"if my employer sees or listens to that audio and decides that they not going to hire me because I spoke up for myself when i was being fired illegally then that's not a company or person I want to work for anyway" GIRL YOU'RE SO REAL FOR THAT!! ❤
I recently watched an African American complaining about the same things. I was so shocked because his manager sounded exactly like yours. She accused him of having a 'scary' face in the afternoon.
You telling your story is part of healing from that trauma..people who’ve never traveled to a foreign country and haven’t experienced stuff won’t understand..sending love and hugs gurl!
As melanated women, we are always expected to smile by other races in the workplace to make them feel comfortable. If we're not smiling and making them comfortable they feel intimidated. That's how powerful our presence can be.
"I'm also black , so I understand exactly what was going on with you as an ESL expat from South Africa teaching in China, let me explain it to you. See, the Chinese bosses who abused you? They were intimidated by your powerful presence, which I, a random commenter also possess." What a pompous, ignorant thing to comment. You have absolutely no understanding of what is going on with the events she is relaying in her videos and yet try to make them about you. You don't have any shared experience to this solely based on being a "melanated woman"
Get the PGCE and QTS and you won't need to work in a low-paid Tesol/Tefl/ training school. International schools have big salaries, contracts, paid holidays, (long holidays) good packages etc. You can also add stipulations to your contract if you wish. You wouldn't work as a homeroom teacher (local teachers do that job). I think the problem is some people learn about the big salaries in China to teach English. What they don't understand is if you are not a qualified teacher you are not going to get the same perks. Many international schools are now looking for staff with the above credentials and a Master's degree.
This is all true, however, you can still be subjected to abuse, scamming, and abuse from employers. I know teachers now that work at an international school ( highly skilled and more experienced) and the culture is over bearing / uncomfortable. The bigger issue is character and treating people as human beings.
She used pictures of herself in a wig to land the job. But... she showed up bald. It's considered masculine in their culture and she should have known this already after living in Asia. Working with children requires the highest degree of transparency and she played around with this by presenting one way and then showing up another. That puts people on edge when they are trying to judge your character to be able to trust that you will be safe enough to work with children. bald women are common in some cultures but not in Asian ones, and she knew this, and chose to ignore the impact being bald would have on her employers' opinion of her. They told her TO HER FACE that they weren't happy with the change, and she decided to ignore how they felt, but was shocked when they cared so little about her that their negligence almost got her imprisoned, HEAVILY fined and/or possibly deported. She used the wig in a deceptive manner in which drastic appearance changes like the one she pulled, are not commonplace nor readily acceptable. If she didn't care about their opinions, she should not have put herself in such a vulnerable position and at their mercy for them to employ her, pay her, and allow her to stay in THEIR country. Simple: Go to their country, play by their rules.
@@Accuface2000 but not in Asia. They didn't want someone masculine and acting in a deceptive manner working around kids when she had presented herself differently in order to get the job.
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko they decided to give you a chance and they obviously regret it. Turning in lesson plans late, excessive days off, inability to get along with coworkers, etc. Now they're trying to get rid of you subtlety but now suddenly you can't go so easily because of papers and pay, after threatening to leave.
Ah man people are too harsh in this comment section. Can you hear how frustrated she sounds in that clip man , those people were a lot💔girl take heart ❤️
I love teaching adults and children about fitness. Sadly its experiences like this that make me afraid to share my gifts outside of my country of origin. Im glad to see you are doing better and it is unacceptable how they treated you, it is not common human decency ❤
Your story with your injured eye was terrifying and I was crying for you. Come to the USA and stay with me! We will be your family here! I hope you are safe and happy with where you are living. 🙏❤️
I personally know of someone who got fired from a school in Vietnam simply because he was a black man. No reasons were given except that the school got complaints from parents saying that they didn't want their kids being taught by a black man. That was it.
Great video! I subscribed a while ago when you shared your experience in China. I hope you're feeling better now. I also lived in China for a while and had a good experience, but I can definitely see how things could potentially take a turn. Wishing you the best, and I hope everything is going well. Blessings to you-keep the great content coming!
You.didnt engage with your kids well enough, that is what they said . Not that you didnt smile. That was what Janet was telling you and also the other staff G. Also various other reasons, such as your poor performance. They probably gave you time but you didnt adapt. Also during Covid it wasnt easy to get a replacement.
I agree with @lindc1070. G was trying to say that you weren't engaging or being "active" with the students. Also, your personality doesn't seem to be a good fit for their school. I think that you'd be much better with older students. I think they were using the accidents and sick leave as an excuse.
I sympathize with your position as a fellow educator. However I feel like you were missing the point several times. If to them you are a liability then they would seek to cut their losses and move on. That should be their right, no?
In many countries an emplyee who doesnt perform can be fired. Especially a foreigner. She was refusing to comply with their instructions like cutting nails , handing lesson plans the Thursday earlier etc. Good enough grounds to be fired.
@@Peter-pe6pp yeah she doesn’t seem to acknowledge how her actions may have been perceived as undesirable at all. Not everyone can be a great fit everywhere. Seems to me they were delicately asking her to leave and she simply refused to be fired. Extraordinary.
exactly what black women need: more representation on the world stage as being extra tough, manly, and not in need of protection or defense. One day we'll get our wish and just be treated like men and no one will ever defend us or protect us because we'll be the only women on earth who aren't men but will be treated exactly like one for all the horrible aspects. oh joy.
Do not treat some as idiots In every culture people do get fired And you have real arrogant attitude I listened from beginning till the end one of your video Yiu recorded your dialog with your boss You spoke as if you are the boss Take care Please analyze yourself too
I think the point u r missing is WHY STAY SOMEWHERE U R CLEARLY NOT WANTED? This happens a lot. The only difference here is they were very messy about it. Other places do write u up for silly things until they have enough of a case to let u go. Why would u want to work a job where I'm must walk on eggshells all day trying not to offend anyone? You should've left after the first interaction and called Millie
I thought it was a string of bad luck, but she seems to like staying where she knows there will be conflict. In the recorded convos, she's always trying to escalate the situation, too. It creates content.
@theprimitivista I honestly don't think she did it for content. Also depending on where u r n the world it's more accepted to stand ur ground of course! But u have to consider ALL aspects. . .u r in a communist country FFS maybe this isn't the place u wanna go against the grain yanno?
If only you used your brain, YOU would realise there was a catch as to why they were rushing to fire her, and why she was fighting to stay in a situation she hated. They wouldn't pay her if she finished abruptly. + other consequences. Get a clue.
@@KickinTheBucket-Listidk how it is in China, but I live in Korea and there are many reasons to reject this. 1 is you won't get your severance pay. And 2, you will most likely get deported as usually a job who fires you will not give you a Letter of Release which means you cannot get another job, which means you cannot keep your visa which means deportation. Now if you don't want to stay that's fine, but many people want to. Many people also want severance and many "schools" will fire people during the 11th month in order to not have to pay severance. I'm assuming there's a similar reason about why she wouldn't want to be fired. We are immigrants. Technically we're not even immigrants. Someone with an immigrant visa has more freedom. We just have a visa that says we're here to do one thing and one thing only and if you can't do that (or can't change to another visa type) then it's bye bye for you.
I don't know how you ended up on my YT feed but OH MAN! I've watched your China series back to back and I have learned so so much from you and your professionalism! And oh man I am livid!
I did ESL teaching in southeast Asia for just two months, and that was after I've lived in that culture for 4 years. You are at a disadvantage as a foreigner, the labour laws are weak (unless if you have connections to fight disputes), the parents themselves can discriminate against you, and in general the school system is from a century ago (corporal punishment is normal). It's not the best work environment if you don't know how to deal with it. Whoever is talking about bad experience is definitely not exaggerating! It's not the same as working in a western country with strong laws.
@@Peter-pe6pp Bruh, the cultures and working conditions are pretty much similar across eastern and southeast asia, especially if you're working in a Chinese-owned school like I did. I wrote my post as an advice and a story for others to learn from. Take it or leave it.
@@tomaccinothe cultures are very similar indeed. Korea was just as toxic but I kept quiet for the most part and „took it“ because I wanted to keep my job and would gaslight myself a lot but in China I was done with that. At least in Korea no one ever tried to fire me illegally
It seems some of you dont even know Southeast Asia doesnt include China or Korea. Never been to.SE Asia? But it is true the work ethic is similar and there is nothing wrong with that. Why else do you think these countries do so well? An employee who displayed her incompetence and refusal to consider the needs of the organisation/ school will be let go in most countries. Her level of rudeness is quite shocking too. In Asian culture we are not raised to speak to authority in that manner.
@@Nadiesalevivo For your information - she is in a much bigger problem in South Korea, it already sounds like China was being very nice with her and tried many times to even not be too direct by firing her after giving her a period of time.
@@worldview2888 Yeah where the boss punched her in the face...She needs to move to a more diverse country or city and forget about those two countries.
In the audios it is obvious the school was being tolerant to her incompetence . Janet was very clear about why they were unhappy with her and the reasons were valid.
Your generalization that persons who did not agree with you in the last video is disappointing, especially as an educator. You made a lot of valid points, you also provided information to current and incoming foreign teachers however some of your actions/ reactions were not in line with policy or expectations. Some of your actions were like a spoiled child throwing a tantrum because they did not get what they want. #Respectfully
I did say MAJORITY… that’s also due to analytics of locations of most of my followers. As far as the policies you refer to, which ones? Respectfully of course.
Man you're really a rule follower aren't you? I guarantee if this happened to you you would also want to assert yourself. I guess you're just a doormat
what's with the "Smile" thing because in general I rarely see smiles in traveling vlogs when people visit China. Talking about a society that don't do small talks and smile to strangers. I could be wrong..so tell me what's the tea???
Which world do you live in? The Chinese are very social. Maybe you give the wrong nonverbal signals or you have an upright introverted personality. The treatment you get is your reflection.
You're right Chinese society generally doesn't show much affection or emotion, so expecting her to make foreigners smile feels like an excuse to fire her. Most teachers in China are more reserved, and focusing on something like smiling seems out of place
@@Accuface2000 If you’ve ever lived in China or really know Chinese people, you’d see that being warm and friendly isn’t part of their culture. They’re often reserved and can be pretty cold. So, basing your judgment on what some Black folks are showing, which is likely just propaganda, is honestly kind of ignorant. You should actually step foot in China and see how people really act
@@Accuface2000you need to read it again. They specifically said that Chinese people don't smile or talk to strangers which is true. They do it to foreigners but that's not the same thing. We are exceptions to the rule.
the comments are interesting and seem not to like "strong factual personality" especially from a woman..but hey, it gets your story up in the algorithm. The more engagement from viewers who are emotionally invested in your video will help your story reach a wider audience.
Think about how "strong women" are treated in the USA. A black teacher left for Thailand after being profiled and roughed up by the police. Probability game - You are 100 times safer in Thailand than Amerika. Thailand is an autocracy by the way.
Strong and Intelligent women get treated horrible in society because we don’t fit socially at what a women should be. If she was a man she would be treated differently and would be respected.
Knowing when and where to have that "strong factual personality" is her problem. She's in a society, a COMMUNIST society, that values social cohesion above all else. It is certainly not the place to just go around being strong and standing out all the time if you are vulnerable and need the people of that society to like you enough to pay you and not have you deported.
I don't get it, you didn't like it there, there were accidents you suffered through and if you were getting ready to go for a holiday i suppose you almost finished your contract... then they want to fire you and you fight TO STAY? Why though?
@AnnaMuzaza I see, but tbh some of them are so nasty they will find a way not to pay your benefits regardless. I've spent 7 years in China, there were ups and downs of course, but I've seen how the management treated some teachers from SA and it wasn't nice. Which makes me believe it's their personal preferences that drive their decisions and not always the teacher's performance, unfortunately
To add on to your point, China is "over-saturated" populatuon wise, in a way. They have no lack of human resources/labor. So, the logical extension from that, is that Everything boils down to politics, and personal preferences, and not performance, etc..
LOL feel free please, I do not delete any comments. TH-cam filters comments if they are deemed to be bullying or harassment. Perhaps start a channel and you will know more
I get Nolu, as direct and brutal person you wouldn't get the first warning if it was not presented as the first warning. Hence she was fighting on the second meeting cause thats when she got the warning. Another thing i got from the previous video they were still not direct with their decision until she wanted clarity on the vacation leave. Maybe really in China they communicate different from us
When employers tell you to smile more it’s because the expression on your face says “l don’t want to be here”. I worked for large companies that required employees to smile on the phone because the customer could hear it in our voice. American working culture is different than the rest of the world but I have noticed throughout the years that the younger generations don’t like taking orders or like employers checking on their work or progress. They are also the kind of people that can’t hold a job and it will get harder for you to work for someone the older you get with that attitude.
Great. Mind blown. What genius commentary you've left. Will anyone here be asking you for jobs as they grow older? Just get on with smiling like a clown wherever you go, and stop mansplaining rubbish to people who never asked you.
In your last video, the school had to pay for your contract, bribes for visa issues, substitute teacher, workers compensation for work related injury, etc. I can tell you do not own a business. Many businesses will keep employees they don’t like or who doesn’t fit in if they INVESTED a lot of money. They will keep you until the end of the contract or until they can replace you. This happens all over the world. If it saves money, NO we don’t fire you immediately. When we realize you aren’t worth the money, or costing us money, then we now will consider firing you. You didn’t have the personality this school wanted, but also, due to the accidents, was costing them money too. You became a big money pit for them outside of your personality. Also, yes, you cannot be fired for injury on the job, but I did not see anyone in the last video comments say that. That rule is in many countries too. But that wasn’t the reason they were firing you. They listed many, but over all your personality didn’t fit into their work culture. I know it’s hard that this is how business works, and I know it sucks that MANY companies are abusive, over work employees, or have cliques that you must fit in. It’s the same in corporate America too. Good luck and I hope you learned from this. I also hope the school now gives warning in writing, so this doesn’t happen again to them as well.
So what's your point? You're an enabler of abuse and you should be ashamed of yourself! What point have your above thesis and endless paragraphs made? Go find the school and defend them on THEIR youtube page, don't post nonsense here while the victim is trying to heal. And SO WHAT if she is or isn't a business owner? Do you want us to clap for you? Rubbish!
Accept cultural differences. Your ideas will be rejected not only in Asia, but also in Europe and America. First of all, you have to accept the local way of thinking. If you don't accept the ideas of others and only follow your own ideas, why don't you stay in your own country? If you act like your own country everywhere, the same thing will happen in every country. Or you can become a CEO, start your own company and do what you want. China is bad enough, but you have so many problems. Be humble.
People need to take responsibility and accountability for the choices they make. I really hope you learn from what you experienced. And make wiser life decisions. The world is a very dangerous place. Good luck to you ❤
The smiling thing🤣 I have watched many black vloggers in China. It seems the Chinese like outgoing, extroverted people even if you are clownish, talkative, funny and inquisitive. Looks don't matter in China because I saw a handsome Blasian guy from the USA being ignored like a fly. He was quiet and expressionless, not making any effort, expecting people (women) to throw themselves at him. People just ignored him in the restaurant and he went to vent his frustrations on TH-cam, unaware of his flaws. The Chinese love personality more than anything. Looks are not something special or amazing because they are good looking.
But they are not extroverted either.Most of them are quiet people. Let’s be honest the black person they want it’s the one that is shown on American tv . The sassy , loud ,cheery person. We are all not clowns
Girl I’m glad you stood your ground. I want to be sharp as you. I hope after all this you find some peace. What I’ve realize in a lot of societies even in America people don’t like outspoken people or people who go against social orders. A lot of people are scared of ruining that order but I can tell your not one of those people. Some people in the comments fail to see that people like you are leaders of this world. You’re the people that actually want change and I respect that. People are only looking at delivery and not listening to your words. Don’t let them get you down, no one deserve to treated the way you did. East Asian countries are not equipped to dealing with change.
Just come to America to teach, you will get treated better since the demand of teachers always needed, I can't say the pay will be amazing but you get to live and earn at the same time.
If anyone is interested there is an intl school in kota Kinabalu hiring English teachers. I have been here 12 years. There are negatives but nothing like this. 🙏
I grew up in Malaysia. She will never make it there with her attitude of arguing back to her superiors and constantly going on sick leave, turning work in late . In fact she would be fired much earlier.
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko I feel sorry for you. It appears you suffer from the victim mentality syndrome. Many others have said so too. You need therapy. The only toxicity in the recordings is your attitude and way of speaking. You are a rebel without a cause. Perhaps you suffered rejection or trauma in your life and now carry that Victimhood everywhere you go. This has become a pattern with you.
After watching your videos for so long....the only thing I really wish for you is some positivity and happiness in your life. Despite what happened in China, I really wish you could do some happy content about your life. Like a moving on from my trauma videos or some happy videos of you going to a café, hanging out with friends or life in Korea. To be honest, all this trauma videos is so off brand of you. Please stop playing the victim card. Change your brand at least.
I just came across her channel so I don't know anything about her. You said her trauma videos are off brand. Did she used to make happy videos and now everything is related to work/other trauma videos?
@@denisenoles3159 Yes she had videos about South Korea until she noticed that her trauma videos gained a lot of views. Since then, she has been posting videos about her traumas.
She has given a baf example of the attitude of Africans and why they will not fit in in Asia if they are like her. So be prepared less jobs will be available to Africans in Asia after this.
Are you serious? 🙄😤 I'm trying to keep up with an empathize with your story but you literally only had 18 minutes for this portion and then leave a cliffhanger??? 😡 There's no way a cliffhanger was necessary especially when this is something that has already happened in the past and you're just telling a story this is not happening in the moment.
Bad idea. In the USA you don't last with an argumentative attitude especially if you have been told to leave. Police will be called to escort you and it may end badly.
@@Accuface2000 She basically has a much bigger problem in South Korea (and she is uploading her past problems about China like for the X amount of time already.)
Is it possible they're lying about the reason and it's more your look they don't like? I remember you once saying someone suggested you wear a wig. It's a country with women with hair, long or short, and maybe they feel that bald head on a woman confuses the kids or is not a good look. I've seen you with a wig, and I find you look great in it. Personally I don't like bald heads on women myself, and I'm a black woman with short hair. I wear wigs and have no problem with them.
YOU are the reason some women really should STAY in the kitchen! With your kind of thinking, you may need to go somewhere and wash your brain. Thank the HEAVENS women of the world don't live by YOUR likes and dislikes. What an uncivilised, mannerless, uncouth, barbaric, preposterous comment. Shame on you! Educate yourself!
Kind of weird to add the ending. A bit socially awkward but I digress. Even if that's the case, there's a reason why they're firing her rather than not renewing her contract. It most likely has to do with money.
That's probably it. She showed up bald. It's considered masculine in their culture and she should have known this already after living in Asia. Working with children requires the highest degree of transparency and she played around with this by presenting one way and then showing up another. That puts people on edge when they are trying to judge your character to be able to trust that you will be safe enough to work with children. bald women are common in some cultures but not in Asian ones, and she knew this, and chose to ignore the impact being bald would have on her employers' opinion of her. They told her TO HER FACE that they weren't happy with the change, and she decided to ignore how they felt, but was shocked when they cared so little about her that their negligence almost got her imprisoned, HEAVILY fined and/or possibly deported. She used the wig in a deceptive manner in which drastic appearance changes like the one she pulled, are not commonplace nor readily acceptable. If she didn't care about their opinions, she should not have put herself in such a vulnerable position and at their mercy for them to employ her, pay her, and allow her to stay in THEIR country. Simple: Go to their country, play by their rules.
It was probably a totality of your whole experience. Pardon the pun, there is something lost in translation. They did not expect you to speak for yourself. Keep looking for something better.
** Horrible ** This video is BOTH misleading and irresponsible. I will just be direct and blunt WITHOUT the pointless "supportive, positive you are the victim card. 1) You are facing MUCH WORST situation and circumstances in South Korea. 2) Why and how on earth do you actually pull China's name to make a video? Completely sounds and feel like you took all the salary, your funds dried up and now you have to pull such an attempt to get views and clickbait? Most of this don't even add up. 3) I actually had much more respect understanding your previous situation (which you completely LEFT OUT many important details e.g: why did your previous employer directly fire you, the real and actual reasons and the problems you have caused (character, attitude) that you did not truthfully tell your audience. You actually did admit multiple times even your colleagues dislike you. There are multiple individuals involved towards throwing you out in all situations.
Are you okay? Did you take your medication? What on earth are you going on about with your pointless, nonsensical, incomprehensible, unparagraphed, gibberish? Can you first learn to speak and write before you spew nonsense on people's channels? Go get a hobby.
A lot is missing from these stories. In her recordeings of them, she always escalates very quickly with these people who are trying in the gentlest way possible to tell her that they don't like her or want her around and her only response is to try use "the law" against them. She's over there being combative in a communist country whose highest social values are conformity and cohesion. She's not going to "teach" this society anything, no one is going to rescue her if she gets in trouble, and she thinks she's going to get money by putting herself at the mercy of people she KNOWS don't like her and expecting the world to feel sorry for her.
You need to move on. Your recording can’t be used as evidence because I don’t think that they knew you were recording them. The recordings are illegal. Complaining online and playing those recordings just make you look like the bad guy. You sound difficult to deal with in them and you always have to an excuse. No accountability whatsoever. Last but not least, you don’t like the school, don’t like your coworkers etc, why are you fighting to go back. Move on, stuff happens
In China, if you record a conversation that you are a part of, you generally do not have to inform the other party for the recording to be legal. According to Article 63 of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China, audio recordings can be used as evidence in civil cases as long as they are obtained legally. This means that if your boss fired you illegally and you recorded the conversation without informing them, the recording could be admissible in court🙂
Aggggrrr. Can people like you just go and fly a kite or something! Why are YOU here watching the updates? Get a life. YOU. are the one who needs to MOVE ON! Mannerless!
Islandgirl, you sound extremely judgmental, mean spirited, condescending and cold. It is not your place to tell her that she “needs to move on” either. She is still recovering from her traumatic experience. Her recovery will take as long as it takes. *If she wants to vent on her channel 24/7 for the next 5 years, she can.* If you go through a prolonged traumatic experience and people take the same nasty, dismissive approach towards you, you might change your tune.
TH-cam is about sharing experiences. Nolu has every right to talk about her own story on her own channel, and it can be useful information for someone else going through the same experience. If you feel you don't need it maybe you should be the one moving on...TH-cam is vast enough for you to find satisfaction somewhere else
You seem like your a hater , all your previous comments you have nothing good to say to Nolu....if you don't like the person doing the content or the content it's self don't watch.....only people with low self esteem enjoy bullying others through the phone this is a reflection of how you feel about yourself .....if you have nothing good to say to someone just keep quiet....
@@matlhatsi3486 People take "women" who has strong personality as the "B" word..but when you switch gender, they might be supportive. Sadly, women gotta be submissive and "okay okay" all the time.
"if my employer sees or listens to that audio and decides that they not going to hire me because I spoke up for myself when i was being fired illegally then that's not a company or person I want to work for anyway" GIRL YOU'RE SO REAL FOR THAT!! ❤
I recently watched an African American complaining about the same things. I was so shocked because his manager sounded exactly like yours. She accused him of having a 'scary' face in the afternoon.
Imagine!!! And despite all of that people expect to „humble yourself“.
Please share the video link or his name so I can watch it and support him🙏🏾
Can you share a link to the video? TIA
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko th-cam.com/video/KN4igtw5wL8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=MkRazVJkxzE6CoWI
Or Derringtravel . The video titled ‘ Leaving my second Hagwon’
@@User989_2 th-cam.com/video/KN4igtw5wL8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=FQ4Oplwd0VlOmoUG
🤣🤣🥲Scary face Lol
You telling your story is part of healing from that trauma..people who’ve never traveled to a foreign country and haven’t experienced stuff won’t understand..sending love and hugs gurl!
As melanated women, we are always expected to smile by other races in the workplace to make them feel comfortable. If we're not smiling and making them comfortable they feel intimidated. That's how powerful our presence can be.
💯 if you don't then they ask why you look so angry... 😡😡😡
@@KL-zt6jx That part!!
I think black people are more guilty of this as well.
Obviously people are not choosing to look angry on purpose. Its hard for some to force a smile
"I'm also black , so I understand exactly what was going on with you as an ESL expat from South Africa teaching in China, let me explain it to you. See, the Chinese bosses who abused you? They were intimidated by your powerful presence, which I, a random commenter also possess." What a pompous, ignorant thing to comment. You have absolutely no understanding of what is going on with the events she is relaying in her videos and yet try to make them about you. You don't have any shared experience to this solely based on being a "melanated woman"
Get the PGCE and QTS and you won't need to work in a low-paid Tesol/Tefl/ training school. International schools have big salaries, contracts, paid holidays, (long holidays) good packages etc. You can also add stipulations to your contract if you wish. You wouldn't work as a homeroom teacher (local teachers do that job). I think the problem is some people learn about the big salaries in China to teach English. What they don't understand is if you are not a qualified teacher you are not going to get the same perks. Many international schools are now looking for staff with the above credentials and a Master's degree.
TVET at Nmmu is also good one they offer it part time too
She is ruined, she won’t get any jobs in international schools.
This is all true, however, you can still be subjected to abuse, scamming, and abuse from employers. I know teachers now that work at an international school ( highly skilled and more experienced) and the culture is over bearing / uncomfortable. The bigger issue is character and treating people as human beings.
@@mosoulwrites However, far less likely and akin to any workplace.
Excellent advice.
Oh you have been through it sana. I hope you're in a better space now❤
Mhlambe they also didn’t want to pay your severance pay (if you had it). I will always stand by you sana and you did well by defending yourself ❤
You can definitely tell that most of the people commenting had no idea what they were talking about. I understood your point of view perfectly.
PLEASE keep the story going!! You are an excellent story teller!! I want to hear it ALL!!!
She used pictures of herself in a wig to land the job. But... she showed up bald. It's considered masculine in their culture and she should have known this already after living in Asia. Working with children requires the highest degree of transparency and she played around with this by presenting one way and then showing up another. That puts people on edge when they are trying to judge your character to be able to trust that you will be safe enough to work with children. bald women are common in some cultures but not in Asian ones, and she knew this, and chose to ignore the impact being bald would have on her employers' opinion of her. They told her TO HER FACE that they weren't happy with the change, and she decided to ignore how they felt, but was shocked when they cared so little about her that their negligence almost got her imprisoned, HEAVILY fined and/or possibly deported. She used the wig in a deceptive manner in which drastic appearance changes like the one she pulled, are not commonplace nor readily acceptable. If she didn't care about their opinions, she should not have put herself in such a vulnerable position and at their mercy for them to employ her, pay her, and allow her to stay in THEIR country. Simple: Go to their country, play by their rules.
🤣🤣🤣 Bald is a style in South Africa and Botswana.
Y’all are fixated on my wigs that I buy from Chinese people 😂
If that bothered them then they should have fired me when I arrived
@@Accuface2000 but not in Asia. They didn't want someone masculine and acting in a deceptive manner working around kids when she had presented herself differently in order to get the job.
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko they decided to give you a chance and they obviously regret it. Turning in lesson plans late, excessive days off, inability to get along with coworkers, etc. Now they're trying to get rid of you subtlety but now suddenly you can't go so easily because of papers and pay, after threatening to leave.
@@Nolusindiso_HlekoI believe next time they’ll reject bald women completely.
You are strong Nolu. Sorry for what you went through. Also I like that you know your rights and you don’t allow people to walk all over you.
Ah man people are too harsh in this comment section. Can you hear how frustrated she sounds in that clip man , those people were a lot💔girl take heart ❤️
I love teaching adults and children about fitness. Sadly its experiences like this that make me afraid to share my gifts outside of my country of origin.
Im glad to see you are doing better and it is unacceptable how they treated you, it is not common human decency ❤
I loved teaching too, the kids were the sweetest and the cutest in all of my jobs but the grown folks ruined it for me
Your story with your injured eye was terrifying and I was crying for you. Come to the USA and stay with me! We will be your family here! I hope you are safe and happy with where you are living. 🙏❤️
I personally know of someone who got fired from a school in Vietnam simply because he was a black man.
No reasons were given except that the school got complaints from parents saying that they didn't want their kids being taught by a black man.
That was it.
4:35 because schools in China don’t like changing teachers too often. Especially for young students. The parents run the show
Great video! I subscribed a while ago when you shared your experience in China. I hope you're feeling better now. I also lived in China for a while and had a good experience, but I can definitely see how things could potentially take a turn. Wishing you the best, and I hope everything is going well. Blessings to you-keep the great content coming!
You.didnt engage with your kids well enough, that is what they said . Not that you didnt smile. That was what Janet was telling you and also the other staff G. Also various other reasons, such as your poor performance. They probably gave you time but you didnt adapt. Also during Covid it wasnt easy to get a replacement.
Except where had she seen me with my kids when she only been in my class twice in 10 months but go on 😊
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko the parents who had seen you with the kids brought this up as a concern
I agree with @lindc1070. G was trying to say that you weren't engaging or being "active" with the students. Also, your personality doesn't seem to be a good fit for their school. I think that you'd be much better with older students. I think they were using the accidents and sick leave as an excuse.
I sympathize with your position as a fellow educator. However I feel like you were missing the point several times. If to them you are a liability then they would seek to cut their losses and move on. That should be their right, no?
Their right? According to what law?
She did NOT miss ANY point! There are civil ways to end contracts, no?
In many countries an emplyee who doesnt perform can be fired. Especially a foreigner. She was refusing to comply with their instructions like cutting nails , handing lesson plans the Thursday earlier etc. Good enough grounds to be fired.
@@Peter-pe6pp yeah she doesn’t seem to acknowledge how her actions may have been perceived as undesirable at all. Not everyone can be a great fit everywhere. Seems to me they were delicately asking her to leave and she simply refused to be fired. Extraordinary.
Nolu your story must be told.. much love to you being the Iron Lady
I feel like she’s lying…..wants to paint herself as a victim
exactly what black women need: more representation on the world stage as being extra tough, manly, and not in need of protection or defense. One day we'll get our wish and just be treated like men and no one will ever defend us or protect us because we'll be the only women on earth who aren't men but will be treated exactly like one for all the horrible aspects. oh joy.
Do not treat some as idiots In every culture people do get fired And you have real arrogant attitude I listened from beginning till the end one of your video Yiu recorded your dialog with your boss You spoke as if you are the boss Take care Please analyze yourself too
I think the point u r missing is WHY STAY SOMEWHERE U R CLEARLY NOT WANTED? This happens a lot. The only difference here is they were very messy about it. Other places do write u up for silly things until they have enough of a case to let u go. Why would u want to work a job where I'm must walk on eggshells all day trying not to offend anyone? You should've left after the first interaction and called Millie
I wasn’t that easy… it’s not easy
The only place African Americans are wanted is in the motherland.
I thought it was a string of bad luck, but she seems to like staying where she knows there will be conflict. In the recorded convos, she's always trying to escalate the situation, too. It creates content.
@theprimitivista I honestly don't think she did it for content. Also depending on where u r n the world it's more accepted to stand ur ground of course! But u have to consider ALL aspects. . .u r in a communist country FFS maybe this isn't the place u wanna go against the grain yanno?
@@teyianneful imagine being on a brink of losing your residency and thinking about making content 😂😂😂
gaaaaallllllll! That cliffhanger! I simply can't......we neeeeed the continuation asap😯
The only thing I don't get is.. if they're so horrible and toxic why fight the firing?? I'd be running out the doors
If only it was that easy
If only you used your brain, YOU would realise there was a catch as to why they were rushing to fire her, and why she was fighting to stay in a situation she hated. They wouldn't pay her if she finished abruptly. + other consequences. Get a clue.
@@scaramel7208 Still don't get it 😊
@@KickinTheBucket-Listidk how it is in China, but I live in Korea and there are many reasons to reject this. 1 is you won't get your severance pay. And 2, you will most likely get deported as usually a job who fires you will not give you a Letter of Release which means you cannot get another job, which means you cannot keep your visa which means deportation. Now if you don't want to stay that's fine, but many people want to. Many people also want severance and many "schools" will fire people during the 11th month in order to not have to pay severance. I'm assuming there's a similar reason about why she wouldn't want to be fired. We are immigrants. Technically we're not even immigrants. Someone with an immigrant visa has more freedom. We just have a visa that says we're here to do one thing and one thing only and if you can't do that (or can't change to another visa type) then it's bye bye for you.
@@LethalLemonLime Thanks for explaining without attitude , I've never worked abroad so didn't think about all of these factors.
Knowing the period you had worked provided more clarity to your story. I thought you were still under probation.
I wouldn’t have fought if I was under probation. I would have left peacefully
I am really sorry you went through all this, thanks for sharing your story
I don't know how you ended up on my YT feed but OH MAN! I've watched your China series back to back and I have learned so so much from you and your professionalism! And oh man I am livid!
I wish more people spoke up ey
I did ESL teaching in southeast Asia for just two months, and that was after I've lived in that culture for 4 years. You are at a disadvantage as a foreigner, the labour laws are weak (unless if you have connections to fight disputes), the parents themselves can discriminate against you, and in general the school system is from a century ago (corporal punishment is normal).
It's not the best work environment if you don't know how to deal with it. Whoever is talking about bad experience is definitely not exaggerating! It's not the same as working in a western country with strong laws.
There are lots of SE Asian countries and they are by no means all the same. Which country were you in?
What has this to do with Southeast Asia? Neither China nor Korea are in SE Asia .
@@Peter-pe6pp Bruh, the cultures and working conditions are pretty much similar across eastern and southeast asia, especially if you're working in a Chinese-owned school like I did.
I wrote my post as an advice and a story for others to learn from. Take it or leave it.
@@tomaccinothe cultures are very similar indeed.
Korea was just as toxic but I kept quiet for the most part and „took it“ because I wanted to keep my job and would gaslight myself a lot but in China I was done with that.
At least in Korea no one ever tried to fire me illegally
It seems some of you dont even know Southeast Asia doesnt include China or Korea. Never been to.SE Asia? But it is true the work ethic is similar and there is nothing wrong with that. Why else do you think these countries do so well? An employee who displayed her incompetence and refusal to consider the needs of the organisation/ school will be let go in most countries. Her level of rudeness is quite shocking too. In Asian culture we are not raised to speak to authority in that manner.
Think She is the Problem everytime and everyware it will start over and over
You are someone else's problem too. Go see a psychiatrist.
@@Nadiesalevivo For your information - she is in a much bigger problem in South Korea, it already sounds like China was being very nice with her and tried many times to even not be too direct by firing her after giving her a period of time.
Says you, the person who can't form a proper sentence. Read a book.
@@worldview2888 Yeah where the boss punched her in the face...She needs to move to a more diverse country or city and forget about those two countries.
In the audios it is obvious the school was being tolerant to her incompetence . Janet was very clear about why they were unhappy with her and the reasons were valid.
Sweetheart, have you ever thought about being a teacher in a different location? Do you have to be in those locations or do you have other options?
I went ahead and explored other options
I tried to empathize, but you are actually crazy.
You're crazy too. Y no has vivido mucho tampoco que parezca.
She does sound mentally unhinged. Her behavior is abnormal.
I love this❤, to anyone that come across this comment May you be successful in life and also your youtube channel 😊🙏
You are strong, honest and courageous. You deserve so much better than to teach in shitty places like that.
We all do but unfortunately poverty forces some of us to stick to such toxicity
Your generalization that persons who did not agree with you in the last video is disappointing, especially as an educator. You made a lot of valid points, you also provided information to current and incoming foreign teachers however some of your actions/ reactions were not in line with policy or expectations. Some of your actions were like a spoiled child throwing a tantrum because they did not get what they want. #Respectfully
I did say MAJORITY… that’s also due to analytics of locations of most of my followers.
As far as the policies you refer to, which ones? Respectfully of course.
Respectful nonsense! Rubbish!! Go gaslight other people elsewhere and get off her story and her videos! Mannerless!
Man you're really a rule follower aren't you? I guarantee if this happened to you you would also want to assert yourself. I guess you're just a doormat
I love listening to you❤❤
what's with the "Smile" thing because in general I rarely see smiles in traveling vlogs when people visit China. Talking about a society that don't do small talks and smile to strangers. I could be wrong..so tell me what's the tea???
Which world do you live in? The Chinese are very social. Maybe you give the wrong nonverbal signals or you have an upright introverted personality. The treatment you get is your reflection.
You're right Chinese society generally doesn't show much affection or emotion, so expecting her to make foreigners smile feels like an excuse to fire her. Most teachers in China are more reserved, and focusing on something like smiling seems out of place
@@Accuface2000 If you’ve ever lived in China or really know Chinese people, you’d see that being warm and friendly isn’t part of their culture. They’re often reserved and can be pretty cold. So, basing your judgment on what some Black folks are showing, which is likely just propaganda, is honestly kind of ignorant. You should actually step foot in China and see how people really act
It was a bullshit excuse to fire her.
@@Accuface2000you need to read it again. They specifically said that Chinese people don't smile or talk to strangers which is true. They do it to foreigners but that's not the same thing. We are exceptions to the rule.
You are beautiful! Move on!
the comments are interesting and seem not to like "strong factual personality" especially from a woman..but hey, it gets your story up in the algorithm. The more engagement from viewers who are emotionally invested in your video will help your story reach a wider audience.
Think about how "strong women" are treated in the USA. A black teacher left for Thailand after being profiled and roughed up by the police. Probability game - You are 100 times safer in Thailand than Amerika. Thailand is an autocracy by the way.
Strong and Intelligent women get treated horrible in society because we don’t fit socially at what a women should be. If she was a man she would be treated differently and would be respected.
Knowing when and where to have that "strong factual personality" is her problem. She's in a society, a COMMUNIST society, that values social cohesion above all else. It is certainly not the place to just go around being strong and standing out all the time if you are vulnerable and need the people of that society to like you enough to pay you and not have you deported.
@@graycat7704I would they'd rarely hire those men as kindergarten teachers.
Jonga I read the comments and I was like hay shame abazi niks..
Bru 😩😩 how I wish everyone can try a year of this before judging
I don't get it, you didn't like it there, there were accidents you suffered through and if you were getting ready to go for a holiday i suppose you almost finished your contract... then they want to fire you and you fight TO STAY? Why though?
I think if they fire you, you do not get the benefits...as oppose to seeing your contract through
@AnnaMuzaza I see, but tbh some of them are so nasty they will find a way not to pay your benefits regardless.
I've spent 7 years in China, there were ups and downs of course, but I've seen how the management treated some teachers from SA and it wasn't nice. Which makes me believe it's their personal preferences that drive their decisions and not always the teacher's performance, unfortunately
To add on to your point, China is "over-saturated" populatuon wise, in a way. They have no lack of human resources/labor. So, the logical extension from that, is that Everything boils down to politics, and personal preferences, and not performance, etc..
Ya’ll if this person does not like your objective and respectful comment, she deletes them! Unsubscribing.
LOL feel free please, I do not delete any comments. TH-cam filters comments if they are deemed to be bullying or harassment.
Perhaps start a channel and you will know more
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko I received this notification. Yeah, you’re not my cup of tea. Peace out sweetheart.😘
@@kesay3466 auf wiedersehen
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko Auf Wiedersehen auch von dir
When is the next episode?? Jeez. We've waited so long....
I get Nolu, as direct and brutal person you wouldn't get the first warning if it was not presented as the first warning. Hence she was fighting on the second meeting cause thats when she got the warning. Another thing i got from the previous video they were still not direct with their decision until she wanted clarity on the vacation leave. Maybe really in China they communicate different from us
Nah fam that lady had this thing of talking to you like she’s being nice when she’s not; I saw right through her
When employers tell you to smile more it’s because the expression on your face says “l don’t want to be here”. I worked for large companies that required employees to smile on the phone because the customer could hear it in our voice. American working culture is different than the rest of the world but I have noticed throughout the years that the younger generations don’t like taking orders or like employers checking on their work or progress. They are also the kind of people that can’t hold a job and it will get harder for you to work for someone the older you get with that attitude.
Great. Mind blown. What genius commentary you've left. Will anyone here be asking you for jobs as they grow older? Just get on with smiling like a clown wherever you go, and stop mansplaining rubbish to people who never asked you.
Is this the elusive American defaultism I've heard so much about? I thought it was a myth...
She’s not American though
In your last video, the school had to pay for your contract, bribes for visa issues, substitute teacher, workers compensation for work related injury, etc. I can tell you do not own a business. Many businesses will keep employees they don’t like or who doesn’t fit in if they INVESTED a lot of money. They will keep you until the end of the contract or until they can replace you. This happens all over the world. If it saves money, NO we don’t fire you immediately. When we realize you aren’t worth the money, or costing us money, then we now will consider firing you. You didn’t have the personality this school wanted, but also, due to the accidents, was costing them money too. You became a big money pit for them outside of your personality.
Also, yes, you cannot be fired for injury on the job, but I did not see anyone in the last video comments say that. That rule is in many countries too. But that wasn’t the reason they were firing you. They listed many, but over all your personality didn’t fit into their work culture.
I know it’s hard that this is how business works, and I know it sucks that MANY companies are abusive, over work employees, or have cliques that you must fit in. It’s the same in corporate America too.
Good luck and I hope you learned from this. I also hope the school now gives warning in writing, so this doesn’t happen again to them as well.
So what's your point? You're an enabler of abuse and you should be ashamed of yourself! What point have your above thesis and endless paragraphs made? Go find the school and defend them on THEIR youtube page, don't post nonsense here while the victim is trying to heal. And SO WHAT if she is or isn't a business owner? Do you want us to clap for you? Rubbish!
So painful to be a foreigner
I was going to say. Three weeks talking about this?
Are you living in Korea now? Everything is well with you now? Best wishes.
Nope! Lived there before China, loved living there but work culture same as China
Hearing the audio clip it sounded like you punched or hit him first and than he punched you while he was defending himself
Have you seen my hands 😂 definitely not made for punching
🤣🤣🤣
Omg I have been to Foshan. Nice town. I want to move to china so badly
I worked at Fushan but in Shanggau, Fushan was the name of the kindergarten
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko ohhhhh nice. I really want to return to china but to live for at least 5 years.
I cannot be a teacher
Are you currently teaching? Have you considered online ESL positions?
❤ u sis nolu !!!!
Gosh. Just publish pleaseeee. Why we gotta wait?! 😕 😢 😭 😄 🤣
Never fire someone on Friday...
😂😂 Monday morning is always better
Accept cultural differences.
Your ideas will be rejected not only in Asia, but also in Europe and America.
First of all, you have to accept the local way of thinking.
If you don't accept the ideas of others and only follow your own ideas, why don't you stay in your own country? If you act like your own country everywhere, the same thing will happen in every country.
Or you can become a CEO, start your own company and do what you want.
China is bad enough, but you have so many problems.
Be humble.
My European boss likes my ideas 🥺
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko Good for you.
I don't know if the situation will be the same in the next few years, but I hope it's good.
You humble yourself in peace and have a seat. Rubbish.
People need to take responsibility and accountability for the choices they make. I really hope you learn from what you experienced. And make wiser life decisions. The world is a very dangerous place. Good luck to you ❤
The smiling thing🤣 I have watched many black vloggers in China. It seems the Chinese like outgoing, extroverted people even if you are clownish, talkative, funny and inquisitive. Looks don't matter in China because I saw a handsome Blasian guy from the USA being ignored like a fly. He was quiet and expressionless, not making any effort, expecting people (women) to throw themselves at him. People just ignored him in the restaurant and he went to vent his frustrations on TH-cam, unaware of his flaws. The Chinese love personality more than anything. Looks are not something special or amazing because they are good looking.
But they are not extroverted either.Most of them are quiet people. Let’s be honest the black person they want it’s the one that is shown on American tv . The sassy , loud ,cheery person. We are all not clowns
some of them are clownish though. My boss is like that, she laughs at the end of every sentence she says, and it's a squeaky, high pitched laugh.
China isn't introverted 😂 stop lying. This is just objective fact. I'm not saying they are bad people but they are introverted.
Imagine claiming to know a country's culture simply because you watched vlogs lmfao. 🤡
The Chinese are good looking? In what world do you live in?
Girl I’m glad you stood your ground. I want to be sharp as you. I hope after all this you find some peace. What I’ve realize in a lot of societies even in America people don’t like outspoken people or people who go against social orders. A lot of people are scared of ruining that order but I can tell your not one of those people. Some people in the comments fail to see that people like you are leaders of this world. You’re the people that actually want change and I respect that. People are only looking at delivery and not listening to your words. Don’t let them get you down, no one deserve to treated the way you did. East Asian countries are not equipped to dealing with change.
No matter the outcome, I find peace in knowing that I didn’t take any of it lying down
Just come to America to teach, you will get treated better since the demand of teachers always needed, I can't say the pay will be amazing but you get to live and earn at the same time.
sending love ❤ your way.
Where is the next part? Did they catch you, Nolu😭?!!
I have a cold 😢
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko wishing you a speedy recovery 🙏 ❤️
@@vlogsbyvixy🫶🏾🫶🏾
lol not tired yet
Yhoo I’ve been waiting
If anyone is interested there is an intl school in kota Kinabalu hiring English teachers. I have been here 12 years. There are negatives but nothing like this. 🙏
I grew up in Malaysia. She will never make it there with her attitude of arguing back to her superiors and constantly going on sick leave, turning work in late . In fact she would be fired much earlier.
@@lindc1070 😂😂 normalising toxicity is now a flex, ayt
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko I feel sorry for you. It appears you suffer from the victim mentality syndrome. Many others have said so too. You need therapy. The only toxicity in the recordings is your attitude and way of speaking. You are a rebel without a cause. Perhaps you suffered rejection or trauma in your life and now carry that Victimhood everywhere you go. This has become a pattern with you.
gotta pay the bills...
Indeed
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko good
I just think one reason is that you could not speak Chinese. I've noted that they don't love people who can't speak their language
After watching your videos for so long....the only thing I really wish for you is some positivity and happiness in your life. Despite what happened in China, I really wish you could do some happy content about your life. Like a moving on from my trauma videos or some happy videos of you going to a café, hanging out with friends or life in Korea. To be honest, all this trauma videos is so off brand of you. Please stop playing the victim card. Change your brand at least.
I just came across her channel so I don't know anything about her. You said her trauma videos are off brand. Did she used to make happy videos and now everything is related to work/other trauma videos?
@@denisenoles3159 Yes she had videos about South Korea until she noticed that her trauma videos gained a lot of views. Since then, she has been posting videos about her traumas.
Thank you for exposing China
She has given a baf example of the attitude of Africans and why they will not fit in in Asia if they are like her. So be prepared less jobs will be available to Africans in Asia after this.
@@Peter-pe6ppand you are exposing your racism
I LOVE YOU NOLU❤❤
♥️♥️♥️
Are you serious? 🙄😤 I'm trying to keep up with an empathize with your story but you literally only had 18 minutes for this portion and then leave a cliffhanger??? 😡 There's no way a cliffhanger was necessary especially when this is something that has already happened in the past and you're just telling a story this is not happening in the moment.
Try recording hours and hours of talking and let’s talk then 🙂
you'll be here next video
WHY do YOU keep coming back?? She'll tell her story however she wants to. Okay!
unhinged af comment
Can't you guys skip a video if is not yal taste 🤔
Because you say this doesn't mean she can't post her nest videos about her previous experiences kk😢
Great channel, I think maybe your laughing during the serious conversation got to her, I'm trying to play the devil's advocate
The devil does NOT need an advocate!
They are cheaters
Come work in the USA or get a teaching job for the USA government and work all over the world.
Not possible. That’s like asking an American (or any non-native speaker) to find a job teaching Japanese in Japan.
Bad idea. In the USA you don't last with an argumentative attitude especially if you have been told to leave. Police will be called to escort you and it may end badly.
@@Accuface2000 She basically has a much bigger problem in South Korea (and she is uploading her past problems about China like for the X amount of time already.)
@@Accuface2000she will never survive in a developed country with such a bad attitude and poor work ethic
Her language skills arent up to par
Ayisentle lokhwe yako Nolu
Happy Spring 🌸🌸🌻
Enkosi 😍
Your very attractive
You’re blind 🧑🦯🦯👩🦯
Thank you ❤
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko Do you plan on working in UAE by any chance ?
Welp now I don’t care about there decline
Come to France ❤️
I just might 😅
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko woWw✨.. i would be glad to help you by any means, legally😊)
I'm glad that you monetized your experience. You are making a bit of money by sharing this
I'm not😂; I just want to vomit all of it
Is it possible they're lying about the reason and it's more your look they don't like? I remember you once saying someone suggested you wear a wig. It's a country with women with hair, long or short, and maybe they feel that bald head on a woman confuses the kids or is not a good look. I've seen you with a wig, and I find you look great in it. Personally I don't like bald heads on women myself, and I'm a black woman with short hair. I wear wigs and have no problem with them.
Personally, you should stop commenting on other people’s appearances. Women can have whatever hairstyle they like.
YOU are the reason some women really should STAY in the kitchen! With your kind of thinking, you may need to go somewhere and wash your brain. Thank the HEAVENS women of the world don't live by YOUR likes and dislikes. What an uncivilised, mannerless, uncouth, barbaric, preposterous comment. Shame on you! Educate yourself!
Kind of weird to add the ending. A bit socially awkward but I digress. Even if that's the case, there's a reason why they're firing her rather than not renewing her contract. It most likely has to do with money.
That's probably it. She showed up bald. It's considered masculine in their culture and she should have known this already after living in Asia. Working with children requires the highest degree of transparency and she played around with this by presenting one way and then showing up another. That puts people on edge when they are trying to judge your character to be able to trust that you will be safe enough to work with children. bald women are common in some cultures but not in Asian ones, and she knew this, and chose to ignore the impact being bald would have on her employers' opinion of her. They told her TO HER FACE that they weren't happy with the change, and she decided to ignore how they felt, but was shocked when they cared so little about her that their negligence almost got her imprisoned, HEAVILY fined and/or possibly deported. She used the wig in a deceptive manner in which drastic appearance changes like the one she pulled, are not commonplace nor readily acceptable. If she didn't care about their opinions, she should not have put herself in such a vulnerable position and at their mercy for them to employ her, pay her, and allow her to stay in THEIR country. Simple: Go to their country, play by their rules.
Her work was not up to mark
maybe this career path is not healthy for you. a different career might make you happier.
You're beautiful!
It was probably a totality of your whole experience. Pardon the pun, there is something lost in translation. They did not expect you to speak for yourself. Keep looking for something better.
Indeed, they expected the little person to just say „okay“
🤍🕯
Go to Japan!
After failing in South Korea and China😂? Japanese have even higher standards. She wont make the cut
Try Taiwan 🇹🇼
** Horrible ** This video is BOTH misleading and irresponsible. I will just be direct and blunt WITHOUT the pointless "supportive, positive you are the victim card. 1) You are facing MUCH WORST situation and circumstances in South Korea. 2) Why and how on earth do you actually pull China's name to make a video? Completely sounds and feel like you took all the salary, your funds dried up and now you have to pull such an attempt to get views and clickbait? Most of this don't even add up. 3) I actually had much more respect understanding your previous situation (which you completely LEFT OUT many important details e.g: why did your previous employer directly fire you, the real and actual reasons and the problems you have caused (character, attitude) that you did not truthfully tell your audience. You actually did admit multiple times even your colleagues dislike you. There are multiple individuals involved towards throwing you out in all situations.
Which previous employer?
Are you okay? Did you take your medication? What on earth are you going on about with your pointless, nonsensical, incomprehensible, unparagraphed, gibberish? Can you first learn to speak and write before you spew nonsense on people's channels? Go get a hobby.
A lot is missing from these stories. In her recordeings of them, she always escalates very quickly with these people who are trying in the gentlest way possible to tell her that they don't like her or want her around and her only response is to try use "the law" against them. She's over there being combative in a communist country whose highest social values are conformity and cohesion. She's not going to "teach" this society anything, no one is going to rescue her if she gets in trouble, and she thinks she's going to get money by putting herself at the mercy of people she KNOWS don't like her and expecting the world to feel sorry for her.
Notice she has problems everywhere even her own country isnt a good fit for her.
What problems does she have in her own country?
is that like the hate laws. bee terrorists
clickbait video, should be "what happened to me in korea"
Eish 😅
You need to move on. Your recording can’t be used as evidence because I don’t think that they knew you were recording them. The recordings are illegal. Complaining online and playing those recordings just make you look like the bad guy. You sound difficult to deal with in them and you always have to an excuse. No accountability whatsoever. Last but not least, you don’t like the school, don’t like your coworkers etc, why are you fighting to go back. Move on, stuff happens
In China, if you record a conversation that you are a part of, you generally do not have to inform the other party for the recording to be legal.
According to Article 63 of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China, audio recordings can be used as evidence in civil cases as long as they are obtained legally. This means that if your boss fired you illegally and you recorded the conversation without informing them, the recording could be admissible in court🙂
Aggggrrr. Can people like you just go and fly a kite or something! Why are YOU here watching the updates? Get a life. YOU. are the one who needs to MOVE ON! Mannerless!
Islandgirl, you sound extremely judgmental, mean spirited, condescending and cold. It is not your place to tell her that she “needs to move on” either. She is still recovering from her traumatic experience. Her recovery will take as long as it takes. *If she wants to vent on her channel 24/7 for the next 5 years, she can.*
If you go through a prolonged traumatic experience and people take the same nasty, dismissive approach towards you, you might change your tune.
TH-cam is about sharing experiences. Nolu has every right to talk about her own story on her own channel, and it can be useful information for someone else going through the same experience. If you feel you don't need it maybe you should be the one moving on...TH-cam is vast enough for you to find satisfaction somewhere else
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You are so full of yourself! Even towards your subscribers 😮
You seem like your a hater , all your previous comments you have nothing good to say to Nolu....if you don't like the person doing the content or the content it's self don't watch.....only people with low self esteem enjoy bullying others through the phone this is a reflection of how you feel about yourself .....if you have nothing good to say to someone just keep quiet....
@@matlhatsi3486 People take "women" who has strong personality as the "B" word..but when you switch gender, they might be supportive. Sadly, women gotta be submissive and "okay okay" all the time.
And That is fine😂🙏
Get a life! Aggggrr.
Do you know her personally? If not, it's wise not to comment.
You need to pray to God.