I agree Queen. The DAD is the problem. Every problem that came after is from the Dad's initial actions. It's the last minute chaos of it all. That man is the PROBLEM. Everyone has different ways on how they would have handled the PJs. But the ROOT of the issue is that DAD.
Ok it wasn't his week and the newer child's mom made the appt with the understanding that he wasn't going to be there because it wasn't dad's week. Dad spontaneously decided to include his 1st son and didn't tell her. Yes she didn't want him included because he wasnt expected and just planned for their family. The dad is wrong for not communicating clearly !!!! The 1st mom isn't wrong in her feelings, but the projection is wrong.
I totally disagree. I think it was thoughtful although the forgotten pajamas that the dad wanted the son included. People make mistakes, and as long as the little one is not uncomfortable, not having the same outfits. What is important is happiness and being together. Some of us make things more than what truly matters.
They should’ve scrapped these original pjs and bought a new set! I would’ve still bought him pjs even if I was unsure whether his other child would be available for family photos!
Baby daddy? Because when you know you’re taking g family pictures you should have included your child. It’s dads responsibility to make sure the kids are treated equally
Marriage can be hard enough without yo kids, my kids, they daddy, they momma.. please find someone, settle down, get married and have kids. Pleeaaase! Also, everything need not be taken to social media.. goddamn!
It's the dad's fault mainly. Also BM #1 shouldn't have posted it on FB. I don't believe it's baby momma #2's fault because she didn't know the son would be there that day.
The appointment was made on the weekend the 1st son would be with his mom, so wifey didn’t think PJs for 1st son was necessary. At the last minute… Dad wanted his entire family in the pic, & grabbed 1st son. Men don’t think like women do. He didn’t care about matching PJs, he just wanted ALL of his kids in the picture. This is not that deep. BM is doing too much.
If it was a last minute decision to put him iin the picture and didn’t have matching pj's he shouldn't have been in the picture with that other family. It would have been better for the Dad to have a pic with himself and all the children matching. I blame the Dad. The 1st baby Mom is childish though.
The dad is at fault!! She wouldn't know that lady if it wasn't for him!! Dad ur awful!! She should have had an extra pair! Now I blame the mother for not buying your baby new pajamas they were 2 small...🫣
A similar situation happened with my brother. He picked up one of his side pieces daughter and brought her to his wife's daughter 's. Big Mickey mouse birthday party and that little girl had on her school uniform the whole weekend and even in the pictures and I was so pissed because if I had known I would have went to Target and bought the little girl a outfit. I thought it was ridiculous day. They allowed that little girl to be in her school uniform at a birthday party for her half sister and the little girl haven't been back since so I know her mother was feeling some kind of way cuz I was feeling some kind of way as the auntie so they should have got that baby some pajamas when they got everybody else's or like you said left him with his mother
(Replay Gang) Not a Stepmom myself, but I can promise you my kids Stepmom would never have taken a family pix and my kids look different from theirs - Never! Guest host gives very much male identified and immature. I do like her vibe and energy though.
I would have made sure he was included in the photos from the jump and if for some reason he couldn’t be then still bought him the pjs and wore together at some point for Christmas. But if they decided that they only wanted them and their kids in the photo is that wrong? Because they did still take a picture without him in it during the photo shoot..which could have been awkward for the child as well just watching. So regardless the little boy was left out in some way. The dad is trifling for not having his son be included from the start
When the pjs were bought or ordered, there could have been one for the older child. Just in case. The pictures were not for social media. for the older son
Queen, you’re missing the point. Dad letting her know what was planned would’ve allowed baby mama to improvise. Baby mama being working with him and it didn’t seem like there has been major conflict until now. Caring for a child should have no broken or restricted line of communication. The woman in the home could’ve reached out sooner considering the abrupt change and Dad failure to do so.
Women like this remind me of the women that crash out and are surprised when the man treats you like the ex. Past behavior are indicators of future behaviors. The new bm could’ve inquired about it but seemed unconcerned about the son being there. That man is obligated to his son. If you loved him then you should love his son. Those kids are your kids cause women know they aren’t going for a man doing that to their kids by different fathers. Overall I wish ppl would have empathy and treat ppl like they want to be treated. Huhh this type of disrespectful behavior may be common but it is unfortunate.
I would feel some type of way if my child wasn't included from the jump. Cause how was this planned without my child in mind? I mean.... that's the kind of mama I am. And like Queen said, we would have had to pivot to make it right.
I agree with QS 💯 the second baby mama didn’t want him there and the husband pulled a slick one cause he wanted him there. Especially if second baby mama planned the shoot she did it with her kids in mind to show off their little unit. The dad created the problem by including the other child and not being upfront. But baby mama one is childish for bringing this to SM.
The pajamas for the lil boy should have been bought with the others. The lil boys mom did not have to buy pajamas or get his hair done for something his dad is doing. I with you with that one queen Shiba. I feel deep down she did want the little boy in the pictures. She would have bought the pjs with the others from jump.
Great question Sugar about when was the husband’s turning point…I don’t think it ever was a turning point, that’s y she didn’t know how to respond…she got the same man
I believe the dad was thinking about his son and his feelings every time the son comes to the house and sees the pictures and he's not in them would've affected the son. The second mother didn't want the little boy in her family picture. My husband would've made sure that the little boy had pj's. Women give men to many excuses a man that cares would've made sure his son would've had pj's. Women stop getting with these men with all those kid's and different baby mama's start treating them like men treat women with multiple children and multiple baby dads.
Do you think the father just assumed his son would have pajamas and be in the photo? IMO…It sounds like the dad found out about the photo at the last minute and made sure his son was in the picture
I’m late and playing catch up, but here goes. This falls squarely on the Father as he will set the tone for how the relationships between all of his children and the BMs are going to function. Once he and his wife (I’m assuming) planned to take the FAMILY pic with a particular look, it was His responsibility to make sure that His wife was onboard with his first child being in the picture and had the needed pajamas to have a cohesive look.
They should’ve bought the pajamas when they bought everyone else’s. There’s no excuse. If he didn’t show up, he could still use the pjs. Take that very small L. In my opinion, there shouldn’t have been any photos if he was not included.
I would have made sure he was included in the photos from the jump and if for some reason he couldn’t be then still bought him the pjs and wore together at some point for Christmas. But if they decided that they only wanted them and their kids in the photo is that wrong? Because they did still take a picture without him in it during the photo shoot..which could have been awkward for the child as well just watching. So regardless the little boy was left out in some way. The dad is trifling for not having his son be included from the start
Whew, no it is not right to tell the father your kids can't come to my house anymore 🚩🚩🚩 1:07:36
She didn't know he coming at the last minute.
I agree Queen. The DAD is the problem. Every problem that came after is from the Dad's initial actions. It's the last minute chaos of it all. That man is the PROBLEM. Everyone has different ways on how they would have handled the PJs. But the ROOT of the issue is that DAD.
It's weird why they didn't include The baby from start buy pajamas from the gate
Queeeeennnn!!! Bingo!!!! She didn't want him in the pix.
That's it .. That's all!! Some dad's don't think!!
Taylor be careful, that man might still be water 41:05 😂
Ok it wasn't his week and the newer child's mom made the appt with the understanding that he wasn't going to be there because it wasn't dad's week. Dad spontaneously decided to include his 1st son and didn't tell her. Yes she didn't want him included because he wasnt expected and just planned for their family. The dad is wrong for not communicating clearly !!!! The 1st mom isn't wrong in her feelings, but the projection is wrong.
I totally disagree. I think it was thoughtful although the forgotten pajamas that the dad wanted the son included. People make mistakes, and as long as the little one is not uncomfortable, not having the same outfits. What is important is happiness and being together. Some of us make things more than what truly matters.
They should’ve scrapped these original pjs and bought a new set! I would’ve still bought him pjs even if I was unsure whether his other child would be available for family photos!
PERIOD!
The co-host story is more interesting than this situation. I want more information. Lol
Baby daddy? Because when you know you’re taking g family pictures you should have included your child. It’s dads responsibility to make sure the kids are treated equally
Don’t you think the little boy told his mother that he took Christmas pictures before the daddy shared with the mother 🤷🏾♂
Marriage can be hard enough without yo kids, my kids, they daddy, they momma.. please find someone, settle down, get married and have kids. Pleeaaase! Also, everything need not be taken to social media.. goddamn!
Yess Queen i feel that 2!! He did not tell her..The mom said last minute pick up!!
They should have communicated that they were taking pics and here is the outfit we are wearing, this would have solved all the drama
Exactly
It's the dad's fault mainly. Also BM #1 shouldn't have posted it on FB. I don't believe it's baby momma #2's fault because she didn't know the son would be there that day.
The appointment was made on the weekend the 1st son would be with his mom, so wifey didn’t think PJs for 1st son was necessary. At the last minute… Dad wanted his entire family in the pic, & grabbed 1st son.
Men don’t think like women do. He didn’t care about matching PJs, he just wanted ALL of his kids in the picture.
This is not that deep. BM is doing too much.
Baby momma baby daddy .. lord..
It also happens after some divorced, so damn if you do damn if you don’t, humanity is a mess
If it was a last minute decision to put him iin the picture and didn’t have matching pj's he shouldn't have been in the picture with that other family. It would have been better for the Dad to have a pic with himself and all the children matching. I blame the Dad. The 1st baby Mom is childish though.
I would have scheduled the pictures for another time when he didn't have the son from the first baby mom.
The dad is at fault!! She wouldn't know that lady if it wasn't for him!! Dad ur awful!! She should have had an extra pair! Now I blame the mother for not buying your baby new pajamas they were 2 small...🫣
A similar situation happened with my brother. He picked up one of his side pieces daughter and brought her to his wife's daughter 's. Big Mickey mouse birthday party and that little girl had on her school uniform the whole weekend and even in the pictures and I was so pissed because if I had known I would have went to Target and bought the little girl a outfit. I thought it was ridiculous day. They allowed that little girl to be in her school uniform at a birthday party for her half sister and the little girl haven't been back since so I know her mother was feeling some kind of way cuz I was feeling some kind of way as the auntie so they should have got that baby some pajamas when they got everybody else's or like you said left him with his mother
Should’ve never had a side baby… all of that would’ve been avoided
(Replay Gang) Not a Stepmom myself, but I can promise you my kids Stepmom would never have taken a family pix and my kids look different from theirs - Never!
Guest host gives very much male identified and immature. I do like her vibe and energy though.
Most blk women are male identified to a group of men they don’t give a shit about them
This really makes me appreciate Mt stepmom she would never
I would have made sure he was included in the photos from the jump and if for some reason he couldn’t be then still bought him the pjs and wore together at some point for Christmas. But if they decided that they only wanted them and their kids in the photo is that wrong? Because they did still take a picture without him in it during the photo shoot..which could have been awkward for the child as well just watching. So regardless the little boy was left out in some way. The dad is trifling for not having his son be included from the start
Should have been a discussion about all his children being in the pictures
When the pjs were bought or ordered, there could have been one for the older child. Just in case. The pictures were not for social media. for the older son
Why if it’s not his week with his child? Not buying nothing
Sheba hit the nail on the head!! She didnt want him there! And he made a powerplay after the fact to avoid conflict at home.
Queen, you’re missing the point. Dad letting her know what was planned would’ve allowed baby mama to improvise. Baby mama being working with him and it didn’t seem like there has been major conflict until now. Caring for a child should have no broken or restricted line of communication. The woman in the home could’ve reached out sooner considering the abrupt change and Dad failure to do so.
Women like this remind me of the women that crash out and are surprised when the man treats you like the ex. Past behavior are indicators of future behaviors. The new bm could’ve inquired about it but seemed unconcerned about the son being there. That man is obligated to his son. If you loved him then you should love his son. Those kids are your kids cause women know they aren’t going for a man doing that to their kids by different fathers. Overall I wish ppl would have empathy and treat ppl like they want to be treated. Huhh this type of disrespectful behavior may be common but it is unfortunate.
I would feel some type of way if my child wasn't included from the jump. Cause how was this planned without my child in mind? I mean.... that's the kind of mama I am. And like Queen said, we would have had to pivot to make it right.
I agree with QS 💯 the second baby mama didn’t want him there and the husband pulled a slick one cause he wanted him there. Especially if second baby mama planned the shoot she did it with her kids in mind to show off their little unit. The dad created the problem by including the other child and not being upfront. But baby mama one is childish for bringing this to SM.
The baby daddy is wrong. Ain't nothing wrong with little kids wear pj's that are a little small. My grand babies love their high water pj's
The pajamas for the lil boy should have been bought with the others. The lil boys mom did not have to buy pajamas or get his hair done for something his dad is doing. I with you with that one queen Shiba. I feel deep down she did want the little boy in the pictures. She would have bought the pjs with the others from jump.
When i was out here dating the most important thing to me was the relationship a man had with his kids if it wasn't good to was a no for me
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Great question Sugar about when was the husband’s turning point…I don’t think it ever was a turning point, that’s y she didn’t know how to respond…she got the same man
They shouldn't have taken the picture period
I believe the dad was thinking about his son and his feelings every time the son comes to the house and sees the pictures and he's not in them would've affected the son. The second mother didn't want the little boy in her family picture. My husband would've made sure that the little boy had pj's. Women give men to many excuses a man that cares would've made sure his son would've had pj's. Women stop getting with these men with all those kid's and different baby mama's start treating them like men treat women with multiple children and multiple baby dads.
Baby Momma #1
It also happens with ex wives and current wives. Humanity is a ghetto
Do you think the father just assumed his son would have pajamas and be in the photo? IMO…It sounds like the dad found out about the photo at the last minute and made sure his son was in the picture
I’m late and playing catch up, but here goes. This falls squarely on the Father as he will set the tone for how the relationships between all of his children and the BMs are going to function. Once he and his wife (I’m assuming) planned to take the FAMILY pic with a particular look, it was His responsibility to make sure that His wife was onboard with his first child being in the picture and had the needed pajamas to have a cohesive look.
They should’ve bought the pajamas when they bought everyone else’s. There’s no excuse. If he didn’t show up, he could still use the pjs. Take that very small L. In my opinion, there shouldn’t have been any photos if he was not included.
When you give it 2 God you need to leave with Him and trust He will take care of it in His time not yours
Strong pick me vibes in the beginning of this video from Queen Shiba and her guest….how did y’all get that the ex still wants the bd?
I would have made sure he was included in the photos from the jump and if for some reason he couldn’t be then still bought him the pjs and wore together at some point for Christmas. But if they decided that they only wanted them and their kids in the photo is that wrong? Because they did still take a picture without him in it during the photo shoot..which could have been awkward for the child as well just watching. So regardless the little boy was left out in some way. The dad is trifling for not having his son be included from the start