Some lyrics may sound "soft" or "cliche" but if you've ever put someone aside during your bullshit and they stayed quite and walked with you step for step.. It hits different when you realize who exactly has your back but you only focused on giving explanations to the people who gave up on you for your unique shortcomings. Stay metal...
for anyone that wants to learn the song you can only play it in two tunings due to the fingerpicking in the verses C# Standard( C# F# B E G# C#) or dadgadb (C# G# C# F# G# C#) chords for c# standard x46800 x791100 x02400 x02600 and chords for dadgadb x24600 x57900 555x00 557x00
I absolutely love alternate guitar tunings. Dude, give DADGAD a try, now surely you will have a ball with that! 😉 I really can't name all of them at the moment, because i haven't had time to learn all the technicalities and stuff, but as just your average musician, i enjoy having fun! Lol. But of course i do take these things seriously, in order to have fun! 🤘😉
Lyrically this song reminds me a bit of Paper Wings by Rise Against, both seem to be saying "I care about you, but I can't wait forever for you, I don't want to move on, but I will if I have to"
So here are the things I've learned so far since I can't sleep... You can't ignore someone's feelings and expect them to care about yours. You can't with hold your time from someone and expect them to give you any of there's. You can't be selfish and expect someone not to be the same even tho they where never selfish. You can't keep doing things and making empty promises and expect anything you say to be true even if it's 10000% true. You can't be mean hearted and lash out at someone and not expect the same from them. You can't say you love someone and not show it and expect them to show it back... And you can't not be there for someone and expect them to be there for you. It all comes down to the basic principles of treat everyone and especially the ones you love and the one you wanna start a family with how you wanna be treated. I've been going through some personal issues and it's taken me this long to see the light but I finally have. I pray every night that someone can see in to my heart and see my present and future actions and see that all i want is to love and be with them. We've been together for over a year but they gave up a while ago because I've been pig headed and selfish. I am from the very bottom of my spirit sorry for my actions and I will do whats right. To all the guys on my page and girls as well. If you've been like me it's only a matter of time till you reach the level of hell I'm walking through. Treat the one you love with respect, be honest and love them like it's your last day on earth because it just might be or they just might just be sick of you and walk away.
Exactly!! This. This right here. My ex emailed me this song (cuz I changed my number and said peace out), and this is exactly what I felt. At some point it's time to say F it and move on. No amount of wishing for someone to come back is going to repair months or years of being taken advantage of and treated like dirt. I hope everything works out for ya, dude.
Honestly, i can't believe how quick people are at judging in this bloody comment section! I am actually shocked by the pure intolerance some people have! A little understanding and some respect works wonders, and is definitely appreciated, by the way, so just remember that before you bluntly judge, okay!
This song deserves so much more love. It helped me though letting go of the second love of my life. She kept coming back to me, treating me as her backup option without realizing she was doing it. So i had to stop the cycle. Or I'd never find my peace. I have few regrets in life. Thst choice may very well be one of them.
Jay Caraway I think her voice is mediocre at best, and I think the band knows that also, hence why her voice is always a lot more quite compared to the main vocals. It also sounds like pitch correction was used a lot on the parts she sings in. Anyway, that's my opinion, she still sings better than I do :P
This Calling and Six are freaking amazing song, but this song freaking amazing shit too. I just love people are hating on ATR these days,bitching about ATR are too soft. I LOVE the new album as much as I love the first album. No Knock , Reason For Me To Fight,Pernicious and This Probably Won't End Well are great songs. ATR still rocking these days,keep on bring it ATR.
While this album is far from their strongest in my opinion, they definitely hit a home run with this track. This was a very poignant track during my last relationship, and it hit both of us pretty hard.
My friend is leaving for Australia. Actually, I always loved her. I never told her. she's leaving this week. And I see myself connecting to this music.
I know that feeling, Dude... (Sighs) There was this girl i knew in high school, and having lady-friend like her, just grew on me emotionally and she blew me away, and i remember the very last day of high school, our time at high school was over, and i couldn't find a way to contact her at the time, because she wasn't really the social media type of girl until now! And then when i heard she moved to Ireland..... Aww, man, i was going through that.. "Nobody knows this but only i do" feeling, and bro, i was severely depressed locked in my room... And just like you, that's when this type of music started growing on me, because i felt a connection with the lyrical and all of the content with the music, because it showed this emotional side to me that i could really benefit from! Women, man....... They don't know how powerful they truly are when it comes to a man's vulnerable heart! (Sighs) As soon as i read your comment, immediately i can relate, my guy! 🤘😔
@@ProjectCreativityGuy96 woah..the reply just gave me a notification or else I wouldn't have known I had written this 2 years back. Every guy can understand your pain. I wasn't much listener but Before my brother left home like 6 years back, he Left his hard drive full of metal albums. That included these songs. I listened them and had developed a connection to bands like mudvayne, all that remains.. Just need to remember there are times that may be difficult to overcome and 🎵🎶 is the key 🗝️. Hope you're doing well and kudos to the great future ahead!!!
Had 2 marriages end this way..agonizing and drawn out...word to the wise, if she wants a "trial separation" or "needs space" then its already over. Dont sit around agonizing for weeks or months hoping she comes back. She's gone for good.
What i dont understand is how ppl give ATR shit for their hard work, they are the TIGHTEST band the MOST in sync band i ever listened to they must eat sleep and breath music together kfor how tight they are, 90% of u will be like "oh bs they suck blah blah blah" please stay quiet if u think they suck how about you try and write ONE song or even just right one chorus and verse thats better than they make, music is a HARD career! i liked the olther albums of ATR but it dont mean ima give them shit for how they are playing now i still like it i still appreciate their hard work to bring the music to my ears. so stfu and dont act like ur a badass in comments like your negativity matters to anyone so please continue on ur way and take candy from a baby
I wish people would look at this album as a whole new album. Like its the debut of a new band. Take the other albums out of play and just look at this album and not compare. IMO this album is damn good. It's art.
FUCK I can't stop listen to this song, I listen to FOR YOU about 20 times already and still listen to it now. This Calling and A Reason for me to Fight stuck in my head too. LOVE ATR 4life.
Me and a buddy of mine were discussing the meaning of this song, he thinks that she left him and he wants her to come back to him but I think that he left her and she moved on but he realized his mistake and begs for her back and she seems to still care for him and and won't answer Him and he's finally had enough and won't wait while she thinks about what she wants. Any opinions?
Actually, Phil never said AWYCW sucked. He only said it wasn't up to par with how he wanted it. Like the production, vocals, etc wasn't how he wanted the end product to be.
Personally I don't mind the album...but I definitely think a war you cannot win was a lot better...all.that remains bring back an album like the fall of ideals!
DisturbedShadow I'm going to be the devil's advocate and say, if you've ever been with someone that constantly put you off until you just say f*** it, the lyrics make sense. They struck a chord for me.
DisturbedShadow That's a matter of opinion, not a matter of fact. If the lyrics speak to one person, then that's what matters from their perspective. They can't see your perspective so there's no reason to care about it. In other words... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to each their own, etc...
Me and a girl met at five after I was in a car accident when I was dropped off with her when my parents died somebody invaded our space and threw me to the corner in Clyde at eleven
RIP Oli.. Your talent touched us all, and will not be forgotten. Always the perfect solos at the perfect time..🙏
This album is saving my mental health! Thank you all that remains!
Good song to hear especially an mornings
Listened to this on the way home, and it's like every emotion just came out of me all at once. Absolutely love this song though.
My dad sent me this before he passed. I can't listen or sing it without my whole heart falling apart... 3:28 I love you
I'm so sorry for your loss.
@@uglycam Thank you, kind soul... I needed that...
Such a beautiful song. Almost cried in the car on the way home.
wait a second i herd this song in my car to on baddog94.7
Bro there’s no shame this song gets BUSY with emotion
Some lyrics may sound "soft" or "cliche" but if you've ever put someone aside during your bullshit and they stayed quite and walked with you step for step.. It hits different when you realize who exactly has your back but you only focused on giving explanations to the people who gave up on you for your unique shortcomings. Stay metal...
I absolutely love this song. This and "Pernicious" really hit close to home
Thats wonderful that you enjoy the music but no one cares about your bitch problems
SmokeKushMan I thought people who smoked weed were suppose to be happy lol. Chill man. Smoke one
Lol. Ow, my feelings
Lol. I laugh at your attempt to offend me
for anyone that wants to learn the song you can only play it in two tunings due to the fingerpicking in the verses C# Standard( C# F# B E G# C#) or dadgadb (C# G# C# F# G# C#) chords for c# standard x46800 x791100 x02400 x02600 and chords for dadgadb x24600 x57900 555x00 557x00
I absolutely love alternate guitar tunings.
Dude, give DADGAD a try, now surely you will have a ball with that! 😉
I really can't name all of them at the moment, because i haven't had time to learn all the technicalities and stuff, but as just your average musician, i enjoy having fun! Lol.
But of course i do take these things seriously, in order to have fun! 🤘😉
a very relateable song and some very meaningful and powerful lyrics
Lyrically this song reminds me a bit of Paper Wings by Rise Against, both seem to be saying "I care about you, but I can't wait forever for you, I don't want to move on, but I will if I have to"
ATR's music I can relate to!
So here are the things I've learned so far since I can't sleep... You can't ignore someone's feelings and expect them to care about yours. You can't with hold your time from someone and expect them to give you any of there's. You can't be selfish and expect someone not to be the same even tho they where never selfish. You can't keep doing things and making empty promises and expect anything you say to be true even if it's 10000% true. You can't be mean hearted and lash out at someone and not expect the same from them. You can't say you love someone and not show it and expect them to show it back... And you can't not be there for someone and expect them to be there for you. It all comes down to the basic principles of treat everyone and especially the ones you love and the one you wanna start a family with how you wanna be treated. I've been going through some personal issues and it's taken me this long to see the light but I finally have. I pray every night that someone can see in to my heart and see my present and future actions and see that all i want is to love and be with them. We've been together for over a year but they gave up a while ago because I've been pig headed and selfish. I am from the very bottom of my spirit sorry for my actions and I will do whats right. To all the guys on my page and girls as well. If you've been like me it's only a matter of time till you reach the level of hell I'm walking through. Treat the one you love with respect, be honest and love them like it's your last day on earth because it just might be or they just might just be sick of you and walk away.
Tl;dr
Your words hit home for a bunch of us out there. I'm sure.
Exactly!! This. This right here. My ex emailed me this song (cuz I changed my number and said peace out), and this is exactly what I felt. At some point it's time to say F it and move on. No amount of wishing for someone to come back is going to repair months or years of being taken advantage of and treated like dirt.
I hope everything works out for ya, dude.
I agree
damm bro... I never thought I would ever see a comment like yours. you and I think the same. I just wish more people had more of a open mind.
Honestly, i can't believe how quick people are at judging in this bloody comment section!
I am actually shocked by the pure intolerance some people have!
A little understanding and some respect works wonders, and is definitely appreciated, by the way, so just remember that before you bluntly judge, okay!
1:50-1:58 hit me right in the feels
I love this song
OMFG I love This Calling,Six Two Week and Not Alone. Oh yeah I love this song as much as I love those songs. ATR forever...ATR fever.
forever in your hands (lot of ppl miss that one, great song) so just in case you don't know it, check it out!
My Last Serenade.
This song deserves so much more love. It helped me though letting go of the second love of my life. She kept coming back to me, treating me as her backup option without realizing she was doing it. So i had to stop the cycle. Or I'd never find my peace. I have few regrets in life. Thst choice may very well be one of them.
Love the diversity of this band!
Valid point, Dude!!!!
Love love love this song😍😍
Love this sound and song and good lyrics keep rockn
because they're softer doesn't mean that they are worse
Exhibit A: this song
Spitting facts, my man! 🤘😉
this album is great, better than their last one imo
im really glad they started letting jeanne doing backing vocals on the album she has a really good voice
With auto tune so does anyone
Jay Caraway I think her voice is mediocre at best, and I think the band knows that also, hence why her voice is always a lot more quite compared to the main vocals. It also sounds like pitch correction was used a lot on the parts she sings in. Anyway, that's my opinion, she still sings better than I do :P
great song atr forever
anyone else notice the part of this song that literally does sound exactly like that part in the song simple and clean?
This Calling and Six are freaking amazing song, but this song freaking amazing shit too. I just love people are hating on ATR these days,bitching about ATR are too soft. I LOVE the new album as much as I love the first album. No Knock , Reason For Me To Fight,Pernicious and This Probably Won't End Well are great songs. ATR still rocking these days,keep on bring it ATR.
this song is awesome
This is good,hit home for me...
While this album is far from their strongest in my opinion, they definitely hit a home run with this track. This was a very poignant track during my last relationship, and it hit both of us pretty hard.
Atr. Thank you. Youre always there when i need you. ALWAYS! I FUCKING LOVE THIS BAND
My friend is leaving for Australia. Actually, I always loved her. I never told her. she's leaving this week. And I see myself connecting to this music.
I know that feeling, Dude... (Sighs)
There was this girl i knew in high school, and having lady-friend like her, just grew on me emotionally and she blew me away, and i remember the very last day of high school, our time at high school was over, and i couldn't find a way to contact her at the time, because she wasn't really the social media type of girl until now!
And then when i heard she moved to Ireland..... Aww, man, i was going through that.. "Nobody knows this but only i do" feeling, and bro, i was severely depressed locked in my room...
And just like you, that's when this type of music started growing on me, because i felt a connection with the lyrical and all of the content with the music, because it showed this emotional side to me that i could really benefit from!
Women, man....... They don't know how powerful they truly are when it comes to a man's vulnerable heart! (Sighs)
As soon as i read your comment, immediately i can relate, my guy! 🤘😔
@@ProjectCreativityGuy96 woah..the reply just gave me a notification or else I wouldn't have known I had written this 2 years back. Every guy can understand your pain. I wasn't much listener but Before my brother left home like 6 years back, he Left his hard drive full of metal albums. That included these songs. I listened them and had developed a connection to bands like mudvayne, all that remains.. Just need to remember there are times that may be difficult to overcome and 🎵🎶 is the key 🗝️. Hope you're doing well and kudos to the great future ahead!!!
beautiful.
Had 2 marriages end this way..agonizing and drawn out...word to the wise, if she wants a "trial separation" or "needs space" then its already over. Dont sit around agonizing for weeks or months hoping she comes back. She's gone for good.
Words of a wise man. Hope you’re doing well brother.
that's a great song that I have lived
This album is better than their last one imo
De mis favoritas del album
when the party has a disagreement about which path to take in the dungeon. If this happens more then once just go left every time.
What i dont understand is how ppl give ATR shit for their hard work, they are the TIGHTEST band the MOST in sync band i ever listened to they must eat sleep and breath music together kfor how tight they are, 90% of u will be like "oh bs they suck blah blah blah" please stay quiet if u think they suck how about you try and write ONE song or even just right one chorus and verse thats better than they make, music is a HARD career! i liked the olther albums of ATR but it dont mean ima give them shit for how they are playing now i still like it i still appreciate their hard work to bring the music to my ears. so stfu and dont act like ur a badass in comments like your negativity matters to anyone so please continue on ur way and take candy from a baby
Because you have to be a master chef to know when something tastes good or bad your opinion is invalid
GREAT!!!!! 😍😍😍😍🎧🎧😭
The bridge sounds like something straight off of 30 seconds to Mars' attack....
I wish people would look at this album as a whole new album. Like its the debut of a new band. Take the other albums out of play and just look at this album and not compare. IMO this album is damn good. It's art.
No.
I agree, their old stuff was good. But this is good in it's own right.
..days turn into months, this isn't what you promised me
Greatest Generation is my fav.
Sometimes, it's one thing
And next time, it's nothing
FUCK I can't stop listen to this song, I listen to FOR YOU about 20 times already and still listen to it now. This Calling and A Reason for me to Fight stuck in my head too. LOVE ATR 4life.
Nice, Perfect :D
I've looked everywhere I can think of for tabs to this song, does anybody have them or know where I can find them
just use your ear man. better to learn by ear and train your ears rather than rely on tab.
Can you read regular chords? I can give you basic chords but I don't know tabs.
This and what if i was nothing is the kind of music they should stick to.
agreed
I disagree, because i love their heavy side just as much their melancholy side!!!
Me and a buddy of mine were discussing the meaning of this song, he thinks that she left him and he wants her to come back to him but I think that he left her and she moved on but he realized his mistake and begs for her back and she seems to still care for him and and won't answer Him and he's finally had enough and won't wait while she thinks about what she wants. Any opinions?
Shirley Harris I think your friend is right
Am I the only one who likes this album? :(
Definitely not. This album is killer imo. Don't know what everyone's complaining about.
Actually, Phil never said AWYCW sucked. He only said it wasn't up to par with how he wanted it. Like the production, vocals, etc wasn't how he wanted the end product to be.
Leroy Jenkins heavy doesn´t always equal good. metal can be good without being super heavy
Aura Storm17 Oh, he did say it sucked. www.metalinsider.net/podcasts/all-that-remains-phil-labonte-our-last-album-sucked
Brian Taylor I agree with Phil, it sucked
Wow
nice
rip all that remains. this band used to be so sic.
Nah, just sucks your mind isn't open enough to appreciate different music for what it is.
This is one of their best songs yet, it's got such a strong melodic progression and tons of power behind the lyrics.
RIP to you definitely, Son!
I love you forever and always Michael
Probably should have told him more back then....
No your not cause I love this album!!!! Its not as good as there old stuff but still better than most main stream bands. (In my opinion) :)
CAUSE I... WON'T BAKE, COOKIES FOR YOU!!!!
Love it! :,D
All I wanted to say is that music was meant to mean something from the heart so why judge when it
means something to the artist?
Love
Like the song
I think it would have been more different if not better, if they titled this song as... 'I Won't Wait'!
I was told I'd see her everyday and she told me she wanted to be my girlfriend we have visually seen each other for a month
Personally I don't mind the album...but I definitely think a war you cannot win was a lot better...all.that remains bring back an album like the fall of ideals!
damn!
Why did you create all of this, Jason!
I found the girl in the yearbook
Yeah, that's the vibe I get from this song as well...
Love is painful sometimes...
Nick if you see this, I just got your email of this song, 8 years late, if you see this call me, serendipity right.
oli forever
When your first spouse effort fails it's illogical
❤❤
Now I'm twenty six without the leap my hair is greay
Sing along a mirror. Talk about motivation!
Есть ли тут русские? Мне очень нравится эта музыка, но жаль слов не понимаю. Вот реально захотелось английский выучить.
do caralho!
to say something I'm not holding back..
I hurt
I have received blood donations through 3 heart attacks when I was 21
Jeanne Sagan FTW
Like many other tracks on this album, musically it's good. I enjoy the instrumentation and the vocal melodies, but the lyrics are horribly corny.
So i think i'm corny, cause i liked the lyrics :p
DisturbedShadow I think you miss the intended point of the lyrics.
No he's right, good music and melody but Phil fails with his lyrics once again super man
DisturbedShadow I'm going to be the devil's advocate and say, if you've ever been with someone that constantly put you off until you just say f*** it, the lyrics make sense. They struck a chord for me.
DisturbedShadow That's a matter of opinion, not a matter of fact. If the lyrics speak to one person, then that's what matters from their perspective. They can't see your perspective so there's no reason to care about it. In other words... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to each their own, etc...
Then why do I have to go through the hospital all the time while she claims she's sleeping with people all the time
Me and a girl met at five after I was in a car accident when I was dropped off with her when my parents died somebody invaded our space and threw me to the corner in Clyde at eleven
Now I have no family
We remet when I was fifteen
only song i like on the album. unfortunately.
No Knock is the only good song.
Check out the last song Criticism and Self Realization. that song and this song are the only ones I like
+NinjaPhilosophy This is a great song...
Pernicious anyone?
+NinjaPhilosophy victory lap
I became aggressively harassed when I caught up to her
Did anyone hear a boom?
Ya know blood donations really takes your time away from you.