“Which patient death was the hardest for you?”

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  • @buckeyehockey1979
    @buckeyehockey1979 ปีที่แล้ว +33019

    As hard as the loss and pain can make it, this is why people work in hospice. You could be the reason someone gets up in the morning instead of just waiting to die.

    • @melaniekeeling7462
      @melaniekeeling7462 ปีที่แล้ว +260

      My friend died last July. He couldn't afford treatment, but was attended by hospice.
      I think of him every day.

    • @alexandramn6734
      @alexandramn6734 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@melaniekeeling7462 while ghetto bums on Medicaid live on, getting any treatment they want

    • @dhanagunter5893
      @dhanagunter5893 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I honestly hope that one of my relatives meets me when it's that time. And not to tell ne that I wasn't good enough to go to heaven. I worry about that and not being good enough to get in.

    • @melaniekeeling7462
      @melaniekeeling7462 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@dhanagunter5893 You're good enough to get it. Heaven ain't no private club.

    • @hayhay3332
      @hayhay3332 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@dhanagunter5893 god know you and your soul. He knows that you are good and will make it into heaven. Like @Melanie Keeling said “Heaven ain’t now private club”.

  • @OLIVIASEPULVADO
    @OLIVIASEPULVADO 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7811

    “Thank you for giving me something to look forward to instead of death” I cried so hard after hearing this. It’s good that the last things he’ll remember is u being kind❤

    • @CaiusGacha
      @CaiusGacha 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Same, I'm crying currently because of that saying

    • @Roblox_girl19282
      @Roblox_girl19282 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Same I’m sobbing so hard right now

    • @oliviasepelak3083
      @oliviasepelak3083 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Our names are so close!!! 😳😳😁🥰

    • @chasnmark
      @chasnmark 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That moment choked me up but I didn’t cry. But damn, it hits you in the feels. My sister is a traveling CNA. She works at senior citizen homes. She loves it, but said it hurts a lot. She loves putting a smile on their faces and gets attached. Sometimes pretends to be their family when they mistake her for them. She said, it puts a smile on their faces thinking family was visiting. She didn’t mind playing the part of it meant to see them smiling.
      I myself, could never do this job. I’m way too emotional for it. I would break. Props to my sister for doing it.

    • @ms.thomas5758
      @ms.thomas5758 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢

  • @maddiejoyceee
    @maddiejoyceee ปีที่แล้ว +2485

    I am an OBGYN, I have had a patient for 8 years, she is a 35 year old woman who has been trying to conceive for the past 9 years, but every pregnancy has ended in a first-trimester miscarriage. A few months ago, she finally gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. She came back into the hospital a few weeks ago after a severe car accident, and past away, leaving behind her husband and daughter. She deserved to watch her grow up, but unfortunately she will only be watching from heaven now. She was an amazing woman with a heart of gold whom I considered a dear friend, and may she rest in peace.

    • @Gabitronia
      @Gabitronia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

      I'm so glad she was able to be a mother like she wanted, first. My heart is broken for her family. My heart goes out to all of you! Sending my love, and support.

    • @nadiariggs5110
      @nadiariggs5110 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I’m so, so sorry for you all. You were a blessing to here in her darkest hours - I hope she is a blessing to you in yours ❤️‍🩹

    • @okpoptart
      @okpoptart 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      😭😭😭😭

    • @explosivemindgamer4629
      @explosivemindgamer4629 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      That might be the worst thing I’ve read all year. Ahhh damn.

    • @HannahRose19960
      @HannahRose19960 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      That is so effing sad

  • @AinSLAY-jh5qv
    @AinSLAY-jh5qv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2884

    “I’m going to miss you too” made me cry so hard 😢😢❤

    • @boogie-blast
      @boogie-blast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      same

    • @applefel3351
      @applefel3351 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sameeee❤

    • @Helloiooooo
      @Helloiooooo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same

    • @R.T.-in3bx
      @R.T.-in3bx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sameeeeeeee 😢😢😢😢

    • @jennagrayson8684
      @jennagrayson8684 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Crying with you 😢

  • @stankythecat6735
    @stankythecat6735 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +794

    Christ … how do you do this job. I cry every time I watch your videos

    • @ferociousmaliciousghost
      @ferociousmaliciousghost 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      From what I know, it's a very fufilling job. Very sad though.

    • @maggiebrooks2550
      @maggiebrooks2550 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      It has to be a calling because it is such a heavy job. It takes a special person. I have all the respect in the world for those who work in hospice. I don't think that I would be able to handle it.

    • @stankythecat6735
      @stankythecat6735 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@maggiebrooks2550 Jesus … I watched the video again because of your comment and now I’m crying

    • @solong_abigail
      @solong_abigail 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      As someone who wants to be a hospice nurse, I agree that it’s a very difficult job, but I’ve always wanted to help people feel happy and at peace since I didn’t have that growing up. If I can make at least one person rest easy when it’s time to go, I’d be very happy 🫶🏻

    • @suzannemcneal7320
      @suzannemcneal7320 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Being a hospice nurse is a huge honor. Teaching family to care for their loved ones in their own homes is the best job in the world. People should be able to die comfortably in their home with their families by their side. I really don't think I could do any other nursing after experiencing hospice. It's indescribable. There is pain and sadness but there is also a great bittersweet joy. I'm continuously humbled by my patients and their courage. Can't describe how much I love them all.

  • @PumpkinPatch8734
    @PumpkinPatch8734 ปีที่แล้ว +8337

    I'm just eating mac and cheese man, don't make me cry like this

    • @Erika-kw7ur
      @Erika-kw7ur ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Saaaame it's too early for this heartache

    • @hellomynamesninooo6017
      @hellomynamesninooo6017 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Fr youtube recommendations wtf

    • @apoptosis_101
      @apoptosis_101 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I needed extra recycled salt in my bowl too

    • @orcaluvrx
      @orcaluvrx ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Don’t cry mac and cheese dude 😭

    • @melanie_meanders
      @melanie_meanders ปีที่แล้ว +6

      SERIOUSLY hahaha

  • @ivanaparty85
    @ivanaparty85 ปีที่แล้ว +13634

    The hardest one for me was the ornery patient who seemed to hate everyone. For some reason after a while he started to warm up to me and would joke and introduced me and my husband to his wife. He died suddenly and it wrecked me. Its still the only funeral i ever went to and i named my cat after him(with his permission) and its still so much reassurance that my cat is just like him in every way and its like having a piece of him. I still keep in touch with his wife 4 years later

    • @dyan785
      @dyan785 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @buckeyehockey1979
      @buckeyehockey1979 ปีที่แล้ว +263

      Sometimes your soul just connects with one. I worked at a nursing home for a hot min years back (it was a very toxic work environment and I actually felt sorry for the patients. It was a private facility that they paid for as well). There was one lady I took care of one day. She was the meanest, absolutely hated everyone. I never lost patients of got upset with her. Slowly I felt like she started to like me (although she would never show it outwardly). Turns out as a young girl she had long brown hair like mine. I reminded her of herself as a young girl. Unfortunately due to the work environment I wasn't allowed to actually build a relationship with anyone. They actually would write us up for sitting and talking to the patients. Like I said, awful place.

    • @denisetarabori553
      @denisetarabori553 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ❤❤

    • @jojo1216
      @jojo1216 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      ​@@buckeyehockey1979 that's terrible 😞

    • @Ezurawitch
      @Ezurawitch ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awe

  • @sarosaaaa
    @sarosaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +1865

    I'm a CRNA. Your profession is easily one of the most under appreciated, under recognized, and under paid positions out there. You truly are an angel.

    • @stellabogfeldt
      @stellabogfeldt ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I wont say under appreciated..
      I have been at a hospice with (first) my moms fiance in 2009, where he died at the age of 59, but had a wonderful care. 12 years later, my mom ended with agressive cancer and ended at the same hospice as him amd got just the same great care, she died there, at the age of 59.
      There were 12 years between the two and when he died, they had been together for almost 10 years.
      But Im still grateful for the care they both got at that hospice, 12 years apart.
      So I cry to most of her videos, coz they remind me of my mom, her fiance and the nurses at the hospice ❤🥰

    • @kikupub71
      @kikupub71 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bless your heart as well! As a Surgical Tech I admired our anesthesia personnel’s professionalism and compassion toward our patients.

    • @shaylacrossland1475
      @shaylacrossland1475 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@stellabogfeldtThey were both 59 when they died, but 12 years apart?

    • @stellabogfeldt
      @stellabogfeldt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@shaylacrossland1475 yes, both 59 when they died, they died 12 years apart him at 59 in 2009 and my mom at 59 in 2021 (so yes there were also 12 years between them and were together almost 10 years, when he died.

    • @Lil_CH33ZiE
      @Lil_CH33ZiE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Song name?

  • @TexasMom68
    @TexasMom68 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +477

    Not just a nurse but a psychologist and friend too ❤

    • @marya9476
      @marya9476 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You wear so many hats in hospice. It makes it so worth it to be there with patients in the moment and be able to help them and their families.

  • @rosalee477
    @rosalee477 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    She depicts this gentleman's thoughtful and kind nature so beautifully. Even I missed him...

  • @ambibambi1021
    @ambibambi1021 ปีที่แล้ว +3533

    My favorite thing about this amazing woman is that she allows herself to feel emotions always, she doesn’t seem to ever go “numb” to seeing her patient go, but still allows herself that time while continuing her amazing care is what makes her such an amazing nurse

    • @buckeyehockey1979
      @buckeyehockey1979 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      I heard a doctor talking with a student one day. It was the first time the med student had lost a patient. The student asked the doctor if it gets easier (loosing people). The doctor's response was perfect. He said "if there is ever a day when it is easy for you, you need to quit. If it is ever easy for you you have lost your humanity."

    • @jayde_884
      @jayde_884 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      When my grandfather died pretty suddenly almost two years ago the hospice nurses were amazing. Knowing he had lovely people caring was a major comfort and even though it’s been so long I plan to bring them some baked goods next time I’m home

    • @MoonlitBookworm73
      @MoonlitBookworm73 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@buckeyehockey1979That right there is beautiful ❤

    • @peachmango5784
      @peachmango5784 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This reminds me of the book Scythe by Niel Shusterman

    • @laneywilson3134
      @laneywilson3134 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My name is hadley

  • @nobodynowherre9117
    @nobodynowherre9117 ปีที่แล้ว +1605

    Oh man this one got me, the old men opening up and showing their emotions always gets to me because its so special when they trust you like that. If the thing they say about when you die that you see what you want/love most and what makes you happy, im sure this man took you with him to the very end❤💙😭

  • @Nannajo
    @Nannajo ปีที่แล้ว +1189

    I lost my husband 3 weeks ago and I am grateful to you for your lovely videos. You have helped me so much.❤😢

    • @lucascarney1324
      @lucascarney1324 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Omg i am so sorry for your loss

    • @lucascarney1324
      @lucascarney1324 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omg i am so sorry for your loss and ill be praying for you

    • @exp-io853
      @exp-io853 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you wherever you are. 🫂

    • @spiritellington4591
      @spiritellington4591 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💙🙏💙🙏💙

    • @AllTheButtons87
      @AllTheButtons87 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bless you 💔 I am so sorry for your loss

  • @clarkvaughan
    @clarkvaughan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Nurse Hadley is an angel. I'm so glad I ran into her channel. I have a good cry about my lady, then I can function again. Thank you so much.

  • @veronicadivine9793
    @veronicadivine9793 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Nurse Hadley, you touch my heart. Thank you.

  • @BobbiMimms
    @BobbiMimms ปีที่แล้ว +507

    Omg...this brings back memories. 10 years retired hospice nurse here.

    • @sandramcbride2204
      @sandramcbride2204 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too❤❤❤

    • @BlooplyLooply13
      @BlooplyLooply13 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for taking care of those patients

    • @niecyholliday1332
      @niecyholliday1332 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same sister...so many memories ❤

  • @gofuhkurselph
    @gofuhkurselph ปีที่แล้ว +215

    This story hit me right in the feelings. I cannot thank you enough for sharing

  • @alanwiggins47
    @alanwiggins47 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    Hadley, you truly are an angel. What you do for people in their last moments is amazing. Death is probably the biggest fear anyone has, but you make it calm and almost pleasant. That's something no medicine can do. You truly are doing God's work.

  • @---mt5dm
    @---mt5dm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I'm an RN. I couldn't do what you do. You're amazing ❤

    • @horsewithnoname8795
      @horsewithnoname8795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes you can, you can be kind and compassionate to your patients, even when they are crossed or rude; remember: they act that way because they are sick, suffering, lonely and scared.

  • @evipinkprincess829
    @evipinkprincess829 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This made me cry it's impressive the connection you can make with a person

  • @galesk344
    @galesk344 ปีที่แล้ว +619

    i’m literally sobbing thank you to all the people involved in hospice care teams to make end of life care as full and gentle as possible. you are the world’s gems.

  • @akashajoti6456
    @akashajoti6456 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +403

    You capture the beauty of Nursing. Such a beautiful Soul you are!

  • @leslierae6416
    @leslierae6416 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    This got me. I cared for a guy named Ted who said the exact same thing to me, “thank you for giving me something to look forward to”, I miss him every time I watch The Price is Right or basketball games

  • @leeannmauk3011
    @leeannmauk3011 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    You are without a doubt the most beautiful of souls and give me hope for this world yet. Thanks to an amazing hospice nurse like you I was able to see my Nonna live out her final months (at 102 years old) in her home and pass with dignity and surrounded by loved ones. Thank you for EVERYTHING you do. It’s very humbling and beautiful to see and restores some faith in humanity. Many blessings 🙏

    • @rosemancino
      @rosemancino 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My nonna was 104! ❤

  • @_.la._
    @_.la._ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Oh shit, i can't stop crying now. You're such a sweet lady, I'm glad there are people like you in this world❤

  • @haiybug4685
    @haiybug4685 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I remember you telling this story forever ago. It really touched my heart because it reminds me of my grandpa who loves sports. I’m glad it’s been put in your book because it’s one of my favorite stories you have.

  • @ghostwritter1075
    @ghostwritter1075 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    My mom in 1987, I was 11 and because of how sweet and caring the nurses were not only to my mom but my whole family is what made me become a hospice nurse.
    Then my first patient in 2001, he was one of my best patients.
    Then my grandparents......
    My grandfather passed January 5th, 2017... 15 days before his birthday.
    Then my grandmother passed away April 28th, 2017
    2nd worse year of my life.

    • @skyebluisintoomanyfandoms2005
      @skyebluisintoomanyfandoms2005 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m sorry for your losses. I wanted to say that I share a birthday with your grandfather! I’m a January 20th baby, I will keep your grandpa in mind when I have my birthday. Here’s a heart for you ❤

    • @gabrielladavidson2938
      @gabrielladavidson2938 ปีที่แล้ว

      at least they didn't have to be without each other for long

    • @KrissyMeow
      @KrissyMeow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lost both my grandfathers (and they were the last grandparents) in the same year as well. It was a rough time. I still don't think I've processed it fully. It was in 2017 too. Thanks for sharing. It'll always be tough but we learn to live with it and around it. ❤

    • @Patty-cc3qu
      @Patty-cc3qu หลายเดือนก่อน

      My last remaining grandparent died on my actual birthday

  • @AkariNozomi-tb9qc
    @AkariNozomi-tb9qc ปีที่แล้ว +124

    The difference a little kindness can make is astonishing ❤

    • @scoobee9
      @scoobee9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You just never know

  • @frankcuoco1501
    @frankcuoco1501 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always good for a tear each time but warms your heart😢😊

  • @Nun1982
    @Nun1982 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😢 your job is heart-wrenching.. God bless you

  • @Rosecortsen
    @Rosecortsen ปีที่แล้ว +177

    This was so sweet and so sad at the same time

  • @jeaninepickett2507
    @jeaninepickett2507 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    My favorite patient was Mrs Ellen Puckett 😢 she had a severe stroke... And she lingered for 3 months after the last stroke and she was unable to speak and I was the only nurse she would interact with and I guess she saw that I really did care about her!!! She was the sweetest patient I ever had 😢❤

    • @PuddinTater
      @PuddinTater ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are a nurse and just violatted HIPPA? You should know sharing a patient's name is confidental information.

    • @jeaninepickett2507
      @jeaninepickett2507 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@PuddinTater I had a release signed by her and her fam and this was before HIPPA and I used her for my nurses convention I was a keynote speaker several times soooo.... Mind your business!!!

    • @annarainexo
      @annarainexo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sure she knew just how much you cared❤️ Thank you for the wonderful work you do. Not many can do it.

    • @PuddinTater
      @PuddinTater ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jeaninepickett2507 Prohaps actually say that when you name drop. Will avoid a lot of problems for you in the end.

    • @pep-167
      @pep-167 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PuddinTater prohaps is not a word. it does not exist.

  • @rocketkat1665
    @rocketkat1665 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    You are doing a great service

  • @R.obin.
    @R.obin. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I just love all of these stories! I can relate only as a visitor to several hospices that my brother was in. He battled brain cancer for 11yrs. I practically lived in those places with him. The people that come and go…. heartwarming, tearful, happy and heartbreaking is what I felt going there. I loved to get everyone in the game room and dance with the ones in wheelchairs. I got heavily involved with the entertainment and helped out. Those days were fun filled and happy/sad.

  • @mjhistoryfan2011
    @mjhistoryfan2011 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Your book is one of the gifts I gave to my sister this year for her birthday. It hasn't arrived yet, but I know she'll love it.

  • @tmaffeo
    @tmaffeo ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I’m counting down to when I receive your book I just love what you do . When my mother-in-law was taken off her breathing machine 5 of us were in the room along with a nurse . she was in a coma and I started to read scripture to her as I am a Eucharistic minister . and all of a sudden a bright light came into the room her eyes opened wide took her last breath and closed her eyes . the nurse walked over to me and putting her hand on my shoulder she said I helped her crossover . It was truly miraculous 🌻🌻🌻

    • @PuddinTater
      @PuddinTater ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Isn't God amazing? When my gransmother passed i could smell my great aunts perfume. she was her baby sister. I knew right then and there God sent her to guide my grandmother to Heaven. I was relieved and heart broken at the same time. Because a minute or 2 later she took her last breath.

    • @tmaffeo
      @tmaffeo ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@PuddinTater just beautiful I lost my mom at 42 yrs old I miss her every minute of every single day I’ve kept my heart open to signs and joy oh boy do they come . 🌻🌻🌻

  • @STEVEN-vz8qq
    @STEVEN-vz8qq ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I have so much respect for nurses, especially you. YOu are soooooooo awsome. God bless you and your family.

  • @ruthroth7364
    @ruthroth7364 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    You are such an asset to nursing!!!!!!!!!!!!Love you!!!!!

  • @WVWCEOAMFH
    @WVWCEOAMFH หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These all make me teary Eyed. I worked as a hospice pharmacy technician. You're an amazing nurse

  • @daved7231
    @daved7231 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The voice. The kind spirit. The blue eyes. She found her calling

  • @browneyedgirl4637
    @browneyedgirl4637 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Mercy. She has the perfect voice, eyes, face and personality to be a great hospice nurse. We should all be so lucky to be cared for so well during our last days on Earth.

  • @sophieavaritt6728
    @sophieavaritt6728 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Your video’s always make me cry, that’s so wholesome 🥺❤️

  • @giannax5645
    @giannax5645 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve never wanted to work in healthcare until now, this sounds rewarding in every way

  • @onetallpheeesh
    @onetallpheeesh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm way too emotional to do this job.
    Nurses have my complete respect. The backbone of our society. The world wouldn't function without Nurses.

  • @neb1020
    @neb1020 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That voice you have is positively angelic. These patients were so blessed to have you.

  • @dell8767
    @dell8767 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This broke me 😢😭💔😿

  • @alexcorado9508
    @alexcorado9508 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    ABSOLUTELY SOBBING. Ugh I could never work hospice, the emotional turmoil I would be in everyday would be too much!

  • @NurseJenny87
    @NurseJenny87 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I am a homehealth nurse of 10 years. I have lost some patients over the years and it breaks my heart everytime, they become like family. On a good note I pre-ordered your book and I cannot wait to read it. ❤️

  • @thout_art_Caesar
    @thout_art_Caesar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I got your book and cried so much during the whole thing! Reading about your patients and experiences with the after life has truly opened my eyes to how important it is to treat all people during all stages of life with respect and love! Keep going Hadley, you're doing wonderful things for this world ❤️

  • @rehabitathomesolutions9125
    @rehabitathomesolutions9125 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The strength it takes to do that job is insane. You are to be admired and celebrated

  • @Lachanclavieja911
    @Lachanclavieja911 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ypu always make me cry ! I hope there's more nurses like you. Who love your job and threats your patients with love.

  • @OfficialSunnn
    @OfficialSunnn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Your video’s make me cry❤ your to kind🥰

  • @Platymapuss
    @Platymapuss ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I lost my father 2 months ago, and I just wanted to let you know that you and your videos give me comfort. Thank you for doing what you do.

  • @MonroeGraham345
    @MonroeGraham345 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so wholesome and wonderful that you can be the reason someone wakes up in the morning instead of waking up to death.💖💖💖

  • @peggyknecht5551
    @peggyknecht5551 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so grateful for nurses like you. I just lost my brother to Cancer. I find comfort in knowing that the hospice nurses were there for him and his family. You are angels on Earth.

  • @Miranda_m_d10
    @Miranda_m_d10 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You have no business making me cry this hard bro

  • @hollier8638
    @hollier8638 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm not sure how you ended up in my feed. My grandmother is in hospice and your videos are very heartwarming ❤️💯

    • @hollier8638
      @hollier8638 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I did get your book & read it after she passed ❤️ good job honey !

  • @thebunsenburner
    @thebunsenburner ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Nice bed time cry. Thanks

  • @doc8579
    @doc8579 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you for doing this work. You’re a very special person.

  • @dennisparker2496
    @dennisparker2496 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You make me cry almost every time, but I can't stop watching. Thank you for reminding me about my parents and sister.

  • @jacquidanke1263
    @jacquidanke1263 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YOU ARE SWEET HALEY AND ALL YOU HELPED TO GET TO HEAVEN WILL BE WAITING TO SEE "BEAUTIFUL YOU" AGAIN. GOD BLESS, PRECIOUS ONE.

  • @elenapic6859
    @elenapic6859 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so sweet! Thank you for making this gentleman happy on this last season of life

  • @amberterry4106
    @amberterry4106 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    These grumpy guys are my favorite when they break that grumpiness and become our best friends! ❤

  • @grimdevotee9432
    @grimdevotee9432 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And this ladies and gentlemen is how you treat your elders with respect, reminds me of my late grandfather, thank you.

  • @Tyger-Lee
    @Tyger-Lee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really chocked me up when they said their goodbyes.

  • @lillydehaan1402
    @lillydehaan1402 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I’m not crying it’s just raining in my bed

  • @margaritaa3741
    @margaritaa3741 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I keep things that people give me like notes, cards or drawing etc. It reminds me of the people I had the opportunity to support. Even the thank yous and conversations. I don't always expect that. I just want to see how people are doing and assist them in any way.

  • @rigby.walabee
    @rigby.walabee ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Honestly I would subscribe to your channel but I'd fall into a deep depression if I saw your content more than occasionally....

  • @katharineoshea9224
    @katharineoshea9224 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been a nurse 40 yrs and I'm in awe of Hadley.

  • @katjaamyx2922
    @katjaamyx2922 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your ability to connect with people is amazing.

  • @Whostolemymojo
    @Whostolemymojo ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg you didn't have to make me cry 😢bless you

  • @Name_Steak
    @Name_Steak ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You do such a great job making your videos. So many hit me right in the feels.

  • @jessicagutierrez2989
    @jessicagutierrez2989 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This made me remember my God mother, who passed away last summer. She had so many complications, and I'm just glad she's no longer in pain. But this brought her to my mind, and how she'd always tell me stories of her growing up with my grandma, when she visited 💙

    • @me4_prez
      @me4_prez ปีที่แล้ว

      Whats a god mother if I may ask? Term sounds familiar but I dont know what it is

  • @RiverGlassStudios
    @RiverGlassStudios 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was one of the hardest stories in the book to read, but so beautiful. That book helped me cope with the loss of my grandfather. Thank you so much for your channel and your book.

  • @bi_squared1533
    @bi_squared1533 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    people who have this job are the most strong and compassionate people in the world. ❤️

  • @kneecaps3892
    @kneecaps3892 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This makes me remember my grandma. I loved her very much and wish I lived closer so i could be with her more often. She died back in December but we just had her funeral 2 weeks ago because my mom and I couldnt go up any sooner.
    Grief is so weird. In my mind, shes still at her house just living her life, but i know she'll never be there again. The magic of "i can't wait to fly up and see grammie" is gone and will never return. My brain cant compression the fact that i will never see her again. While i was in her house (my cousin bought it) i kept expecting to hear her calling out to me amd asking for help with something. I miss her so much but i try not to think about it too much becausw i just start crying. I love you grammie...

  • @sarahbrown4361
    @sarahbrown4361 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I can't wait to get your book!

    • @NurseHadley
      @NurseHadley  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!!😊

    • @MonarchButterfly.
      @MonarchButterfly. หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@NurseHadleyHi a beautiful and gentle nurse, love your channel

  • @hadleyspiller8623
    @hadleyspiller8623 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so sad but my name is Hadley too❤❤😢😢😢

  • @WinterWolf1012
    @WinterWolf1012 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It takes a special person to be able to do hospice, care and even more rare. You can do videos about it and actually reach people. You're my hero.

  • @jennifermcmillan2588
    @jennifermcmillan2588 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Patient care is the most real job I’ve ever had …. It may not have paid the most or been the most glamorous but it was the most human

  • @JaylynnWatts-zz5cb
    @JaylynnWatts-zz5cb ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This touched me after some of my favs pass the whole hall just feels empty without them

  • @kkimberly-ke6kk
    @kkimberly-ke6kk ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have just watched some many of you're shorts in the past 2 hours that you motivated me to want to, help people, become a hospice nurse and tell my loved ones how much I loved them. You inspired me. You are amazing! (I'm only 11) 💜😁🤞

    • @oooooeeaa9017
      @oooooeeaa9017 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hospice is a beautiful but painful thing to go into... protect your heart if you plan to do this when you're older, and always hold onto that care for others. and don't feel bad if it's too much hurt to take on. i wish you the best!

  • @cannaoilqueen
    @cannaoilqueen ปีที่แล้ว +13

    WAHOO!! 🎉 Just got the notification, my book is arriving tomorrow!! ❤

  • @LarryEllis-z1f
    @LarryEllis-z1f 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even decades after you retire the patients you cared for will linger in your heart. The ones you helped, the ones you lost. Their impressions are indelible. It’s an honor to live your life for others and answer your calling.
    Retired for almost 30 yrs

  • @cicigrenylo9765
    @cicigrenylo9765 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I would cry with every patient and want to hug them all 😢 You’re an angel

  • @alexusresendez9527
    @alexusresendez9527 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This book made me cry multiple times but I would read it again multiple times

  • @luna7732
    @luna7732 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The thank you when he handed her the notes made me cry a little 😢

  • @katelynnlydon9848
    @katelynnlydon9848 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He wrote down the things he wanted to tell you about, that is just so sweet. I’m sure your heart was been the day you didn’t receive any notes 😢😢😢 ❤❤❤

  • @EmmaDugan-mk7oi
    @EmmaDugan-mk7oi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hadley is a true angel sent to earth to bless us all. There is no other explanation.

  • @knottymom88
    @knottymom88 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was the sweetest story in your book!!! I couldn't put it down! Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @YungBlancoofficial
    @YungBlancoofficial 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m on the brink of crying, I need this book. This is beautiful

  • @MysteryLaneWithLiv
    @MysteryLaneWithLiv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg I actually started crying when he said I'm gonna miss you

  • @meladyarbuckle3185
    @meladyarbuckle3185 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gawd how TF do u do it mentally 😢I can't imagine growing to love someone just to watch them leave ❤

  • @dorothyculbertson5640
    @dorothyculbertson5640 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I bet you still have those notes too ❤️ you are a Angel and a inspiration 🌹God Bless you and your family Nurse Hadley ❤🌹

  • @tonmahaffey5875
    @tonmahaffey5875 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your book, the InBetween! Thank you! My mother is 83 & I’m her care giver, she’s mobile, many things your videos have given me ideas to help her & enjoy her, more.

  • @emilyb7791
    @emilyb7791 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God please give my grandmother a woman like this when the time comes

  • @friendlyghost6564
    @friendlyghost6564 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finding a way in with 'difficult' patients is one of the greatest challenges in nursing - and can be the most emotionally rewarding, as nurse Hadley shows here.

  • @hoboonahelo5346
    @hoboonahelo5346 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’ve got the heart of a saint. The strength of a warrior to do this job.

  • @LS-bb9qh
    @LS-bb9qh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My heart breaks just watching your skits. You are really something special to not break down actually doing this.

  • @hkesel05
    @hkesel05 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These stories make me cry but also make me love these people too. I’m so glad you do what you do and share it with us!