Yes! I find it very difficult to madly and forcefully and QUICKLY enjoy something before Life Will be in the Next Terrible Season.😆 also, you make me want to start documenting life in quality videos! Keep it up!
I feel ridiculous! I'm sitting hear crying over your video. I have a lump in my throat. There is something about you, Jeanine, that touches my heart and soul. Your loving kindness, you love of God, your love of family, you are such an inspiration. I'm learning from you. I'm a 68 year old mother and grandmother, so you're never too old to learn. I am so proud of you. I think you are absolutely wonderful. Thank you so much for taking the time to vlog. You add so much to my life. I'll keep watching. PS. Hope you got your hacking situation figured out. The pups are adorable.
thank you, although I'm just as human as the next person. Honestly, I have very grumpy days. (: But thanks for the encouragement and yes, we did get the hacking thing straightened out. I will share sometime. It's rather interesting!
I pray when you look in the mirror you can see yourself as others do! We see the kind spirit, sunshine, a sweet smile and joy! Is life like that every moment “no” but pretty close when you turn and look behind you! I was blessed with all boys never a daughter but if I had been I would have wanted her to be like you!
aww, thank you kindly! Yes, life isn't always like this, but I thank you for your kindness and for being here! I can't decide if I want all boys or if I want a girl. I think a family of all boys would be quite fun. I'm sure they kept you busy!
You are so right! People are too negative. I am a nurse and I worked in an OB office for a while and it frustrated me to no end how many women who came in to the office because some other woman had told her a horror story about pregnancy and she was convinced something was wrong with her precious baby. I learned through that not to tell someone your horrific experience unless they ask you specifically. That’s an awful thing to do to a new mom who is already anxious about her child. Learning the difference between empathy and sympathy is also important. Children are hard work, but they are such a blessing and so much fun! God loans them to us for a short while and staying focused on the blessing really helps you manage the difficult times.
Giggle...I saw your comment and wanted to put one saying...this is Julie, the 64 year old woman from VA who used to live in the Dallas area But my comment below was already too long lol. Isn't Jeannine a breath of fresh air in a crazy world?
Hi, this is good stuff. My sis and I were just talking, last week, about living in the moment. Instead of "in the good old days". I was never diagnosed with my stomach problems.....(as some of us have seemed to inherit it from our Grandma Yoder, we always called it the Yoder-stomach). But one day my family was on an hour drive. My hubby had to stop 6 times for me to go to the bathroom. We were headed to a Pentecostal type church to give a program for a ministry that we were with at the time. That night I went to the front of the church and was prayed for. Since that night, I have not had the bathroom troubles I had before then. It is an amazing thing not to have to worry about finding every bathroom in every store, park, neighbors house, etc. etc. I praise God for His Healing!
You need to publish these thoughts or maybe do something to let others know how beautifully you communicate and inspire others! I love your videos so much.....Xander's smile lights up my day, what a precious gift from God! I am 71, childless, but God has been good even through the bad times and sicknesses, here's a huge hug to you all!
Oooo GUILTY 🙋🏼♀️ being a very recent (only a few months in) empty nester I might have been one of those, “enjoy every moment as it will go too fast” commenters. I’m so sorry! It was said wistfully...not negatively. But I can absolutely see how that would sound negative and could tailspin someone into fear. I’m very sorry!! Please forgive me. Every phase is amazing, even the empty nester phase because without it I cannot become a grandma! I will be more mindful of the impact of my words and their delivery going forward. God bless you and thank you for the gentle reminder 💙
No no no! I honestly never thought of you! Yes, I don't like the thought of my children growing so fast, but it's a good reminder when the days can get a little long at the present with a demanding 2 year old! I can imagine it takes adjustment to be an empty nester! But now you get to look forward to grandkids! maybe? My mom says its more fun than your own kids? LOL.
NJ Family no, it was good to hear your honest opinion. I never thought of that side of it. I’m glad you shared this! Yes, I’ve heard grandkids are amazing. I pray we are abundantly blessed with them!
I know this video was recorded awhile ago, but I really love this wisdom. I really truly appreciate your candor and your passion for God and family that comes through.
Good words to live by. Sure enjoy my cuteness fix for my day. He is so smart and quick to learn. (“From the abundance of the heart the mouth will speak”. “Life is in the power of the tongue”)
I have felt this way. I feel the opposite now as I fight through chronic illness and I hold onto “this stage, hopefully, won’t last” phase of my life. I laughed out loud when you said you gravitate towards teenagers. Our son was so connected to his Daddy when he was a baby but now he love being with me and Jim loves teenagers and I love babies. I guess God knew we needed to push our boundaries. It is so hard sometimes but worth it. He has watched me fight through so much but he told me the other day, as I was having a hard day and struggling to just exist he said something that made me feel like what I do is worth the struggle. He looked at me and through tears he said Mama you are my hero. It took my breath away. I think I like this “phase” of life. Sorry if this is rambling, it has been a rough week.by the way, Xander is absolutely precious. He reminds me of Stephen, fearless! That means he knows he is loved and safe!
You made me cry. I hope I can have a teenager like yours someday! such a relationship! and I'm so sorry you are going through such a hard time! I know all about wanting change in those areas, and it's definitely right to! We need to always have hope in our hearts for better days. I was referring more to phases and stages of life... not neccessarily tragic circumstances. Hugs to you!
When I was having a really hard day two weeks ago he sat down next to me and told me that he wished he could make me feel better and he wanted me to know he sees what I live with and has watched me fight to be there for him and I am his hero. It made me cry and made me able and willing to fight even harder to get better. Love Xander and teach him what it means to fight through and keep living no matter what life throws at you. Teach him respect and to love others first and you will have a teenager like mine. He is amazing.
Wow Jeaninne....I woke up to this and it was exactly what I needed. Today is the one year anniversary of my husband's passing from cancer and you can't believe the number of people who have been telling me how hard THIS day would be. Like it was going to be so much worse than all the other days leading up to it because of the date. Last night before sleeping, I zoomed in on Google Earth to my old homestead in Lebanon County. I took the little man down on the road and "rode my bike" like when I was a young teen when I would stuff carrots in my pockets and ride down to Messerschmidt's farm and the huge Belgian horses they worked the farm with would come running to the fence for their treats. I adored horses too AND puppies (yours lifted my spirits so much). Lovely video....you spoke life to my spirit this morning.
Big hug to you, Julie! 1 year ago... still so fresh and difficult I'm sure. I hope your day was blessed and filled with sweet memories of the times you had with your husband! I'm glad we could help brighten your day a bit. Sounds like you had a fund teenage life feeding the horses! (:
Great video. I never understand why folks are so negative when they give "advice". I try very hard to never give negative feedback to younger women. Little Xander is such a joy! I pray that your health improves. You have such courage. God bless.
Needed this today. Today is my 39th birthday and everyone keeps says last year in your 30s, and so many discouraging comments about getting older to the point I have just sat here all morning dreading all next years and getting old. Thank you!
Your enthusiasm for animals and people is a delight. Change...ughh. God is wonderful. Every season of our lives is wonderful because God is there.....hooray!
I needed this today. I just had an emotional roller coaster. I had a false pregnancy and really thought I was having another baby. But drs office says I'm not. At 49 Im facing the point in my life where I'll have no more children (unless God allows it). Facing that stage in my life and just not ready to let go. I needed a reminder to look forward to the next stage of life. I have 3 healthy wonderful children. I still pray to be blessed with another but looks like not. I think this is the hardest stage to move on from but need to look forward.
I embrace change and never had a problem with it. I am 60 years old and my problem is it takes too long in many cases to make changes. Installing stalling solar power, the building of a electric car, fixing my physical problems from getting older and the list goes on and on. Just learn one new thing each day you learn 365 new things each year. Then apply it to your life and the change comes naturally. We are living in a age that anything is possible and enjoy it!
that's interesting. I'm a lot like you as well, the things that I want changed don't happen fast enough! lol. I like that, one change a day... that's great advice!
I have a chronic medical condition. I have 6 kiddos that depend on me and I have really been struggling lately. I am so glad I came across your video, you have been such a blessing to my day. Thank you❤
I have felt this way about it too... instead of joy ahead, it feels like doom ahead!! I feel this way around the new year...what will happen??? I think on those who have passed on and what will change in the next 12 months... I have to make myself give it all to God and not fear. This is so hard for me but God helps me. Thank you for being so open.
Thanks for sharing your insight, this video was a blessing from beginning to end! I read "avoid negative people, they have a problem for every solution!" ha lol
The end of your video brought tears today remembering my boys when they were little. They're now 19 and 29. I know what you mean about change. Life is full of it but in God, our best days are always ahead of us. Im still learning to focus on what I do have and to be thankful. God bless you and your family.
Great advice ! I love the sandwich idea. I specifically remember as a teenager saying to myself I am going to be happy ! (My childhood wasn't so happy.) It was a decision and I have been a happy positive person. I have bad days but I always find things to be happy about and find things to look forward to. I had one child which was my decision and I loved it. Now she gave me two sets of twin granbabies!!! So I'm loving that now. Life is a roller coaster and like you said you have to find things to be happy about. Thank you for you advice and positivity that's why I like to watch you, you make me feel happy 😊
I am so glad i watched this.You are a lady that is wiser than your years.I love to listen to you talk.I feel like we are friends and we have never see each other.You have the sweetest spirit about you and it show in your son.my heart goes out to you about your health problems.You are in my prayers.We know God heals.Glad i found your channel.God Bless!!
Xander is an absolute joy!!! Next to his beautiful, bright smiley Face, is listening to him talk!! I do agree with you, time is much better spent when we build people up with encouragement and wish them well. I like to tell people to enjoy every moment!💗
I loved the montage at the end! Thanks for sharing that! I think a better piece of advice is to simply be present to your life - whatever stage you’re in. By this I mean that it can be easy to get caught up in the worries, the bills, and the distractions, but we should remember to put those down as we can, look around, and notice the beauty around us, the relationships that bless us, and even take the time to notice the miracle of our own hearts beating and the sound of our breathing. Being present to life in this moment doesn’t mean that the next moment will be any less beautiful, but it means you’re noticing what’s in this moment and appreciating the gift of it. Your beautiful spirit and bright smiles make me suspect that you already do this!
This video really resonated with me and was such a blessing and encouragement. Thank you for sharing it! I love your talks like this. They are so relatable and are things that you don't normally hear.
We have a little one due in 35 days. Thank you so much for this. This has not been an easy pregnancy in the least but I have enjoyed being pregnant. I can’t wait for the next phase. You are so right that people scare you into thinking the next part won’t be as good but I have learned that each phase has been better than the previous. Never easy but in marriage our live has grown deeper & more real and adding this little one is sure to grow us even stronger & closer.
so true! I'm sorry your pregnancy hasn't been easy. That's tough but it does help get you ready for the next phase and just wanting to be done and have baby here! (: Hugs to you!
Your video came to me at the perfect time. I've been dealing with some life changing challenges and have been surrounded by negativity, self as well as family. Fortunately, God has been speaking to me with the same message for days. Proverbs 3:5-6. Thanks for such an inspiring video.
Thanks so much for sharing this from your heart. I'm a retired single Christian lady. God has taught me over the years to be content in whatever circumstances I am, rejoice in the Lord, and give thanks to Him in all things. I also have had a number of health problems but God has used them to press me into Himself in total dependence. I love the video at the end of your little son Zander. I love to hear him laugh! You and your husband are doing a great job raising him. God bless you.
Holy cow... Xander is only 2 and rides a two wheel bike!!! I didn't learn to ride a two wheeler till I was like 5! He is adorable.. and you are a great mom. Yes, these "forewarnings do bother me as they do you. Hearing much of these things growing up made me afraid to grow up... afraid to move forward.. and living in constant fear is no fun
little Xander is so precious. He is a little cutie pie...And I just realized that he is ridin his bike with his feet on the pedals!!!! AWESOME.. God bless you and your precious family..
@@theMennoniteMom That's awesome.. I can't wait to see it. I also want to tell you this. As you know, I told you that I was gonna subscribe to your new channel "A Gut Feeling". Well I did, and I must say, I really do ENJOY watching it.. I didn't think it would really pertain to me seeing as I seem to have a healthy gut.. But I LOVE watching you cook your recipes.... Anyone can eat what you cook.. So I really am enjoying your other channel... Thanks for sharing your recipes with us.. God bless..
Oh my goodness!! This spoke straight to my heart!! Just yesterday at work a person was telling me how sad I should feel because my children are grown and that I should be pining away for those days. Well....that's sad. Yes, I loved those days! Yes, my greatest job is wife and mom. I'm still those things. My children are just older. Enjoy every season of life! God has great blessings for us right where we are! There is a song by a Christian singer and its called Speak Life. There is a verse in there that says: "Lift you head a little higher, spread the love like fire. Hope will fall like rain when you speak life with the words you say. Raise your thoughts a little higher, use your words to inspire. Joy will fall like rain when you speak life with the words you say." It just makes me think of Ecclesiastes 3. There is a time for everything! Love both your channels!
I think most of us are afraid of change, but when the change happens we except it. My faith, helps me to get through things. Like most of us, we have to go on, u take the good and the bad. Most important u do have to stay positive, all negativity does, is stopping u from living ur life to the fullest. U are such a wonderful person. Everything u talked about in ur video, was so true. U made me think of all the different phases I went through in life, some scary some exciting. Thank u for sharing this with us. God bless u and ur lovely Family. 💕👍🏻
This brought tears to my eyes, really loved the montage and how calm you stayed when your boy was awol across the field my daughter says I was like that when mine were small, I don't remember though x
You are a wonderful woman. Thanks for sharing your memories and witnessing. I, too, feared change. I also went through a horse phase. Must say your horses are gorgeous! I think the problem many of us have and mistake we make is dwelling on the past, how things used to be, how our husband has 'changed'. We see it is a negative. But we have to grow and that is all part of it. We weren't blessed with children--he didn't want any because he had a child from his previous marriage. My tendency was to blame him for any feelings of inadequacy I had when actually I should have discerned better. We set up expectations that no one can meet... Again, thank you for sharing.
so true. We do have many expectations that no person can meet. I can see how your situation would be tough to accept at times... we all have different battles! Hugs to you!
Change I think can be difficult for most of us, it doesn’t hurt to love our memories, ever hear a song that takes you back to that special time and place and you almost want to cry. I look at life like chapters in a book, one can be filled with excitement and the next with struggles, we can pen our own story with God walking beside us and I am a firm believer that we need to watch the words we speak over ourselves, family and others..
amen! I totally agree with you! It's ok to cry with happy sad memories of the past, our memories, our life is what shapes us! I just feel when we pine away for the past and can't enjoy the present that things are off balance! (: God bless!
I personally see that people that give that advice in a negative way very often have had very bad experiences themselves. Love this video. You have been a blessing to me!.thank you.
You are so blessed !! I love everything about that country. What I wouldn't give to live down that long beautiful road !! Zander is blessed and doesn't even know it. ;) 💙 playing in that field, having a puppy along to play with. I could keep on 😀 !! Beautiful land !! Thank you so much for sharing w all of us and enjoy every minute you can indoors or outdoors w him. Children grow up entirely too fast. ❤💙
Yes, I am so blessed to live where we do! I love the country side! I'm sorry you don't have the same privilege. I know not all would prefer it, but I do think it's wonderful when kid's can grow up outside! (:
I also hate change, im a 52 year old mother of 2, a boy age 33 and a girl age 30 and 3 grandchildren and ive been married for 34 years it will be 35 in March and we are renewing our vowels. I wouldnt change a thing in my life. We still hold hands even when we are home. Im blessed and happy.
Yup, I so do not like change and I am feeling the same way when people tell me enjoy life now cuz when you have teenagers you'll have way more stress. Our children are ages 2,4 6,8 and 10 and yes it is a busy life with the husband working but I wouldn't trade them for the world. And Lord willing I would like a few more sometime in the future. I was rocking my youngest 2 and watching this and you really made my day go better. My 2 year old always gets so excited when he sees Xander. Thanks for bringing me sunshine on this cold windy and snowy day. 🙏
aww, that's great! yes, I can relate! I don't want my baby to grow up! I'm going to miss the snuggles! LOL. But I'm sure there will be perks as teenagers that we don't have now. I see families with amazing relationships with their teens, and I hope ours can be this way.
Such a needed message! I agree with you - I dislike change, and we don't do anyone any favors by painting life with the dismal colors of dread and dismay. You won't have those times back, but the new phase will suit you perfectly. Will all seasons be glorious? No- no one likes the howling blizzard when snow and ice and wind are fierce and bitterly cold. But when the sun comes and shows the beauty of the glistening snow and ice hanging from trees...you can glory that you weathered the storm. I lost half my family in four years time. It was hard and I wish I could say I did a fantastic job going through that trial. But in the midst of the storm, God sent my husband. We are celebrating 22 years (today!) Would I go through that again? It wasn't happy, but I had joy, and was able to rejoice in the Lord. Be like the Israelites when they rebuilt the wall around Jerusalem...focus on what's right in front of you. Galatians 6:4 tells us we need to be concerned about what we are doing - we are responsible for our own walk. We can help our brothers and sisters out, by encouraging them along the way. Let us not look at someone else's life and be jealous, let's face it, we don't know the whole story. We can rejoice when they experience wonderful things and weep when tragedy strikes. We never know the full story because no one shows all. ❤Great video!😊☺❤
amen and amen! Wow, half your family?!!!!!! How did you cope? God is Big, I know that, but that had to be some extremely hard days. Hugs to you! God bless you for your incredible outlook on life!
@@theMennoniteMom It was only by the grace of God. I had some dark times, and as I tell my children, it's so important to pay attention to people around us, because they are hurting and we have the Answer and the Help that people need. When I lost my parents (a month & 16 days apart) I wanted desperately to be comforted (but I didn't understand at the time) and so I was rather short with people (I worked in a Christian day care - so being short was not acceptable!) and my boss took me aside and said, (basically) shape up or ship out. What I needed was someone to help me through that time. I learned many things through those times. 1. We cannot accept that people are Christians if they have no fruit, there's a reason why God's Word tells us to check the fruit and test the Spirits. This is not to say dislike them. 2. People who are acting out generally are the ones who need the most love, and if any person ought to love on them, it's a follower of Jesus Christ. 3. When the world let's you down, Jesus will be there. He NEVER fails. Ever. 4. Life, as difficult as it can be, will always have gifts and highlights even in the midst of the storm. You have to search sometimes, but they are there.
Thank-you for sharing!❤️ It blessed me😇 I love my children and I get negative comments since I had my 4th child when my oldest was still 5! They are a blessing and I needed this reminder! I have had other mennonites tell me it’s okay to use protection. Or one person don’t need to populate the world🤭 My dream is to have a big family! I got married at 19 and God changed are hearts and I ended up having my first son before I turned 20. I wouldn’t change a thing! I liked the sandwich thought something I need to remember when talking to others. May God bless you for this!❤️
God bless you! Children are blessings from the Lord! I got married when i was 21 and had my 1st when i was 22, and now I'm expecting #4 all boys :) when people see me they said "ypu have your hand full" my respond is "full of Gods blessings :)"
Noemina Kolar there was a point where I didn’t wanna go to the store because someone would say that. I’ve been getting better with replying my heart is also❤️ congrats on 4! I had 3 boys and then a girl! Boys are so much fun! Loud and dirty but so much adventure☺️
NJ Family 🤦🏽♀️ I often wonder why people feel the need to tell when it’s a good time to have children or when I had 3 boys they would say oh trying for a girl or when I had a girl it was oh know you can stop you have a boy and a girl. Then when I said I want a big family🤭😂 they looked at me like I’m crazy!! I love change! But I don’t like the comments that come with change.
Thank you for posting this!!! Being thankful for what you have and not being focused on what you don't have was this Sunday's sermon - Nov. 10th. I have often felt frustrated with my circumstances and I really needed to hear this, today. You delivered this good advice in such a sweet way, too. You're a blessing!! P.S. I think I learned about your channel from Megan Fox (Unlocked). I appreciate you both. You're sensible, down-to-earth perspectives are refreshing.
Yes yes yes! Thanks for this post, it’s filled with so much wisdom and common sense. As our children grew up and went to school and Bible School and mission work and got married and moved out of state, I have had to let go often. This is also what we want for our family isn’t it? It’s the fulfillment of our dreams and answers to our prayers.
I think more than anything that we get older so much faster than we are thinking when we are young. So the wiser adult will say enjoy this time. There are parents who can't wait until a child is walking or toilet trained. Things like that but don't know that away with those things go the tender sweet moments of rootless smiles. I cried when I knew the cradle was being put away for the last time and that first tooth came in. And now as a grandmother of the oldest being 21, I can tell you that time does go faster than you can imagine.
I love this so much. Thank you! Can’t believe I grew up in York county and now living in Florida I may never meet you in real life, but wanted you to know you’ve spoken life to me! Thanks for this! 💗
One day we will understand why God has allowed certain things to happen to us here. Until then, Proverbs 3:5-6 are what I always turn to for encouragement. You are so encouraging to us. Thank you for sharing about your condition. I have someone close to me that has had ulcerative colitis for many, many years. It is something that you have to plan for accidents and you are always looking for where the bathroom is everywhere you go. I'm praying for you and the many people that you touch through your life. God has a plan for you! I read a story just this morning of a woman named Charlotte Elliott who wrote a poem "Just As I Am". She had a handicap and wanted to do more, but all she could do was write this poem. Well, that turned into a song/hymn that has led many to Christ. No matter our circumstances, God WILL use us. HE is using you.....with what you are doing here. God bless you!!
Thank you "friend" .... that montage gives all the sappy mom feels! My current fear of change is not getting another squishy baby to rock (currently have 2,4,7,8), but it has made me PLAY with my tot even more and enjoy this stage for what it is, and the freedoms it gives in our homeschooling. It's foreign hitting (this week!) the milestone of "longest time not being pregnant or nursing" because that's where I've been the last decade. Thank you for encouraging me that all the stages are good stages, even if they're hard :) ..... and to mind my mouth!
You both are such wonderful parents. Hope some day soon with God's help that you will be able to give Xander a baby brother or sister. Praying that day comes soon for you both. What a privilege it would be to have you as a neighbor or best friend. You are an inspiration to me and your faith shines through. God never promised we wouldn't have trials or hardships but He will be there holding our hand through them and encouraging us.
Awesome video and tears filled my eyes with the beautiful montage at the end. God is good. You hare speaking to many people with your videos. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for sharing your life. There are so many blessings in our lives. My husband and I have been together 27 years. Many ups and downs. But that's a part of life. Every corner we turn together is a new adventure. I can't think of anyone I would rather spend it with then my Joe♥️. God Bless you and your whole family.
This is the best video I have ever seen. Partly, so sad because every kid in the world can't have a life like this. Beautiful photography. I really want to be able to make videos that can bring tears and smiles in a few seconds of footage. You are very talented! Any pointers about doing videos for a beginner. PS I'm an older lady 64. LOL
It's most definitely has to be the fact I live in the city but watching Zander so far made me anxious. But I am sooo glad that he has a great childhood outside. ❤
Yes, I can see that. I wasn't worried because he really had no place to go. there was a tree line at one side which I didn't think he would go through... and the rest was just fields. No roads. No houses. (: The things I worry about it cars and people... not wide open spaces if I know where he is. (:
As I have said before, you and your family are such a blessing in my life. Watching your channel is so refreshing. And that little fella you are raising is such a joy to watch. I look at you and the interaction you have with Xander and I can't help but think how wonderful it would be if every child had a mom like you. As for change, I am much like you. The thought of change can be challenging, especially change that doesn't seem to be in my favor. But when I look back on my life, which I often do, it allows me to see all the changes that have taken place in my life and realize in that moment that change hasn't always been so awful, for the most part it has been quite wonderful. Looking back also helps me to see God's hand in my life, how great He truly is and that I should rely on Him so much more than I do. He loves me and has my best interest at heart. I so enjoyed the song at the end of your video... Would you mind sharing the name of the song and the artist? Thanks! God Bless!
Yes, the song is by J.J Heller... hand to hold. you are right! The changes are often not as bad we think they will be... and it is good to reflect! God bless!
Thank you so much for sharing this today. Your voice is so soothing and I can hear the sincerity in your voice. Thank you for being real and being you.
Xander is such a cutie pie! Loved the montage! I take that advice to enjoy the present because if you rush through, you might regret missing it. My kids are older so the "lasts" are very present in my mind the last few years. Both my kids are over 18 now so my time with them, at home with me, is running short so I am going to embrace this time with them and enjoy it to the fullest. They are always at my favorite age no matter how old they are! Love your thoughts, your videos, and everything you share with us. Thank you for making us think of our 'delivery' in our advice!
I too have a serious disability and I too have also lost most of my loved ones including my son four years ago due to my disability.. yes life’s what you make it💜 thank you for your positive kind words I’m a huge fan someone who’s always trying to remember to stay positive
This is one of my favorite videos that you’ve done, yet. Thank you for the wonderful reminders that children are a blessing from the Lord and not to compare our lives to others’. Big hugs to you and prayers for your health. And as always, I really do love your dresses. If I could have them fit right, I’d wear them more often! 💕
thanks so much! it is a struggle to get them to fit. I still struggle! and thanks for the prayers! God has been so good... my health is so good right now!
So true. Life is all about change. Thank goodness. It would be sad if everything was the same all the time. I think change can be a little scary, true. But the experiences one has build and build to make a person better. Thank you for your videos.
First, I have to say I love you. What a blessing you are to me, dear one. You are an encouragement and I thank God for giving you your TH-cam channel !! 😜 I am a personality who does not “transition quickly” (and that’s so bad for a nurse) it stresses me out and I have learned how to talk myself (pray) through it, but I am Steady Eddie. Like things to stay the same. This works out for working in nursing homes!! And places where others around me also like stability. But I understand what you are saying in this vlog. Thanks for your insights. I might add that we are the type to be content, and therefore thankful for “now” so much so that we don’t wish it to change, even though we know it will. 💕🤠
Yes, you are right about the last part. It's our nature. (: I do love adventure and some change, so we differ a bit, but still a lot the same! I'm sure you make an excellent nurse!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts,I guess I am not alone, I am so scared of any changes, but looking back it actually almost always turns out good...🙂 You baby is the cutest, huge bundle of joy.
Loved that song at the end! Great montage. You are right change can be hard, consider all of it a blessing. The Lord knows what you need and directs your path through out your life if you are a child of his.
Yes! I never like the forewarning either! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I totally understand having to run to the bathroom. All of the years of my being sicm every time I don't make it to the bathroom in time I would just laugh! I decided I wasn't going to make a huge deal about it because it was just what was! We jokingly call it an "oopsy poopsy" 😂😂😂 hang in there! God is our healer and you are definitely on the right track! God bless 💗
Great video ! I wish there would have been a positive way of thinking when I first married. I wasted a lot of time in negativity over the years. I’m glad to see the next generation have such a more positive outlook. I now enjoy my time with my husband, children and grandchildren
I loved this video. So much truth. We have so much to be thankful for and grateful for. God is good. Never doubt your inner and outer beauty. You have a great sense of humor, and you aren't afraid to try anything. ( fixing that camper- I would have not had a clue of where to start) So blessed to have found your channel. ❤❤😊😊🙏🙏
No one ever gave me advise like that. I just dealt with things when they came up. I got a big kick out of your son. He is so cute.He made me laugh. I think you have a good handle on things.I guess the way to deal with life is always to be thankful. If we decide to be content with whatever situation we're in we will be happier.Enjoyed the video.
Do you hate change? Does this type of 'forewarning' bother you as it does me? Let me know your thoughts!
I actually don't mind change, but in a way I do, sometimes change is hard but other times I would love there to be a change. If that makes sense 😂
NJ Family - I despise change! I like my little bubble with routine where I feel protected lol.
I'm with you...on changes of life, negative advice etc. Delivered with humor and a bit of drama... love it!😍
Yes! I find it very difficult to madly and forcefully and QUICKLY enjoy something before Life Will be in the Next Terrible Season.😆 also, you make me want to start documenting life in quality videos! Keep it up!
@ashely'slittlenook I totally understand!
I feel ridiculous! I'm sitting hear crying over your video. I have a lump in my throat. There is something about you, Jeanine, that touches my heart and soul. Your loving kindness, you love of God, your love of family, you are such an inspiration. I'm learning from you. I'm a 68 year old mother and grandmother, so you're never too old to learn. I am so proud of you. I think you are absolutely wonderful. Thank you so much for taking the time to vlog. You add so much to my life. I'll keep watching. PS. Hope you got your hacking situation figured out. The pups are adorable.
thank you, although I'm just as human as the next person. Honestly, I have very grumpy days. (: But thanks for the encouragement and yes, we did get the hacking thing straightened out. I will share sometime. It's rather interesting!
I pray when you look in the mirror you can see yourself as others do! We see the kind spirit, sunshine, a sweet smile and joy! Is life like that every moment “no” but pretty close when you turn and look behind you! I was blessed with all boys never a daughter but if I had been I would have wanted her to be like you!
aww, thank you kindly! Yes, life isn't always like this, but I thank you for your kindness and for being here! I can't decide if I want all boys or if I want a girl. I think a family of all boys would be quite fun. I'm sure they kept you busy!
I just love you and I don’t even “know” you 😊 thanks for being an encouragement!
thank you, Kindly! (:
Oh how I love that accapella singing. So good for the soul.
You are so right! People are too negative. I am a nurse and I worked in an OB office for a while and it frustrated me to no end how many women who came in to the office because some other woman had told her a horror story about pregnancy and she was convinced something was wrong with her precious baby. I learned through that not to tell someone your horrific experience unless they ask you specifically. That’s an awful thing to do to a new mom who is already anxious about her child.
Learning the difference between empathy and sympathy is also important.
Children are hard work, but they are such a blessing and so much fun! God loans them to us for a short while and staying focused on the blessing really helps you manage the difficult times.
My life would be so much different if I had a friend like you. ❤ Thank you for another great video. You're a joy.
I know!!! I wish she was my friend in real life too!
Jesus is an even better friend than she can ever be! Just try Him!💓💞
I love new friends! (: but Ben is so right!
This is Julie, the 60 year old woman in the Dallas area. I just wanted to say I love your transparency! Don't quit!
thanks so much, Julie!
Giggle...I saw your comment and wanted to put one saying...this is Julie, the 64 year old woman from VA who used to live in the Dallas area But my comment below was already too long lol. Isn't Jeannine a breath of fresh air in a crazy world?
I really enjoyed this video. I feel the same way! Keep up the good work. God bless you!
thank you, and God bless!
Hi, this is good stuff. My sis and I were just talking, last week, about living in the moment. Instead of "in the good old days".
I was never diagnosed with my stomach problems.....(as some of us have seemed to inherit it from our Grandma Yoder, we always called it the Yoder-stomach). But one day my family was on an hour drive. My hubby had to stop 6 times for me to go to the bathroom. We were headed to a Pentecostal type church to give a program for a ministry that we were with at the time. That night I went to the front of the church and was prayed for. Since that night, I have not had the bathroom troubles I had before then. It is an amazing thing not to have to worry about finding every bathroom in every store, park, neighbors house, etc. etc. I praise God for His Healing!
Praise God for healing! Hallelujah!
You need to publish these thoughts or maybe do something to let others know how beautifully you communicate and inspire others! I love your videos so much.....Xander's smile lights up my day, what a precious gift from God! I am 71, childless, but God has been good even through the bad times and sicknesses, here's a huge hug to you all!
Hi Barbara! Well thanks, I appreciate your kindness. (: God is good! Amen! And hugs to you!
The end with Xander was awesome!! He’s very loved!! ❤️
thank you!
Oooo GUILTY 🙋🏼♀️ being a very recent (only a few months in) empty nester I might have been one of those, “enjoy every moment as it will go too fast” commenters. I’m so sorry! It was said wistfully...not negatively. But I can absolutely see how that would sound negative and could tailspin someone into fear. I’m very sorry!! Please forgive me. Every phase is amazing, even the empty nester phase because without it I cannot become a grandma! I will be more mindful of the impact of my words and their delivery going forward. God bless you and thank you for the gentle reminder 💙
No no no! I honestly never thought of you! Yes, I don't like the thought of my children growing so fast, but it's a good reminder when the days can get a little long at the present with a demanding 2 year old! I can imagine it takes adjustment to be an empty nester! But now you get to look forward to grandkids! maybe? My mom says its more fun than your own kids? LOL.
NJ Family no, it was good to hear your honest opinion. I never thought of that side of it. I’m glad you shared this!
Yes, I’ve heard grandkids are amazing. I pray we are abundantly blessed with them!
I have only just found your vlogs, Jeannine and I’m so enjoying them here in Australia. You are a blessing to many. Thank you! Proverbs 3:5&6.
so honored to have you here!
I know this video was recorded awhile ago, but I really love this wisdom. I really truly appreciate your candor and your passion for God and family that comes through.
I appreciate that! thank you!
Good words to live by. Sure enjoy my cuteness fix for my day. He is so smart and quick to learn. (“From the abundance of the heart the mouth will speak”. “Life is in the power of the tongue”)
amen! and Glad he brightened your day!
I have felt this way. I feel the opposite now as I fight through chronic illness and I hold onto “this stage, hopefully, won’t last” phase of my life. I laughed out loud when you said you gravitate towards teenagers. Our son was so connected to his Daddy when he was a baby but now he love being with me and Jim loves teenagers and I love babies. I guess God knew we needed to push our boundaries. It is so hard sometimes but worth it. He has watched me fight through so much but he told me the other day, as I was having a hard day and struggling to just exist he said something that made me feel like what I do is worth the struggle. He looked at me and through tears he said Mama you are my hero. It took my breath away. I think I like this “phase” of life. Sorry if this is rambling, it has been a rough week.by the way, Xander is absolutely precious. He reminds me of Stephen, fearless! That means he knows he is loved and safe!
You made me cry. I hope I can have a teenager like yours someday! such a relationship! and I'm so sorry you are going through such a hard time! I know all about wanting change in those areas, and it's definitely right to! We need to always have hope in our hearts for better days. I was referring more to phases and stages of life... not neccessarily tragic circumstances. Hugs to you!
When I was having a really hard day two weeks ago he sat down next to me and told me that he wished he could make me feel better and he wanted me to know he sees what I live with and has watched me fight to be there for him and I am his hero. It made me cry and made me able and willing to fight even harder to get better. Love Xander and teach him what it means to fight through and keep living no matter what life throws at you. Teach him respect and to love others first and you will have a teenager like mine. He is amazing.
Wow Jeaninne....I woke up to this and it was exactly what I needed. Today is the one year anniversary of my husband's passing from cancer and you can't believe the number of people who have been telling me how hard THIS day would be. Like it was going to be so much worse than all the other days leading up to it because of the date. Last night before sleeping, I zoomed in on Google Earth to my old homestead in Lebanon County. I took the little man down on the road and "rode my bike" like when I was a young teen when I would stuff carrots in my pockets and ride down to Messerschmidt's farm and the huge Belgian horses they worked the farm with would come running to the fence for their treats. I adored horses too AND puppies (yours lifted my spirits so much). Lovely video....you spoke life to my spirit this morning.
Big hug to you, Julie! 1 year ago... still so fresh and difficult I'm sure. I hope your day was blessed and filled with sweet memories of the times you had with your husband! I'm glad we could help brighten your day a bit. Sounds like you had a fund teenage life feeding the horses! (:
A beautiful message today❤ "Find JOY in all thing".
Great video. I never understand why folks are so negative when they give "advice". I try very hard to never give negative feedback to younger women. Little Xander is such a joy! I pray that your health improves. You have such courage. God bless.
Thank you kindly! I'm doing well right now, praise God! Keep on being you! God bless!
Needed this today. Today is my 39th birthday and everyone keeps says last year in your 30s, and so many discouraging comments about getting older to the point I have just sat here all morning dreading all next years and getting old. Thank you!
Oh no! Don't listen to them! It will be just fine!
Your enthusiasm for animals and people is a delight. Change...ughh. God is wonderful. Every season of our lives is wonderful because God is there.....hooray!
thank you! yes, God is good! God is Bigger than our problems!
I needed this today. I just had an emotional roller coaster. I had a false pregnancy and really thought I was having another baby. But drs office says I'm not. At 49 Im facing the point in my life where I'll have no more children (unless God allows it). Facing that stage in my life and just not ready to let go. I needed a reminder to look forward to the next stage of life. I have 3 healthy wonderful children. I still pray to be blessed with another but looks like not. I think this is the hardest stage to move on from but need to look forward.
I'm so sorry to hear that!! hugs to you, I can only imagine how difficult it must be!
I embrace change and never had a problem with it. I am 60 years old and my problem is it takes too long in many cases to make changes. Installing stalling solar power, the building of a electric car, fixing my physical problems from getting older and the list goes on and on. Just learn one new thing each day you learn 365 new things each year. Then apply it to your life and the change comes naturally. We are living in a age that anything is possible and enjoy it!
that's interesting. I'm a lot like you as well, the things that I want changed don't happen fast enough! lol. I like that, one change a day... that's great advice!
I have a chronic medical condition. I have 6 kiddos that depend on me and I have really been struggling lately. I am so glad I came across your video, you have been such a blessing to my day. Thank you❤
I'm so sorry to hear that! Hugs to you! Life can be so difficult and hard. God bless you!
This might have been shown two years ago, but it has made a difference for me in June 2022! Thank you so much! God bless you.
I have felt this way about it too... instead of joy ahead, it feels like doom ahead!! I feel this way around the new year...what will happen??? I think on those who have passed on and what will change in the next 12 months...
I have to make myself give it all to God and not fear. This is so hard for me but God helps me. Thank you for being so open.
yes, we need to trust God! It is hard not to fear sometimes, but God is good!
Thanks for sharing your insight, this video was a blessing from beginning to end! I read "avoid negative people, they have a problem for every solution!" ha lol
that's halarious! will have to remember that quote!
The end of your video brought tears today remembering my boys when they were little. They're now 19 and 29. I know what you mean about change. Life is full of it but in God, our best days are always ahead of us. Im still learning to focus on what I do have and to be thankful. God bless you and your family.
amen! Hugs! Memories are good, and it's ok to wish to go back to those prior years when your kids were little!
Great advice ! I love the sandwich idea. I specifically remember as a teenager saying to myself I am going to be happy ! (My childhood wasn't so happy.) It was a decision and I have been a happy positive person. I have bad days but I always find things to be happy about and find things to look forward to. I had one child which was my decision and I loved it. Now she gave me two sets of twin granbabies!!! So I'm loving that now. Life is a roller coaster and like you said you have to find things to be happy about. Thank you for you advice and positivity that's why I like to watch you, you make me feel happy 😊
good for you! What a wise child. I'm sorry you had a rough childhood.
New subscriber here, I just love love love your channel!!
Yay! Thank you! A real honor to have you here!
I am so glad i watched this.You are a lady that is wiser than your years.I love to listen to you talk.I feel like we are friends and we have never see each other.You have the sweetest spirit about you and it show in your son.my heart goes out to you about your health problems.You are in my prayers.We know God heals.Glad i found your channel.God Bless!!
thank you kindly, Shirley. I would love to meet you. (: God bless you and thanks for being here!
Xander is an absolute joy!!! Next to his beautiful, bright smiley Face, is listening to him talk!!
I do agree with you, time is much better spent when we build people up with encouragement and wish them well. I like to tell people to enjoy every moment!💗
good for you! We need more positive people in this world!
This is a great message. You are right that we can all tend to be negative.
I needed this...thank you! Yes, "precious and few are the moments we share". Enjoy.
I can’t tell you how much I appreciated this and needed to hear that someone else felt the same. Thank you.
you're welcome! thanks for watching!
I loved the montage at the end! Thanks for sharing that! I think a better piece of advice is to simply be present to your life - whatever stage you’re in. By this I mean that it can be easy to get caught up in the worries, the bills, and the distractions, but we should remember to put those down as we can, look around, and notice the beauty around us, the relationships that bless us, and even take the time to notice the miracle of our own hearts beating and the sound of our breathing. Being present to life in this moment doesn’t mean that the next moment will be any less beautiful, but it means you’re noticing what’s in this moment and appreciating the gift of it. Your beautiful spirit and bright smiles make me suspect that you already do this!
Very good advice! Thank you for that, it's so true! God bless!
This video really resonated with me and was such a blessing and encouragement. Thank you for sharing it! I love your talks like this. They are so relatable and are things that you don't normally hear.
thanks, Bethany! I'm glad you like 'chatting' with me!
We have a little one due in 35 days. Thank you so much for this. This has not been an easy pregnancy in the least but I have enjoyed being pregnant. I can’t wait for the next phase. You are so right that people scare you into thinking the next part won’t be as good but I have learned that each phase has been better than the previous. Never easy but in marriage our live has grown deeper & more real and adding this little one is sure to grow us even stronger & closer.
so true! I'm sorry your pregnancy hasn't been easy. That's tough but it does help get you ready for the next phase and just wanting to be done and have baby here! (: Hugs to you!
Loved!!!
Your video came to me at the perfect time. I've been dealing with some life changing challenges and have been surrounded by negativity, self as well as family. Fortunately, God has been speaking to me with the same message for days. Proverbs 3:5-6. Thanks for such an inspiring video.
amen! I hope you find peace in your life's challenges! Hugs!
Thanks so much for sharing this from your heart. I'm a retired single Christian lady. God has taught me over the years to be content in whatever circumstances I am, rejoice in the Lord, and give thanks to Him in all things. I also have had a number of health problems but God has used them to press me into Himself in total dependence. I love the video at the end of your little son Zander. I love to hear him laugh! You and your husband are doing a great job raising him. God bless you.
thank you! and yes, Life has hard times! it really does, and God uses them to teach us things! Hugs to you, and God bless!
Well said! Awesome advice! Speaks to my soul, thank you!
Holy cow... Xander is only 2 and rides a two wheel bike!!! I didn't learn to ride a two wheeler till I was like 5! He is adorable.. and you are a great mom. Yes, these "forewarnings do bother me as they do you. Hearing much of these things growing up made me afraid to grow up... afraid to move forward.. and living in constant fear is no fun
Yes, it's hard to believe he mastered it already! So proud of him! (: Strider bikes are the answer! Hugs to you!
And...what a beautiful farm!
little Xander is so precious. He is a little cutie pie...And I just realized that he is ridin his bike with his feet on the pedals!!!! AWESOME.. God bless you and your precious family..
thank you! yes, I have a video coming out next week about him learning to ride bike! (:
@@theMennoniteMom That's awesome.. I can't wait to see it. I also want to tell you this. As you know, I told you that I was gonna subscribe to your new channel "A Gut Feeling". Well I did, and I must say, I really do ENJOY watching it.. I didn't think it would really pertain to me seeing as I seem to have a healthy gut.. But I LOVE watching you cook your recipes.... Anyone can eat what you cook.. So I really am enjoying your other channel... Thanks for sharing your recipes with us.. God bless..
Oh my goodness!! This spoke straight to my heart!! Just yesterday at work a person was telling me how sad I should feel because my children are grown and that I should be pining away for those days. Well....that's sad. Yes, I loved those days! Yes, my greatest job is wife and mom. I'm still those things. My children are just older. Enjoy every season of life! God has great blessings for us right where we are! There is a song by a Christian singer and its called Speak Life. There is a verse in there that says: "Lift you head a little higher, spread the love like fire. Hope will fall like rain when you speak life with the words you say. Raise your thoughts a little higher, use your words to inspire. Joy will fall like rain when you speak life with the words you say." It just makes me think of Ecclesiastes 3. There is a time for everything! Love both your channels!
amen! I love your attitude! God bless!
I think most of us are afraid of change, but when the change happens we except it. My faith, helps me to get through things. Like most of us, we have to go on, u take the good and the bad. Most important u do have to stay positive, all negativity does, is stopping u from living ur life to the fullest. U are such a wonderful person. Everything u talked about in ur video, was so true. U made me think of all the different phases I went through in life, some scary some exciting. Thank u for sharing this with us. God bless u and ur lovely Family. 💕👍🏻
you speak truth! Amen! God bless you!
This brought tears to my eyes, really loved the montage and how calm you stayed when your boy was awol across the field my daughter says I was like that when mine were small, I don't remember though x
well, I knew he couldn't go too far because he was hedged in and there are no roads in that directions. Roads are my big fear with little boys!
I understand. I hate change. But, it is something that happens. Just pray about it.
You are a wonderful woman. Thanks for sharing your memories and witnessing. I, too, feared change. I also went through a horse phase. Must say your horses are gorgeous! I think the problem many of us have and mistake we make is dwelling on the past, how things used to be, how our husband has 'changed'. We see it is a negative. But we have to grow and that is all part of it. We weren't blessed with children--he didn't want any because he had a child from his previous marriage. My tendency was to blame him for any feelings of inadequacy I had when actually I should have discerned better. We set up expectations that no one can meet... Again, thank you for sharing.
so true. We do have many expectations that no person can meet. I can see how your situation would be tough to accept at times... we all have different battles! Hugs to you!
Change I think can be difficult for most of us, it doesn’t hurt to love our memories, ever hear a song that takes you back to that special time and place and you almost want to cry. I look at life like chapters in a book, one can be filled with excitement and the next with struggles, we can pen our own story with God walking beside us and I am a firm believer that we need to watch the words we speak over ourselves, family and others..
amen! I totally agree with you! It's ok to cry with happy sad memories of the past, our memories, our life is what shapes us! I just feel when we pine away for the past and can't enjoy the present that things are off balance! (: God bless!
Wow! I really needed this right now!! Thank you so much for sharing! God bless you!❤🤗
Xander is such a sweet little guy! What a blessing!
thank you. And thanks for being here once again! it means a lot!
@@theMennoniteMom sure👍🏻😊. Your videos are very encouraging!
I personally see that people that give that advice in a negative way very often have had very bad experiences themselves. Love this video. You have been a blessing to me!.thank you.
yes, you are right. they likely speak out of pain!
You are so blessed !! I love everything about that country. What I wouldn't give to live down that long beautiful road !! Zander is blessed and doesn't even know it. ;) 💙 playing in that field, having a puppy along to play with. I could keep on 😀 !! Beautiful land !! Thank you so much for sharing w all of us and enjoy every minute you can indoors or outdoors w him. Children grow up entirely too fast. ❤💙
Yes, I am so blessed to live where we do! I love the country side! I'm sorry you don't have the same privilege. I know not all would prefer it, but I do think it's wonderful when kid's can grow up outside! (:
@@theMennoniteMom 😉
Love this video. We need more positive ppl in this world . Thanx for sharing this .
thank you!
I also hate change, im a 52 year old mother of 2, a boy age 33 and a girl age 30 and 3 grandchildren and ive been married for 34 years it will be 35 in March and we are renewing our vowels. I wouldnt change a thing in my life. We still hold hands even when we are home. Im blessed and happy.
Aww, this is so sweet! thanks for the lovely positivity! God Bless!
Yup, I so do not like change and I am feeling the same way when people tell me enjoy life now cuz when you have teenagers you'll have way more stress. Our children are ages 2,4 6,8 and 10 and yes it is a busy life with the husband working but I wouldn't trade them for the world. And Lord willing I would like a few more sometime in the future. I was rocking my youngest 2 and watching this and you really made my day go better. My 2 year old always gets so excited when he sees Xander. Thanks for bringing me sunshine on this cold windy and snowy day. 🙏
aww, that's great! yes, I can relate! I don't want my baby to grow up! I'm going to miss the snuggles! LOL. But I'm sure there will be perks as teenagers that we don't have now. I see families with amazing relationships with their teens, and I hope ours can be this way.
Such a needed message! I agree with you - I dislike change, and we don't do anyone any favors by painting life with the dismal colors of dread and dismay. You won't have those times back, but the new phase will suit you perfectly. Will all seasons be glorious? No- no one likes the howling blizzard when snow and ice and wind are fierce and bitterly cold. But when the sun comes and shows the beauty of the glistening snow and ice hanging from trees...you can glory that you weathered the storm. I lost half my family in four years time. It was hard and I wish I could say I did a fantastic job going through that trial. But in the midst of the storm, God sent my husband. We are celebrating 22 years (today!) Would I go through that again? It wasn't happy, but I had joy, and was able to rejoice in the Lord.
Be like the Israelites when they rebuilt the wall around Jerusalem...focus on what's right in front of you. Galatians 6:4 tells us we need to be concerned about what we are doing - we are responsible for our own walk. We can help our brothers and sisters out, by encouraging them along the way. Let us not look at someone else's life and be jealous, let's face it, we don't know the whole story. We can rejoice when they experience wonderful things and weep when tragedy strikes. We never know the full story because no one shows all.
❤Great video!😊☺❤
amen and amen! Wow, half your family?!!!!!! How did you cope? God is Big, I know that, but that had to be some extremely hard days. Hugs to you! God bless you for your incredible outlook on life!
@@theMennoniteMom It was only by the grace of God. I had some dark times, and as I tell my children, it's so important to pay attention to people around us, because they are hurting and we have the Answer and the Help that people need. When I lost my parents (a month & 16 days apart) I wanted desperately to be comforted (but I didn't understand at the time) and so I was rather short with people (I worked in a Christian day care - so being short was not acceptable!) and my boss took me aside and said, (basically) shape up or ship out. What I needed was someone to help me through that time. I learned many things through those times.
1. We cannot accept that people are Christians if they have no fruit, there's a reason why God's Word tells us to check the fruit and test the Spirits. This is not to say dislike them.
2. People who are acting out generally are the ones who need the most love, and if any person ought to love on them, it's a follower of Jesus Christ.
3. When the world let's you down, Jesus will be there. He NEVER fails. Ever.
4. Life, as difficult as it can be, will always have gifts and highlights even in the midst of the storm. You have to search sometimes, but they are there.
@@kimmerrou you have much wisdom! Amen!
I love how real you are. LORD BLESS!! I love your mataug.
thanks so much!
Thank-you for sharing!❤️ It blessed me😇 I love my children and I get negative comments since I had my 4th child when my oldest was still 5! They are a blessing and I needed this reminder! I have had other mennonites tell me it’s okay to use protection. Or one person don’t need to populate the world🤭 My dream is to have a big family! I got married at 19 and God changed are hearts and I ended up having my first son before I turned 20. I wouldn’t change a thing! I liked the sandwich thought something I need to remember when talking to others. May God bless you for this!❤️
God bless you! Children are blessings from the Lord! I got married when i was 21 and had my 1st when i was 22, and now I'm expecting #4 all boys :) when people see me they said "ypu have your hand full" my respond is "full of Gods blessings :)"
Noemina Kolar there was a point where I didn’t wanna go to the store because someone would say that. I’ve been getting better with replying my heart is also❤️ congrats on 4! I had 3 boys and then a girl! Boys are so much fun! Loud and dirty but so much adventure☺️
@@deannolt5588 congratulations :) they are! But i wouldn't trade them for anything :)
I can only imagine how tough it is to take comments like those. makes me growl a little inside. LOL.
NJ Family 🤦🏽♀️ I often wonder why people feel the need to tell when it’s a good time to have children or when I had 3 boys they would say oh trying for a girl or when I had a girl it was oh know you can stop you have a boy and a girl. Then when I said I want a big family🤭😂 they looked at me like I’m crazy!! I love change! But I don’t like the comments that come with change.
Thank you for posting this!!! Being thankful for what you have and not being focused on what you don't have was this Sunday's sermon - Nov. 10th. I have often felt frustrated with my circumstances and I really needed to hear this, today. You delivered this good advice in such a sweet way, too. You're a blessing!! P.S. I think I learned about your channel from Megan Fox (Unlocked). I appreciate you both. You're sensible, down-to-earth perspectives are refreshing.
Thanks so much! I'm honored to have you here! That sounds like a great sermon to hear! Hugs to you!
Yes yes yes! Thanks for this post, it’s filled with so much wisdom and common sense. As our children grew up and went to school and Bible School and mission work and got married and moved out of state, I have had to let go often. This is also what we want for our family isn’t it? It’s the fulfillment of our dreams and answers to our prayers.
so true! and you know, I know for a fact that will be the hardest stage of my life... to let my children go. Hugs to you! (:
Beautifully said.
I think more than anything that we get older so much faster than we are thinking when we are young. So the wiser adult will say enjoy this time. There are parents who can't wait until a child is walking or toilet trained. Things like that but don't know that away with those things go the tender sweet moments of rootless smiles. I cried when I knew the cradle was being put away for the last time and that first tooth came in. And now as a grandmother of the oldest being 21, I can tell you that time does go faster than you can imagine.
wise words. thank you.
I love this so much. Thank you! Can’t believe I grew up in York county and now living in Florida I may never meet you in real life, but wanted you to know you’ve spoken life to me! Thanks for this! 💗
thank you, and blessings to you! I'd love to meet (: Enjoy Florida!
Thank you for this encouragement
"Sandwich Theory" -- loved that advice.
So life affirming and full of joy while acknowledging the fears many of us have.
Beautiful song. Who sings it?
thank you! J.J heller. Love her music!
One day we will understand why God has allowed certain things to happen to us here. Until then, Proverbs 3:5-6 are what I always turn to for encouragement. You are so encouraging to us. Thank you for sharing about your condition. I have someone close to me that has had ulcerative colitis for many, many years. It is something that you have to plan for accidents and you are always looking for where the bathroom is everywhere you go. I'm praying for you and the many people that you touch through your life. God has a plan for you! I read a story just this morning of a woman named Charlotte Elliott who wrote a poem "Just As I Am". She had a handicap and wanted to do more, but all she could do was write this poem. Well, that turned into a song/hymn that has led many to Christ. No matter our circumstances, God WILL use us. HE is using you.....with what you are doing here. God bless you!!
That's so interesting! I love hearing stories behind songs. Thank you for being here and for caring! It means a lot! God bless you!
Thank you "friend" ....
that montage gives all the sappy mom feels! My current fear of change is not getting another squishy baby to rock (currently have 2,4,7,8), but it has made me PLAY with my tot even more and enjoy this stage for what it is, and the freedoms it gives in our homeschooling. It's foreign hitting (this week!) the milestone of "longest time not being pregnant or nursing" because that's where I've been the last decade. Thank you for encouraging me that all the stages are good stages, even if they're hard :) .....
and to mind my mouth!
LOL, I can imagine it's sad possibly knowing your this might be your last child to enjoy the baby stages with! hugs! thanks for watching!
Your little guy is so precious! You did great job of putting the video together!
thank you! glad you enjoyed!
You both are such wonderful parents. Hope some day soon with God's help that you will be able to give Xander a baby brother or sister. Praying that day comes soon for you both. What a privilege it would be to have you as a neighbor or best friend. You are an inspiration to me and your faith shines through. God never promised we wouldn't have trials or hardships but He will be there holding our hand through them and encouraging us.
Amen! and yes, I hope that can happen soon as well! Xander so needs a sibling! God bless!
You are so good to watch and what a blessing your message was today!
Hugs from Texas!
thank you, Tracy! God bless!
Awesome video and tears filled my eyes with the beautiful montage at the end. God is good. You hare speaking to many people with your videos. Thank you 🙏🏻
thank you, glad you enjoyed it!
Wow just found your channel and what a breath of fresh air it is, love your thoughts and your honesty , much love from Australia ❤️
aww, thank you! and welcome! it's an honor to have you here!
Thank you so much for sharing your life. There are so many blessings in our lives. My husband and I have been together 27 years. Many ups and downs. But that's a part of life. Every corner we turn together is a new adventure. I can't think of anyone I would rather spend it with then my Joe♥️. God Bless you and your whole family.
Aww, I love that! Yes, ups and downs but that is life! No matter what stage there are always ups and downs! Cheers to you and Joe!
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I stumbled onto your channel today and love your videos. Thanks so much for the the encouragement.
thanks so much! and welcome! It's an honor to have you here!
This is the best video I have ever seen. Partly, so sad because every kid in the world can't have a life like this. Beautiful photography. I really want to be able to make videos that can bring tears and smiles in a few seconds of footage. You are very talented! Any pointers about doing videos for a beginner. PS I'm an older lady 64. LOL
thanks so much, Linda! I will keep that in mind about videos. (:
It's most definitely has to be the fact I live in the city but watching Zander so far made me anxious. But I am sooo glad that he has a great childhood outside. ❤
Yes, I can see that. I wasn't worried because he really had no place to go. there was a tree line at one side which I didn't think he would go through... and the rest was just fields. No roads. No houses. (: The things I worry about it cars and people... not wide open spaces if I know where he is. (:
Exactly. I grew up in the country and it was the best childhood. The most important thing is seeing our children happy.
As I have said before, you and your family are such a blessing in my life. Watching your channel is so refreshing. And that little fella you are raising is such a joy to watch. I look at you and the interaction you have with Xander and I can't help but think how wonderful it would be if every child had a mom like you.
As for change, I am much like you. The thought of change can be challenging, especially change that doesn't seem to be in my favor. But when I look back on my life, which I often do, it allows me to see all the changes that have taken place in my life and realize in that moment that change hasn't always been so awful, for the most part it has been quite wonderful. Looking back also helps me to see God's hand in my life, how great He truly is and that I should rely on Him so much more than I do. He loves me and has my best interest at heart.
I so enjoyed the song at the end of your video... Would you mind sharing the name of the song and the artist? Thanks! God Bless!
Yes, the song is by J.J Heller... hand to hold. you are right! The changes are often not as bad we think they will be... and it is good to reflect! God bless!
Thank you so much for sharing this today. Your voice is so soothing and I can hear the sincerity in your voice. Thank you for being real and being you.
thank you, Shannon. God bless!
Xander is such a cutie pie! Loved the montage! I take that advice to enjoy the present because if you rush through, you might regret missing it. My kids are older so the "lasts" are very present in my mind the last few years. Both my kids are over 18 now so my time with them, at home with me, is running short so I am going to embrace this time with them and enjoy it to the fullest. They are always at my favorite age no matter how old they are! Love your thoughts, your videos, and everything you share with us. Thank you for making us think of our 'delivery' in our advice!
that is great advice! enjoy the present... and I like what you said that your kid's are always at your favorite age (:
I too have a serious disability and I too have also lost most of my loved ones including my son four years ago due to my disability.. yes life’s what you make it💜 thank you for your positive kind words I’m a huge fan someone who’s always trying to remember to stay positive
I'm sorry to hear of your hard times. I can't imagine how difficult it is to rise above such circumstances. Hugs to you!
This is one of my favorite videos that you’ve done, yet. Thank you for the wonderful reminders that children are a blessing from the Lord and not to compare our lives to others’. Big hugs to you and prayers for your health. And as always, I really do love your dresses. If I could have them fit right, I’d wear them more often! 💕
thanks so much! it is a struggle to get them to fit. I still struggle! and thanks for the prayers! God has been so good... my health is so good right now!
I appreciate you because you are real.
thank you!
Such a timely encouragement!! Thank you!!
So true. Life is all about change. Thank goodness. It would be sad if everything was the same all the time. I think change can be a little scary, true. But the experiences one has build and build to make a person better. Thank you for your videos.
so true! Change is necessary and good for us! I wouldn't want life to always be the same, either. (:
First, I have to say I love you. What a blessing you are to me, dear one. You are an encouragement and I thank God for giving you your TH-cam channel !! 😜
I am a personality who does not “transition quickly” (and that’s so bad for a nurse) it stresses me out and I have learned how to talk myself (pray) through it, but I am Steady Eddie. Like things to stay the same.
This works out for working in nursing homes!! And places where others around me also like stability. But I understand what you are saying in this vlog.
Thanks for your insights. I might add that we are the type to be content, and therefore thankful for “now” so much so that we don’t wish it to change, even though we know it will. 💕🤠
Yes, you are right about the last part. It's our nature. (: I do love adventure and some change, so we differ a bit, but still a lot the same! I'm sure you make an excellent nurse!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts,I guess I am not alone, I am so scared of any changes, but looking back it actually almost always turns out good...🙂 You baby is the cutest, huge bundle of joy.
yes, it's often not nearly as bad as we worry about.
I'm so glad you are back. Love your videos.
I never left. (: not sure what you mean but thanks! (maybe you're not getting notified of my videos. Every Friday!
Beautiful ,, beautiful inspirational video !!!!!🙏😊🙏💕 Thank you !!
thanks so much!
Loved that song at the end! Great montage. You are right change can be hard, consider all of it a blessing. The Lord knows what you need and directs your path through out your life if you are a child of his.
amen!
Yes! I never like the forewarning either! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I totally understand having to run to the bathroom. All of the years of my being sicm every time I don't make it to the bathroom in time I would just laugh! I decided I wasn't going to make a huge deal about it because it was just what was! We jokingly call it an "oopsy poopsy" 😂😂😂 hang in there! God is our healer and you are definitely on the right track! God bless 💗
wow. You have much more mirth than I do! I have to get to that place yet. I get angry. I admire you!
Great video ! I wish there would have been a positive way of thinking when I first married. I wasted a lot of time in negativity over the years. I’m glad to see the next generation have such a more positive outlook. I now enjoy my time with my husband, children and grandchildren
it's easy to do. There are things I really struggle with looking on the bright side. It's tough!
I loved this video. So much truth. We have so much to be thankful for and grateful for. God is good. Never doubt your inner and outer beauty. You have a great sense of humor, and you aren't afraid to try anything. ( fixing that camper- I would have not had a clue of where to start) So blessed to have found your channel. ❤❤😊😊🙏🙏
thank, Marilyn! God is good! (: I'm sure you could've fixed it if you wanted to badly enough!
No one ever gave me advise like that. I just dealt with things when they came up. I got a big kick out of your son. He is so cute.He made me laugh. I think you have a good handle on things.I guess the way to deal with life is always to be thankful. If we decide to be content with whatever situation we're in we will be happier.Enjoyed the video.
I'm glad you didn't! I sure got a lot of it, LOL. Yeah, he's a nut!
Loved your thoughts. You are such a blessing. Good reminder to be positive in things we share. The video at the end, wow so so cute to watch.
thank you so much! Blessings!
I've just subscribed, thank you for your beautiful video x
welcome! I'm so honored to have you here!
What an ending! Love love love it!
thanks so much!