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Dr. Drew & Jason Ellis Openly Discuss Divorce, Addiction | EP 122 | The Jason Ellis Show

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  • Being a human being kinda stinks, and can also be pretty cool. Jason Ellis opens up to Dr. Drew about what has been going on in his life in this very emotional and truthful episode.
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  • @therealjd1503
    @therealjd1503 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    The thing that makes us love Jason is his brutal honesty. It really means a lot to a lot of people. Keep your head up Jason you will get through it and figure it out. Much love.

    • @7the0bay7
      @7the0bay7 ปีที่แล้ว

      no i😅i😅😅 no iilook for a ii pop oipoop o😊 I j k no 😅😅😅j😅j ok i

    • @scclarke2229
      @scclarke2229 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't love him at all. I think he sucks

    • @MeanManu
      @MeanManu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He’s the Morrissey of podcasting ! Lol

    • @ufcelvis89
      @ufcelvis89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jason Ellis you are amazing you're too hard on yourself I'm living in a tent which is funny cuz you brought it up in the podcast but you seem like an awesome cumin be proud of your accomplishments I hope you have a beautiful day

  • @scuzz.y8755
    @scuzz.y8755 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    talk to Bobby Lee! you guys are going thru the same thing and are kindred spirits. Love you Jason!! Came from Hawk v Wolf and now i love seeing you all over the place.

    • @Ctpg93
      @Ctpg93 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bobby is stuck in Hollywood. Jason has much more solid people around him I'm sure he'l do great in the long run

    • @sebastianwhalin743
      @sebastianwhalin743 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bobby is a mess lol they should do each other's pods more though

  • @tex1622
    @tex1622 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I'm sad to hear that you and Katie are breaking up, but your openness about the queer stuff is beautiful, powerful, and has more positive impact than you realise.

    • @scclarke2229
      @scclarke2229 ปีที่แล้ว

      She should leave him She needs a real man not a sis

  • @poindextrox
    @poindextrox ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Bro you already worked your ass off to have the connections you have, use em. Don’t let yourself diminish yourself cause you’re not starting from the bottom in comedy. Real recognize real ❤ as a new fan I’m loving you man

  • @usmc72409
    @usmc72409 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Listening to Ellis on ymh is why I am now subscribed to this channel. ❤ this guy

  • @redhotdevilwoman03
    @redhotdevilwoman03 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love you Dr. Drew. And I love you for loving Jason and Katie. I wish you all the best and my heart goes out to you Jason and Katie

  • @DJRTA1
    @DJRTA1 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Just WOW. What a fucking great episode. Yo Jason, keep your head up man. Never thought I could relate to you that much but here it goes - I'm bisexual (never said that on any social media, but I think this is a safe space). I'm an addict (alcoholic), and been through a "divorce"of some sorts (living with a girl, not married), and even if the breakup wasnt my fault, it almost destroyed me. I got to know you because Hawk Vs Wolf, I just wanna say keep doing you, you're a beautiful human being with lots of talent, and I just wish you the best. That's it. Thank you. Keep doing you, I'm just one person but I fuck with you. Peace bro, peace Katie, lots of bravery to share this kinda stuff. Peace

    • @TheJasonEllisShow
      @TheJasonEllisShow  ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Proud of you, friend! Thank you for the kind words and keep on keeping on.

    • @z.g-eg4kc
      @z.g-eg4kc ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love reading all these beautiful comments 🥹🫢💕

    • @lukegraham5105
      @lukegraham5105 ปีที่แล้ว

      No hate or judgment here......but if you are a guy....you CANT be bi - sexual! If you have taken another man's parts in your mouth or anus....EVEN ONCE.....then you are gay! No true hetero-sexual male would let an erect penis anywhere NEAR THEM! You are gay.......and that's fine! Men can't be bi - sexual.....that's ridiculous!

    • @alexeilindes7507
      @alexeilindes7507 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@TheJasonEllisShowdon't go to cri help.... Find refuge recovery base. It's more focused in mindfulness. Cri help is behavior modification which is basically a fancy word for brainwashing. Fuck them.

  • @chadwilliams7119
    @chadwilliams7119 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've been listening to Jason since December of 2006. What I have learned is this....he looks at money and fame as being the number 1 thing in his life. His priorities have been in the wrong place for most of his adult life. I love listening to his show. I do not have an addictive personality, but he's been chasing something for decades and filling it with empty "fun" stuff. I wish the best for him, but he needs HELP, in a way that he's never fully allowed himself to get help. Get better, Jason. You, your kids, the people around you need you to look in the mirror and take FULL responsibility. Hugs brother

    • @mjriemen
      @mjriemen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I stopped listening several years ago. Used to love the show tho…
      It seemed like he really shit on people in favor of money and fame, who really helped him get where he was…
      Rawdog, Christian Hand, Mayhem, etc etc…

  • @jenniferclarke8879
    @jenniferclarke8879 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Two things that I relate to the most here is #1. Our inner bully. The voice that tells us that we aren't good enough. Never have been and never will be. The voice that has the power to flip anything positive on its head and makes us feel like we don't deserve it...we're not good enough...we'll ruin it eventually anyway and so on. #2. We find comfort in the devil we know. No matter how bad we want to change our patterns and live in happiness and be content, it's foreign and for some crazy reason uncomfortable. So we find ways to tear it all apart and find comfort in the chaos. I'm working on challenging the inner bully and welcoming the uncomfortable. I truly hope you find a way to do the same. XOXO

    • @MrHorsey420
      @MrHorsey420 ปีที่แล้ว

      I tell myself the same thing but I've also been told my whole life I wouldn't amount to anything. I have a college degree and a 20 yr career and those words still are with me and still don't think I'm shit. Words hurt worse than a fist

  • @justinandoe349
    @justinandoe349 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Hang in there, Jason and Katie! Glad to see Dr. Drew on the show during these times. Tully, thanks for breaking it down like you always do, those cultural details matter whether we realize it or not.

  • @UpriseMusic
    @UpriseMusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was vulnerable. Keep being yourself, tell your story, and don’t worry about censorship so much.
    You’re one good “demonetized” episode away from being relevant to a new, larger group of people.

  • @nathanshietze1005
    @nathanshietze1005 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Jason listen bro, you’re the most open and honest and humble person I’ve ever watched. You don’t know how much you mean to people, I relate to you so much in so many ways. It helps me and helps so many people. I’ve followed you for years even way back on Sirius days and no matter what you’ve went through you always prevail and come out the other side! You’ll make it bro. You have a world of fans on your side 🤟❤️

  • @carriejenks4448
    @carriejenks4448 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Jason!! You are enough!! Be you and be happy.

  • @SHREDBEARD696
    @SHREDBEARD696 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Truly saddened by this news. 😢 Please please just live your truth man. Help is out there! Drew has your back! We’re all backing you both!Katie you’re an amazing person and truthfully wish both of you the absolute best!! The world is a better place with you than without you! Your kids need their AMAZING dad!!

    • @quinntara20
      @quinntara20 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a person who has openly dated bisexual men...just wow. Sounds like he choose gay sex over his family. We all make choices dude

  • @itsmegilbo
    @itsmegilbo ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Im 41 and that question about the binge drinking really resonated with me...thank you for answering it so well and I am definitely going to consider stopping drinking completely. Love ya shit Jase and keep that chin up. Reppin us Aussies well over there 🇦🇺

    • @jsmusicanddrums
      @jsmusicanddrums ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was me. He's actually spot on, what I was saying that Jason didn't get through is I can totally have 1 or 2 drinks but I really have to control myself to stop there, because of my past binging. And he's definitely right about that leading to poor behavior and bad decisions in my 20s and 30s. I've really pulled it together in the last few years, but it's that struggle that lead to the question. I wish I could just be normal and have 1 or 2 beers and that's it, but alcoholism will always want me to keep going. It's up to me to stop myself and be responsible for myself and to be a good partner for my gal. I don't think I'm ready to quit completely, but the day is coming. Hope this helps my friend.

    • @markwilson8985
      @markwilson8985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dont consider it. Just Do It !! Nike says.. My experience was, damn wish I would've stopped sooner. Good Luck,

  • @ABlackMr
    @ABlackMr ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Katie deserves a medal, it's beyond exhausting having to deal with a narcissist.

    • @mjriemen
      @mjriemen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep, hes ran off so many people from his show and his life. Its all “me me me” all the time…

  • @nate433
    @nate433 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This broke my heart. Catch me tearing up at work. I've been in a really low place as well, but just know that we love you Jason.

  • @dot_t
    @dot_t ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jason be gentle with yourself... you have a good heart and that's what really matters. Just take care of yourself. I really appreciate all of you speaking openly about private matters. I wish you all nothing but the best! ✌️❤️✨

  • @nicklose3631
    @nicklose3631 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Jason... You mean so much, to so many people. Thank you for being so open and human. Above all, remain confident and give em hell.

  • @g.c.f3973
    @g.c.f3973 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jason is the most honest person I listen to. Your honesty keeps us all in check. We love you dude. You inspire us all. You are a great role model

  • @Cyxz666
    @Cyxz666 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Honestly, I knew Jason from being a skateboarder back in the day, never listened to Sirius but after listening to him on The Honeydew and Dr. Drew after Dark, it's impossible to not see how much of an open and honest person Jason is, even after all the bullshit that life has put him through

  • @korycollins4850
    @korycollins4850 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This open therapy session that is the Jason Ellis show is just beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @chadovision
    @chadovision ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sometimes you need a REAL episode. This one hit in so many ways. Please keep it up!

  • @carlborman5165
    @carlborman5165 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Most real . Intense podcast ever. The openness you guys have is incredible. I feel for you divorce is freeking hard. Sending you love from montreal canada

    • @benignassassin
      @benignassassin ปีที่แล้ว

      Every once in a while drdrew will hit you with what you need to hear!

  • @busstopbench
    @busstopbench ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love you Jason! Been a fan of you since I was 13 and now I’m 30 years old! You keep progressing man and cut yourself some slack! ❤

  • @preusbs
    @preusbs ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Don’t give up Brothern! Your kids need you and you’re not alone. You still got a lot you can accomplish. Where Life is at it’s worst you gotta keep standing, take the punches, get back up, and learn to be strong with what you have. I hope that makes sense and things gets better

  • @yoBigWave
    @yoBigWave ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jason could write a book on mental health, his life as a skateboarder and growingup with difficult family, and addiction. I feel it could be an outlet to get the frustration out and share some knowledge from experience to others too.

    • @clevermissfox
      @clevermissfox ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He has a book

    • @LguanadonTRex
      @LguanadonTRex ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He wrote a few books with Tully. “I’m Awesome” was the first one and a best seller.

  • @livelifebythapig
    @livelifebythapig 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I LOVE YOU JASON!!! YOU'VE HEARD IT A THOUSAND TIMES BUT ITS A TEST AND YOU ARE BEING PLACED IN THE FIRE TO GET RID OF YOUR IMPURITIES... FORGED!!! I'VE WATCHED YOU OVER HALF MY LIFE, YOU'RE A LIGHT AND PLEASE KNOW EVERYTHING WILL GET BETTER. PRAYING FOR YOU BROTHER.

    • @TheJasonEllisShow
      @TheJasonEllisShow  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for saying that, mate

  • @Smokeyxz
    @Smokeyxz ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jason Ellis is the best. He’s the realest man. He’s also hilarious. Hang in there brother, you will figure it out.

  • @dowell330
    @dowell330 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This shit hit so close to home. Going through almost the same shit even got a long time girl named Katie. Been following you forever I'ma old school skate board fan. You got this. We got this man. Thanks for talking about it. I feel dumb for being addicted to kratom after coming back from worse addictions, this shit really helped. Much love brother.

  • @ayayron42069
    @ayayron42069 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Jason!! It's the algorithm l, not your sexual preference. You're dope asf and I, along with millions of others enjoy listening to you. Shout this channel out every chance you get. I've been following for years but just heard of your channel through your interview with David Spade. Keep your chin up and take breaks when needed. You are loved!

    • @derekadair5320
      @derekadair5320 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be yourself and fuck all the haters... Jason is a beautiful human and anyone saying otherwise can fuck right off.

  • @mannygomez8738
    @mannygomez8738 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m 42. Never knew who you were until you started poppin up on ymh
    You’re a cool dude, and I hope you keep doing you the best you can.
    Please take care of yourself.
    You have a new listener.

  • @melissilly5699
    @melissilly5699 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you so much for always being open . It helps me ❤

  • @anthonyaguirre1614
    @anthonyaguirre1614 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Damn, this makes me so sad. Been a fan of you since your skating days. I will always be a fan of you. You dont me , I never met you but I would not think any less of you. Keep your head up. I am pulling for you!!

  • @xSpirit
    @xSpirit ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Only found out about Jason from Dr. Drew's After Dark episode but already a big fan, there are important lessons to be learned from this dude. His honesty with self really made me think. Hope he finds the success he's looking for.

  • @h20doctor
    @h20doctor ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a good show because it shows the side of love that most people don't understand...
    Being loved is work being in a marriage is work being in a relationship is work... And then this episode reminds us that we're all human we all fail... And we mess up in life...
    And the hardest part about this we hurt the ones closest to us, and then the damage is done..

  • @dearmeecha1310
    @dearmeecha1310 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ya know Jason, I’m a housewife and mother. 46 yes old. I have a wonderful spouse a nice house and can’t complain about a dang thing. But I use Kratom. I’ve always been an addict which stemmed from my childhood abuse. I’m working on it one step at a time. Tackling one trauma at a time and trying to figure it out. It’s hard to “change” these things in ourselves no matter how good things are on the outside. I’m here for your growth and I only found you recently so there are still new people finding you. I actually found you through Katie as I randomly saw her. Keep being open about yourself and your struggles and the right people will follow as well as inspire you in your journey. ❤ Each day is a new day to wake up and make choices that inch us closer to our best self. That’s the goal. Be your best self. That’s not perfection. That’s reaching the level you can while you are here in this earth. Peace for you.

  • @MrDavisjones
    @MrDavisjones ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mike is such a genuinely kind person. I've never met the man, but you can see it in his mannerisms and his eyes. He'd be a good friend.

  • @melaniegagne3321
    @melaniegagne3321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're not nothing. You have the right to feel bad. Keep fighting! Your fans are here because you are you. TY for sharing the real stuff.

    • @markwilson8985
      @markwilson8985 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its that what June says to Johnny Cash, in "Walk the Line", when he was struggling w/addiction?
      Your Not nothing,

  • @cameronl4690
    @cameronl4690 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WOW, this episode is fire. I’ve watched twice. I’m a transgender male whose been sober 3.5 years. I can relate to you on so many levels. I love how vulnerable you are and in my experience that has been one of the keys to success in sobriety. Being a trans person I really did not want to give a 12 step program a shot but once I got honest, open minded, and willing, it was the best decision I’ve ever made. I hope you can find some peace. You are loved by many and have a lot of people in your corner. Don’t let the few haters get you down. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @BirdDogg
    @BirdDogg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For perspective Jason, I’m a middle aged (46) year old conservative, I’ve watched you with Tony but hadn’t subbed here. Today was the day I subbed. You’re a great guy, wrestle those demons and carry on, you got this

  • @eliquate
    @eliquate ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Rooting for you, dude. Speaking as a fan, we go where you go. Unless you say “piss off” then we go!

    • @TheJasonEllisShow
      @TheJasonEllisShow  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      NEVER! :)

    • @eliquate
      @eliquate ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheJasonEllisShow that goes for Tully too.

  • @TheGemiller4
    @TheGemiller4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I'm not going to say what my name is cause it sounds really stupid...my name doesn't but saying it does" -411 skate video #13 the first skate video I ever saw at 11yrs old you had me cracking up. Jason you have inspired many people. We all have flaws, thank you for being open about yours, it reminds us we are not alone in the struggle.

  • @clevermissfox
    @clevermissfox ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m a huge proponent of cannabis and Kratom. But I just think it’s worth it to clear out your psyche for a bit. Doesn’t have to be forever. Can always go back just give it a try and a chance.
    💔💔💔 you guys. Big love to Katie and Jason.

    • @corneliusthecrowtamer1937
      @corneliusthecrowtamer1937 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kratom is an opioid. It causes exactly the same types of dependence, it has powerful withdrawals, and regular use has very negative health consequences.

    • @clevermissfox
      @clevermissfox ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@corneliusthecrowtamer1937 I should’ve clarified , I’m a proponent of it as a tool to help wean individuals off the harder stuff. Not so much the other way, if there’s no existing dependency on something hard, I wouldn’t be recommending to that person
      Do you have personal experience with kratom?

  • @Jared-C
    @Jared-C ปีที่แล้ว +3

    None of this is easy. Just know that you've always got support from family, friends, and even a group of strangers who support you as much as possible.

  • @jenniferkristof9650
    @jenniferkristof9650 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You are amazing, Jason! You are inspiring for sharing your story. We're all pulling for you.

    • @scclarke2229
      @scclarke2229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not pulling for him at all. I hope him and Tully sink to the bottom where their talent is

  • @panrick
    @panrick ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wanted to hear more of Katie’s thoughts. It’s ok, obviously, that she shares as much or as little as she wishes. I’m just saying I wanted to hear from her more in this podcast.

  • @davidblanck4131
    @davidblanck4131 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is definitely going to be a heavy episode. I'm saying that before I have even started it. But, if the Sickler episode means anything. Things are not all Rose's on the Ellis front. I'm sure Jason is unlikely to read this. But, if you do. Keep your chin up. You have many people rooting for you. Even if I am likely not the kind of person you would hang with. (I used to inline skate lol some other reasons as well I'm sure. But, who cares?). We love you dude. Hope you figure this all out. Stay strong.

    • @SHREDBEARD696
      @SHREDBEARD696 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Also watched the Sickler episode and I don’t have a good feeling about this…Cmon Jason we got you my dude! Stay up homie ✌🏼🤙🏻

    • @christianscacchetti9178
      @christianscacchetti9178 ปีที่แล้ว

      🍈

  • @canadianrobot
    @canadianrobot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jason...luv....give yourself more grace. You are a beautiful human and have great value for which you are greatly appreciated. Wishing you all the best 🇨🇦❤

  • @Supplayers
    @Supplayers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    tough hearing jason like this & hearing katie so serious hopefully they come full circle and figure things out best to both of them

  • @rickingcrewny
    @rickingcrewny ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Another amazingly powerful and intimate podcast. Thank you Jason, Katie and Tully for all the stories you have shared

  • @ladyloud8796
    @ladyloud8796 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jason, I was first introduced to you on YMH and was eager to watch you open up on Dr. Drew’s podcast. Please don’t ever feel the need to conform to what you think people want you to be. You, alone, are captivating and raw. That’s what makes you unique. If people can’t handle all of you, they shouldn’t be here. Keep your head up. Much love to you during these hard times ❤

  • @rideonemgxr
    @rideonemgxr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're one of my favorite people that I've never met. You're honesty can be funny, and also sad, but no matter what I connect with it in so many ways and I appreciate you. Hope to meet you one day.

  • @JFREE360
    @JFREE360 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love the vulnerability and honesty in this episode. It's refreshing. And helpful. Thanks for this.

  • @tytyterrell
    @tytyterrell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don’t end it Jason. Life is full when you open the lid and allow others to fill your soul with reminders that others really DO care about you.

    • @scclarke2229
      @scclarke2229 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope he ends it all.... Has one of those I'm taking my kids with me as I go too...

  • @dionneharris6149
    @dionneharris6149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jason you are loved. You are appreciated. You are an absolute inspiration. We have your back. Thank you for being you. Thank you for being brave and showing your vulnerability and realness. Everyday is a battle and you can only fight 1 battle at a time. Each day you are still here means you have won a battle. 🥰🥰 love from your Aussie fan family.

  • @adamlucas1998
    @adamlucas1998 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jason you are amazing I’ve found you recently and the fact you are open about yourself is Inspiring

  • @Clownsssss
    @Clownsssss ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think a lot of things are changing in the world right now, and I know all these ventures falling through must really hurt your motivation and how you see yourself, but I honestly think something new and exciting is going to emerge for you Jason! Your raw honesty and diverse personality is so so refreshing and invigorating. You're someone younger people especially can look up to, and I know you're changing the view of a lot of older people too. Please hang on ❤ You're going to bounce back, things will get better, and I feel like you'll figure out what you want and need soon. You're awesome dude. Love you!!! 🫶

  • @louisegallagher6094
    @louisegallagher6094 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you Jason & Katie! Divorce isn’t easy but it’s not the end. Thank you for your honesty and respect towards the issue of feeling mental pain.

  • @mandeejanssen8600
    @mandeejanssen8600 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Much love to you too Katie I’m sorry you guys are going through this..😢 on the other hand it’s so healthy for all of your listeners to hear you guys openly talk about real things that we all deal with!

  • @woodsiesgarage3366
    @woodsiesgarage3366 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only found Ellis a year or two ago but am ride or die for the homey now and watch everything, Keep swimming homey ✊️

  • @johnhash9401
    @johnhash9401 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hang in there man. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @seanw2823
    @seanw2823 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You help so many of us We love you Jason

  • @Tlicious04
    @Tlicious04 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think finding a way to confront and process your shame, and sincerely attempt to do so with honesty and humility instead of getting defensive.
    With all due respect to Drew, and truly I respect him, I feel as though Jason would benefit from detaching his foundational self-worth and -perception entirely from external signals.
    Jason, when you try to use everyone else's perception of you to determine your worth, you end up with an unstable and misguided sense of self.
    ~
    To assess yourself honestly, 1st, judge yourself using the same standards with which you judge those you care about.
    If Katie did something that disappointed you, would you believe it made her a bad person? Would you believe she, by making poor decisions, no longer deserved love or forgiveness? By your standards, if Katie is worthy of love&happiness, despite her short-comings, then so are you.
    This also applies to the opinions of fans, audience, and strangers. If some random person, or 100 random people, told you Katie is lame and not good at what she does, would you feel different about her? Or would you think they could fuck right off, because you actually know Katie, and you also know yourself, and they don't.
    2nd, Practice not taking things personal. Unless someone youre close to is telling you something from a place of love, don't take it personal. 99.9% of the time, other people's bad attitudes, negative opinions, and cruel comments have nothing to do with you, personally. There are a lot of sad, insecure people out there that will spew projections of their own shame at anyone less miserable than them.
    Lastly, when people you respect, especially professionally, offer opportunities and encouragement, take them at their word, and take them up on their offers. They wouldn't offer opportunity, have you on their podcasts, encourage your comedy, and include you in their shit talk if you weren't welcome in the comedy community ;)
    Keep your head up, everyone ❤ Do what you need and want to do, real fans are just along for the ride 😘

  • @GodBlessCanada
    @GodBlessCanada ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As someone who is struggling with kratom and THC addiction after losing one family member, and no longer being able to talk to another, I'm right there with you man. All you can do is keep your chin up, your heart open, and try to do better.
    Also, new fan as of a month or two ago! Love the show!

    • @scclarke2229
      @scclarke2229 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jason keeps a D in his mouth I think that's his secret to" success" lol

    • @benignassassin
      @benignassassin ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't shame yourself over kratom. Excellent alternative for fools like us that destroyed our bodys skating Handle your fuckin business

    • @wakenow7612
      @wakenow7612 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kratom isn't going to help your situation, it's highly addictive if you get it from a gas station or head shop, they put chemical additives in it and label it as "natural" and "organic" when it's absolutely not. THC isn't physically addictive. You won't have physical illness like with kratom. I've been smoking for 25 years, I'm a legal grower, and have read decades and decades of studies on the plant. Once you overcome mind over matter, THC becomes completely obsolete.

  • @sebastianwhalin743
    @sebastianwhalin743 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Damn this was intense. Props to you Jason for putting this out there. You'll get through it!

  • @cristopherchouinard8414
    @cristopherchouinard8414 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jason Ellis has become my hero over the passed year. He gives no fucks about what people think. I aspire to be there someday. Do what makes you happy no matter what

  • @Niteporte
    @Niteporte ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’ve been watching Jason Ellis since his guest spots on Loveline with Mike Catherwood and Dr. Drew. I’ve watched him on other podcast and it sucks that his journey to become his true self has been this painful. I hope he can see stop hating himself because that shame will spiral. There’s nothing wrong with being sexually open and any woman would find Jason attractive (especially me)💖 especially if he could get professional help.

  • @rusbell2981
    @rusbell2981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First I want to say I love you Jason, you're a wonderful soul and ive been a big fan for a long time. I'm glad you mentioned the kratom, I started taking it a few years ago and im really struggling with a severe kratom addiction currently and knowing that im not alone in this fight really helps. I hope you find happiness Jason. I know im just a random comment on your video but if you ever need someone to talk to and vent or express yourself I'll be there for you.

  • @lucianod1767
    @lucianod1767 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think a lot more people are suffering the same as Jason and to hear it gives comfort and solidarity to a lot of people which is good in itself

  • @Antonellasiciliana
    @Antonellasiciliana ปีที่แล้ว

    44:10 when Drew’s synesthesia kicks in. Like bee stings to the forehead, for me. he goes “i can feel what you’re thinking” good way to describe ti. For mel i just shut down but instead you’re able to ask the right next question - seriously an extraordinary doctor. 🙏

  • @jhanna1347
    @jhanna1347 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Dr. Drew have since the late '90's, Drew did so good here opening this up and kind of cleaning up the wounds in real respectful ways, also challenging taking no bs too. Way to go Drew

  • @sneakingace2798
    @sneakingace2798 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keep your head up king

  • @justinperry4907
    @justinperry4907 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like this is an episode about my life right down to the 10-year relationships. Hard episode to watch but thanks for putting it out there

  • @juanitot7302
    @juanitot7302 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keep fighting man! U have an awesome support group! Dr. Drew an Michael have your back bro, they're gonna help U get thru it!

  • @Hanzedous
    @Hanzedous ปีที่แล้ว

    I heard Jason with Tony on the previous version of the “Fear &” podcast and I thought he was awesome but didn’t seek out the previous podcast. Thanks to the algorithm I’m here now and I’m glad to subscribe.

  • @Sleeper54321
    @Sleeper54321 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jason when Dr says "this isn't working" that's subjective. You are willing to grow through this change right now. It's going to be uncomfortable but you have the ability to adapt to anything. You're allowed to be depressed. You're going through a divorce. Feel what you feel and don't worry that other people are concerned about the way you feel.

    • @workstudy8118
      @workstudy8118 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think he’s referring to all the actions that lead to the divorce. Those are objectively not working. Jason is an off the rails addict.

    • @pfang32
      @pfang32 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@workstudy8118 he is def a sex addict. Has been for a long time.

    • @Sleeper54321
      @Sleeper54321 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just have the info I get from podcasts and such. If you have inside info then I respect that. ❤

  • @utlonghorn86
    @utlonghorn86 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Man, this is the first Jason Ellis show I've checked out. I'm so sorry y'all. Wish you both the best.

    • @TheJasonEllisShow
      @TheJasonEllisShow  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's usually more lighthearted, but sometimes you gotta just tell it like it is! Thanks for checking it out and we hope you'll join us again soon.

    • @markwilson8985
      @markwilson8985 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Welcome, Certainly this was a heavy episode. Go back and listen to all the old episodes. But, this is the level of authenticity you'll usually get w/ The Jason Ellis Show. Expect, Interesting, entertaining, raw, random, and funny content !!
      From, longtime TJES Fan/Fam.

    • @littlewigglemonster7691
      @littlewigglemonster7691 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@TheJasonEllisShow those are not the comments you need to shift your energy too.
      You are to drawn to negatives my friend

  • @paulthoonen
    @paulthoonen ปีที่แล้ว

    Jason, I don't know what you did but the look on your face at 45 mins 20 seconds. The look on your face is absolute love for Katie.
    I don't know if you will see this, you don't owe us anything. We listen to you for you.

  • @chemicalbluebloo2327
    @chemicalbluebloo2327 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Discovered Jason a month ago. Stay strong brother, your authenticity is truly inspiring.

    • @TheJasonEllisShow
      @TheJasonEllisShow  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thanks so much for being here!

  • @N8CRE8
    @N8CRE8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate the vulnerability in this podcast. Thank you. Needed this today!

  • @stoneypyro9001
    @stoneypyro9001 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't comment much on TH-cam but I just wanna say as a straight guy I love Jason Ellis and his honesty! I love the openness and I hope the best for you!!

  • @Dirt_Merchant
    @Dirt_Merchant ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I tell people all the time, the worst combination of a person to be is someone who has a propensity for self destruction and loathing, and is also completely self aware. It’ll all work out exactly how it’s supposed to.

  • @caycofbase
    @caycofbase ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to feeling shame and depressed while also kicking my own ass. Sometimes getting out of the rut of self hate is real hard. Say something nice to the little boy Jason inside. I love all of your openness.

  • @zephyrleapold6796
    @zephyrleapold6796 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing in life is a constant and nothing can keep going up endlessly. There's lulls in anything you can think of, be aware these things pass in time if we keep moving forward

  • @comedycrackhead
    @comedycrackhead ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much love for you Jason and Katie, hate this happened but know you will be better than ever after this

  • @xsivemotorsports
    @xsivemotorsports ปีที่แล้ว

    I haven't listened to Ellis in years, I was a die hard every day listener, during the recession of 2008, we would get off work, and hear the start of the show on XM and then almost be home when they signed off, absolute crazy commute and Ellis got us threw it. I remember his last divorce, crying on air all that...... I wasn't all about the screaming gay from the roof tops, so I missed the last few years of XM and I knew he had a pod cast and here I am, the 10 year cycle must be real, I do that too, New GF, new friends, new town & I burn every bridge on the way out.... I'm currently on life #4 but I can't seem to make it past age 10ish.......

  • @0taku514
    @0taku514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man this episode literally spoke to me, I feel like a piece of shit but think I’m a decent person and I’m extremely addicted to Kratom. This one hit home with the struggles Jason was talking about

  • @79rooky
    @79rooky ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You see the powerlessness and unmanageability. I hope you can now take the next step. The world would be a shittier place without Jason Ellis in it.
    I learned that my way was not working and I was in my own way. Once I got out of my own way, things started to change.
    I wish you both all the best. You probably won't see this, but I offer myself to help you if you ever wanted it

  • @kylewarrilow4148
    @kylewarrilow4148 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really think you're helping me a lot listening to this in a way that just might motivate me to finally do something about my situation (s) get my ass in gear and move forward instead of steadily standing still and/or more often than not backwards. Basically all that to say simplier "thank you Jayson!"

  • @bobdij7494
    @bobdij7494 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm 50 and was a fan of your skating and jackass/video parts. I knew nothing of your Sirius show and rediscovered you thru HvsW. I really love what you're doing and how you're doing. The stories the standup, the interviews and the podcasts.
    Fuck the bullies and keep moving forward.

  • @christianmorales43
    @christianmorales43 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👏 👏 👏 Thank you being so honest and open Jason.

  • @daniel_sharkbait89
    @daniel_sharkbait89 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep moving forward Jason and keep going man. Im a fan and absolutely love the show and love when your on dr drew and sicklers show. Whatever you do...DONT GIVE UP!! Keep going.

  • @taylorsterling1106
    @taylorsterling1106 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jason, love you man! Saw you on scissor bros, remembered laughing my ass off to you in the early Sirius days! Sirius has fallen off, you are a star! Sorry to hear about your personal issues but it sounds like you have a lot of people that care about you!

  • @adamarceneaux6038
    @adamarceneaux6038 ปีที่แล้ว

    No lie Jason didn't realize you had your own show again since you were on sirius. Just thought you were doing Hawk vs wolf. I read your autobiography about 12 years ago and have loved you ever since! Gay, Straight,Bi, black, White,blue or purple! It matters zero. I love you for the heart and soul you have inside of your flesh! Keep your head high brother. Even though you might not feel it because of the dumb numbers on the internet, you are a huge influence man and someone I look up to. Coming from a 34 year old married for the second time straight man with his first daughter on the way. Love you homie!

  • @alexandrabloomfield1689
    @alexandrabloomfield1689 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeh stumble upon Jason while watching Craig Conan…. Love your honesty. At 55, female divorced, disillusioned, and playing out my demons as if I’m 18 yrs old on a fucking roller coaster I’m struggling to get off in terms of decades addictive behaviour???
    One day at time. And don’t be hard on ourselves . We made it past 50!!!

  • @commentforthealgo5383
    @commentforthealgo5383 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    oh man I love Dr Drew RIGHT INTO IT! 13:06 Dr Drew puts down the law.

    • @TheJasonEllisShow
      @TheJasonEllisShow  ปีที่แล้ว

      He tells it like it is, no matter what! HAHA

    • @commentforthealgo5383
      @commentforthealgo5383 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheJasonEllisShow stop responding to ME !!!!!!!! :) for real though, love you.

  • @RedogZuk
    @RedogZuk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much love to you, Jason and Katie and Tully. Hope you guys can work it out and hope this show can continue. It’s my favorite.😎🤘🏼☀️☀️

  • @dgwalters1
    @dgwalters1 ปีที่แล้ว

    23:34 sums up the last 2 years of my life. Hate seeing someone else in that place, but also gives me some comfort. Jason seems like a guy who will figure it out. Maybe I’m that guy too

  • @ChopASk8
    @ChopASk8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep moving forward Jason,be good to yourself. Life is such a struggle but I know for myself I've come way too far to give up. I haven't watched your show in awhile but itz cuz I got my own shit goin on & too much internet was distracting me. Don't stop being the best part of you thatz honest & funny. I wish you & Katy the best,hopefully if anything you both will remain good friends. L&R