg all good are kid
Haha
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Why would you want all the mither ?. Surely it's a no brainer, wall to wall girls on your doorstep.
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Snakes with legs,nothing but !
Haah
Technically that makes them a lizard
Lol
@@adamrandall5163 there u go,in the USA such ladies of Ill repute are known as lot lizards.
Fucking hell Webby, you been visiting Pattaya for over a decade, living there for over a year, and you have only just released what the brasses are all about lol😂
Not at all mate I knew the first time I came here, no sorry about the 5th time lol🤣🤣🤣
Lol well stop falling in love then, every other month, 😂, you have to remember your falling for young girls, who would have nothing in common with you in your own country, so it's pretty obvious to anyone,, my mother is 83 never been out of the country she was born in, and she knows what Thailand is all about 😂
Spot on 👍💯
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Yeah have fun, get through your lonliness at the massage parlor fir cheap haha
Haaha
😂👍
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So , what your saying is? Get about 3 or 4 Thai girlfriends? 🤣 only joking mate .. Good advice as always 👍
Yes mate or even more
Pay as you go... simply the best , don't get involved with tham !!!
It's,the only pay as,you go that is,cheaper than I monthy contract that's,for sure
lol .... gf? ...... no comment
Hahaa
Man has always been ATM
I have all my bloody life
@@welshboywebby same lol I'm 58 now and have made a promise to myself to think of me me and only me
I'm there in Jan and will use witherspoons for the golf society
I get you a pint if I see ya