Remember guys theres a different between attachment and love. Attachment is how someone makes you feel, love is selfless. Before getting into a relationship make sure you love yourself first. Have a good day x
@@emmalevasseur5700 My definition would be that you don't care about what others think about you at all, since YOU want to do that certain thing or whatever. But honestly I don't know Emma, I don't love myself but it's something I'm working on. What would be your definition?
@@Eggdad I agree with that definition 100%. it shouldn't matter what others think about you, and in fact, it literally doesn't. I'm not here to impress anybody and I don't think anyone else should be either. we're not here to cater to others and take orders. we're here to fulfill our soul's purpose and live in our authenticity, and no one can take away from you. as for whether I love myself, well, yes and no. we all have the things about ourselves that we wish weren't there. to truly love yourself, you have to embrace both your light and your darkness. our shadow selves carry all the things we repress about ourselves, both negative and positive. the shadow is everything unknown about yourself. I'm in the midst of doing a whole lot of shadow work and I'm now seeing my own identity shift before my own eyes. it's very liberating as well as fear inducing, but that's simply because of old patterns and triggers that are coming up to be healed. very old patterns that my soul has been holding onto for lifetimes.
i remember the first time i heard this. i was going thru an extremely toxic, abusive relationship with my ex in december of 2019 and this song has brought me to peace. it’s now 2024 and it’s still my go to song for when i need comfort.
@@alexbaribeault ik it's been a year but me too thought it was how it hurts and it should have been that way its just so much better than hell it hurts...
I listened to this song on repeat at 6 in the morning after staying up all night sitting on a couch on someone else's porch while smoking a cigarette in the freezing cold and I felt the deepest loneliness I have ever felt
Had a similar experience but with a different song. Snuck out of a shared hotel room at like 3am to smoke a cigarette on the rooftop looking over the city's skyline. I was listening to "I'm Not Human At All" by Sleep Party People and that was the loneliest I ever felt. The awfully cold feeling still haunts me.
If you are reading this by any chance... I wanted the same. And I got hurt so, so damn much... So I had to realize, that I don't- I-I don't have to strive for it, to exhaust myself for... For love. It'll come. It'll come in it's time. Until... I just have to wait and learn for her. Learn for her, when she does come. Be patient my friend.
I can kinda relate to this song. I loved someone who only saw me as a friend..problema was I didn't know it was love...I just couldn't breath everytime I thought of him and was on the verge of tears. My heart raced so much when he was around and I just wanted to hug him. This story does have a happy ending though, I've now been with him for 5 years now :) So now I do know it's love, it always was.
I'm kind of in that situation first now where I like this guy and we have had a 'brother-sister' relationship for 7 years and I'm starting to develop feelings for him, i don't know
his music helps with my depression as well, very glad to know about him and his music cause everything he creates is somehow.related to how I feel and what I am going through
Damn this is relatable for me. I had a hard time coming to the realization that we couldn’t love each other because we’re on two entirely different paths in two entirely different places. That sacrifice wasn’t worth what we had.
stuck in a doorway don't know where u are if they had it your way shooting stars stuck in a doorway don't know where u are if they had it your way shooting stars it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love stuck in a doorway don't know where u are if they had it your way shooting stars stuck in a doorway don't know where u are if they had it your way shooting stars it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
every one of your songs takes me to a place i can't even find the words to describe. you're one of the only artists to have done that with just one song, and the only artist to have done that with all of them. please never stop doing what you do.
idk why but,, everytime i listen to this song and focus on the lyrics i just,,, feel,, sad. it hurts how much i can relate to the lyrics. i love people who don’t love me TOO much so when they go,,, i just feel sad and feel like i did something wrong.
it's weird looking back on this comment. if only i knew shortly after i would find out he cheated the entire time (2&1/2 years). it's almost been a year without him and i still love him. i can't move on.
Essa musica marcou quando minha 1 primeira namroada terminou comigo em 2016 bem perto do final do ano, eu saindo de casa, terminando ensino medio, e tipo, aprendizado, dor, solidão, tristezas, muitos dias frios, e tristes, parecendo que ia morrer a qualquer momento, pior fase talvez da minha vida, antigamente sofria, hoje sou frio.
I just want a relationship that makes me truly happy. Not the toxic stumbling I continue to do into relationships.. I can’t even let myself be happy. I don’t know what I’d do without him.. I’m too scared to be without him. I can either be miserable and alone or miserable and a little less lonely.
I just want to say, that I love the musical symphonies you create. Thank you for these songs. They're beautiful and have helped me not commit suicide so many times. Thank you so much, Lontalius. 🌸❤️
this song (for me) can be describing an abusive relationship. Doesn't have to be a romantic one, but its just a relationship.. "It sinks into your head hell it hurts but its not love." Abusive relationships are a huge deal when the victim can't see the difference between dependence and love. (often the victims of abuse begging to form a 'need' for the abuser, or a sense of guilt when they arent with their abuser anymore. They start to feel that they depend of their abuser.) But of course, it is my view of the lyrics, u can interpret the song has whatever you want.
I know this feeling, where I meet someone I like and they have a great personality. But regardless of the way may think I feel, my heart tells me that it’s not meant to be. I almost feel like I won’t ever know how to open up to someone again.
Its crazy. How everyone has the same hearthbreaks but its just an other person. Trust me guys. One day, you will be over it. You will accept ur faith and everything will be fine. She really broke up with me 2 years ago and now i fixed my hearth all by myself. No one was there. It was just me and myself. Get friends with yourself, and a new world will appear :-)
this came up on my suggested and i almost didn't click but i read the title and just felt it. i'm here for a reason and this song is just giving me what i needed. i don't need all the answers to life right now, i just need to be living. thank you.
It not love, but it still hurts like hell bc you dont even know if they feel the same or not. It not a relationship but it's also just a friendship. And deep down you still don't wanna let go.
I dated a guy for two years all and all it was a hella toxic he was verbally abusive and he got into my head alot and i knew it i changed became closed off changed every little thing i did upset him but i told myself i love him and he loves me its fine I'm just overreacting we broke up half a year ago after a reallly big fight and i finally snapped back into reality realizing this wasn't love and i wasn't supposed to be treated this way and im finally glad to say I'm a bit happier now and am somewhat better still mentally cautious but better
You! Did the best decision! 😁 Same. She broke up with me 2 years ago. Now iam finally over her…. AND IAM FEELING GREAT!!! Keep going girl! Trust me, one day you meet someone and you will know he is the right one.
Ive been listening to sleeping thru ur alarms for over a year now and I'm kicking myself for not listening to you more, you make such beautiful tunes pls never stop, because shit like this is perfect
It really sinks in when that one person you don't know how they feel about you because they never respond to you and barely talk at all feels like this man.
I wish this would’ve been in my reccommended sooner! Definitely no regrets clicking on this video, this song is absolutely beautiful. I’m going to listen to all of your songs now
I couldn't have found this song at the right time.. I'm getting over my ex for the first time in 5 years by choice and it feels wonderful.. and this song helped a lot
I don’t even see this as a breakup song. I feel like, when you fake your confidence so much, but you hate yourself so much and you know that, and you always tell yourself you love how you are and everything but you know it’s not true. It’s not love.
I'm glad you love her. I just wish you remember 'i loved you first' It wasn't love. Its not love. It will never be love. Be happy, please just be happy stay happy.
Remember guys theres a different between attachment and love. Attachment is how someone makes you feel, love is selfless. Before getting into a relationship make sure you love yourself first.
Have a good day x
how would you define loving yourself?
@@emmalevasseur5700 My definition would be that you don't care about what others think about you at all, since YOU want to do that certain thing or whatever. But honestly I don't know Emma, I don't love myself but it's something I'm working on. What would be your definition?
@@Eggdad I agree with that definition 100%. it shouldn't matter what others think about you, and in fact, it literally doesn't. I'm not here to impress anybody and I don't think anyone else should be either. we're not here to cater to others and take orders. we're here to fulfill our soul's purpose and live in our authenticity, and no one can take away from you.
as for whether I love myself, well, yes and no. we all have the things about ourselves that we wish weren't there. to truly love yourself, you have to embrace both your light and your darkness. our shadow selves carry all the things we repress about ourselves, both negative and positive. the shadow is everything unknown about yourself.
I'm in the midst of doing a whole lot of shadow work and I'm now seeing my own identity shift before my own eyes. it's very liberating as well as fear inducing, but that's simply because of old patterns and triggers that are coming up to be healed. very old patterns that my soul has been holding onto for lifetimes.
@@ruesylvester Beautiful put.
i’m just attached
It's sad boi hours again
Galactic Wolf isn’t it always:/
Bro 😔
its always sad boi hours ;-;
Ayyy
It's always sad boi hours
i remember the first time i heard this. i was going thru an extremely toxic, abusive relationship with my ex in december of 2019 and this song has brought me to peace. it’s now 2024 and it’s still my go to song for when i need comfort.
Currently stuck in a hole of sad songs and this one made me feel a bit more at ease.
My heart broke so that's why I'm into sad songs.
I'm just wondering why you're listening to sad songs.
Anexys Alicea somehow, me too.. heard a bunch of sad songs, but this one .. this one actually calmed me a bit
Insanely relatable. This is comforting. The songs that lead me to discover it were just insanely depressing
It's 2021 I hope you're doing better
"It sinks into your head, how it hurts, but it's not love."
I think a lot of us, including me, relate to this.
ok taylor
*hell it hurts
(I made the same mistake)
@@alexbaribeault ik it's been a year but me too thought it was how it hurts and it should have been that way its just so much better than hell it hurts...
I listened to this song on repeat at 6 in the morning after staying up all night sitting on a couch on someone else's porch while smoking a cigarette in the freezing cold and I felt the deepest loneliness I have ever felt
Damn me last night bro feels
oh wow
Did this while weeping infront of my lover
Had a similar experience but with a different song. Snuck out of a shared hotel room at like 3am to smoke a cigarette on the rooftop looking over the city's skyline. I was listening to "I'm Not Human At All" by Sleep Party People and that was the loneliest I ever felt. The awfully cold feeling still haunts me.
Same except sitting on the rooftop at sunrise in middle school lol
I want a happy ending someday
Nobody needs an actuall happy ending nor do we always get it. What the people want most is love without an ending
@@davidserrano2119 Not necessarily. For a blind man it would be to see the world, for a person with no legs it would be to finally be able to walk
What creates a happy ending is looking at how life was to the end. You don’t wait for your happy ending, you create it.
I hope you get your happy ending ❤️
If you are reading this by any chance... I wanted the same. And I got hurt so, so damn much... So I had to realize, that I don't- I-I don't have to strive for it, to exhaust myself for... For love. It'll come. It'll come in it's time. Until... I just have to wait and learn for her. Learn for her, when she does come.
Be patient my friend.
If this isn't love, then why the hell is it so heartbreakingly beautiful?
Beautiful comment
How did i not listen to Lontalius before?
Richelle Lim same here
Richelle Lim cause you didnt know of him
Same
@@l9rr955 well no shit smart one
I can kinda relate to this song. I loved someone who only saw me as a friend..problema was I didn't know it was love...I just couldn't breath everytime I thought of him and was on the verge of tears. My heart raced so much when he was around and I just wanted to hug him. This story does have a happy ending though, I've now been with him for 5 years now :) So now I do know it's love, it always was.
awwwweeee! :D
KyuubiNoNeko honestly brought me to tears (sorry I'm such a crybaby 😂)
ɪ'ᴍ ᴀʟʀɪɢʜᴛ awww have a hug (>n.n)>
I'm kind of in that situation first now where I like this guy and we have had a 'brother-sister' relationship for 7 years and I'm starting to develop feelings for him, i don't know
your story gave me hope
I've been in really bad depression and you really helped don't give up on music!
his music helps with my depression as well, very glad to know about him and his music cause everything he creates is somehow.related to how I feel and what I am going through
Same here, my friends..
Cassie Wiseman do you need some one to speak to ?
hi, now you're okay?
Cassie Wiseman it really does help
Damn this is relatable for me. I had a hard time coming to the realization that we couldn’t love each other because we’re on two entirely different paths in two entirely different places. That sacrifice wasn’t worth what we had.
fuck this hit me
it sinks into your head hell it hurts but its not love
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
você é brasileira?
sim
Rafaela Nobre
Eu também! :-) ...
yaaay :)
I'll forget 17 and 18.. I'll forget him.. and the pain that I'm feeling right now.
I will too. We'll be okay, friend
And I will too...
I'll forget her and how she hurt me. It hurts it really hurts
Me too Goddammit
I will too
every one of your songs takes me to a place i can't even find the words to describe. you're one of the only artists to have done that with just one song, and the only artist to have done that with all of them. please never stop doing what you do.
Bow talk with me
hell it hurts
but its not love
Hi it's me
So raw and emotional. I'm glad I've run across Lontalius on Majestic - some of the best music out there
It’s one of those nights boys
Obsessed with this song at 16, extremely real at 22
"it sinks into your head, how it hurts, but it's not love"
idk why but,, everytime i listen to this song and focus on the lyrics i just,,, feel,, sad. it hurts how much i can relate to the lyrics. i love people who don’t love me TOO much so when they go,,, i just feel sad and feel like i did something wrong.
I love the way the strands of his hair move. It’s so calming and peaceful
my new album 'Someone Will Be There For You' is out now - lontalius.lnk.to/someone
It's not love if they don't feel the same.
One sided love is a thing you know,,
The saddest, loneliest kind of love
i love him, but the feeling will never be mutual. i'm wasting my time on him but i can't let go. i'm too afraid.
it's weird looking back on this comment. if only i knew shortly after i would find out he cheated the entire time (2&1/2 years). it's almost been a year without him and i still love him. i can't move on.
@@homeboundtrip i hope you find the right person for you
@@grey6545 thank you.
@@homeboundtrip Can I hug you
@@whydoineedthis. yes! giphy.com/gifs/XpgOZHuDfIkoM
EDEN brought me here... EDEN ft.Lontalius & Crywolf... just do it!!!!!!!
Poptart Aka Donk Maymayz 💛💛💛
-a wild eden appears-
This collab would b legendary
yesss
Yess
whoever reading this: u have a very good taste in music
"We accept the love we think we deserve."
ITS BEEN TWO YEARS AND I NEVER KNEW ABOUT THIS SONG WTF IT HURTS IT IS LOVE I LOVE THIS SO MUCH
your music has helped me through one of the hardest times in my life, amazing music.
Essa musica marcou quando minha 1 primeira namroada terminou comigo em 2016 bem perto do final do ano, eu saindo de casa, terminando ensino medio, e tipo, aprendizado, dor, solidão, tristezas, muitos dias frios, e tristes, parecendo que ia morrer a qualquer momento, pior fase talvez da minha vida, antigamente sofria, hoje sou frio.
it sinks into your head hell it hurts but its not love :(
toucanlx :(...
punpun
I just want a relationship that makes me truly happy. Not the toxic stumbling I continue to do into relationships.. I can’t even let myself be happy. I don’t know what I’d do without him.. I’m too scared to be without him. I can either be miserable and alone or miserable and a little less lonely.
I just discovered it and, wow, my ears are blessed now.
this makes me feel at peace, thank you
You know it's fucking lit, when you're already subbed by 0:20.
Love your music. It makes me feel somewhere else.
Thank God i came across this majestic piece of bliss;
I just want to say, that I love the musical symphonies you create. Thank you for these songs. They're beautiful and have helped me not commit suicide so many times. Thank you so much, Lontalius. 🌸❤️
i had way too much hope for us
I just discovered this lontalius guy and I’m forever grateful for TH-cams algorithm
I thought I was seeing Shit wen he blinked XD
T& B holy shit I never noticed that😂
T& B righttt
Zariah M i didn't noticed it either😂
exactly! lol
Same
going back to songs my inner child used to loop , we're healing 💖✨
I always stumble upon this video every few years and its always a nice moment
This song brings back so much memories
this is beautiful
I'm in love with his voice 😍
this song (for me) can be describing an abusive relationship. Doesn't have to be a romantic one, but its just a relationship..
"It sinks into your head hell it hurts but its not love."
Abusive relationships are a huge deal when the victim can't see the difference between dependence and love.
(often the victims of abuse begging to form a 'need' for the abuser, or a sense of guilt when they arent with their abuser anymore. They start to feel that they depend of their abuser.)
But of course, it is my view of the lyrics, u can interpret the song has whatever you want.
I was in an abusive relationship a couple years back and this actually sounds really accurate wow. I didnt even think of it this way!
i used to listen to "ill forget 17" all the time, but ill actually be 17 in a couple hours and this album hits harder.
still can't get enough of this song
Literally this whole album would be the soundtrack if my life was a movie
I love the instruments in the backround and I love the main lyrics that you repeat.
Amazing music. Thank you for being a unique creator.
“We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the full.”🤕
-Marcel Proust
I know this feeling, where I meet someone I like and they have a great personality. But regardless of the way may think I feel, my heart tells me that it’s not meant to be. I almost feel like I won’t ever know how to open up to someone again.
This guy istg, his music make me calm, such amazing voice and music. All the best for your career!
Its crazy. How everyone has the same hearthbreaks but its just an other person. Trust me guys. One day, you will be over it. You will accept ur faith and everything will be fine. She really broke up with me 2 years ago and now i fixed my hearth all by myself. No one was there. It was just me and myself. Get friends with yourself, and a new world will appear :-)
I haven't gotten this much chills from a song in awhile. Damn.
I found this song from an edit and now im very glad i found this *sheds tears*
this came up on my suggested and i almost didn't click but i read the title and just felt it. i'm here for a reason and this song is just giving me what i needed. i don't need all the answers to life right now, i just need to be living. thank you.
Your welcome
2 yrs later & still a good song
It not love, but it still hurts like hell bc you dont even know if they feel the same or not. It not a relationship but it's also just a friendship. And deep down you still don't wanna let go.
You make my heart cry with tears of love
It reminds me of how I exactly feel.. no matter how much I try to suppress my inner self, it's always within me
I dated a guy for two years all and all it was a hella toxic he was verbally abusive and he got into my head alot and i knew it i changed became closed off changed every little thing i did upset him but i told myself i love him and he loves me its fine I'm just overreacting we broke up half a year ago after a reallly big fight and i finally snapped back into reality realizing this wasn't love and i wasn't supposed to be treated this way and im finally glad to say I'm a bit happier now and am somewhat better still mentally cautious but better
You! Did the best decision! 😁 Same. She broke up with me 2 years ago. Now iam finally over her…. AND IAM FEELING GREAT!!! Keep going girl! Trust me, one day you meet someone and you will know he is the right one.
ive just started listening to this and his voice is amazing
im legit just crying listening to music, why is life so mundane
I find so much comfort in this
you literally have such a beautiful voice!! don’t ever stop singing!!💗
here from a bunch of insta edits, absolutely love this song
Ive been listening to sleeping thru ur alarms for over a year now and I'm kicking myself for not listening to you more, you make such beautiful tunes pls never stop, because shit like this is perfect
if you’re reading this you’re loved and you’re never alone 🤍. i love you stay strong!!
Maybe you can’t see a reality unless you feel it ?
Your songs are wonderful! Wow, i'm in love with all of them; new favourite band... you just touch my feels so accurately
crying whilst listening to this song. wowie
it's probably not the intended purpose of the song but listening to this really helps me with healing from the abuse i've experienced.
I like music that makes me feel something. This song totally did that.
Can’t believe I just found this song, but I am glad I did and I’m obsessed
Oml I still love this song! It’s so peaceful
This is beautiful. The music is exquisite and the lyrics move you. Keep up the good work
It really sinks in when that one person you don't know how they feel about you because they never respond to you and barely talk at all feels like this man.
I wish this would’ve been in my reccommended sooner! Definitely no regrets clicking on this video, this song is absolutely beautiful. I’m going to listen to all of your songs now
Happy 4 years, guess I'll never forget 17. 💓
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
A haiku by Lonitalius
So glad I came across this kinda music. A perfect companion on warm nights
I couldn't have found this song at the right time.. I'm getting over my ex for the first time in 5 years by choice and it feels wonderful.. and this song helped a lot
Boy giving me life lessons.
~May 2018 5:00am. On highway to warehouse job i did not like. Unhappy, tired, cold, and lost.
I miss how simple it all was. I miss my brother.
majestic brought me here! and I am not going back!!!😍😍😍
yup, me too :)
4chan ygyl - this song made me lose
This is utterly good. I can't express how I can relate to this song it makes me happy at the same time sad
I wish in everybody's story there will be happy ending. I hope everyone's fate and this society would be open minded and understanding.
Wow...y did it take me so long to find something so good
This really made me cry thing about Barry and iris on the flash❤️
MY EARS ARE BLESSED.
It hurts that you can’t be with the person you like, but it’s not love. It’s infatuation.
-Lontalius
I don’t even see this as a breakup song. I feel like, when you fake your confidence so much, but you hate yourself so much and you know that, and you always tell yourself you love how you are and everything but you know it’s not true. It’s not love.
I'm glad you love her. I just wish you remember 'i loved you first'
It wasn't love. Its not love. It will never be love.
Be happy, please just be happy stay happy.
Jesus I thought I was tripping but the image moves
Hits different when it's raining