Thank you so much 💓 for this! This actually has me in tears because at one time I was willing "more than willing " to teach my spouse (now ex) how to love me. He told me flat out he was not interested 😒 😐 he said straight up "DON'T Tell me what to do! I'm going to (love you) the way I see FIT you should be loved!!😳😳 I was in shock! This explains almost 2 decades of my life wasted on someone who never cared about me nor is not interested in learning, growing and the layers of who I am. Humans evolve and change, the fact he used my past as a tool to weaponize when he is insecure was at the time beyond hurtful. Now I know better..I know what I deserve.
It is unfortunate.. but I'm glad I learned this in the talking stage.. and didn't even make it to a relationship.. I don't want to be loved the way you want to love me.. there is no compromise in that..
I can definitely relate. I experienced the same thing with my now ex spouse. He made me feel like it was my fault he didn't love me like I should've been loved. I later found out he loved and confided I'm multiple women. Now our communication is what it was supposed to be when we were married. He's in a relationship with someone else, but won't leave me alone. He's being selfish.
Thank you so much 💓 for this! This actually has me in tears because at one time I was willing "more than willing " to teach my spouse (now ex) how to love me. He told me flat out he was not interested 😒 😐 he said straight up "DON'T Tell me what to do! I'm going to (love you) the way I see FIT you should be loved!!😳😳 I was in shock! This explains almost 2 decades of my life wasted on someone who never cared about me nor is not interested in learning, growing and the layers of who I am. Humans evolve and change, the fact he used my past as a tool to weaponize when he is insecure was at the time beyond hurtful. Now I know better..I know what I deserve.
It is unfortunate.. but I'm glad I learned this in the talking stage.. and didn't even make it to a relationship.. I don't want to be loved the way you want to love me.. there is no compromise in that..
I can definitely relate. I experienced the same thing with my now ex spouse. He made me feel like it was my fault he didn't love me like I should've been loved. I later found out he loved and confided I'm multiple women. Now our communication is what it was supposed to be when we were married. He's in a relationship with someone else, but won't leave me alone. He's being selfish.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I needed this ! Loving listening to you ❤️
First time listener and I definitely needed this podcast. Gave me a better insight on things I already knew. Can’t wait to listen to more.
This one was the one. I needed this thank you.
I love the video and podcast! Your content is always on point and gives me life THANK YOU
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Damn Gems!!
I’m loving the visual podcast💕 its like we on ig live again lol
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