I feel like only narcs are intrigued when you aren’t calm and unbothered. Whenever i fought with one back they always had this smile on their face like they won or something. But when i stayed calm and simply didn’t really care they always piped down because they realized it reflected poorly on them. Especially if we were in a room with other people
Here's a little trick that worked for me. I had his number saved in my phone as something f*#ed up that he did. Whenever he called or I had the urge to call, I would see his contact name and snap back to reality! ✌🏽
Sidenote: ladies please continue to keep your standards & boundaries, because so many pickme’s and Barbara’s are low-key, trying to shame women who have enough sense not to except certain dates or situations as if they’ll be missing out on the dusties …mind you they paying half of the bills with their roommate that they’re married too smh 🤦🏿♀️
@@Glitter504 yes they be ready to attack us lovely ladies like “how dare you have standards and not put up with these dusties like me” and congrats gurl 💖🙌🏾 bc thats how its supposed to be
A male FB friend made a post that stated, " Now that he's done playing games, he's looking for a wife." A woman makes a comment on the post stating that she's been cooking and cleaning for him, and now they can only be friends, and now he wants a wife. I would never have gotten online and admitted to that. That post is still there years later. We live and hopefully learn. I know I have.
👸they were not mistakes. they were decisions. at that time they were correct. bc its what u decided based on the information u had then."-bob proctor: brilliant author of u were born rich, motivational speaker, multi-millionaire.
I think it’s easier for u bc a lot of gay older rich men tend to have some hidden sexual preferences that they can’t admit so they don’t get judged by the society so yeah u have a chance 🥳
Just remain calm and unbothered. No matter what. It intrigues them.
u're trying too hard pick me
I feel like only narcs are intrigued when you aren’t calm and unbothered. Whenever i fought with one back they always had this smile on their face like they won or something. But when i stayed calm and simply didn’t really care they always piped down because they realized it reflected poorly on them. Especially if we were in a room with other people
Thank you
Here's a little trick that worked for me. I had his number saved in my phone as something f*#ed up that he did. Whenever he called or I had the urge to call, I would see his contact name and snap back to reality! ✌🏽
I like this
Genius❤
Another trick is to save him as "YDB" (you deserve better). I learned that years ago from another youtuber and it works 😂
"🗑bag" also works😆
block his number problem solved
These ain’t nothing but facts. once you realize a man’s nature. The better off you will be.
the only time shera probably gets sad is when she has to see the state of some of y’all 😭
If you’re stuck in your mental victim mentality it’s cause it hurts still. Take one step at a time and everything will improve I promise you that
👸ur past are lessons only. NOT a place to live😌
You look absolutely gorgeous shera.
Yes she does!!!
Sidenote: ladies please continue to keep your standards & boundaries, because so many pickme’s and Barbara’s are low-key, trying to shame women who have enough sense not to except certain dates or situations as if they’ll be missing out on the dusties …mind you they paying half of the bills with their roommate that they’re married too smh 🤦🏿♀️
@@Glitter504 I’m trying to get like you
@@Glitter504 yes they be ready to attack us lovely ladies like “how dare you have standards and not put up with these dusties like me” and congrats gurl 💖🙌🏾 bc thats how its supposed to be
Is it possible as a 30 year old to find a rich man that provides? I could take care of home but I absolutely hate to work…
Women are constantly shaming women for wanting to be “picked” whilst deep down wanting to be chose to 😂
A male FB friend made a post that stated, " Now that he's done playing games, he's looking for a wife." A woman makes a comment on the post stating that she's been cooking and cleaning for him, and now they can only be friends, and now he wants a wife. I would never have gotten online and admitted to that. That post is still there years later. We live and hopefully learn. I know I have.
I declutter and reorganized these past couple days too, gotta get ready for the new year!✨🥰
Yes but I do that often but more than usual lately
Move out the old....Accept in the NEW!
True! Why wait for spring?
"Get you a tattoo that says victim" 😂
😂😂
❤you are so funny 😂 don‘t live in the past unless you get paid for it 🤣😆🤪
Your title and topics always come at the right time the moment I need it
Sure does
I definitely needed to hear this. I sometimes ruminate on my past and I need to learn from it and move on.
“Imagine that person and throw an axe” 😂😂
👸they were not mistakes. they were decisions. at that time they were correct. bc its what u decided based on the information u had then."-bob proctor: brilliant author of u were born rich, motivational speaker, multi-millionaire.
I’ll never be able to thank you enough ❤
Like she's so unbothered 🥺
What if he don’t really have a gift? It could be some “I’m the gift” bs. Nope. Don’t do it girl….,
Perfect timing sprinkle sprinkle
This is great advice! I wish I had had it during my earlier years.
Ok this is my safe place now
Ladies, lets get Ashera to 500K❤
She’s there😉
I will be organizing and cleaning today myself! You’re always right on time .. wishing you a wonderful day, stay warm! ❤
Great intro! What you do now is tomorrow's past❤
Shera = billionaire status
Shera wished she was a billionaire.
@@lc-il6wr are you?
I'm just here for the Sprinkle Sprinkle 🎉😅
Shera is always 💯 😂❤
Video topics are always on time & on point ❤😊 appreciate you taking time out to get the message out
'how can you manipulate a dusty?' 'by manipulating him to leave' I HOLLLAARDDD 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sprinkle sprinkle shera❤😂
Best thing ive done in last 12months is find you 💯
Hair is amazing ❤
Before I start the video. I have to say her eye rolls take me OWT!😂
All the power is in the now
Taco Cabana😂😂😂 I am rollin!! 😂😂
Thank youu!!!!
You are so funny 😂😂😂
Respect to you
Shera ❤
Truth only hurts when u living a lie
Thisssss
You gon spend your whole birthday drivin 😂😂😂😂
Please do more morticians stories
Right on time
😍❤️thank you for another masterclass Shera you the best the patreon was super helpful ❤️
Shera hearing you speak of decorating ❤it would be nice to see some home decor videos by you!
Shera is beautiful.
Paid for your past 😂
This ❤
Rich men cant find true luv..
What are you looking for? I don't know. I'll know when I see it.
How different is the game for a woman who's middle-aged and wanting security for her future, at this age?
Gotta go older, the older the better. Dress to impress and allure ❤
Thank you very much for all the wisdom thoughts 🎉🎉🎉
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Men cannot get pregnant
WOW
Porn leads to violence in some cases.
Kings place their Queens in castles
Goddess how do you choose a home for protection
How do Queens get out of the eye of AI?
Hi Shera, I’m super attracted to my boss. Any tips or advice?
She’s always said whenever you have a crush on a man, talk to other man and don’t allow yourself to think about him
Ignore him, he’s blocking you from getting your Own man
Leave alone the men you work with.
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The garage or garbage
Does Shera have a PO Box??
🎉🎉🎉
Wow 😮
New here ✌️
When does shera go live? I want to make one
do you think its harder to find an older man who is a provider as a gay man, I'm 22
I think it’s easier for u bc a lot of gay older rich men tend to have some hidden sexual preferences that they can’t admit so they don’t get judged by the society so yeah u have a chance 🥳
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Do you live in delusion? Single, single. 😂
She not single though?
@@destblee4489 Sure
@@destblee4489 You will be if you listen to her 😂
@@TimothyC.84she has a provider husband…. Look if you’re a dusty that’s ok. If you wasn’t you wouldn’t be commenting 🤷🏾♂️
Hello, sociopaths.
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Hi dusty! 😂
@@aurora_kika 🥜inya 👄
@@romanticallyhopelessrose ???
That’s a compliment
Thank you. I learned a lot today
My parents always like to talk about when I got few of my teeth extracted and never known the type of teeth that I have .❤
anyone know how to message her to get advice?
She offers subscriptions
Ugh I adore you 💖💖💖
sprinkle sprinkle