My God your content should be blasted on ALL social media platforms by the sisters who are serious and intentional about being better human beings. My prayer is that the Lord will keep empowering you mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically at an individual point so that you can keep showing up, dropping gems and blessing us sisters. God bless!
I am trying my best not too cry in the office while listening to this. This episode hit close to home! Yall were practically in my living room. I recently ghosted a tech interview because I felt unworthy and that I had failed already.
Oh my goodness, the point on low self-esteem and punishment - so true and eye-opening!! I recognised that I've always struggled with intense feelings of guilt whenever I do something wrong but I never really thought about how that tendency could be linked to my low self-esteem! But it makes so much sense🥺 You guysss, I keep learning more and more about myself through your podcasts! God bless and I'm so excited to see what you guys will do next❤️❤️❤️
LOL I am a dude and as much as I feel guilty for watching this show (because women need to have something of their own, without us butting in) I just really needed to say this is such a good podcast and this episode MY GOD❤️is top tier......it felt like yall were talking to my soul✨... I enjoyed it so much and Imma listen to it again this time with a pen and pad........it's everything I needed to hear... I wish yall prosperity and more blessings ladies❤️😍......... Imma go hide now
This episode was sooooo gooooood with so many bombs. This is the best so far for me, so so powerful and the wisdom here is just on another level. I feel like every female should listen to you guys, you're amazing. This episode truly came at the right time for me and I feel like I can't listen to this and still keep doing the same things. God bless you guys, you are God-sent to me and I'm super grateful I randomly came across your TH-cam channel. You inspire me so so so much. THANK YOU.
Sometimes I feel like I'm not worthy of a man who is seen as attractive by other girls cause I don't think I'm on that level and he won't choose me cause there's a bunch of better looking girls with decent personalities that he'd pick 😶😬😭
I been feeling the same way, I would see a guy I like and sometimes he would be eyeing me, but I feel like he wouldn’t even at least be friends with me.
IT'S A LIE SIS! * yes I am shouting because I want to pull you out of that belief!). I WAS YOU! I started believing the opposite and I got a fine one ( happily married with a baby now). Fight against that belief!! This is for all 3 of y'all and the 32 likes above! I love you sisters! you will win!!
Gosh, I know your pain and I can relate. I hate that. I can tell you that it gets better. You don’t have to feel that way, you can choose to believe in yourself regardless of whatever circumstances made you feel like you can’t or shouldn’t. It takes courage, and yes, it will feel weird at first and you may even take steps backwards because you’re used to thinking a certain way and it’s comfortable. But I promise it gets better if you just dare to believe in yourself. The way you see the world will change and you will see doors begin to open. God bless you! ♥️
This is the video!!!!!!! Bruhh I feel attacked (in all the good ways lol) I'm about to start a business I dreamed about since 2017 🥴 Sooo many parts of this podcast resonated with me. I need to start betting on myself frfr. Thank you sm for these gems. 💜 Nuff love from Barbados 💖🇧🇧
I just got my first appointment with a therapist on better help. After going through therapy with women that I felt didn’t get me as the only black woman in my medical school class, I hope this lady (she looks promising because of her age, her ethnicity and I believe she is Christian like me plus she has experience with the issues I am dealing with) will be the therapist that will click with me. Plus it’s all virtual and affordable for my budget. Thank you for bringing us this opportunity kind ladies. 💜
I usually watch/listen to videos at 2X speed but I always have to listen to yours at normal speed so that I can process all of the gems you all are dropping
THIS IS THE ONE!!!! Y’all really went to another level with this episode and I was literally screaming out loud at certain parts. Thank you for imparting your wisdom… this is what we all need
I have listened to this episode at least 3 times and the way this is cutting into my soul is unreal!😩 I thoroughly believe that God’s timing is the best timing and the timing of this episode is soooo essential! Bless you ladies!💜✨
Thank y'all so much for this 🥺 harbouring unforgiveness and hate will really ruin your life. Self sabotage at it's best 😭 This hit close to home 🤍 Thank you so so much for this !!! Truth is not an objective fact but a constructive reality 🌱 wheeeewwww
I hope the people disliking are able to reflect on why they felt whatever they did, come back and try to hear the messages again for what they are! Thank y’all so much, this resonated so much and was needed for so many people!💛✨
Every time that I listen to you guys either via podcast on here on TH-cam My soul and my spirit rejoices because y'all are always dropping facts. Some days I feel like running or throwing my phone when listening to you Sisters because of the level of truth that is brought forth through your wisdom. You have been a blessing to me since the day I came across you guys on TH-cam. Be immensely blessed.
I write notes from each episode but THIS is the episode i’ve written the most notes for! You guys are AMAZING at what you do!! Your words, helps so much. I appreciate you both so much and wish for your channel/podcast to BLOW!!! You guys deserve so much more support. You two are so wise. Love how funny you guys are as well!! Makes it more comforting listening. I write notes from each episode but THIS is the episode i’ve written the most notes for! You guys are AMAZING at what you do!! Your words, helps so much. I appreciate you both so much and Thank you thank you thank you for helping me and the other sisters. Hearing “we know you can do it” made my heart so warm. Finding your podcast was one of the best things that’s happened to me. Getting out of my way now! Hearing it from you guys, was different and the scenarios/examples were helpful. Much love
This whole episode felt like a personal attack 😭Lol thank you girls for the all the gems, truly grateful for your content 💗 Main character energy activated!!
Thank you girls for this episode. I discovered recently your content and I love it. Especially this episode was exactly what I needed to hear, so much resonated with me. I made a lot of notes and carefully took the gems that you were sharing. You're truely doing God's work. You're amazing and keep up the good work. Love from Germany ♥️♥️♥️
Found you ladies yesterday and this is my 2nd podcast I’m listening to. This was definitely for me as well. I started going back and forth in my mind about this relationship that started back up again but I didn’t know if my negative feelings toward it was valid or just the fear talking. But now I think I know exactly what it is. Thank you.
Ok Ladies👏🏾. This video on fear is GREAT and very timely for me. I must say 😬. I even watched it twice back to back it was that good. I’m sure I will listen to it more as I remind myself that it’s time to make some decisions. As I have been stalling for a long time now. As Renee mentioned the “ The Trees are singing!” Lol. I don’t know how I came across your channel but I am so glad I did! I have been listening to all your podcasts and come to TH-cam to watch the videos 😀 continue to keep up the great work!
And the same mum not wanting you to date at 22 will be he same mum demanding to know where your husband is at 25 lol. Do you boo.
My God your content should be blasted on ALL social media platforms by the sisters who are serious and intentional about being better human beings. My prayer is that the Lord will keep empowering you mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically at an individual point so that you can keep showing up, dropping gems and blessing us sisters. God bless!
I swear you must know me personally lol. Most of your episodes relate to what i'm thinking about at that moment. Thank you for this!
Same here! :')
Hi Somin!
Same sis
lols you can say that again
.... Thank you sisters
I am trying my best not too cry in the office while listening to this. This episode hit close to home! Yall were practically in my living room. I recently ghosted a tech interview because I felt unworthy and that I had failed already.
Hope you re-apply sis! You’re worthy xx All the best ❤️
I hope you'll be kinder to yourself and have a mental glow up after this. You've got this sis. Best wishes
Oh my goodness, the point on low self-esteem and punishment - so true and eye-opening!! I recognised that I've always struggled with intense feelings of guilt whenever I do something wrong but I never really thought about how that tendency could be linked to my low self-esteem! But it makes so much sense🥺 You guysss, I keep learning more and more about myself through your podcasts! God bless and I'm so excited to see what you guys will do next❤️❤️❤️
Just wanted to say that you are so gorgeous!
@@Guresu Right back at you, sis!❤️❤️
Aaaaaannnddd I’m crying at work … why do I keep listening to these on the job 😭 i gotta stop
Lol me at work about to listen to this
LOL I am a dude and as much as I feel guilty for watching this show (because women need to have something of their own, without us butting in) I just really needed to say this is such a good podcast and this episode MY GOD❤️is top tier......it felt like yall were talking to my soul✨... I enjoyed it so much and Imma listen to it again this time with a pen and pad........it's everything I needed to hear... I wish yall prosperity and more blessings ladies❤️😍......... Imma go hide now
Our honorary brother, it’s all good! Appreciate you tuning in regardless and glad you enjoyed the episode from undercover 😉❤️
I'm definitely re-listening to this a lot of times ✨
Perfection can not be proved without testing. 💯
This shit is making me cry alone in my car
Gotta put a pin in and come back
This episode was sooooo gooooood with so many bombs. This is the best so far for me, so so powerful and the wisdom here is just on another level. I feel like every female should listen to you guys, you're amazing.
This episode truly came at the right time for me and I feel like I can't listen to this and still keep doing the same things.
God bless you guys, you are God-sent to me and I'm super grateful I randomly came across your TH-cam channel. You inspire me so so so much. THANK YOU.
I needed this episode more than I knew. Wow. Thank you so much. ❤️
“It was a verb but it was not a noun” preachhhhh 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
Sometimes I feel like I'm not worthy of a man who is seen as attractive by other girls cause I don't think I'm on that level and he won't choose me cause there's a bunch of better looking girls with decent personalities that he'd pick 😶😬😭
I been feeling the same way, I would see a guy I like and sometimes he would be eyeing me, but I feel like he wouldn’t even at least be friends with me.
IT'S A LIE SIS! * yes I am shouting because I want to pull you out of that belief!). I WAS YOU! I started believing the opposite and I got a fine one ( happily married with a baby now). Fight against that belief!! This is for all 3 of y'all and the 32 likes above! I love you sisters! you will win!!
@@natashatshili5873 Thank you!
Gosh, I know your pain and I can relate. I hate that. I can tell you that it gets better. You don’t have to feel that way, you can choose to believe in yourself regardless of whatever circumstances made you feel like you can’t or shouldn’t. It takes courage, and yes, it will feel weird at first and you may even take steps backwards because you’re used to thinking a certain way and it’s comfortable. But I promise it gets better if you just dare to believe in yourself. The way you see the world will change and you will see doors begin to open. God bless you! ♥️
@@natashatshili5873 Thank you, Amen. So encouraging! Love your testimony and I will be where you are one day. ♥️
"I'm just drinking water and salt and kale"😂😂😂💯
OMG so much gems🥺👌❤❤ I will have to listen again and take notes ! Thank you Girls ❤❤
This is the video!!!!!!! Bruhh I feel attacked (in all the good ways lol) I'm about to start a business I dreamed about since 2017 🥴 Sooo many parts of this podcast resonated with me. I need to start betting on myself frfr. Thank you sm for these gems. 💜 Nuff love from Barbados 💖🇧🇧
This is THE episode. Guilt is not enough of a motive!!!
No to self rejection ✊
I just got my first appointment with a therapist on better help. After going through therapy with women that I felt didn’t get me as the only black woman in my medical school class, I hope this lady (she looks promising because of her age, her ethnicity and I believe she is Christian like me plus she has experience with the issues I am dealing with) will be the therapist that will click with me. Plus it’s all virtual and affordable for my budget. Thank you for bringing us this opportunity kind ladies. 💜
Hang in there, Sis. I went to a US medical school so I understand. It WILL get better, God-willing. Best wishes!
So glad I found this channel. Guess I'm part of the sisterhood now 😅
This episode was really powerful. I can't believe all the important thoughts this has invoked me to ask myself 😭
I usually watch/listen to videos at 2X speed but I always have to listen to yours at normal speed so that I can process all of the gems you all are dropping
The way this episode came for me... oh my god. I rewatched this again and made actual NOTES!
This pod was so spot on I felt attacked lol thank you guys tremendously
THIS IS THE ONE!!!! Y’all really went to another level with this episode and I was literally screaming out loud at certain parts. Thank you for imparting your wisdom… this is what we all need
God bless you ladies!🙏🏿
I have listened to this episode at least 3 times and the way this is cutting into my soul is unreal!😩 I thoroughly believe that God’s timing is the best timing and the timing of this episode is soooo essential! Bless you ladies!💜✨
Not the trees singing to me LOL. This was such a difficult, and necessary one to listen to. Thank you.
They got me at perfectionism…
Preach
Thank y'all so much for this 🥺 harbouring unforgiveness and hate will really ruin your life. Self sabotage at it's best 😭
This hit close to home 🤍
Thank you so so much for this !!!
Truth is not an objective fact but a constructive reality 🌱 wheeeewwww
🌸 💐 🌺 for all my sisters!!!
I hope the people disliking are able to reflect on why they felt whatever they did, come back and try to hear the messages again for what they are! Thank y’all so much, this resonated so much and was needed for so many people!💛✨
Every time that I listen to you guys either via podcast on here on TH-cam My soul and my spirit rejoices because y'all are always dropping facts.
Some days I feel like running or throwing my phone when listening to you Sisters because of the level of truth that is brought forth through your wisdom.
You have been a blessing to me since the day I came across you guys on TH-cam.
Be immensely blessed.
I love you so much! Thank you sisters, so much truth!!
I’m so in love with this
I write notes from each episode but THIS is the episode i’ve written the most notes for! You guys are AMAZING at what you do!! Your words, helps so much. I appreciate you both so much and wish for your channel/podcast to BLOW!!! You guys deserve so much more support. You two are so wise. Love how funny you guys are as well!! Makes it more comforting listening. I write notes from each episode but THIS is the episode i’ve written the most notes for! You guys are AMAZING at what you do!! Your words, helps so much. I appreciate you both so much and Thank you thank you thank you for helping me and the other sisters. Hearing “we know you can do it” made my heart so warm. Finding your podcast was one of the best things that’s happened to me. Getting out of my way now! Hearing it from you guys, was different and the scenarios/examples were helpful. Much love
Conpletely agree with you girl.. 💯💯💯
This episode is gold definitely saved to my aspiring chic boss playlist!
Two lovely intelligent ladies ♡♡
Thank you for this. More grace and wisdom to you both❤️
This whole episode felt like a personal attack 😭Lol thank you girls for the all the gems, truly grateful for your content 💗 Main character energy activated!!
This is was a sermon, you guys were preaching to me!! Thank you so much, almost cried.
Y’all are giving me life with this. It’s EXACTLY what the doctor ordered! Thank you!!!!!!
This one actually made me emotional! Y’all are beautiful 💕💕💕
This is amazing , thank you
The person who wrote in sounds almost identical to me minus the spying aunt and mom not letting me date 😆. So thankful for your podcast!
Needed this. So many points were made that resonate with me and my life choices. Thanks, sistars!
Every episode is better than the last. Every single time I feel like you're speaking to me
Thank you girls for this episode. I discovered recently your content and I love it. Especially this episode was exactly what I needed to hear, so much resonated with me. I made a lot of notes and carefully took the gems that you were sharing. You're truely doing God's work. You're amazing and keep up the good work. Love from Germany ♥️♥️♥️
Yes!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
.......... the way I'm going to have to listen to this episode multiple times this week. SO GOOD SISTERS!!!!!!
Because same 🥺
@@Wanku_C there’s so much to unpack!!! 😩
@@gl0hen So much to unpack, so much to work through so much to learn/unlearn.
We can and will do this 🤍
@@Wanku_C we sure will sis!!! 🙏🏿✨
powerful episode as usual ladies, thank you
27:29 - Powerful!
I loved this! Thank you all for the knowledge and wisdom in this video! We are all going to show up and keep getting better 💚
I started crying right around here 1:07:13 Pick up the lamp and chart the path or else I’ll die here 😔
I needed this🥺 I’ve listened to this 3 times
So happy I found your podcast. So therapeutic. I love it! 🌹
My favourite episode so far!!!
Its up to you what you take up as your truth💯💯💯
Found you ladies yesterday and this is my 2nd podcast I’m listening to. This was definitely for me as well. I started going back and forth in my mind about this relationship that started back up again but I didn’t know if my negative feelings toward it was valid or just the fear talking. But now I think I know exactly what it is. Thank you.
Courtney you were spitting bars here! 🔥
I can't agree more to you girl seriously I mean it.. I definitely gonna hear it more than once for sure..❤❤❤
Love this channel nothing but facts
Show up and get better ❤️
Sisters, y'all really came through with this one! This was everything that we needed to hear! Thank you ladies! 🙏🏻💞✨
wowwww!
I swear y'all are gems bingewatched all your episodes and thank you soo much for this keep the good work ..
This is so good
Loved this podcast so much!!!?
Ok Ladies👏🏾. This video on fear is GREAT and very timely for me. I must say 😬. I even watched it twice back to back it was that good. I’m sure I will listen to it more as I remind myself that it’s time to make some decisions. As I have been stalling for a long time now. As Renee mentioned the “ The Trees are singing!” Lol.
I don’t know how I came across your channel but I am so glad I did! I have been listening to all your podcasts and come to TH-cam to watch the videos 😀 continue to keep up the great work!
This came at such a great time. Thank you ladies for this gem. 🦋✨
Y’all have made my morning thank you
I love you girls :) Thank you for this Podcast
Great video!!!! But I would love more diverse topics in the future. ❤️
Please talk more about blocking my/our own blessings LOL
I love you guys
Hereeeeee
💜
I forgive me ❤️
Am just gonna leave ❤️❤️❤️
I think her mom may have had a horrible experience with dating and out of fear is against it. Sadly.
Please add time stamps it would be helpful please.. ❤❤
Who tf! Is unliking # big lol