I'm definitely dealing with emotional immaturity. He's very guarded and using logic to justify moving to another state. I had a heart chakra opening and he pulled away on social media and hasn't acted the same since. He knows something is going on between us but won't talk to me about it. I finally confessed my true feelings, the twin soul connection, wished him well and that if the time was right we would cross paths again. I finally surrendered and feel at peace.
Wow! On #5 when you were discussing structure it gave me an a-ha! I knew when my previous outer world began to break down, it was forging me into my new life, but what you said, Angie, pointed my attention to how it also broke me of needing everything structured. I had no choice but to flow because of all that was going on. Now that I look back and see how much better it feels being in the flow than being rigid, I wouldn't have it any other way and am amazed at how directly this connection transformed that; not just my outer circumstances !
So after finding your video I can say finally I really found twin flame couple that are in an actual real connection not commercial stuff... after few seconds in your video I had a big sigh and then started laughing and smiling 😂 that’s your light energy round house kicking me right in the heart chakra 😂 I needed a boost...I was crying and researching twin flames and here we go😂 thank you guys for your work may god even increase u in happiness and joy 🙏 let the binge watch begin 😂
Outstanding video! Everything on here resonates. The TF relationship is the road to deep inner growth- and you explain how, so well! And how miraculous that the phone allowed you to finish the recording. Love you both. Thank you for your service to the TF community. ❤️💜❤️
*! Long-Message Alert !* - Very good list of which I've encountered quite a few points myself by now; Thank you for the video and bracing those antarctic temperatures for us all, you two! :-)) Rob's "young age" argument is actually one I'm being faced with right now, and in more than just one way, too! And this is tied into another point I'd like to add to your list: *Societal Programming* ! I'm currently having feelings of Affection and possibly even Love towards a very young woman who may not even be *half* my age, and I am 50 years old. And of course, 'thanks' to Society's teachings and rules, that's wayyy too big an age gap. At least that's what my Ego's been trying to convince me of. And a few weeks ago, this thinking even turned *me* into the 'Runner' for the first time ever, and I was avoiding her for a while. Having interacted with each other several times meanwhile, I sense she's feeling the same way about me also. And sadly, now it's *her* who's started to avoid me for the same reasons as she thinks her feelings and thoughts towards me are "inappropriate". In turn, my Ego's now certain the best way to move forward is to just forget her - while my Heart is feeling all this Love for her. How do today's young ones put it? "FML!", LOL! X-)) She's not my actual Twin Flame (or at least I doubt she is), but she's definitely been helping me heal issues around large age gaps, just as the lovely Marla Kelly had predicted in one of her videos some time ago would happen for some of us :-) Much Love to you both and everyone else, V. :-)
Excellent video you guys. Everyone of those 11 reasons were dead on and I have done or felt them all. I was never mean, but evasive and seemed unemotional or caring at times. My TF and I are in a better place, after 3 years, but the struggle within me is not gone, but I'm aware if it. I'm surprised my TF didn' t leave, but like Rob, he needed to learn boundaries. I love your videos. So glad I came across thus gem. Blessings to you both.
Wao, this is so well explained. Now I understand what is happening in my situation. I am the chaser and he is the runner. I don't know what I will do to bring him back.
Wow thank you guys. This content is very good. I’ve searched a lot of videos and this by far has great information for twin flames chasers and runners.
I was the Runner in my TF relationship (and I'm the DF, just like Angie), and I can relate to EVERYTHING that was mentioned here, particularly the bit about emotional immaturity and how this journey can be particularly difficult for younger people. My Twin and I first met in 9th grade (we're now both 26). As kids we used to tease each other MERCILESSLY bc we were far too immature to deal with the connection, and I believe something similar happened when we reconnected recently after an 8 year separation. We weren't really meeting each other from a place of mutual respect. I can't quite speak for him, but for me, it's becasue I'd never been properly in love with someone like that before. It really sucks, he and I started this journey so early in life, and it feels like we might have to potentially wait decades before reaching a mature enough place to get to Union :/
It is so confusing if one is married to a soul mate. I love my soul mate. He is a wonderful man but then love my twin flame, more. It stops me from giving 100 percent to my soul mate. It is a dilemma. I don't want to leave my soul mate leaving him in pain.
We are the same. I am married to my soul mate, He is a very nice man, hardworking and I can say he loves me so much. He is a perfect man for me but I can not stop loving my twin flame and He is on my mind 24/7. We are in separation now physically but I always feel his energy every day seems like we never separated. I have a beautiful and happy family on my own but then My soul still belongs to my Divine Masculine and I feel guilty sometimes and feeling like i am cheating my wonderful husband but It is not my fault this is God's will. I can say I love them both my husband and my Divine Masculine Unconditionally.
At the age of 15 I had met my soul mate, too. He looked similar to my twinflame and his whole behavior was similar. But after 4 years it had to break up... (after him I got a karmic partner, who was the total opposite to me, but I was learning from all of this)I can tell by self experience, that your soul mate you can 4get after a while, but you can never 4get your real twinflame, because he is your other half. And everyone was created with his other half, so also the soulmates from our soulfamily have their own twinflames. And it should all happen that way, otherwise the creator would not show you up your twinflame and you can not have both guys. You should choose the best 4 you and this is always your twinflame...your real true love !!!
@@iamtamadtv6018 Mine also, but this doesn't really matter. God has a Plan with twinflames, they have a Mission. And the LOVE between twinflames is the highest love, so why choosing not only this? You know, if an accident would happen and someone is dying, then there is an ecxepting of this! Because nothing else can be done in this situation....why not ecxepting also the LOVE? You know what I mean?!?
@@iamtamadtv6018 only why our twinflame is married and they have also kids ....4 God there is no Problem with this. No one can 'grab' or 'hold' another human 'tight' we are all free and our heart has to do the decision, not only our mind. What sense does it make if you have to think about him 24/7......... 4 the rest of your life?!? Is it not really better than to choose this love? !! No one else can be your TF. You only have to surrender to this love and to give up on the mind, then your TF feel your decision and God will find the best way to bring you in Reunion 😍. But you don't can have doubt, this will not connect you physically with your TF. And to over come the mindset is also what we all have to completed in this journey. Fear is not your best teacher but Love is!!!
This is all new to me - and yes he is the runner. Any love conversation he runs, or when we spend quality time together he runs for a week after 😕 this really put things into perspective
@Mel D - Lucky for you then that you've come across this very valuable information! Myself, I only did after already having learnt a lot of it in person and kinda the hard way X-))
Yes I have seen pictures of this snow in May. People have not been happy, so it's good you're taking it in stride. 🌨❄🔥🔥💖 yes, I can relate to so much of this. As I've heard other TF's say, all of the tools or therapy cannot prepare you for meeting your TF.
Ha ha, we are totally used to having snow in May as crazy as that sounds-our long weekend in May (this coming weekend) is a common time for it to snow every single year lol. ❄
@@TwinFinity1111 oh my lol. Well even here in the high desert we usually have a random snow in April. Maybe there were people in the northern US that were getting upset about a May snow.😄
This is the best explanation I have ever heard around this issue and I have been struggling with the paradigm for 7 years. Not solved or healed yet but making progress. I am astounded because a second potential twin has recently entered my life and I’m like how in the world could it be so complicated! So I will be listening with renewed and doubled interest. Than you so much for what you do.
Wow ! Beautifully explained and I can resonate with everything you shared 💝 I enjoyed very much the birds singing also 🥰 beautiful place and thank you for such beautiful message 💝 Much love to you both 💝 I’m new in your channel and I subscribed ;)
This video is enlightening. My twin says this isn’t the empowered woman I know when I say I’m sad and hurting, and I am thinking how am I supposed to feel empowered when you tell me you love me but are with another?!! So far out of their comfort zones... so true. It’s so hard to balance the boundaries and have unconditional love...
*Cackling in 5 different tonalities as I send this video to my twin flame who I have ran from and who's ran from me* Today I figured out that I have been running from physical affection and he's been running from my verbal affection and admiration. It's tied to a lot of our insecurities, distrust in people etc. For example, I could never really get enough physical affection from my parents, because my mom's hugs I would sometimes have to beg for if she wasn't the one wanting to cuddle, and I would get ridiculed for my need for physical touch and affirmation, and my needs were satisfied only when it was convenient for her. That said I still felt very loved as a kid, she did that unconsciously, because she was tired of how much physical touch I needed. And my dad on the other hand would be the sweetest with physical touch right after he had yelled at me or sometimes it would be in apology for hitting me in rage accidentally (just a couple of times in my life), or when he'd be sorry for making mom cry, he'd come to try to make up with physical affection. So I grew a deep distrust for physical touch and I would always be on the edge and feel my body tense up if someone touched me, I would be hyperaware of physical space and any physical contact, to the point that I would always be so stressed and confused when it happened, and I would have a lot of pent up stress inside me. And my twin flame on the other hand is very physical but he has trouble with words of affirmation because he is convinced that he's deeply unattractive. He's been bullied a lot for his looks, both in school and by family, and it's a deep seated insecurity. And when I would write poetry of how insanely attractive I find him, he would not know how to accept that, it completely missed the mark at that point, although my poetry was very beautiful. I, in turn, felt unappreciated and rejected, and my feelings taken for granted and discarded with ease, perceived ridicule and insensitivity... And I am wholeheartedly grateful for the people who are our partners. He is married and I will be getting married sometime soon too. It would be worse than hell to go through all of those insecurities with my twin flame, because the energy is amplified. God bless soulmate connections... Although it does hurt sometimes to not be able to be the best version of yourself and be with the man of your dreams, you gotta remember that the journey is more important than the destination, because your souls are eternal and the destination is unchanging, what matters is growth. The way to it is not through obsessive love, but instead through self love, service to the world, good intentions etc. I think sometimes the feminine runs from physical intimacy more and the masculine energy from the verbal or emotional affection, because, as you said, it's harder for the masculine to balance and understand their emotions, and I think for the feminine, to get grounded and not so much up into clouds, wishes and fantasies. And also because collectively the wounded masculine is supposed to be unfeeling, tough, impenetrable, dominating and feelings are discouraged. But they do feel very deeply... And the wounded feminine is scared of physical violation, because it happens so much in the world, and she is scared to voice her purest desires for intimacy, freedom and sacred sexuality. Part of the collective problem is the demonization of sexuality and feelings, in my opinion. Thank you guys for always highlighting the importance of self love, healing, releasing expectations, and just working towards being a better version of ourselves for US!
Set boundaries and allow yourself to take it more slowly. Your twin would prefer that over complete no contact most likely. Allow yourself to take small steps rather than rushing in and freaking out
B thank you for this advice! The past few days , whilst looking into how intense it can be for some I had already begun to get overwhelmed and I hadn’t even met them yet.... small steps it is ☺️ thank you
Excellent information! Again heard it exactly when I needed to hear it! I am being guided to have a discussion with my TF but not sure how to start/lead the conversation. Now I know and understand what needs to be discussed. This hit the nail on the head. Thank you!
From watching your ‘The Masculine’s Perspective’ videos, Rob was speaking as the DM but in this video Angie is clearly (as she also says) the one with the masculine energy (DM). I know both male and female have both energies but one tends to have more of one type of energy.
I (Angie) am more of the feminine energy between us, but I do have a lot of masculine energy in some areas including being the runner. I used to have a very strong, protective ego b/c of growing up with some much trauma, so when things got too intense and emotionally intimate between us, my ego was like "I'm outta here" lol. It was so afraid of letting people in and getting hurt again. Took many years and lots of work with my ego to heal the fear of vulnerability and intimacy (into me see). :)
@@TwinFinity1111 Thanks for the reply Angie! Sorry I commented twice with the same question... it’s interesting to see how the energies work in your connection. You did seem to be the DF until I watched this video but it all makes sense now. Both twins can be very masculine in one area and at the same time, very feminine in other areas. Your runner story seems very similar to my DM’s story but it’s always helpful to hear other twin’s stories so we can remain in compassion for our counterparts, especially when we are in separation and no communication. There is always new perspectives to learn. 💕
1117 views as of right now!! :) You are both so sweet! I got tired of chasing. I wish he would communicate but he is not ready. Oh well. All I can really do is focus on myself and my life. Of course I miss him so much but chasing is exhausting and painful.
Geeez, you two nailed this. Important information. Really well said. Both of you do an act of kindness with how honest and brave you are speaking about this issue. A lot of times, when I watch I hear one or both of you mention something “weird” and I can just hear what others might think or say about it, but it’s not weird to me because I know exactly what you’re talking about. But because you just put it out there matter-of-factly, it’s extremely helpful to those going through this. That #1 (fear) is a biggie. Like really...this was the strangest most overwhelming, most difficult thing that ever happened to me..and that’s saying a lot if you knew my background --> 8th house heavy, Pluto-Saturnian.
When my tf started to ghost me it triggered dark night of the soul in me for about a month, after I started feeling better she gave me green light only to change her mind a couple of days later and start to ghost me again two weeks later. Almost six months later we had contact again everything seemed fine only to crash again and she started to ghost me again. I was feeling crazy when I started to learn about twin flames and inner work, now I feel better than ever and my life situation is great, actively my angels communicate with me with numbers. She still pretends like I dont exist, ghost me and when we see each other by "coincidence" she behaves like she wants to hide from me. Recently I have started to see a lot of 11 11 or 111 when I am thinking about her.
The emotional maturity thing omg! I wish he had just this one!!! I am going to pretend he is on a deserted island and I can’t contact him, as he just keeps on running when I do!
Thanks for this talking. It is very realistic. He was runner time to time to push me away or sabotage the relationship time to time, one thing is probably from his childhood, another thing is his ex cheated on him and they divorced. But when I get too much hurt and felt too unsafe from his commitment for this relationship, ( we already wearing our ring without a license), I end up run away too. We both takes roles of runner, he does more in our later relationship, I did more in our early relationship. Now we are off after many times of the break up. I feel the same way as this couple felt, I am now determined to build my own finance and life, I am planning to move to another state. He might going to find another woman, I don’t know why I now can’t feel any hurt just to imagine that. But before he totally destroyed my hope of us, I can’t even think of he is going to be with anybody else. But now I am ok, I lost the feelings. If he now come back to say he is changes and be together, I would say the same thing as this man said, to push her away at that point, because I know now he is not ready, he is not healed, I am not healed. We are not that point yet at all.
I am going though separation as of Saturday and your video hit so many topics that coincide with my situation so perfectly.. I am the chaser.. I was hoping that we could talk.
I love this video so much 💕 As an “in your head recovering addict” lol I can relate to the turtle effect where I would poke my head out and if hurt, pop it back in to avoid the pain. Thank you so much. I send you both lots of love😘💕💛💕
I've gone bunches of spiritual awakening and DNA upgrade, so i feel more relief, but my twin just starting his own and this also affects me, when I'm happy, I suddenly feel anxious and scared, sometimes my stomach suddenly hurts (solar plexus and sacral chakra), sometimes my heart chakra 😭
For me it's different. I blocked him on social media because he was always there liking my posts and watching my stories BUT he has a girlfriend! I also feel stressed and pressured to post something "with sugar coating" just to impress him! I was not myself because I was trying too hard. I also hated it that he has a gf! It was overwhelming for me. He is quarantining with his gf and I am just sad and insecure. Why did he not chose me when in fact he met me first? Is it because I'm much older? I can't give him kids anymore? I don't have enough money? I just really want to move on!😞
Yessss, what you share is common for many on the journey. The answers to your first question goes much deeper than your thoughts. Do some inner soul searching on this and you may come to a completely different answer and awareness. We'll address this in our Q&A videos too though b/c it's one many struggle with. Sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️
@@TwinFinity1111 Awww thank you so much! It gives me a breather to know that this is common, and I'm not alone. On a higher level I understand of course, but when I'm really down and sad, the 3D reasoning just comes out of my head and heart and it's really exhausting. I can't wait for the Q and A on this! 🙏❤️✨
Oh how cool that you're in Calgary too! If you're on Facebook, send us a message on our Twinfinity page (facebook.com/TwinFinity1111). We have a private group for local twin flames- there's lots of us in and around the city to connect with in the group if you like :)
My own guide's show me we are at 8 level after five years separation,this was a question to my spiritual team,, 10 being union, Tough path however worth it,the growth mixed with the pain, Finally it's finally coming home with self, Will I see her again 10'000 miles apart, perhaps if we on a collective level continued to grow, finally eternity is with us so whats the hurry
Thank you for the info and the hard work you both have accomplished. I've been in separation for 27 years, I just turned twenty years old and he twenty-four, when we met. It was only a few months we were together and then he left back to Sweden because of a new career as a pilot. I'm sure you can imagine the feelings I've experienced during this time in separation. I was the Chaser (female) and reached out to him a few times over the years. That is how I found out he was getting married and children, but now feel like I want to be the Runner, because I feel, dream, and know that he is returning to me. Now going on forty-seven, I feel crushed inside... he chose to marry because he got a women pregnant with TWINS in his younger years! The one thing I really wanted, when I was younger, was to be able to have a wonderful family (twins) with him in a true love connection. Of course back then, we were both too full conditioned behavior and beliefs to be together let alone a family. I never married nor had children. I'm working through the emptiness that I feel inside however, as you know, it never really goes away. I don't know how you can heal something you can never get back...time and youth. I could still have children, but i'm tired now, and I would want a few years to bond, experience and explore him and our connection. I don't want to be 50+ with a new born. Yet the emptiness that I will never be young again, in my prime, to experience a jovial, youthful motherhood is VERY hard to overcome. I feel like it was stolen from me. When I think about his two girls and everything (love) that he gives them and all the beautiful memories he had ...I so much wanted those memories with our children...it's very painful to face that I never get time back. I really appreciate Rob stating that even if he was up to the 11th hour of his life, the journey is worth the wait for mere moments with your twin. No bitterness or anger that it took so long, just finally, I can take my last breath in peace.
Awww yes, can certainly understand your feelings. This can be a very hard journey with little answers and understanding of why things happen they way they do sometimes. Sending you much love and many many hugs!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@@TwinFinity1111 So very kind of you to reply to me and your love is much appreciated! Wish you guys lived closer for the support and clarity you give so freely. Just love you guys so much! Thank you!
What can the other twin do when the pain is so unbearable and your head hurts like it's gonna explode and you feel like you just want to 'run off the planet'? When you try everything and nothing works, that person is constantly with you, in you and you can't escape. You can barely function. You just cry and cry. And you feel like you're going insane and nobody around you can help or understand you. Only that one person does, who is so very scared and wounded, therefore running from you, but loves you deeply at the same time. I understand why he runs, I can feel his pain and it kills me that I can't help him. I know they say you have to surrender and let go. But it seems impossible when everything reminds you of your twin and you are so alike in every way, your traits, your habits etc. What is it that I am not understanding? Love&light
Ohhh sending you sooo much love and compassion. This is a tough place to be in and sadly one that most if not all TFs go through at some point in the journey. Rob and I both experienced this after we broke up in 1998. It was brutal. We'll answer your question more thoroughly in a Q&A video, but for now to explain briefly, this is part of the healing, deep pain and dark night of the soul that must be cleared and released. It won't last forever, and the more you feel deep into the pain and allow it out, the sooner you can find your way through it. Call on spirit (God, Angels, Light, Love, etc) to guide you, support you, help you and heal you. You are never alone on this journey, especially through the most painful parts!. Sending you so much love, peace and support!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Cool, thank you!! :D I have a question. I'm the feminine energy mostly and I was the chaser. Not that now I'm the runner, but now I feel balanced I set him free and I'm working on my boundaries very well :D (it wasn't easy though, I needed to go back deeply to my essence), even though I still a little obsessive over it all having a hard time focusing on other stuff. But my twin still denying going deep into his feelings and some times I have logical doubts about it all. I would like to know if you, specially Rob has some hints and advice to stop overthinking about it all, and focus totally on my own stuff because I'm late on lot of work blaming the COVID. Thank you again!
Thank you this really brought me alot of clarity and explaining alot of what im dealing with my DM as just two days ago my DM finally unblocks me to only block me again i know he his trying to understand this connection thank you so much for this informative video guys! Blessings to you!🌹😘
I'm curious about what to do if the twin is with another person and still wants to be friends with me? I feel super conflicted and just curious of your perspective. I appreciate this video so much! Lots of new perspective that helped a lot. Thank you!
That's a tough one, so sometimes twins can be "just friends", while one or both are in another relationship, but other times, it's hard to keep things platonic because the magnetic pull can be so strong. If you feel you can both maintain your own integrity and have a healthy, balanced friendship, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Sending you both lots of love!! ❤️❤️
I guess ill need to do that before i feared setting those boundaries with my DM in fear that he would run and never return I'll have to gently explain it him how im feeling and maybe or hopefully lol come to an agreement! And for me to let go which i have been good with since i was blocked i just try to live my life happily until he is ready to talk or come to peace with our connection thank you!❤
@Lola McAnulty - Setting boundaries and knowing one's standards for me personally has been one of *the* most important things on the Twin Flame journey! My best wishes to you and yours!
@@mightyV444 lol we all need it!, this journey has been a rollercoaster of a ride and just when i think my DM will open up he shuts the door on me! Im hoping he can sort out what needs to be healed within himself!;)
@@lolachlih3136 - Oh I'm sure he will! Only that he'll do it at his own pace, so you may need to be even more patient ;-) But hey, at least you do know who your actual Twin *is* ! Since the woman I had believed was mine and I had parted ways about two months ago, everything seems totally open again in that respect; She'd just completely vanished, and also in the higher dimensions.
Thanks for the reply Angie and Rob, with my flame we haven't been there for three years,only seen again before the pandemic, he would go back to work in my city, then the end of the world. Now he is much more willing but friendly and still has the karmic. When he looks for me I look for him in friendship but perhaps there was still drive and expectation in me. Concentrating on me on art and on healthy selfishness he returned to write to me. Now what to do? I would like to interrupt the run and run cycle, but I feel guilty about staying still. I wonder am I stayer or am I running? How to understand it? If I don't do anything, can you think I ignore it?Just now that he is more friendly....
Wait the masculine is often the runner but in your case the masculine was also the spiritual twin ? I believe in my case there is a spiritual older df non-runner and a younger dm runner matrix twin but I’m still learning wtf is happening I just learned tf existed a few weeks ago 🤯
Thank you so much for this it has brought me a lot of clarity. I on the other hand have started calling myself a Witch. Lol hopefully he can see past this smh 🤦🏽♀️ I had no idea it would come to that. If not maybe I’ll have to change my business name back to what it was before. However, my question would be at what point did you as a runner figure it out...like what was your turning point? Or did you feel guided like the rest of us on when union was going to happen? I remember you stated in another video that you kept seeing signs saying “time is now or something of the sort” every where....can you explain what that was like but including the part where you are starting off with your long text message and walk us through those day to day events? Up until you two were in final and complete union? Every time I think it’s time for me and my twin. I end up feeling tricked or like things are just not going anywhere...I don’t know what to say or what to do. My twin is barely talking to me when we are around each other even if we spend an entire weeekend together. Meaning like the conversation never goes to us or if it does he gets so nervous to talk about it, he makes me feel nervous to continue to say anything. Then we end up switching the subject or he’ll leave the room. It’s like he doesn’t want to talk about anything that makes him feel anything or he knows they’re connected to things that he’s done to hurt me. I just need to know how does that play out for you during that time because I’m feeling like at times either I’m doing something wrong or I can’t get anywhere with him if we are not having conversations enough for me to set boundaries for us to move forward. 😌
The Witchantress do you follow Marla with Twinstrology? She just wrote a blog post about Saturn going retrograde and bringing this sort of communication healing. Your comment rings so true for my twin and I. So hard to talk! I wish you lots of love and Union on your journey ❤️❤️
Summer Pierce Hi. Yes I absolutely do follow her. I haven’t seen that video yet. So I’ll go watch it now. Yes communication has been a big deal for me although I never make him feel pressured into it but it’s just not there as much as I’d like it to be. I’m glad my comment resonates with you. It’s always a good feeling to know you’re not alone going through similar circumstances and same to you. Sending you love and well wishes on your journey! 💖
This is a great question and something many on the path experience!! We'll add it to our list of questions to answer in our Q&A videos. Until then, sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I’m no longer chasing him. If he wants to talk he has my phone number, Facebook etc. He sometimes messages me. Yesterday though he tells me how he wishes he could cuddle me, how much he misses me, told me he will message me after he wakes up, and then bam nothing 😩 Quite confusing behaviour.
When this happens, it's simply another aspect of running-from themselves and escaping into others so they don't have to face their own inner self--fears, wounding, etc. It's rarely ever about the sex and more about escaping into others (sometimes many others) to avoid facing them self.
@@tihomir.stojiljkovic - You're absolutely right of course; It should be more than just sex, too! It should be Love-making! And I'm sorry that you've been hurt in that way. My best wishes to you!
@@joannebohan2243 I felt it from your Higher Self, so it is...you just don't realize it on a 3D level. When I said having fun, I meant enjoying watching it unfold. It's really all we can do.
Have a look at point number 10. This might shed some insight on your situation… remember that it's not JUST the twin flame that is our mirror, everyone is. Hope that's helpful :)
Yes, we first met in 1997 had an amazing connection but b/c of unhealed wounds, ended up separating. We didn't come into union until 17 years later after we'd both done a lot of healing work and growth :)
@@TwinFinity1111 I started with another video and didn't say it spanned that long. I will leave message on that one too. I am so excited I found your chanel! 🤗
Hi Beautiful Twin souls. Any possibility to contact you for my personal guidance. I'm in my Twin Flame separation and I'm in Spiritual awakening journey.
I (Angie) am more of the feminine energy between us, but I do have a lot of masculine energy in some areas including being the runner. I used to have a very strong, protective ego b/c of growing up with some much trauma. So when things got too intense and emotionally intimate between us many years ago, my ego was like "I'm outta here" lol. It was so afraid of letting people in and getting hurt again. Took many years and lots of work with my ego to heal the fear of vulnerability and intimacy (into me see) :)
@@TwinFinity1111 ok, so the energies can shift! Ive been on my journey now for a long time, i keep the faith though that I will one day have my DM back💕
Funny thing is I (Angie) was the runner emotionally and Rob was the runner physically in that he actually ran marathons in the years we were apart. When he was training for an 80km marathon years ago, someone asked him "what are you running from" knowing that anyone that runs that long of a distance is actually running from something emotionally-he was actually running from his karmic relationship. So in a sense, we were both runners, but I was more the runner in our connection. Here's the video in our journey on that topic if interested… th-cam.com/video/oJlVhmx8jmk/w-d-xo.html
@@TwinFinity1111 - But that's what confused *me* also: You were the runner emotionally, but you are the primary Divine FEMININE in your TF connection; I had believed that Runner = DM!?
@@mightyV444 Even though one is more the primary DM and DF, we are all made of both feminine and masculine energies. So though I am more the DF, it was my unhealed masculine side that ran b/c he had soooo much healing it wasn't ready to face yet.
@@TwinFinity1111 - I understand, and thank you for explaining, dear Angie! Yeah I'm the Primary DF also and have been in my Masculine for quite some time now, and like I'd mentioned in my looong comment, I too am 'running' now from time to time.
Runners are so childish.. They expect the chasers to have compassion and be patient, be kind, be mature.. Because the chasers want this so bad.. I dont think they would have even gotten rid of their emotional immaturity even after the reunion. Psssttt.. its like the chaser has no space for themselves, they cant be themselves with these runners, anything that happens out of control, the chaser has to fend for themselves but anything that happens for the runner, they will ask the chaser to be --- compassionate. How about getting some more introspection and throwing the narcissism out of the system?
It sucks the universe opens up this great thing to you then you have to wait and learn and cope and grow why not just open that to me when the connection is ready ? I suppose you don’t grow and change until you learn of the possibilities ?
Ha ha, you're so cute and your comment cracks me up-I love it. You should see us at home, in the grocery store, out to dinner, on hikes, etc etc. We hug and kiss waaaaayyyy toooooo much lololol. Guess we just tone it all down for videos… hmmm not all of them though lol.
This lady makes seem like the trauma chaser twins have been through is insignificant compared to the runner twin. Have compassion? Where's the compassion from the runner twin? I've never experienced that compassion.
Time Stamps
3:22 #1 Fear
5:20 #2 Insecurity
6:56 #3 Unworthiness
7:43 #4 Doubt
9:37 #5 Feeling Out of Control
11:33 #6 Overwhelmed
13:46 #7 (Psychological) Unhealed Wounds
14:42 #8 Emotional Immaturity
16:18 #9 Feeling Crazy
17:27 #10 Mirroring Each Other's Internal Imbalances
19:10 #11 5D Perspective/Divine Timing
20:43 Advice on Responsibility
22:04 Angie's Texts to Rob showing their process of Physical Reunion
Thank you so much
@@tamannatazz5800 you are welcome. Eventually, I'll put time stamps in comments for other 11 series videos from Twinfinity.
I'm definitely dealing with emotional immaturity. He's very guarded and using logic to justify moving to another state. I had a heart chakra opening and he pulled away on social media and hasn't acted the same since. He knows something is going on between us but won't talk to me about it. I finally confessed my true feelings, the twin soul connection, wished him well and that if the time was right we would cross paths again. I finally surrendered and feel at peace.
Dealing with a Twin flame runner and I hear that same exact bird call from this video each morning outside my window!
Same
Great video....Love to both of you...I m chaser....Balancing now.
Thank you for sharing the light and continuing to be a high vibe/real voice for divine love.
Wow!
On #5 when you were discussing structure it gave me an a-ha!
I knew when my previous outer world began to break down, it was forging me into my new life, but what you said, Angie, pointed my attention to how it also broke me of needing everything structured.
I had no choice but to flow because of all that was going on.
Now that I look back and see how much better it feels being in the flow than being rigid, I wouldn't have it any other way and am amazed at how directly this connection transformed that; not just my outer circumstances !
excellent. thx for sharing.
So after finding your video I can say finally I really found twin flame couple that are in an actual real connection not commercial stuff... after few seconds in your video I had a big sigh and then started laughing and smiling 😂 that’s your light energy round house kicking me right in the heart chakra 😂 I needed a boost...I was crying and researching twin flames and here we go😂 thank you guys for your work may god even increase u in happiness and joy 🙏 let the binge watch begin 😂
Outstanding video! Everything on here resonates. The TF relationship is the road to deep inner growth- and you explain how, so well! And how miraculous that the phone allowed you to finish the recording. Love you both. Thank you for your service to the TF community. ❤️💜❤️
Thanks Smita! So glad it all resonates. Love you!! 💜
Rob another rob here in Ireland,thanks to you both,it good to see another twin flame couple in my age group.
Keep up the great work
Yes such a beautiful video thank you for sharing this
*! Long-Message Alert !* - Very good list of which I've encountered quite a few points myself by now; Thank you for the video and bracing those antarctic temperatures for us all, you two! :-)) Rob's "young age" argument is actually one I'm being faced with right now, and in more than just one way, too! And this is tied into another point I'd like to add to your list: *Societal Programming* !
I'm currently having feelings of Affection and possibly even Love towards a very young woman who may not even be *half* my age, and I am 50 years old. And of course, 'thanks' to Society's teachings and rules, that's wayyy too big an age gap. At least that's what my Ego's been trying to convince me of. And a few weeks ago, this thinking even turned *me* into the 'Runner' for the first time ever, and I was avoiding her for a while. Having interacted with each other several times meanwhile, I sense she's feeling the same way about me also. And sadly, now it's *her* who's started to avoid me for the same reasons as she thinks her feelings and thoughts towards me are "inappropriate". In turn, my Ego's now certain the best way to move forward is to just forget her - while my Heart is feeling all this Love for her. How do today's young ones put it? "FML!", LOL! X-))
She's not my actual Twin Flame (or at least I doubt she is), but she's definitely been helping me heal issues around large age gaps, just as the lovely Marla Kelly had predicted in one of her videos some time ago would happen for some of us :-)
Much Love to you both and everyone else, V. :-)
Excellent video you guys. Everyone of those 11 reasons were dead on and I have done or felt them all. I was never mean, but evasive and seemed unemotional or caring at times. My TF and I are in a better place, after 3 years, but the struggle within me is not gone, but I'm aware if it. I'm surprised my TF didn' t leave, but like Rob, he needed to learn boundaries. I love your videos. So glad I came across thus gem. Blessings to you both.
Thanks Ginger, so glad they are helpful for you. Much love!
Wao, this is so well explained. Now I understand what is happening in my situation. I am the chaser and he is the runner. I don't know what I will do to bring him back.
Wow thank you guys. This content is very good. I’ve searched a lot of videos and this by far has great information for twin flames chasers and runners.
So glad it resonates for you. Much love!
I was the Runner in my TF relationship (and I'm the DF, just like Angie), and I can relate to EVERYTHING that was mentioned here, particularly the bit about emotional immaturity and how this journey can be particularly difficult for younger people. My Twin and I first met in 9th grade (we're now both 26). As kids we used to tease each other MERCILESSLY bc we were far too immature to deal with the connection, and I believe something similar happened when we reconnected recently after an 8 year separation. We weren't really meeting each other from a place of mutual respect. I can't quite speak for him, but for me, it's becasue I'd never been properly in love with someone like that before. It really sucks, he and I started this journey so early in life, and it feels like we might have to potentially wait decades before reaching a mature enough place to get to Union :/
It is so confusing if one is married to a soul mate. I love my soul mate. He is a wonderful man but then love my twin flame, more. It stops me from giving 100 percent to my soul mate. It is a dilemma. I don't want to leave my soul mate leaving him in pain.
We are the same. I am married to my soul mate, He is a very nice man, hardworking and I can say he loves me so much. He is a perfect man for me but I can not stop loving my twin flame and He is on my mind 24/7. We are in separation now physically but I always feel his energy every day seems like we never separated. I have a beautiful and happy family on my own but then My soul still belongs to my Divine Masculine and I feel guilty sometimes and feeling like i am cheating my wonderful husband but It is not my fault this is God's will. I can say I love them both my husband and my Divine Masculine Unconditionally.
At the age of 15 I had met my soul mate, too. He looked similar to my twinflame and his whole behavior was similar. But after 4 years it had to break up... (after him I got a karmic partner, who was the total opposite to me, but I was learning from all of this)I can tell by self experience, that your soul mate you can 4get after a while, but you can never 4get your real twinflame, because he is your other half. And everyone was created with his other half, so also the soulmates from our soulfamily have their own twinflames. And it should all happen that way, otherwise the creator would not show you up your twinflame and you can not have both guys. You should choose the best 4 you and this is always your twinflame...your real true love !!!
@@SandRA2222 my twin flame has his own family too 😢😢😢😢.
@@iamtamadtv6018 Mine also, but this doesn't really matter. God has a Plan with twinflames, they have a Mission. And the LOVE between twinflames is the highest love, so why choosing not only this? You know, if an accident would happen and someone is dying, then there is an ecxepting of this! Because nothing else can be done in this situation....why not ecxepting also the LOVE? You know what I mean?!?
@@iamtamadtv6018 only why our twinflame is married and they have also kids ....4 God there is no Problem with this. No one can 'grab' or 'hold' another human 'tight' we are all free and our heart has to do the decision, not only our mind. What sense does it make if you have to think about him 24/7......... 4 the rest of your life?!? Is it not really better than to choose this love? !! No one else can be your TF. You only have to surrender to this love and to give up on the mind, then your TF feel your decision and God will find the best way to bring you in Reunion 😍. But you don't can have doubt, this will not connect you physically with your TF. And to over come the mindset is also what we all have to completed in this journey. Fear is not your best teacher but Love is!!!
Thank you! Very informative. Blessings to you both!
This is all new to me - and yes he is the runner. Any love conversation he runs, or when we spend quality time together he runs for a week after 😕 this really put things into perspective
@Mel D - Lucky for you then that you've come across this very valuable information! Myself, I only did after already having learnt a lot of it in person and kinda the hard way X-))
Yes I have seen pictures of this snow in May. People have not been happy, so it's good you're taking it in stride. 🌨❄🔥🔥💖 yes, I can relate to so much of this. As I've heard other TF's say, all of the tools or therapy cannot prepare you for meeting your TF.
Ha ha, we are totally used to having snow in May as crazy as that sounds-our long weekend in May (this coming weekend) is a common time for it to snow every single year lol. ❄
@@TwinFinity1111 oh my lol. Well even here in the high desert we usually have a random snow in April. Maybe there were people in the northern US that were getting upset about a May snow.😄
Great Video extreamlly accurate
This is the best explanation I have ever heard around this issue and I have been struggling with the paradigm for 7 years. Not solved or healed yet but making progress. I am astounded because a second potential twin has recently entered my life and I’m like how in the world could it be so complicated! So I will be listening with renewed and doubled interest. Than you so much for what you do.
Your second twin flame??? How come???? I thought it’s just one per person.Becaue the soul split into 2 and went to 2 different bodies
Wow ! Beautifully explained and I can resonate with everything you shared 💝
I enjoyed very much the birds singing also 🥰 beautiful place and thank you for such beautiful message 💝
Much love to you both 💝
I’m new in your channel and I subscribed ;)
Hi StarSeed. Welcome! So glad you resonated with this. Big hugs and much love from both of us.
Thank you so much, you are the firtst Couple TF., who so good explaines, why the tf is running 🙏🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Omg I started out as the runner and I felt exactly everything you explained. Now the rolls have switched. This twin flame process is very emotional
@Melissa. Does this ring a bell ‘ Lac st Anne??
@@MrBrady31 no I’m sorry it doesn’t
This video is enlightening. My twin says this isn’t the empowered woman I know when I say I’m sad and hurting, and I am thinking how am I supposed to feel empowered when you tell me you love me but are with another?!! So far out of their comfort zones... so true. It’s so hard to balance the boundaries and have unconditional love...
You guys are too cute 😊 so happy for you that your in Union 👏🏽😍
Awww thank you. You're so sweet!!
*Cackling in 5 different tonalities as I send this video to my twin flame who I have ran from and who's ran from me*
Today I figured out that I have been running from physical affection and he's been running from my verbal affection and admiration. It's tied to a lot of our insecurities, distrust in people etc. For example, I could never really get enough physical affection from my parents, because my mom's hugs I would sometimes have to beg for if she wasn't the one wanting to cuddle, and I would get ridiculed for my need for physical touch and affirmation, and my needs were satisfied only when it was convenient for her. That said I still felt very loved as a kid, she did that unconsciously, because she was tired of how much physical touch I needed. And my dad on the other hand would be the sweetest with physical touch right after he had yelled at me or sometimes it would be in apology for hitting me in rage accidentally (just a couple of times in my life), or when he'd be sorry for making mom cry, he'd come to try to make up with physical affection. So I grew a deep distrust for physical touch and I would always be on the edge and feel my body tense up if someone touched me, I would be hyperaware of physical space and any physical contact, to the point that I would always be so stressed and confused when it happened, and I would have a lot of pent up stress inside me. And my twin flame on the other hand is very physical but he has trouble with words of affirmation because he is convinced that he's deeply unattractive. He's been bullied a lot for his looks, both in school and by family, and it's a deep seated insecurity. And when I would write poetry of how insanely attractive I find him, he would not know how to accept that, it completely missed the mark at that point, although my poetry was very beautiful. I, in turn, felt unappreciated and rejected, and my feelings taken for granted and discarded with ease, perceived ridicule and insensitivity... And I am wholeheartedly grateful for the people who are our partners. He is married and I will be getting married sometime soon too. It would be worse than hell to go through all of those insecurities with my twin flame, because the energy is amplified. God bless soulmate connections... Although it does hurt sometimes to not be able to be the best version of yourself and be with the man of your dreams, you gotta remember that the journey is more important than the destination, because your souls are eternal and the destination is unchanging, what matters is growth. The way to it is not through obsessive love, but instead through self love, service to the world, good intentions etc.
I think sometimes the feminine runs from physical intimacy more and the masculine energy from the verbal or emotional affection, because, as you said, it's harder for the masculine to balance and understand their emotions, and I think for the feminine, to get grounded and not so much up into clouds, wishes and fantasies. And also because collectively the wounded masculine is supposed to be unfeeling, tough, impenetrable, dominating and feelings are discouraged. But they do feel very deeply... And the wounded feminine is scared of physical violation, because it happens so much in the world, and she is scared to voice her purest desires for intimacy, freedom and sacred sexuality. Part of the collective problem is the demonization of sexuality and feelings, in my opinion.
Thank you guys for always highlighting the importance of self love, healing, releasing expectations, and just working towards being a better version of ourselves for US!
Yay a new video :) I’m glad. Have not been feeling well today and your videos uplift me guys, as always :) thank you!
Awww sending you big hugs and hope you're feeling better!!! 💗🤗💗
thank you 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I think I’m gonna be the runner 🏃♀️😥I struggle to deal with my emotions, hopefully I work on myself by the time we meet
Set boundaries and allow yourself to take it more slowly. Your twin would prefer that over complete no contact most likely. Allow yourself to take small steps rather than rushing in and freaking out
B thank you for this advice! The past few days , whilst looking into how intense it can be for some I had already begun to get overwhelmed and I hadn’t even met them yet.... small steps it is ☺️ thank you
Excellent information! Again heard it exactly when I needed to hear it! I am being guided to have a discussion with my TF but not sure how to start/lead the conversation. Now I know and understand what needs to be discussed. This hit the nail on the head. Thank you!
You're great, please continue, you're so clear !!!
You two explained this to perfection. Sinead O Connor's version of "I Don't Know How To Love Him" comes to mind.
Ohh interesting. Will have to check out that song! :)
From watching your ‘The Masculine’s Perspective’ videos, Rob was speaking as the DM but in this video Angie is clearly (as she also says) the one with the masculine energy (DM). I know both male and female have both energies but one tends to have more of one type of energy.
I (Angie) am more of the feminine energy between us, but I do have a lot of masculine energy in some areas including being the runner. I used to have a very strong, protective ego b/c of growing up with some much trauma, so when things got too intense and emotionally intimate between us, my ego was like "I'm outta here" lol. It was so afraid of letting people in and getting hurt again. Took many years and lots of work with my ego to heal the fear of vulnerability and intimacy (into me see). :)
@@TwinFinity1111 Thanks for the reply Angie! Sorry I commented twice with the same question... it’s interesting to see how the energies work in your connection. You did seem to be the DF until I watched this video but it all makes sense now. Both twins can be very masculine in one area and at the same time, very feminine in other areas. Your runner story seems very similar to my DM’s story but it’s always helpful to hear other twin’s stories so we can remain in compassion for our counterparts, especially when we are in separation and no communication. There is always new perspectives to learn. 💕
The searchlight metaphor really resonates with me! Such a great way to put it!
1117 views as of right now!! :) You are both so sweet! I got tired of chasing. I wish he would communicate but he is not ready. Oh well. All I can really do is focus on myself and my life. Of course I miss him so much but chasing is exhausting and painful.
There’s 11% on my iPad as I’m watching this 😯
Ha, love it! 😃💖🌈🦄
Geeez, you two nailed this. Important information. Really well said.
Both of you do an act of kindness with how honest and brave you are speaking about this issue. A lot of times, when I watch I hear one or both of you mention something “weird” and I can just hear what others might think or say about it, but it’s not weird to me because I know exactly what you’re talking about. But because you just put it out there matter-of-factly, it’s extremely helpful to those going through this. That #1 (fear) is a biggie. Like really...this was the strangest most overwhelming, most difficult thing that ever happened to me..and that’s saying a lot if you knew my background --> 8th house heavy, Pluto-Saturnian.
Thanks for your kind words! So glad the info resonates and is helpful for you!! Much love! :) :)
When my tf started to ghost me it triggered dark night of the soul in me for about a month, after I started feeling better she gave me green light only to change her mind a couple of days later and start to ghost me again two weeks later. Almost six months later we had contact again everything seemed fine only to crash again and she started to ghost me again. I was feeling crazy when I started to learn about twin flames and inner work, now I feel better than ever and my life situation is great, actively my angels communicate with me with numbers. She still pretends like I dont exist, ghost me and when we see each other by "coincidence" she behaves like she wants to hide from me. Recently I have started to see a lot of 11 11 or 111 when I am thinking about her.
You are ghosting yourself babe. It’s a mirror. Deal with your abandonment issues. Let god love you. Separation is an illusion.
The emotional maturity thing omg! I wish he had just this one!!! I am going to pretend he is on a deserted island and I can’t contact him, as he just keeps on running when I do!
It’s never the other person. It’s only always you.
Thanks for this talking. It is very realistic. He was runner time to time to push me away or sabotage the relationship time to time, one thing is probably from his childhood, another thing is his ex cheated on him and they divorced. But when I get too much hurt and felt too unsafe from his commitment for this relationship, ( we already wearing our ring without a license), I end up run away too. We both takes roles of runner, he does more in our later relationship, I did more in our early relationship. Now we are off after many times of the break up. I feel the same way as this couple felt, I am now determined to build my own finance and life, I am planning to move to another state. He might going to find another woman, I don’t know why I now can’t feel any hurt just to imagine that. But before he totally destroyed my hope of us, I can’t even think of he is going to be with anybody else. But now I am ok, I lost the feelings. If he now come back to say he is changes and be together, I would say the same thing as this man said, to push her away at that point, because I know now he is not ready, he is not healed, I am not healed. We are not that point yet at all.
Very wise of you to know that you are not healed yet and not ready. Sending you both lots of love and healing!!!
I am going though separation as of Saturday and your video hit so many topics that coincide with my situation so perfectly.. I am the chaser.. I was hoping that we could talk.
Thank you that was informative and helpful! ❤️🙏🏾
I love this video so much 💕 As an “in your head recovering addict” lol I can relate to the turtle effect where I would poke my head out and if hurt, pop it back in to avoid the pain. Thank you so much. I send you both lots of love😘💕💛💕
Yessss... the turtle effect lol. Love it!!!
Thanks Lorna, lots of love to you too!!! 😘
I want to share this with my Dm.
I've gone bunches of spiritual awakening and DNA upgrade, so i feel more relief, but my twin just starting his own and this also affects me, when I'm happy, I suddenly feel anxious and scared, sometimes my stomach suddenly hurts (solar plexus and sacral chakra), sometimes my heart chakra 😭
For me it's different. I blocked him on social media because he was always there liking my posts and watching my stories BUT he has a girlfriend! I also feel stressed and pressured to post something "with sugar coating" just to impress him! I was not myself because I was trying too hard. I also hated it that he has a gf! It was overwhelming for me. He is quarantining with his gf and I am just sad and insecure. Why did he not chose me when in fact he met me first? Is it because I'm much older? I can't give him kids anymore? I don't have enough money? I just really want to move on!😞
Yessss, what you share is common for many on the journey. The answers to your first question goes much deeper than your thoughts. Do some inner soul searching on this and you may come to a completely different answer and awareness. We'll address this in our Q&A videos too though b/c it's one many struggle with. Sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️
@@TwinFinity1111 Awww thank you so much! It gives me a breather to know that this is common, and I'm not alone. On a higher level I understand of course, but when I'm really down and sad, the 3D reasoning just comes out of my head and heart and it's really exhausting. I can't wait for the Q and A on this! 🙏❤️✨
Being on different timelines is so painful 😥
Thank you very much.. Love you too 🌷🙏💗
This is all making sense to me now.
Your both are amazing couple... Can we might... I am in Calgary too!
Oh how cool that you're in Calgary too! If you're on Facebook, send us a message on our Twinfinity page (facebook.com/TwinFinity1111). We have a private group for local twin flames- there's lots of us in and around the city to connect with in the group if you like :)
I just love you guys lol
My own guide's show me we are at 8 level after five years separation,this was a question to my spiritual team,, 10 being union,
Tough path however worth it,the growth mixed with the pain,
Finally it's finally coming home with self,
Will I see her again 10'000 miles apart, perhaps if we on a collective level continued to grow, finally eternity is with us so whats the hurry
Thank you for the info and the hard work you both have accomplished.
I've been in separation for 27 years, I just turned twenty years old and he twenty-four, when we met. It was only a few months we were together and then he left back to Sweden because of a new career as a pilot. I'm sure you can imagine the feelings I've experienced during this time in separation. I was the Chaser (female) and reached out to him a few times over the years. That is how I found out he was getting married and children, but now feel like I want to be the Runner, because I feel, dream, and know that he is returning to me.
Now going on forty-seven, I feel crushed inside... he chose to marry because he got a women pregnant with TWINS in his younger years! The one thing I really wanted, when I was younger, was to be able to have a wonderful family (twins) with him in a true love connection. Of course back then, we were both too full conditioned behavior and beliefs to be together let alone a family.
I never married nor had children. I'm working through the emptiness that I feel inside however, as you know, it never really goes away. I don't know how you can heal something you can never get back...time and youth. I could still have children, but i'm tired now, and I would want a few years to bond, experience and explore him and our connection. I don't want to be 50+ with a new born. Yet the emptiness that I will never be young again, in my prime, to experience a jovial, youthful motherhood is VERY hard to overcome. I feel like it was stolen from me.
When I think about his two girls and everything (love) that he gives them and all the beautiful memories he had ...I so much wanted those memories with our children...it's very painful to face that I never get time back.
I really appreciate Rob stating that even if he was up to the 11th hour of his life, the journey is worth the wait for mere moments with your twin. No bitterness or anger that it took so long, just finally, I can take my last breath in peace.
Awww yes, can certainly understand your feelings. This can be a very hard journey with little answers and understanding of why things happen they way they do sometimes. Sending you much love and many many hugs!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@@TwinFinity1111 So very kind of you to reply to me and your love is much appreciated! Wish you guys lived closer for the support and clarity you give so freely. Just love you guys so much! Thank you!
This was very helpful thank you ❤️
I’m the runner 😫 and I’m getting ready to run omg....
What can the other twin do when the pain is so unbearable and your head hurts like it's gonna explode and you feel like you just want to 'run off the planet'? When you try everything and nothing works, that person is constantly with you, in you and you can't escape. You can barely function. You just cry and cry. And you feel like you're going insane and nobody around you can help or understand you. Only that one person does, who is so very scared and wounded, therefore running from you, but loves you deeply at the same time. I understand why he runs, I can feel his pain and it kills me that I can't help him. I know they say you have to surrender and let go. But it seems impossible when everything reminds you of your twin and you are so alike in every way, your traits, your habits etc. What is it that I am not understanding? Love&light
Ohhh sending you sooo much love and compassion. This is a tough place to be in and sadly one that most if not all TFs go through at some point in the journey. Rob and I both experienced this after we broke up in 1998. It was brutal. We'll answer your question more thoroughly in a Q&A video, but for now to explain briefly, this is part of the healing, deep pain and dark night of the soul that must be cleared and released. It won't last forever, and the more you feel deep into the pain and allow it out, the sooner you can find your way through it. Call on spirit (God, Angels, Light, Love, etc) to guide you, support you, help you and heal you. You are never alone on this journey, especially through the most painful parts!. Sending you so much love, peace and support!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@@TwinFinity1111 Thank you!!💖 We are so lucky to have you two here helping us.😇 Love&light
It feels so good watching you guys ❤❤ glad that i found Your Channel hey Lots of Love From India 🇮🇳🇮🇳💖God bless you 👍🏻🙏🏻
Awww thanks. You're so sweet. Big hugs to you in India all the way from Canada! 😊
@@TwinFinity1111 always welcome dear sir and mam 💖💖🙏🏻
Cool, thank you!! :D I have a question. I'm the feminine energy mostly and I was the chaser. Not that now I'm the runner, but now I feel balanced I set him free and I'm working on my boundaries very well :D (it wasn't easy though, I needed to go back deeply to my essence), even though I still a little obsessive over it all having a hard time focusing on other stuff. But my twin still denying going deep into his feelings and some times I have logical doubts about it all. I would like to know if you, specially Rob has some hints and advice to stop overthinking about it all, and focus totally on my own stuff because I'm late on lot of work blaming the COVID. Thank you again!
Great question Rayssa! We'll add it to the list for our Q&A videos :)
@@TwinFinity1111 Thank you!! Love your videos :D Much love and light always
Thank you this really brought me alot of clarity and explaining alot of what im dealing with my DM as just two days ago my DM finally unblocks me to only block me again i know he his trying to understand this connection thank you so much for this informative video guys! Blessings to you!🌹😘
ExlantExplain 👍👍👍
I think my twin tries to protect me because he knows he isn’t ready... he always says for now I am here...
I'm curious about what to do if the twin is with another person and still wants to be friends with me? I feel super conflicted and just curious of your perspective. I appreciate this video so much! Lots of new perspective that helped a lot. Thank you!
That's a tough one, so sometimes twins can be "just friends", while one or both are in another relationship, but other times, it's hard to keep things platonic because the magnetic pull can be so strong. If you feel you can both maintain your own integrity and have a healthy, balanced friendship, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Sending you both lots of love!! ❤️❤️
Does a twin flame HAVE to be a romantic connection ?? 🤔
There's many different opinions and beliefs around this, but our belief is no, it does not have to be a romantic connection.
I guess ill need to do that before i feared setting those boundaries with my DM in fear that he would run and never return I'll have to gently explain it him how im feeling and maybe or hopefully lol come to an agreement! And for me to let go which i have been good with since i was blocked i just try to live my life happily until he is ready to talk or come to peace with our connection thank you!❤
@Lola McAnulty - Setting boundaries and knowing one's standards for me personally has been one of *the* most important things on the Twin Flame journey! My best wishes to you and yours!
@@mightyV444 thank you and i'll definitely keep this in mind and see how it goes!,good luck to you aswell!😊
@@lolachlih3136 - Thank you also! I may need it, too! ;-)
@@mightyV444 lol we all need it!, this journey has been a rollercoaster of a ride and just when i think my DM will open up he shuts the door on me! Im hoping he can sort out what needs to be healed within himself!;)
@@lolachlih3136 - Oh I'm sure he will! Only that he'll do it at his own pace, so you may need to be even more patient ;-) But hey, at least you do know who your actual Twin *is* ! Since the woman I had believed was mine and I had parted ways about two months ago, everything seems totally open again in that respect; She'd just completely vanished, and also in the higher dimensions.
I really enjoyed you two! Maybe because I'm in your age range😉 but it was really helpful😊
Thanks for the reply Angie and Rob, with my flame we haven't been there for three years,only seen again before the pandemic, he would go back to work in my city, then the end of the world. Now he is much more willing but friendly and still has the karmic. When he looks for me I look for him in friendship but perhaps there was still drive and expectation in me. Concentrating on me on art and on healthy selfishness he returned to write to me. Now what to do? I would like to interrupt the run and run cycle, but I feel guilty about staying still. I wonder am I stayer or am I running? How to understand it? If I don't do anything, can you think I ignore it?Just now that he is more friendly....
Ask you collective higher self
Wait the masculine is often the runner but in your case the masculine was also the spiritual twin ? I believe in my case there is a spiritual older df non-runner and a younger dm runner matrix twin but I’m still learning wtf is happening I just learned tf existed a few weeks ago 🤯
Thank you so much for this it has brought me a lot of clarity. I on the other hand have started calling myself a Witch. Lol hopefully he can see past this smh 🤦🏽♀️ I had no idea it would come to that. If not maybe I’ll have to change my business name back to what it was before. However, my question would be at what point did you as a runner figure it out...like what was your turning point? Or did you feel guided like the rest of us on when union was going to happen? I remember you stated in another video that you kept seeing signs saying “time is now or something of the sort” every where....can you explain what that was like but including the part where you are starting off with your long text message and walk us through those day to day events? Up until you two were in final and complete union? Every time I think it’s time for me and my twin. I end up feeling tricked or like things are just not going anywhere...I don’t know what to say or what to do. My twin is barely talking to me when we are around each other even if we spend an entire weeekend together. Meaning like the conversation never goes to us or if it does he gets so nervous to talk about it, he makes me feel nervous to continue to say anything. Then we end up switching the subject or he’ll leave the room. It’s like he doesn’t want to talk about anything that makes him feel anything or he knows they’re connected to things that he’s done to hurt me. I just need to know how does that play out for you during that time because I’m feeling like at times either I’m doing something wrong or I can’t get anywhere with him if we are not having conversations enough for me to set boundaries for us to move forward. 😌
The Witchantress do you follow Marla with Twinstrology? She just wrote a blog post about Saturn going retrograde and bringing this sort of communication healing. Your comment rings so true for my twin and I. So hard to talk! I wish you lots of love and Union on your journey ❤️❤️
Summer Pierce Hi. Yes I absolutely do follow her. I haven’t seen that video yet. So I’ll go watch it now. Yes communication has been a big deal for me although I never make him feel pressured into it but it’s just not there as much as I’d like it to be. I’m glad my comment resonates with you. It’s always a good feeling to know you’re not alone going through similar circumstances and same to you. Sending you love and well wishes on your journey! 💖
This is a great question and something many on the path experience!! We'll add it to our list of questions to answer in our Q&A videos. Until then, sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️
TwinFinity Thank you!!! 💖💖💖
you are the chases also the runner, just that you do not realize it yet. felt we are speeding up for some reason.
Yes, so very true!
I’m no longer chasing him. If he wants to talk he has my phone number, Facebook etc. He sometimes messages me. Yesterday though he tells me how he wishes he could cuddle me, how much he misses me, told me he will message me after he wakes up, and then bam nothing 😩 Quite confusing behaviour.
Have you watched Kurts youtube channel New World Allstar? I feel like he explains exactly why what you described is an energetic issue.
Hi guys, I think it's much simpler than that...the runner just want to f... around... that's all... ❤️
When this happens, it's simply another aspect of running-from themselves and escaping into others so they don't have to face their own inner self--fears, wounding, etc. It's rarely ever about the sex and more about escaping into others (sometimes many others) to avoid facing them self.
@@TwinFinity1111 or maybe they just love sex...
@@tihomir.stojiljkovic - Who doesn't? ;-)
@@mightyV444 yes, right... but to prefer sex over love?
@@tihomir.stojiljkovic - You're absolutely right of course; It should be more than just sex, too! It should be Love-making! And I'm sorry that you've been hurt in that way. My best wishes to you!
Does the telepathy happen when you meet?
Telepathy can happen at any time during the connection--even before you meet in they physical :)
TwinFinity thank you for the response!! ❤️❤️ I really appreciate it!
I met a soulmate to get away from my twin now soul mate is running too 😂
Oh no...
All though my soul is chuckling because it knows you are having fun and are okay.
I wish that was true 🤞😳🥺🙏❤️
@@joannebohan2243
I felt it from your Higher Self, so it is...you just don't realize it on a 3D level.
When I said having fun, I meant enjoying watching it unfold.
It's really all we can do.
Have a look at point number 10. This might shed some insight on your situation… remember that it's not JUST the twin flame that is our mirror, everyone is. Hope that's helpful :)
@Joanne Bohan - I'm in the same situation right now myself, and it feels kinda sucky, to say the least.
You both originally met in 1997?
Yes, we first met in 1997 had an amazing connection but b/c of unhealed wounds, ended up separating. We didn't come into union until 17 years later after we'd both done a lot of healing work and growth :)
@@TwinFinity1111 I started with another video and didn't say it spanned that long. I will leave message on that one too. I am so excited I found your chanel! 🤗
Hi Beautiful Twin souls. Any possibility to contact you for my personal guidance. I'm in my Twin Flame separation and I'm in Spiritual awakening journey.
So in this case is the woman the DM?
I (Angie) am more of the feminine energy between us, but I do have a lot of masculine energy in some areas including being the runner. I used to have a very strong, protective ego b/c of growing up with some much trauma. So when things got too intense and emotionally intimate between us many years ago, my ego was like "I'm outta here" lol. It was so afraid of letting people in and getting hurt again. Took many years and lots of work with my ego to heal the fear of vulnerability and intimacy (into me see) :)
@@TwinFinity1111 ok, so the energies can shift! Ive been on my journey now for a long time, i keep the faith though that I will one day have my DM back💕
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I thought rob was the runner 🏃♀️
No it was her
Funny thing is I (Angie) was the runner emotionally and Rob was the runner physically in that he actually ran marathons in the years we were apart. When he was training for an 80km marathon years ago, someone asked him "what are you running from" knowing that anyone that runs that long of a distance is actually running from something emotionally-he was actually running from his karmic relationship. So in a sense, we were both runners, but I was more the runner in our connection. Here's the video in our journey on that topic if interested…
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@@TwinFinity1111 - But that's what confused *me* also: You were the runner emotionally, but you are the primary Divine FEMININE in your TF connection; I had believed that Runner = DM!?
@@mightyV444 Even though one is more the primary DM and DF, we are all made of both feminine and masculine energies. So though I am more the DF, it was my unhealed masculine side that ran b/c he had soooo much healing it wasn't ready to face yet.
@@TwinFinity1111 - I understand, and thank you for explaining, dear Angie! Yeah I'm the Primary DF also and have been in my Masculine for quite some time now, and like I'd mentioned in my looong comment, I too am 'running' now from time to time.
Poor you freezing, Angie! Too bad Rob didn't take the hint of putting a warming arm around you! X-)) ;-)
HA ha ha, you're so funny. He couldn't, he was too busy holding our notes and trying to read my bad writing lol 😂
@@TwinFinity1111 - Where there is a will there is a way! ;-) But quite cute how you're making excuses on *his* behalf! :-))
@@mightyV444 lol
@@TwinFinity1111 - ;-)
They are just preprogrammed to run. They all do it.
Not all do it-some are able to face their stuff and healing it without running.
Runners are so childish.. They expect the chasers to have compassion and be patient, be kind, be mature.. Because the chasers want this so bad.. I dont think they would have even gotten rid of their emotional immaturity even after the reunion. Psssttt.. its like the chaser has no space for themselves, they cant be themselves with these runners, anything that happens out of control, the chaser has to fend for themselves but anything that happens for the runner, they will ask the chaser to be --- compassionate. How about getting some more introspection and throwing the narcissism out of the system?
It sucks the universe opens up this great thing to you then you have to wait and learn and cope and grow why not just open that to me when the connection is ready ? I suppose you don’t grow and change until you learn of the possibilities ?
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I just pick up something on this couple, they don't show affection, ! Maybe the can work on that!
Ha ha, you're so cute and your comment cracks me up-I love it. You should see us at home, in the grocery store, out to dinner, on hikes, etc etc. We hug and kiss waaaaayyyy toooooo much lololol. Guess we just tone it all down for videos… hmmm not all of them though lol.
@@TwinFinity1111 that is great! Thank you for your video! My twin unblock me today And text me, ! Iam so happy😃🙏🌈 !
This lady makes seem like the trauma chaser twins have been through is insignificant compared to the runner twin. Have compassion? Where's the compassion from the runner twin? I've never experienced that compassion.